How To Control The Lustful Soul

Sulaiman Moola


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In this lecture Sheikh Sulaiman advises on how to control a lustful soul…

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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen or Salatu was Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah

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wa early he was happy he woman wala whom be certain in a yummy did Baba

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Allah Jalla wa ala fi kita Hill Majeed for Connie Hill Hamid

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Amina chiffonier rajim Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem

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as Allahu Allah Bina como bien la de da de da minha miroir de la vaca de la hoga. for him.

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We're calling Wu sallallahu taala and he was salam, ala Houma, La

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Jolla. furtherfield, unfavourable muhajir okama por la de Sala, to a Salaam,

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honorable scholars, respected brothers, elders, mothers and sisters.

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It is a basic fact of life, that nothing can be obtained in this material world without payment. There is a price to every article, there is a price to every item, whether cash or kind, one has to pay.

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Logically speaking, every buyer wants to give less and secure more.

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And if perchance it's reversed, he has to give more and receives less then this constitutes loss failure and misfortune. And often in the commercial circles, we are people say, I burned my hands never again.

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It is rather tragic and unfortunate, that we do not apply the same fieri phenomenon, phenomena and principle when it comes to the aspect of sun transgression and vice.

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By a law in whose control is my life, the price a senate pays to sustain one son,

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whether it's an illicit relation or a gambling addiction, or a substance abuse, it is far greater than the suppose the pleasure he receives.

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The first price every

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price every center pays without exception.

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He has to bet farewell to happiness from his life permanently.

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And let me not mince my words. They will be a throttle in his life. When he pops the pole. There will be an excitement in his life when he's online chatting with a strange woman. There will be a kick in his life when he's pulling the machines and gambling but bliss and happiness will be unheard of in his life.

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Depression and misery is synonymous to the center.

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Depression and misery is synonymous to the center.

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Abdulaziz Rama Talalay the great giant, the great scholar, the second Homer, who once again revived the justice in the world.

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He one day seen his son on the day of read

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and his son was clad with a simple gum

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while the general youth were clad in exclusive, beautiful new dress. So as the father as much as he wanted to discipline his son, for a moment he felt that my son might be marginalized. He might be victimized, he might be isolated. People will look at him is the only boy wearing old clothes. So the dad was moved by the simple garb of his son into tears.

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So the son engages his dad

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and he says my yubikey kya Abby, oh my dad, what makes you cry? It's a topic of its own.

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To reflect and introspect on how profound the interaction of the pious was between father and son, versus the common dialogue of father and son today, by and large, an average young man today considers his father to be an ATM machine.

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Put your card in and draw money that you want. That's all.

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So I'm gonna answer the olana. to digress, but to expound on this sentiments, he is in the throes of death. He is the conqueror of Egypt.

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When we went to Egypt with the grace of Allah, we went to the masjid, we visited the grave. He is in the throes of death, a critical moment, a sensitive moment.

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he slips into a coma. After a little while he gains consciousness, he slips into a coma, he gains consciousness, his son, Abdullah Ahmed, even after the olana was present, he nudges his father, he says, Dad, the moment is sensitive, the time is critical. You're about to bid farewell. You're on the verge of taking your last breath. I don't wish to be insensitive to your trauma. But once you pass away, you'll be gone permanently. Who will ever tell me the agony of death? If I'm not asking too much of you while you're dying? Can you relate your pain so that I can reflect

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your apathy safely and modes? What was the pious in the agony of death? in the throes of death? The son engages his dead dad tell me what he What does it feel like?

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phenomena by lava till

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one even though Ron wanna know Otto II mean come, kill todo zero road phalguna in kuntum Rama Dini, Taraji Runa in kuntum, Swati fellow una palabra de la boum Why not when the soul reaches the collarbone one Na Na cabo la human calm and we are closer to the dying person then you are what are killed at 201 but you see us not fellow owner in kuntum comedy Nene Taraji and Runa. in

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detail, if you claim there's no retribution and if you claim there's no repercussion, and if you claim there's no consequences post death, then use a dying man or halt his soul.

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Hold his soul. Total Gerona return it in quantum solidity and if you are honest in your claim, for in Corona minima been thoroughly

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known for ohan Omar he has known if he's amongst the noble for him is fragrance for him his sustenance for him is mercy. So the son asked the dead dead Tell me what does the agony of death feel like?

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So the father says to the Son,

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Najib Birla dunya fo Casa de

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Cana, je Birla dunya. fo Casa de.

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That is why one scholar was asked, Why don't you speak on contemporary issues? He said, Can there be something more contemporary than death?

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Can there be something more contemporary than death? Oh, my son, it appears to me as the the mountains of the entire world are exclusively resting on my chest.

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Oh, my son, it appears to me, as if the mountains bearing in mind the jungles and the forests of the world. What an intellectually stimulating discussion, pre death.

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You and I don't have the ability to speak on that level in our senses. While we conscious and focus, you're slipping away from this world. These were people who valued that time. That is why I often say when people are sitting and relaxing. They say we kill in time. You're not killing time my brother time is killing you.

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The clock is ticking and time is killing. I was here a year ago has a year lapse

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as the year pass as the wheels turn. Is it 12 months down? My words my word. Oh my lord soon will the day come when I will be lying before you and the angel of death.

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will knock my door

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and then he slips into a coma again. There is a pro long silence. The sun holds his breath in. He is concerned about the agony of his father, but he wishes that his father could kindly complete that sentence. he gains consciousness. Dad, my apologies. I sympathize with your trauma. You were telling me you feel like as if the mountains of the entire world on your chest, could you be kind enough to complete that sentence worker and knee at enough for soo min fit could be a Bharati and I feel as if I'm trying to breathe from the eye of a needle.

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And I feel as if I'm trying to get a breath from the eye of a needle, and he slips into his agony, never to stand up and gone permanently. And what was his last words? Allahu Allah tawi on for a while very young for a little while. Mustang Kiran Bella Mustafa furon Allahumma in Naka Americana for a Cena wanna hate Anna fermenter hyena when you're in a fog, he has this dialogue with his son. He then lifts his hands. He said, oh my lord, you've instructed me in my life to do many. Unfortunately, I did not comply. You prohibited me. Tragically, I did not restrain. Oh my Lord. I don't have a defense. I don't have an argument. I concede guilt. I admit all wrong. Allahumma

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Langkawi and

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I'm not strong that I'm going to challenge the angel of death. I'm going to engage him I'm going to refute him while a Mustang Kiran and I don't refute any of my crimes, Berlin mustard fear on my hands are down. I apologize in concede saying these words he left the worlds

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May Allah make that discussion a reality for us say Armenian brothers, that becomes the topic at home, that becomes the atmosphere at home, that becomes the dialogue at home.

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Remember, a child who excels in academics, and he has multiple ensembles that's merely a reflection that he has committed to memory, the work that has been imparted to him, that doesn't make him an A in the eyes of Allah. That only is an indication of his skills to commit to memory. What if the information imparted was atheism which he committed to memory? Do you still refer to him as an A student?

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He's he's committed to memory that's about it. Does that make him great and Excel will have to critically analyze the material that has been imparted. And yes, if he has imbibed that, and coupled with imbibing it does he practically executed, then perhaps we could elevate him to the pedestal of a symbol.

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But let's not be blown away by the achievements and the merits of our children by merely memorizing anything. So Omar Abdulaziz Rahmatullah, he sees his son on the day of aid, and he is clad in a simple garb, and he tears so the son tells the dad my yubikey Dad, what makes you cry? He said Asha and Ian casilla kalbach yo ma Ed, Ivanka severe and we have the Camille Khalid, my son, I'm gonna feel so hurt when each of the youngsters will be walking around in society, clear in exclusive gown wearing an affluent dress, and then the dads will look at them, there will be a tear of joy. They will be a spark of excitement, there will be a moment of happiness, only to know you the only

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youngster that is wearing simple and ordinary clothes. I just hope you don't fall prey to depression and you don't fall prey to isolation and you're not marginalized by the youth. The young boy of that time had greater serenity than the elders of today. He said in nama young casimiro kalibo man dharmapala horiba who are who above who were in Nila. akuna la hora de Nani beerenberg. That sense when depression was for the men who wore all clothes, and since when happiness was for the men who wore new clothes, by a mine was control is my life. Depression and misery is inseparable from the man who disobey the law.

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Depression and misery is inseparable from the man who does obeys Allah. When Omar Abdulaziz heard this, he was moved to tears. waka Bella who beignet he, he kissed him between his eyes. He said my son, no son has ever made his father proud as you have made me with the statement of yours. So if you have raised children like this, you're a father. That is why in English they say fortunate is he has children.

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run into his arms even when his hands are empty.

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If my child runs into my arms when they have money, then what's so great about it? Even the cartoons and the fear owns of their time, the tyrants and the dictators and autocrats of their time, those who brought tyranny on this earth, those who massacred those who are butches.

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But yes, not only did the biological children of My Habib sallallahu sallam, but even the Sahaba run into his arms when his hands were empty.

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You are a father, my brother, if you've successfully crossed this hurdle, and got your children into your arms without monetary temptation.

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For a living I refer to lolly used to say,

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in a la casilla in de la silla for our other leka fee, hello, taking marotti waha, dimity, washy Marie, when I disobey Allah, I instantly noticed the temperament of my wife changing the behavior of my servant. Nay, I also observed my convenience rebellion against me.

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What did for the liberty to land a say? When I disobey Allah, I instantly see my wife's temperament changing. You abuse your site at work, and you come home and you wonder what's happening here at home for the Illumina has given you the formula and the reason, he said when I disobey Allah, I see my wife's temperament change immediately. I see, you know, one brother told me, he said, whenever a person is hostile or unpleasant to me, then I tell myself, he's not a bad man is a good person who had a bad day

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is a good man who had a bad day. So I said, Brother, but will that philosophy work in marriage? Because you're gonna have to say this often she's a good woman who had a bad day. She's a very good woman, but she's having multiple bad days.

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How does it work in the marriage environment, especially if you've got me thinking, as I think of an answer, then we can have an extension to the theory.

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The point that has been emphasized here, Misery is inseparable to the one who does obeys the law. That's the price

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of Kodama. Rahmatullah has made mention of an incident in Quetta, Buta been very, very brilliant incident very, very brilliant. There was a person by the name of melody who lives the life of sin vise evil, womanizing, a very fleshy and flamboyant lifestyle.

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He would indulge in every crime you would think of he would perpetrate every offense you've heard of.

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He gets and is having a night with woman and wine. And he

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omits his or her prayer, his answer prayer, his mother in prayer, and the sun sets and it gets close to Russia. So his slave girl has a sense of concern.

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And she says to herself, that I'm going to do something to open the eyes of my master. So she devises a plan. And she gets the flame alive coal burning flame, and she comes and she burns the leg of her master. Faenza immediately gives him a shock. And he stands up and he said, My God, what is this? So she said, john, Morocco mineral dunya *ing if it does not will be nourished.

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Jam rotten Minar eternia forgive us Nabina. This is but a flame of this world. Heaven alone knows what would happen to you when the flames of hell are hurled towards you.

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Verily, how will hurl sparks towards you the size of palaces.

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It hit home, he realized the time has come and he has to draw the line and he needs to change his priorities. He then decided to abandon a life of sin and embrace a life of simplicity motivated by the consciousness of Allah and he devoted his life once two prominent scholars came to visit him, namely for dailyburn al and Sophia and it

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Now Marina, who enjoyed the privilege of being referred to as the muhaddith, of the heroine of maccha well who else had this one hero Mel Mackey.

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So he came to visit him and you see in the man was a downgraded living a simple life, hand to mouth breaking even gave up all the flashy all the exclusive all the affluent lifestyle, did away with all the fancy things of life. So for the listener is in Sofia libnah Arena, engage them and said, Listen, in the hood amiya da da, da, da, da, La Jolla Minho, from a water coming, Dr. lebeau it has been the system of a law that whenever anyone forsakes anything for the pleasure of Allah, that Allah always replaces it with something better. You have given up your sinful life. What is the law given your back? This is the system of a law and there's no exception. In lieu of what you've done,

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what is the law given you? He said our Rebbe? Bhima NFA I lived a sinful effluent life. But what law I was the most miserable, depressed person you've ever met. I've now given up that sinful effluent life and I've embraced a compliance simple life. And I'm the most happy person you've ever met in your life.

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What does Allah substitute in it and hence, I said, a person in sin will have a thrill. If you get a thrill. When he pops the bow, he will be high. When he chats with that girl, he got an excitement when he pulls the machines and he Gamble's he will have a buzz and a cake can Delica so well actually enough. See, that's what Sammy said, I felt like doing it for the thrill for the field for the excitement for the cake, to explore to find out. So that would happen. But when I mention our word here, we're not talking of that moment of excitement or the moment of thrill, we are talking of a wholesome bliss, we are talking of inner joy and that is subject to compliance to the orders of

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Allah subhanho wa Taala and nothing else is Allah kept that in nothing else. Now, let me take that theory forward. Let me take that theory forward.

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Josie Rama to Lala is a great scholar in many of his writings, and in particularly in roles that are mostly been, which is the Kitab of reference that I will touch on in my presentation today. He's dedicated a chapter to this year, mentor kalila Shea and whether hula will hire a Minho. Whoever will forsake something for the pleasure of Allah. It is the promise of a law that Allah will replace something better for him. That's it. Then he cites multiple examples to give a practical dimension to this theory.

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A kamatera Casa de una Yusuf Ali Salam in Brighton azeez Ouattara cijena Alpha for water hula who and McKenna who fill out the yerba Omaha hi Sasha.

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So you're gonna use civili salam did not succumb to the provocation and the seductive temptation of a prominent beautiful woman. He resisted temptation. Allah rewarded him. Allah rewarded him. He was imprisoned. Initially, he persevered and endured, and in relation to his perseverance, and his steadfastness, what did Allah give him? Allah gave him authority over the entire Dominion of Egypt.

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So he says for Tamil reflect, remember my opening sentiments? If only we could apply the theory of benefit versus harm when it comes to sin? If I'm going to send what's going to happen to me, what are the long term consequences? The immediate benefit versus the long harm and I will tell you by Allah the Most exorbitant prices are not as expensive as Sonny's.

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I often say to a young man, you go to a shop to buy a sample article, but there is a woman there the chances of which are you gonna fall prey to the Zener of the eyes. And perhaps at a distance there is another shop with the same article will cost you double the price, but there is no fear of any sin. By Allah walk the extra pay the extra, I swear by online whose control is my life, you've paid less.

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I swear by a mine whose control is my life you spend less why you return from that shop with your alarm, and you return from the first shot without your law. Luckily, Shane is a rock star who was on whether you study law in Iraq, the luminary was the the Arabic poet said if

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Have you lost anything I can arrange for a replacement? But oh boy, oh boy. If you've lost your Allah, I have no substitutes to help you with.

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Life is a challenge between desires and the suppression of desires. At times my heart agonizes me at times I agonize My hearts. Life is a challenge between desires and the suppression of desires. At times my heart agonizes me at times I agonized my heart.

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So anyway, say Ethan, I use over a Salatu was Salam resisted temptation. Allah gave him the empire of Egypt, what does he say? Amen. kafer Jessa who Allahu Allah de to Sydney and McKenna who fill out the look, he persevered the imprisonment of a jail.

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What did he hold back what Allah gave him the dominion of Egypt from the narrow confines of a cell to the vast empire of Egypt, yet about a woman Haha, no Cebu para mattina, Manisha wa no day.

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sinning we favor whomsoever we want, and we will not allow the good of the pious to go unrewarded. Furthermore, if the Josie lights

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will occur, will occur

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when nisswa to be Bharati, velella hula Aziz Allah then subjugates that minister whose wife seduced use of at the feet of use of he comes begging for an apology. The very woman under discussion concedes guilt, the general woman of Egypt testify his innocence was he assumed not to who to Allah, Hadith and waka de Manila young mill piano and hypnotoad he writes, this is the untempered system of Allah. This is the unadulterated pattern of a law that whosoever whenever will forsake something for the pleasure of Allah, he's promised to come back home with a more handsome return.

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You never walk out with less and this remains Delta Gamma. So Abu Talib one day told the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his beloved uncle ma back in LA UT. Oh my uncle, I owe my nephew. I see your alarm is very passionate to obey you. Abu Talib said to Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and what did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam say? Well, Antion lo Tata who attack Oh my uncle, you obey my Allah and he'll obey you.

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Oh, my anchor. This is not only for me, you obey my Allah and he will obey you.

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Unfortunately, we've tried everything but we haven't tried bonding with our law. We've tested all theories, but we have not tried the ecstasy of the bond of Allah. Furthermore, Josie Ramadan Laurie writes, Allah ma karasuma Nobunaga whoodle halen, Leticia. latwon sonatinas three had Tabata shamsul Safar Allahu Allahu Allah, you see to Allah metheny Hassan when Solomon Ebony when Solomon a de la Salatu was Salam slaughtered the horses which had become an hindrance in one order of Allah. And with the variation of narrations either his answer got delayed or was made further, there is difference of opinion. And there was horses he was preparing to engage in battle, not for a personal

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motive, but he realized engagement in one was becoming a hindrance in a hindrance in a more Supreme Command. He said I don't want to benefit and I don't want to soil my hands and taint my reputation and blemish my income and dilute my money with that animal which has become an obstacle in the obedience of Allah slaughter those animals and distribute it amongst the poor. I'm better off with an animal and its monetary return, then that animal which has become an obstacle in obedience of Allah.

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When he did that, suffer Allahu Allahu re you see Rama, Tania, or odd. Allah gave him the exclusive miracle of the wind being at his command. No other Navy had this honor. That is why one of my scholars used to say,

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fly Sulayman Airways,

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so a man calm.

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So the Mona Lisa had the exclusive domain over the winds on a souleiman array.

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me, me No, Marina tominaga be sorry, your meluna

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watani luminary bad English coup de Monterrey. And we made this the wind subservient for Sulaiman.

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Sharon, he comfortably covered the distance which would be covered in a month on a Camelback or horseback with the swift conveyance in one morning.

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One shot and in the afternoon to each land, a lot of them at Baraka, nafi ha, the land that we had blessed and that was sham. The point is, what's the point brother, he parted with something for the pleasure of Allah. He came home with the wings he came home with the wings. As the immediate benefit Allah Allah knows what Allah will give him an alpha. The reward of goodness is in Africa. This is just the things of this world. What a methodical mohajir una de una de la la O'Donoghue, la de hakushi in LA him as a hula, hula and fatale him adonia Omen laka home circle or the barber hub, when the Maha jurien had forsaken their native land Mecca, on the command of Allah because of the

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hostility of the infidels, and they were compelled to journey beyond and they had to leave their native land and they came to Medina and it's not easy to climatized It's not easy to adapt. And remember today with all luxuries, with all ease, you can Google it. You can go on online, you can do everything. You can transfer your funds, you can establish yourself there you can have an economic muscle here you can have a base there, you can have a home there are so many things yet you yearn back for home. This was leaving McCann knowing not what the future was ahead. They made this migration and they forced they were prepared to forsake their native land. Formula One factor Holly

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adonia or Melaka home circle, or Baja, in lieu of them leaving their native land. Allah opened up the east and the west of the entire world to their fields.

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They became the rulers of the continents.

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And where and where they took the deen of Allah.

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What can Radek assert it? No Torah, Casa

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La la, la la la. Likewise a feel if he stops his theft along we'll give him that same money through halaal he will have the same and Allah will be pleased with him. What can I lick is Ernie lo Dora karoku Botanical faraja Rahman Leela. Saba hula will be Roku TV or Roku be mahalo Minho, Allah Allah. If a man indulging in Zina abstains and restraints along will give him that same woman or something better along will give him the same woman or something better through lawful and legitimate means. The Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam Satan alira Yolanda narrates it, he sallallahu wasallam said not draw rajala not draw Rajan FEMA has seen in several moments the HMI

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believes to glance at the beauty of a woman is an arrow from the poisonous arrows of the devil, man Allah Angelica Sami. He who restraints and abstains from this poisonous arrow of the devil acaba, Hola. Look at the words of the Hadith. If you study this word, if you do some etymology of this word, if you dissect it, and you analyze it, what's the root words? Are you our people in our club? Our club, a hula hoop, every bird that then does so roll along will follow along with the replays Allah will return. What what are the 10 rule? He will be amongst those fortunate individuals who will enjoy an ecstasy while obeying a law, a spiritual ecstasy. My brother the thrill is not to talk

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to an illicit woman, by Allah amen in sin. He is excited for the moment and for the 23 hours he is a restless individual. He will sleep when others are awake he will be awake when others are sleeping. He will be sitting in his house with his wife and children, the best of amenities and luxuries, the best of our homes and abode but he will be delighted

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of happiness. This will be the consequences of sin. May Allah let my eyes open today may Allah let your eyes open.

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This is the harsh reality.

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One youngster says I read in one Kitab he says I was walking by night, my gaze fell on a strange woman. Suddenly I seen myself drawn towards her. I tried to leave her and invite her. And it was a bright night the stars was shining upon us. And I said to her Maryana lol coworking. Marianna in little kawaki It's a bright night. It's only the stars that are shining upon us. Come close to me, we could perhaps, indulge and enjoy, and we could satisfy our fantasies. What an answer came from that girl. She said, for any no moko kibou, ha farheena mucho que ha. You say the only the stars we are only exposed to the stars. What about the creator of the stars are we not exposed to him as

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well? For Anima Jana La La La Mancha Ba ba ba Fela Fela Kala feeling the stars will disappear, appear and disappear, but the creator of the stars you cannot veil him he never disappears Sahiba shall who would have done it under Bashar what the other hand Melaka Yo, we have

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a conflict of definition.

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And let me say something at this juncture, we joined the world in the slogan of empowering and liberating women, but we differ grossly in the definition of empowering.

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We joined the slogans of liberating woman. We are in harmony with those sentiments, but we differ grossly. Our definition of liberating a woman is not enslaving her for material gain, we beg to differ.

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Our definition of a slave the poet and encapsulates it captures it in these couplets. He said the one who loves the life, governed by his whims and his ego has shackled himself by his own doings. The day he musters the courage to overpower his ego, proportionately he will unshackle himself with his own doings.

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So has not our cell phones literally become a cell of a jail?

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Has it not become a literal that's why one person said what's the definition of a cell phone? I said, tell me he said instant torment

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we have in a good social discussion and then disappears and his mood changes and it's gone and this could happen with Roman it happens abroad also.

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Why these these gadgets are governing my life. And I made to believe that you know what, I one time I'm moving it up.

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to LA it goes on to say and I hope I hope I cried to Allah and I always beg Allah before I start my talk that oh my loss let me say those words that touched my heart that make me come close to you, my Creator. Make my friends in the general oma come close to you, my Allah. Let it let it open our eyes. We are living in trying times my brother.

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We are living in trying times.

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I mean, even Abdullah Tommy Mira, the Allahu anhu hrpp what he used to say used to say Allahu Allah, in Nicaragua, Dr. Nabi Emmerich will accompany fi balaia hit dunya be mushy, I think, some apple tele stumps a quarter Kincaid for custom sequel elementum sicne, bilytica, Avi Yama, teen, Omar, Yama, You created me because you decided to do so? Then you subjected me to the trials of this world. And you put me in an error that you had decreed in which I had no choice. Then you impressed upon me to exercise restraint and caution. I only asked you politely How can I achieve this if you don't hold my hands?

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I only politely asked you maiella in this ungodly environment, where I barely exit from here and there is a billboard to invite me and there is an SMS to tempt me and there is the seductive nature to seduce me and there is no fabric to the community and no fiber to the society and the junior have no regard for the seniors. And it's a world driven by last couple by monetary gain. And this butchers and massacres and what and what is happening my Allah sometimes when I read the quotations of the pious predecessors

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I have a feeling that they words were not so opportune at the time that they said it as they are today.

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I said No wonder I said, This man said it when he said it. But these words of ease are more relevant today than that day.

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Imam Shafi said lamido finanzielle macromol melaku shokan either lamassu Xamarin either Rama poo in his prayer he said, Oh my Allah. There's nothing left in this world but deception and delusion, oh my Allah, this only hypocrisy and smokescreen in my law. When I look from a distance these humans look like blossoming flowers. But my Allah when I get close, I see every one of them are thorns and they ready to prick me.

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And I think of the throat of imaam Shafi, I said I don't know if they were so relevant in his era as they were today are not the people looking like blossoming flowers, but get into business. Get into business with someone and I'm afraid my friend you will run further than you ever ran from any beast

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was a fireman a man said I foresee an error come in. Only he will be rescued from the tide of that ocean from that dark tunnel.

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The one who begs a law like how a drowning person begs a law yeah to have a common law

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in la mejor de roca da in the very when the internet and modern technology made its first appearance. It was embraced with excitement, coupled with bliss. It has become a global village we can communicate. Gone are the days of physical address and telegram we've moved on. We are on Twitter, we're on SMS, we on email, we are on Skype, we are on this and that. And we've seen how the world became smaller and communication became easy. And I heard of an article and I read about it. A professor in one country and a surgeon in another country and an entire orthopedic procedure was done through SMS communication. Wow. Brilliant, meritorious. He who uses technology to his advance

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great we have no issues, but I'm afraid we've come at the crossroads. As the Quran says the Quran does not refute the benefit of gambling lotteries, people have charitable organizations have been held. Look at the profoundness of the Quran Manasa only nurse or a small hola kibarim enough Hema, what is smooth mama kaboom, enough?

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Yes, indeed,

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alcohol in moderation, has its benefit in gambling, generate some income, but without doubt its evils far most about its goods.

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I wonder, but the world has become so driven by monetary that we would admit and confess that technology is now being at a minus at the detriment of our community. It is one of the key reasons of breaking marriages and you can read from mainstream media. You don't have to read from alternative media. But everything is driven by money. And wherever we see revenue coming in, it will have to continue.

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So what did he say five and a man say a time will come? None will be rescued, none will be rescued. But the one who begs Allah like a drowning man begs Allah, a drowning man. Allah helped me I'm drowning.

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I mean,

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is that how he cries to Allah? No. He cries from the recesses of his heart. He's holding on to a straw. And may yo j Burma. Eva da, that is what Allah says. I will respond to the call of the desperate because it's sincere.

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My brother, how are you calling your love for the salvation of your youth? How are you asking your law? Is it a regular five minute prayer? You've got to bank and beseech and employ your law. His sovereignity remains intact. He is not threatened by anyone. He's not intimidated by anyone. He is not obligated by anyone. He's not overpowered by anyone is not answerable to anyone.

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So even as Josie Rahmatullah writes

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reflect over this, it's so deep. It's so deep. He says.

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In numb ohana. fidella Hawa to chemo lab the FEMA Carmen mallow eczema Allahu la barra. If you are in harmony with our topic if you have the question

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And you can muster the power to tame this wild ego to govern this lustful ego, then it would elevate you to a pedestal to a platform,

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that when you make a request to a law, they will be cloud and weight and strength in your request.

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For your home in an hour, each year comes the point of temptation. Here comes the element of benefit versus harm for your daughter, whom in an age of the alpha alpha alpha hoomin. However, he said, when you don't succumb to your ego, for the moment, your ego will throw a tantrum, like a child throws a tantrum. That's it, because you have accustomed to a particular evil and advice. So if you pop in April, or you were chatting with a woman, or you were playing his machine, or you were indulging in into whatever the nature of the crime is, I'm just isolating two, three,

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every time that you are dependent on that, you will come to that moment, there will be a moment of restlessness and easiness, there will be a grave there will be a withdrawal symptom, whatever it is, if you resist that, he says, your ego will not get the excitement of the moment. But your ranking with your Creator will go up so high, that one luxury, or one fake pleasure of yours will not be catered for. But 1000 requests of yours will be immediately honored.

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1000 requests of yours will be immediately honored. It's your choice, my brother, it's your call, is I chat with that girl. And I compromised my bond with my Allah. And then I come home and I lift my hands and there's no strength to my drawers. And there's no cloud to my request. And there is no my to my prayers. And I hold the Kaaba and I do my prayers, but it's not coupled with any strength and mind and vigor. Or I resist the temptation benefit versus harm. Look at the harm of the sin what it's doing to me. One brother had told me he had a habit of smoking many, many years ago. He said I vowed to Allah that I want to leave this and he didn't have children. And he said, Allah, I want

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children. And I'm asking you, I'm giving up this evil practice. Bless me with children. He said, I continued for few months, we got into a social circle, and everybody takes out a cigarette. And then I was offered. And obviously my ego went to its provocation at optimum. And then I asked myself, do I want to see great? Or do I want children?

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Do I want to see great? Or do I want children? My brother Do you want in a law? Or do you want a woman? Do you want the happiness of this life, the wholesome nature of a pure wholesome life, that you come home, and you don't only share a one roof, but you share a common life versus the modern day poverty, what I call what's the modern day poverty share in one roof living independent lives. So at times, you are awakened by the call of nature. And two o'clock you go to the toilet or the washroom and you see the light of your son on in his room or the night of your daughter on and you knock the door and you get in. It would have been great. It would have been awesome. It would have

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been tearing. If you walked in that room and you found your daughter in prostration and you see in your son holding the Quran. But on the reverse, you will find our hottie youngster, a snobbish young girl who's got an earphones on her head playing on the computer have an alone news with which boys is chatting in which part of the world's

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modern day poverty in the heart of affluence sharing one room share in one roof living distinct lives? The call is yours My brother, we are at the threshold of Ramadan.

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I said what is 15 Siobhan 15 Siobhan is a pre wash, the actual wash happens you get rid of the stubborn stains, and then you do the thorough wash in Ramadan. You are my brother as the call.

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Then he cites few examples.

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So if you have

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a great scholar, great scholar

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who was known for his control over his ego.

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One day one brother did me a favor. I asked him what I owe you. He said no, no, don't insult me with money. But I do have a request. I said okay, what's it he said make one prayer for me. Simple draw. I said okay, what's it just make draw that Allah give me

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is trying to overpower my ego. I said the door is simple. The work is not simple my brother that's far from simple. One leg on your ego the next leg in paradise.

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That guy said I'm on my way all excited to hear you. I'm getting married to the princess. Wow.

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Is that true? Yes, I love her. She just has to love me.

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in that, in that first statement is not only you all world loves her.

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You're not the only one that has the exclusive rights of loving her. In fantasy the whole world is with you. But for her to just love you. dream.

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Dream my brother. It's a lifelong challenge. It's a lifelong challenge. At times my heart agonizes me at times I agonize my heart. Sometimes I get up and I obey my law and I when sometimes the devil overpowers me, and in the night, I begged my Allah to forgive me for what I've done. And I start again. But at least when I start up in the morning, I bow before my Creator. Ask yourself, have you ever have you ever in your life, and you decide what's your age and you know, better? started the morning, commence the break of dawn. Oh my Lord. My agenda for today is I'm not going to disobey you at all. Or my alarm clock and I have one clean day in my life. Oh my life Can I have the desire of

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one clean day in my life?

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It doesn't feature as a remote aspiration. When will it become a practical reality?

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We get in up with this dream and that dream and this hope and that monetary and what and what? Just doesn't end? So anyway, Sofia Antonia Rahmatullah was sitting in the GABA, Abuja, monsoon, Abuja. Massoud had ordered the execution of Sofia Antonia Rama to lay his head apprehend him and killed him.

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His head was in the lap of full dailyburn.

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So for the living I said

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it took a novena to Schmidt vanilla de there is a warrant of arrest in

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Abu Jaffa has ordered your apprehension and your subsequent assassination, take measures and be on guard. He was reclining at the Kaaba. He was a man who had mustered the courage to control his lustful soul. So he had a bond that was developing with his Allah, he would have relation that was establishing. So it comes in the narrations. He just leapt forward for the Padma Ll a star and then he held on to the cloth of the Kaaba. And he said burrito Minho in Abu Jaffa, Allah I asked you through the agency of the relation that we enjoy for a very long time. Allah I don't want Abu Jaffa to put his foot in Makkah and oh my Allah, I say to you, I'm not going to settle for anything less.

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When you read the prayers of the pious by Allah you will realize they didn't only supplicate their law. They spoke to him. They spoke to him. Oh my Allah, Zachary Ali Salam in the last luminae was standard sushi bar wollam

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bisha t in native mahali

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a workaround

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for hubballi min Letran Qawwali. Oh my word. I wish you knew Arabic to comprehend the eloquence and the profoundness Syriac supplicates is Allah the opening verses of Surah Maryam he's 100 years of age he doesn't have a child. He says wa Han Allah has a meanie on my alarm my bones are weak. The time has passed was sterile sushi bar my hair has given off repeated white strands while I'm a combi Dora acre of bisha tea but you've never denied and deprived me or any lift to limani me Oh Allah. Anybody I don't have a son. I don't see anyone liable that will carry on my mission after my demise. Allah I'm all I'm age and we can see but time has passed the moment is gone. But you gain for her

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Believe me lederen Covelli to me that favor and confirm that my wife will conceive and I'm going to have a baby

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or a beer or the and oh my lord. If you are going to accept my prayer, please make him obedient to you before conception that

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We know he's going to be buying us when he is born. I mean, he wasn't praying only he was talking to his alarm. He was talking, you want to talk to your bank manager, talk to a law.

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Or my ally, I'm walking in the street, or my ally. I'm tempted with this woman, my Allah, nobody knows what I'm doing. But you my life dropped my gaze. You come my rebellious son, my life dropped my gaze, you bring sanity to my young teenage daughter, oh, my life dropped my gaze, you bring piety to my spouse or life drop my gaze or my ally, you bring wholesome provisions to my house. Oh my ally, you give me pure income. Oh Allah, you rescue me from my financial crisis, whatever the nature is.

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Anyway, he dies before he enters Makkah.

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Edna Josie says, Now see, see what it did for him. Because of his piety, when the moment came, because of the bond that was developed one prayer, he advanced and he said, Oh Allah, I don't want that man in Makkah, and I'm not going to settle for less. Okay, those words, Barry to mean who in Abu Jafar.

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He passes away

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of drama and melody Rahmatullah says I seen him in a dream.

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I asked him homeless things, how did you fare before law? He said I was loaded into my grave.

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And suddenly I appeared before a law

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and then allow was very kind my reckoning was simple. I didn't I wasn't subjected to intense interrogation was basic what you get in those that what you did, etc. A lot overlooked and Pardon? And I was then ushered into paradise for being an AMA do binary, how unhealthy how, as I was thrown in merrily in the gardens of Paradise, it is semiotica la yaku. Are you this unseen voice calling out Sophia?

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I said, Yes, Yes, that's me. That's me. That's me.

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And then the voice engages me. Do you know why you are where you are?

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I'm like, please tell me I know, it's the mercy of my Lord. But do you know which action of yours impressed us? I said, Please tell me my Allah.

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Allah azzawajal, Allah, Allah, Allah Yama. He was sitting in seclusion one day, there was no human around you. There was no physical eye. In today's time. There was no camera on you. There was nobody watching you. You were tempted with evil. You had the perfect time, the open platform, the equal choice to vent it, to perpetrate it to cause it to committed but you respected us. You honored us, we respected you, we honored you. Paradise is yours.

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My young boy made the calculated choice. My young brother make the calculated choice. That is why I always say don't react respond. reaction is instinctive. And responding is a thought process. When you react you instinctive in what you're doing, and when you instinctive it could be diluted with emotions. It could be flavored with so many things. But when you respond more than often you mature you balance you calm you focus your objective. That is why Sofia Antonia regimental Lala used to say La hygrophila remember the one narrow Oh my Allah What must I do with a woman or a drug? a son or a vise, the immediate consequences of which is the blaze in fire of hell. And Jose lipner Matteo

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Rahmatullah Allah said

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that in LA Taco Bell ammeraal furama for in nama fella what to call Mary raha. What did he say? He said,

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Do not

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Do not approach a son. Because for innama Halawa to duffner in nama Hana duffner tamari raha

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its sweetness is the first thing to disappear, and its bitterness and regrets never leaves you.

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It's sweetness is the first thing to disappear. And it's bitterness never leaves you. The point that I'm saying is sin.

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its consequences. It's repercussion. It's evil, it's permanent.

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lotta trouble ammeraal haraam for innama Hello. Now, how long is that sweetness? How long is the thrill and by a law after the senate the depression is greater than before.

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After the sun the depression is good. Now, I want to I want to take one incident and open it up. And that is the incident of use of a sandwich a brief briefly touched on that how he resisted temptation what Allah gave him back.

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The point is as follows a Plato's Rahmatullah Lee writes it. He says,

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When say, Ethan, I use a salatu salam was tempted with Xena the dynamics around him were very unique and hence the reward was equally great. Number one

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for in New Orleans Salaam Karna Shaban was shabu shabu. When you say when a salon was tempted with Xena, he was a young man. In youth and last are synonymous. It goes together. A young man in his youth. I don't have to tell you what happens to him.

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That is why Mr. Mohammed Ramadan, he said had definite Haytham

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is an abrupt Marina de la Bharani. And yes, even ma Sarah Anna who call in the La Jolla cool a human Cheb attorney Casa de Palma de Lucia Baba whom in LA and during the Kabbalah equity.

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What did he say? He said?

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Mr. Muhammad said I heard from Haytham Who said I heard from his smile evening, who said I heard from God Who said I heard from us even in Mesa who said that Allah says, a young man in the prime of his life, when his youth is at optimum level, brimming to its maximum temptations around him, a woman at his disposal money in his pocket, and then he objectively channels his youth in the obedience of Allah. Allah says to him and telling the Cabal Illuminati, you rank to me equal, like our angels rank to me.

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You rent to me equal, like how my angels ranked to me.

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So number one useful is Sam was a young man.

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He was a young man. Number two, can as urban lay selling the woman, a widow who he was unmarried. So he didn't have a legitimate alternative. He didn't have a lawful substitute. If a person is tempted with Iran, and that's the words of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, and then come home For verily your wife has nothing less than the woman outside has to offer. The world outside is calling you outside, be tempted outside, look at what is happening outside.

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That's the unfortunate part.

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So the husband and wife get chatting.

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The wife asked the husband,

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my beloved, if I pass away,

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would you remarried?

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She says no, never

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loyal to you faithful to the cause. I tied the knot once and that's it.

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I cannot imagine an intimate moment with another man. Wow, wow. Great, awesome, brilliant. After a little while, there's a twist in the discussion. The wife puts the spotlight on the husband, and about you, my beloved, if I go. So the wife says no, no, I won't remarry. I'll stay with my sister.

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I'll stay with my sister. She's single, I will just pass my life and stay with her.

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The spotlight is on the husband. What about you? If I pass away, would you remarry? I also won't remarry. I'll just stay with your sister.

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And also stay with your sister. That's if he's not already saved.

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So what does he say?

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Usually Salatu was Salam did not have a halaal alternative. He was not married,

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which intensified the nature of his challenge.

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But I must remind you at this juncture, and if you know not let me seize the opportunity to politely inform you. There have been scholars throughout history, who despite not getting married have lived a more best full life than you and I can possibly love after being married.

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And I know I'm addressing an audience

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who follow the teachings and the school and the jurisprudence of the great scholar Mohammed bin Idris a chef yo yo Rahim Allah, for whom I have great regard. And after all these were our great scholars without a Virginie be missing him. Yeah, juru either. jamatkhana Alma, Jeremy Oh, the poet said Allah. These were our forefathers that bring pride to us. For Gina be Miss Lamia jury. You have jury and whenever we sit down talk more about Shafi. Talk more about Abu hanifa Rahim Allah tala

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More about the pious. These were indeed the great dignitaries of their times for Gina be Miss Lamia, Jerry Rue de la mattina. Alma Jeremy wrote him, I'm sure he holds the view. And not only will unleash there'll be nikka

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and natali will Bella my Bertha ball Middle East, evolving nikka that if a person has the strength, the courage, the mind the confidence, and he has what it takes to restrain himself from sin, then it's better for him to devote his life to everybody that to engage in marriage.

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While Mr. Mobile has hanifa holds a counter view, and he feels that no, you should engage in marriage, we're talking about people who have the ability and I don't know if they exist in these times. But in terms of academic discussion, in theory, this is the view of the great giant Mohammed bin Idris, a chef of Allah

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a great scholar who visited our shores in the 90s. I was a student at the institution, and a memory that would live with me and a site that's indelible, and a thing that I will cherish for the rest of my life. And in many of my travels, humble travels to Canada, I had the privilege of meeting with his sons and his grandchildren, one of the great contemporaries of recent time, one of the great giants in the field of Hadith, he has written a Kitab, Allah Ma

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and levina, ansarullah mahallesi verge, scholars who consciously opted for celibacy, not to get married, and give preference to the cause of knowledge so that they could diligently serve the cause. And they devoted their lives and died in the cause without getting married.

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When I read that, it makes me tear. Why? Because as an individual, I perceived it to be part of the fraternity of the scholars and I don't claim to be amongst them. That would be an insult to knowledge by Allah. If I claim to be amongst them. I will be insulting the honor of knowledge. Read who Rama were, read who scholars were to think. But by and large, the community chooses to associate and assimilate us with them. May Allah make it that on the day of the Yama we stand up on the ranks,

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and you say these were the people. I share with you to three people amongst them, who lived a modest life never indulged in the holler lever on the forearm, and they devoted their life to the deen and they passed on. Amina La Rosa, and Mr. Musa hit alharbi and

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Amongst them was LMR the leader Azhar hid the man who lived the life of abstinence and Muhammad is the scholar of Hadith algebra to tsikata River a giant a demon, Astra he unparallel in his time, abou nostra bisher, even a heretic. nabta Rahman man, he was born in a place called Mirage in the year 150. he relocated to Baghdad and he made this his place and this became the seat of knowledge for him. Abraham Harvey who was one of his contemporaries series, but that in its history could not produce a more intellectual and a more learned man, then Bishop Mahaffey. He then counts few of his accolades, a he never begged baited any Muslim in his entire life.

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I was sharing with my colleagues, Imam Abu hanifa said if I was ever to beg by to anyone, I would back bite my mother so that she gets my rewards. Because when you backbiting you pass in your reward on he said, I won't be generous with my reward. But if I have to backbite rather My Mother, she gets my rewards.

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What was the I have these people? I wouldn't back by. But if ever rather my mother

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can have equally shot him in hakala. It was as if every strand of his hair every strand of hair was an independent brain.

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Low Cosima.

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Dad, if his intellect was distributed to the residents and the inhabitants of Baghdad, every one of them would have walked out from the intelligent and it wouldn't have decreased. He's in

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intelligence in any way.

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Then the youth of today want to want to idolize the immoral celebrities.

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Our Muslim youth, study your history, study your legacy. Study the people in your lineage. These were our ancestors. These are our shining stars. We haven't heard of them leave alone studied them or named our children after them. It is said when Bishop Mahaffey passed away. But dad never seen such a funeral in its history.

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Whole Life devoted to the sciences of Islam. Then he writes Jeff abdelfattah, Buddha writes woman Hala Hala elorza

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al Imam alhaja alhaja Alma Alma Hadith al mockery and logo he led Shangri

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I was reading this and I'm just like blown away my way with these people and who were these people may Allah and how they loved you and how you love them, and how close they were to you and how close you were to them. May Allah introduce us to that which was a common occurrence my in law. Who was this Mohammed dignitary robbery, who has inherited of Tafseer debris as any scholar devoted his entire life, who was the alpha t A Judas and mockery, a scholar in karate, and Napoli and authority in Arabic as charlatan, a great proof, prolific author, prolific author, and

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who had imbibed all the multiple sciences of Islam, and Mujahideen Mottola, who had the adequate sciences to independently access verdicts and make deductions from Quran and Hadith. Waka tabaka cerato

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and whose fame went across the continents and across the world.

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And then he also writes there. On the strength of times the hubby was the famous person in the infield of Hades and the nakane. Among the hubiera metal alley in history, Juma and Abu Nasr scgc, who passed away in the year 444 in Mecca, have his elbow his hand and Hepburn says one day I was sitting at the house of Vanessa Assisi someone knocks on the door. So I was the servant there. I stood up and I opened the door for him right and suddenly there's this beautiful woman there. I opened the door we were all taken by surprise you and I will wish for that.

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So she came in for a project keys and she opens up a bag and she takes out 1000 dinars and we talk of crispy notes 1000 not silver gold dinars for database, you shave and she puts it before the shelf

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These are great people we will say looks like ally as accepted my studies.

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How allies rewarding me rewarding you my brother.

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I'm afraid I have even diluted my tawaf while making Kava I abused my gaze. Oh my Allah what these in a shred of eemaan left in my heart. My Allah I am attracted to the beauty of woman while performing circumambulation.

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You can go to the Kaaba and boast and brag and speak about how many times you visit, but if you don't restrain your gaze, and you don't have modesty in your approach, I asked you my brother, what have you achieved?

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Maqsood, sister, what's what's the wisdom? She said, that doesn't mean I'm giving you this money. I want you to marry me. It very modestly gazes down and he said, sister, now how jellyfish diverge. I don't have the need to get married. She said but share. I am impressed. I'm impressed. I'm obsessed by the profoundness of your knowledge, and I want to drink from the spring of the knowledge alone has given you. And obviously I cannot do so because of the gender line. The only way we can break formalities, and this can be a legal endeavor is that I be wedded to you. And that's my only motivation. So you we don't have to have conjugal conjugal relation. We don't have to consumate we

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don't have to share the bed. I will be a female servant to you but perform the Nika so that it's legal, legal and lawful. I mean, look at the temptation at that level, not for haram for halaal. And these were humans and mortals. They had equal aspirations and desires. And then we want to say like, you know what, by nature, I'm flammable and she's throwing sparks at me so I'm erupting into flames.

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at the gas station they have you know, please keep firing that away because he's flammable like, Allah has created me flammable. Please stop throwing sparks.

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He said la gente de la Hitman. I don't have a need for anyone to serve me.

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And then he said, Sister, please take the money and leave. She took the money and she walked out.

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We might tell a sister I think you get lost. Can I show you the place? You know, normally even the navigation loses signal. Yeah.

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The navigation generally doesn't pick up signal perhaps Can I just walk walk you back. Luqman Hakim said oh my son if desperation calls you to walk behind a lion do so. But don't ever walk behind a woman.

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Luqman Hakim said oh my son if desperation calls you to walk behind the lion in shibaura acid.

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She was Oh, ma. If desperation causes you to walk behind a lion. So be it. Heaven knows what circumstances could face you at with jungle on which time

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but don't walk behind a woman.

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When she left, he said Horridge domains such as San Benito Bella Bella Island. When I left my town and my city, I told everybody I'm going in the pursuit of knowledge. And I don't want to dilute my endeavor even with the lawful. I said I'm going to learn knowledge. That's why I say my brother, you saying you're going for hikes? Are you truly going for hikes? I'm going to spend 10 days in Makkah, are you truly going to spend 10 days in Makkah, remember spirituality coming in from one side. And at the same time, you have a hole of your eyes, it's dripping, it's leaking out, you have the whole of your ears, it's coming out you have the whole of your tongue, you you you blurting things, so

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whatever you fill in in the form of worship and fast, there is a leak, there is a leak. So nothing has been retained. Simple example, we can have the most brilliant of ACS on but if the window is on or the window is open, the door is open, the desired object the desired result is not achieved. You've got to block the avenues of outside influence. And then you blow your coal and cool air, and then the atmosphere becomes cool and chilled. But if you have the AC blowing at its highest and optimum, and the doors and the windows are open, it's gonna feel like there's no AC on. You could be exerting your nights and your days and you could be doing the rest of it. But if these holes are

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open, I'm afraid I'm afraid that AC is not going to have the desired effect.

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And then in the end, Chef abdelfattah after writing he speaks about many I just said two three. He writes a beautiful prayer for Joseph Houma la Manjula de la Islami de la creme home, Fujiwara Hey Bill Horace Mann. Nabina was a detainer was Shahada. It was solly hain. May Allah reward these scholars on behalf of the knowledge of Islam on behalf of Islam on behalf of the Lama on behalf of the Muslim Ummah in its entirety, with the last two years of abodes in general, and may He wet them For verily they are deserving and most deserving for the pure damsels of paradise. Who better for the woman that the Quran says workover taraba developed in their chest? Cos hirato are modest in the

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gaze low maknoon hidden pearls lamea to me so hoonah ins on top Allahu Allah john no human has looked at them leave around touch them by a pen and into our T How do you know what which hand she will embrace? You know, we saw Samantha hava he said tell us he said low and banana, banana

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banana min banana bada let her finger be exposed and it will out shine the brilliance of the sun.

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Well, you know

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you and I, you know Jeff, tell us more. Tell us more. Oh, that's great. My brother, my brother, let's be real with life. Let's be real. Grab a bull by its horns, as they say, tackle the hard issues. When things get tough. The tough get going. Things have become tough, the tough have to get going, what is get going we have to turn to a law.

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Coming back to the incident of the use of a salatu salam without losing focus. We said he was a young man. We said he was not married. And then we just digress and and spoke on this year. The third challenge kinda Futura till mameluke

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while abdollah anime, manga and womanhood for his present profile was that of a slave. He was not a slave, but people had wrongly imposed the slavery on him. And as a slave, you didn't have to preserve your profile as much as a liberated person had to do so somehow he had an easier way to slip out into sin which made him most

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acceptable to the crime more susceptible to the crime more prone to the wrong then number four can occur even family he was in a foreign place and when a person is foreign automatically he becomes somehow relaxes the guard at home people are watching you know that Auntie across the road and Uncle this one that one but when you hit London Heathrow and you walk in at the airport you relax in and you chill in and you walk in and suddenly Islamic Salaam ready the Salam come from it now I was just browsing your total by some newspaper okay newspaper I thought you were looking somewhere else.

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You have God's but the law is watching you my brother

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in law

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can be

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and I

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hobby The one who created you won't you know you best won't do you see you all the times is not easy upon you is not his gaze upon you his watchful eyes there, you cannot veil him, you cannot conceal him You cannot block him. So usually Salah was in a foreign place, somehow the guard is about relaxed and compromised. Again, that makes him closer to the vice. That makes the challenge that much more daunting. That makes the seduction that much more difficult. Then a kind of dilemma to determine Sabino Jamal, the woman who seduced him was not an ordinary woman was not an ordinary simple. It was a woman minister's wife of prominence of beauty, of status of recognition, with

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definitely medallic Aquaman Devon Molina psychedelic, and obviously, and obviously,

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the challenge that comes from that dimension is far greater.

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Then what kind of tL muthana motto for your solo Britannica golfer to Tara Rajan, she initiated it. So when she initiated it, he didn't have to fear rejection. How many men would not initiate the fantasy out of the fear of rejection, they will harbor their fantasy, but fear that I might be rejected. So embarrassment of rejection keeps him back and not the fear of Allah. And hence for that man, there's no reward. He won't have the punishment of the wrong he won't have the punishment because he didn't do the wrong. But he is not restraining out of the fear of Allah. He is better than the one who indulges. But the ideal is the one who withholds for the pleasure of Allah.

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The one the ideal is, you know, the one who you tell your son, I don't want you to go with that friend. And then you come home. Mashallah, my son, I'm so happy to see you. You decided not to go? No, no, you still didn't come? I'm waiting for you.

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Oh, no. In the end, the friend didn't come and he didn't go. Are you going to give him the equal? Pat? Are you going to acknowledge him equally? No, he stayed. I'm happy he didn't go He won't get the negative influence of that peer pressure. But I'm not all that excited, because you haven't respected or recognized my sentiments. It's not me who you have honored circumstances have kept you back. So use of didn't have the fear to break the ice and approach the woman she initiated the whole thing? No fear of rejection. Furthermore, was that my rock bottom? Well, moreover, the Trinity has been known as the bar. She had come across in an assertive way. So it was clear she wasn't setting a

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trap. Because today you don't know you know, there's so many organizations they set a trap for you to test the waters how loyal you are. I mean, what a world we live in, in. What world are we living in? Oh my Allah. What more Are we going to have my Allah

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once I people are reading an article, person in certain remote parts, selling body parts, physical humans are selling their body parts to put a platter of food on their table. And other people are exploiting and abusing and they, as you know, amassing more and more and just look at the imbalances and the cross discrepancies between the poor and the wealthy between the ruling class in the subjects. Y'all allow what a discrepancy only Tiamat is going to explain this whole thing. One brother said to me, I said no, that's the wrong way of saying it. But anyway, he says, you know, Chef, sometimes I wish like I'm just want to sit on Tiamat. And on this big screen, I want to have

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some popcorn and some coffee and watch this whole thing. What happened in the world. You know, who killed who and who's done who and who was the victim and who was the victim? And was the mother in law right to the daughter in law was right and was the person

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You're correct. Can I see you I want to watch this on this on this big screen on I said my brother there will be issues for you to answer. You, Joe bibliodrama Jamelia Mati Ghana who better? Buhari my Habib's awesome said you will appear as a lamb before your law. You will be trembling yourself. You're not going to be all structured and massacre and strong and, and and bold and loud. You will be a lamb you won't even be a sheep you'll be a baby lambs that will be coming in. That is your position before your alarm. And furthermore, what else did this woman do? Was that that Metallica tagliatelle. In addition to all this, she shut the doors. What can it be Mahalia Soltani ha behind

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to terrify the mechanic lady Latina who are young. She was in a familiar environment in her own environment, sometimes in a foreign place. You don't know the place. She doesn't know the place. The curtain moves, someone blows the horn, the alarm bell rings immediately the spinning. She was in her familiar environment. So she knew the nukes and the corners. She was at ease and calm. And she tried to bring that level of calmness onto us and seduce him, as the Quran said was a baba baba Talat. retallack wirkkala cotton above wa Taala. Alexey shut the doors and I painted the picture and use of his young and he's single, and he's foreign, and he's a stranger, and she's prominent, and she's

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beautiful, and she's assertive and the doors are shut and the man is young and the woman is beautiful. And she said, Come on us. Let us indulge. Let's close our eyes for a moment and thing thing Yama, Yama, Yama, Allah we don't even ask for that situation to get that reward because we know we weren't able to live up to it Allah. We don't we asking you my Allah just let us not face those challenges Allah, we are too weak to even imagine the thought what would happen to us while Allah

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La palabra de la Cala Mara de la palma de la.

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be synonymous Why? He said Allah for bed I will never entertain the thought my alarm has been too kind to me to even imagine disobeying him. My Allah has been to guide I'm asking you, where are you short of? That is why one scholar said you have a peaceful night, you a exclusive dress, you love a good home, a wonderful lifestyle. And what's your gratitude, you must your father Salah. That's how you start to have your gratitude to Allah.

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You start to have your gratitude by a moment in your future prayer. But he restrained himself. And I told you what Allah gave him the Empire the dominion of Egypt. I want to mention with you a few incidents in Shaolin and we try and draw it to a close. It is the reign of

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the Allahu anhu.

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He dispatches the Sahaba in a direction. Amongst them was to live in Africa for the Allahu anhu they were apprehended and intercepted. The King of that time was told that in the group there is a young man of the leidner who's alpha, who belongs to the companions of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam. Abdullah Hassan of the Alanna was summoned and he was brought forward.

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When he comes forward, the king says to him, I have an option in a proposal to make to you said Go for it. He said our inter alia Kamran who Sudoku cafe Mulkey was Soltani. you forsake your faith, embrace my creed, and immediately you are half in my empire.

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People give us false hopes and we bow to it. People give a false hopes and we bow to it, we lose the money and we lose our law. More importantly, I told you, my brother, the most exorbitant thing in life is sin. Because why it costs you not your health, not your wealth, not your wife. It costs you your Allah. It costs you your Allah.

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Remember that person said no, but I'm only paying $1 interest. I said it's not the number. It's not the amount. It means you and Allah at war. It's this antagonistic relation you've entered into with your Creator. That is the painful thing, not the connotations of $1

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it's not $1 or $2 you are at war with your Creator. How can you sleep with bees? How can you toss by night? How can you eat his food? How can you breathe his air?

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So alive NASA said talk about the possible don't talk about the impossible. Low our date any Jamie I'm Adam Lee

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Jemima Malika Allah Allah. Allah and Allah Jehan, Dini, Mohammed interfraternity

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asked me to entertain the thought of forsaken my faith, for the duration of the wink of an eye and offer me the luxuries the entire world has I won't accept this

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As an offer

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in other words, he painted an extreme scenario, utopian of what you have. I'm saying go more go wide, go open, go large, go macro to the whole world on that side. And this side asked me bare minimum, entertain the thought of forsaken. And I'll say it's not a deal.

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We'll say, you know what, but in my mind, I knew I wasn't going to do it. And with that money, I can help the poor.

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Why can't you help the poor with the money that's in your pocket?

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Why can't you help the poor with the money in your pocket?

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Make the call today my brother. Don't latch on to it. Don't become obsessed with it. Nothing is mines.

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sha Allah, Buhari Rama Talalay, an orator like no writer, a public speaker like no public speaker, I heard scholars saying he used to comfortably address the audience from a charlatan fighter.

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In the latter part of his life, he had a stroke which affected his speech the most. He said my Allah taught me I wasn't speaking.

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My law taught me I wasn't I am not here because I want to be it's the sheer mercy of my law.

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Nothing is ours. Anyway.

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Abdullah, Ilana says I will not accept this as an offer. The king says okay, bring the most beautiful woman to Navy be Malika t Jamal al bilad. Miss worlds, for me translate that phrase Asha into the room, and then leave them for a moment together. And the obvious will happen. So she is ushered into the room. This is a young man who is away from home. temptation is at its speed. The most beautiful of woman is put in front of him. She walks into the room and she is told to then undress herself. She then gradually addresses herself. After a moment of silence. There is a loud scream there's an awful cry does throw if the whole suddenly everybody dashes opens the door. And

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okay, right. Can we accuse him of rape of advancement of this? She comes out and she says words that made me cry when I read it. I read it in the writings of Satoshi Nakamoto lolly. She said voila, Hema de aza karoun

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what we're learning here, man Udry at the hunter Mooney Allah Bashar in a manner

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by Allah this man doesn't know if I'm a male, or I am a female. And by Allah I don't know if he's a human or a stone.

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By law, this man doesn't know if I am a male or a female. We will know what nationality she is. You can just see from her nose.

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You can see she looks like from her hands you can see she's invaded but you can see she's young.

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My brother my brother, have I only got this venom throwing out from my eyes? Have I only got this poison going out from my eyes? I cry sometimes to my Allah and I talked to Allah Almighty Allah when will my life change? Oh my Allah. When will my attitude change? Oh my Allah. When will it be the resistor passes by and I don't have a nasty thought. Oh my Allah. When will it be that I don't have a fantasy for the woman across the road? Oh my life this woman who comes so modestly clear and speaks to me asking an aspect of Dean if you have to unveil to her how dirty My heart is. Perhaps the earth will split in solo hive. She has to know how evil I am. May Allah by Allah He knows not if

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I'm a male or a female and I know not him is a human or a stone. The king says okay, we'll kill him. So two innocent Sahaba brought prisoners a pot of oil is burnt and they are hurled in and they are burned. And then Abdullah hasakah is taken as he is going he starts crying. So the things that King says Okay, looks like now we've got him thinking and he's changed his mind. Bring him back is brought back.

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You're crying change of mind. He said, My Allah gave me such pleasure in obeying Him. Now what did I say? You do it and then you see the pleasure, the excitement, the happiness. The ultimate is just not to obey your Creator, but to cherish his obedience. That's it my brother, you bring me a glass of water. He pulls his face up and he goes and he brings it and the other one doesn't bring and then you admonish him and he says dad, but I brought it Yeah, but honestly with the attitude that you brought it maybe if you didn't bring it I would have been better.

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My brother I'm asking you what what attitude Do you get up for further? What what attitude Do you first do you think you do in my favor?

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How can you impress my Allah by abstaining from food when he never eats? How can you impress my alarm by abstaining from drinks when he never drinks? How can you impress my Allah is only trying to help you to get you closer to your paradise.

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Oh my boy, how much must I impress upon you, your studies, your nobility, your character is to make better of you and there's nothing for me. And the sense is no, no, you want it but I'm telling you, it's for you. And this conflict of interest and he just tell he doesn't cross that hurdle. The antagonism continues and the day the boy realizes and reality dawns and maturity sets in that I'm doing it for my own interest. Now he is motivated by his own agenda. My follow along will be either bacon in Chicago Tom, Tom and Tom. majella says My sovereignity is at its greatest punishing you can make me greater.

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punishing you can make me greater, but if you choose to be stubborn, and if you choose to be obstinate, then even the profit set for K for assala. Woman caffeine. How do I lament the fate of a nation who chooses to deny?

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You tell him listen, he says no. You tell him listen, no. Then this consequences now you want me to cry? How do I cry when he chose to disobey?

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You tell the boy don't run you're gonna get hurt. No, no, I'm okay. My Baby, you're gonna get an arm. Okay. So when it gets hurt, what is it, God, you learn?

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That's what you're going to say.

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So he said, I am crying not because I'm going to be burned. But I'm crying that I'm feeling so close to my alarm. And I honestly wish I had multiple lives. I could lay them down one after the other. But I feel sad that I don't have more. And I can relate with this. Sometimes for your partner you have in a good moment. And you know you're flying overseas, and she says, buy me this. And you said that's fine. And then how much is it? It's $1,000 Oh, leave it My darling My beloved will love you Even if it's 1000 pounds without twitching my eye without frowning for you. I will do it. And trust me it was 10,000 pounds if I had it I would put it down. It's not the money it's just to make you

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happy. We have these moments in our relation. The pie is headed what they allow my ally only have one life had this man asked more and you favored me with multiple I wouldn't have winked my I would have laid them one after the other.

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I would have laid them.

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We haven't been introduced to this season earlier the olaru. up to salamina. Shed dad says I heard from Vaswani Jerry Who says I heard from his from my father. And he says one day we were sitting with the Allahu anhu

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and then the topic of immorality started. Then F's, the ego, the carnal desires.

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So I'll leave it alone who said

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Allah berukuran Bianca Messina and Allah should I not tell you of the most worse form the most despicable the most deplorable the most detestable sin in Xena

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so we said but it would it not be correct to say every form of Xena is deplorable. He said yes, but one is worse than the other. Now before I tell you this year, I'm gonna share with you how the devil misleads everyone. The devil has a different ploy, but he traps everyone. So one brother came to me once. He said, you know, Chef, I've got this bad habit. My gay is rooms, but one thing is for sure. I will never look at the non Muslim woman. I only look at Muslim woman.

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And I always tell myself, I look at like, you know, someone that I could potentially get married to stuff, Finola, I don't justify that, but I have that degree of discipline in me. I wouldn't want to cast a lustful gaze on a non Muslim woman. But I say rather, I'm doing a wrong but better off with a Muslim sister and by law, this is not a thumbs up. I'm telling you what happened. Another brother came to me. He said, You know, I have this bad problem and you need to advise me, but I always feel I said, Why must I cast the dirty glance at our Muslim pure sisters? I rather look at the non Muslim woman and you know, alarmist Forgive me for my wrong but I say no, this is not right with our Muslim

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Asad Subhana Allah, The devil is playing tricks and clapping hands. He got this one hooked here. They got that one hooked here. And this one is appeasing himself. I'm not all that bad. I'm not all that bad. So like how often you know I don't have backbite anyone but I'm just saying, are you just saying what you make by Jean

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Luc here? We're not here to bad mouth anyone and stuff. I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm better. It's not a holier than thou attitude. But just as discussion you know that that

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Brother is really amazing, his wicked. Was that my brother, you are sugarcoating it.

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So today if you look at all your pediatric medicine, everything is sugar coated. The child wants the sweetened medicine. That's what you do. It's the same thing. But what happens is when you sweeten it, it compromises the more butter the better. The more butter the better. That's what we know and what we learn. So I said the devil got him trapped this way the devil got him trapped this way. There is no change. The prophet SAW some is in me now.

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Further live now bus. His cousin, the brother Abdullah boss is mounted on a woman from the Hassan tribe guns. She was a woman, young and beautiful. And she comes to ask a question to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam so nobody says him took the neck further dibner Abbas lawan open further and said further look that way.

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So a bathroom Yolanda was present. over lunch, the waiter an open bottle, you turn him like this, My Habib sallallahu Sallam said, to sharpen a sharp button phenomenally misshapen. I seen a young man and a young woman come in at one venue, I did not consider them immune from the devilish influence. I am saying Allah nibi is present. It's handed to law. It is the combination of nobility to perfection. There couldn't be a better venue a better person a better thing. And today the slogan is our hearts are clean, or hearts are clean.

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I don't have evil intentions.

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My brother You can sit by fire and maybe not get burned but will feel the heat. You will feel the heat. And one day you'll be burnt. Anyway, say that earlier the man who said in damansara in the LA

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era Julian Muslim. The worst form of Zina is that you make Zina with a Muslim married sister.

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He said that's the worst form of Zina why you're supposed to be a guardian to her protection. You're supposed to be protecting and safeguarding her.

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You've violated the boundaries of protection. You've showed no regard to that and on the reverse. You've perpetrated the offense and then the profit and then save the alarm set in NASA yourself valuable material on on the day of Tiamat this foul smell will be unleashed on the occupants of hell Allah save us and it would be so so unpleasant that it would become unbearable they will block their nose suddenly a person will call out and say to them help the drama the reality that come to you people know where this foul smell is coming from. They will say no we don't know in bla bla bla bla bla but it has really hurt us and we cannot bear it any longer. Then he said an earlier vilano said

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it would be said to them, Allah in a hurry. oferuje Suna Allah De La La Habra, Xena home with me to boo Minho. This is the foul smell from the PI private organs of the males and the females who indulged in Xena and this is causing this discomfort that every dweller of hell will hate them because of this pain.

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To incidents inshallah and some concluding advises

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iplay chose to lie makes mention of a man, he was walking one about a pious woman and one about a pious man. We are living in an atmosphere of sin and vice immorality. How do we address the issue? How do we move on forward practically? Anyway, this man is walking, and suddenly his gaze falls on the woman. He's drawn towards like a magnet. I don't think you have to explain that happens more than often.

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He couldn't contain himself. So he decided to put pen to paper.

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And when a man wants to praise a woman, your wife will tell you what you said to her.

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On the reverse, one of my scholars used to say, when does a woman praise her husband? Two times. One is before she's married to him.

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You know who I'm getting married to? You know, I'm getting married to. He's the Dean of the Faculty at the tertiary institution. You know, that prominent scholar I'm getting married to him. She praises him before she gets married. And the next time she praises him when his funeral leaves the house. Your father was a great man.

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My sisters say to him when he's alive.

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Don't spare the praise.

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We have become a nation it takes the deaths of people first to acknowledge them

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so forming tabou bill by the farmers in tune fee shakin

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Eva da da,

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da de la barra de Rasulullah. You know, I have this brothers, when I'm reading Quran, I'm a wicked man. And I'm not saying this year to generate any acknowledgement. And all my son's, I know my sons and I know. And it's just the mercy of a liner asked a lot by his kindness, not to deny me and deprive me of what he's given me because of my voice. But I always identify with one quotation of a bill like a bus or the alarm or angle. He said in in it Allah for our doula, and the nurse or Jamie and ademu, Muslim lady,

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he said, I'll be studying an ayah and I get so engrossed in this ayah that I have this desire. I wish the whole world could join me today in this lesson of this ayah. And equally could see the depth of this verse like how I'm seeing it. And really, sometimes when I'm studying in the late hours of the night, and I am, I'm so engrossed in it, and I enjoyed by Allah so much, and I see a look out of the window, it's late, it's late when it's 12, and it's dark and all is sleeping. And I say Allah, I wish I could scream out to the world. I wish I could scream out to the world what you have said in this ayah

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all our

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use of form in kaaboo Bill

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defoamers is done. Fish, Kim

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de la barra de Rasulullah, Casa de campo de la, Missouri from route

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24 Jews who remain the pious believer in his field according to narrations, he said to the people, when Yusuf was present, then you didn't value him. But when he went on, and this is mentioned in the footnotes of Syria with money, you said, we will never see a man like him again, you will never see a human like him. Hi, Aidan Allah capilla

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de la barra de rasulillah, the point that is mentioned in the footnotes of Syria with money, it took the depth of demand for you to treasure him. So we were just talking on that note where you know, unfortunately, praising a man before you married, and post his death, we need to share kind words, why we love Him, we need and if we start sharing kind words to one another, then we won't walk out of our house hungry for the praises of the opposite gender. So when the sister passes a comment to me, I'll feel offended. I'm married, what do you mean? And when somebody makes an advancement to my sister, my sister will say back off. I married my husband and beautiful to my husband, that's good

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enough. But the problem is I'm not telling my wife and she's not telling me so we are going out is thirsty and hungry people. And then we feel inflated and inflated and acknowledged by one polite smile, which is also diluted and polluted with some other agendas. Today in the corporate world, how common a slogan that a woman has to sleep her way up to promotion.

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It's a sad reality. in the corporate world a woman has to on the global stage on the macro level. It's not skill and competence. And then and then with the fourth tongue with the fourth tongue, we want to talk of empowering woman liberating woman yet we enslaving them for our passions and desires and we subjecting them to promotion on these grounds. With the state we differentiate in monetary returns and with a forked tongue, we want to chant the slogans of liberating and empowering woman Oh my Lord, what a sick society have we entered into my Allah

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open our eyes Oh my Allah that we see the truth is correct. And the sin is incorrect. So anyway, he seen this woman and long story short he decided to put pen to paper and he dropped her note today's drop and SMS. What did they say? cut the cord into accessible and shumsa work

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well, but dropping human body in bill Haas Nimmo sufu had a took up at the web in kiloton sudhin was so dorky for the Mac to fall for

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him and Danny phone. Well, it can be too hard.

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Buffy his show crew was with me was

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the bill habima Oh, I don't want to elaborate Time is up now. And you know, Much has been said Long Story Short.

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He says you know, all my life I believe there was only one son and one moon till I see new.

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All my life I believe there was only one sun that rises and one moon, tell my gaze fell on you and I find that you simultaneously embody

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The sun and the moon. Wow. Wow.

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A man when he wants to throw had a turkey until I seen you fee as well being kiloton clad in your beautiful choice of clothes was so the whole key focal hajima to fool and to compliment your beauty that smile on your forehead. I was literally blown away for two. I moved on one mini honeymoon, but my heart stayed behind. My heart stayed behind many of our hearts are overseas roaming and never got back from that business trip to China. Going for business what business not your business, okay. Okay. Okay. I'm going for business what? Not your business. Alright. Okay, brother, my brother Holla Holla D holla, holla Holla Holla Holla Hill. If you went and you made Zina, and you made five

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containers and you made $500,000 may add more zeros and make it millions, that wealth is bereft of goodness, it's devoid of purpose. Because all that money caused one Xena in your life, cause the one Xena in your life, love the hand to mouth and meet your Creator with a pure life.

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My heart stayed behind.

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And I couldn't detach from you. So please respond. I anticipate your prompt reply, your prompt reply. And I look forward to a positive response. I'm really infatuated over you. The reason why I said this was not to to give you a light moment and to throw Leo, but rather to tell you the answer of the sister. And may Allah make that the answer of my sister Allah forbid that any male makes an advancement to her. But this is the answer of our great woman of history. She said in contenta hacer benzac in weather NASA been in sharifa we got the FEMA rufo in zona de una escena de la Kala home in zona una semana de la la home. lm bn Nakayama de mo boo, Roger Callahan de la homerun Roger Lin, for

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in a cul de sac sure you must rule. She said Oh brother, your apparent appearance suggests piety. Your appearance suggests piety and in harmony with your appearance, the right thing would have been that your gaze is low in sharifah, because the third female ruffo you should know better. I could give you the moment spare you the time and we could indulge but those who commit Zina are bereft of all goodness and happiness and they never see bliss and joy in their family or their children. What I'm What?

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terminate your false fantasies abandon your false hopes. Oh my Allah let these homes die today say I mean Oh my Allah let this false aspirations dwindle and never reoccur my Allah Oh am I allowed wrong have I done in Yes, I have done my Allah too much wrong. Because of which I have become a vessel of caring felt in my heart may Allah Almighty Allah clean this heart, purify this heart so that your countenance can descend into his heart so that your new can empower with this heart my Allah so with my eye I see your greatness with my ear a year your greatness with my tongue, I glorify Your greatness. Oh my Allah. wa Jalla hakala hoomin Rosalyn for in biani will factor in Masaru. Maha is

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averted from sun. It hits him and he says a young girl. She's more conscious of Allah than you and he felt embarrassed. He gave up a life of sin. He didn't obey the line. He was making tawaf one declared in a simple gum and you're the sister is making tawaf and she sees him. I often tell people, you know, people say I'm suffering from Alzheimer's, and I'm forgetting things very quickly. But today people have selective Alzheimer's also your own money I forgot completely.

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Who you greeting she was with me in school 30 years ago. What a memory my brother What a memory.

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But you said now last week, we struck a deal and you forgot you owed me money a week ago. My word This girl has mature and she's a mother of two. And you were together in grade three and you're I made a spot on recognition. I call it selective Alzheimer's.

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Who are we? Who are we? What are our memories? 30 years ago? We were in kindergarten together and yes spot on. How's life you married? Oh, that's nice that your little one that's so sweet. Mashallah, who you got met? Oh, you got married to him? Good. Good.

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I always think of you

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oh my alarm changed my life Oh my alarm changed my direction Oh my alarm change my vision Oh my alarm led my eyes open Oh my Allah let me not die like the smile law let me not die like this can the dynamics of my prayer change from tonight 80% of my Why is he owes me and I owe him and I want this and I want that and in the tail and discipline of spiritual needs that are just blended in and the drives wrapped up Can I start off with my spiritual needs, make that the focus in the BR and in the end just bring in whatever material needs I have aligned living on this world and I have to love and I have certain needs and necessities and amenities and asked of you to sustain and preserve and

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protect Can I can change the dynamics of my prayer. So he's making the work she's making the work she spots in clad in the simple clothes. She says unlike a film of our brother, I'm ready to get married to you would halaal Nika been an option is that sister? That was an option before I was introduced to the beauty of Allah. Now that I have tasted that Herman halaal I'm clean from both concrete into a room ozotic Kabbalah and ahref Allah wa kibeho when RM Shalini Bhagwan herb belay, so she said, that's great. I met the Kaaba, I won't speak a lie. I didn't want to get married to you. I was impressed to see your piety and the only motivation of my question was to ascertain your

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spiritual level. I wanted to say in your stage of climbing way will you and I'm great to know you reaching heights and that's so great. And then she said for tofu na pala hotfoot toffee lava fo for two phenomena hotfoot toffee lava, runny now bianculli mirandola smelly, we were making the love and I was engrossed in the greatness of my Allah and he was in grace in the magnanimity of Allah. Suddenly we made eye contact and there was a bit of recognition but then we were oblivious of one another because we both were consumed in the beauty of a law

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because we both were consumed in the beauty of Allah, Almighty Allah give that to me as well. This was the beauty of a young girl flip the coin and a young man. So there was this woman very beautiful. Josie makes mention of a debonair homemade incident. She was living in Macau. She was very beautiful, impressive. One day she came home she looked at herself in the mirror, and she had a light moment with her husband. She said darling Do you think any men will look at me and not be attracted to me?

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woman feel bad if people don't say she's beautiful she's so nasty. She couldn't even say My clothes are Mashallah

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and she feels like she's been you know, victimized Oh, she wasn't better. And look at look at look at we learn from the live hire to Sahaba Abubakar Yolanda sees his daughter iE shahadi Ilana looking in the mirror.

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She was a woman she was a young girl.

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I said I read an article in Western Australia. They did a survey on girls at the age of six. And those girls said they are not happy with their fingers.

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Girls at the age of six I thought they played mommy mommy.

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That's what I knew girls in the neighborhood at the age of six are playing and it's a doll and a bottle and a pram and going and running and a diaper and all that. What a sick society my law

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girl in a law Hill moussaka. Oh my Allah Who do we turn to but you

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I set up the Atlanta is having a moment she's looking at the mirror. She's just seen herself.

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Over kalithea Lana said Ayesha, I don't know what you are admiring? Because my ally is not admiring you.

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Martin dureena Ayesha for in Alon Elisa be noted in LA. Allah is not admiring you. Why? Oh my dad.

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Because when a person cleanse themselves with a new garment, and they feel proud and obsessed, and impressed and exclusive, and elevated and superior, Matata hora, boo, youfor patella, Xena. Then Allah shuns that individual until he or she doesn't shun that dress and attitude.

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Immediately Isola the Atlanta took out the dress and gave it in charity.

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Immediately. Our woman cannot give it even after the new one comes. At least the cupboard looks nice. The hangers must match

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I got all my blue clothes one side.

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I went to one brother's house he sent me for I went to programs I stayed at his house. And then he told me to use his master bedroom. Well, I, I cried.

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And I went in there. And I thought it was a shoe shop.

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I thought it was a shoe shop, he, I guess he meant good to give me his best bedroom. And he didn't want to expose me or he didn't think much of it. But I made the door in my heart and I do this whenever I go. I say Allah wherever I go, people host me with the best of kindness and I have nothing but they respect the appearance of knowledge. Allah My prayer is not give them more money give them Deen Allah, give them a man Allah bring their children to you Allah Amaechi to make to offer their wealth and then they show me this respect on the appearance of Deen. I don't have it, but it's a it's a shame that you have hosted me and acknowledged me and respected and revered me.

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Those who had it I elsewhere and they have moved on that epic poet said but does that happen? So Martin kamalu wasafi Ricciardo has a Bulava Safina she Kumu fonder Okay, fantasy Ronnie g bilu when a bus was a great person passed away, someone said

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urbanas the prominent people have gone well, Martel kamalu and perfection has moved on. Even the time called out we are the humans we are the humans. The reply came here at a conference and you're either in the grave stand up and see how giants and mountains are relocated to cemeteries komu front door Okay, fantasy raja babu.

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So, anyway, she came home she asked her husband, do you think and he said of course I know of a man by the name of a very deep narrow man he will never fall prey to your beauty that give me the chance I will mislead him. I will end on this inshallah said go. You have my permission. He lives she lives. He had a discord in the harem said if she comes in the harem. She says chef, can I have a moment with you? Please? I need to ask you something. So that's fine. goes to the corner there for us for dinner. She unveils herself. absolute beauty absolute beauty. So he drops his case his sister place place is Saturday. Can you kindly conceal yourself? She said in a pod foot in too big. I'm

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infatuated over you, sir. Okay. Okay. I want to have a moment with you. Chef said Okay, no problem. Three questions you answered. And then I will I will look into your request. said Oh, no problem, my darling. We will say I was about to tell her No. But when she said Darling, I melted my

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life. You know, I just felt that she was so polite.

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My brother Remember my words, you either walking out from this gathering with a drug, or a gambling habit or a woman or you're Allah, you can't walk with both. You cannot walk with both. You either having a thrill of your happiness. You even have an inner excitement are wholesome Plus, you either excited for the moment and happy for the rest of your life. thrilled for the occasion, and overwhelmed for the rest of your life. Decide what you want. This is the goal. Apply your mind. You tell your son, these are the perks and the luxuries you enjoy. I need performance from you in academics and Islamic Studies. It cannot be that you don't perform and you enjoy the perks. If you

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don't perform you toil you labor you earn your provide for yourself. But if you show me results, all is done. All is taken care of. And without stress. We tell our children all we want this. Do your thing and I'll take care of the rest of it. Long story short, she says answer three questions. She says Okay, no problem. Number one

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logia a medical remote Leah with a rocky attorney Sookie. Annika day two Hello, sister. Let's forward time. Let's speed it up. Let's fast forward it and bring it to the moment of death and near the Angel of Death knock in your door. And you have your records. Would you like your records to carry the demerit and the son of Xena that I had done with you? Yeah, and now it's the moment of death just just fast forward things. She said I love them a lot. No, no never, never never love for but Allah for but Allah for bed this morning. We were there in the hotel and Mashallah brother suggested that we just have a little massage. And I could check in with the brother and I started

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speaking and realize I was lying on the bed and my hands were there and he put my hands on the side. I thought to myself that will also happen when my body will be lying One day, my corpse will be lying to them consciously been told Put your hands on the side, lie flat look down, leave it like this Breathe in, breathe out. But the day is sure to come my a lot the day is sure to come that my hands will be on my side. Some will be crying. Some will be shocked. Some will be disturbed. Some will be consoling others will. They say the graveyard is a silent place with a

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message the graveyard is a silent place with a loud message. Would you like it that I have committed this? No, not at all. Second question. Lo the hilltop rocky what would you list in imagelist masala you are loaded into your grave the angels appear reckoning commences Would you like to know that you have committed this act along my land? Never Never third question gee a big you appear before a law and your scales abroad. Would you like that on your evil scales? This is carried. She said no. Is it listen now sister in law, Fear Allah. You're a good woman coming from a noble house. Allah has favored you with everything. Don't throw your Namath away. Don't abandon what Allah has given you.

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preserve your relation, fear ally and change your life. She comes back the husband says What happened? Did you fall prey? She says no.

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We're not gonna lose balloon. My husband You're wasting your life and I'm wasting my life for up Bella Tada. Salatu was Salam ala Reba. And then she devoted her entire life to worship and piety and virtue. And the husband used to even say now what happened to obey dibner homemade. My wife used to be a bride for me every night, she's now become a monk.

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I just told her that you know what, he won't fall prey. But now suddenly, she's not making hello to me also, she's changed the whole focus of her life. These are my last two words to you. And I say to you, because you have studied the fit of a chef, Mr. La, I pray for him so much that you possibly know not because I am one of the most fond people of his poetry and his advisors. He said Sahib to sufia I stayed with many buyers, and I had the company of learning and drawing from the knowledge of great giants. And I can summarize all my knowledge and my information and my wisdom that I've acquired from all the buyers into words.

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Just the thought alone, gives you a shiver and makes your hair stand. A man like a chef who left a legacy, who left a school of thought was the 200 bucks who was one of the pathetic people of his time. He said I sat with them all I learned from them all. I summarize my stay with all the scholars to two words. Number one and work to save

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a lot to say phone in Qatar Otto kata time is a sword. Either you cut it or it chops you.

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Time is a sword. Time is a sword. It's going my brother it is going it's happening. It's moving. Yes, the year has done and we see the presence of a new Ramadan. Yes, I'm over the 50 mark and for some I'm over the 40 mark. And for some of my grandfather, my father has this happen. Is this boys Shut up. Yes, it has happened. The first thing I learned time is a sword. Either you got it or chops you and number two, one off. So, in shovel Taha bill has a solid kabil battery. Either you engage it in Allah's obedience, or then it engages you in a less disobedience. Either you say I'm reading a Koran, or then your ego says I'm going on the net. Either you say I glorify Allah, or then your ego

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says I'm popping a pill. But there is no in between. Either you engage in it, or it is engaged in you. That is the harsh reality. Someone said it very beautifully on the note of time.

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The past is history. The past is history. The future is a mystery. The present is a gift. That's why they call it a present. Why do they say it's present tense? Why? Because it's a present. It's a present. Nature has given you a present. You are walking out to my brother, we say ways you leave out there will be a gift bag. Make sure to collect your gift bag, there will be a complimentary voucher, there will be a CD, walk out what's your gift bag, and it's a gift given to you by Allah and what do the world call it. They call it the present tense. Why do they call it the present because it's a present, as they say aspire to inspire before you expire.