Honoring Our Parents, IT WILL MAKE YOU CRY!

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Allah leading

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the goodness to the parents. Allah Subhana Allah Donna talks about honoring the parents in the Quran, in parallel to his tail heat, in parallel to his oneness in not one or two or three in several ayah Allah subhanho wa Taala he talks about the obedience of the parents

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in sola and Islam, Allah Subhana Allah Allah says,

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Allah He ministry Ponyo. Jean waka Dora buka taboo in

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your load has decreed that you worship none but him. waka Dora buka Allah Abu ilaria now number one, the worship of Allah wa BYD de near Santa and that should be good to your parents.

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Your Lord has decreed that you worship not by him and that you'd be good to your parents. What God Allah Buddha Allah Buddha Illa Yeah.

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In Sugata Nisa, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, aloha or two, she cobija.

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He says insalata Nisa, and I'm here and I know you have heard many lectures on parents. I know you have read many books on parents. I am not here to teach you something which you do not know. My brothers and sisters, I am not here to teach you something you do not know. You know better than me. I'm only here to remind myself and to remind you about this.

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This worship called the obedience of the parents. Allah says in Surah Nisa,

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Krishna kobish a, worship your Lord and do not associate anybody with him and he says I'd be good to your parents will be the world leader in Santa

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smilla hamdu Lillah

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wa salatu salam ala rasulillah

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in Al Hamdulillah. Mohamad who want to start in the morning,

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when I will show the unfussy that woman sejati Amina Maja de la palma de la.

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Mama you follow her the Allah? Will shadow Allah Allah hi lovelies Illallah Hua Hua, Shakira

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Mohammed Abdullah pseudo Allahumma callaham Tata Tata Alhamdulillah these what I can handle bah bah bah local Hamza will call and what I can handle with Islam.

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Subhana Allah hammock, so panicum hammock Subhana Allah

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subhana wa kafa eidetic

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didn't mean anything.

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Welcome, Allah subhanho wa Taala

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Santa haka column Allahu Subhana, Allah, Allah.

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Allah, Allah.

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My brothers and sisters.

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Few months ago, I was given a lecture or in fact, I was given a hook by in Canada. And then right after my football,

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brother came to me and he said, Jeff, I have to

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ask you a question. I need your help.

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He says, I have two twins.

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They're 18 years old sons.

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He says my children, they call the cops on me. And they kicked me out of my home.

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My children, they call the police. They kicked me out of my home. I cannot come back to my home.

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I also read

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in a Muslim newspaper, in a Muslim country. That a guy he stabbed his mother to death.

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He stabbed his mother to death. Because his mother did not approve of him marrying this girl, which he fell in love with.

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He fell in love with this girl. He wanted to marry her. The mother did not approve of that marriage. He took a knife and he stabbed his mother to death.

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Also, not too long ago, I was giving a lecture a seminar in the UK and a Muslim. It's a Muslim. In fact lecture in the UK, a guy during the lecture was crying.

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Then I asked him he came to me says yes sir. My mother called me on the phone.

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My mother called me on the phone.

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And she said that his brother, his brother asked some money from his mom, which he refused to give him because he's addicted. He is addicted to drugs and alcohol and whatnot. She refused to give him the money. He started punching his a mother and beating her up

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and so on and so forth.

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Bill alwaleed in

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the goodness to the parents. Allah Subhana Allah Donna talks about honoring the parents in the end, in parallel to histo heat in parallel to his oneness, in not one or two or three in several ayah Allah subhanho wa Taala he talks about the obedience of the parents.

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In Saudi and Islam, Allah Subhana Allah Allah says,

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Allah He ministry taniela Jean

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buka Allah taboo in

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your load has decreed that you worship none but him. waka Dora buka Allah Azza Abu Illa Yeah, now number one, the worship of Allah de de near Santa and that should be good to your

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Parents, your Lord has decreed that you worship none by him and that you'd be good to your parents. What God Allah Buddha Allah Buddha Illa

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Allah Dania Santa insalata Nisa, Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Aloha, Krishna cobija

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day near Santa, he says in Sultan Nisa, and I'm here and I know you have heard many lectures on parents. I know you have read many books on parents. I am not here to teach you something which you do not know. My brothers and sisters, I am not here to teach you something you do not know. You know better than me. I'm only here to remind myself and to remind you about this.

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This worship called the obedience of the parents. Allah says in Surah Nisa, wabco De La Hoya, Tisha COVID. worship your Lord and do not associate anybody with him and he says and be good to your parents will be the world leader in here Santa inshallah. Allah

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Allah subhanho wa Taala says,

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me Sakaba nice La la la la ha vinuela Dania Sana with to covenant from Benny Islam he from the children of Israel not to worship anybody other than Allah Yeah, I need to worship Allah alone. And he says walking while he Dania Santa and be good to your parents, and on and on and on. In so many ayat, as Allah talks about his oneness. Right after his oneness he talks about the opinions of the the obedience of the parents, honoring the parents, obeying the parents the kindness towards the parents. What about a book taboo?

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Rama

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Saviola, your Lord has decreed that you worship not but him and that you'd be good to your parents in Maya blueiguana in the Kalki, Bara Houma Okita, Houma when they reach a certain age and here's the thing my brothers and sisters, my brothers and sisters, when do your parents really need you? Your parents really need you like when you're young now? Oh they need you on your when they are young. When they can work when they can handle things. They really really really when they need you they need you when they reach an early age us Allah subhana wa tada says in the Quran, Emma blucon and the Kalki Bara I'll keep reading when they reach an elderly age. When when you can see the hair

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turning gray when you see the back being being meaning you need the back though cannot come out straight. That's when they need you. That's when in fact they need you the most

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I love it. Joy age. He was in his center. He was praying knuffle Salah he was praying enough for Salah his mother called him. His mother called him and in his Salah. He says

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oh me, I'm Salah t Allah UmmI onsala t in his Salah. His mother was calling him and he says to Allah mom, or my son. What should I do? What should I do? Mom all my son. He stayed in his Salah for Allah.

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hula

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his mother became angry at him. Allah subhanho wa Taala punished him.

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He was in his Salah. He was not doing his homework. I can give you some valid reasons. He was not doing his homework. He was not busy with his kids. He was not busy with his wife. He was not busy doing something very important. He was in his Salah. Yet when he chose his Salah versus his mom, his mom became angry. Allah punished him.

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So much so that Allah subhanho wa Taala and he says

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in

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the Kalki Baba Tahoma Akilah Houma fella cola Houma

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off in Arabic, it's not a word.

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off in Arabic is not a word.

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Even that thing which is

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is not a word. In our words today means Oh, oh, it's all a word. Oh, it's not a word.

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Even that Allah subhanho wa Taala says, Don't say Oh, to your parents of, oh, why are you calling me? Oh, why me again? Why don't you ask my brother? Why don't you ask my sister? Oh, I'm busy.

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Oh mom, I'm busy. Oh, Daddy old school. Oh, Mom, you talk too much obz Let me alone, even that, oh, you're not supposed to say to your parents.

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Even if you're not supposed to say to your parents.

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And remember something.

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I heard the story today, which really, really, really affected me so much.

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Would you like me to share it with you?

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Would you like me to share that story with you?

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A story of a father.

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How many fathers do we have in the room today?

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fathers

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I heard a story of a father

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who had to go to the hospital. And he comes from a country where

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where if you were to go to hospital, you have to pay money.

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For that country, health is not free.

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You have to pay

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to get health surfaces. So he had a problem with his hand

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paralyzed and the doctor told him you have two options. We can perform a surgery for your hand

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and then your hand can move. But this will cost your money.

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Second option.

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We amputate your hands, it has to be amputated. It has to be cut.

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two options option number one,

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we performed the surgery

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and your hand would become okay. You can move it

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but it costs you money.

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Second option.

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We have to cut we have to amputate the hand.

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The father said how much is the surgery?

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The doctor told him the surgery will cost X amount of money.

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The father said no.

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How about if I don't pay?

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The doctor said if you don't pay, we have to cut your hand.

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The father said no.

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cut my hat.

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The children came and said that

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you have some savings.

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Why don't use that savings to pay for the surgery.

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That that said

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that's that savings, which I've been saving.

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have saved it

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to send that money

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to my elderly son who studies in this country so that he can pay for his school.

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I save that money for him so that he can finish his studies.

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I'd rather lose an arm.

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I would sacrifice my arm for my son's education.

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This is how much adapte can sacrifice

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for his child.

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How do you treat your father back now?

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How do you talk back to your father. Now

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someone came complained about his dad or her dad.

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He's not letting me marry this or he's not letting me marry that.

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complain about your dad

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or your mom?

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Do you know my brothers and sisters?

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That

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the Prophet Mohammed Ali salat wa salam says in this highly reported by Boko Haram and Muslim

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and reported by Bukhari and Muslim the Prophet ma

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My dad is set to sit down was talking to the Sahaba and he's telling them Do you want me to tell you the major sins? You want me to tell you? What are the major sins? They said? Yes. Tell us about tell us about the major sins. The Prophet says the major sins number one,

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associate in someone with the worship of Allah,

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associating someone with the worship of Allah. Number two,

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this honoring the parents is is considered in Islam and major sin and major sin. My brothers, let me tell you something, you who may have a long beard, you who may have a copy, you may even be wearing niqab, hijab all the way to

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you Muslims. And let me tell you something, you may come in the Day of Judgment. You may come in the day of judgment with mountains, mountains of good deeds, mountains of

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mountains of charity mountains of Sala mountains of mountains of Siam, you may be coming with mountains of good deeds, but because you will dishonor in your parents, it will not be counted, nothing will be counted. And I have the evidence. I have the evidence from the Hadith of the Prophet Muhammad Ali salatu salam

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in the Hadith, reported by Alba za what what Timmy de Roma color sudo La la la sala de la

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sala de la

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Yama, Yama, Yama, the Prophet Muhammad Allah says three kinds of people, Allah will not look at them in a day of judgment. They will be ignored by Allah into their judgments, which means they will be losers in a day of judgment. They may come with all types of of good deeds, yet they will be losers in a day of judgment, who are day a prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam says the first one is an alpha

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dawn who is unkind to his parents,

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the one who is and culture his parents, the one who who dis honors his parents, Allah subhanho wa Taala will ignore him will not look at him intuitive judgment.

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How do you treat your parents today?

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How do you talk back to your parents today?

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Do you know something my brothers and sisters

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in English we have an expression that says cometa Dino to that?

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Please, please listen to me.

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I always say this what I'm saying it again. Don't listen to me with your ears. Listen to me with your hearts because I want to touch your hearts.

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In English, we say

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whatever goes around, goes around, or whatever goes around comes around.

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Whatever goes around comes around. The Prophet says Can I match Dino to then committed in to them, which means however you treat your parents today, Allah subhanho wa Taala may bless you or afflict you with kids that will treat you the same. Whatever goes around comes around. If you treat your parents with kindness, today, Allah subhanho wa Taala may bless you with kids that will treat you the same. And if you treat your parents with and kindness, Allah subhanho wa Taala may afflict you with kids that will treat you the same. And by Allah. We've seen it. You may have seen it. We've seen it. I may tell you some stories, some very, very true stories that happened in some Muslim

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countries.

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In a Muslim country, in the middle of the street.

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there so a young man dragging an old man.

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The old man was dragging an old man dragging him

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people came to him

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Hey, Shane, what are you doing? Long old man Why Why are you dragging him?

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And he kept on dragging him. So some people, they they jumped on him they wanted to beat him up. The old man said, No, please, please leave him leave him. He is my son

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that they kept on beating him up. This is not only an old man, he is your father and you're dragging him like this. They started beating him up. The father said, Please leave him by Allah. I did the same thing to my father 14 years ago.

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Kamata Dino today

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I know the man. His friends were saying they were sitting in this house altogether talking. The father was dead amongst with them. And then the father had a small argument with his son. The son stood in front of everyone and he slapped his father.

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He slept his father.

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People couldn't believe the lies. They went through what do you do your father you stopped him. The father says by Allah Leave him alone. While he 20 years ago I slept my own father to

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carry machete no to done if I measured

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20 years back, I slapped my own father. Whatever goes around comes around. The Prophet Muhammad Ali salatu salam says in this hadith narrated by Abu Bakr, Abu Bakr, not Abu Bakr know this man is Avi Baqarah. This Hadith is sound authentic inside Yama, the prophet Isaiah Sufism says it's not your agenda. humann lofi dunya COVID a one Houma, la palma de de,

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the prophet Mohammed Ali Sufism says in this highly sound and authentic two types of sins, two types of sins, whosoever does them, they will get their punishment in this dunya before the Hereafter, Whosoever commits these two sins, they will get the punishment in this dunya before the hereafter punish the sin number one and every day and kindness to the parents and kindness of the parents. This obeying the parents, whosoever does so they will get their punishment in this life before the life of the hereafter.

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It's not a joke.

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It is not a joke. Well, it's not a joke. Your parents and let me tell you something by Allah, by Allah, you will not know the value of your parents until the end of

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the day when your parents are gone, then and only then you will know how valuable they are to you.

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You will know how valuable they are to you. Or maybe when you get to traveling very far, and you won't get to see them. You will know how valuable Your parents are. Or maybe or maybe ask, ask ask a new Muslim or revert Muslim, ask a revert Muslim or the Muslim and ask him what you wish he would say my only wish maybe my wish is for my parents to become Muslim.

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For my parents to become Muslim, that's all they wished for.

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Ma

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Ma Vampira. telsmith

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live in the life of

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we call it Beverly Dane.

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It's such a beautiful life because Allah subhanho wa Taala blesses that life.

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And also my brothers and sisters just to set the record straight. The honoring of the mother in Islam supersedes that of the Father that may repeat

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in his lab, in his lab, honoring the mother supersedes that of the Father.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala seasons

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were finally in Santa be while he died, he bydd. Here Santa was signer look. In other words, he was he was like someone who's giving you a car like your father comes to you and says, Oh my son, I am going to give you a car like a command. Be careful. I'm going to give you this one. So yeah, take it take it very, very, very strongly. So ally says what was signer? Allah is giving you a sia. He says what was final in Santa be worldly day. Allah is giving us a command to look after our parents. Look after your parents. And right after that. He says hemella tomo ha

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ha right after that. Allah moves to the mother. He moves to the mother and he says she bears him with pain. The father he

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Had pleasure.

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The father he had pleasure. He was intimate with the mother. He had pleasure he moved on. But the mother she held that baby, she held him in pain. She buried him in pain with hardship, you know, sisters, you know how it is those of you who have children, or those of you who might be pregnant, you know how it is, you know, the pain, the psychological change, brothers, those of you who are here, the fathers, the fathers, have you have you have you I'm gonna ask you this question for the brothers. Those of you who are married and have children, have you assisted your wife when she was delivering your baby?

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I'm asking you, who amongst you witnessed witnessed, you know the that expression I express you did not experience it but you witnessed your wife delivering a baby poo amongst you witnessed the wife delivering the baby.

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My opinion, my advice, my was, my was a a insha Allah who tada you get to have this chance your wife is delivering a baby, go there, be with her, be with her. You see America from Allah, America, on Earth, America from Allah subhanho wa Taala. You start valuing your wife a lot more, you start respecting your wife a lot more. And then you understand why Allah Almighty in the end, he talks about the mother, the Mother, why the Prophet talks about the mother, the mother, he says, what the Camelot who.

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She bears him in pain, and she gave birth to him in pain, in pain, in hardship, in hardship. As soon as they take their baby, and they put that baby on the chest of the mother. The mother forgets all the pain.

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The mother forgets all the hardship. The first time they take the baby. As soon as the baby comes out. They take the baby, they put the baby on the chest of the mother, the mother forgets all the pain and the hardship. It's all gone. Because of her son, because of her baby. Your mother, your mother, your mother, your mother, your mother, your mother, back into a main job, the love Mama. And after I

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asked him, he took his mom Listen to this. He took his mom on his shoulder. And then he took her out into the outskirts. She was they did not have washrooms. They did not have restrooms. If you want to go to the washroom, you go outside in the field. So this man, he carried his mother on his on his shoulder. He took her out in the field to to look after her needs, right. And then he carried her he washed her he cleaned her and then he took her back. And then he told this hobby this companion half I have I fulfilled my mother's right. The man said no, no, you have not fulfilled her right? She did the same thing to you when you were the baby. She did the same thing to you when you were a baby

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yet. She did it to you wish in your life. When you were the baby. She used to know you had your diapers she had she had two kids you and and she carried you and she hope she helped you and she hugged you. She did that to you wishing you wish in your life. You're doing the same thing to her today. But you're wishing her death.

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You're helping her today. You're wishing her death. She did the same thing to you. She's wishing you a good life.

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A good health.

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She did not feed herself. She took the morsel of meat or she took the morsel of food from her mouth. She took it out to give it to you first. She fed you before she fed herself.

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Your mother

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when you were sick, she stood up the whole night crying, praying to Allah to give you Shiva

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crying praying to Allah to give you a Shiva.

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Your mother, your mother, your mother who let go her dreams. She sacrificed her treats for your dreams.

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Your mother, she sacrificed her dreams. Her inspirations for use your mother, your mother the day you lose your mother. The day we lose our mother. The world changes colors. The world loses colors. The world becomes white and black. The day we lose our mothers. The Earth would change this man was

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crying after he lost his mom. He cried so much. And he asked, he was asked, What do you cry? They he says, Why shouldn't I cry? There was a gate of Jana, my mother, the gate to paradise, my mother, the gate to heaven. My mother has passed away against the agenda. A gate of Heaven has just been closed before me. Why should I not cry, I should cry, I should cry, I should cry. The mother that used to make the air for me has just passed away. You know, my brothers and sisters, when you travel or somebody travels, somebody's going for Hajj, someone's going for you as that person, please make me please make God for me. But do you tell your mother mom make die for me, your mother, you don't need

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to tell her.

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Your mother, you don't need to tell her Mom, please make die for me. In fact, she's going for what she's good for, just to make to offer you. In fact, cheap praise and all her prayers is for you. All her prayers is Allah protect my son, oh, Allah protect my daughter, all her life is yours. You don't need to remind your mom to make dua for you. You can tell your brother, you know what, you know what? Everything can be replaceable.

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Everything can be replaceable, you can lose a car, you can have another car, you lose a property, you can have another property, you lose your job, you can replace another job. But if you lose your mother, nothing can replace the mother. Nobody can replace the mother. Nobody can replace the mother. Everything can be replaced except your mother.

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She cannot be replaced. How do you treat her? How do you talk to her?

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When was the last time you gave your mother a hug?

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When was the last time you told your mother that you love her?

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Not best.

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Not best.

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A man came to him and he says

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he was giving a lecture and he says

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I'm not best.

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I fell in love with this woman.

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And she married somebody else.

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I fell in love with her. But she went and she married somebody else.

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I could not resist.

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I could not resist. I went on I killed her.

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Best.

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What's my expiation?

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Maybe some of you don't understand or some of you're smiling.

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I don't really know why you're smiling.

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It's good to smile. But when you listen to story like this, you laugh and you say, Why are you laughing?

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I did not say a joke. The guy fell in love with this girl. She got married somebody else he went he stabbed her to death. So he went to my best asking when our best I killed this woman. What am I supposed to do? I need to expect my sense

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of inner best he says he thought and thought and he says Do you have a mother?

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Do you have a mom? He says yes.

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He says go back and be kind to your mom. Treat your mom with kindness. At the end of the lecture, a student was there. And he asked at best. He says you have not best that man asked you. He killed someone. Yes, he painted. Yes. He paid the the you know the charges and whatever. Yes, he may he did what he had to do. But you know, you he asked you for some sort of explanation. You told him, you know, to go to his mother and treat her with kindness as best as I looked and I could not find anything for him to do that will get him the closeness to Allah other than Him being kind to his mom.

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I could not find for him anything better than that. I could not find for him anything better than that.

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His mother called him. She's Yeah.

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She called him. Oh, my son

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says that Bay Chioma, the bay key oma. He says Yes, mom. And then he realized that he raised his voice. What did he do wrong? What did he do wrong? Nothing. But he realized he says I raised my voice at my mother. So he went he bought two slaves and he freed them for the sake of Allah.

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He says I hope I luck and forgive me for raising my voice at my mom.

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Another companion epidermis route.

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His mom came to him and she says, Yeah, Dr. Ebony Oh my son, I'm thirsty. I want some water. So he went outside to get her water. By the time he came in, his mother fell asleep. His mother fell asleep. So he held the cup of water by his mom. He did not want to wake her up. He stayed there waiting for his mom. The whole night. The whole night. Whenever he feels tired, he sits down. If he feels sleepy, he stands up with the cup of water in his hand. If he feels tired, he sits down. If it fits sleepy, he stands up the whole night until dawn until morning when his mother wake up or woke up. He's she found him and then he was awake. He told her mom, mom, you water your water. The first

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thing he did, he did not go to sleep the whole night. Why? Because his mother asked for water. And he wanted the first thing when she opens her eyes to find her son with the water as she has requested.

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This is what we call in Arabic bill, Aladdin, goodness to the parents. kindness to the parents. How do you treat your parents?

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What do you get?

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What do you get when you honor your parents? Many things, many things.

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Allah will bless your health.

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Allah will bless your wealth.

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Allah would bless your life. Your dog becomes Mr. Jab. Your dog becomes granted. Your supplication becomes granted your invoke Allah, Allah would answer your dog on the spot, there was a man at the time of the Prophet by the name of always and colony. He lives away from Medina. And then and then the Prophet, the prophet Mohammed Ali salatu salam says, to his companions, he says, All people if you meet this man always asked him to make the offer you asked him to make the offer you because his talk is Mr. Sharp his his granted.

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What's the story of this man, this man my brothers and sisters, he has a mother.

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His this man had a mother.

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His mother needed him. But he wanted to go and travel and migrate to Medina to visit the prophet to see the prophet and to earn the title, the title of Sahabi, the title of companion, he sacrificed that title. Listen to this and listen with your hearts. He sacrifice the most beautiful title.

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The title of companion

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Sahabi. He loved he sacrificed that title just to be with his mom, just to be with his mom. By the time his mother passed away he traveled but the Prophet also passed away. So he did not earn that that title, meaning or that title is not Sahabi compelling. He missed it because he did not see the problem. He believed in the Prophet, but he did not see him.

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Yet the Prophet heard about him.

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In the era of Roma, in the era of ama this man traveled for hush Oh, am I met him? Are you always? Yes. Are you always a colony? Yes, please, please make the art for me. Um, I said Please pray for me. Um, I said, always said you're your companion. And the Prophet has already given you the glad tidings of genda Why should I pray for you? Why should I make to offer you? He says because the Prophet Mohammed son loves him says if you meet this man, always ask him to make the offer you because his daughter is Mr. Sharp.

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If you are good to your parents, if you are current your parents, Allah will answer your da. Allah will answer your da, Allah will grant your supplications anytime you invoke Allah, Allah will answer your da

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o your mother, your mother, your Mother,

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the Father, who has worked full time, over time, part time just to provide for you. The mother who held you who held you when

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This man went to the Prophet Mohammed and asked him a prophet, Allah, Who should be my best friend, who should be my best companion. The Prophet says your mother. And then the man said, Who else the province is your mother. And then the Prophet said, Who is the Prophet said, your mother. And then the method who has for the fourth time, the prophet said, your father, your mother, your mother, your mother, then your father, your mother, your mother, your mother, your mother,

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holla, holla holla about the mother

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Holla Holla Holla. But the mother,

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you know, the daughter of the mother is granted,

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the day of the mother is granted. If your mother is alive, go to her tonight. Go to her tonight, go to her today. Go to her now and ask her Mom, please make that for me.

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as well like the Malala a time may come, a time may come, you will need someone to make to offer you and your mother will not be there. Your mother may not be there. But if she is there today, if your father is there today, go to them. Because there is a vehicle that will drive you to Shanna, go to them today before tomorrow. But if your mother has died, if she's dead, if she's gone, cry, and don't cry, tears cry blood, because one of the gates of Jana has just been locked before you, your mother, your mother, your mother, despite regardless of how she could be or even if she's not Muslim, by the way, even if she's not Muslim, I smile. She went to the Prophet Mohammed and he said

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to Sam, should I treat my mother should I to assist her? She's not a Muslim? Should I sister? The Prophet says yes, yes. Be kind to her or a smile, be country, mother, even if she's not a Muslim,

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your mother, your mother, your mother.

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There is this story of Musa Moses

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Moosa, he asked Allah subhana wa Tada.

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He says, Oh Allah, I want to see my companion in heaven. In fact, I have a poem with me today, which I will be dedicated to all the mothers here today.

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Oh my mother's because you are so dear to me. And when I see you, I see my own mother.

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I have a poem which I will dedicate for all of you today inshallah hotel.

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Moosa asked, Oh Allah, I want to see my companion in heaven. Allah revista Moosa omorosa. go to this place is like an old cave.

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And in there you will find your companion in general.

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Moosa goes. He looked out or he looks up from from from outside the soul, an old woman, frail old woman.

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And there's this young man who's next to her. He helps her he feeds her. He changes her. He cleans the house, or the place where they leave and then he steps out. So most likely goes inside.

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Moosa goes in

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and that woman, she sees Musashi does not recognize him.

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She does not recognize him. Moses says, Yeah, amatola Oh, woman, who is that son?

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Who is that? That young man, she says, He is my son. He is my son.

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Moosa says okay, but what's so good about this and what's so special about him?

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We all have our parents. We all feed our parents, but what's so special about this son? The mother said, This is my son. You see, I'm old. You see, he pleads me, he feeds me. He helps me. He supports me, he assists me.

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I make the owl for him every day. Or Allah make my son the companion of Musa in Jana.

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Musa said, Allah has answered your call. I am Musa, and your son will be my partner in Jana.

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The mother used to make so much to offer her son, Allah subhanho wa Taala accepted that from her.

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Because of this man, this son used to help the mother and the sister, your mother, your mother, your mother.

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Even after they die, you still be good to them. How? How? Pray for them, pray for them. That can elevate the status in general.

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I'm gonna share with you that poem

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that I have for the mothers today

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it's in Arabic

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but I will try to translate it inshallah hota

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mothers

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This is from me to you

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Oh Ma

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Ma

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y open a Shakuni

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yeah chanson Toshi coffee okay yeah

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filarmonica

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yeah Caledonia yeah Emily until you

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for Antioch on may not be further out on may not be

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minute dounia balbi ie oma

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unforseen I'm Omani while canonically on our

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camera in comme le le. Sahara three Marathi

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tabletki what are the above

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briefly Wahhabi p yada? yada be Emma. Emma atonia

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oh me

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oh me. Yeah

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Oh me. Yeah, but

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oh me. Oh, hey, buki Omani. Yeah bachata, una de MIDI.

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The meanie was crazy. He was saying he was there any Hello Mama.

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Mama

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it says our mother or my love a mother. On my love a mother on my heart. A mother? Yeah chanson to shape of me. Okay. You are the son that rises a mother.

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You are the son that rises the mother You are my entire life on mother Caledonia? Yeah, Emily, you are my hope. You are the sign of sincerity on mother for the Antioch

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for the better.

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You are You are a gift from my Lord. How can I survive without your mother? You are a gift from my Lord. How can I survive without your mother?

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What should I give your mom from this life? What should I give you?

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My heart? My eyes.

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What should I give you? My breath? My soul?

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Everything is so cheap for you a mother. Everything is so little for you on Mother. Mother.

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How many nights you stood up? How many nights you stood up a mother typically you cry typically what to do about you cry cry cry before the Lord and and praying and praying saying Oh Allah Oh Allah my son Allah protect my son Allah preserve my son. Well I'm not give the Shiva for my son. How many nights Oh, mom used to that whole night praying for me. Oh, me. Oh, me or mother. I love you, mother. I love your money. You're my life, mother. Yeah, I'll be one Mona tomini. Hold me on mother, hold me a mother hug me a mother hug me a mother with a knee.

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And let me dream or mother let me dream a mother in your arms or mother.

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And I want to end with this story

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of a man

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who invited his wife.

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He went to his wife

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and he invited his wife

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for dinner.

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He invited his wife for dinner.

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The wife told him

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I declined. It decline. I don't want to go with you. Go take the other woman.

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Go take the other woman to the restaurant. I declined going out with you.

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The man says I'm not that type. What do you mean? I'm in watching you out for dinner. And you tell me to go take that other woman. What other woman what other woman she says I'm declining my day.

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Go take your mother out for dinner.

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You have not taken her out.

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Go take her out for dinner.

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The brother looks to his wife and he says, may Allah had a watch.

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And he called his mother.

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And he told her mom,

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mom,

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prepare yourself. I'm taking you out for dinner.

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The mom could not believe her eyes or could not believe her ears. She says, My son, are you serious?

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My son, are you serious?

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The father said, or the son or the sunset. Mom, I'm serious. I'm taking you out for dinner tonight.

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Get ready. I'm coming to pick you up.

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He goes to pick up his mom.

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He takes her out for dinner.

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His mom could not believe her eyes. She does not care. In fact, she does not care whether it's in a restaurant, or whether it's in the streets, or whether they're eating bread, or whether they eating or drinking just soup or just water. She does not care. All she cares about is company with her son. She's enjoying that company with her son.

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So at the end, the son says Ma, how was dinner? Are you happy? The mother said today is the happiest day of my life. Of course, I'm very happy. May Allah reward you. May Allah reward you. The son says Mom, I'm going to do it again. inshallah Tada. I will bring you again to the same restaurant. The mother says no, my son.

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No, my son.

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I'm the one who is going to invite you next time. It will be on me in the same restaurant.

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Days go by.

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months go by.

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The sun got busy.

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The son got busy.

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The mother got sick. And she died.

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She got sick and she died.

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One day

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this man receives a letter in his home

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envelope with two invitations to a restaurant.

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The same restaurant he took his mother to

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who sent me these invitations.

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It goes to the restaurant with his wife.

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And then he found a letter in that restaurant. He read the letter. He says, Son, it's your mom.

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Remember, I promised you to take you to that restaurant.

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Well, I tried but you were always busy.

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I sent out this invitation for you and your wife. May Allah reward you.

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By Allah by brothers and sisters, especially the brothers here who are married. Who amongst you ever invited their mother out to a restaurant?

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Who amongst you took the moms out ever to the restaurants?

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Yes, your wife, you treat your wife accordingly. You treated with your son. You respect her you honor her but your mother takes priority. Your mother your mother your mother does how it is you treat your wife with your son, you treat your father with your son, you treat your children your son, your mother comes first your mother comes first.

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swear by Allah who holds my soul. Like I say you will not know the value of your mother until the day she's gone. But when she is gone when she dies, it could be too late. It could be too late. It is today. Before tomorrow. Today. Go to your mother today. Go to your mother asked her to make the offer you ask her to pray for you. Be kind to her. Be nice to her hug her hug her before the time comes. She will not be there for the hug. Well, I am mother came to me once she says I have five kids. I have five kids. They have no problems. They're all strong. They're all healthy. Oh chef. I don't need nothing from him from them. I don't need anything from them. All I need. All I need is

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for them to come one day one day just to come to me and give me a hug. They've never hugged me. They've never hugged me. What kind of hearts do we have today? What kind of hearts that we have when making the Analyze but answering why allies Don't ask. How do you treat your mother? How do you treat your father? How do you treat your parents go back to them today. Before

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Tomorrow, go back to them today before it's too late. I'm gonna ask all the sisters here, all the sisters, if your mother is here, go to her right now. I'm stopping. I won't say a word. Stand up. Go to your mom right now and give it a hug. If your mother sitting next to you, hugger, quickly if your mother is go give her the hug. Brothers. If your father is here, how can how can

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your dad hug your dad? If your father is here, Please hug him. If your father is here, give him a hug your mom here a hug her and ask her to make the offer you ask your that to make the offer you stand up all of you.

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I'm gonna make Doha and all you say is me.

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Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah Allahu Allah. Allah has now also vertical

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Luca vs mikhailova Milla de de su ETV YAH

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YAH

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YAH

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YAH YAH YAH YAH YAH YAH YAH YAH you

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Anakata la la de la ilaha illa de la sharika kalamunda

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your summit your la de la Mary Olivia colo cavanna alameen el hombre Tina Hello Mohammadi. Dena. Hammadi Allah,

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Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah,

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Allah Allah, Allah.

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Allah, Allah.

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Allah,

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Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah him a lot, but I'm watching him

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in a friendly way, Dana, I asked you by everything that you that I know we asked you by every name which we know we asked about every name which we do not know. We asked you by your grace, this name we asked you we invoke you we simply Kate you, Allah, please bless our parents. Please bless our parents, please forgive our parents, please or Allah preserve our parents or our loved ones have mercy upon our parents, by Allah.

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Have mercy upon our parents, Allah we know we know. We know we've been so unkind to them. We've been so unkind to them, we disobeyed him, we didn't obey them, we dishonor them or Allah Please forgive us. All of our shortcomings. Allah is forgive our shortcomings out there. It's all love Please grant them and our parents will love is grant them please grant them the highest level in gender while up is going up as

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well. I love Please grant them to see the face of your face on law. Please grant them the companionship of the private in general or law Please forgive our parents, bless them, preserve them, protect them, protect them, protect them all those of them are sick. Please give them Shiva those of them are sequela Please give them the cure is heal them in them. Those mark our parents who are here or maybe those amongst us who have parents that are not Muslim Allah please guide them is guide the guide that is guidance please please please guide them, guide them, guide them guide them, show them that no show them the no show them the light or Allah. Show them the straight path Allah

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Allah I mean, I mean, I mean also

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Mohammed Wada Subhana Allah be MSF when I was tell them I'm sorry not hamdulillah Let me hug the person next to you Please hug the person next to you.

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does not come on lucky.

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May Allah bless you as I can love him.

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If Allah gives me life

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I may see you tomorrow.

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Luck lucky. If Allah gives me life again. I may see you tomorrow for my final talk is that Kamala shadows cinematic aloe vera cast