Umm Sulaym RA – Her Dowry Was Islam – The Firsts
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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
As well as community ministry planners, Mr. Rahman Rahim Al hamdu, Lillahi Rabbil Alameen. Whatever we want to learn about I mean, when people are too much Sakina Allahumma salli wa sallam robotic and Abdi Kota pseudo Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Already he was looking to sell them to someone cathedra want to welcome everyone back and hamdulillah overall, I mean after Ramadan to the first And subhanAllah as we went into Ramadan, we finished covering really the five most instrumental people to bringing Islam to Medina. In fact, if you look at these five people that we spoke about, and I'm not going to ask you to name them all, but inshallah Tada, you will go back and
watch them to refresh your memory about how Islam spread through the city of Medina. It starts with these five, and these five are the foundation for all the faith that will come for the next however many episodes we're going to spend with the onslaught of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, after him. And there was a particular person. And when I started the series of the first just so you can know how special this person is to my heart. When I started the series, I actually said to myself, I can't wait to do um, so Damon will the Allahu Taala and that's how incredible this woman that we're going to cover is and some of you might have had this experience where you've come up to
me and asked me what should I name my daughter and I'll tell you real Mesa after unsustainable the Allahu Taala and her because she's such a special woman and as we're naming after the righteous, then we need to inshallah to Allah, honor them in the most blessed of ways. So what makes her so special? And how are we going to understand her insha Allah to Allah in the best of ways, when you're reading Sahih Muslim, if you get to the chapter of Kitab, Allah Allah Sahaba Well, the Allahu Taala and the book of the virtues of companions Subhan Allah He places her story right after ohm Amon on all the Allahu Tatiana and if there's one person who resembles on a mineral the Allahu Tada
Anna in the life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam it is unsustainable. The Allahu Taala and her so I want you to think about her. This has not been written anywhere. I'm just saying that as you go through her story, think of all the similarities that you're going to find with Amon or the Allahu Taala on her. So you had on a man in Makkah, who of course migrated with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, but that caring, loving mother that was always looking over his shoulder. Here you have also the middle the Allahu anha, the Amon of Medina, that will always be there in the background with the prophets of Allah when he was some of them, caring for him, making sure that
he's fed, listening to his voice to see if she could hear a weakness and a fatigue in his voice so that she can feed him. This is the character of the woman that we are going to be covering. So her name is once again on Celine, but she does not have a son named Celine. Celine was the name of her younger brother. Okay, so both she and her sister are named by their younger brothers the mothers of their younger brothers and that could be Allah knows best because they used to be like mothers to their younger brother so from an early age they were called um so Damon um haram on Sudan Benjamin Han on haram Benjamin Han, and we will talk about her as well the Allahu Tada Anna so her name is on
Sudan bent mill Han. Her actual first name is a roommate isa or al who may saw so with the law or with the vein, a room a saw or alone a saw. Both of them show up actually an authentic narrations. And it could be that that both of them are actually appropriate that you could call her by the law or by design Romae saw or when they saw or salah or Malika, these are also names that were attributed to her about the Allahu Taala and how but as we said, she's most famous for her Konya, the nickname of Amsterdam being the mother of Sudan, who was her younger brother. Now, at the moment, no, we don't have a whole lot to add. It tells us something about her from the very
beginning which is important in the context of the story, that both she and her sister are considered holiday considered maternal aunts to the Prophet sallallahu It was Sunday, because what you're going to see in the story is an unusual closeness the prophets lie so I'm going and taking naps in her home. The prophets lie so I'm talking to her in that way, treating her in that way. And remember no we Rahim Allah to Allah he says that on haram walked
and on Sudan, both haram and her sister on Sudan, Canada, while attaining the Rasulullah sallallahu. It was sentiment mahalo Amini Imam Ihlara Imam and NASA that these two women were both maternal aunts of the profit slice and I'm either through breastfeeding or through actual nessip through actual lineage, how these two women are from the clan of Benina John, and I know it's been a while since we've gone through the first but we talked about how banana jar was the with the maternal relatives of the mortality. So that's why when the Prophet slicin came to yesterday, he came to Medina right he had a connection to venioone ajar because they are considered him
paternal aunts, and I'm so lame and Haram are from banana jar. And so either they're actually great aunts of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam in that sense or which was very common at the time in terms of feeding and foster care, that it was the mothers and the aunts and they would basically be the same thing. And so there is a, you know, a kinship there between the Prophet slice and I'm and then that makes them Muharram to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So that's another thing to understand. However, there is no relationship, no actual relationship before Islam, between the Prophet SAW Salem and on Salim or Ankara. Okay, but just in terms of the establishing the kinship
between them, this is what we have narrated from the moment now we don't have a lot of time as as well as an imam ibn Abdullah about now what is her reputation before Islam, she's considered to be one of the most beautiful women of Medina, she is considered to be, you know, exceedingly strong, assertive. She's known for being very assertive, very independent minded.
One of the few literate women in Medina remember both men and women. At that time, you don't find many people that were literate, she knew poetry, she was literate. So she was really someone that had a price position in the society of El Medina and of course, yesterday before the Prophet salallahu, sunnah. And she was married to who was considered one of the most noble men who happened to escape the wrath wars because he was a merchant. And his name was Malik in another manner give another was considered one of the richest men of Medina, someone that matches her in terms of his prominence and his prestige in that society. And when the brass wars happened where most of the men
killed each other off, he was out in a shop on a trade route. So he escaped the bloodbath, literally the bloodbath that would happen with the broth wars before Islam. So she's married to him noblemen and Medina. And they have two sons, Monica novel and her have two sons and us and Al Bara
and US ibn Malik Radi Allahu taala. And who en el Bara ibn Malik Radi Allahu taala. And now just say this there's a difference of opinion in regards to a Bharat if he if also name was actually his mother, or if his mother was another wife of Maliki but knowledge, okay, but Allah knows best it seems that this is that she's actually his mother as well, but he was grown. And under signal Malik or the alo Tyler and who was the young, beautiful boy, from whom we would gain so much of our deen and so the Allahu Taala and who the son of Celine and Anna submodel and Anna, I'm sorry, Malik of another and anisul, the Allahu taala. And who says that he was named after his paternal uncle and a
seventh novel. So again, Mark Cuban Mother, the Father on slain the mother. And then you have the paternal uncle Ennis of another, and he is the one about whom the Iowa's revealed Mina Mina leejohn on Sadhak Omar Abdullah Ali from inhuman Cavanna woman, woman, young toddler when my blue chip de la, the verse where Allah subhana wa says in from the believers are those who are truthful to the covenant they made with ALLAH SubhanA wa jal, some of them fulfilled their covenant right away, some of them were delayed in fulfilling their covenant to God, one that said that he would have deala but they never changed in their intention, their resolve, this is an A sub another, the brother of
Monica but another the paternal uncle of Anissa, in my article, the Allah and and he said when he missed better, he said, If Allah gives me another chance, then you will see what I will do yellow suit Allah, they will see my courage and my bravery and he was one of those of the Allahu Taala in Ohio to charge forth and who told everyone to keep on going forward when others were fleeing. So he was martyred and in a very notable way. And so this is the uncle. Now, how does Islam enter into this household? It actually does not start with Malik because Malik once again is on on a trade route. Okay, prominent businessman that travels the world. It starts with on Sudan model the Allahu
Taala Anna and she was in the gathering of Musa ibn Romero, the Allah Tala and hold the very first data gathering that small gathering we talked about with SI Devins rato the Allahu Anhu she was there present when most Abdullah the Allahu Anhu began his Dawa
and she immediately embraced Islam. And so some of them some of the scholars even say she's the very first female convert in Medina talk about distinction. The very first woman to embrace Islam in the etheric was also named, or the Allahu Taala and her now her husband is away. And so the Allah Tala and who was a little child at the time, the ruling on marrying or being married to non Muslims that's still not clarified at this point in Islam. This is still very early on in Islam. Okay, so
At this point, there is no halal and haram and there is no breaking off the relationships if a person was married to if a Muslim woman was married to a non Muslim man, however Subhanallah, we're going to see that as soon as Monica and mother comes back, then the change starts to happen. He comes home, and he sees her practicing this new faith. And he says, also bowtie remember when we talked about the story of our model, the law and this was the derogatory term, this was the Islamophobic term for saying, Did you become Muslim? Like I heard about this foolishness while I was gone from Medina, did you join this foolish religion?
And she said, mastervolt Well, I can the amount she corrected the terminology. She said, No, but I did believe I became a Muslim if that's what you're asking me.
And so he starts to yell at her. He's furious with her and starts to threaten her if she does not leave this religion and says, Leave this poison from this household haven't given you enough of this dunya to where you don't have to think about something in regards to the hereafter. You're good. Why are you even doing this? Why are you bringing this into our home? Stop it, she ignores him and instead she brings baby on us.
And she says to Anasazi Allahu Taala and say c'est la ilaha illAllah.
And she has an actually repeat La ilaha illa to his father and honestly Allah Tada and who was a baby boy, so she has Anasazi Allahu taala. I know repeating La ilaha illallah after her in front of Monica and another, and he starts to yell at her. He says lots of CD and a Yemeni don't corrupt my son like you corrupted yourself. And so this becomes a source of tension in the household. But again, at this point, she doesn't have to divorce him there is no ruling in regards to this. At the end of the day, what we know is that she is going to remain on Islam might have given another says I don't have time for this nonsense, he comes home he gets angry about it. At the same time, he's busy
with his money. He's not someone that's actually taking a position against the profit slice. I'm trying to stop Islam and Medina in any active way other than being annoyed by it right and annoyed by the fact that his wife and his son have accepted
Islam. So he goes off to a sham again. Okay, now on this trade route to a sham Manichaean another passes away and he passes away as a non Muslim, and SubhanAllah. Like I think about this, and I say, had he merely said La ilaha illAllah. Think about the sadaqa jariya that would have outlasted him it's actually tragic. All that NSL the Allah Tada and who would do and all the offspring of Anasazi Allah and it would have been in his scale to some extent.
But because he didn't have time, to even entertain the thought of theology, or religion, and he immediately rejected it. Instead, he becomes a dead man out in a sham, we don't even know where his grave is today. So how long Imagine if he would have embraced Islam? Right? Imagine what would have been waiting for him what would have been stored for him and so you see, the blessings that He missed out on by refusing this religion and that shows you Subhanallah, the limited time that you have when Allah subhanaw taala shows you guidance. Many people drag their feet. And they don't know, maybe in his mind, he thought, you know, I'll see how this plays out. In Medina, I'm not really a
guy that's very active, politically speaking. I'll see how this drags out. If things go wrong, then I'll take this this route. If things go right, then I'll take this route. But he continued, unfortunately, he persisted in his ways of disbelief.
Now you can think about him saying, well, the Allahu Taala Anna, she's distraught. I mean, her last memories with her husband is being completely estranged from him over a decision that she ultimately took.
And this could have really shaken her faith, right, given her doubts. You know, I said, Latin Allah And my husband died. You know, I went from being married to a noble man, a rich man and Medina. Now I'm a widow, what happens, right? This could have been a fitna for could have been a trial in her faith, and she could have been struck with immense guilt, but instead Subhanallah we find her very patient, we find her staying strong on her faith, and we find her continuing to come close to Allah subhanaw taala and this is all happening before the Baotou the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam Baotou Acaba, Thani. Remember that the second br where a group of unsought would go to the Prophet slice
and this is all happening within the first few months of Musab and Assad and the two sides in Medina, spreading Islam. So, what happens to her? It's very interesting. Remember, she's a very desirable woman,
a man by the name of Abu Tonhalle. I will tell his actual name was Zayed bin Sultan Zayed bin Salman. He didn't actually have a son named Paul house so it's common amongst the Arabs right that you would call your son or your daughter by name. I couldn't yet which is a bull or on the father of the mother of so and so before they even have a child. So this is Kenya I will call her was from the same tribe as her from buena jump.
So he went
Did for some time and this was a man who was very similar to mount a good model in terms of his prominence he'd be next in line very wealthy, extremely noble character known for his manners and this is actually a distinguishing factor very distinguished by his o'clock by his manners and known for his kindness is very good to the poor generous with the poor novel pod ha comes to her and proposes to her and she says to him yet Allah Tala myth Luca, Euro the person like you will not be turned away. But I am a Muslim woman.
What until I was on Mushrik and you're a disbeliever what not to hit newly you're not halal for me, you're not you're not permitted for me to marry.
So I thought I was kind of offended by that, right? Like I brought this whole scene to marry you, right to get you out of this tragedy to save you from this devastation that you're in and this is how you respond to me. I mean, it's not really a rude response, but still, it's like I'm a Muslim. You're not sorry, we can't do this. I will talk to her says Matt had the lithium now keep in mind that's not what's really stopping you from marrying me. So she says what is it that he said that will fill you want more gold and silver right now we've got an up the dowry up what I'm at what I'm bringing to you I gotta bring a bigger a bigger thing next time. And she says Bill in neoshield.
Okay, about what what was she the law sooner rather I bear witness Oh, I will tell her, I call you to bear witness and Allah and His messenger. And Naka in Islam if you became Muslim, while the two because I would be pleased with you as a husband. Well, that he can marry. And that would be my mother. That'd be my dowry. I don't want anything else from you. You're a rich man. You got all these treasures, you got all this stuff going on for you. All you have to do is c'est la vie that Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah, and that's good enough for me. That would be my Maha Sabha thought he was taken aback, he recognized this was a sincere conviction and Subhanallah like Malik in another,
he's kind of busy with the money that he has. And so the Allahu Anhu says he owned more property in Medina than anyone else. So he's just not really interested. But he says, Look, I'll think about what you've said. And I'll study it a bit. He comes back to her a few days later and says, Have you changed your mind? She says, No, have you? He said, No. So like, is it really Islam? Is it going to stick? No, I You still can't marry me unless you become Muslim? And she's like, Have you thought about it? He's like, not really. And then she starts to give him hints. She sees him one day worshipping his idols, you know, doing the ritual.
And she says to him, hey, what would happen to your idols? If they were thrown into a fire?
I will tell her said they would burn. So that's the kind of God you worship
moves on. Another time. She says to him, don't you feel kind of silly worshiping a part of a tree? Because there's some wood in the idle a part of a tree that if you needed to cook or keep yourself warm, you throw it into a fire to keep yourself warm? Don't you feel kind of silly doing that? So I will talk to kind of taking it he's taking the hints.
And then finally Subhanallah after some time, he thought about it and he comes back to her and says, I believe in that what you believe. So you know when I believe in that what you believe so she gives him Shahada.
All right, she gives him shahada and I saw the Allahu Taala and who was 10 years old? She says to him Yeah, Anna's confessor, which I will help understand up and marry I will tell her to your mother.
So Anna saw the Allahu Taala and I mean of course by the way, things are not very defined yet in Islam at this point, right. We're still at the Arcadia phase creed phase belief in Allah belief in the hereafter. We don't have many of the rulings yet right. But UNECE is going to be the one to perform the Nikka for his mother to have will tell her and so bound will the Allah Tala and who then said the very famous statement, he said, we do not know of a single woman Imran Khan, raha hai Rahman Muhammad Ali Salim, we don't know of a single woman who had a better Maha than Amsterdam or the Allahu anha Kana mahal Islam. Her motto was Islam. The dowry she sought from her husband was
Islam. All she wanted from him was Islam. And that was the basis of the marriage contract that you become Muslim. And that's the only gift that I want from you. Now comes to the next part of this. They actually Aqaba Asana the second day or the pledge where multiple people are going to go from yesterday and take the pledge with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
and it was all men. And I'm studying well, the law and he says, I'm coming to
you'll see this throughout her see you don't she asserts herself. And it was her and no surprise, no say but then cap on Amara or the Allahu taala. And so the woman that would be wielding a sword who we will have,
you know, a future Holika on for sure. Well, the Allahu Allah Anna and Asma bint armor as well, according to some narration so these two or three women go along with the group of 73 men who are going to take their pledge to the prophets of Allah
Salam, Abu Talha was one of the men and also named Radi Allahu Allah and he was there. And she had her baby boy and us and she sees people going and dedicating themselves to the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam, and she's so saddened that she can't dedicate herself or she can't be there the way that some of the men are around the profit slice. And she wants to give everything for this Dean. So she takes her son and us and she says Jada sort of Allah, this is my son, he's in your service until the until one of you passes away.
Take my son, not take my necklace. Not no jasola This is my son he's at your service. He's in your Kidman the best favor she ever did for MSL, the allot of time. And so the Allahu Anhu he used to become emotional when narrating this incidence. Like think about it for him. He remembers the moment that his mother told him that you are in the service of Rasul Allah sai Salam, the most beloved person in the world to me, honestly Allah and we used to cry when he would be narrating this narration about himself. And he says that my mother said Yatta suit Allah ha the Mocha Anna's or Allah, Allah Who ya rasool Allah here is your servant and us make dua for him. So the prophets lie,
some said Allahu Akbar killed Marla who while while other who were baraclough, who female al Qaeda, who three things the Prophet saw some said, Oh Allah, bless him with his wealth, bless him with his children, and bless him and everything that you will give to him.
Now, when we do the seed of anus next week, and has had a lot of kids on the allowance, data and a lot of grandkids and a lot of a lot of wealth that came to him Subhanallah and he used to attribute it back to this one moment, where his mother said, make their app for him or Allah La who
then they come back to Medina also lost my son comes to Medina, and finds that I'm slain are the Allahu Taala Anna has turned a part of her home into almost Allah.
By the way, this is actually some of the scholars will speak about this and saying the value of having a part of your home that's dedicated to a Salah, and I think a lot of us learn this and COVID in particular, right? Like it could be really enriching, okay, not something you have to do not even something that we would say is a sunnah per se, but something that we find some of the Sahaba and Sahaba used to do to have a particular part of the home that's dedicated to it now realize when the prophets lie some came to Medina, if you remember, everyone wanted the prophets lie some to pray amongst their tribe. Okay, so this tribe, gets the Prophet slice on for this date and then this
tribe and basically blesses the masala that would be for that tribe. So they model the Allahu Taala and once the profit slice and M to come pre to darcars in her home, and the profit slice, I'm honored that so Rasul Allah sigh Sam comes, and he prays in the masala, I'm Celine and her home. And that's something that gives her great joy. Now after that, so Han Allah, this is not the only time that the prophets lie, some will continue to enter, remember, she's Muslim to him. She is his maternal aunt, in that sense. And the prophets lie some recognizes the sincerity of this woman, and the desire of this woman to be close to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and so and so the
Allahu Taala and who says lamb Jaquan Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam yet Hulu beta and availability only saying that there is no house that the prophets lies I'm in all of Medina that the prophets lie some would enter the way that he would enter into the house of Amsterdam or the Allah hotel to Anna and someone said said something to mention that to the Prophet slice I'm not antagonizing him, but but as an observation, like Subhanallah, the amount of times you visit this family on Sulaiman of Bhutan, and you have Anasazi a lot of data and who was like your own son, the son of Amsterdam with you, and the prophets lie Selim mentioned and this is something very
beautiful. He said that this is mercy Butina who have married her brother was killed with me. Why? Because the brothers of unsullied, Sudan and haram were actually murdered, were murdered in battle, in a very brutal way, several sola sites I'm missing this is also a form of Rama, that the two brothers have almost Sulaiman al haram. were martyred alongside me. And so this is a llama to them as well, not just the fact that they are a Caraga that they are close kinship to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, but also something of that as well. And you find constant narrations of Rasulullah Seisen visiting this woman's home.
And so the Allahu Taala and who we're going to talk about next week was you know, subhanAllah What would our deen be what would we have our religion without under Soviet Law and all right, and so the Allahu Anhu has all these stories of the times the prophets like some came to our house. So he said one time Rasul Allah sai Salam came over and he sat down in the basically the living room right in the area and you know, where they would have their guests and also name brought some dates and some butter you know, thinking that she could feed the profit slice um, and also Allah sigh some said put the butter back and put the dates back. I'm fasting and
And then went to the masala area and he prayed there and that masala sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and out loud he made your art for Amsterdam and the inhabitants of the household. Look at the clock, the character of the prophets lie Selim and nothing was more pleasing to the heart than that, right like he comes. And he prays Salallahu Salam in the corner, and he makes up for answering and for her children, and so they a lot, and it makes it a point to say, this was not one of the fraud. This was a separate prayer. This wasn't one of the obligatory prayers, a separate prayer of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would make for them. So they are the Allahu taala. And him. And I saw
the light and who says, and you know, and also then was known for keeping orphans around her. So he said, and I remember, when the prophets lie, some came to the house of my mother and I, along with an orphan, stood behind him and also named stood behind us, and he led us in Salah sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And he said that all we had in that home was this one max that we used to use for everything, it was our it was our mattress at night, it was our carpet during the day, it was our table spread when we needed to eat. So we had this one mat and basically, Armstrong would wash this mat all the time with water, and we just use it for everything. Subhanallah look at the simplicity
of these people. This was a woman that was married to the richest man of Medina, in January and then the richest man of Medina in Islam. And this is what what she used to do just this one mat that she would wipe off, wash off, and we pray on it Subhan Allah and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would lead us in Salah on that mat. This one spread that we would use this think of the vivid, you know, imagination, even Subhanallah that we could put ourselves in that home this one has stated that the prophets lie Selim would lead us on every single time. And then there was one incident and some of you might remember this incident from the meeting Muhammad sallallaahu Salam series, where
there was an orphan girl that I'm Sudan used to take care of. And also la si salaam saw her. And it was after some time she'd grown up a bit and the prophets I said, auntie, here are you Are you her? Laqad cabability lac hubiera sin, Nokia, you've gotten so much bigger, May you not get older.
It's an expression.
The prophets lie some did not make dua against her. It's an expression. And so this young I mean, it's like you're like I can't believe you've gotten so big you know, you need to stop growing on me right? I wish you'd stop growing when you say I wish you stopped growing you're not wishing death on someone. But coming from the mouth of the messengers like some it's scared this poor young girl. So she she went to Amsterdam, weeping
and also name is comforting her like what's wrong? And she's saying, rasool Allah what of us Allah did you like the prophets? Like some made you cry? And she said, he cursed me. And she's like, What are you talking about? He put a curse on me. She said, I'm not gonna grow up anymore. I'm not gonna grow any further than this. She said, why? And she said, because the prophets lie. Some said, you know, may You not get older use that expression. So um, so then she quickly threw on her femur, she went running to the prophet slicin
And was the last I Salam sees her coming, and even the nature of how she's coming? He says, Malkia answering, what's your problem? What's going on here? Like what happened? This is this is very serious. And she says, Yes, Allah you may do against the orphan girl and the prophets. I said, What are you talking about? And she said, you said to her, may You not grow older and the prophets lie, some started to laugh and he said, Yeah, I'm so named. Don't you know, for a human I had in there out to other human on my TV, there are 10 Lisa B. Allen, and to the Allahu Allah Who to whom Ron was a cartoon, well, Corbett and
you Karima who behind me who Yeoman Clea, don't you know, I'm saying that between me and my Lord is that if I say something like that, with a Muslim, you know, in a moment, and it's not meant in a way that's a curse, then it will actually be a means of purification and purity and nearness to Allah subhanaw taala. And on the Day of Judgment, it will actually be a blessing for them. So, you know, tell her not to worry, I didn't curse her in sha Allah, tada, it'll actually be good for her at the end of the day. So this was the nature of that relationship. Salallahu it he was some of them with her in her home and with the orphans that were around her. There's also another narration in our
body about a miracle that happened in that home.
And honestly, a longtime man who says that I will tell her came to saline one day, and said to her that I could hear the hunger and the voice of the prophets lie some kind of look how these people were paying attention to the messenger SallAllahu sallam. I heard a jeweler I could hear the hunger and his voice. He sounded tired.
He sounded fatigued, and I'm worried about him.
So he will be allowed to and what does she do? She Anessa Leila and who was the kid standing there, right. And as I said, that my mother took me on. So they took me she took all the loaves of bread that she had, she wrapped it up in one of her jobs. And she put it under my armpit and said, Go to the prophets lie Selim and give him what's under your arm. So honestly, Allah and I went to the masjid, holding the bread under his arm. And when when he said when I came to the Prophet sighs I'm also lost. I said, I'm sad that Bhutan has sent you and I said, Yes. And the prophets lie some said with food. And I said, Yes, now anuses trying to keep it like private like, Hey, I got some bread
for you here. Because there are a bunch of hungry people in the masjid too. Right? Like, I've got some bread for you like Allah sola like, let's go, you know, pass this off on the side. The prophets I send them stands up and he says to all of the unsalted let's go eat
and starts marching towards the house of Sulaiman Avila so NSO the law understand I went running ahead of him to tell my parents before they think I messed up like I didn't give the message right like you were supposed to tell him eat that bread not and bring everybody eat bread at the house. But like before, he said, I ran home and I told I will put a hand on saline what happened? And I said it was so lost my son was coming with all of our to suffer. All the people from the masjid they're all following the prophets lie some to the house. Also name while the Allahu Taala and somehow completely unfazed, she said also la say some knows what he's doing.
So he knows best prophesy some comes in. He says to him, Celine, what do you have? What's all the food that you have? So she took the bread from anisul The Allahu Anhu. She said the artisan Allah That's it. That's all I've got.
And then she says that the prophets lie Selim took the bread, he put it into pieces. He asked her if she had any like oil or butter. She had some butter the prophets ice and put the butter on it in a bowl and the prophets lie Selim made your ad over it for some time.
And then also Allah say sallam, he said to Ana's go tell 10 people to enter.
So you had this group of people outside of the House of M surname, and batch by batch the prophets lie some enters 10 men,
and also la si Salam feeds all 10 of them with his hands. And the prophets lie some said of Ashleigh, bring another 10 So those 10 Leave another time come in, and I will call Hanuman Salim and answer just watching the prophets lie Selim serve this bread from his hand it his salatu salam. And he kept on doing that until AD men had come into the house of Amsterdam, and outside of her house, all eating from the brunt of his hands on the lights. And this is of course, narration also on della Nuova, from proofs of his prophethood witnessed by many people, the miracle of the prophets lie some to take small quantities and make them into large quantities. And on top of that, and so the Allahu
Anhu said that we had food from that one bowl that was left over for two months. So all of those men came in 80 of them, and they ate to their fill, and Subhanallah from that bowl, the family of unseen the baraka that came from that we all ate from it for two whole months before it ran out some Allahu alayhi wa salam. Another story of course, in terms of the baraka of this family, the famous narration that you hear in every fundraiser Dr. Altaf Zack Allah had you always remind us of this narration maybe you could do it right now you know we do a fundraiser, inshallah to Allah, the narration of Ebeltoft Harold the Allah hotel and home. And so the Allah animals had no one owns more
palm trees in Medina than nobleton. Like he owned more property and he owned the best property, the best wells, the best trees, and his favorite property was called beta hat, which was right in front of the message of the Prophet sly seven. And it had sweet water like even the wells were Sweetwater and also lost. My son used to sit in the shade and he used to drink from it. And people used to love that garden the dates were the best from that garden the water was the best from that garden. And when the narration when the idea came down, learn to knurl der Hatter tune fuchal Number two hipbone you will not achieve righteousness until you spend from what you love.
This is an earlier Imran Subhanallah look at the purity of this man, this is a righteous household. And you understand it in the context of this right it's not just an isolated narration like what this household is like. I will tell you how it comes to the prophesy summaries of Yama, Salah. They do have all of it feasable Allah take it all. visa vie de la
Tamela immediate like the prophets I didn't ask him for that he could have went and got another garden. He said the best garden and he said I thought when I heard that I when I heard you recite it from the very first time and it shows you the pulse that you might look at the difference between the first husband and the second husband, not giving another and I will tell her the first
time I heard this verse I thought, What's the most memorable and what's the most beloved property I have? And this is the other sort of Lot take it and prophesy son was pleased and he said, you know, leave some of it for your family, you know Subhanallah but but the righteousness was established and the story becomes something that you know, on a serious note, right it's one of those things that gets lost sometimes in a fundraiser because you forget that this is part of your test kit like this is a story of test kit like purification. ejabberd today responding to the caller right right away, having no hesitation, no Turandot, immediately saying you have a sort of this is it. This is Lila,
this is for Allah subhanaw taala. And until now, by the way, you know when you go into the masjid
because the masjid has expanded to include where that garden used to be. They actually have it marked on the tiles three spots that that mark the wells where the wells used to be. I will tell her about the hola Jota Anna and also last like Salam used to go to their homes and he would take naps in their home. So this is also part of establishing the family relationship between the Prophet SAW Selim and them. And NSO the Allahu Taala and he said that on a hot day the prophets lie some would sweat and unscramble the Allahu Taala and he took the sweat of the Prophet SAW Salem. And she contained it and she mixed it with what was known what was perfumed to them, and it would become the
most beautiful animals fragrant of perfume and Rasul Allah say salaam he noticed what she was doing. And also, let's say some said metals nine What are you doing? She said, after the hottie Hill Baraka, allottee techlogix woman, I'm taking the blessings that are coming from you. So that's the level of love. And like when we talk about them, amen, all the Allahu anha and that care and that love of the prophets lie Selim very similar, right? That she wanted. When the prophets lie some would shave his head and hide your Amara. She wanted to keep the hair of the prophets lie some for herself.
And also Allah say salam honored that also less my son would give her half of the hair that was shaved from his head Salah lorrison
for her to keep because this was the love that she had for the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and in battle had been serene Rahim Allah narrates he says that um, so then there's, there's a narration about her in every single battle with the prophets like Selim, she was watching the back of the Prophet slice, and then she was carrying the water vessels. She was treating the wounded, she was doing everything that she possibly could to still participate or the Allahu Tada and in that battle, and one of the most beautiful narrations in this regard, because it's it's a whole family that that the prophets like some is honoring here of will Tada. Well, the Allahu Anhu comes to the
Prophet sly someone day says Jana so Allah, Allah Allah, he could come in only suiting you I'm gonna make you laugh Yatta sort of love by telling you something about him. So then like, let me tell you about her antics again, because she had this strong personality, right? So like their jokes that are being told about how assertive she is. So he says, hola, hola, hey, Phuket, yada yada. You want to laugh about something that I saw? I'm sorry, I'm doing so the province like said what happened? So I will tell her says that when Honda was happening because
she said I saw um, saline hiding a knife in her bio.
And I said to her, what are you doing? What are you going to do with that? So she said, leave me alone. Because if anyone tries to attack from behind, I'm going to stab them right in the stomach.
And she was dead serious. Like I'm going to attack I'm going to fight you know, with this, this knife of mine and protect the prophets like Selim from behind. And she told the prophets lie some yellow Salah you take care of the mosquito and I'll take care of them. When has anyone you take care of the ones from the front? I'll take care of the ones from the back. You take care of your enemies. If anyone from your army tries to flee, I'm gonna hold the knife I'm gonna say go back in there and fight. What are you doing abandoning the battle the battlefield like she wanted to be there always for the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam always consoling him always showing her dedication and
her sacrifice and of course, what is the profit slice I'm doing he's raising Anasazi Allahu Taala and
with such a son with such excellence that every parents can be made to feel guilty with the story of Anasazi Allahu Anhu right the way the Prophet slicin would treat him and raise him and it doesn't stop with that. Every single person in the household is special to the prophets lie some, um, Celine will tell us and they have an they have a son.
And this is actually really important. Again, some of the stories you hear isolated at times. This was the only son that um Sulaiman avocado had together at this point about Romaine Romaine. Okay, or about Romaine.
Romaine is the only Son that they have together and they're excited. They're happy. And this is the half brother of NSL, the Allahu Anhu and he was famous for having the little bird
Word that he used to play with when the prophets lie, some would come into the house. And he would say, Yeah, but later on, I found a new layer. Tell me what's going on with the bird. Yeah, about Romeo and Juliet, what did the little bird do? And he'd sit there next to the prophets lie Selim. And he told the prophets eyes on everything about the bird.
Well, so last lie, son him who has to care for this, Amma sits with this little kid and asked him all types of questions about this little bird. And then even comes to console him when the little bird passes away.
Subhanallah I mean, and this is the beauty of this is that you learn the clock of the prophets lie Selim through all of this as well. You're not just learning about these blessing people, you're learning about the most blessed person, like you've got time for that comforting this little boy over the loss of his his bird.
But more than that, was the tragedy of the death of a mermaid himself.
So there's a timeline here.
Now, um, so Elaine,
has an us. And she, as we started Bara, even Malik possibly as well, her son, who's grown at that point is a Sahabi in his own right, that does things for the sake of Allah's parents, and we'll briefly touch on him as well. This is the one child that they've had together in Islam. Okay.
I will tell her and also Elaine.
And I will call her had a deep attachment to automation, right? This is one child deep, deep attachment, and his death was sudden. So he caught a fever. And he passed away rapidly, the fever quickly increased. And of course, at that time, you don't really diagnose these illnesses with anything sophisticated. He died from a fever, Allah knows what he was actually struck with, but quick fever that rose and he passed away.
And as devastated as almost the name was, and I'm going to, I'm going to share the story with with a disclaimer from the very beginning here. This is not what I'm going to share with you of the story is not an expectation, it's not normal. But I want you to think about the spirit of the unsought the selflessness, which is the characteristic of the unsought the extreme selflessness that Allah praises in the Quran, and how that's going to play out in the story. Also, Dame is devastated in her own right, this is her child, but she's worried about how hurt a lot has going to be.
So she Subhanallah you know, and sister Lumina, you can you can share all this stuff about how you're not supposed to do this in grief about delaying your own and, and it's true, right like this is this is a story where we take the value and the blessing and the lesson but Subhanallah her whole focus becomes how she's going to break the news, double telehealth when he comes home, when he finds out about the death of his son. So she says to Anasazi Allahu Tana And not to be true, don't tell him until I tell.
Let me break the news to him.
And so she's grieving her son. She doesn't tell him. I mean, obviously, there is no way to tell him when he's not home. And he's out somewhere on the outskirts of Medina.
And she cooks a feast.
She dresses nicely, she tries to prepare herself, to tell him in a way that will comfort him and console him and allow him to be pleased with the color of Allah subhanaw taala to be pleased with the decree of Allah subhanaw taala. So the same evening that she goes through this, Radi Allahu taala. And when she cooks the food, she dresses well, he would have no idea what has happened.
And she leaves are maydel The Allahu Taala
in his in his city and in his bed, and she's thinking about how she's going to break the news. I will tell her comes home.
She doesn't tell him.
She waits. These are natural human struggles, right? How am I going to tell them maybe she had it in her mind that she's going to tell them right away. But she's struggling to break the news to him.
The night passes. And they are together as husband and wife.
Okay, the morning comes. She still hasn't told them.
And she's struggling to tell him. I will tell her thanks. Natural day, I came home my son was asleep. You know, we ate and we slept. Woke up.
And I'm so lame says to him. Yeah, but
if someone loans you a gift, gives you a trust or the trust
and comes back and says I want to take that trust back. Now. If someone tells you like, here's a trust, you can benefit from it for some time. But then when I'm done when you finish with that trust or when I need to take it back, I'll come back and get it from
how should you return it?
So I will tell her said he should return it with gratitude, which took us right like that for whatever time you allow me to make use of it to benefit from this trust from this gift that you gave
Al Hamdulillah should benefit. So I'm Sudan Radi Allahu taala. Anna, she says to him
in a very quivering voice in the Lucha started,
Allah returned the trust of your son took back your son, and hasn't has taken him back in his care.
I will tell her confused, angry. grief. Why didn't she tell me last night?
Why did you wait so long? The Hurt of losing his only child. There's a lot to process here in terms of emotion.
And this is a very unusual situation.
And he doesn't know I mean, at the end of the day, this is a mother that just lost her child too. And everyone is, you know, And subhanAllah you have to have mercy on people in these moments. They don't you know, people react in different ways. So everyone is doing with this, or dealing with this in a way that Allah subhanaw taala has guided them to deal with this. So he goes to the Prophet sallallaahu Salam, and this shows you the comfort that the prophets like some offers to people in these moments, goes to the sulla sigh salaam to help overcome like what's like I'm mad at her for not telling me right away. I'm devastated at the loss of my child. I mean, just what what do I make
of this yellow Sula. So it goes to the profit slice I'm upset.
And the prophets like some smiles at him.
And also Allah say some says Baldric Hola, hola, como de la la Tacoma.
As if he knows something Sal, Allahu Allah. May Allah bless you. In the evening you spent together
that's it? I do.
What happened? On that very same night, she became pregnant.
Pamela. So when the prophets lie, some said Bartik Hola, hola, como de la de como. The very same night she became pregnant.
And with all the grief and sadness over the loss of a roommate,
you now have another son that is born to them.
And when the son is born, they named him with the best name in Islam, Abdullah Abdul Rahman. They named him Abdullah
and also named sons. And so they learn how to the prophets like Selim, says, tell him what to tell him the babies here tell him the babies here. But also la Sai son comes to the house excited like an uncle write with love. And of course, this was divine inspiration, who's going to tell the prophets lie some that that night that very same last night that she was she was pregnant, that Allah azza wa jal had blessed her with this child on the same night before they buried their child, Allah Subhana Allah blessed them with another child, and all of this confusion that was happening in those moments.
And the prophets lie some comes to the house full of joy embraces Obatala picks up the baby, and also then hands him a tumble, a date.
And the prophets lie some does what is known as technique. He rubs the date on his on what we do with our children with the roof on the roof of his mouth, slice a limb and he starts to rub the date in the mouth of Abdullah, of course, that sugar stimulates that natural sugar stimulates the system. And Abdullah can't get enough of it. So he's like trying to get more of the date more of the date more of the date more of the date and the prophets lie some laughs and he embraces and he says on little hobble on side of the tunnel. Look at the inside of the love dates. The people of Medina love Tamar and the prophets lie some holds this child and makes the art for this child the one son
that I will tell her and also Elaine would have together after the one son that they lost Abdullah bin Abi Talia
and it doesn't stop there. And I saw the Allahu Taala and who says well Allah He looked at Leila, he can Hola. He said from that one son. I swear by Allah I saw from that one son, sub adenine. Abdullah had seven sons quinolone cotterman Quran all seven of them are fourth.
BarakAllahu la coma fee Laila to coma.
May Allah bless you in your evening Subhanallah from that one son not only did Allah bless him with that one son, last parents I gave him seven grandsons that were all her father of the Quran. And by the way, being a half of that that time was not as common as it is amongst us believe it or not seven her father born to that son of theirs, the draft of the Prophet slice on them the way that Allah subhanaw taala gave Bushra to Ibrahim Ali has sat down with his half women what it is have called than all of the sons, the grandchildren, grandsons and granddaughters that he would live to see it his setup. This is the blessing of this woman I'm sitting on the Allahu TADHANA and this man,
I will tell how the Allahu Taala animal and the story of what could have the story of trust in Allah Subhana Allah to Allah that Allah azza wa jal does not ignore the plight of the believers, Allah Subhana Allah knows the pain of the believers and Allah subhanaw taala
rewards that perseverance and that patience. This is an extraordinary story. And of course, the story is an open book until now, because the descendants of unsavable the Allahu Taala
are literally too hard to trace. You know, some of the companions of the Prophet sai Saddam like they have one line of lineage from Anasazi Allahu Anhu. I mean, I don't want to start giving people ideas to go claim the lineage of NSL the law and but let's just say it's all over the world. Right? I mean, some of the greatest scholars of our tradition, some of the greatest heroes of our tradition, people all over the Muslim world could trace their lineage back to Anasazi Allahu Taala and which traces back to Amsterdam or the Allah hotel Anna and we will talk about Anasazi Allahu Anhu next week in some detail, but I want to end with this woman with a very special narration from
the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam because it doesn't get better than this right the prize the patience the love the closeness clearly the prophets lie some honoring this family. The prophets lie some southern authentic hadith
he said the Halsell Jana I entered into paradise.
And he said for either Anna the Romae saw right away who pops up in my face on Celine while the Alana right away I enter into Jana. For either another room I saw right away. Also name or the Allahu Taala Anna is in front of me. And then was Samaritan hush alpha and I heard footsteps call to manha Dr. Gibreel who is that called her beloved? That's beloved the Allahu Taala annual and then the Prophet size some saw the palace and he said it was so beautiful he thought it was his own palace Who is this password that's for honorable hotdog, well the Allah hotel and so in a narration like this an authentic hadith, Bilal Rama, Rama Issa
also name the first person not the first man, the first person. He saw some Allah Hardy was salam in this vision as he entered into Paradise and the dreams of the prophets and the encounters of the prophets are our truth are the Allahu, to Allah Allah. May Allah be pleased with her be pleased with their husband, I will tell her, be pleased with their children be pleased with all of those who dedicated themselves and sacrifice themselves to this or for this religion, and gave that companionship and that love to the prophets. I saw them when others gave him cruelty. May Allah subhanho wa Taala allow us to follow in their example Lama Amin Sharla to Anna the way this is going
to work the next next week we're going to talk about anisul The Allahu Taala animal. The week after that we'll talk about her sister on haram Intiman Han and we'll talk about her about the terminal Summit. And then we will talk about about a human Ansari. So the next four that we will cover in sha Allah to Allah will take us to Episode 80 And then in sha Allah to Allah we will end For it we'll take a break for the hedger with our human on Saudi law the law of town animal basically the next three weeks are with this family so you're going to hear more about Amsterdam after insha Allah Tada over the next few weeks may Allah be pleased with them all Lama Amin, sha Allah Tada I will take a
nine months later, yeah.
As intimacy and then and then the consumption nine months later, but like the prophets lie Selim smile that I will call honeys like, why are you smiling at me and said Bartok? Hola. Hola, como Fe late Atacama? You know Allah has put something blessed you with something? The same thing somehow that sometimes causes you anger and frustration Eliza puts blessing in it.
The sisters have any questions
now you all know why I tell people to name their daughters will Mesa alright so I'm Shall I hope some of you may Allah bless you with some righteous daughters will name your daughter's Elisa, I've been lucky Tyler
Can you raise your voice
any information about the story, any information about when also named became when and the circumstances of her becoming a muslim desert. Now just it starts with the story. So it's really on top of Kata have been sad and some of the books that narrate history that she was the first Muslim woman in Medina. But it starts with the story of her and her husband. I will call her and unnecessarily low animal of course, very common narrator in the body and Muslim which is why you find narrations about her story. In Bukhari and Muslim it's often not the narration. It's what precedes the narration. You'll find it in the text and so the law and I'm giving that historical
background as well. So you find some of it in the Bahati Muslim as well. But she wouldn't she would have been in the gathering have been on the job. The first gatherings have mostly been remade, and immediately Islam landed in her heart. Zach, good luck.
have any sisters? I want to give the sisters a chance Yeah.
We will talk about them. So
when it comes to
haram had been been hand
so lame, I believe it was built on my own. So I'll talk about it next week and shall it I have to go back and check which battle list but it will come up in the context of the Stern show. There's another question. Yeah.
Could you raise your voice a bit?
Can I click the real it'd be better and I'm not sure if I missed this. But could you clarify her relationship as a maternal aunt? Was that figurative or was it so it was either through the law through breastfeeding or through actually being a great maternal onto the perfect size? Because they're from the maternal side of the Multilib. So she would either be like a second aunt
and of course, the way marriage agencies to work at the time it's natural to have an aunt that's younger than you or things of that sort. I mean, so she she wasn't that much older than the prophesy some but some say she was a second on to the prophets like some and some say it was through through the the fostering the nursing of her.
Definitely in COVID, don't take no anybody else.
There's some there's some things that really matter in that regard. So it's preferable, Allah knows best the father that the parent would their child. So neat. Yeah. Yeah.
That's what Please don't bring me a date.
Because I can allow him.
But it's a good question. Oh, there is there is some some discussion about it, though. So some of the scholars did allow for sure. Of a righteous person by extension.
How old was remade when he passed away? He would have been under the age of eight, just by if you look at the nature of the ages, so and so the law under was 10.
Pretty this happens after the Battle of Azov. So he would have been seven or eight years old maximum.
No, and so the law did not meet the profit slice up until after alpha. And then Medina.
Any other questions? Sorry, I know that was heavy.
It's one of my favorite stories for a reason. Those are so many lessons that I hope we can take for ourselves and then Aitana. Any other questions? Before we stop for a shot?
You have a question? One, we'll take the last question over here.
You talked about the simplicity of the life they had. And at the same times, the husband was one of the richest men in Medina. Was it just a simple living? Or was it a hardship through their life, that they had great questions and something that actually I thought of as well, right, we read about the one rug that they would use in the house? Is it that they chose us in a simple life? That seems to be the case. There are no stories about their poverty, other than the fact that this was the one rug sort of that they had that they would use for everything, but there was no story of them going hungry, for example, or things of that sort. Granted the story of London aldora hetta, twin fuchal
Nima to hipbone seems that the wealth that they had, would have been spent throughout throughout Islam, and realize the profits are made you're out for us, while the lower animals wealth, and honestly a lot of time and
his his estate would grow and he wouldn't know where it was coming from Subhan Allah I mean, there was just so much blessing that came in that wealth of that family and this sort of goes to so many of these concepts of you spend and it comes back to you and Phil Quinn for cardiac so the blessing that covered that entire family afterwards is established as well. There'll be no never garden. Does that come along? Hayden's panagsama Hamburg Edward Island stuff required to Blake inshallah Tada we will talk about an acyl the Allah on next week was one of them was kind of you know, Muhammad wiener it was it it's mine, so I'm gonna call him Sonic Council.