Dealing With Depression And Anxiety
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El presidente Allah subhanho wa Taala
and please pay upon Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
are testify that there's no god except the law and or testify that Muhammad is the Prophet and the Messenger of Allah. My brothers in Islam, I encourage you to find out more about loss of Hannah hautala as the fear of Allah subhanho wa Taala is the key to all success and happiness as Allah azzawajal mentions in the Hollywood aranya your Latina man otaku la haka to Puerto Vallarta Martin, Ella and Tomas de mano does a belief in Allah
the way you should be feed and do not die unless you're in the state of Islam.
My brothers in Islam,
Allah subhanho wa Taala blessed us with a bounty of Islam with the gift of Islam with the Ministry of Islam. Allah subhanho wa Taala made us from the Nation of Islam, this great nation that Allah subhana wa tada mentions that Allah
kuntum hydrometallurgy Jacqueline us, you the national Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you are the best nation to come out to people.
The notion of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the best nation. Why? Because we have the best prophet. And that's Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. kuntum hydrometallurgy
the best nation to come out to people that Marana bill Morrow
manana Bella Yuko for which is good that prevent from which is bad. What took me Nora Bella and you believe in Allah azza wa jal
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the best nation to tread this earth. The National Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam is the best nation to emerge. The notion of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the greatest nation to exist. And Allah subhanho wa Taala bliss joy to be from the Nation of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
and Allah subhanho wa Taala sent the Prophet Allah is salaatu wa Salaam to us to perfect our life. He says Allah is Salatu was salam, Barstow Lodi, Mama Karima our symbol Allah subhana wa Taala to complete and perfect, the nobleman is. So the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was sent to us to complete and perfect the novel manners. And part of that perfection is for you. As a Muslim, for you as a human being to live the best life is that they believe the best life.
Allah subhanho wa Taala doesn't want you to live a bad life. A sad life, a depressed life. Allah subhana wa tada wants you to live the best life in all aspects. All of us. is asking for is one thing to live a valid way of life. That's all.
It is. It's not a big ask.
Allah want you to live the best life in all aspects of life. Allah subhana wa tada wants you to live the best life in your financial life. Allah subhana wa tada wants you to live the best life in your family life. Allah subhanho wa Taala wants you to live the best life in your social life. Allah subhanho wa Taala wants you to live the best life in your economical life. Allah subhanho wa Taala wants you to live the best life in every single aspect of your life, primarily your religious life.
That's on the top of that list.
On top of that list, Allah subhana wa tada wants you to live, the best life in your religious life.
The best life in the religious aspects of things in your life. And Allah subhanho wa Taala wants you to live the best life in every other aspect of your life. Financially, socially, family wise, politically, politically, educationally, every single aspect.
Allah wants you to be the best in everything. That's why Allah subhana wa tada chose this nation to be the best nation.
Allah chose this nation to be the best nation not just because I follow Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Yes, that's the biggest reason. But part of that reason.
Part of that reason is because Allah subhanho wa Taala wants you to be the best in every single aspect of your life.
And Allah subhana wa Taala wants you to live a happy life, not an unhappy life, not a miserable life. That perception that people have that once you become religious, you become depressed. Once you become religious, you become stressed. Once you become religious, you become miserable. Now, you're
You're wrong. It's on the contrary. Once you become religious, you become happy.
Once you become religious, you become very overwhelmed with what Allah subhanho wa Taala had given you in all aspects of life.
When you become religious,
you become very content and satisfied.
And that's why my brother in Islam, Allah subhana wa Taala tells us a number of ways for us to acquire happiness in our life. And it starts with the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala which is the worship of Allah azza wa jal as Allah subhanho wa Taala makes mention the Holy Quran, Allah be the cradle, he popma in Naka, loop, Allah, Vickery LA, tapa inoculum, indeed, through the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala, the hearts will become content, the hearts will become happy, the hearts will become satisfied, and abdic Leela popma include, indeed in the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala Your heart will become so relaxed, your heart will become so happy, your
heart will become so content through the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal
and the remembrance of Allah subhana wa Tada. Only sang Subhan Allah Al hamdu Lillah Allahu Akbar La La La La La La quwata illa Billah that's part of the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal, but it's not limited to the literal remembrance of Allah subhana wa tada it's not the annual remembrance of Alonzo agenne praying is the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala.
Attending gatherings like these gatherings where there's a lot of drama gathering of knowledge is the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala. reading the Quran the Quran is the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal doing what's wrong is a remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala so every form of a bath is considered to be the remembrance of Allah subhanho wa Taala and that's why my brother and Islam when you remember Allah, you must feel the feeling of comfort and happiness.
With the karela Padma innopolis indeed through the remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala the hearts will become content, the hearts will become happy, the hearts will be satisfied. So when you worship Allah subhana wa tada and you do right bilasa was in your religion, when you worship Allah subhana wa tada and you abstain away from the hilum Allah subhanho wa Taala gives you that satisfaction that every single person is trying to achieve.
Allah Subhana Allah will grant you happiness, Allah Subhana Allah will grant you contentment, Allah subhanho
the happiness right in the midst of your heart. Allah subhanho wa Taala will make you feel so happy. Allah subhanho wa Taala will make you feel so overwhelmed and make you feel so satisfied.
Allah subhanho wa Taala will graduate, acquire and achieve.
But how do you expect to be happy when you disobey Allah?
How do you expect to be happy when you're not praying? How do you expect to be happy when you're eating the huddle? Honey, expect to be happy when you're acquiring the Hello. Hurry. Expect to be happy when you're listening to the harem. Hurry expect to be happy when you're looking at the Hello. How do you expect to be happy when you're saying the Hello? How do you expect to be happy when you're involved in the home?
It is exactly the same example the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says a better man in the middle of the desert.
This man he's stuck in the middle of the desert. He's stuck in the middle of nowhere and is seeking the loss of Hano diamonds hope because he looks around. There's no one that can help him. He doesn't have reception on his own. He calls and screams and no one can listen to him. So now he resorts to Allah subhanho wa Taala What does it say?
Oh Allah help me. I'm stuck.
Listen to me. No one is listening to me. So the Prophet Mohammed Salah Salem says Rama tamo Hara he eats from the haram
boko haram he drinks the harem woman
his clothes, he's wearing his clothes in the harem.
his entire life is in the Hara for under Easter Jamuna with the loss of his daughter. Listen to me. Listen to Allah Xhosa from the very beginning with the loss of Hannah, listen to him now.
So we live in the hollow we eat the hot we listen to the Hara, we drink the Hara, we get to the hierarchy. We evolved in the hierarchy. At the end of the day. We live a stressful, miserable, unhappy, sad life. And then we say is this happening to me Of course it's happening to you
of course it's happening to you. That's why you're miserable.
Of course, he says stressed.
Of course it depressed. Of course by the end of the day even though you look around, you've got everything. But you've got nothing.
From the everything from the inside you empty. Of course, your entire life is in the harem.
you started your day in the huddle,
halfway through the day in the huddle, at the end of the day, in the huddle, and then on top of all this expect Allah subhanho wa Taala to give you happiness, no.
Happiness comes from a loss of handout on satisfaction comes from Allah zoton. contentment comes from Allah Subhana Allah.
Indeed, through the remembrance of Allah subhana wa Tada, the heart will be so comfortable, the heart will be happy, the hearts will be contained. The hearts will be satisfied.
But sama masaba share a prayer. Yes, praying is only one part, but it's not everything. It's not enough for you to say a prayer. But at the same time,
I pray but at the same time I'm drinking the huddle. I pray, but at the same time I'm buying and selling the huddle. That's not good enough. Yes. I'm not saying the prayer is not good enough. You have to pray. And if you are committing the harm, then use my speech or my lecture as a justification as an excuse for you to say Oh, but you know, there was a point No, no, no, there is a point you shouldn't be praying even if you are committing the Haram pray.
Even if you are committing the Haram prayer maybe in shallow under the Salah will stop you from committing the Haram
in the Salatin hanifa even longer. Indeed, the Salah prevents you from committing the evil days and evil actions, but work towards not only praying but also towards stopping the harem. My brothers in Islam, it just doesn't make sense. You are displeasing Allah subhanho wa Taala every single day and you want
to please you every single day. You want the pleasure of Allah. And when you acquire and achieve the pleasure of Allah that means you also achieve happiness, because through the pleasure of Allah is happiness, not through money, not three, not three mansions, not three big businesses, not three fame, not three prestige, not three power and influence through the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala this happiness
acquire the pleasure of Allah Subhana Allah subhanho wa Taala gives you in return.
Higher Eva ever does a righteous deed from a male believer or a female believer, Allah says felon
felon or here no means indeed we will.
We will, surely and 100% we will give them And grant them a happy life.
And happiness is something that every single human being wants.
Every single human being is trying to achieve. But happiness my brother in Islam only comes only and strictly comes through the pleasure of Allah.
So it doesn't make sense that he displays a lot and you expect the pleasure of Allah in return for you to be happy. It doesn't make sense.
Without us asking from me, Allah subhanaw taala is asking from you, not to harm yourself.
Allah says then cast yourself into destruction.
Then cast yourself into destruction. Then destroy yourself. who destroys himself, my brother and Islam. When you commit the harm you are destroying yourself.
When you are involved in the Hara, you're destroying yourself. When you're listening to the Hara, you're destroying yourself. When you're looking at the Hara, you're destroying yourself. When you're in the Hara, you're destroying yourself when you are bringing income into your life you're destroying yourself. When you're spending that money in the Hara, you're destroying yourself
to Kobe De Luca.
And some of this causes interpreted destruction here. As not destruction you can kill yourself murder yourself. No, no, no, no No destruction. putting yourself in the heart of destruction. That's the biggest distraction.
Do not destroy yourselves. Allah subhanaw taala says in the Holy Quran, how the summon destroy him. So someone destroys himself. both armies open the harem, committing the harem and living in the harem
indulging themselves in the harm that's the biggest destruction
that's how you destroy yourself. My brother in Islam you will never ever
feel contentment or satisfaction out of the Haram you will never ever be happy and overwhelmed from the heart on how long will never ever bring you happiness it's only that deception from the outside. Some people think you know make money and
I could get fame and
prestige in your room.
Allah subhana wa tada had to really say this and Allah subhanaw taala to really decreed this their happiness in the Hara, or anything to do with the Hara. So it's not gonna happen.
That's actually Tom deceives you.
So Pamela, yesterday
I was talking about the story of Adam alayhis salaam. I was talking about the story of Adam alayhis salaam one of the things that we've been doing handle every single Thursday night. We are talking about the stories of the prophets and messengers when Allah subhanho wa Taala made Adam live in a paradise in the jungle with his wife Hawa Allah subhanho wa Taala ate from any tree from any fruit you want, but don't go near that tree. So Pamela
you've got to enjoy gentlemen.
gentlemen gets 10 times this will take and you imagine what
Mashallah had given him everything imagine Allah subhanaw taala it from wherever you want
it from wherever you want any fruit in a tree, but then give me the tree. So Panama shaitan deceived me from the tree what's gonna happen
you're gonna be eternal he ever here. So Panama was all love and respect to say in other malaise, all the stress.
All the stress Allah subhanaw taala authority from you think this one's gonna bring you happiness when Allah subhanaw taala told him not to eat from
all those trees,
unlimited trees and fruit.
He said Allah subhanaw taala told him not to eat from this tree. Now, out of all trees and all fruit, he decided to get away from the tree that Allah subhanaw taala told him a day from So what happened?
Allah subhanaw taala punished him and his punishment was that was handed down to us.
This never ever happiness through disobeying Allah subhana wa Taala did Adam Adam you Salaam
Karim prophets and messages are seamless yes muslimeen but he
unintentionally disobeyed Allah subhanaw taala but look what happened from Gemma to Earth? Why? And of all the trees or other you decided to get to the tree the laws of handle data told you not to get any boy
told him not to
touch again as much as you want and drink as much as you want and do whatever you want to do. In the gender of all trees he decided to get away from the tree that allows have handled it from so happened that a lot honesty is never happiness in disavowing Allah subhanaw taala
but sometimes it's deception. Like hey, please deceived Adam alayhis salam in agenda that's how we are deceived on the face of this earth. We are deceived Ah, look at this. Look at this money look at this stage. Look at this car look at this house. Look at this. Look at this look at that we are perceived from the outside exactly how you please perceived or at least deceived
or anything from that tree.
We are deceived.
Our perception is all look at this. I'm gonna have a lot of money I'm gonna be happy I'm gonna have because I'm gonna have big houses. I'm gonna have this I'm gonna have I'm gonna be happy I'm gonna be happy. deception, not very
well The truth is Allah subhanaw taala told Adam from the tree.
So whenever you select a from the trees, Allah subhanaw taala told him that he was deceived by a please Allah subhanaw taala to come down to earth
quani is never ever happiness through displeasing Allah subhanaw taala and you ever think they could get away with it?
Think that you could do it now and I'm just gonna it's a temporary happiness sometimes you know how shaitan deceives us all you know, it just you know for now just for now. Just you know, get yourself in a good
do it now. Do it now and you'll be happy. And then repent to Allah subhanho wa Taala than you ever think by discovering Allah subhanho wa Taala
You'll be happy for one second. That's wrong. Even from the outside, it's been perceived to be so happy, so beautiful. You are wrong. There's no happiness through disobeying Allah subhanaw taala regardless, regardless what you see what you perceive, and what you look at my last panel data protector sakurako
and hamdulillah Hamden. Catherine Kamara, Mr. skura Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa la de la dama de la manchaca wa salatu wa salam, ala nabina Mustafa sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Masha de la ilaha illallah wa de la sharika shadow, Mohammed Abu Ursula, I'm about the one if Allah my brothers in Islam, happiness is through the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala. regardless what you have, or you don't have satisfaction and contentment is through the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala Olivia alleviating depression, stress, anxiety is through the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala will be speaking about this topic for the last few weeks, because Subhana lado now has gone on in the last
few weeks. every second, every second visit people come and talk to us turn on us. Depressed stress, anxiety, depression. Everyone just talking about it these days? And you know what? 15 years old? I'm depressed. 15 years old, depressed. What do you mean? 15 years old, depressed. You haven't even gone into life. You don't even know much about love. We didn't talk about depression now. 16 years old talking about committing suicide? what's gone on?
1516 years old.
Used to be on our bikes on the street. What depression? Are you talking about 14 years old Tanya talking to you about depression. 14 is talking about depression these days.
In the past, when you hear about depression or stress, the first impression that comes to your mind someone over 3540 years old, that's when you start experiencing depression and anxiety. Now 14 is talking about depression, anxiety. And you look at this situation that condition understand.
You live in Harlem, he listened to the Harlem in Harlem you're surrounded by the Hara, you start your day with the Hara. You end your day with your friends. All they do is talk about the heart of your entire life from morning to evening in the Hara. No wonder why you want anxiety.
Subhana Allah in Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he needs to feel stressed. When in every salon salon needs to feel depressed and never saw Mr. kobina
What is the top of the salon so who could feel that comfort and satisfaction what is the top of the salon
they used to experience comfort through the salon.
The stress used to be lifted and eliminated through the salon.
The remedy is to be in the salon.
The recovery in the salon, their happiness in the salon. They can terminate in the salon. What's happening these days we're brothers in Islam. The moment someone experiences depression or anxiety The first thing they do is stop praying or come praying the mom too stressed.
All luscious you know you don't know I'm going through because you're going through hardships. This is the time that you need to increase from your attendance to the masjid. This is the time that you increase from your members to Allah subhanho wa Taala This is the time that you increase from your Salah not decrease from it.
Sir bye back.
In the results I was experiencing stress, what is the top
take the stress away from distress.
distress through the salon. Know when someone experiences anxiety, someone experienced stress that I want to pray anymore. I don't want to come to them as the new mom. She takes off the hijab shaves his beard doesn't come to them anymore. What happened to you? Well, I didn't know I was going through
depression and stress and anxiety and family problems. Yes, I sympathize with your feel for you. But because you're experiencing what he experienced in this the time that you need to increase from your attendance to the method. This is the time that you need to get closer to Allah azza wa jal is the term the increase from the Salah is the term that you opened up more and more often.
What's gonna happen by you, turning away from the salon or coming to the masjid stopping, praying, stopping,
salatu salam is under stress. So he says
what is the tone for the
so called distress
When is the time for me to stand before my sojourn? So I could feel that comfort. I could feel that satisfaction and contentment. I want to be happy. Their happiness was in the salon.
In the salon Allahu Akbar Subhana Allah 14 years old you sit down with them unless you feel like committing suicide. Human Resource Oh boy. Yes, I understand there's a number of issues out there that we need to talk about bullying and this and that. Yes, we need 14 is all the talking about committing suicide, you stress stressed out over everything.
You've got everything.
Everything you could ask when you've got stressed, how come you haven't been praying? stressed? What did you take up the hijab stressed?
Why are you doing this? stressed Allahu Akbar.
You're doing exactly the opposite action. You're doing exactly the opposite thing for you to alleviate that stress.
Shape palm tree out of all trees out of all fruits. Allah subhanaw taala told Adam eat and drink from whatever you want in return except that tree and so Pamela right from the tree What happened?
Exactly the opposite.
From the tree thinking by him eating from the tree or from the frozen panel without is gonna give him more than Allah subhanaw taala is going to live him for eternity in the jungles, Allah subhanaw taala to come down to earth.
Now what is the problem? homosassa I'm sorry about the gender, comparing it to Earth.
Placing a stick in the agenda. The area
that the stick occupies in the agenda is better than this entire water water.
In other words, one square meter in the gym is better than this entire walk and what's in it.
For one, get closer to home and see what luck gives you in return. Don't be deceived, then that the shaitan deceive you.
Then do the wrong thing by you thinking but you don't think you're gonna get what you want? No, no, you're not gonna go
through the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala you get what you want. ask Allah subhanaw taala to make us from amongst us, you please Allah subhanaw taala constantly always asked a lot of zoa just to protect us. The Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to seek a loss of panel data protection every single day. A lahoma in the bigger middle hasn't is to seek a loss of balance protection from stress every single morning. who make that da Allah, I seek your protection from stress, from sadness, like that. pray to Allah subhanho wa Taala find your comfort is satisfaction, happiness and contentment in the Salah. Through remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala Allah, Allah He
taught me to include in the through the remembrance of Allah azza wa jal, the hearts will experience ease and happiness my lots of handle data make us from amongst them
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