Sulaiman Moola – Ramdhaan Immersion

Sulaiman Moola
AI: Summary © The importance of title Islam and avoiding harms is emphasized, along with the need for people to be mindful of their actions and avoid harms. programming oneself and avoiding abuse in a social environment is also emphasized, as well as avoiding negative consequences of actions and avoiding negative impacts on one's life. The speakers emphasize the importance of avoiding negative consequences and acknowledging the potential consequences of posting content on social media.
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Be here at my dermatological work he will see America America with Tyler. He will Anil Hamid around the below him in a shape Pani rajim Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem with the rule of law here on Ishmael about Lena in Medina. yuxi Buena Vista you deserve to be McCann telefoon Allahu la de. So I greet everyone with the universal greeting of Islam as salaam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. On the previous event that was hosted via the liftoff Institute, it was in preparation for the month of Ramadan and dealing with the lockdown related issues. Now we commence a four week series in sha Allah over the month of Ramadan, where we're going to be discussing different aspects and inshallah

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in the program and in the session with myself as your host. We're going to be looking at some extracts and snippets of the book of Imam Hassan Iraqi mahalo Buddha. So Mohammed Rosati Rahim, Allah was an amazing scholar, he was an amazing scholar.

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There are so many books about his I often speak about a very personal encounter that I had. And for me, this is a strong message of sincerity, sincerity. So on a particular trip of minds to Toronto, I was flying between Dubai and Toronto on long haul 14 hour flight. And I was just relaxing or in the business class having a nap and then I got up and then I was browsing through the inflight entertainment. And I was listening to some recitation of the Quran and then some Arabic audio and Subhana Allah, they had a book in audio form of Imam Rosati of Eman rosani, the famous book of his word on my beloved son. So this is a book that the Imam had dedicated to one of his disciples after

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having spent a lengthy time in the company of the Imam and returning home, He then asked the man for some advices how he should internalize his knowledge and how he should execute it amongst his people. So a book was authored in this regard. Now, this was a simple basic booklet that the Imam had authored to his particular disciple. And this is centuries later centuries later, I'm flying 40,000 feet above sea level. And this book is now in an audio form, and I have my headphones on and I'm listening to it and I'm tearing, I open the shutter of the window shutter, and I look out and I can see nothing but just you know, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, and I say to myself with a tear

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in my eye and a crack in my voice, oh Hassani over bizarrely, I marvel at the sincerity with which you authored this book of yours. If it were to be told to bizarrely at the time, he disseminated these advises that today you write it privately to a single disciple of yours, but a time will be a time will come where this book of yours will literally be heard in the skies in the atmosphere above above the clouds. And obviously it would be unthinkable at that time. But Subhan Allah, the pious are those that Allah subhana wa Taala preserves their words, and Allah transmits their words across the times and the ages and the media. So just that as a little introduction to the my personal

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encounter on one of the books of Mohammed Rosati, Rahim Allah, I have before me the book without actually Daya and we endeavor to do a section pertaining to feed in herbal medicine, abstinence from sin.

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So the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has said love what are called cafe law, what are called cafe, there is no act of nobility and piety that can equate abstinence from sin. And this was a question that was posed to one of the companions of the Allah as well, that if you were to compare two people, one was a person who engages in the basic performance of things that are obligatory. This is a very famous Hadith, and the scholars of Hadees engage on this hadith academically in great detail, where a person came to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he said oh prophet of Allah sallallahu wasallam. What is compulsory

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and maintain a tree and the rising sun set the five prayers the first day, etc. And then he said LA, Dee, da da, da, da, da, da, da da don't go into all the details. I'm not going to add to this and I will not subtract from this. And as he left the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, If Lucha Roger do any sadaqa, if this man is successful, if he is honest in his claim, so there was nothing additional there was nothing optional. There was nothing surplus, it was the basics, which was obligatory compounds the mentality that tenets of the faith, but it was coupled with abstinence from the disobedience of the Almighty. And for him, the messenger sallallahu wasallam pronounced the verdict

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of salvation. And that's my motive. And that's my focus and that's what we're going to speak here. Why it's great my brother and it's meritorious, my sister to engage in optional actions. But if you were to compare the two, you are way better off to limit yourself to the obligatory actions, limit yourself to the obligatory actions and abstain from the forbidden. So

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we go to the attention of Imam Casa de Rahim Allah He says LLM and Medina shockline. We should understand that there are two branches to the faith huduma terracota. Nancy Well,

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the first of which is the performance of noble deeds. So it is the Mooji bot and the others is the celebrator called mana he abstinence from the wrong foot bar to

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a hot water cassava

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Industry City Hall. Wow. So behind Allah, the first thing he says that it is a greatest feat and I'm paraphrasing in translating the stacks of us it's a great feat, and it's a great accomplishment to abstain from the forbidden then to perform the mandatary. So in terms of stimulating yourself to action, it is easier to rise early, perform the ablution discharge the fudger prayer etc. Although there is a degree of a challenge and difficulty, but then comes the element of resisting temptation resisting temptation. That is the most difficult thing. When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam spoke about the seven people that will be under the throne on the day of the Yama when there will be

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no shade other than the throne of Allah. The messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said one is a person that I told him that two men for being a man there are

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two men for being a man, a young man who is invited by a woman of prominence of status of beauty. And he does this he abstains and he says in me a powerful law I feel a lot. So at that time, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not highlight or profile, any act of virtue of his by, he would engage in prayer etc. but rather the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam spoke about him resisting and resisting evil. And that's the focus my brother and my system. The first primary aim of our fast is that how we can eliminate suffering from our life. So let's move along here

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Shall we Pusha T.

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And he says the tune it is only the noble and the buyers and the rightly guided who is endowed with the ability to abstain from sin. What is Anika Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and Maha gentlemen Hydra sua well, Mujahid Amanda has Mangia Hawa who and Subhana Allah so aptly so aptly and succinctly. Abrahamic, Allah codes, the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam where he defines who is a true migrant. So we talk of immigration and migration, the messenger sallallahu wasallam says, The true immigrant and the true migration is the one who migrate from a life of sin and violence to a life of obedience.

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way he you ever met him in a learning

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day. Now, whenever you disobey Allah and we all are guilty of it, I let me say something, yeah.

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That it's, it's human to, but it's devilish to persist. It's human to we are fallible mortals. So fallibility is intrinsic to our nature.

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But what we want to advocate is, prior to committing a crime, we reflect over the torment of Allah. And after committing a crime, we reflect over the bottom and the clemency of Allah. So if we reflect over the torment of Allah prior to committing a crime, hopefully it will become a deterrent. You know what if I do this My Lord can strike My Lord can seize My Lord can punish My Lord can hold me accountable, anything could happen. So that would jolt us that would Revive us. But on the reverse prior to committing a crime, if we think of how forgiving Allah is, then unfortunately, the devil will exploit that in our mind the sin will become a major sin. Hence the prophets of Allah it was

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Salim said no lamb to the *, Allah will become becoming using a boon, if you will not to sin and it was not in your nature. Allah would have created a nation that would sin. But this is the qualifying statement you as believers, we don't pre meditate. We don't orchestrate a sin. We don't sleep over it. I'm planning I want to I want to hedge this. I want to orchestrate this. I want to pre meditate this we might succumb to it. We might surrender to you. In that moment we might perpetrated but we do not calculated we do not premeditated. So

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again, no matter how happy Giovanni hyka where he never met him in a lie what I learned during the day that you disobey Allah with the very old guns with the very numbers that Allah has given you as a bounty do you face Tiana to Cabrini I met in La Jolla, Mercia de la jolla Toluca fron it is the pinnacle of ingratitude, that you use the bounties of the Almighty to find your narrative. And this is one of the definitions given under the verse in nearly insanity Rafi like a new moon in Surah.

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Allah strange and out on the horses, Allah says that Burning Man is ungrateful. So look, you know loosely translated as ungrateful, but the scholars expound and define what is meant by ungratefulness, one of two things. They say it refers to a person who remembers the bounty but forgets the giver of the bounty, while others suggests it refers to a person who uses who uses the bounties of the Almighty to disobey Allah. Imagine and this is my example that I use often. In a world today where so much focus is on cosmetics. There's so much focus on cosmetics, and

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people go for orthodontics. People go for plastic surgery, people go for you know what, this surgery that surgery, now you spend an arm and a leg, you spend an arm and a leg to straighten the jaw of your son to design his teeth so that it looks pleasant cosmetically, it looks beautiful. And then that very son uses that very same teeth which you spent an X amount of money to straighten to her nasty things that you can say like debut useless, that you've done nothing for me that you bought nothing, and the debt is likely to hang on, you know what the teeth with which you are talking and the jaws with which you move in your tongues and your lips, your tongue and your lip. By the way,

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I've spent an arm and a leg to try and get that into some shape. It's quite painful. Allah says in the Quran, Allah Pauline, Santa's magnet translator who was a single movie, I created mine from a fluid, and then he becomes argumentative. He grows up and he says, who said there's an Allah, like I gave you the ability and then you use it against me. So you're the point of reflection, my brother and my sister. If you abuse your site, or your hands or any faculty, you are abusing the bounty given by the almighty against Allah, that would be the height of ingratitude. That would be the height of ingratitude. Don't use my phone and my airtime to sway me use another phone. And then you

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can follow me on a separate line. And you can use your own contract, but don't use my phone in my network to use vulgar against me. Now, when it comes to the Almighty, whatever resources we have all belong to the Almighty. So he says we're in

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Fukuoka Marine, we're gonna look

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at your organs as much as they are an accomplice to your crime. They are also divine cameras planted by the Almighty, so they're monitoring your actions and then he brings the verse which we will share shortly.

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So just to recap for those that has logged on now, the focus we're doing now is a man kausani in this book is speaking about the importance of abstaining from crime. So as much as you set a target to say that, you know, that's Ramadan I want to read X amount of Quran I'm going to engage in nocturnal prayer.

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Want to read our awesome marathon is great, but more importantly set a timetable that I need to wean myself off since I need to delete and I often say that the best scenario will be that we leave a legacy of virtue. And if per chance we cannot leave a legacy of virtue, let us at least delete a trail of evil. If my son logs onto my phone, or my daughter gets onto my laptop, or my wife gets into my closet, post my demise, then let them not be exposed to my unsavory actions. So deleted you will not only insano Yo,

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yo, inside man will be informed that they have what he sent forth and what he left behind. I will focus the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, there is no act of piety like abstinence from sin. So a person who does the basics, he doesn't engage in extended nocturnal. He doesn't read surplus amount of boron. He does the basics. He doesn't gossip. He doesn't back by. He doesn't abuse his site. He doesn't abuse his tongue. He's not perused in unsavory material. He's not gossiping. By far. Latin will surpass the foot, the first and what did what did?

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He said, he said in the LA Jara Rama ma

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Allah has made a lot my bond as a race track for his servants yesterday for

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the Ramadan they compete with each other to Excel for several kilchoman

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some have decided to come on to the racetrack, and they've prepared themselves they're exerting themselves they abstaining from evil, they are energizing themselves what spiritual tonic, so they have excelled while others have lagged behind and they have failed, failed. Boo. Boo may not burn a killer Heck, I am astonished at the person who finds time to indulge in few things your mouth, your food or your Moxie known well known when winners and losers are being announced. So he goes on, and he goes to the verse, the old metal shadow or they email

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On that day, yo man that day, I lay him, their tongues, and their hands and their legs will give evidence against them for what they perpetrated. Allah walkabout. And yet in another verse, Allah says, Allah, Allah for him on that day we will seal the amounts we will see them out. In the Hadith also the Prophet sallallahu wasallam says that your fee is Mount will be sealed when you finally our attorney in Turkey and his lungs will be told to speak. I have a flash of an incident of urban Zubair, Allah, Allah. He was a great, you know, legend and Star Wars and son of Islam. There's a long incident, but I want to just extract one aspect of it. He had lost his leg and then it was

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amputated it was amputated. Because that was the only way to to you know, save God and rescue his life. So all the doctors of the time it was a tabulate, they decided that the only way to save his life will be to amputate. So they amputated his leg when they amputated his leg now I bet full on divided attendance my brother, my sister, wherever you logged in, listen to this, this is just proform amazing. So as believers we've been taught that part of the preservation of human dignity is that we bury any organ or limb so leave it on the corpse and the disease and the may yet right so in Arabic the stewards in Mecca may you may you to make it actually refers to someone who will pass

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away while may be sukoon in your refers to someone that has passed away. That's just a linguistic thing. So the disease and the person who's passed on

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in the coming year, we bury that person that's the teachings of Islam. That's how we believe you respect a human post his demise and not only devise even

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someone is asked the question here was not a hobby. So just to reply to that his brother Abdullah in so there was a companion his brother Abdullah was a companion and urban surveyor was a Tabby. So he is the son of Zebedee, mom, and he's the son of the Aloha Abdullah.

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So bear with the man who was the companion Zubair, his father was a Sahabi. He was among

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the daughters.

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he's incident comes under hyena in the chapter of hierarchy. You can reference it. The one who was a companion was Abdullah

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Abdullah has a great incident as well in Buhari, he used to spend very generously on it.

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And I just have in the flesh addressing the question that someone had asked. So I just want to you know, speak on it, Abdullah, who was the brother of Tibet, he used to spend very generously on Isla de la Mancha and one day and I'm just digressing because the question came out, so you know, but I'll come back to my topic here. So one day, I have been severely alone, and who said because I used to receive money and she used to spend it. So Abdullah, who was the nephew who was the nephew,

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so I shot and a smile Viola and her sisters, they share a common father, but most historian said the mother was different. So both the the father is Abu Bakr, radi, Allahu the father is.

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But their mother was different between Russia and us model the law. So I shall be allowing us to spend very generously. So

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let's enter here. So we'll have to start spending slowly, or else I will limit the money I give her. There's the hadith of Bokhari. And this refers to Abdullah bin Zubair who was the brother of Arabian Zubair who was a Sahabi. And the one we were speaking about is a tabari. To set the record correctly for the question does not belong to the brother or sister that had posed the question.

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So just to complete this hadith as well, because there's a point of reflection in it as well. So it shall be alumna said, our caller did the Philippines Where did he really say this? So they said, Yes, he said this. So I saw the alarm on the House said, I will not speak to him, I will not speak to him. And she vowed because she was obviously hurt and offended. And the sentiments of Abdullah being so bad or the alarm were not correct, that he gave money and then he kind of controlled it out of the manual with utmost respect to both the companions, we say it with utmost respect in the context that it appeared but of course the rank and the status of eyeshadow The alamanda is is you

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know, it's way greater. She was the consult of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam for llama quality

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Buhari when time moved on, and now there was this gap and there was no communication. Can lemon Mr. Bean MK Rama WA, sweat been at the booth. So then after live in Savannah, the olana spoke to him this would have been Rama and another Sahabi. And he said please will you do me a favor go and negotiate with it shall be allowed or not? I would like to reconcile. So they agreed. And they weren't what Kyla whom I mean, Benny, Zahara, and they were from the new Sahaba tribe, and the new sovereign is the family of Eleonora de la Mancha. So just as we muster the lineage of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, Mohammed bin Abdullah bin Abdullah, Mohammed bin Hashem and abdomen asking for

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saving Caleb widmore have been caught up in a Bin Bin for Harbin medic, the number of being kidnapped in Hosea. Jacob in aliens,

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has been unknown. We also need to learn the ancestry and the lineage and the genealogy of aminata, viola Juana, um, you know, the Atlanta comes from the blue Zahara tribe. So Mr. B mahama. And he was from the tribe. So anyway, he alone spoke to these two companions, and he said, Go try some of the Atlanta and ask us how you shall be allowed to forgive me. So they come to the door, they knock on the door, and there has to be a loved one. How can we and so she said, Yes. Then they said, Can Luna can all of us enter the hunting season Buhari, and they said yes. And Elena was aware that Abdullah Ahmed was worth as well as they enter. Then from the behind the curtain, puffy,

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puffy danida they start begging to her inshallah delana. And beseeching her, please forgive your nephew, Abdullah. The alarm he earned when he asked you are he made the remark pass the command that you shouldn't be spending so freely forgive him. And as they were imploring as they were imploring Abdullah bin Zuma, the olana went behind the curtain because this was his maternal on outsider to be mentality. The maternal aunt has the role of a mother so he was a nephew and it was permissible for him. There was no jump between the two. And then he fell upon the law, and he and she kind of had to do

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More Oh Ha ha tabela de muhammara that her tears Actually, you know what we're flowing so profusely that her scarf was drenched in her tears. And then she begged for forgiveness. And then she said that I have swear I have taken an oath. And as you know, an oath is severe. And he proceeds to and subsequently she, she pardoned him and she forgave him. And then after she liberated 40 slaves, she liberated 40 slaves as an atonement and compensation and explanation. So on that note and that objective digression, we give another message from this year that used the month of Ramadan, to reconcile between you and any person with whom you had any ill feelings. It's human to have

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difference of opinion. Yeah, I shared with you the incident of the Allahu anhu and Ayesha the greatness of the great novelists of the noble but Suhana Allah, they took the courage, Abdullah been so bad, and they reconcile anyway, coming back to what I was saying. We were talking of his brother being so bad and on the question then we digress. So Robin, so there was a Tabby Rahim Allah.

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So when his leg was amputated, and I said that as believers, we believe that you bury the organ. So even when you clip your nails or you trim your hair, or the after birth, when a woman gives birth, or if a person has any organ or limb that is amputated, then the teachings of Islam is that you bury that limb, right? And that is the preservation of human dignity. Now Subhana Allah look at the words of urban Zubair look at the words of urban Zubair when his leg was amputated, such an emotional thing. He said before you bury my leg, bring it here. So then he gently stroked his leg, which has now been severed from his body. So it's been detached, it was part of him, it's amputated. It's now

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separated because of the gangrene, etc, etc. And the book it appears in all the books you could read this incident,

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you know, in hire to who that's when I had referenced it, and that's where I came across it. He said,

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When levy hammer Lenny Leakey, we're talking about not disobeying the law with any organ and avoiding sin. And that's the point of reflection. Just to recap the pattern of thoughts. So you are in sync with my thinking pattern you will let the Hamiltonian run a key thing I Tamati lately Elon Musk yamo and any man machine to be killer army to my word. What a little dialogue between urbanisme Rahim Allah and a seventh leg of his from his body. He said oh my leg, oh my learn as we parted ways, and hopefully we meet in Ghana. I am happy to say at the point of separation, well let the hammer let me I lay out the mighty Lady 11 masajid I swear by Allah who gave me the ability to

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benefit from you that you've been a part of my anatomy. You've been a part of my composition upon you I rested my weight and I walk to the masjid my machine to Bikila harami tattoo. In Arabic all organs dual organs are referenced as a feminine expression right? So I excetera hence mama say to be killer, but to those that are into Arabic grammar will know what I'm referencing. I have never put my weight on your ones and age towards any act of sin vice or transgression. And then he sent the famous couplets of Martin been owes

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learn rho gamma Hawaii to caffine rebutting while our have been letting me know our factory shut individually. Voila. Then in summary, de la la la del any actually what are

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what are allowable and me loving to slip any Muslim minute Illa

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fatten my word. These stanzas are brimming with faith. It's just beyond me to adequately give you a verbatim translation. Nonetheless, I will endeavor to paraphrase and communicate the sentiments that are maruka my way to caffine Reba, I swear by Allah I have never stretched my hand out towards any advice. While I haven't let me know how far he shut in regionally and my legs have never taken me towards any advice and or wrong. What are taught then in seminary

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When a bus or de la ha, no one has my eyes seen anything forbidden and nor has my ears heard anything or any lamb to sleep any mercy but domina de la Ilaha saw that fatten properly. And I take solace from the fact that if I have been tested, surely others have been tested as well. While I was quoting this, I had a flash of another quotation. When it comes to abstaining from sin, my brother, my sister, which is the goal of a believer, that's the goal of a believer right? What does the angel say when we are returned to the grave? You have been Adam Hodges, domina Tora Bora Taylor

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has been worked over coup, amen. You were dispatched from San and you've returned to soil. The only thing is you were dispatched sinless and now you return head to toe Bremen incident. So the aim of abstinence from sin that's the focus we often neglect this either deliberately or inadvertently. But that's the real essence of taqwa. So, when we say taco, my brother and my sister, taqwa in Arabic basically means abstinence is that is that the thought literally means to abstain, a lot refers to the occupant of * in the Quran, as I may be what he is, so

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what do you mean?

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Taxi boo, and what an amazing scammy expression Allah give. So generally, when somebody loves something towards you, or there is a threat coming, you use your hands to shield yourself, you use your hands to shield yourself, right. And again, I have a flash of something else. Let's see if we get into this. But the occupant of * Allah says he will shield himself, but there's no way he's going to see you, because his entire body will be gripped in the punishment. So the only way he will be shielding himself is by presenting his face, which in essence will be intensifying his affliction as a man yet a B wave g is

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the one who will try and avoid Sue and adopt the evil Tom and B when he by his face, because there's no other way to shield yourself to shield yourself. And on that note, I have a reflection of Satan. When the rebels have surrounded his house, right when the rebels have surrounded his house, and said, now has somebody alone who had walked in, and he said, Oh, man, Kevin is and will mobilize and will rally and we will engage these rebels. And he said, La ilaha illAllah. These words of ease makes me cry. He said, I will not I will not shield myself by endangering the lives of the believers. But I will rescue the believers by endangering my own life. These are the words of Satan

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out of the blue. So coming back to from where to where I was saying, taco what is the what's the root word it

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literally means to feel. That is why the entry level the entry level of taqwa is a why a person who believes in tohave, mono theism, and he abstains from politics polytheism that is the UT la de

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la that would be the beginning of the entry that the ATC the first aspect of taqwa any person who abstains from shinnick and polytheism is a puppy that is abstain from polytheism. Then if we abstain from the forbidden it's even greater if he abstained from the doubtful, it's even greater if we add states from the undesirable it's even greater. So then you continue ascending and there's no limit to it my brother the straight path My sister is a journey we continue working on when the when Mecca was conquered a lot all the profits and aligning with them. We've conquered Mecca, Leon

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to you to pardon all your sins, where

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were you are meant to perfect His bounty upon you where your idea came from was the Thema and to guide you on the straight path. So there's two things here. Number one, Allah said were you Tim, an amateur who and I haven't thought of this yet, though, I'm not sure who's in my audience, but I'm sure there might be some scholars those that are into Arabic as well. So if you go into

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the fine difference between synonyms, they say in Arabic, there is no synonym there is no synonym, because as much as there are two words that are loosely given the same translation, there's a fine difference. And there's dedicated books as dedicated books that give you the fine difference. So you have up and you have one by both glue

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are translated as father, but there's a fine difference. When you refer to your ancestor, then you can use the word up but you don't use the word Warden, then you have the word * and you have the word shut. So there are many, many words in this regard in the Arabic language, oh, my mind is running and I'm losing my focus. I think I'm just gonna try and get back into where I was. When you didn't matter Who are they to for Allah to complete his bounty. So in Arabic, you have the word, Mom and the word a command. Both are loosely translated as completion and culmination. But academically linguistically, there's a fine line between the two. So Allah says Allah, commanded to lacantina

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to LA come near MIT, one of the two nakoma Islam Medina, in a command in the term Kemal, they can be an interval, so you can complete it but there's a gap there's a delay, there's a lag and then you complete it. But I tell you, it man means be doing something that continues uninterrupted. So for example, when you observe the fast Allah doesn't say a camino song, Allah says to Matthew muslimah la then complete your first so it's mom uninterrupted you cannot commence your fast and then endure fast and resume your fast like the kids would fall after a call today and that right but we know in real soccer and jurisprudence in needs to continue. When you do Hajj Allah says,

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Allah Allah when you don't have ROM in the sacred God, it continues, while in a command also means completion. But there could be a gap. Now look at the beauty of Iran and my word of Yama committed to the container gone. This was revealed at odd days prior to the demands of the prophets of Allah they will sell them in the farewell hedge on Friday after I saw Salah in the plains of Iraq and we know that incident would say now Omar Delano and a non Muslim which is mentioned in iniquity. Allah says today we completed your deen and we perfected our bounty upon you. So Islam was revealed gradually, hence the adoption of the phrase a Kemal but during the grand new revelation of the

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faith, it mama never know the boundaries of Allah persisted right through, we've conquered mecca for you, you can lay to complete his bounty upon you do cassata Mr. Thema, and to guide you on the straight path. Now that brings into question what is meant by guiding the Prophet sallallahu Sallam on this tripod. He's on the status of the straight path. In fact, in the concluding verses of surah two Shura, the chapter on mutual consultation in the 25 years, Allah says,

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surely no Mohammed Salah, you guide people to the straight path, right. And it refers to Iran.

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Because a straight path or guiding has two dimensions, Iran and Islam in Iran means to show the path what Islam

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means to take people to the destination. So there's no contradiction between this verse and the verse in the 20th. Just in order to assess

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that you cannot guide whomsoever you wish. When Allah refutes the fact that the prophets Allah ism cannot guide that is a refutation that you cannot take the person to the destination. And in the verse of the 21st, juice in soda to show Allah we Allah says you do guide that is establishing the fact that you show me the path. So we need to be clear on this. So Allah says that you guide yet in this verse, Allah says that we've given you victory to guide you on the straight path. This is the journey of Quran, I was just giving some reflection to some brothers now that were asking me for advice. And again, I was saying to them more than ever in the month of Ramadan in the crisis in

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which we are we need to connect with the Quran. So the answer given by the scholars of the series, that the straight path has tensions and levels and you continue ascending it right you continue climbing it and ascending it, you can be wealthy and you want to become more wealthy, your wealth you you you you're a millionaire by $1 definition and then you want to be by a euro and then you want to be by your founding and who knows you want to be by a Kuwaiti dinar, a million it just goes on and on. Ah. So the point we were saying that the minimum definition of taqwa which is the focus of our address is to abstain from shitting and we need to climb on that I need to stay away from you

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know, other things that are unlawful etc. until I've been fasting since childhood since the age of puberty or earlier. That's great. That's noble, that's meritorious, awesome. Thumbs up. I salute you, my brother. I compliment you my sister. I love you, my young lad. But in terms of that, propelling me to the greater goal of abstinence from sin

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That's the yardstick and the benchmark with which I need to measure myself. So erlauben Zubaydah said I'm grateful to Allah what I've done in summary, What are passarella? Tell me?

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What do I need to Sydney Muslim?

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Family, and I take solace if I've been tested, other has been tested. And that's the rhythm of life, that Allah tests whomsoever He wishes. So what is taqwa? And what is our focus that our organs we don't disobey Allah? So you're sitting in seclusion, my brother? And then there's this urge, right? Is this urge to commit a crime? And the world tells you just do it. And Allah tells you just don't do it. The world does it. Just do it. Just do it, man. Just do it. The Boulevard tells you that advertisement tells you. You're your friend tells you your colleague tells you your peers tell you just do it. Just do it for the fun for the buzz for the kid. What is our Hello Wi Fi but in FY 18,

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one of su Daria Tony lactobionic festa him in La La, la, la de La Paloma. yovani when you're in seclusion, and you're in isolation, and you're in your hotel room, and you shut the door and you're on a holiday, and you're on a business trip and family is not there, and you think you're away. What are you allowed to believe when you meet in isolation with the thought of sin when enough so Daria to electro Leon, and your ego is provoking you to rebel and festa him in Nevada in LA, in fear the games of Allah, Allah in the womb, he is known as pseudo who

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is the concluding verse of the non Jews, I just have a flesh of it. Now it's the opening verses of surah to the hood. So Allah speaks about the modesty of Sahaba. One of the lead numbers that is mentioned about this year, which is mentioned in Buhari as well, that Allah behold, in the home Valley, yes, known as pseudo Minister for men, that some of the companions when they would change their clothing, in isolation and seclusion, then they would be overwhelmed by modesty and bashfulness, that they would literally crouch down and then down, covering their private organs with their own body and they would undress and change their clothing, display modesty for the Almighty.

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And then of course, Allah revealed the verse, they're in seclusion in isolation at the absolute point of necessity, to the extent of necessity, there's no need to impose such stringent measures upon yourself. allatheena Yes, that will show that the other one is shown as the other one you have

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already known that even if you were to clad yourself, you can avail the idea of a love but imagine the consciousness of the companions imagine the consciousness of the companions,

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the noble companions, some of them were sighted, some were blind, some were able, some workable, and this is mentioned in the backdrop of this idea and I just have a flesh now as I'm going through this a lot put it in my mind, and that's the focus, I need to become conscious of my Creator. Right I was telling you something and I digress. The scholars say about when it comes to roaming the gaze, may Allah protect us again, abstaining from sin will hang even

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if no one said a word about sorry.

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Sorry, I have a layer Minh and the corner Lee adonia mondo, Honeycutt, Ella and Tatiana. I would prefer being privileged with the ability to restrain my gaze from the forbidden then to own the entire world from inception to its destruction and give it integrity. I would prefer that Allah now understand the point. What's the point abstaining from haraam? What What did Abdullah bin Mubarak say? He said, an hour

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a half iliyan min and

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be surprised me at the URL? Right? I read it in the writings of ignorance of hanbali Rahim Allah, I would prefer decline in a doubtful or dollar or bone. Then spending 700,000 dirhams in charity. What's my message? My brother? What's my message? My sister? What is your mom telling us in this book you

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abstain from the wrong. So we need to seriously we need to ask ourselves, you know, Leah, Leah, Hannah Lola is just putting these thoughts in my mind. He thinks he was a great sage of the age. He was a great sage of the age. He said, I did an audit on myself. I looked at myself and I studied myself. And then I realized Li ne

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una dumb ba. I have about 40 odd since I studied my life I observed and I looked at it carefully and I realized I've got 40 odd grinds for study.

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To learn equally then be me at the lF morale. Then I asked Allah forgiveness for every crime 100,000 times La ilaha illAllah my brother my sister, I don't say about you but I can talk about myself. I have 100,000 crimes if not more, and unfortunately I have not asked Allah forgiveness 40 times while they are crazy and I read this in a boomerang, he says I have 40 odd seconds and I asked Allah forgiveness. Now coming back to the point I was saying, and I read this in the Kitab on the importance of protecting the gains from haram right? So the scholar right, so amazing, he says

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either man, this is an order, I will quote it and then translate it either man because then another caffine cause the other man Navarro de la ilaha illAllah la life into academics and to maintain my word does it just profound Adam it cost a nother caffine cost there Adam de la la la la la la isla de this wording is just too much. So if you were to be exposed or you just exited from your house, and then you know what your game is just straight on to someone forbidden. And then you said Adam and Dustin Hazara I did not have the intention of stray In my case, I did not have the intention of looking at Haram. He likes it's insufficient to say that you need to consciously intend not to abuse

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your site. So if you just casually walking in the marketplace, then inevitably, you are predisposed and vulnerable and susceptible to the abuse of your gains. Because you are in an environment of immorality, and you have not consciously programmed yourself. So Adam a kostenloser. All I didn't have any intention of just casually sitting. Yeah, we were just at the restaurant. We were chilling, we were just having some quality time with friends and peers. Yeah, well, okay, my gaze kind of just wrong. No cost there either, man. No, but it's necessary. It's integral, it's imperative. It's of paramount importance that you program yourself and going into an area where the risk levels are

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greater, the risk levels are greater. So I need to now align and program myself. I'm going into an airport zone, right? I'm going into a place where I know I will be more susceptible. I need to up my act. I need to up my egg. And that was the point is people May Allah give us a glimpse of it. My brother, my sister. What did the poet say? Carly's de Nova Sahaba Kabira hoffa, who was not a commercial for the showcase. La La, La La, la mina. Khalid, Khalid, no, just Roxanne's just get it off. Just just, it's enough of rebellion against allies. You know what my brother saying gets you tired. Sin gets you tired, you you send and you get to a point where you get frustrated. That's the

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nature of sin. But the addiction compels you I know of a young man who had confided in me about this particular social ill that he had, and it had created an impediment with him moving forward in his life. And he was utterly embarrassed and ashamed of this crime. And then he said that you know what the excitement or the euphoria, or the thrill of the sin was overnight was just habit that I was doing it, but I would be so depressed with myself so depressed. So that's the nature of sin. So the poet says Holly, dodo, honey, she's dropping, and you need to leave some cold turkey, cold turkey, the idea of gradual weaning, it doesn't happen, my brother, it doesn't happen. Right? The guy said

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that. Yeah, you know, I often quote this of my dad. And he says, We have become such an

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addictive society, that the tobacco industry can boldly print the harm and harms of tobacco, yet not fear, a drop of sales. So you'd have a billboard about certain cigarettes, and then B where it kills it causes cancer not good for pregnant woman can kill a fetus can destroy society, and you it's like empty campaigning, but they got to legally cover themselves. Otherwise, there's legal implications against them. And yet they don't fear any drop of sale. So gentlemen, we'll come to a convenience store. Can I have a box of cigarettes? Yeah. Can I have the one that causes the cancer please? Thank you. Yeah, exactly. The one that causes cancer. That's the reality of the world in which we live.

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Why we become so addicted, we become so addicted to it. So when it comes to saying it's cold turkey, my brother it's cold turkey, my sister

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You need to stop chatting, you need to drop you need to delete. That's it, cut the Facebook cut the chat. And that's it ended, I just shared an incident of a of a sister that that emailed me like three days back. And I just did a clip on this two days back as well. So this is the message man, she said she was listening to one of my dogs, and it's on the night as well. Courage to control the last true soul courage to control the last full soul. And she said I was very inspired by the lecture. And then I was just 20 years of age. And then somebody came to me and he said, like I need to get to know you. And we need to get it and we need to go out and probably I want to take it to a

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serious level, blah, blah, blah, make it happen. And who knows, maybe in the future, we can get married. And prior to that I had never had any relationship with any person. So I was skeptical. I said no. But then he said, Look here, we can develop it into something serious and who knows it could end up into marriage. You know, it was back and forth. And she said that talk of yours in which you go to the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in the calendar that I say and Allah, Allah, Allah will hate on me that whenever you forsake something for weather and for the pleasure of Allah, Allah will substituted with something wholesome. So she said, I told this boy that listen,

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unfortunately, or fortunately, however you want to take it, I'm not interested. If you are interested to take the serious come meet my parents formally proposed and good luck. But in terms of dating, courting, getting to know each other, this is not going to happen. Anyway, he backed up, she says, I used to cry and I still wonder if it was the right move or not. At times, I used to get restless my friends got a boyfriend, he's going out he's got a fiance she's got I don't have and I kept on praying to Allah, Allah, I have done this for your pleasure. You bless me with a good sponsor the email. And you know, this is her own correspondence to me, and she just shared it with

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me. And may Allah bless her. She says, I used to pray to Allah, you give me the best spouse, you give me the best spouse. She says it's five years into the marriage. I'm the mother of two children. By Allah, Allah has given me a divine husband. This man is beyond my description. I can just imagine all the sisters. Wow, that's the men were looking for. Well, if you're not married my sister, give up around and pray to Allah and see the magic in your prayer. And even if you're married, even if you marry whoever all of us, we all can you know what, abandoned some wrong and then pray. And then you see the impetus and the strength and the cloud in the muscle it injects into your application.

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So the poet says Holly

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was snapped

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out of this shoka Romagna walk on this earth, like a person who is walking in a thorny jungle this turns around it was not many commercial like a person walking was not commercial folk on the show show. There's these phones right? In Arabic you refer to a fork and choke as well and thorns.

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When when the alarm rang, again, you know on the word showcase does have a flesh of this. How do you throw the shade with you when Kobe was about to be executed and abuse of yarn? was not a Muslim at that time? And he said, Boy akuna Mohammedan Allah Fie mechanic. Why

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would you like that you in your comfort back at home and enjoying yourself while Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam has been executed. So he's got a brother your loved one who have been using those famous couplets for the whole year Ronnie

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Donahoe Walker the hammer and innovative images only one might be known to you too. Well, I can Hey, Daddy, Jeff, Mona, Mona Ferrari, fellas to be morbid in Lille I do with that in

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mind, but what are the

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most to know who they telling me abandon Islam and adopt this belief and your life will be rescued by the hammer let III mean, does that mean and tears trickle down my cheeks not out of fear. What might be mountian nila Ito? Well, I can monada mala family. When did I ever cry out of the fear of death? I cried out of the fear of * for us to be in the military.

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I will not buckle under pressure, I will die upholding the fate of mono theism and the doctrine of tawheed and one Allah so at that time when Abou soufiane was subsequently became another young man who said to her babe,

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how about you in your house and Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam in your place? use the word same thing, this word that I'm using yet fall on La Jolla Kona Mohammed and Mohammedan FIM Academy he levy hoffy what to say boohoo show caetani Thorazine.

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I will give him my life to have

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Boy, a stone brick Muhammad Sallallahu sallam. That was the time when abou Sophia who was not a Muslim but subsequently became one of the alarm said, Mara, to men and Nancy I had done you

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can be as happy Mohammed, Mohammed and sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I have never seen reverence honor respect, love servitude compliance obedience of anyone to anyone like the companions of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam to Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam so my brother my sister the messages abstain from sin let's just share a little more Yep. And then we bring it to a close

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up Mohammed Ali says, Jamie hi Bethany Coco. Susan Alba, aka Saba. So andeavor to rescue and devere to rescue

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I get a message you're no sound.

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I hope the audio is there. I mean, all is looking good on my side. I don't know if anybody could just let me know if all is fine.

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For me, I better Nick.

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First, Jimmy, I better protect your body. While Susan Alba Saba and in particular your seven organs for inna Johanna has to remember how and has remember how it has seven doors right liquidly by the meninges omaka. So this is the verse of the 14 juice of soda to the hydro, from which you know from each door someone will end up mela protect us from it. So Gemini has a doors and * has seven doors and the doors of * have been mentioned in the Quran or reference the scholars of the Hadith speaks about it. So one is lava, Kalina hot lava, then one is how we are how we are

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how we are, then one is a softer, warmer, softer then one is for trauma. Only home as a lomasa and Lady Gemma.

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Ne legume better never the young Buddha means to throw an invader in fact are they talk of the Mona Mona but it comes in the books of FIFA. So can they use that then nothing the photon that photon literally means Akasha it will crash May Allah protect us May Allah protect us. So what are the typical above in men as a law Have you heard about those doors of * will be assigned for the one who does obeys the law with these seven organs. Now what are the seven organs were relying

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on one person will follow former Julia region. So the eye, the ear, the tongue, the belly, the private organs, the hands and the legs. So that's just an introductory. I think I'll leave it to that year. We've kind of exhausted our time of an hour. I trust that this was you know a bit of an introduction to what we're hoping to discuss over the weeks to come in the month of Ramadan and I pray that all our brothers and sisters and attendees are having a great Ramadan May Allah bless you May Allah keep you well and spirited. But let's let's keep the focus. Let's keep the focus. What's our message? What are we taking away from your I need to be focusing on abstaining from wrong. So

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while it's noble, it's meritorious to excel in optional actions, but it makes no religious sense. It makes no religious sense that I continue excelling in optional actions at the cost of persisting on my evil at my wrong and my son. It would be more meaningful, more wise, more calculated, and more rewarding for you to abandon a wrong than to engage in an optional action. On that note, I conclude Do I have any questions? Yeah. for your kindness. Yeah, okay. inshallah, you can format the questions before the questions I will try to the best of my ability

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to inshallah answer. So the admin can forward that and inshallah we would.

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Okay, so the question reads here, when Allah forgives us, and he wipes it completely, or will he still be asked with Subhan Allah?

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Again, I just have a hadith and I credit this to the Almighty. This is all the prayers of my mom. I've said this in many of my talks. So there's a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam is that double abdomen don't obey when a servant repents. Listen to this hadith my brother, my sister, and Salah who have worked there who do know that Allah, when you commit a sin and you repent, Allah He lasers and deletes that sin from the memory of the angels who documented that sin. What answered that

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Whoo. And Allah leads that sin from the memory of your loved ones that have recorded it and from the location of the earth on which you committed it. Allah has the agenda Yama, Yama, de la sala has shown that to the extent he will appear before Allah on the day of Yama, and nobody, but nobody will give evidence against him for that crime. How often and this happens I deal with these cases very often. Just last week I was dealing with unfortunately, a partner was cheating on the other partner, and there was infidelity and disloyalty, and promiscuity. And then he says, No, well, this was pretty married. And she says it was post marriage. And he says, I deleted the phone. And she says,

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nobody was so captured in your archives. And I found it that and I retrieved it and he's like, for the sake of me, I don't know. I deleted but it was stored somewhere. While my brother, my sister when you repent to Allah, you know, I say this, your WhatsApp gives you the option. If you posted something wrong, then you can delete from the chat, but they only give you a duration of what half an hour, one hour, two hour timeframe. After that, you've you've forfeited the option of deleting for all so by mistake if you posted on the wrong chat. And this happened so often today, your WhatsApp gives you a window period. Allah doesn't give you the window period till your death of

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course, that's the window, but seeing how long when he said he

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had died?

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To learn to answer your question, my brother, my sister, when you send and you repent, of course, of course, and we qualify my statement that needs to be genuine, the Toba needs to be sincere. I marvel at the clemency of Allah that you commit a sin. And you mean well, when you repent, right? I'm not gonna do this. I mean, I needed and you know, you mean sincere, but Allah also knows as your fallible nature, you will be defaulting in three weeks, but also knows at the moment you mean, well, you mean Well, I love knowing very well that you will default install forgive you now because you were genuine in your intention. And I always say humans need an explanation. Allah doesn't need an

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explanation. He understands it. He knew what went through your mind. He knew what you intended. He knew how you repented. People will base it on the external on the outer, Allah knows the full story, one word answer when you repent, it will be wiped off completely

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shattered. Is it fair to assume that when Allah forgives us and because of this default southern drawl, it also means the effects of that sin are also withdrawn. And the center is now protected from those ill effects in this world, physical, mental and psychological, brilliant question, profound question. Ah

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Subhana Allah. So, there are certain consequences, you know, certain acts that when we commit, they are catastrophic implications of it. For example, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said that if you disobey your parents, you will be subjected to consequences in this world. There are other crimes that you do in this world, you will taste consequences.

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When a person repents, you know we dealing with the almighty we dealing with the Almighty, as long as we are sincere, and there is active measures there is active measures to atone. So, the point I want to say to the brother is that she'll regret is inadequate, she'll regret is inadequate. He rightfully mentioned that you give sadaqa and you continue, you know, interference, money, interference money. There is a quotation mentioned there.

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That it's in order to Anil coated that someone asked would would, Toba suffice for sin? So it's written there ha shirt Yeah. Hey, can I get an amen eternal somboon shirt Yeah, him

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to get an amen eternal somboon that will my tears of repentance wipe away my crime indeed, provided provided your sanitizer, your detergent, your soul is in proportion to your impurity. So your entire body is soiled and you have dirt and you have dust on it. And you have a drop you have a drop of some liquid soap or sanitizer and you're trying to clean the entire body it doesn't tie up. You need to balance your purifying your your liquid, your sanitizer against the impurity on your body, then Indeed, Allah will remove the effects of that wrong.

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Allah will will forgive you Allah will pardon you.

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And inshallah who you know, you know, what's the beauty? Let me say two things quickly. The first

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Is I said that surely regret is inadequate. And again, there's an ayat of the Quran in this year saatavilla our eldest brother, the son of Adam, when he killed his brother hobble the Quran said he regretted, he regretted right first becoming an admin. It's in the Quran fast becoming an admin della Allah and Nicola de Malaysia vetova. But the Quran doesn't say he was forgiven. In fact, the prophet sighs and said every unjust murder, Yama will rest on the eldest son of Adam on Instagram because he was the person who initiated unjust killing on this earth. Woman.

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So in the matoba, dama yaku in Amanda damato, Burton yaku, Nova de la in key sorrow,

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regret which is followed by active measures of autonomy. The second point I say quickly on this note here, that Allah says, Allah forgive you when our body when our body Oh, man, you know how much I have about this and how much I caught this in my dog. That's what I cried, I cried on this hadith alized. My witness, I cried so much on this year, Allah says, I forgive you, and it doesn't mean much to me. And then when our body is fine, it's okay, it's done. It's over when our body

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will barely offer to look, I'll forgive you and it's okay. It's done. Humans if they forgive you, they'll, they'll remind you I often say people don't want without forgiving and Allah forgives without taunting.

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Ah, amazing analogy question does ocular shell Bless you. question is are we talking about organ? Is it permissible in Islam to become organ donor? Okay, I think I'm not going to go into juristic rule in this detail. Right up on this organ thing? Yeah. And there's a full explanation. And I think I don't want to be just given a loose casual answer to this year. So I'll ask you, you know, either we can privately discuss this year via miftah. Or you could contact your local scholars that is detailed contemporary scholars have written actively in detail about this year.

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In terms of forgiveness, what if someone is extremely abusive? Is it permissible to avoid them? Even if they are a parent? Asking for someone? That's a valid question my brother Anna, you know what I say to your Brother Mohammed, and I say to you, sister, wherever you are, I love people and asking questions. And today's forums, we have good opportunities of engagement. We need to be honest, I once had a q&a in Toronto in Ramadan. And it was after midnight, and then it was an exclusive session with you. And we requested the elderly folks to leave. And you know, today it's difficult to define who's old, because everyone is young at heart. But anyway, we asked the ones of advanced age

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to leave and so Hana live was an open session, and they open up and they asked questions, and I said, this is good, this is wonderful.

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The woman avanzado they will praise that they hire and the modesty did not stop them from asking Islam. So this is a very serious question. This is a very serious question. And unfortunately, this is a brutal truth. This is a brutal truth. In many instances where parents can be sometimes condescending, they can hurt derogatory comments, they can use nasty languages, they can run down the esteem of a person. So islamically The challenge is that you remain obligated to your parent, the crime of your parent remains a crime, the wrong of your parent remains around, remember that we can't miss our words, but islamically we are told that we have to be kind to them, even if they tell

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you to perpetrate the most heinous of crimes, and that is ascribing partners to Allah. And that was in the context of Sandra the olana when he reverted to Islam and it's a verse of the 20th to the 29th chapter, the chapter on the spider are waiting

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to shake up in Malaysia like a big fella to Terra Houma. So his mom said, I won't eat I won't drink if you're going to be a Muslim and you don't give up your Islam. So Allah revealed the verse and if they compel you ascribe partners to me, don't listen to them, but immediately unless it was

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to be kind to them. So I don't have the details of the skills but I deal with this very often I would say to you, minimize your in depth, if you know you're going to go there and typically your dad's going to have an outburst or your mom's gonna have a tantrum, and she's going to be attacking your honor or saying nasty things and it's going to provoke you. And obviously, you shouldn't retort and you shouldn't respond, then rather do a telephone call or minimize it, pray for her, send her a gift, so don't cut off, don't disassociate, don't sever ties, she remains your paradise and your dad remains your door to paradise. minimize it, we need to analyze the merits of the case. Keep a bit of

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a reserved relationship, send gifts, I encourage gifts because the holidays

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says, find an idea that

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that gives will remove the madness of the heart. So spend on her, send her some money, send her gifts and your dad something buying something, send him something. So physically you didn't come but you sent a gift, or you sent a lovely message. And in that way you keep in a safe distance, you keep an arm's length, so that you don't predispose yourself to some potential nasty words. So the wrong of my patterns will remain the wrong. But does it justify OR LEGIT reminds me cutting ties? No, not at all. I still have to maintain and I need to try and find the fine balance and spend less time go, you know, less often try and compensate for it in other ways. But But yes, we cannot sever ties. The

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Abraham, who was above and beyond the father of the prophets is telling is that Yeah, Betty Khadija and even Allah, and this is a verse of the 19 Jews in the 1619 chapter 16 Jews and Surah Maryam Oh my dad, Allah has given me a revelation follow me and listen to me. And I'm afraid that if you're gonna listen to the devil, then Allah punishment will come on when I'm translating verses of the Quran in the Master Card.

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What does the dad say to Abraham? Abraham is the father of the prophets, right?

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And his father was an idle merchant. Some have argued that this was not his biological father, but but authentic scholars have refuted this way father Ibrahim only be here. So some have argued that opinion is not biological but the the mainstream view is it was his biological father. And what did Abraham alehissalaam say to his father, he said,

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gave him the power so the father said Lambton if you don't desert Germanic I will stone you one journey Melia and leave me and go and how do they Brahim reply Salah finale, okay, they say this is salami moto rocket, our pathways. So as a karate, I will continue asking Allah to forgive you

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cannot be and hence in the 11 Jews in order to Toba where Allah speaks about the seeking of forgiveness on behalf of a non Muslim in the context of Abraham. Allah clears the misunderstanding that someone could have womankind instead of Pharaoh Ibrahim and the abbey in law.

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The reason why Abraham had asked forgiveness was because he made a promise. So in a nutshell, your they were just not abusive. They will say my son's father was was harsh. He was obscene. He was not. He was uncouth in the manner he came across strong words, nasty words. And he said, Okay, please be on here. My dad, I'll move away. I'll give you your space and I'll keep on praying for you.

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Anything else you know what to do for doba?

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What to do for tober? You did something with one of the seven organs. Okay, so inshallah we're going to be discussing the seven organs and I think I'll expand on that in next week sessions. Next week, set the session inshallah.

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I think we can call it today inshallah. JazakAllah say to the miftah team of the Abdul Wahab who's pressing the buttons on the other side, and Jazakallah to our brothers and sisters for connecting from the US primarily and wherever else around the globe. May Allah keep you safe. May Allah protect you. Remember, you've no Josie Rahim. Allah said, no, please let me know. If the occupants of the grave were told. No. Just reveal one of your desires if they were invited in and said, express one desire. let a man know Yeoman Ramadan, the dwellers of the grave would say the occupants of the grave would say, I wish we could be privileged with one day of Ramadan. My brother, my sister, the

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dwellers of the grave on the words of evening, Josie would aspire for one day of Ramadan. Allah has given us that day that's valuate. Let's capitalize on it. And let's see how we can move forward in sha Allah and the goal is, I need to read my body of sin. Every time you sit down to a vise, you get temporary relief, but the vise gets a tighter grip around you. We are law protect us all and May Allah keep you strong Salam Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

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