Sulaiman Moola – Ramdhaan Immersion #3

Sulaiman Moola
AI: Summary © The speakers emphasize the importance of preserving and balancing the forest for the upcoming months, listening to Pelican teachings, not talking about negative qualities, listening to teachings, and not touching one's body. They stress the importance of listening to Pelican teachings and not letting anyone in one's space, as well as protecting one's wealth and staying true to one's values. The negative consequences of actions and actions can lead to evil behavior, but protecting one's wealth and staying true to values is crucial.
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So, firstly, let me apologize for the glitch and the snag that we encountered last week and we were unable to do our session

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last Saturday, but inshallah hopefully we can compensate for that in this final segment of ours and that we could, you know, have a more meaningful segment just to recap for those that have joined on and just, you know, participated now, we were speaking from the book of Imam Rosati, Rahim Allah on et now Buddha, mercy, abstinence from sin vise and transgression. And as we draw towards the culmination and the final moments in the blessed month of Ramadan, I just want to remind fellow viewers and I had this flesh yesterday and I was sharing it with some friends etc. So, in the month of Ramadan with the grace of Allah, many of us in our homes we encourage and we exhort our children

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at a young age to observe the past which is great, which is noble, which is meritorious. In fact, there is a hadith regarding the companions or your loved one whom could not know so we mostly began an akuna Mousavi Mousavi Anna, for either back to home minute, Tom nirjala home a lot better, meaning that we would try and encourage and motivate our young ones, our junior ones, our children to observe the fast. And if any one of them would become restless, uneasy, anxious, throw a tantrum due to hunger, then we would craft some toys for them and appease them with the toys until it would be Maghrib. And the fast would be completed. So often we have the children, they will fast,

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sometimes they break the fast, sometimes they kind of have half a fast and they join it and they say it's one fast. And then at the time of that said, I get five and a half or eight and quarter or nine and three quarters, so on and so forth. And it's good to motivate them and carry them from an early age. But I think it becomes very, very challenging and disappointing when a child observes the fast, and he or she

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wants to break the fast like one hour before? If so depending on whichever zone you are in, and if are an hour before if the child is like no, I think I'm tired, I'm hungry, I need to end my fast. And the dad and the mom is like please, you've come thus far, two thirds of the fast three quarters of the files are done with just one hour and the sun will set and your files will be completed. Just get yourself busy into something and it will be Muslim. And the kid runs around and after a little while he or she comes back and he says oh my god does not come in and your soon is taking too long. And I don't know what to say now.

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I want to develop on that and give a message and then proceed with today's lesson in sha Allah as we try and impress on that child to restrain himself or herself to complete the fast with greater emphasis a lot impresses upon us to maintain and preserve the fast of life, reminding us that the iftaar of the year after is very soon. So adonia kulu Harsha hora Yami lil Mata teen worried to fit to the him yo Monica Bella and I mean, what more of a Mona Harris yummy for the hub. What do you do Lika de patata la ilaha illAllah adonia kulu Harsha Russa yummy lil Matata in the world in its entirety the world in its entirety is a fast for the believer from puberty till death worry to fit

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through him yo Malika Bella the mean, and the supreme eat will be at the time when we meet our Creator. We're more of a Mona Lisa method. And the greatest chunk of this day has labs. Why don't you do litho Katara and the time of Allah hosting the iftaar has drawn close. So in the Quran in numerous verses in the third chapter in the fourth Jews in verse one double four Allah says say yes Allahu shaqiri soon soon Allah uses the word sir. Those that are familiar with Arabic grammar will no sir sofa indicates it's very quick. It's very soon. It's approaching swiftly. So yeah, dizzy Allahu shaqiri. Soon Allah will compensate the Grateful ones. And the scholars say your shaqiri in

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refers to those that have escaped Arma those that are consistent in Allah de Nakamura bonala Hassan master tamo that Dan has done Allah Allah, Allah, Allah to Allah de Haan for

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those who brought a man and was stuck amu they are firm

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Allah says in chapter 57 in the 27 use of the Quran the chapter on karma the moon, Allah subhanho wa Taala says Sonia Allah Muna Raja Monica double ashy. Tomorrow Allah refers to qiyamah tomorrow. So my message is you appeasing the child who's throwing a tantrum listen my son listen my lad Listen, my daughter please just hang on in an hour and it will be a Star Alliance telling you if Star of the Year after is soon in this verse, Allah says it's tomorrow. And yet in the city of Jos in Surah, moto 15, Allah subhanho wa Taala draws the Yama so glows that Allah says Leo mela Dena monoaminergic of bahagian Allah refers to it as today. Today. The Yama is today La ilaha illa Allah, and in the

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29th jos in Surah to Lima iRig. Allah says in omiana, who barmy de la vaca Reba, they perceive it to be remote, distant and Farfetch and we know that it is close, definite and certain. So my message My message is that as we impress on our young ones, to preserve the forest and not to lose the forest at the tail end of the day, remember our life on Earth as believers is a fast in its own way. One is the formal fast from dawn to dusk in the month of Ramadan. But beyond that, the life of a believer Dunia kulu Hashimoto swam in Lima 13. And remember the iftaar will be hosted by Allah and that will be the ultimate iftaar Allah says, de la vida masirah Jelena Halima, Allah has prepared pardon

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lahoma Where is Karim and there is wholesome sustenance. So May Allah give us the ability that we we restrain ourselves, you know when the child is about to eat a date before time on munch on a chocolate on a candy and he's just about to put it in the mouth and what you say spit it out, spit it out. Now that will be iftaar. Well, ally is telling you my brother and ally is telling you my sister, spit out your line, spit out your Xena, spit out your immorality, spit out your haraam. Soon it will be afar. Soon it will be that you will have to meet your Creator. Hence the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam referred to death as x zero decra ha de Milla de acuerdo de creme de la

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Don, remember in abundance, the destroyer of all passions and desire and that is death. So we spoke about in the previous segment

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about the sense of the eye, and that how we need to restrain our gaze. In fact, one of the great scholars and as I read in heylia abou has made mention of it in heylia that he used to say one of the great scholars the first act of virtue that we practice on the day of read is the restraining of the gays. And that's the first thing we unfortunately we fall short come today have read in Arabic They say one more, one more nary, one more, one more Neri Min mostess lady Sheree one more one more Nettie Min mostess Larry Shara de that it is a spark that ignites a massive flame. And from there it snowballs and then it is a fire that gutters through. But it takes a simple spark to trigger and to

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ignite that. And likewise in Arabic, they say, not thrown fab at Simon facula Moon from arido navarone. First you abuse your gaze, then you look at a person who is unlawful for you to look at with the eye of lust and desire not forbidding someone. And then there is a smile for kalamoon. And then there are some exchange of words for more to do. And the next best thing is capturing the details of each other, and then supposedly meeting up for coffee, meeting up for coffee. So we spoke about the harms and the abuse of some of the I excetera. We move on to the next level, the next level. And ideally that's what we want to do. Let's ask ourselves, we're coming to the tail end of

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Ramadan. We were in this vigorous cycle of fasting and observing the nocturnal prayer. How much have we accomplished? How much have we accomplished in terms of the objective? Definitely we have executed the ritual, but like I always say there is a clear distinction between the ritual and the essence. The ritual of hygiene, something else the essence of hygiene is something else. The ritual is you've done the harm you are wearing. you know as as men you are wearing the sandals, exposing your metatarsal, you are in two pieces of cloth. You are doing the circuit around the Kaaba you congregating in in Mena and then in arafat and Mustafa you belt in and so on.

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These are the rituals, but the essence is to return sinless, clean, pure, reformed, rehabilitated. So we move on to the next organ. Well, I'm Mel Odin, and that is the year for the Ha.

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And toast of the Bihar LLB. It will vary but he will or will hold the field battle over the Cree master winners for in the Holy potica Lita Smith Bihar Kalam Allahu taala, also netta Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was a matter earlier he was Sala Bihar Illa testified that he Lamy Leighton Allah Allah Al mulk Elmo tema, when he met him, Subhan Allah. So what does Mohammed Al Hassan say as far as the year protected from listening to impermissible things, from bead innovations, backbiting liuwa talk, delving into falsehood or talking about the faults of others. So often people think that I did not use vulgar language, I did not use immoral speech, I did not

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backbite but they don't find it an issue to be part of that gathering. So the devil is very, very smart and very, very calculated and very, very manipulative. Right, the messenger sallallahu Sallam said, Can I use a shape on after idolatry was destroyed in Mecca and Medina and the presence of the Holy City, the messenger sallallahu wasallam said that the devil has become despondent to re ignite polytheism and idolatry in the sacred land, when I can fit the Harish ebina home. But he has changed his strategy. He has changed his strategy in that he will now mislead people by creating conflict amongst them. So the devil as humans have evolved, the devil then gives us an idol in a different

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form and shape. And then we idolize it and we reveal it and we attach the same amount of significance to it. So yes, he cannot reignite idolatry in Mecca and Medina. But that doesn't mean those people cannot succumb to the influence of the devil when I can fit the Hershey bar you know whom the Prophet sallallahu wasallam says that he will create dissension and division amongst them. So, some people the devil will mislead them by indulging in Riba and backbiting and others that devil will keep them to enjoy the discussion to enjoy the discussion. You know, I read in the writings of the great scholar Mufti Tati Hafiz Allahu taala, WA, that on a particular instance, he

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wrote in a journal, and in one of his publications, he wrote about the harms of backbiting. So some very prominent individual responded to his article and challenged him and told him that I find it very strange that you have spoken about the ills of backbiting. And you have really portrayed this to be very repugnant, and deplorable and detestable etc. But if that is the case, and backbiting is so unpleasant than the truth be told, there is no spice left in our social gatherings, because social gatherings become meaningful. When after a barbecue you serve. You chill, you relax, you socialize you chit chat and in your chat chat. Your discussion then strays into gossip, and then

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someone sensationalizes it and someone adds some different dimension. And that's how the social gatherings you know, just linger on. And that's how there's meaning and flavor to it. So

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if you say that backbiting is so forbidden, then well, there's no excitement in a social gathering. So So behind the law, look at the response of this scholar, he said, Okay, if that's that's what you say that there's no excitement in a gathering in a social event without backbiting. Then here we have it, we informing you in advance that next week, we are going to have a get together, and we're going to have a meal. And we're going to have a social gathering. And it's going to follow there after what some social discussions and some gossip and you're going to be the focus of our gossip, you're going to be the focus of our gossip. But of course, you're not invited because we're going to

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be talking about you. So he's like, No, not at all. That's unacceptable. I will never accept that. Subhan Allah. So then the scholar replied, and said, well, you will never accept it for you for yourself. But why is it that you wanted that the same must be said about others, that you want your gathering. You know what to be sensationalized and you want to indulge in backbiting about others, but you don't want others to do the same to you. And that's the problem of life. If we can learn this one principle

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There's one principle that

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we like for ourselves, what we, we love for others what we like for ourselves and we dislike for others, what we dislike for ourselves and it doesn't mean literally, it means liking the best for others as you like the best for you and disliking something inferior for others as you just like it for yourself, then life will be very, very different. So, just to recap here again, he said that the IRS ought to be protected from listening to you know what, reprehensible innovation of Riba backbiting or willful harsh, any form of obscene immorality.

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Do you know what my brother and you know what my sister Islam doesn't even allow impoliteness of speech harshness of speech to anyone, anyone? believer or disbeliever. That type of language foul language, condescending, derogatory, inflammatory. vituperative language is something that Islam opposes. Very, very strongly. So said now Omar de la Miranda who had an altercation with a non Muslim and in that some harsh words were exchanged. And these these verses were revealed in the 15 Jews in Surah, Benny israa al Abadi Nicola de acid in a shape Ananda Cobain, a woman in a shape and I can insert any I don't want Medina and say to my servants Jaco, they should utter ality that he

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accent which is the best in the shape and eons ago benina whom verily the devil creates friction and disunity amongst them. So sometimes you sit in in the gathering and you want to utter a word and you feel like wow, you know what, that's great but your ears are sending because you are enjoying the discussion or will hold the field battle. mm Rosati, Rahim Allah says, or then people are talking about falsehood, right? And Allah says this in the Quran, ya da da da da da Hong Fei Tina for it.

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Yo v Hades in re imagine Sanjana cache Ponyo. Fela Takara de banda Vikram Tomi Vani mean that what you thought are eaten Latina. Yo, Donna. Tina, if you see people delving and mocking and scoffing at the verses of Allah for our divine home, then move away from them Do not be part of that gathering. We're in my uncle Nikesh a pawn and if the devil made you forget and you sat down there, sometimes people are laughing, mocking scoffing at the tenets of Islam or the teachings of Islam or religion in its entirety or making blasphemous comments just in suppose that uma or lightheartedness fanatic,

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calm his body mean, no sooner Do you reflect, stand up and leave such a gathering?

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Oh, they claim muscle weakness, or it's a gathering where people are talking about the faults of others. I have a flash of one of the great quotations of hakimullah Amara himolla. Wow. He said such a profound thing. He said in your social gatherings, don't even speak about the good qualities of others. Not because it's forbidden, that's noble, that's great. That's meritorious. But then what happens? You start off speaking about the good of people, but you don't end there. People say that in prayer. What should you think of? Ideally, reflect on the verses? Ideally, reflect on the verses? You know what if you could understand the Quran that's the best thing. So someone says Well, okay,

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can I picture the Kaaba, great, wonderful picture, the Kaaba, but my brother, I'm afraid when you're going to start visualizing the Kaaba, I don't think you will stay there, your gaze will then move around into many other things. And unfortunately, how many times it happens while a person is performing a circuit around the Kaaba, then, if he doesn't restrain himself, his gains can restrain that his gaze can stay there and he can grow his gaze. I know of a great scholar and I heard this incident from him myself, where a person once came to him in Medina. And he said to him that I had this dream, what does this mean? And the scholar said to him, this is an indication that you are

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abusing your sight in the sacred city of the messenger, sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So very well, in in in Salah, you start visualizing the Kaaba, but then your eyes move on to many other things in your thoughts in your assumption, you know, so when you're sitting in a gathering, it's great to talk good about people. But let's be honest, you're going to start off saying good, and then someone is like, Yeah, well, actually, you know what? Well, I know something else. But yeah, no, no, no, tell me. What's it brother? No, nevermind. You know, I don't really mean it. I don't want to say so. People like to make a disclaimer, so I'm not backbiting I'm not backbiting. It's just something I'm

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discussing. What that's hogwash. That's how go

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You are literally backbiting The only thing is you appeasing yourself by making a forward disclaimer that is not backbiting. So it's literally backed by demand. Hang on, I don't want to back back. I don't want to speak ill of anyone. That's not my motive, but just to mention, thank you. Thank you. What is that? That's nothing but backbiting. The only thing you are saying is that you are not backbiting What did the messenger sallallahu wasallam say?

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In the lab delay attack Allah mobile Kalamata Mensa hottie La la la casa, sometimes a person at is something of the disobedience of the Almighty Allah European cabeza, he doesn't consider it to be wrong. Well, I don't think that was, I think, yeah, it was. It was just correct for me to say someone had to say at some point, it needed to be communicated and transmitted. So well, I mustered the courage and I was bold enough and I think I was honest and candid, and I said it Yeah. If others need to convey to him good luck, so be it.

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So what did the prophets Allah ism says, He says something wrong and then he feels it's not wrong? Yes. elope. You have a 90 john Abraham Albanian majority well Muslim, but that will cause him a drop into the depths of *. A distance which is greater than the distance between the East and the West. May Allah protect us. May Allah protect us. You know, in Arabic, they say man nucleolar elago local anchor, mundo de La La Liga. nucleolar anchor,

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the one who carries the tails of others and conveys it to you and and feeds your ears with information. He's like that she's like this. They like this. Yeah. And you listening? Don't be a fool. And don't be so naive. He's taking your messages and passing it on to others as well. So anyway, we speaking about the sins of the ears, the sins of the ears. Allah says in the 15 Jews in a summer well basara

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Lola a caca Anna and houmous Ola in the summer verily your ears well basara your vision well for our then your your heart kulula econ and houmous oola. You will be questioned about this in detail for in Canada smappee. Hi Kalam, Allahu Allah. Allah has given you ears to listen to the Quran, Allah has given you ears to listen to the Quran, and Sunnah. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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once when I was doing a workshop with people that are hardier in and have speech impairment in the UK, in Birmingham, and I had a private one on one workshop with them, and it was very emotional. And after the session was concluded, I was speaking and then there was someone interpreting and of course, they were conveyed it in sign language, which was then interpreted to me and back and forth. And then I just asked them, you know, what is the thing you yearn for the most? What is the thing you bind for the most? What is the thing you pined for the most and two answers were given? One brother said I cry and I bind for two years. I just I just bind to your the sound of anon the corner

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calling out to adorn in Tempe will often in there is the quotation of Abdullah Nam Bertha de la Miranda who said lo Yara Ala Moana Summa yaku Lumo. Xin Mustapha wala Namo. If the people truly could comprehend the message of the color of Amazon Mustapha wala na mo, they would be awake, they would be vigilant, they would respond to prayer. I always say our ears are super sensitive about the beep of the phone. But when it comes to Amazon, our ears are dead. Like so many times I thought my phone beep or not really. So we assume a beep when it did not beep right. And the other one is called out and unfortunately we ignore it. And the second brother said, The thing I find for most is

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to hear the voice of my mum to hear the voice of my mum. La ilaha illAllah in La Jolla. catolica de Tesla bihac Olam Allahu taala Allah has given us these ears

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so that we listen to the Quran was so natto Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam imagine the privilege the Hadith is in Buhari in the first volume, AB de la hora de alano narrates it, where he speaks about the privilege that Allah had given to the noble companions working in our soul online here to Nikita either Shaka Maru from in alpha Jerrys Yo, Oran alhuda barra de la foto de buena de mon Tina

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Kala want to be doing your Jaffe jumbo and firangi he is a stuffs pallet Bill mushrikeen alma bhongir Oh, wow, what a privilege rafina and Amanda rasulillah is the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam someone asked similarly

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Taka, Taka, Polina Shea unusual waipuna illa regenda that tell us something that will stimulate us and motivate us and propel us and spur us towards paradise. So he said,

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Fie horses Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, what more can I tell you about Jana? Other than the fact that in general is the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, that is the greatest thing I can tell you, Allah He happily, Allah He named Jamie Minka Lavery. Infanta Allah, Moana Merlin Jamie, Ella, Jeannie Minka Lavery. Infanta Ella una Mola, Jamie will happily Phil Medina T. Mustafa run what is gone so Madison and Phil but the poet said oh my lord rescue me from all the trials and the tribulations of this world. net genium in CO living clean for anttila una molal Jamie Ray, you are my guardian and the guardian of all heavily Phil Medina. Timo stocker run blessed me with an

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abode in Medina. summaries can provide me sustenance in the blessing city of the messenger sallallahu wasallam. So my dear friend and Phil Bertie, read, and then make me amongst those fortunate individuals who can rest beneath the soil of Medina. I mean, you're behind me. So what sadhana Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to listen to the teachings of the messenger Salaam, the ears that Allah gave you, La ilaha illa Allah, I have a flesh now in my mind, and I credited this to the Almighty, which I heard from one of my scholars. One of the scholars of Hadith is a person by the name of heart him a son, heart him Hatem Assam rahima Hola, La ilaha illa Allah, this

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is so amazing, and the scholars will appreciate this. So there is Mahadev Miss Roop. Right. Miss Roca literally means someone who was kidnapped who was kidnapped. So it is said that in his childhood, he was kidnapped. And a son literally means someone who is hard urine who is deaf. Right. So hi, Tim is one of the scholars that featured in the narrations at him Islam. He was known as hot him, as I'm deaf, how dare they say he was not hard urine. He was not hard urine. He was sitting in a gathering he was sitting in a gathering, and someone passed when someone passed when someone released flatulence.

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So people had a chuckle at it. And again, we learn from the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. He said, Why do you laugh?

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at something which happens to you as yourself? Why would you laugh at something which happens to you as yourself, each one of us by the will of nature and the system of our body? That just as we pass a stool and urine at times we need to release when and flatulence as well. And why would someone laugh in fact, under this ayah in the 20th Jews in the 29th chapter, the chapter on the spider where Allah speaks about the evils that were found in the nation of loot alayhis salam, what to do Neff ina de como el buen Kar Wai tuna Vina de como la Mancha la de come in your club in your gathering you commit evils and one of the evils it's mentioned that a person would pass when and then everybody

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would just laugh and you know just have a good chuckle and marketing and that would be like something of entertainment.

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So how to assume Rahim, Allah was sitting in a gathering someone past when, and everybody like, Whoa, what was that? Who was that? And he, he acted as though he was deaf. He heard the sound and obviously he got the stench, but he pretended that he was deaf. So from that day onwards, he was recorded as hot him as some the narrator who is hard urine. But that was the deliberate move on his part to conceal. You know, what? The mistake of an individual subsequently it came to life, that he was not deaf. He was not deaf, but that was a conscious move on him so that it doesn't lead to any embarrassment of a person Subhana Allah, to what extent would they protect the ears of the ladnier

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Amara, the Allahu anhu passers by a place where music is being played out and there is like, you know, sinful activity. And then he put his ears his fingers in his ears are actually comes about nothing, nothing. Nothing. Who was the student of Abdullah Muhammad Ali Alanna, right? So if you see Emma Malik's famous book of Hades

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Etta and Malik unafraid, an evening Omar and Malik unathi an evening Omar, the Silsila to the hub, as we refer to it, so in my Malik narrates from nothing, and then nothing remains narrated from Abdullah Muhammad Ali Allahu anhu. So anyway, one day Abdullah,

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nothing was passing by one day nothing was passing by. And there was some music playing around and there was some other activities. So he put his fingers in his ears, and he kept on, you know, hastening his pace till he went past there. And then he said, once I seen Abdullah Amara, the Allahu anhu, he passed by a place in which there was some sun and there was some music, and precisely he blocked his ears off, he blocked his ears off, and then he crossed through that and that reminds me a verse of the Quran in the 1950s and sort of farrakhan Allah says that,

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well, Nadine, Allah shadowed Hazara Rama, Rama, Rama, Rama, Rama, that Allah speaks about Ramadan, the selected servants of Allah. Language whodunnit Zhu, Zhu can have two interpretations, and both are authentic by the consensus of all the scholars say the shadow can mean to give testimony lie your shadow in a zoo, they do not give false testimony, or shahida shadow can have the meaning of

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a lie.

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They do not attend or participate in evil gatherings. What I'm dumb Sammy do unto himself samidoun one translated out of Sami dunia also refers to indulging in heedless things of music, entertainment, etc.

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So Allah says the pious are those that lawyers had on a zoo. They do not attend. You know what a place of sin, a concert of violence transgression in morality, what is our Maru bill way, but it's a world right? You're not living in an ideal world, you're not living in a glass home. So sometimes you compelled to pass by places where immorality is being displayed. What is our Maru be lovely Maru kerama. And when they pass by, they pass by with dignity, what do they do, they hasten their pace, they restrain their gains, they block the ears, and they despise the crime perpetrated in that venue and not the individual himself. So unfortunately, our situation is the direct opposite. When

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somebody commits a crime, we despise the perpetrator. But Allah forbid, we love the crime itself. So sometimes my profile or my position becomes a blockage for me I cannot unknown and prominent and respected I cannot attend a venue like this year. So probably I would hang around and drive around in the neighborhood or in the precincts of that place. And then like Oh, so and so is there and he's there and she's there, and I despise the individual, but unfortunately, I'm fond of the crime, whereas the teachings is the other way around. Abu Dhabi Alanna seen someone people were mocking at someone who had committed a crime. And he said don't hate him. Don't hate him, despise the wrong and

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don't despise the individual. And the analogy of that given is very beautiful. Is that a mom? When her baby and her toddler has, you know what made boo in in the diaper in the love for the baby. The mom doesn't leave the diaper on because obviously that the baby has has made a boo and has has messed his or her diaper. So now I love my child. It's okay. I'm very fond of my child. I don't care what people say no, no, I don't despise my child. I need to get rid of the impurity I need to get rid of the impurity. So she takes you know, selflessly. She she rolls his sleeves up and she cleans her child and cleanses her child and then she embraces the same child. anyway the point is that use

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your ears to listen to the right things. What that was certainly highlight is the fact that you listen to with with knowledge, ears play a vital part, right? The aim of it is is to to to benefit. So we've been taught canale men become a scholar or metalman or become a learner. Oh must stamey iron or listen to them both attentively our mo have been or love them all. Guna element become a scholar or matar limit or a learner almost me I'm less than less than so using your ears for the right reason.

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And, you know, the scholars I mentioned this in the point of hikmah in the point of hekima, that when a fetus and we talk of embryology right in, in the 23rd Jews, Allah subhanho wa Taala speaks about it, which today, embryologist will tell you and Gynecologists will tell you and scientists will tell you and doctors will tell you, but 14 centuries ago Allah told us YOLO can fail

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Tony Almighty calm Hello coming back to the helping field automatic fellas that Allah creates you and fashions you in three layers of darkness. That's the abdomen, that's the womb and that's the membrane and that's what

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the doctors will tell you today. But the Quran Subhana Allah had spelled it out 14 centuries ago. Now, when we talk of embryology in the Quran and embryologist will expound on it, we know that nutrition reaches the fetus, via the navel via the navel, and and when the child is born, then you detach the umbilical cord, you detach the umbilical cord, and and, and and the orlimar have written on this, that the mouth is the means through which food is consumed in the world, but in the fetus, in the womb of the mother, Allah subhanho wa Taala did not make it that the child receives nutrition through the mouth, but rather the blood is transmitted the blood is transmitted through the navel

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via the umbilical cord, there is a system of of blood and other impurities that take place there. So Allah preserve that tongue, Allah preserve that tongue, the tongue is a respectful organ, Allah preserved it. And then of course, when human comes out and he consumes halaal, and pure etc. It is said that nature has preserved and protected our tongue in the divine factory of Allah in the three layers of darkness from any form of blood, no impurities coming on to it. And when we grow up and we develop speed, we use the most foul and in polite and harsh and vulgar of language. May Allah protect both our tongue and our ears from listening to the forbidden for either a songwriter Bihar

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Illa j immunol, mcherry sobre Makana la collega, one caliber McKenna, Saba fossick fissara, Saba hanaki, La Jolla to Hassan Subhana Allah. So if you were to listen to something that is disliked, then what is in your favor will become against you, your ears through which you can listen to something good and earn the reward of Allah. Now that very ear has become a liability for you. You are using it to listen to something wrong and forbidden. And what's the consequences of that. And whatever was meant to be a source of your success will now become a source of your destruction. What was supposed to be an asset for you becomes a liability for you. And this is the ultimate loss to

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Haasan. Imagine your very wealth on which you realign becomes the cause of your destruction. When I don't know if my office will be HIPAA will do well, Mr. Mayor, and don't deceive yourself. Don't deceive yourself, that the sin is limited to the one who, who blurts it, Who is it? Who uses the vulgarity and the one who lessons is rescued from it? No, not at all. The one who attends It is essential. And likewise, the one who listens to it is also sinful. We move on to the next organ, because we talk about its deniable mercy to try. See, the reality of it is

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there are so many sins, there are so many sins, we have not even realize that this is a sin. So when we haven't realized it's a sin, there is no conscious effort to abstain from it. Because according to me, I am not even committing a sin. Right. So the Arabic poet said libata yada no painless to Allah Maha Allahu Allah Allah Mojave Silva, Annie Maha llama la Mani Hi, I'm Melanie waka dama de to them be wise to Ronnie tomorrow Rosa to a yummy Bella netta Meanwhile, our hope in Allah buka in Wella has any analogy yoga liquid, bamboo Gita hidden Alma RC What are you know love la heatons Ronnie? Yes, a Latin Latin Paddy ketubot Latin pudukkottai but you know it's a very long amazing

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poem. He says Well, he Baka Zubin and I have so many cents less to Allah Maha. I don't even know that they are sense. Allahu Allah Hafiz Sidley. Well, Anthony, but of course Almighty knows about it. Mala Mala Annie. Hi, I'm Helen II. Allah is so gracious and kind that he gives me respect and grace and leniency Wakata my day to feed them be way a Sunni I persist on my crime and he continues to conceal me tomorrow Rosa to a yummy Bella and Adam in Walla Walla Boca in Wella has a name I continue to send as though there's no tomorrow as though there's no accountability, right? When Allah speaks about fraudsters, those that cheat in their dealings that What does Allah say? It looks

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like they forgot that they have an interview with me. That's why they can be so blatant and brazen and arrogant. Allah you

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Nola aka Anna Houma baru soon. Leo Mina Javi him yo ma como una sola, Bella elemi, la la la la, la, la, you know, have these people forgotten that something like resurrection? And there's something like accountability and there's something like an interview before me.

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So there's so many of our crimes we don't even know. And and I need to know I have an illness for me to seek treatment and for me to avoid the things to compound my illness, and if I don't know I'm diabetic, then I'm not going to watch my sugar. I'm not going to monitor my sugar. If I don't know I have a thyroid problem. whether an active overactive or underactive thyroid, I don't know I'm just going to be eating things and I'm going to exacerbate I'm going to compound the problem I'm going to you know, increase it and inflict it because I don't know so there are so many of my crimes I don't even know what to listen for in the holy Pelican he took therapy has a Corolla he tala what the law

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faculty cafaro tavini rahmatullah wa available acaba La la la la la healthy whether your coolness affinity Allah mana him in Hassan II do elsina to him, the tongue wall.

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That's probably where the most of us flaw, the vision, the eye and the tongue.

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The Prophet sallallahu wasallam said emilich amulek in a narration he said three things. He said that Emily Kelly Kelly Sonic, when Leah succubi took what became a hottie attic, Emily Kelly Kelly cernak restrain your tongue. Monitor your tongue, control your tongue, harness your tongue Emily Kelly Kelly Sonic. And then what did he say? He said that when Kobe took let your house accommodate you stay indoors for too badly. abdon Ollie? Tara Daria for too badly. abdeen oleaca dari ha mahalo petal Abu Dhabi Mohan Hey jhabua It's a concluding stanza in a long bone of boom of Imam Shafi Rahim Allah wa Miyazaki dunya for him to her watseka Elena as Bahasa baja Fela Amara la hora nwaba trilla.

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Kamala filati Sarah boo, ha, Wow, amazing, amazing couplets. Then he says for two barely I've been fortunate is the one only at Takara darina. Who can stay indoors who can find comfort in his space, who doesn't need to venture unnecessarily out mohalla Patel Mohan hijaab, Oh Ha his doors are bolted, his curtains are covered and he stays indoors he ventures out for necessity, the province lrsm said amulek alikhan Asana harness your tongue take care of your tongue. In Arabic They say gentlemen who has severe German who could be a small piece of flesh. But if this tongue is one thing wrong, the consequences are catastrophic, catastrophic. And in Arabic They say I remember I read

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this in the harsher of coffea which is a book on our back in the years subsequently I read it in many other books.

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That the injury of an arrow can be can be you know what you can treat it you can nurse it you can medicate it and hopefully you can rehabilitate it. Somebody you know injured you with an arrow or with a spear or with a bullet, you know, hopefully you can address it, but the injury and the arrow of the tongue rarely Can you repair that wound rarely Can you repair that wound. And the last thing the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said in that particular Hadith Rebecca Allah hottie I take cry over your son's May Allah make us amongst those people. So what I meant listen with regards to the tongue it has been created for you only so that you could spend much time in the remembrance of the

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Almighty glory find your Lord with your tongue, right Allah speaks about every creation Golan tada Allah masala, who let us be ha a verse of the 18 Jews in Surah. To know every creature instinctively knows how to praise its creator. How often do we use our tongue to praise the almighty? I believe his whole life I believe his whole life. You you you go to bed there's a prayer. You. You stand up from bed there is a prayer. You are close and intimate with your spouse prior to intimacy. There is a prayer you

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Enter the washroom there is a prayer, you exit the washroom there is a prayer. And at every moment What is it? you're thanking Allah? I mean, here's a simple prayer simple, I say, in the sense that we all know it. Otherwise nothing is simple in the sense of trivial, simply because these are the rich and impeccable teachings of the messenger sallallahu wasallam. Everything is profound, profound, and it is a testimony of His Prophet would, because no human can coin these phrases. No human can construct these sentences other than the inspiration and revelation on a Nabhi a person goes to the bathroom or the washroom sometimes he has the urge to pass urine. Sometimes he has the

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urge to pass stool, and sometimes he needs to release some gas and flatulence. Look at the teachings of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when exiting from the washroom from the bathroom Subhan Allah What did the messenger sallallahu wasallam say? La franja ghofrani

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ghofrani is a mushroom the fail is McCotter, not to Nobuko franak, our law we seek your forgiveness. Why? Because while I was in the washroom and the bathroom, the venue did not allow for me to verbally praise you the location the venue, it's a place where there's demons does not it's a place where private areas are exposed. So in that particular venue I was unable to I was unable to verbally glorify you not to know or frantically ask for your forgiveness. Alhamdulillah hymnody as the hub I'm Neil other, All praise belongs to Allah, who has flushed from my system, all that which created discomfort to me, be it urine pH to be gas, it had created discomfort in my body, person as

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the problem of constipation. A person has difficulty in passing urine or whatever the nature ease. So Alhamdulillah All praise belongs to Allah as the Hubba who has removed unneeded that and other other that which had caused me difficulty What are funny and he comforted me Alhamdulillah Hilary Aha, Jani. All praise belongs to Allah who has revived me after a long night of sleep, we're in a new shoe, and to him ultimately, is the resurrection. So we ought to keep our tongues minds in the remembrance of the Almighty at each time.

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What to Russia, he Hulk Allahu taala. In authority, by virtue of the tongue, you invite people you use your tongue, to inspire to guide to motivate people towards the good. We're totally here. Robbie Murphy, wwami Rickman, hijo de de Nicola Tanya, and of course, you know, in in mantech, they speak about the Bauhaus and the discussion of alpha. so so in Arabic the word love of love word means a word right? It's a verse in between six Jews, Allah subhanaw taala speaks about it in in Surah to pass my Alfredo min Po Lin manual filmin Tolin Illa Allah de irati buena it that whenever a human actors lafonda yellow fever means to utter to her too blurred to say something. So manual filming

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Tolin whatever you add in La batla D The ease by him. Rocky bonati there is a guardian that captures it.

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There is the incident of a man and I read it in the writings of Ubuntu Raja Hambali Rahim Allah, where he was mounted on to his conveyance, and then he slipped and he fell. So he said that I sell him our ob to this donkey, the silly donkey, the silly animal. So the angel who records the good said Maha Maha Sena on October ha, this is not a good action. So the donkey, I mean, I cannot capture this is a good deed. It's not it's not glorifying Allah is not a kind words, I'm not going to record this as a virtue. What are the Sahaba Shema here, say atone activa and the angel record in evil said, well, it's not the most palatable or pleasant of statements. But then again, it's not a

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virus or a sin or wrong per se, so I'm not going to record it. So now suddenly, the human has uttered a statement and neither of the angels want to capture it for Oh Allahu Allah Sahaba Shimon that Allah inspired the angel which Allah speaks about. La comme la harfield Lena Karam and Katie Bina Yara Muna Mata followed by Allah wa rasuluh una de him Yakubu, the angels that are capturing and recording Allah inspired the angel that's recording evil and said to that Angel, matara, Casa de boulia mean him in shame, Shane in facto that the screening process of any utterance will be done by the angel that records good. So in the angel, the record

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Good does not consider it to be noble, then it will be classified sinful, and it will be captured in the data base of the angels that record our evil La ilaha illa Allah La ilaha illa Allah, how many things my brother and my sister throughout the day selling him nasty this? You know, we just utter these things casually, casually without thinking least about it, and the consequences.

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So anyway, for either stack melta who for either Stan melta, who live at mahonia tallac if you were to abuse your tongue, suffered cassata Bina Mattila, then surely you have displayed ungratefulness and in gratitude to the bounties of the Almighty well, who were available at a bar iica aleikum wa Taala Sir, it is healthy, whether your Kubernetes scenario Illuminati him in the Hassan al scene at him that remember that tongue is that part of the body most able to overpower both you and other creatures, and the majority of people will be hurled into * on their faces for nothing other than the harvest of their tongues for nothing other than the harvest of the tongues. The Prophet

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sallallahu Sallam gave a set number after the Allahu anhu you know many advisors do this, do this do that. Then he said Allah or Kaberuka be milaca vaniqa Colet, should I not give you a synopsis, a summary a gist of everything he said do the messenger sallallahu Sallam then took out his blessing tongue. And he said take care of this take care of this. How often my brother and how often my sister we hurt people and we say very very insensitive things to people. Are you still not married? Are you still don't have a job? Are you still renting? Are you still don't have kids? You still drive that old car? Subhanallah

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Did you pause for a moment? Did you think Did you apply your mind? You're touching the Sona you're touching the soul nerve. He wants to get married. He wants children. He wants a daughter he wants a son but that's in the world of a ladder. It's not coming his way. And you are just going on that same point insensitive as you can be and you are breaking his heart. You're breaking his heart You are shattered in his art May Allah protect us.

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First of all here La Jolla Tito botica hasta la jacoba caffitaly jahannam Seville Hades in Narayan la takala Mobile kalama for Yahoo Eb haffi jahannam Sabrina hurry Eva. So Abu Mohammed Rosati, Rahim Allah says, So struggled to gain victory over your tongue with all your mind, struggle to gain victory. You know, I often say people ask, teach me how to speak. Give me some oratory, advises, transfer, some oratory skill, everybody wants to learn how to speak well, if there's an art of speaking my brother. There's also an art of observing silence. We need to learn the art of observing silence, that sometimes it's nothing but just silence just to restrain your tongue. And in that is

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safety to say da da da da man who said man Nadeem to Allah suku t Mr. Ratan wala Kadena dem to Ll Kala me Mira madam to Allah suku t ma Ratan Tata Nadeem to Ll Kala me Mira in my life in an altercation when I observed the silence subsequently in hindsight, when I re assessed everything, I never regretted my silence, but I always regretted my speech. Why did I speak? Why did I blurt Why did I retort Why did I respond? So my silence I never ever regretted it. But my responding and retorting was something that I always regretted and ignored the truth pilloried Rahim Allah said multicolumn to Kelly mutton Illa de la Hui jawaban en de la. I never uttered any statement but I

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premeditated it I gave it thought I applied my mind. I said, If allowed to ask me, Why did I utter this year? I first calculated prepared my response then I spoke Subhan Allah Subhana Allah

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wa cotulla he don't feel Murray catifa para la Ilona honey and la hora Jana for Paulina Bo sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, ma u de como de la Luca tikkun olam FEMA Jani. bahal Bhima la De La Hoya Allahu Akbar is a Hadith, right where a martyr was killed in a battle and someone then sprays them and said, Honey Angela, who is Jenna, how lucky

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He is he has earned the paradise and the messenger sallallahu Sallam said, and how do you know that? And how do you know that? This is the martyr in the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Allah speaks about those that have been monitored while our attack Subhan Allah Vina cootie lofi Sabine Ilaha Amata Bella endora beam euro zacco Farina Bhima de Humala, hoomin fatale, but what did the messenger sallallahu Sallam say? How do you know? It may be that he used to speak of something which did not concern him, or he was miserly over things, which were of no benefit to him in any way, either due to his miserliness, or due to him uttering things that did not concern him. It could

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create an impediment it could impede, it could impede and block his entry into gender.

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My brother, my sister, I have a flash of a Hadith, right?

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Our shadow the ally, the beloved honorable, venerable August, consort of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she one day made a reference with her hand regarding the stature and the physique and the height of her co wife, the spouse of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, Sophia rhodiola and her and she said her spooker Min, Sophia Takeda, work as Attorney pasila and it's an authentic narration that are suffering your spouse or your loved one and her, she is short, she is short, and that was the statement and the gesture and the expression. The messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to our isharo de la la Loctite the cool t calima laughter difficulty calima Asia you have

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uttered a statement that if this statement were to be placed in the water, it would pollute and dilute and contaminate the oceans. La ilaha illAllah La ilaha illAllah our mother our Isha is pure. She is the pure rest of the pure Ola a como para una me Maya Kowloon owner a como para una Maya, Oppo Lord, Allah exonerates her against the allegations that were hurled against her by the Manasa T and others. She is the purest of the pure, she is the most noble she's the most chaste yet. she exclaimed. A tongue is clean, and lips are clean, anatomy is clean. But one statement of hers was not palatable, was not pleasant. And the ill effect the repercussion. The consequences of that is

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that it would contaminate the waters of the ocean, pause for a moment bye brother, my existence is impure, my anatomies impure, my tongue is impure, my lips are impure, everything of me is impure. And then I blurred statements like this year, and I heard people and I offend Can you imagine the negative impact that has on the atmosphere we talk of, you know what eco friendly, eco friendly, right? And nowadays, aircrafts are releasing less emissions that are less toxic to the atmosphere, so that there is an atmosphere of pollution and noise pollution and the rest of it. Can you imagine the pollution our vices are causing in terms of our feeling?

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There is an incident mentioned that the Sahaba was setting and then there was a stench. So someone was asked, What's this foul smell? I said, this is the effect that some hypocrites were backbiting about the Muslims. So the atmosphere became so toxic, and the environment became so polluted and diluted. So Furthermore, then in interviews, often in the question is asked, Are today's so much backbiting so much gossip so much vulgar? Then how come we don't feel the atmosphere to be toxic? And the reply is given is that the atmosphere has become so toxic that we've become immune to the toxins, right, and I'm not talking in the literal toxins about the virus and the bacteria. And then

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I'm talking about the ill effects of vulgarity and obscene language.

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For the listener come in samanya tashia. So protect your tongue from eight cents, eight cents, which is going to touch on the first one today and wrap it up. So that that was just an introductory aspect to the tongue. And then Abrahamic because Allah says there are eight crimes. So Buddha totally he died. That's the book we doing. You can see there because of you.

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The time is running out. He speaks about eight crimes offenses, violations transgressions and sins of the tongue. Further dishonor. caminho allocatable The first being a lie. Wow. Wow.

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Life is so repugnant to Allah so deplorable to Allah, that Allah capital's the prohibition of a lie with the prohibition of idolatry. So in the 17 years in Surah MBR Allah says, fajita neighborliness rageous aminul outsunny watani bucola Zoo abstain from fujitani ridges Amina our Thorn from the impurity of idols. What a tiny boo and abstain polis Zoo from speaking ally.

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So the scholars tell us, we can appreciate the repugnance and the evil nature of a lie from the fact that Allah paid its prohibitionist with the most evil of crimes and that is idolatry. Fact for the listener. caminho. fille de Waal has really wanted to outwit knifes aka al Qaeda has learned to guard your tongue from lying both in seriousness and ingest in seriousness as in just now, just for lightheartedness, just for humor, just for some banter, just to flavor the moment just to relax the ambience just to cheer people up. No, no, no, no, no, no. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has prohibited us from speaking a lie whether it be earnest or just for yet a da llj de Falcons boom

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in Omaha till kabbah L. So speaking Allah is from the major and the deadly sins, it is from the major and the deadly sins. So my inika either or if Tabitha Alec sutra 33 to be Tolik. What does the recoil

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iraq Wow, look at Abu Hamid ghazali men are just his words are so amazing. More. Moreover, if you become known for lying, people will lose confidence in your word must trust you and look down upon you. He's a lie. I don't trust him. I don't I don't trust him. Really. I don't trust him. You've thrown your word away. That's it, because by your own way, you've compromised it you have spoken alive. So

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the Arab during his period of sin and vice, they had the pagan Arab right. They had committed a host of crimes, but they were known for some amazing qualities. They were known for some amazing qualities. So of course, there was idolatry there was killing. There was betting that daughters alive, there was rivalry. There was a narky. They would fight over trivial things. But then hospitality was the Arab was just unique. He would put a levee spread for anyone and everyone he would honor his guest and honesty in the Arab was just outstanding. Have you forgotten the hadith of Bokhari my brother? Do you recall that my sister right in the beginning, when hirako the Roman

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Emperor had summon Abou soufiane, who at that time was not a Muslim? Nay, he spearheaded all the anti Islamic campaigns. And then through makalali through Germany, he he said to the translator that asked this, what can I do to jaren bisha What can we do to jaren be Sham, and it was Sofia and his delegation was on a business mission. Because Surya was the economic hub, it was the China of today. It was the economic hub, it was thriving, and it was bustling with the economy, so people ever there. And so about soufiane and his group were traveling and then they were you know what? invited by miracle. And then he asked who from amongst you knows this man, Mohammed Salah lies and because

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hirakata had received a letter in the mail room, the prophet SAW some wrote to the Roman Emperor, he's His Excellency Illa Avi my room, the prophet SAW some dignified him with the necessary protocol of respect because the Sahaba said this is how they are addressed.

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And so then he summoned Abu Sofia and he said, I'm going to ask you a few questions about this man. Because you said you from Makkah and you know him, and then he said to those behind if he speaks the truth and affirm him and if he speaks a lie then below him, Abu soufiane said, one lie he low level higher min, a surah

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My la kids been lucky enough to understand this understand this young Abu sufian at this stage is an arch enemy of Islam. This is a press conference. He's been interviewed by mainstream media. The hostility of Islam is at its peak. They is this subtle and apparent and ongoing hostility animosity antagonism is this is the opportunity for him to speak out against the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. But Abu sufian said,

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if it wasn't not for the fear, that I would be stigmatized, I would be tarnished, my name would be soiled and I would be blemished as a liar. I would have blatantly spoken a lie against Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam. But I had to do one have to either speak the truth. And I know this man will be impressed because the character of the prophets awesome is impeccable. So when you speak the truth, not favoring the person, it's just that the man is so good and clean is just so honest, right? So if you speak the truth about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is only going to be good, because as soon as Jamil Hassan II there is only good

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but these are the words of abuse of yarn. He said, I was tempted to speak ally, but I could not contend with the stigma of Elia La ilaha illAllah, a non Muslim, a foe an adversary hostile to Islam in a climate of hostility and antagonism. Yet he spoke the truth and ultimately the truth rescued him and he brought him into a man so here we go, let's just wrap up on this for either or

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kill him enough sick funds he gives behind a koala nephropathy enough sick and Whoa, what is the particle Asahi? What is the barakallahu What can I think of Alfie? Jimmy Are you been sick for in the collected report? How are you become enough sick bellmen headache from us by the hoomin lyric for your start to be her Who let you come in Kala Mahalo for the total enough seeker bizarrely, whoa, whoa. Let me just give you a summary of this year. Mohammed Casa de la Mola says that

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if you want to know how evil ally is, and ally is an example, because that's what we're talking but any other crime? Then just observe your reaction to a liar? How annoyed how offended how insulted how agitated and frustrated how nasty of him? How wicked of him? How can he do this to me? How could you speak a lie? How could you betray me? But how could you do this behind my back? I just cannot it's unpardonable. unforgivable, I cannot understand this. Exactly my brother. Exactly my sister. So when somebody spoke lie to you, it was so evil. So have you forgotten that when you speak a lie, it is just so evil to others. Everything you do that's wrong. Just observe, just observe when others do

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it. It's so evil. So if I do the same, that it is just so evil to others. And that reminds me of the quotation of Satan or Lockman, and I'll conclude on that. The winds lachemann. When someone asked him that amendment alum, tell Adam, from Who did you learn all your wisdom? And he said, I learned it from evil people. So someone said, I mean, put flesh to the theory, expound elucidate elaborate. How did you acquire your wisdom from evil people had said, Every time I observed someone doing something evil, nasty, unpleasant, uncouth, and I said that's so that's repugnant, that's so deplorable in my eyes. So if I mimic it, it will look evil in the eyes of people. And all I did was

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I abstained from the wrongs of others. And that resulted in me being favored with wisdom, and my name being synonymous to wisdom. We asked the almighty to cleanse us from the sins of our eyes of our ears, we ask the almighty to give us the ability to at least inquire and find out that I'm doing it is it a crime or it's not a crime? You know, we want to query all aspects of our medical health and well being which is great, and it's wonderful, so that we can take measures to increase our immunity and that we do not have compromised unity so vulnerable and susceptible to all forms of bacteria and viruses. We need all quiet about is this a crime that I did with my eyes? Is this a

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crime that I did with my ears it's it's it's sinful to pry into someone's house or to to get into someone's private property etc.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala Forgive us, and May Allah accept from everyone their good actions. And once again, I would like to thank the miftah team. It was an amazing initiative. And it was great being part of the instructors and connecting with them during the month of Ramadan, or suddenly lava masala Marlena Bina Muhammad. While early he was happy he chameleon Well, hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen. So just to have a look at some of the questions I wanted to ask regarding dispelling bad thoughts and suspicions, can we pray something and blow it on someone that has such thoughts?

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So I don't want to go into a whole long story. I don't want to go into whole long story. But yes, that is one of the strong elements of the devil, where he's going to create doubt, confusion, uncertainty, etc. And remember, that is the talent of the devil. So a companion came to the profits allies and I don't know exactly what are the thoughts referred to by the questioner, but obviously they are evil in some form or the other a companion came to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and he said that I have such evil thoughts like an akuna homearama that an akuna homearama.

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dispelling bad thoughts Yes. Okay. An akuna homearama a hub boo la Ameen an ethical lumbee mean an ethical lambay.

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I would prefer being reduced to coal, right, then to articulate the thoughts that gripped my mind. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one narration comes he said that sorry, holy man. That's a sign of pure faith. And in another narration, he said Alhamdulillah he led the Raja Umbra, who else was up. And there's many explanations given to this. In one Hadith, he said, that's a sign of pure Eman beyond a man that is, the devil can only inject the thoughts and that's a sign you're a believer, because if you are not a believer, those thoughts would have been utterances. Right, they would have been realities you would have, you would have expressed it, you would have articulated

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it, you would have believed it, but now you're trying to dispel it. So that's a good sign that you have a man Alhamdulillah Hillary Radha Umrah, who was Russia All praise belongs to Allah, who has limited the matter to whisper meaning that's one interpretation. The only talent the devil God is to whisper he can do more. He cannot make you at 800 I believe so mu z anomalisa. la mina banality shake, he can only decorate evil, he cannot make you indulge in it. So

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this the key thing in this regard is it's this whole academic explanation but it's going to go long, that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said that the devil comes to you. And then he says, who created the sky? So you say Allah, then he tells you who created the earth then you say Allah, then he says, Man holla back. So who created Allah? So now you answer for everything. Allah created this so then who created Allah? So the messengers are awesome said when the devil comes in puts that, that thought and that confusion and that whisper into your heart for Isabella who fell? Yes, that was Bella, then ask protection in Allah. So now this is the key thing to understand my brother, my

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sister, when it comes to the devil, the way out in the Quran is that you ask refuge in Allah from him. So there's no way we can defeat the devil. Because the devil has an upper hand over us he can see us and we cannot see him in the who Yakumo below him in Haifa, latona. Home, it's a verse of the eighth dussehra

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which means the high wall in the in the third quarter where he Allah says that the devil can see you and he cannot see him. So that gives him the upper hand. But when we take amnesty By Allah, Allah can see the devil and the devil cannot see Allah. So in the Quran, you'll see everywhere whenever the whisper of the devil is mentioned, Allah says, read out the villa take refuge take protection. And our altavilla is one of the ways you you you you perform ablution you flush the devil away, you recite Quran, you flush the devil away, you call out the anon you flush the devil away. So you decide to sort of follow suit and as you flush the devil away. So the Prophet sallallahu wasallam

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says, because the devil is referred to insert a tennis harness harness refers to you know, what's worse, harness the sneaking whisperer. So he sits on the heart, when you heat less he comes forward and then he injects the thought when you say rosabella Vanessa he withdraws. phenoxy Mobile harness in Java recognizes it refers to the five planets comes with a higher harness a means to come back, right. So when you say our altavilla he retreats, and when you become an Atlas, he attacks so when the devil comes and tells you that who created Allah, then friendliest, even seek protection in Allah when Li n di E and then desist. Now, there's the whole academic explanation. When we enter he

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says from what you cannot desist from the thought because that's the devil is putting it in you. It's not your choice. You didn't voluntarily Think about it, when we enter here and in the universe was at the scholars

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Tell us desist from focusing on the thought so don't give the thought prominence don't give the thought importance recite are also make widow and inshallah that will give you strength

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please expound on and provide the seed on if 53 of Surah zomer all my servants who have wronged themselves do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed Allah forgives all sins indeed he is most forgiving. Yes boullier Abadi alladhina seraphina Allah unfussy him la takuna tuna Rahmatullah in the La Jolla de Nova in the who who will afford Rahim. So this verse gives a lot of hope. This verse gives a lot of hope and not only this verse, so in the Quran, you will find generally Allah speaks of Paradise and * together, right, generally, pizza shops at Martha Martha. Martha Papa Mola Mola Mola near Manasa. So constantly Allah creates comparisons, this is paradise, but alika hiren Jana

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after making your coffee Narayan ma ma ma ma ma. Ma Ma Ma Ma Ma.

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Ma Ma Mata. melona bossy constantly. So wherever Allah speaks of punishment and mercy, you will notice that Allah first speaks of mercy. Then Allah speaks of the punishment. So Allah lets the mercy discussion comfort nap. Abadi is the 40 inches of the Quran in surah al hijra nappy, nappy informatii buddy My servants and need an algo for Rahim I am the most forgiving her food her food right perpetuals. If Adama Shabaab Rahim, and I'm the most kind, or another be who Allah has abalone, and what unnecessarily as I'll be my punishment is the most severe punishment in the 13 Joe's in the 13th chapter surah Torah the chapter on Sunday in Arabic Allah do Maserati leanness,

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Allah will me him, tell them verily your Lord laduma surah is one who pardons despite the wrong way in Arabic Allah do recall, and at the same time your Lord is one whose punishment is severe as well.

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So there is great hope and I always believe we need to end on hope we need to end there is this hadith where a person

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when a person came to Abu huraira, the olana a woman and she said she's she's referred to in the Hadith as in Morocco, Abu hurayrah. In Morocco, Abu hurayrah, the woman of Abu hurayrah, the sister of Abu huraira, she said that I had committed Zina, then I conceived, and then I gave birth to the child and to conceive my crown and conceal my crime. I killed my child. Is there any hope for me? Is there any hope for me if Nicosia Rahim Allah has made mention of this narration in his Tafseer under the commentary of this ayah in the 19th, Jos and so totally for fun, and that's why I read it. So

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aborted huraira the alarm said no, there's no hope for you. There is no hope for you, there is no hope for you. So she stood up and she said a Holika has personally not will this beauty then didn't burn in * said Navara said I don't know I don't know but I don't see any hope. You committed Xena you conceive you killed your child, no hope. Subsequently. abora Yolanda met the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said oh prophet of Allah woman came to me she asked me ABC XYZ. I said there's no hope. The prophet SAW said no, there's hope for her Bora. There's hope for her Allah has revealed the verse in the Quran in lamentable

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Milan Milan salejaw for Ola ecobank de la la hussaini team Hassan Illa Batman The one top repens What am and brings Emma and why Milan Milan salejaw and performs good deeds for Ola eco Ubud de la la who say to him Hashanah, Allah will convert the wrong into good I was just reading now in Romani, just like three four days back on the strength of Yahya bin Muhammad Rahim Allah under this ayah in Al Hassan it you the happiness

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with Allah says that the vetterli the performance of good deeds verily the performance of good deeds will erase evil will erase evil will obliterate evil. So the Mufasa writes, lamb Yoruba this century lamb Yoruba be century Hatta alpha, while I'm here, Bobby lafree de la ilaha illa La La ilaha illa Allah, Allah is so Kai he didn't say if you commit are wrong, and you follow it by a virtue, he'll conceal you're wrong. He said, No, he'll wipe out you're wrong. And then he didn't stop on that. He said he will not only wipe out you're wrong. If you're genuine and honest and sincere. He will transfer your vibe

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into virtue, he will transfer your voice into virtual. So when the prophet SAW some told this to Abu huraira he started a search for that woman. Finally he met her. And he said, Oh, Sister, I have glad tidings for you that

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Allah subhanho wa Taala has given you hope. She was elated. She was ecstatic that Allah has made an opening for me. So my brother, my sister, there is hope there is hope, be sincere, adopt the measures. And Allah will I just received an email yesterday from a brother it's the last 10 days. Unfortunately, I have the habit of committing Zina, I I repent. I read revert, I repent, I revert I said well lolium to the kneebone Allahu Allahu Allah. Be calm in using a bona fide Allah for geography rule of thumb. If you were not to send then Allah would have created a nation that would sin. Of course, the aim is not to advocate sinning, but it is to give hope to the center in the

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grace of Allah. So the ayat is to say La takuna tomorrow Rahmatullah and that was one of the verses that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had communicated to what she wrote the Allahu anhu, who had assassinated Hamza, the Allahu anhu, the beloved uncle of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, amongst the verses that were given to him to understand the mercy of Allah was this ayah boulia idea, letting us rafiu those My servants who have wronged and oppress takanobu so alguno to pollute water because coup d'etat means worship right? Or mania Kanata min con la la hora sola his opening verses of the 22nd those are my two note what data is to worship and collude with upper means

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That is disbelief up to lead now I must order the alarm to set an agenda ninja to fish and attain Well hello COVID-19 salvation lies in two things. What is it? A Nia to what taqwa have good intentions and fear Allah and destruction lies in two things. What is those two things Allah job self admiration will pollute and despondency. So don't despair, my brother Don't despair, don't be despondent, hope in Allah and Allah as Mercy is most forgiving. Which book Am I reading this book is called Buddha to Li Daya. It is a book of Imam ghazali Rahim Allah it's a very, very beautiful book, wide therapy thread the press has

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you know done the publication of it. It's beautiful Arabic great English and awesome, read a riveting read. Please get hold of it and put your hands on it. You know that this is the book you can have a look at it and you can see it Mashallah. It's a great book and it's amazing. The beginning of guidance, the beginning of guidance,

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advice on how to control our irritation and frustration when people keep touching our sore points repeatedly after years of listening to the same thing. Yeah, it's a difficult thing because look, you're a mom. shaffir Maria Rahim. Allah said minister of labor follow me up for who Mr. Romani. stow de la mirada Hua shavon. If somebody provokes you, and you don't become angry, then you're not a human. You're a mule. Because we are humans, right? A person asked someone for advice. He said, Don't become angry. So the person replied by saying, No, I don't become angry. Others make me angry. I don't become angry people provoke me. So it's your question is very merited brother or sister,

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whoever you are, I would say try and stay away from people who do this year, try and stay away from people because it's negative energy. It's negative energy.

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Of course, the pi is on a different level altogether. It is mentioned about zainul ibtm Rahim Allah that somebody insulted him. So he said to the person that

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that that is what you have said because of what has been exposed to you, Mama sutera, minca Akbar, and the wrong about me that has been concealed from you is much more worse than it. And then he gave him 5000 data humps. And he said that I'm giving you he gave it to the person who spoke ill of him, of course that were those people. So this man was humbled and he was moved to tears. And he said I shadow under coming Allah Mustafa sallallahu sallam, you could only be from the lineage and the descendants of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam to display such character. So ideally, stay away from people you know, someone's got this tendencies got this nature got this temperament that's going to

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just you know, hold things say nasty things insensitive, stay away from them. And if they come in your way, move away, move away. That would be my best easy answer, to develop that level of strength and resilience and composure to be calm and calculated. When someone keeps on telling you things. It's not an easy thing. So the best would be you know, avoid such negative energy

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is that about it? can share divulge an area close to his heart that is affected him deeply while while so hon Allah Oh my word

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So I credit this to the almighty that Allah had the privilege to me to teach the Quran

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you know the entire Quran from the beginning to the end, for close to between 15 to 20 years at the very seminary, which is my alma mater, where I had the privilege of studying as well. And hence, my my passion for Quran had grown during those years and my love for Quran had just increased and increased.

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It's a very, very tough one. It's a very, very tough one to single out one idea, because I find myself consumed and overwhelmed with so many verses of the Quran. And Abdullah Abner a birthday alone who said in Nila it Allah, Allah for our doula and anessa Jamia and Halima Mifflin lady, that often I would get myself I would be into a verse of the Quran.

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Just to set the record correctly, you're in South Africa, it's late night so the fast is ended, right? I know many of our viewers might be fasting still. May Allah bless you.

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After that number, so the alone would say in Nila Allah, I would come upon a verse and then I would be so engrossed in the verse that I would wish that the entire world in creation can understand the ayah like how I have understood it.

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But okay, just on the top of my head, and I'm not, you know, particularly singling out this ayah because there are a few verses that are coming to my mind, but the commentary of this is quite prolonged, and I don't want to touch on the ayah without expounding on it. So there's a verse in the 25th, Jos, in Surah, to shore up and again, it's it's the commentary of Satan Alia of the Allahu anhu in this ayah that just stimulates me in a in a unique direction and that's the beauty of the Quran. So Allah says masaba masaba whatever trial afflicted you, Furby Marchesa, but a deacon

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is because of the doings of your hands is the doing daddy COVID macadamia duck because it's your your actions that is why Allah has tested you masaba Kumasi within shabby Mikasa but a deacon and Kathy and a lot overlooks overlooks the overlooks and Cathedral on majority of you're wrong and your mistakes in Madrid could Tenzin Alemany Sufi in east of Sierra under this ayah has quoted the quotation of earlier of the Allahu anhu and he says have he are Raja

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Phil Quran. This verse gives me the greatest hope in the entire Quran La ilaha illa Allah. So what's the ayah Masako ma is what we call masuleh because you could have nafi or you could have stiff nom but in in grammar and academics we refer to it as masuleh ma what a Samba Samba you see busaba whatever has afflicted you masaba Kumasi been any difficulty adversity, trial affliction etc. is Furby Marcus abet because of the doings of your hands, he said this it gives me the greatest hope. Now. You and I would wonder, I mean, whatever is afflicted us because of what you do, like Hello, where's the hope in this ayah like, like, what what's given a glimmer of hope? But Suhana Lauer did

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set the alarm to say, Leon Nell Karima, Ivanka Martin, Martin O'Hara, because a kind been a kind being an Allah is a mirage. I mean, his role for him is the most kind, a kind being is such that if he subjects you to the consequences of your wrong ones, he will never penalize you again. He will never implicate you again. So this is telling me that Allah is testing me in this world because all my challenges are because of my wrong. That means I won't have to contend with consequences of this wrong and so that's why it gives me great hope the words of Satan audio of the olana captured by alumnus of Metallica, universe of the 25th dussehra to Shura on mutual consultation. That's the

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chapter Subhana Allah. I mean, we think Okay, so now I did so much wrong, so that's why I'm going through it. He said it gives me hope, because that's the nature of a kind being the anila, Karima either altamura Allah is such a test tests you once lie, you argue with Martin O'Hara he will not inflict or test you again. I always say Allah forgives without torrenting and humans don't without forgiving. So yeah, that's one idea that I would share.

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Site a few couplets I I sang so many couplets there on the poetry regarding death. Willie Baka Donovan, let's talk

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Allah Allahu Allah Maha certainly will Eleni

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Well, let me sing this couplets of Sayidina adira. The Allahu anhu. He said,

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You know, I'm very fond of the couplets of Allah the Allahu anhu. So he speaks about how life moves on. He says, A Helen wassa, Helen biofin Nazzal Helen wasa, Helen midwife in Nazzal esto de la in San Rafael de Waal. shaba buka. alum yakun wahala, mushy boo, llamas al, Amal mushy boo for Subhan bada Shabaab alphabet drone fl sokola ohada without near ml muhuali ml Bedell so this is again just off my head what's come to my mind I'm saying, Helen was Alan b biofin. nozzle. He is welcoming old age is well mean old age. He says you know Ireland a data Ireland wauwatosa Holland. That's the field that precedes the master those that are into Arabic grammar. Helen Vasa Helen biofin. bife is

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plural is visited the plural is blue. I welcome the new visitor meaning old age that is setting into my life. Life moving the clock is ticking. And I can see you know, I'm aging and aging

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Dinah's rapidly moving so I welcome old age was told the law in fen Rahal and I bid farewell Elephant Elephant left means and a companion a friend and associate someone who I was familiar with me no matter what afraid of human life, right?

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Well, esto de la elephant Rahel and I bid farewell to my companion that has moved away and that is my youth. The wellness shabba buka lahmacun. The well the well let's Shabaab aka lahmacun so suddenly, and so rapidly, and so permanently, youth has departed, as though I was never young. As though I was never young. It's parted ways with me like I was never young. The wellness shabaka lahmacun

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mushy buka lamea zoll an old age has set in as though I was born own medical science talks of gerontology. When he starts reclaiming all the faculties in installments. The vision is gone, the urine is gone. You were born without vision, you die. You lose your vision. When you came your urine was not developed before you die. Same thing when you are born. It was diapers when you leave and it is diapers. It says there was diapers for kids and now it's adult diapers. When you were born there was no teeth when you leave in there's no teeth to one lash ababu

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esto de la elephant

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shaba boo lahmacun mushy book lm ESL Musha Babu

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Amma Shabaab alphabet drone FL

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all of us left me like how the 14 Full Moon disappeared like how the 14 Full Moon disappeared right? But the better refers to the the full moon so in Arabic You talk of the waxing and the waning of the moon and the different phases and Allah speaks about this in in Surah Yaseen welcome maraca dharna womanizer welcome cammarata darna woman as a lotta regional per diem and the moon we have fixed stations for aid waxing and waning as the terminology in astronomy that they would use for it. So my youth has left me like the 14 full moon that has moved on. Well, I'm Mel mushy boo for superfun badda subtle Ah ha ha de doc cycle sobre la hahaha without May Allah bless my youth that is gone.

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And may Allah endow the old age that has set in near ml mu L Li ml better. I enjoyed my youth and hopefully I can spend my old age invaluable days segnale Villani used to also say Nia Madani lo bucketed Dima la Marina had a busy hobby lamb Tableau hilmi Charmaine hottie Hema fuck too shabby were photocatalysis Bobby two bounties as such. If I were to cry until I lose my vision, it would not express one 10th of my regret. One is that my youth is gone. So

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That's just off the head one quick couplet. I mean, we could have shared other couplets but I think time is the running year for me.

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if you are doing a sudden and you don't know that it is a sin or that activity is haram are we held accountable for it my brother my sister ignorance to the law is no excuse ignorance to the law is no excuse you cannot be on the road if you don't understand that the red signal means you got to stop your car and the signal means that you need to go and yellow needs that you need to be caution you need to cautious ignorance is no excuse I don't want to advocate on All I'm trying to say

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quick we constantly trying to improve our health better our home, enhance our standards, upgrade our phone, go one notch higher. So we there's an overload of information we find out so we need to be in touch with good reliable, you know, established erudite scholars and we need to query this just like you have a family doctor you need a spiritual doctor you need a spiritual doctor and you always would you need to do a surgery you're looking for five in the world three in you know what or two in this continent and one in this country or whatever need that one who's doing it for 30 years and is the Dean of the Faculty and he has so many years of experience and our weight my chance in the queue

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and I'll pay the price etc why it's my health and I need that authentic opinion and that authentic 30 copies of the surgery to be done so we need to create it we need to get it of course

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if it was unintentional we didn't realize we were told wrongly then we will be excused inshallah Allah in number Toba to Allah Allah He Latina Yama, Luna su Abuja, Allah that Allah will forgive those who committed a wrong out of ignorance. But yeah, if you see the scholars and this is the verse of Surah Nisa, right the fourth juice the fourth chapter, the scholars say Yo Johanna doesn't refer to the ignorance, some Allahu il tikka masala, Yella kobina, RT Johanna, we're in Canada, it refers to the indulgence in wrong even if you knew that it was wrong, the fact that you did wrong is an act of ignorance. So just to answer your question, frankly, ignorance is not an excuse, but on a

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more holistic way. If you were not informed and or you were mis informed, then inshallah you will not be held accountable. But depending on the crime, you will have to address the matter some things you'll have to probably atone for or compensate for and some things you just need to re address going forward that you don't repeat it. I don't know what's the context of the question. So some wrongs are such that you need to address it again and you will need to do it someone told you know your fast did not break and subsequently you learned that no the fast was broken. So okay, Allah will not punish you but you need to repeat the fast and some things were that you you know what

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i did not perform the sooner salah and I thought that the sooner was not necessary. So now you repent to Allah but you cannot repeat those suddenness Allah of the prayers that are gone by because the time has lapsed. So that's just the loose casual example. So on a general note, ignorance is not an excuse on a holistic way. You know, after inquiring address the issue, and of course Allah is most forgiving.

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When someone betrays you, and you are trust, and you trusted them financially, and they broke your trust, how do you deal with this situation when it is a close family member? That has cut you off, but they are not compromising on? Or?

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Just to make it this year? How do you deal with this situation where it is a close family member that has cut you off, but they are not compromising? Or within contact? Okay? So it's very difficult to be on the receiving end of any betrayal. In Arabic, they say Alba Sharon, Jim Jimmy Arthur Murray hapa, that

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loyalty is a tree that only bears good fruit was the virgin Bella wafaa in a Yamaha kalila The context is of marriage, but any union devoid of loyalty is short lived. If you betray me, you stabbed me in my back. You are disloyal to me, then you know what we cannot sustain that relationship. So

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what was the question? Exactly?

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How do you deal with the situation? Yeah, when it is a close family member. So again, because only Rahim Allah has made mention that you know if somebody has hurt you or anything, as long as you do not ignore a Salam or you do not avoid making a Salam you

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will not be held accountable for severing ties. So let your fellow Muslim in a Yahoo for pasilla foreman Hydra focus on Informatica now, it's not correct sever ties someone for more than three days if you did that and you die then you'll go to *. So as long as you don't avoid a Salam or you don't avoid replying to a salam, you won't be guilty of severing ties. But depending on the nature of the wrong etc, you know, the person needs to be told and some measures need to be put in place. Some measures need to be put in place, it's wrong for someone to abuse and continue abusing and that is why as evil and as repugnant as Riba is, Imam nawawi has made mentioned about it, that if

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somebody is doing something wrong to you, then it is correct to alert people so that others don't become victims of that same wrong. So it's correct at that time to say, listen, Brother, please be aware, so and so is doing business, but unfortunately, is a fraudster. Unfortunately, he is deceitful. He's done me down in my business, and he denies it and he lies and he doesn't want to pay. So measures need to be taken, people need to be alerted. And that will be fine. And that will be correct, because you want to rescue other people from his treacherous nature from his betrayal nature. I don't expect you to be close to them. I don't expect you to have a hunky dory relationship

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with them because obviously they are on the receiving end. They're not compromising, they're not doing anything. Some people make you feel guilty. Some people make you feel guilty, when in fact they are a party and you're on the receiving end. So as long as you don't jeopardize to the extent of Salaam you will not be

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you know held accountable for 17 times. It's within your right to absolutely claim your wealth and ask for it back. And there's a reference to it a subtle reference in the Quran. woman who men into men who be dinner in LA you at de la caja Illa de la cama Wow, you must see what's going on under this year. I just have a flash of it. Now. You know, I credit this to the Almighty, it's a verse of the third juice. And the third chapter surah. Allah Emraan will Allah say some people are such if you leave a treasure with them, they'll give it to you and others as such, if you leave one dinar, you won't get it back. Unless you stand by them. You stand on their head illa batma to the point

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don't care as long as you stand, I need my money, I need my money. So the scholars say from you, it really says a hinder right, that the person who's owed money he can stand and demand in the Lusaka bill Hakuna Matata, the one who's owed money has a right to demand it. So it's perfectly within your right to institute the necessary measures that are in place more so when you know that the person is is not, you know, forthcoming when is the person says this and I unfortunately I defaulted. I burned my fingers, I'm in a financial situation, I'm going to pay you back. Just give me time space, I will revert to you. And one is the person just ignores your calls and your emails. And you know he's

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going for holiday and he's doing other things. This is totally unacceptable. So it's perfectly within your right to completely ask for your money and to demand your money and to insist on your money. And that's totally in order. There is innovation about this as well with an incident and it happened with Zaid bin Sana, radi Allahu anhu. It's a long duration. But the gist of it is the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that the one who is owed money to has a right to demand it. So hope that kind of answers the question.

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Sometimes we indulge in sin and pursuits and we can't get it or reach it is the resorting to change and trying to re be repentant because you can't reach the sun considered hypocrisy?

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That's a very brilliant question. So you know what I say my brother, I and I say this here that say for example, you are trying to do wrong. And now the Anima say that if you've made an atom, if you've made an atom on wrong, there is a hum and Assam right hum is just a passing thought and as long as I'm doing it. So for example, I'm I'm I'm going to Allah for bird, I'm going to a casino to gamble. And I've hopped into my car, I've arranged everything I've planned the whole thing I hopped in I got to the place. And when I got there the casino was closed, the casino was closed, and now I left from there. So this is a sin that is recorded because I did not withdraw from the crime on the

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grounds, the consciousness of Allah or kill, regret or embarrassment or potential exposure or anything. I literally repented real return reluctantly because the doors were shot. boy or a girl is pursuing an illicit relationship and you find it in urine. You have a passion and infatuation and you want to ring her up or ring him up and you pick up your phone and you dial But hang on is going to voicemail or the network is dropping.

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is no signal. So in a case like this year, you cannot hope that there is no consequences simply because you have done the wrong you have done the wrong. And I think that's the question the person was kind of alluding to. And now you say, Okay, I want to stop this year, I don't want to do it now. And I move away. I say my brother, take it in a positive way.

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A positive thinker, finds an opportunity in every difficulty, and the negative thinker finds a difficulty in every opportunity, even if even if, when you dialed, you would still have to contend with the sun, you would have to still contend with the sun because you did it that is one wrong, but at least you are not having to contend with the emotion. Because there's two things to it. One is when you're doing a wrong, it's the sun, the harm, the accountability, you need to answer to Allah. And one is after that sin, there is an increased level of restlessness and that's irrefutable. So for the moment of the sin, there is a sense of fake comfort, right? In English, they say, every time

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you succumb to a vise, you get temporary relief, but the vise gets a tighter grip around you. So if you were to surrender and to succumb and you indulge with the woman or the gambling machine or the slots and you play, you get the adrenaline you get the dopamine, you get the excitement, you get the euphoria, and whatever you play, you win, you lose, etc, etc. So one is the sun. And one is when you come back, the emptiness, the hollowness, the shallowness, the depression is 10, folds greater. So when nature intervened, to use that phrase, or external factors intervene, you still will walk away with dissent, because you did everything within your means to do the wrong. And and just like, just

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like in the context of virtue, if I arrived at the masjid thinking that the Isha prayer was at 9pm. And that's how I was stolen. That's how I was informed. And when I got the Isha prayer was not a 2100 hours, it was 25 8:45pm. I'm at ease, my lord knows my intention, and he will reward me. So very confidently, I walk away knowing that the reward of congregation has been secured, because I did everything within my reach to accomplish it. Likewise, it would apply in the letter, but the positive side of it is, you're not having to deal with the aggravated consequences of the restlessness. And ultimately, whatever spurs you on to repentance, that's great. That's great, say

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many times who's who said this year, one of the great scholars,

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we acquired knowledge for ulterior motives, we acquired knowledge for ulterior motives, but knowledge refused for us to remain on this ulterior motives till our intentions became purified. So we pursued it in the elementary level, I want to be prominent, I want to be famous, I want to have this I want a degree, I want a diploma, I want to qualification. So we started the journey on the wrong reason. But the purity of the sanctity of the knowledge, purified the process that ultimately towards the middle of the latter part, our intentions were purified. So whatever gets you into virtue, consider it a bonus. If it is that the doors of evil were blocked, and you were compelled,

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and people depressed you and violated you. And then you said, Oh, well, everyone has launched me, let me rather just try it with Allah. So you didn't consciously intentionally, you know, embark on this journey, but it was the depression of everyone, but ultimately, it brought you to the right door, it brought you to the right door, and that's the bonus and that's the start in the right direction. And that's a footing in the correct way and that will find your way to your Creator inshallah we ask the almighty to bless one and all I pray that

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the the program was meaningful, and that it leaves us all spiritually nourished and energized. And I asked you to remember me in your prayers in these last few days and bless at nights of Ramadan, Allah Medina man, Tama laylat, al Qaeda man and wati Sabah, may Allah make us among those who have secured the blessed night of Qatar and power and majesty, and that we can be amongst those who can end Ramadan motherfu who have been forgiven with emancipation from the fire of *. I mean, you're Balala mean. robina Tina Fey dounia Santa

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