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Be a Ramadan Superstar – Work Out Family Problems

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Musleh Khan

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Marley Kumara to Lahore Baraka, two brothers and sisters, this is your brother Muslim Kahn and we are at Part Six for a trauma bond superstar. Today I want to actually talk to you about family, reconnecting with your brothers and your sisters, siblings, your parents, your spouses, your children, everybody. How do you do that? And especially in the month of Ramadan. Now I'll tell you why I chose this particular point to discuss in the quarter and in sootel Bukhara, Allah azza wa jal in verse number 187 says, whoa, Nelly besu, LACMA and terminal vessel lavon. She is a garment for you and you are a garment for her. Now this verse you guys all have heard it many, many times is a

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verse a lot of scholars they've talked about. What's interesting is the context of this verse. If you notice that this verse, the only time Allah azza wa jal mentioned something so close and so intimate between a husband and wife is only in salted Baccarat, nowhere else in the horrendous Allah azza wa jal use a phrase like this, that you are garments for one another. Naturally, what that least is that if you understand this verse, you understand how to implement it, you automatically are starting to build your family relationship, it starts with your spouse, then it filtrates to your children, to your parents, and so on. What's interesting is that in sootel, Baqarah, there is

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also a series of verses that are talking about Ramadan, scholars they say if you want to know everything there is to know about Ramadan, go to sootel, Baccarat, and you guys have all heard the verses before Yeah, you will Athena M and O you who believe quotevalet como cm, cm has prescribed upon you, and so on and so on until the verse ends. those verses tell you everything you need to know about Ramadan, from the hokum, the ruling to the, to the purpose, and so on. Now, put these two points together, you have a particular verse that's talking about the closeness of a husband and wife. And it's only mentioned in sort of Baccarat in that manner. Then you also have all the things

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that you need to know about the month of Ramadan, also mentioned and sorted abakada. What this tells you is that if you put it together, there's a context benefit when it comes to these verses. It is in the month of Ramadan, where you stand the best chances to working out your family problems and your family politics. It's in this particular month, where you can really, really sit down with your spouse and try to work things out. Sit down with your sibling, sit down with your parents and your family. Whatever family politics you guys have with each other. This is the time for you guys to try to work those things out. So if you're listening to this and you have family members that you

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haven't spoke to, or you don't have a relationship with them, Allah azza wa jal is clearly telling you and I, this is the month that you want to take advantage of the it's the time when everybody is on a spiritual high, take advantage of it. It's a time when everybody's going to the message and you're seeing one another you don't want to create a an uncomfortable situation. You're seeing a family member that you haven't talked to for 20 years. And then before you know it, you're just walking by in the message and it's so uncomfortable. This is the time to fix all those things. This is a time to make your relationship with your spouse better, more pleasing not only to each other

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but to Allah subhanho wa Tada. So really and truly if you want to be part of that whole Ramadan superstar image that whole Ramadan superstar life, try to work on the family in sha Allah as best as you can and sort out those issues in sha Allah in this month. May Allah azza wa jal make it easy for all of you was set up more alikum warahmatu Allahi wa barakato