Walking with the Prophet PBUH #31 Aisha’s wedding 2

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There we go

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and then sister yes mean that light spread

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about one second

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about a cat for those of you on Facebook doesn't mean Instagram so that might come again How are you? Can somebody from Facebook type anything? I want to see how I don't know sometimes I just can't read the text from Facebook so I want somebody to take you know just type in something something nice Of course. How come How are you guys doing today? How's everyone doing? So mighty go home law yeah hello marhaba hazama habit today inshallah tada all of us are again going back to the prophets within inshallah we did not finish his wedding. So today we are going to live with him again when his wife I shall do the ha ha. And then after that he shall we are going to spend some time with the

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prophet in in Medina. So mighty come I don't understand why I cannot read some of the comments on Facebook. It's just driving me crazy. Okay, hi, Sam. Yes, me nowhere. Mona. Mona. Oh, it can sit down. So we Zoe and who else? widecombe said and he Sha Montano, Zhi Shan. Basil Aziz all the way from Indonesia and dabit aim and light spread from Toronto, my man from Milton. Radical, Mr. Castle. And no matter how bad those of you out there on Facebook, welcome. Thank you for coming. So that starts brothers and sisters yesterday, we talked about you know, in the second deal of the division because Prophet Mohammed did not get married after he after Khadija passed away. So

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when How would I she came to him about the law, you know how to Hurricane as you know, telling Prophet Mohammed, aren't you going to get married? And then he every time somebody tells him about marriage, he thinks Oh, Khadija about the law. So he puts his head down. Is there anybody like Khadija then she told him who was going to look after the you know, the house and the kids because Fatima was she was still a baby at the time and another baby but again, at the time when she was young, who's gonna look after the house and the household? And then and then he says and then he says some other said he says, whoa, who should I marry? And then she tells him version I can

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version or non version you just name it they also know if I did for you.

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He says

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it's a big runway he said, he bought it if you like to marry a virgin, you can find your virgin if you want to marry non virgin with my mental find your non virgin, it's up to you. It's all there. It's all available.

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It's all available. Okay, well,

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it's all gonna be awesome. And then he says, from the that she says from the version he shot and from the non version so that he already know that married so then they told you yesterday yesterday about so that when he married so the idea behind her she was in her 80s she was a widow who lost her husband. So Prophet Mohammed, someone said he married her to you know, embrace her and he's upset. So at any rate, she you know, he told her to go and ask and ask, you know, go and ask I mean her father, so she went she went to Abu Bakr is home and then she found that almost a man or woman a man, she was anxious mother. Rebecca's father. I mean

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I'm mixed up now. You know, this thing cannot come up from my head, man. Come on, come on, snap on it.

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Right, be on one woman. She was abubaker his wife, and she found her and she says, I'm sure this is the best day of your life. I'm coming from the province of Sudan. He's asking to marry her. And then a woman says we'll wait until Abu Bakar comes so then when the cops stop read stop read when a book I'll get no ha no came back. And then

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she says yes. Hola. I'm here for no muscle line as was said in this sentence.

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To You know, ask him for his hand. And then he says, Well, let us he says, Wait, wait for what, because of how a show has already been asked by somebody else. By hockey.

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You know, one of the, you know, he was not a Muslim, you know, he was he was a, who was not a Muslim, but he asked for her. He, you know, before this is Paula and JD before even Islam,

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before Islam.

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And then, on the other hand, the law, he went to her first, he went to her first, um, into her home, I mean, not to her home, and he, he went to

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that guy's home first and asked his mother, his family.

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Are you still willing to marry my daughter? The mother said,

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aren't you? And are we going to let my you know my son, our son marry, a woman who came up from our religion came up from our tradition. No. And then he turned to the man and asked him, Are you going to What do you say, you know? So he, he asked him, What do you say what you want? You know, what's your opinion, she says I am with whatever my mother says. And then when I will back, I've got confirmation that they are no longer willing to proceed with the marriage, then the prophet and I will both have told her to tell us Allah, you know, to come and ask her how she's had. And that's what happened. Brothers and sisters, the night of the wedding.

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Prophet Mohammed, and

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that's what we're going to talk about tonight, inshallah. Tada, a beautiful wedding. Very simple, yet very romantic.

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Very romantic. Simple, but romantic. Brothers and sisters. Are you ready?

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Tell me, are you ready? We're gonna go on now with the wedding of a solo, when

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are you guys ready? By the way, she's nine years old.

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She was seven. When she was seven. They start as they say no, in although the rest of she was seven. But the wedding he consumed, you know, consummated the marriage when she was nine years old. And I mentioned yesterday, nine years old. It is in the tradition, the tradition of the of the alums at the time, she was in the it's in the tradition of the Jews at the time, even the Christians in Europe, you know, girls used to marry when you know, either very, very, very early age, it has nothing to do with or the you know, man shoving, shoving Islam and, and this this and that is all wrong. And I mentioned yesterday also that a nine year old girl in in Arabia in the desert is like a

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16 year old girl in Canada or in the UK for that matter, right? They grew up the you know, the, the, the physic, the chemistry is different, you know, the, the everything is different. So Canada, and it's hot there.

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The Arabia is is hot in there, you know, so, you know, okay, anyways.

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Um, so she says, Hi, she says, and I was like, nine years old, she was still you know, skinny night.

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And her mother, she started feeding her, you know, for free. Give her a lot. She started feeding her just so she can have some weight.

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She can gain some more, she can gain some weight. You know, before, not her wedding. I will get low on how.

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So she called me. My mother called me. Yeah. Hi Isha. And they say, ha ha, ha ha. She says, Ah ha, she was playing. She's a girl. She's been with the kids. Ah, Kamiya Isaiah. And she was running, you know, like running and she's running out of breath. You know, and her mother called her a little man. Hey, shy. He said, it's the night of the wedding day. I have to prepare. And then

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what?

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And then the the women have the answer. They took a shot to Michelle law to prepare her to prepare her for this amazing, beautiful night. You know, her wedding night.

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So, yeah, they'll be shot Holly while you're sleeping. Now. She says they were brushing my hair. Yes. And

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they were no extensions at the time sisters and brothers.

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They were you know, yes. Probably. She was definitely reporting whatever the makeup of the time, whatever it was, but she says they were brushing my hair. The women have done something with preparing me, you know, maybe something beautiful that she was wearing. If they were brushing her hair. That means they were probably doing

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Her face as well. It's a no brainer. Come on, don't ask me these types of questions like really? Did she put makeup or, or, or, or lipstick, or this, whatever it was available at that time. I'm sure she would have done it. She is a woman, she is a girl that is just like any woman who likes to be truthful, who likes to look, you know, pretty, who likes to look, you know, for her husband? Come on, right. So sometimes, you know, just some common sense brothers and sisters. Anyone I'm, you know, I'm nosy and

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they will fit all. So it was just like the scene. So she, you know, she's trying to make herself beautiful. And though as she says that the answer they were brushing her hair.

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So she was getting ready. So the Prophet Mohammed eyes of Sudan had, you know, he had a short like a wedding, you know, when the, he invited the Sahaba. And, and

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he offered them you know, some, you know, some Yeah, and that was the marriage, of course, you've got to announce the marriage. So he knows the marriage people came, you know, he gave them some, you know, you know, food and drinks. And there was some girls as well. There were some girls as well. And then the Prophet Mohammed when he was, you know, they were giving out the, you know, the drinks the 11

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when they were giving away the the 11 the Halle, you know, the milk. So, he they came to the girls and the girls, they said no, no, no, I went okay, well, okay. No, no, you know, like, ne ne ne ne, you know, in old Oh, no, no, no. So the Prophet Mohammed told him, you know, he says, I left as rotten as your angle, okay, the bat, don't, don't add your your, your hunger to the line, you know, you're lying. And you're hangry at the same time, take the drinks, and then they took the drinks and they they drank they were just shy in all girls. So when the Prophet Mohammed finished with his, you know, that wedding and his salat wa salam brothers and sisters, I want to read the poll from

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Facebook that you know,

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somebody says something.

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When the wedding when the party kind of like celebration, it'll be finished and Prophet Mohammed went back to

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he went back to the house and had a shot. She was still there with a smack been to say, a snap into z was the one, you know, brushing his hair, you know, so she was still with her. And then Prophet Mohammed. I saw him he came, and then he gave it a drink. sisters, brothers, watch this.

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I'm already laughing.

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I've already allowed me to get this funny.

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So Prophet Mohammed came back home, and then he brought some milk with him, right? So he gave Ayesha some drink, you know, you know, I shall pass properly. She was like, shy, had her head down. I know. So the Prophet said down and he gave her some milk, you know? So I just said, like, No, she didn't want and then a smack.

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Smack hits her, like, Take it.

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Take it. And then

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and then I she took the drink. You know?

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He took the, the, she took the milk from the Prophet Mohammed from Allah. She says, For a hut to wash it to mean hope.

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To wha See, he says I was so shy. And I put my head down. And when the Prophet gave me the milk, I just did not take it. You know, for the fact the asthma for the fact that as soon as I smashed you pushed me, you know, a smashy dislike take it. So I had to wash it to me. No, I took it and I drank from it.

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It's a very, very simple within profits home with her Asia. He did not have much in his home by the way brothers and sisters. What prophet had hit his home are 123 things. Three things. He had Sriracha horseshoe leaf Leif Abedin filled you know, the inside of it was filled with you know, palm leaves. And then what we said the hash with a leaf and a pillow. Also, you know, like filled with palm leaves, leaf. And then shout out to Matt

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how's it all together for items he had in his home water holder. Well, how clean the house is that the the rug that he preys on some of the lights and Well, sometimes it's his seat on.

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That's all he had in his home, which was actually the home of

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the closest house to the measure of the profit, which is today the Oda

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which is today

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The hold up which is you know where the cover of the Prophet Mohammed some values live is

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that's all he had a bedding and pillow,

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a water holder and hassle.

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So prophet gave her a drink. She was shy, she put her head down a smash, she pushed her. No take it, she took it and she drank on your level and how our

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brothers and sisters Do you know how much her dowry was?

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You know how much how he shows? It was 500 did hims

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500 denims at that time was not a maybe I wouldn't say substantial amount.

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I wouldn't say substantial amount. But not even in all something cheap either. But the Prophet says a couple ohana Baraka,

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mahalo. Those who have maybe the the lowest month will have the biggest Baraka. Those will have the lowest Maha will have the greatest balaka the biggest Baraka, sisters and brothers, just so the parents understand and the family understand here that, yes, it's something that you know, not to, you know, to have any law. But not to cheapen your daughter.

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Not to cheapen your daughter, like this guy's a true story.

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He came home, someone came to ask for this, this man's daughter's hand. So because he's such a very pious man, he told him just Just give me one one.

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Because your bias and this this and that, you know, you'll find out and Jeff, you know, just give me one. And that's it.

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And that man, so Pamela, you know, after he married that wife, after he married that wife, and after some time living with her was whenever they used to get into an argument he used to tell her you only worked one day. Mm hmm. Yes. He used to insult her by saying you're only worth one did him wonder him?

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At some point, you got angry. Then she went back to her family that he keeps insulting me. He says I'm only worth 1 million. So he says, Okay, well, let's teach him a lesson.

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He took his daughter back. As for divorce. No, I want her back. I want her back. I

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want her back. I want her back. Okay, we're gonna renew the, you know, give her back. Now that give back. I want she wants them. And then he asked for a very not normal at all. But now he asked for like, I don't know what some ridiculous amount, you know, just so to teach him a lesson. Do not insult my daughter.

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You want her back? You want to buy just like this Moroccan. If he? He was so mean to his wife. But he was smart. But he was me. You know? So he got into an argument. They kept arguing and all he gives, but he's not valuing his wife. All right. So she was really nice with him and everything. But one day, she just blew up and then she left. She went back home.

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And she asked for a divorce. So the husband after some time, he misses his wife.

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He misses his wife and he wants you back. He's happened in Morocco. Just so you know. Right? My place.

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So he wants his wife back. He called her back and this guy smart and easily. It's not he although he's, you know, he was kind of like abusing her. But he's a naughty guy. So he feels bad now and he wants his wife back. He calls her back. Please come back. Please. I miss you. Please this please that. She told him there is no way I'm coming back for you. There's no way.

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Oh please, I beg you. I'm sorry. I will not do that again. I promised you I'd be going I promise you this. I promise you do that. She says you know what? Go get a glass. A cup. He went on he got a cup. And then he she told him bread cup, throw it on the ground and then he throw it on the ground. And they're talking on the phone. She says You see? You see you're broke it can the glass comes back and you put the pieces to debris. Can you put the pieces back? He says no. He says that likewise, I will not come back to you. Just like that glass which you have broken. I will not come back to you. He says well the glass that I saw was from plastic was not glass.

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That's what I see is a Moroccan. He says that you know the cut the light through he was not glass is a plastic he did not break. He says now how now what I would say the only ally can defeat

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You come and get me from my home.

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And then he went and he brought him back. But

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anyways, anyways, so Prophet Muhammad SAW Allah it was seldom

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you gotta be smart sometimes, you know?

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Yeah, you want to play with Moroccans again, you know, but anyways,

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um

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he, Prophet Mohammed gave her 500 times for her mom.

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But she was the most beloved to the Prophet Mohammed Salah learning.

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He used to love her so much. Yes, the first love love of hadisha and comparable, but then came out Isha.

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Came out Isha

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ish, so much. So I'm over my house. I mentioned that yesterday, when he came back from this battle Mallika to this essay. And he came back as a winner, right? And then he came back to the store to give him the great news. And then he told him after he told him the great news he also loved Who do you love? You know, he was he wanted the prophet to tell him, I love you. He says, What do you love? He says, I love Asia. And Asia? He says, No, no, I have from from from,

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from the the men from the men. And he wants the prophet to tell him I love you. You did a great job is this from the men, a Buddha, her father. And then after that, after that, he says I love a llama. And then after that, man after that, it he says he mentioned 20 and I was not there.

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So he shut up. But first and foremost, he mentioned Hypatia, I love Russia. Russia, he used to tell Prophet Muhammad Allah so Allah, how much do you love me?

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Brothers and sisters, those of you are married the guys guys out there, listen up. All right.

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All the guys out there? You know? It is. It is very, very normal when your wife tells you, you love me.

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And you just told her Yes, I love you. And for her to come back and to tell you, you still love me.

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It's very normal. So guys out there. Right? Let me tell you this. When your wife tells you you love me, and you tell her. Of course I'm, well, whatever you say, what is the second question? Because there's that question is followed up by another question.

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What is that question when your wife tells you Do you love me? You say yes. Then she has another question that comes right after that. What's that question? Let me ask you this. Who knows?

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Guys, who knows? What's that question that comes right after? Do you love me?

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Huh? Tell me Facebook, Instagram. Tell me

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how much? Yes means he knows. How much do you love me? Jesus, I know that Jesus, I know. Not Why do you love me later? That's that's the three feet and that's an easy thing. If you think it's not the it's not, you know, that's separate. Okay. And if this stuff is separate, why do you love me? Even I would not know how to answer that question. Right? Even I would not know what you know how to answer that question. Like why do you love me?

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I just love you. I don't know why do I love you? Because you're the mother of my kids know stuff for the law? No. Why do I don't know.

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Just just you know, that's an easy okay. We don't talk about any of this stuff. We just talked about what not being normal normal equation is? How much? How much? So how much she she has the same question. Yet also how much she loved me

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how much he loved me. Then the Prophet Mohammed or his essences can rock the field heaven can rock that feed heaven. Just like the nut on the on the rope. When you have a rope, and then you have a nut My love for you. You just like the nut on that rope. And then she's happy. She's happy. She goes around. She says come to a taco some. Hello? Can you for hurdler aka

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yoshua he says come to otaku some tea for Hello. Can you handle that? She says I used to leave him for some time. And then I will come back to him and tell him how's the nut yellow. So Lola you know the nuts in the in that in that in that rope? How's the nut yellow Soma and then the Prophet Mohammed will say I love how you have

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He either have you have, it's still very tight.

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It's still very tight and you My love for you keeps on increasing. So he had that much love for I shall do Oh no, I just have to send him so much. So brothers and sisters, that people they used to bring him if anyone wants to give him gifts from people, right? If they were to give him gifts, they will wait for Ayesha's day, because every wife had one day, you know, where the Prophet would go to their home, he used to go and visit them all right, but at night, you know, everyone had that particular night. So when people were, you know, wanting to give him some gifts, they will wait for our last night to come to the cinema. So

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some of the wives got jealous.

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It is what it is.

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So, almost selama they were to almost sell them almost I was just like the either. They went to only send about go ask about sobre la Come on, you know, I still Why do they have to wait for the gifts to be given, you know, I should say we want also in our, in our time in our our day, our our nights. And then she went to law school jasola zyada hold on that we have wives, they're saying she's one of us. She's one of them. But she's saying your wives are saying you know sort of luck,

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your body and a nurse and you'll see what they say.

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She says they're asking you to tell people if they were to give you a gift to split up the gifts you know, not only on ISIS day but also the other wives day. And then Prophet Mohammed says yeah, almost Salah Yeah. Oh my sedima Yeah, oh, my cinema in qaddafi can be helped by Asia. Yeah, almost cinema, Allah has, has brought has put in my heart the love of how Isha

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Allah has put in my heart, the love of how he Yes, he loved the others. But how he shows she had a special love. And he wasn't shy to he wasn't shy to hide it. Allah put in my heart, the love of Asia, you're almost cinema What can I do? Allah has put in my heart, the love of Asia out of you. Yeah. And she says she he says he tells her he tells her more. Yeah. Oh, my goodness. What he what NFC and have you had, who amongst you all the wives who amongst you the way he came? Well, you know, while I was in her lap in her home, except that the way used to be revealed in the house of Asia, not the houses of all the other wives of Pamela, except the house of Asia, so much. So it used to be

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called the Sahaba map but the way the Sahaba instead of calling the house of atisha ma but the way you know the the fall down of the revelation of the place of resurrect of Revelation, or the source of Revelation, because is that house the house of Isaiah the center of Revelation, it is not but they know when the revelation used to come it just to come in the house of the prophet of Ashanti alone and all of that.

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So, the wives were not too happy. Of course, they were not too happy. They went to Fatima

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they went to Fatima and they said oh Fatima, talk to your dad. Tell him We also want to receive you know, like a show we also so the Prophet told hash frt he told Fatima Fatima yeah Buddha Yeti to have been any Do you love me? Do you love me?

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Are at Nam she says now I love you Anna Salama.

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Do you love whom I love?

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If you love me, do you love whom I love? She says yes. You're awesome. I love them. You love them. The Prophet told her. Yeah, hi. Isha. Yeah, Fatima. Yeah. for them. For higbee hair. They love this. Love this meaning love heisha If you love me, and you love whom I love, love.

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And then Fatima she says, while like you don't kill him, oh, he did. And he says by Allah. I will never talk to him about a shot from today on I will never talk to you about it. Because Because I know how much he loves her. Like, someone loved what he did. He was sending him some love, love and he was sending stuff about my

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brothers and sisters. Prophet Mohammed would have in their home together. Yes.

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He would pray together sometimes or sometimes when she cannot pray. She's lying down. And Prophet Mohammed would pray pmln and then when he makes sure she her feet are kind of like being you know, they didn't know and straight. So he would just move her feet. You know, and then he would make his social. He would touch her. He will touch her.

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Push her to the side and then he will make social

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She, she would put her her feet back. Right? She would cross them. And then when he finished the history, he would come up from his social. And then he would, she would again, stretch her next one more time. I sure, like a lot of that, that type of relationship they had

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one day, they had this bash plane, you know, you know, in the budget, doing this acrobats, you know, dance in the measured.

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So how she came, and she wanted to watch, but she did not want the bash the men to see her. And remember her house, you know, between her house and the machine, there's only partition, there's only a door. So she opened the door. But then the Prophet Mohammed stood by the door. And that issue she put her her head. Yeah, and you hurt her cheek like this other cheek, this bar here, you know, on the on the, on the shoulder of the Prophet Mohammed as I said, so she can just look from above the shoulder of the Prophet Mohammed and his subtle set.

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And then she kept on watching and Prophet Mohammed is also watching. And then he turns to her, and he says, I should do it. Are you done? And then she says, No, no, not yet. And then he keeps on watching the, the acrobats. You know, what know that I bash?

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Dancing with the haddish. And then he turns to her. I said, Are you done? She says, No, not yet. I still want to watch some more.

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And she says, she says well, like it's not because I wanted to watch. She says well it because I wanted to see how much he loves me and how much he really wants to stay and I'm keep me keep my head, you know, on his on his shoulder Salallahu it he was sitting there. So I'd like to refer McKenna to in that. I'd like to add if I can into into I wanted to see my level my status, you know, with the Prophet Mohammed Ali, his salat wa sallam he used to they used to race together many times. They used to race. So she was like, remembering the beginning. She was like, you know, so. So when they erased then she won.

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She won the race. So she says the Prophet Mohammed, someone feeding me meat for a week. I was eating meat, you know, like he was, but there was this like, you know, they they, she there was just like, you know, there's just eating, you know, there. She did not think anything, you know, weird or strange. They were just eating. So she was eating, and then she gained some weight. So then he called her to race again. So they went and this time he raised her. I mean, he won the race. The first time she won the race. The second time he won the race. He says Ayesha, has he we take

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this for that. You won once I won once. We're fair, right? We're equal now. truce? Salam Mahara USA. So why didn't they have any arguments before? Yes, they have some arguments just like any husbands and wives.

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Don't think Prophet Mohammed didn't have any misunderstandings with his wife? No, he did. He did somebody say human being just like any hope. So they had an argument one day

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and the misunderstanding. So the Prophet Mohammed says, okay,

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should we call a mediator? Hassan Allah, the prophet is telling his wife, should we call a mediator to, you know, rule between us? She says, Yes.

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She's talking to the Prophet.

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Should we call a mediator

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to rule between us? She says, Yes. She says, Okay. The Prophet says, Okay, how about middle July ob? ob? She says kalithea masala. Thank you.

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He says, No, he's too nice.

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He's going to say to you, then the province is okay, how but I will back to your father. He's not going to side with me as your father. She says yes. Okay. I agree. Bring my father. So the Prophet called Abu Bakr, the Abu Bakr, we have an argument, can you please come and sort of like, you know, like, between us you decide who's wrong and who's right. And then actually she says before even her father of the Prophet seven talking about the problem or anything, she told her father he says pilots, yeah, pilots

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to enter whatever

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she says to her father, his father, don't speak speak only the truth. Speak only the truth and you don't side with anyone speak the truth. And then her father got so angry. You know, he got so angry. But yeah, I've been told Oh, man, yeah, bench. Oh, man, your daughter of a macho man. No, no, he didn't swear.

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No, they don't swear those people. He says you daughter of a woman. Oh man. Yeah, me your mother, your daughter of your mother, your daughter of your mother.

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And that

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is me calling the truth. I always speak the truth. Yeah, I think he came towards her. And then she came to hide behind the profit.

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Then she can join me on the profit. Look, this is the argument they had and then she came to hide behind the profit just like a rooster and the chicken.

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The chicken hides behind the man the rooster. So

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So and then the Prophet obika Yeah, well, Becca, we did not bring it for this. We brought it to settle this matter in order to to rule between us. And we got angry that he left. And then the Prophet told her Hi, you see, you see, I predicted you. And then he started laughing.

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Isn't live in a while back. I heard them laughing and then he came back to see us over law. As you made me angry you both in you. She made me angry. You have to make me smile just like you made me angry. You know, like to make me disappointed or upset. You've got to make me smile, just like you made me upset. And then they told him you know what happened that they also did Laffy Salalah while he was sending him a lot of misunderstanding, identity number hammer. So brothers and sisters, they lived together. She lived with him for nine years. I shot and Prophet Mohammed. They live together. She lived with him for nine years. In that nine years brothers and sisters. She memorized soul many

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heavy. In fact, she was adamant.

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She was adamant. She was a scholar, the Sahaba is to say, whenever something we used to argue on or we needed someone to settle the matter between us, we used to go to Asia, we still go to Azure. She has knowledge if it comes to hedis.

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or

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anything, they would go to the law in that nine years. And she was version and she did not bear any child. No babies. So Pamela as if alized and in her focus on him, focus on him. And you know, try to collect as much from the Prophet Mohammed as you can some Allah Allah he was saying that. So brothers and sisters, here they are Prophet Mohammed and have a shot living together.

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This happened in the still the second year of the

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Prophet Mohammed, as I mentioned, brothers and sisters, he he migrated from that gap. And for 13 years, for 13 years, he's been looking for someone to support him. He's been looking for someone to assist him, he's been looking for someone to give him lasala right call he did not let him pursue his mission. He did not let him pursue the the message, you know, for the message to be spread. So the Prophet Mohammed needed someone needed the town needed some people to give him Musleh he tried with a five, it did not work until the couple of kids from on site, they came right to to Makkah and they gave the they promised that the following year, they would bring in more people from from you

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know, from from from Medina to give the oath of allegiance. They came in the next year as six you know, and then the following year, they came in as 72 people they came and they gave the oath of allegiance to the prophet and they told him you know, sort of come to Medina, we're ready for you. And then the Prophet Mohammed migrated to Medina, as they have mentioned brothers and sisters, Medina was split into three segments, you have one tribe called an aos and one tribe and hustlers and one tribe and the Jews, the Jews. So the the answer what we call them the answer of two main ideas and OST one has knowledge and is also well hustlers. They used to have no prior of Islam they

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used to have a rivalry between them. Big rivalry rivalry between them. They had war between them. And the Jews also they threatened the Arabs. You know, in Medina, they said, a profit is coming from us from our progeny. Once that Prophet comes out, we shall kill you your house. So now, Medina, as I said was, it was a

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southern we used to live there, there was no fight and war between them. So came the Prophet. And the first thing he focused on is unity, to bring the brothers together than sisterhood together to you know, to bring them together. We know that unity is awesome. So he worked on it very hard. And again, something amazing happened in the second year of division between the second and third year of division. The Prophet has to settle he has to establish the first and he establishes the Constitution. But he established the budget first he founded the measure, okay, after the measure, he made that unity brotherhood between the Mahajan

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Saw and then after that he had to set a constitution how he sought to set the bylaws just like you know the town, they have their bylaws apartment, Mohammed, I have to set some rules and regulations. And he himself to say that bringing the people together, you know this history of War history of animosity between them. So he's tried to bring them together. One day, something happened.

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What happened?

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A man by the name of

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a man by the name of

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what's his name? A man by the name of

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little five minute man. Little five minute man he is from the cabinet of an OS.

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He's from the beautiful house. He went to an expedition like a battle with the Prophet Mohammed and then he earned an armor, he earned a shield and earning a shield at that time. It's like earning like having a car having a very expensive item. an expensive item, right? He's just like, not anything. It's a very, very dear thing to have. So when he earned that she then he brought it with him. It got stolen, right, it got stolen, who started a man from the hustlers his name, especially. His name is Beshear. So he went to the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he told him

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jasola my shield got stolen, and who stole it, but she so now the profit after all, this year of the years of bringing, you know unity making you need to bring in this unity between the causes. Now this problem that happened, it will just like put everything down in the drain. all the hard work that he worked on all the efforts, he made this incident in itself, it will destroy everything.

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A man from the cosmos, he stole the, the shield of a man from the house.

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But what happened was she and his cousins

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they came to the Prophet, some of us he says jasola No, no, no, no, no, no, no. But she is not the thief. The thief is Zaid, who said they know some mean or some means mean is a joke. He is the one who stole the shield. So the Prophet Mohammed he needs some evidence, because he was angry at you know, he was he got a little bit angry. Do you have any evidence you saw a machine? All of a sudden these guys came? And they said yes or no. You know, my cousin, our cousin did not steal it is this man who stole to the Prophet said Mohammed no Muslim and Otto Sahabi. Go to the house of that jusy and check and see if he has the shield. So he went and he checked in the garden. He started looking

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around in the garden. And then there was he dragged the hole by tree that indeed he found the she's buried in there. He felt that she had buried so they came back to the Prophet Mohammed is a sir. You have also the law. Yes, the she was in the house of the Jewish man. So the Prophet got a little bit upset at OFAC for her.

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No matter how can you accuse your brother of stealing? The Shield was not with him. It was in that house. The Prophet was worried that another war will happen between the houses but hamdulillah this news game and it's a Jew. So the Joker arrested by brothers and sisters. The Jewel

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was innocent.

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The Jewish man was innocent, he did not steal.

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The thief was actually a Muslim.

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So I have a question for you.

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All right, I have a question for you.

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Here's the question.

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You have your brother or your sister, right?

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You go to school or work or whatnot or your family. And then your family they said oh we lost a golden chain.

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A very, very expensive Golden Chain got lost in this wedding.

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And then your sister came to you.

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And she says Oh your brother comes to you and he says I'm the one who started I took it I have it. But everybody accused your worst enemy.

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They accused your they have this guy or this girl that you hate the most. And somehow they accused her of of stealing and they call the police on her on him and they arrested her or they arrested him. Although she or he was innocent but your sister

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Or brother comes to you and says, I started, I have it. Don't take no one.

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If you were to tell them

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a big thing would happen, our family's name, we will look so bad, we will look so this and that. So what would you do? I'll give you four options.

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Would you go and report your sister or your brother? Would you report him or her to the authorities? Because one person got you know, jailed. One person is arrested for and accused of stealing?

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Would you go and report that person? Or would you maybe tell your parents?

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And then tell them it's up to you guys how you deal with it? I don't care. But the one who stole is my brother or my sister? Or number three? Would you

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maybe ask your father or ask someone to buy?

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by them? You know, whoever that person who lost that that chain? Good. Give them a chain by them a chain and all the golden chain and give it to them?

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Or would you just be quiet and doodle on a thing?

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Would you because your mother says Well, your sister says or your best friend says don't do it. if if if our if if they were to know that I'm the one who stole I will be arrested? I wouldn't be arrested, they would arrest me and they would take me to jail.

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So I want you to think before you answer,

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I want you to think before you answer what would you do? If you were to report your sister or your brother, they will take her or him to jail.

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Your mother would go crazy. Your father would go crazy. The whole house would be destroyed because somebody from the family. They're a thief. They're there. They're the they're the ones who stole their thief there isn't that it was your family, his name will go down the drain.

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Number one, number two, would you be quiet? Would you report them? Regardless? Regardless, would you report them?

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Or what would you later said?

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Just go in? Okay, lay that third option. But how about that person who went to jail? Why would it? Well, you know, you know that person in jail is innocent. What would you know about that person?

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By the channel, can you buy the cheap, but how about that person who went to jail? who is accused of stealing the chain? Who did not steal the chain?

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Okay, so you put the family interest, but there is a person in jail, innocent miskeen and innocent Miskin in jail.

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He did not do anything or she did not do anything. But she's in jail. And you know, you are you know.

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So it's not like you don't know, you know, there is an innocent person who's been taken to jail because your brother or your sister stole something.

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So, is it family interest?

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Family interest? Or what would happen? What would you do? Speak the truth? is, I don't know. You tell me what would you do?

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Would you like me to tell you what I would do?

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Would you like me to tell you what happened?

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This is about this. Would you like me to tell you what happened?

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All right. Do you want to know the story of what happened here?

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truth always prevails at the end no matter what that means? I don't know. I don't know. You know, if you want me to tell you, you tell me and on and I will tell you what happened and I will tell you what my options are or what my choice is.

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So when he says Okay, tell me and then later says, Okay, tell me and then Battlestar jizyah. No, say Yes, please. And he asked me he says yes. And CLI and, and bazelon is the body's UI as he say, Yes. All right. All of you guys. Also on Facebook. They want me to tell them. Alrighty, Alrighty. Alrighty, but the only person who smelled it is not an ISA. she smelled it. Yes, definitely. It is a cliffie cliffie handy. It's a cliffie cliffy, handy.

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One with great luck and understand. It does not matter whether you're talking why they stole the problem is they have stalled. They have stolen a chain or they have stolen something. And there is a person who was innocent was in jail and their family are crying. Alright, there's someone who's in jail. They who is innocent, okay. All right. And the family is in distress because your brother or your sister is the one who you know who has stolen that that item. All right. So that's that's that's the this is what it is. You know, why did he steal Are you in debt

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This, this does not matter now, what matters now is something has been stolen and someone is in jail.

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Right? This is what happens. So brothers and sisters, what will happen? I would mention that next week and

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next week, next Friday, be in the law, come back to live again to walk again with the Prophet Mohammed sobre. La. How would the Prophet handle this? This is in the second year of the law. He just came, he's building unity is building the city is building the town. He's going around making sure that house we're bringing back in I know, setting up an army, you know, we need to start you know, to to, we have our you know, we send in ministers you send in ambassadors, you know, that that was started, you know, so all of a sudden this huge, huge, huge problem happens that would destroy everything. How would the Prophet handle it without talk about that next week in sha Allah Who

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Say set up your family as well. And almost system carry my sister Fatima. I saw her earlier. I don't know if she's here or she's gone. Now. Like give us You shall love that. Are you guys So then why do you call somebody Kahala so mighty from Facebook? So Michael