Omar Suleiman – Meeting Muhammad PBUH #14 – When He Was Angry

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If you're a person that's always angry, then it's likely that you're going to just be dismissed as hot tempered. And issues that actually require seriousness and anger aren't going to be taken seriously from you anymore because people are just used to you being angry all the time. But when you're cheerful in nature, then your anger is significant because people know that you're not angry over petty things. And that's why they have the saying in the Arabic language, the tequila called Love and Helene fear the anger of the one who's typically forbearing because that's when you know that you've crossed the serious line, because that's not a person that typically gets mad.

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One of the signs of the hypocrite that the Prophet slicin mentioned is what the hos on that when they get into an argument they become belligerent they always transgress in the midst of an argument. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said that the worst of people are those who people don't even advise anymore, because they don't want to deal with their fish. They don't want to deal with their nastiness, right? When someone is so hot tempered, and it's expected that anything is going to set them off, then eventually, people see them go into a fit of rage. And it's like, you know what, I'm just gonna let that person finish. And we're not gonna even try correcting them anymore. No one

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gives that person they'll see anymore No one gives that person advice. No one tried to challenge them anymore. No one tried to rectify them. And so in the process, they make everything around them unpleasant. And they hurt themselves because they become less self aware because no one's even making them aware anymore of the way that they're behaving. And that's why I do the alongside I know he has a powerful saying he says about what he says about anger. He says, I wonder who junoon was a hero who naadam that the beginning of it is craziness. And the end of it is regret people that go into these fits of anger. May Allah help all of those that are sincerely trying to overcome a hot

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temper, but people go into fits of anger. They start off crazy and they end off regretful so he looked at the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he was never fat or she was never fowl. sallallahu wasallam and he was never angry over worldly things. He was never one that would denigrate other people. He was never one that would become nasty. So the lahardee who was selling them in the midst of his anger, instead, we see that the Prophet slice alum, his anger was composed and it was for the right reasons. Because if you're angry for Allah, you can't have the manners of shavon for a righteous cause. Right? If you're angry for Allah, then your anger has to abide by the principles that are

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pleasing to Allah subhanaw taala as well. And this is the way of the prophets right you look at Musashi his Salaam when he found his people worshipping the calf, you look at the side he said, I'm Jesus peace be upon him with the money changers in the temple. And the prophets of Allah how it was to them used to say very beautifully Allah India said okay, kennametal Huck, Finn, Luba, well, Allah, O Allah, I asked you for the ability to speak a word of truth, in times of pleasure and in times of anger. Why? Because sometimes when you get into anger, you're no longer driving your own personality. But instead you're letting someone else take over you. And the profit slice of them is

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saying get back to the truth get back to the hacker because that's what it's supposed to be about in the first place. And that's how the Prophet slicin them grounded himself. So what did it look like when the prophets lie some got anger, woman Tacoma enough? See, I saw the Allahu tada Anna says, and there are other Sahaba as well that narrate this, he never got angry for himself. sobre la vida he was solemn. Illa and tanto. haka. hometel. La has origin except that the prohibitions of Allah subhanho wa Taala, were violated were undertaken. So once you cross the boundaries of Allah subhanho wa Taala yen tepee, Modi Dasa De La Hoya, and he was set on the profit slice of them would get angry

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for Allah. And that can be very hard to see from the Prophet slice lm because again, it wasn't his norm was some of Museo de la tada and who who was so beloved to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he says that when I killed a man in battle, and that man said La ilaha illAllah right before I killed him, and I thought to myself that he probably just said, La ilaha illa Allah, just to escape death. When I told the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam about that he was so upset with me saying to me that you check his heart, Osama, he said, he was so upset with me that I had wished I hadn't become Muslim before that day, meaning I wish that I could just take Shahada that day and do

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away with everything. Before that. You have the story of the young man that came to the house of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam to ask about his habits, and when they found that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sleeps at night sometimes that the prophets lie Selim is intimate with his spouses that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam eats food. He doesn't fast all day. These three young men, they walked away and they said, Well, he's the prophet of God, we have to do more than him. So they took these oats on themselves that I'm going to fast and not break my fast that I'm going to stay awake the entire night and pray that I'm going to not get married because intimacy is somehow a mark. It's

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It's my son heard about this the Prophet slicin was upset. He said, Who are these people? And he said to them in anger sallallahu wasallam that look, I am the Prophet of Allah. No one is going to exceed me and religiosity but I observe prayer and then I sleep, I observe fasting and then I break my fast and I'm intimate with my spouses and whoever turns away from my son is not from me. So that's when the Prophet sly son would become upset when people would exceed the boundaries of Allah subhanho wa Taala and risk corrupting or polluting the religion in the first place. Now, the prophet sly, some also would not tolerate people belittling others because that's also the sanctity of Allah

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subhanaw taala because Allah has sanctified, the dignity and the honor of your brothers and sisters. And so when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sees the companions, and they make fun of the legs of Abdullah and Masaru, there'll be a low tide on him because of how skinny they were. prophets licen becomes extremely upset in defending Yvan Masuda all the time, and saying you're laughing at those two legs. And I've seen each one of them the size of hood on the Day of Judgment, those are legs of power, those are legs of honor in the sight of Allah subhana wa Tada, or the famous story of without all the longtime who's saying goodness, so that saying You son of a black woman and the

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prophets of Allah hasten I'm saying to him without all the alonside and who did you insult him using his mom? Did you insult him using his mom, and you are a person that still has some of the days of ignorance inside of you some of janelia inside of you. So that's also the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam seeing that the sacred boundaries of Allah subhanho wa Taala have been crossed. But somehow Allah, it's really interesting that he showed the Allahu tida and she narrates the time that the prophets lie Selim got really, really, really upset. She says that it was in regards to Khadija will, the alongside on and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam used to always mention for the IJA as if

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there was no one else in the world but Khadija and she had already passed away and I never even met her but he loved her so much that anytime for these other the alongside Anna was brought up anytime he saw some of her friends he sent gifts to them anytime. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam heard the voice of Hannah, her sister the prophets license that Allah Allah, Allah Allah Allah let it be harder, Allah let it be harder. So she says that one day, I said to the Prophet slicin them as he was mentioning Khadija will the low tide and I said to the Prophet sallallahu it was in them. Why are you caught up on an old toothless woman from Qureshi? abdelhak Allahu ala minha that Allah

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Subhana which Allah has given you better than her, and she knew that she crossed the line. She said that the prophets lie some stood up, his face became red it his Salatu was salam, that vein that would come out from his forehead sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came out when he was angry, and it looked like his hair stood up so Allah Hardy was selling because of how upset he was at what she had said about Khadija and the prophets of Allah how it was set up says I swear that Allah has not given me better than her. And he started to say sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and to be if Kufa be a nurse, she believed in me. When others disbelieved in me, she considered me truthful and others called me a

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liar she spent on me when others deprived me and Allah gave me children through her and Allah subhanaw taala has not given me children through anyone else will la Hema but that any allow vitamin Allah has not given me better than her. And he shall have the Allah Anna said he also Allah forgive me, I will never talk about Khadija again. And the Prophet slicin forgave her. And Subhanallah you note here that this was the angriest that she had seen the Prophet sallallahu wasallam and he could have denigrated her he could have put her down instead, what did the Prophet slice on? Do? He extolled Khadija or the Allahu Tatiana? Instead of mentioning the inferiority of Isha, he focused on

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the superiority of Khadija because this was not about the Prophet slice them and this was not about putting someone down, but instead This was upholding that which Allah subhana wa tada had honored and that's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would get upset. So

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