Sulaiman Moola – Auwal Masjid 12-10-2023

Sulaiman Moola
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have sudo and then he had the Kitab Imani Medina Eloy, he became very welcoming. She's Salah la Marley. Early he was like we hate the word people to see you. I'm about to fall in love with America, which I love people and machines will fall in. I mean, we learned you mean a shape on your body in Bismillah R. Rahman and Rahim Allah Nina's deja vu in the embodiment of a somber human pomp, in the interaction moving on waterfall, agile, lean, and lean upon Allah who will Natsu in the NASA HMR. Functional one presented in a manner what our customers Marvel whenever men with heels set up a love loving.

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They can be no doubt that the mind is passing through a very, very critical phase. And as believers we have been taught that regardless of how bleak the situation is, we know every situation ultimately comes from Allah subhanaw taala. And in every situation, we've been inspired by the techs to take certain action and to do certain things. Very recently, a friend of mine told me that my mom was diagnosed with cancer, and obviously left a lump in everyone's throat. Everyone was saddened by the diagnosis, and we pray and we ask Allah whoever is unwell May Allah grant is happier and Shiva. He said, while I was sitting at my mom's bed, in the hospital, and waiting and trying to chill my

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mom up and of course that's one of the teachings of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in a very beneficial level of the journey. Nicola Yan put up there find the America Europe Australia, where your three will be enough stuff Oh, come on. Then when you visit an ill and unwell person in June you

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say one word say kind words. Surely your current motivational words will not prolong the life of the human person, but will add value to the remaining days of his life.

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Today we talk of psychology as a science as a as a theory as workshop, the proper type of money was executed on the greatest level.

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The engineer say good word say kindness cheer the person up. It says I was sitting in the hospital at the bedside of my mom and trying to cheer her up and give her some positive energy trying to bring a smile on her face. Just that my siblings arrived. But the brutal truth is unfortunately, my siblings my brother and my sister have been at loggerheads for 10 years. And they haven't been speaking to each other. It became a bit of an awkward moment. Because obviously both had to come because mom's unwell. Now the standing at the door, it could see the awkward silence. And with the grace of Allah they mustered the courage and they embraced each other. And he says, my mum almost

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recovered fully just witnessing that.

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This room I was always told and taught to be united, and to be concerned about every Muslim, but sometimes it takes crisis in our life, to make us conscious to open our eyes, it takes the loss of lives. Yesterday in the talk, I said it takes the living

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to close the eyes of the dead.

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The dead, opened the eyes of the living.

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When a person passes on, we close the eyes Bismillah R Rahman letter rasool Allah, it takes the living to close the eyes of the dead and sometimes it takes the dead to open the eyes of the living.

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From the time this OMA became selfish, micro to macro, the ominous has fallen. And this has been no level and no limit to the downward trend.

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The breakup in marriages is one is too selfish. She's too self centered. She forgot I'm part of the marriage. He forgot he married. She forgot to marry me as well.

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This almost always was centered around a sense of togetherness.

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So don't be alarmed by

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What is the best thing in the courtyard of mustard and never we saw a loved one who sent them. At that time the Muslims were embedded

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in Alexandria.

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St. I remember was pacing in anxiety. What's the update?

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What's the news?

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Maura, we have been full age. Sophia, Oracle, Allah Allah, what have you been? What ages he was out. And signalman was anticipating his return anxious waiting. What's the news? What's the update?

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He decides only arrives at midday siesta.

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So you thought for a moment. I mean, we're not many hot you know, your normal

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mundane siesta, I guess. Set the alarm would be less safe. So you can do the messaging is insane. And he said, We need a coffee. So it was there. He was awake. He got up. He said, some of the Yanmar we're big summer volunteer Maria. Omar Alia. When the old man is facing a crisis, how can you possibly imagine that I wouldn't be resting.

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Then he said,

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Let him need to know her.

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But yeah, don't worry. We're immune to Leila. But you have to see okay, for nobody that has any idea what I'm doing this is the crisis of the OMA, how can I put my head on the pillow at midday.

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And if I want to put my head on the pillow at night, when will I find time to converse with my Allah, when this is the daunting colossal mammoth responsibility on my shoulders, you find me the time and I will go to sleep.

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This Allah was always concerned by the happenings around, they will never selfish and self centered look around us a breaker to cause the trigger factor in managers. And as soon as you become my honorable dad and that shift, because in my thoughts locally and abroad, Hamdulillah you still at pray for him, and may Allah preserve all of the seniors and from the goodness, he said to us one day, he said, My children in my 18 years ago, I learned one thing, the secret of happiness is make others happy.

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And he said the cause of depression is when you waiting for others to make you happy.

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The secret to happiness is make others happy. And the cause of depression is when you sit in, but immediately tweet me it didn't like me, it didn't compliment me. It didn't give me a thumbs up. It didn't load me he didn't extol my praises. It didn't let me speak complimentary. So I'm constantly waiting for gratification for acknowledgement. And this this hung up in me that I need to feel that massage my ego. So because of that, I don't get that repeated acknowledgement. There's a sense of deprivation within me.

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So now remember, the alarm was set down. And he was about to commence his talk. And he protected his case isn't for the youngsters. But it's implicated as we mentioned, in sort of Harvey and so I'm opening chapter 14. That look at it, as mentioned the formulation is that the youngster is not yet.

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Meaning with gems is it's so it's so low but very strong, very muscular, very agile, very prominent. said yeah, it's got some habits. It's got some habits.

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So I'm going to not mean all the alarm around the

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program subject to change without notice. He didn't say those words.

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he said we'll help the program because one of us is not presently.

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And they said unfortunately, he's got a tendency times of drinking and indulging in toxic ones. So look at the concern of movie he said, Muhammad,

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Allah, this is from Allah to so and so.

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Now said Muhammad was alerted that what you're doing is wrong, but he also wants to give him hope. You cannot give false hopes.

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Allah who said who is a true scholar Muslim you can meet in SML McCullough William Ross is

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the one who doesn't make people despondent of Allah's mercy, nor does he give them concession in Allah's disobedience. It's a fine line.

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But he started off on the element of hope can be

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Hello, I keep on saying I was once living in a Janaza prayer and at that time, I said that you don't want the profit somebody will send them Saturday, the donation in 14 people or 100 people will attend your funeral and they will pray for you. Allah will forgive you. So brother came to me that started, get some tattoos in this floating head. Big, huge muscular, isn't a human before you start, you know, you correct?

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To use a monkey and people come to the funeral, Allah will forgive said yes, that's immolation. He said, so if I speak to my cronies, and my friends and my buddies, and if 100 GUMBEL Allah forgive me, I said, Indeed,

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he found hope, in one Hadith. Give him the whole,

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of course, and that's what I'm going to touch on. And, you know, given the crisis, I think it's important that we are relevant to the situation so we speak on those lines, and we take a cue from the verse that was recited as well. So the Hadith tells us what I do to my advantage, so Allah, whatever now Allah he'll manage that helpless and feeble is the one who lives the lives of based desires. He just lives the likes of intelligence. And then yes, elevated hoaxing Allah. That's not correct. That's not correct. In fact, the verse that we have decided

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and I'll come back to this incident, perhaps let me complete this incident and then I'll you know what, continue with this. So I'm gonna be along the road

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in Africa live

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from Amman to somewhere in Seoul and we learn from this the etiquettes of communication. Our deen is rich, complete and wholesome. Sometimes people will send you a long message

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but you still don't get the gist of what they have to say.

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It's so detailed so prolonged, be comprehensive save the key points make it easy for someone to have personally glance or to peruse or receive emails David and receive messages squareness appreciate your crisis give it in a synopsis form so the scholar the counselor whoever needs to read and one look he has an idea what's happening are you somebody Allahu

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Allah manuals and my back for in the womb many young men have been massaged safely you know, slave upon people who mean a nursing that mandible was set up.

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Back Imagine, imagine the dahlias you've got Allah on one side, Mr. McCullough, Elena.

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Allah machine,

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Isha Abu Musa

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whenever we face the complexity, and you know, and we saw, as we say, an enemy, a difficult thing to resolve, we will go to our SRP Allah and she will resolve it for us.

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And she has the right thing to say in the namami of the Allah manual, the prophets of Allah and some said Allah Manukau we are What do you mean? I'm gonna guide you, inspire you and inspire people through you. And what's the message between these two giants? I'm not bad. For interval maniac many people myself simply love your Swift hamidou minute Lansing done and love was set up

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over America humble advice to one in all but she communicated to him. Whoever whenever chooses to disobey Allah and does not an insinuation in any way that Satan Mr Miyagi Allah Muhammad and disobeyed Allah. But this was the context I need to make a qualifying statement saying that a man told his son that Bushwick Villa that doesn't mean his son was guilty of should you tell your son listen my son don'ts for

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smoking but actually when the way you're saying it to make me wonder

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the way you refuting it of them and and strongly and defensively. I'm just wondering,

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my phone is buzzing I don't have

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you know the other one walking like this.

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I'm not feeling too grand

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Thank you.

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You don't want

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save another month on a Sunday? don't ascribe that doesn't suggest so instead you need to imply that polytheism was founded as a message.

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So Whoever disobeys Allah

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is allies will become his adversaries.

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Whoever disobeys Allah, you are walking a path of the disobedience of Allah. You might have an entourage around you. You might have a presence around you. You might have some cronies around you. But remember, one thing is the past.

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You're walking is the disobedience of Allah with the passage of time gradually one after the other will start withdrawing drifting whittling away and you will stay ace out and all those who are your allies would adversely become your hostage you know what hostile towards you and adversaries was salam

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Subhanallah that's how comprehensively

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Today we live in a world you know what? You get a motivation in the mornings. Wow. Goldman I'm blown off my feet and entrusted to us today. And then you needed another motivation and another configuration. Mohammed bin Watson who was one of the Great's of this former management did not have subject matter expert on it earlier. We're in the Mohammed bin.

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You have some local recycler some international and then you have those who are the selected disciples of Allah. The Prophet sallallahu sallam was walking toward the garden, Mohammed Bin was, someone said, going to get up behind the villa. Hi, Bella, one of his contemporaries, were considered to Villa Hiva that sometimes dips for spiritually, then I would just go and attend the gathering of Muhammad bin was there and then just a cursory look at that man would spiritually invigorate me for weeks on end.

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Going to either Ohio to Hillary Bader What concern for Hillary Bader no one took Allah Muhammad

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May Allah grant us that inspiration in that configuration?

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Set the alarm I wrote to the person

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mean remember

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that then he said, the following verse.

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loving them, they work toward being in television, the delivery copy the pole, La ilaha illa while you live in Missouri,

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it's the first sort of movement. What is sort of McLuhan? That's chapter 23. In chapter 14

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Laughing Don't be welcoming in tow for in May.

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Allah help me that in other in law, also when so i Please before you Allah, who is one forgive since

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overlooks paddles, that he's made strong. He has absolute authority and power and he can punish as well. So said, now I'm gonna commence by pleasing how often it happens. There's an issue at home there is some mental discord. There is some turbulence between husband and wife. And now you need an icebreaker two brothers that are talking or someone is completely withdrawn. Now you need to find the right words, we've touched on psychology, it takes a lot at that time of maturity, what's the library because that first moment is going to either make or break is going to sell you to destroy it's going to men or me.

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It's going to mend or end.

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And again, the prophets Allah isn't in a hurry. When the messenger somebody's who came home, and he noticed that fatality Allah Reinhardt and he had a dispute.

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What is the secret to a happy marriage? The secret to a happy marriage is to imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

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What is the secret to a happy marriage to imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other?

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Amongst the phrases that the Prophet SAW Allah would send them directly to a Buddha is revealed. You need to know this my brother, and you need to know this my sister, and it says that many of us don't know who this man is. He's the first son of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. We don't say that lightly and rightfully so. We don't say black man and rightfully so is sitting with okay Yahweh Allah Hahaha And what a spectacle appreciate who who needs to withdraw two methodologies and

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they came to my shop looking into firearms at the shortlist NACA Allah yeah Hassan and Zaha Well, I'm the big grown up being

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amazing Catholics praise etc Cigna a month when he was with his spouse and his partner and his console, okay, only about one and a half. And of course, the province of Larson pleased to say that if I had more, I would have lined them up. How many times a man gets his daughter married and your second thoughts if I could pull back I would.

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Have no Hausman levy was the eldest

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son in law the Prophet sallallahu Sallam went on to say how the Allah Allah, who was the nephew of the leader of the Allah wa

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When the prophets Allah Azza, Naboo. And of course, all his daughters followed with him in the deed, at that stage, it was still allowed. The marriage was still intact, but there was no intimacy, etc. Ebola has been revealed, received mounting pressure from the people have not got to be loyal to them and to divorce his wife.

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And they said to him very softly by that far,

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listen, you either divorce this man's daughter, or then we ostracized from society, you're going to choose to you ever if you're living with his daughter, that means report to the street and his culture, and you're mounting pressure on him. And he will stoop that pressure, and he don't buckle under that pressure. And of course, subsequently, he took the shahada and the province of Allah isn't and praise them, definitely a sort of funny or whatever, then you

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It took my daughter with respect and dignity, and he wanted it and he delivered on

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the Prophet sallallaahu daughters,

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okay, and also, what image initially wedded to the two sons of cupola, refine or diva.

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And, of course, the person would then reveal and then he told his sons that

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Roxanne and luksic Omaha in London,

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that I'm not your father, and you're not my son if you don't accept the relation, and of course, they've accepted him. I was saying the right words, at the right time. It took serious money it is mentioned in the footnotes. If a person uses the right word at the right time, the right approach and the correct fashion. The word has to have a profound impact. If it's lacking an impact, then you are devoid of all of the ingredients or one of the ingredients.

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The right word at the right time, not the right question. Ask yourself applying yourself. What's the right thing? My son is throwing a tantrum is being rebellious. This what's happening? Is this the moment is this the correct time. And I imagine if I applied myself, the prophets Allah son came home and he observed that it was not good and it only Allah ongo had left. And then he came to the masjid that hadith is in Buhari integrated and said that Allah was resting in the courtyard. And now he is the cousin. He is the view of Allah. He is the father in law. There is so many different angles to it. There's the sensitivity, there's the pride is the closeness that the attachment is the bond of

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Fatima only Allah Allah, there's the proximity is the relation is the sensitivity. How often and I do a lot of marriage counseling, but probably for the last 10 years, I have actually

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short circuited the presence of seniors. Because you have the quarreling couple, and then you say, Okay, let's get the seniors and you get to seniors. Instead of being level headed and kind to men, each one just comes aggressively defending their own.

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That's why in English, they say some people grow old. I don't know why.

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You are young ones, but you can be immature indefinitely.

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You are young ones, but you can be immature indefinitely. The old man nations wise people, not old people. Previously, old wisdom was synonymous to Oh, not anymore.

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Before it was if it was elderly, he was a wise man. Respectfully that doesn't apply anymore. We have a lot of people who are just aging five years

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along the line. It's not necessarily a good life. But a good life is a long life.

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A long life isn't necessarily a good life. A good life is a long life. And what did the Prophet sallallaahu Selim say? He came there.

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He seems a fairly resting and he broke the ice by saying to me,

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oh, dusty character, you understand? And of course, the Hadith goes on. And the scholars rioted and he said I would prefer someone calling me about Allah, because that's some of the prophets of Allah, they will send them and have been extensively. The adoption of the expression of Abdullah was the psychological display of just quelling the ice a moment.

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What's the proverbial English language? A smile confuses approaching stay.

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There a person wants to stay and you smile. He doesn't know how to do.

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A smile can tall and melt and ice stay.

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we have a problem

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Do we go out of our way to greet people who we know? And I don't say this is a problem, but I'll give you my context from Quran.

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And when people who we don't know greet us, we look beyond

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greet people who you know, and who you don't know. It's good that you go the extra mile. See the answers while you learn more?

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more and laziest. What either Can

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you say more? Allah? Yeah.

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So alternative has been waiting. If that must be a word in this was 32 chapters in the Quran satinwood. Wait, wait, it could either mean or putting hello to you. So Allah says, oh, we'll be through the process. And let me tell you, the third one is to fool when they need to receive image for a one gram shop.

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As African I'm sure that's not a problem, that's fine. You you're asking your view. But when you pay your view, are you just so particular the half a gram that shot. So when you demand in full, and you don't deliver in full, then it even makes your plus into negative?

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Because if you tolerant,

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accepting less than people might have a tendency to excuse you to a limit. But you wouldn't insist on the last penny and the last cent. So why don't you have the same passion in delivering my time is running out, let's get back to the point complete with the incident but is a good reflection for us. So of course, we spoke about it and we'll come back to the IR signal.

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Use the right words at the right time.

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Sometimes it's just the tone or the approach or the wording that destroys everything.

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Now ELA seamless, use the right word at the right time.

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So say, this is from Alma, to so and so I placed before you Allah will forgive to sky and what is mighty and strong our end, and miton plenty of glory. When the me thought the person you said you'd take this note and drop it by this person who has not attended because of which we have put our program on pause.

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And he told everyone under Allah had me a vehicle. And you will tell me now each one of you engage in prayer that alone was the focus of the heart of your brother. So it wasn't just a letter, it was laden with prayer. It wasn't just a note, it was brimming with supplication. It was rich. I always tell the youth, they say give me advice. I think your parents are right to say yes. I said follow your results within two hours. Then for the rest of your life in every crisis, you can go into that intangible reserve and pull out one prayer and it will celebrate you for the rest of your life. By Allah.

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Just fill it out. angulated like, my mom was so happy with me. She prayed for me. You would see how those prayers will come to your rescue and your salvage family. That's your choice. That's your choice. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam passed by and he said

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somebody has to do so too early in the

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new to let you guys stepped right authentic hadith. And then I see myself in Jana, and then I'm listening to one of my Sahaba Notman is reading in Medina, but it's amplified in gender.

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Not on YouTube. Not on national radio. Not on Livestream globally. No is eating Medina in itself. If I can only convince canonical bill about oneness.

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Because of his dutiful nature to his mom, Allah privilege, honored him bless him that his recitation on the earth was amplified in paradise.

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So everybody engaged in prayer, the notary was sent to the Smith, Baba Makita jacquela yatra when he started reading,

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and then he said to

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Oh, I salute the selection of your iron. I salute a man who's got a habit was not fully sober, was trying to recover was the relaxing is absent, I mean is consumed by his absent the entire program was put on hold because of him. we digress on the note of being a sense of togetherness, you know, set, the alarm set, and then from our

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ro E, Nika yesterday, I was on one.

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After that for the rest of that man's life, he never drank a ton of alcohol.

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And then set the alarm you said you

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didn't set it to go over Cebu? What are the cool new hours and cliche funny? Finally, when you see your brothers, they don't become the ally of the devil and making for more, become the lie of truth and help him stand

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up instead, give him hope. What's your words? What's your words, you can see the metal and you can either restore this back or demolish it.

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So this is we decided,

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Allah subhanaw taala speaks about the companions. And of course, on that note, we were talking about the importance of being together, you know, say now I'm gonna get along.

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Often I mentioned this year, you have an Eid celebration, or you have a happy occasion, and your senior people there and it's so nice. And there's so much more haha. And then we see, oh, wow, it's so good to see he came and she came and think Cameron, they all were there was a spectacle. And that's great. And then we wish hope and pray that that spirit must be transmitted to the next generation, which is brilliant within its own space. But if we don't put measures in place, which is dreaming,

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like all my kids, I want you to be close. But my son what they say our children pay more attention to what we do then say,

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but that I'm seeing you're not talking to my uncle and your brother and you're hoping for us to be united.

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What's What's the message you are making?

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And that's what marks the difference. The whole world today from the political platform to otherwise, once we form at the expense of others. Don't encroach on me don't infringe on me don't adjust anything in my life. You change, you legislate you implement. You abide. You're not above the law, it doesn't apply to me. So what's it there's no reform, there's usually people are rebelling against the state against this against that. The Prophet sallallahu wasallam when he sent the dough, he said, oh people, I have put all the interest methods that Martin Columbus had taken in usually beneath my feet, and all money that was owed to my family and my uncle because they didn't have

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passed prior to his son. That's the qualifying statement. He used to take interest and that's how they used to transact and money was taken. Right. The Quran said Don't Don't don't exploit don't extort don't deal with interest that have the moon

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is to say the Quran sounds very strong warning.

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Or you will believe don't indulge in compounded interest. What's the hola hola hola como to flat road and fear Allah so that you may attain success, what double love allottee more in depth again, Kathy and feel the * which was prepared for the disbeliever. So honey, Allah says, to get the proceedings and the post IR Allah knows you don't indulge in interest. And then Allah warns you that indulgence in interest will expose you in predispose you to a fire that was designed for the disbeliever. But given the hideous nature of your crime, you'll be hurting it as well protect us.

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Allah says, have all the interest is going on all the killing that had happened, the unjustly is gone. And we forgive the murder that happened in our family. And then he asked for others to forgive when you can take the leap as a leader. And that's what I'm saying. Now Robbie, Allah who was in his throes of debt.

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And he said, I don't know who to appoint.

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And they said, ignore her bus was surprising. He said, What about sewing so what about so and so? And I'm going to be alive said if not my best. Do you know what it takes to be a leader?

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Are we young middle aged?

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Ladies, gentlemen, ladies who have been late something could mean lady hopefully.

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It needs to be strong. They mustn't be harsh.

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But we can be late. Let you not believe the perfect it needs to be gentle. It mustn't be meek and docile and passive.

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Java Don't be like the subject. It needs to be generous but it mustn't be extravagant mom's second millennial lovely he must know when to withhold but he mustn't mind

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we cannot even process the theory Nevermind the reality

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what did I open it? Okay, you

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quickly coming back to my point here. So we dissected the beautiful versus the amazing verses and the relevance in ELA make it easy for our brethren at this time of learning strengths and abilities may ultimately happy a man like on victory. So Allah speaks and of course the ayats right as on a lot of men working on the streets about after the campaign and extradition of

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a stranger in LA he was also reading

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levena Roxon we know what

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the Levine aka level nurse in nurse pajama function for

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those who have lived those who comply those who are seated those who responded the same feature and quantity of a believer he is he's ever ready to comply and obey

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when you define the believer is the first in compliance and obedience

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Kulu who's

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become the head and not the tail when it comes to God, don't lag behind.

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Islam did not only tell us hold on to the Quran.

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Islam said make sure you hold properly.

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Sometimes we're holding but we're not holding properly.

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has mentioned and I've often quoted this in my talk in order to he writes a lucky receipt to Cynthia to Navy Secretary you can lose the grip of the rope of Allah but the rope don't break

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the rope and for Salmela

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look at the whole Quran wherever Allah tells you to hold Yeah, we'll be

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working on Obamacare. We accept the custom sequin Debbie ova delay after winning the verdict in the La Nina numerous applicator, holding firm.

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So in the campaign, my time is up, just allow me to wrap it up.

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After campaign, this is a very important message as a takeaway lesson. amongst all the other lessons that can be said, we can add value to our life. Because we're on the journey of learning. We're on the journey of learning constantly. In English, they say every person you meet in life knows at least one thing you don't know. Be sure not to convince them you don't learn it.

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Everyone you meet, it knows one thing you don't take the lesson from them and reach yourself. Empower yourself, imbibe it, internalize it and move on to keep on picking from each person in a moment, then you can add to your life. You know how much more insight exciting and you're going to become a meaningful, enrich and empower your life will become.

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So in the campaign, after the companions were injured, and then there was a subsequent call that was said, that the enemy is mobilizing for you. The Quran says a living embodiment of a woman.

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They were injured, they were bruised. They were mean, they were inflicted. At that time, you can imagine.

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You die, you're exhausted, you know, sometimes flying and fasting. And because the shutdown is close, you think is really working.

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So you'd like okay, except that any open the shutdown the sun is like smiling.

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The whole car, I think in that sense of fatigue, and you feel exhausted. And then people threaten them and said, You know what, pajama roulette on Fox show the nations have mobilized for you. The nations have mobilized for you. So feel them, what was the response of a true believer, but shallow

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not allow more net remain working. That provocation did not have a negative impact on them, namely increases in faith compliance and submission. That means you were threatening them word was embraced by them. And they said husband Allah who are never going to be looking. Now I want to share a hadith and I want to share a reflection and then hopefully I can culminate and conclude my god. The scholars have said that issue recitation of this word and it's light, is soothing. Is company is cathartic. It heals your heart. In fact, the scholars have written when you are afflicted

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With a tie, the recitation of inland inland in general is not only the correct response, but it is also a form of treatment.

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And this is the speciality of the soma. No anatomy was given this recitation, and they deduce this from the fact when Satana Yahoo was a great movie of the Almighty was separated from his son. And of course, a long period had passed and left. And the Quran says what we are

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building Luckily, he was in intense grief. And of course, he was crying and lamenting to the Almighty, but at no point do we find the mention of indirect law he went around the room and of course he was delivery of Allah he was the most Beloved of Allah as Allah references the entire galaxy of Gambia in the Quran, that was called a reverse algebra, he was tackling our pool, but we'll add we'll have a slot in alpha. So now we didn't think

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they were exclusive to the remembrance of the latter line.

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So the recitation is very soothing. And I often say to people, when you are going through a difficulty, then that volatile situation is infiltrated and indoctrinated by the devil. The devil wants you to blurt things. The easiest way to keep him away and suppress him is to then take on certain regimens, certain recitations, because now the mind is racing. Why, what? How come, I still cannot process this, but if you've asked me for why you do this to me, but how could I have experienced this, but I just lost him when this happened. So the devil wants to get into that space indoctrinate, start throwing out the whispers and start making the injections that are lethal and

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poisonous. At that time you recite any dua or thicket of words, which is relevant to your situation, there was a friend of mine whose son was diagnosed and it was traumatic and back and forward and diagnosis, and then hospital and and then it's precarious, and it's uncertain in this opening talks and up and down. And he said, What are you got me through the ordeal? namelessness are now in the market of Allah, Allah, who will know what Allah

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moon, tell them, nothing. But nothing afflicts you privately or collectively, micro or macro, individual or collective. But that which Allah has ordained for you, it is our master. And in every situation, we happy with him and we realize he said he was ready and ready. And when every time I get into this dark tunnel, and the devil wants to get me into the awkward space, and starts interfering with my pain, I recite this.

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So reciting this is cathartic. It's easy. It's soothing. It just comes back to us blah, blah, blah, whenever when working in harmony working a lovely first in everything number 11. It means brilliant, amazing, awesome, you have two verbs nevermind.

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So never make is to say, awesome, great.

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So Allah says, alumna call me man. My name is

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Mikey ilaqua in Milan, Papa Domina.

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If you know anything from something impure, then we placed you in the same room for the duration for estimation for a calculation, which we calculated, but then to anyone calculate better than us.

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We put you in this flow for opinion. And then the time lapse and that was our calculation. And that's what you tell yourself. What do you mean by you should do it

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with a monthly one.

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The Scholars say when you are afflicted with the test and mentioning and then verse in Surah Hadith I'm just making a reference and moving on. You tell yourself

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who won't remember who she

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is. But

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why not say the female?

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That we just happened in my life is the best for me, because it was calculated by the one whose calculation is the best. Though the wisdom of this calculation is beyond my comprehension.

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Remember, no commands or intention of Allah is illogical. Some are beyond our logic, but never against logic.

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It would be naive and foolish to assume a father's logic to be measured by the comprehension of a small child. Because then none of us are wise. What's the English proverb? Just when you realize your dad was correct. You have to stand in your house when things do encourage you

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You know

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that you go through all the things in the news? Oh, man, it wasn't shooting from his

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nose wise, he was talking with wisdom, and then your son challenges but then you don't make sense. And you don't make sense. Okay. So the recitation of these if

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we have centered, and I said to this brothers of mines, I said to them, happiness lies in Allah's obedience. I said to them, you cannot do the wrong and expect to be happy. It's almost like eating the entire day. And we shouldn't be hungry at the time.

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You simply cannot. I said, you can come at the table, and fake hunger, sitting down with everyone. But remember, your intelligence will be fake. They doubt us will be wholesome.

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When the first thing person opens in spots, only he knows. What's the answer to happiness. I always say in my dogs. The answer to happiness is once the deprivation, the whole year round we eat. Let's be frank, honest and candid. Are we ever excited for any meal? No, that was great. It was awesome was a barbecue. Nothing to write home about was decent, decent. But my mom is the one man from a five year old to a 55 year old. Everyone is excited for one mean, and that's

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and what was the answer anything different? No, no, you stay hungry. So you became grateful. You want to be happy, deprive yourself in moderation, and you will be happy. But if you just keep on filling yourself up, then you will be feeding this monster. And today we see the display of that gopher and that monster.

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That's what's happening. When you become oblivious. You're just out for yourself. Okay, the second reflection sorry for taking the time chapters well.

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I always tell people don't be generous in giving me time.

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Up take your words.

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That's one thing you don't want to be generous with me about. But let's leave this as a takeaway point. So in this under this very personal protective side, the other side is sufficient. So when confronted, you lead the

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use of a strap around, the woman may last fully advanced. You said Margaret

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Miranda logging in now you're being sent over the wire

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over Hola. Hola, Kobe. Not the point I want to further develop

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its intent

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to leave the relevant to harness but it is insufficient to stagnate at the sheer presentation.

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Did you get what I'm saying?

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So when you request a crisis, you say customer level networking. That's good. You seem simplistic.

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But you don't say my underlying sense. You don't say hospital Allah. I just believe an inactive is a Hadith of graffiti under this I mentioned in the past. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had pronounced a judgment between two people, there was some difference. And he said Allah, Allah will Salam pass judgment. So he passed the judgment after looking at the merits of the case, in favor of one Companion of the lung, and it is indeed immediate. And then you pass a judgment against one company and probably Allah. So the competitive librarian against move, the judgment was passed in the context of that situation is an aspirin, Allah, Allah is sufficient to beauty independence of

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our team.

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And it's so important to many, what defines synchronization?

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So the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said, Oh, call him call him. The one who said husband Allah.

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We're not telling you

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exclude or omit the recitation, we say don't stagnate at that level.

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I always tell students you've enrolled don't consider enrollment is graduation.

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It's the beginning of a great future. But the future hasn't yet you haven't yet completed yes you are on the path. You cannot rejoice because I'm part of this school or this tertiary or this institute or this place. Yes, this place has produced you are in the right seat. But now you need to you need to walk the door. You need to exhibit the prophets of Allah Islam said in Allahu

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read the narration. Allah this approves in action.

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When you just leave what I can I can the case. Adopt action strategize, plan, apply your mind. Take into consideration all the factors prepare the adequate

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for enough

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football has to be up

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Live. And after adopting, and exhausting, and strategizing, and doing everything within your means, if you overpowered by something external, and don't become despondent, remind yourself ALLAH is sufficient.

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So it gives flesh to the theory of the concept and the article of other interclean.

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If you don't have that lead,

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you will be stuck in the walls and the mysteries of your path, because you will need to close the chapter. And if you only rely on 30, without taking action, so the prophets Allah says in the cave on the journey of Hitler, and the enemy is at the mouth of the cave, and Abu Bakr has a panic momentarily. And the Prophet of Allah comforts aboobaker by saying, what's the panic, we'll do, the third of whom is Allah, having comforted Abu Bakr that Allah is with us. He didn't abandon the strategy and say, Let's go out of the cave.

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It kept the strategy in place. But he said, Let's not rely on the strategy, but he maintained the plan. And I think the number is desperate today. To rise to stand tall, we need to think that we need to apply the mind. We need to strategize. We need to be smart, we need to be wise we need to be circumspect. But then when you are smart, and you're wise, don't let that play off, aren't coming into your into my routine. 230 is my skill. It's my acumen. It's my qualifications. No, no, you need to have that balance that with the skill. And with the approach, you put your reliance on Allah, and I leave you with this verse of the Apple Valley his Salam, when he sent his children to Egypt,

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unknown to him that the king and the Monarch of the time and the ruler was his own son. And he said, Listen, you're coming from a foreign land, your presence is going to attract extraordinary attention. And when it's going to affect the attention, then inadvertently, you're going to become a spectacle of the evil.

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People are going to wow, is amazing, because they're prepared, well adapted, well speaking a different language, well dressed, well groomed, so it's going to affect the eyes. And some people have been you will. They will people in Morocco who had such a strong evil arm, that they could flow the camel by looking at it.

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And they try to use that smell against the Prophet sallallahu wasallam what

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Cafaro Laozi food Academy of Assad him lumpiness and the clock? Oh, no nine number 11. General

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they tend to talk with the first they want the the prophets Allah Allah.

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Allah we shouldn't come in and not Allah will protect you. So you have to believe Salam said to his children. Wow, that's it.

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Oh, my children is a strategy to avoid that I

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don't. Today, we throw everything out in social media. Back in the days, you kept everything in a diary. And if somebody read it, you felt offended. Now you put it on social media, if people don't need to feel offended, yada,

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yada facade that before it was private, it was personal. How dare you invading my privacy, that's mine stone open, keep a diary. And to keep you as they say,

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Keep a diary. And it will keep you recorded and it will record you.

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And today, you throw it out. And if you don't get an acknowledgment, then you feel offended and violated. We've lost we've lost him. So he said, This is my children. Don't enter from one don't go from here, go from the camouflage yourself. Me says that will not allow me undetermined. I'm marking shade.

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I'm a newbie, and I'm a father. And this is what dawns upon me to try and circumvent an approaching evil eye. But if Allah has decreed otherwise, my strategy cannot alter the plan of Allah in any

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other car. They were in the month of October.

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And then yes, like, my we live in season Allah in LA. And then Allah refer to Yahoo Finance, or even a ruler who

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did Yahoo was in a diet, he was learning, he was wise, the perfect synchronization of reliance on Allah coupled with the management of a good plan. We need to take that message in our homes in our personal life, to have a plan to have action to have strategy to think in English. They say a Papa is one who doesn't have a dream, you need to blame. But when you plan you need to plan your building castles in the air, there's no problem with it. The problem is when you want to enter the customer foundation. So we ask Allah subhanaw taala that make it easy for the Roomba. And we say that first of all, allow an employee working from the bottom of our heart, but every step every tragedy that

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struck something needs to change in your life. Something is perfect.

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Did my cup of coffee croissant innovation is a boy from age seven. He said, when I've seen the assassination of Satan of mine. I've cried so much, and cried so much. I vowed to Allah, Allah I won't be able to love again for the rest of my life Allahumma in alcoholic

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mother wonder

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if that in itself is after, if no Josie says a believer doesn't fear the definitely so as deeply as the death of their loved

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