Gardens Of The Pious #656 Prohibition Of Gazing At Women

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The speakers discuss the use of "by the way" in the Bible and how it can be used to describe actions and behavior. They also touch on the struggles of the Bible and how it has changed people's lives, including the importance of "ological chastuit" and "monster". The segment also touches on the negative consequences of sexual activities and the importance of avoiding double-stuffing. The conversation ends with a discussion of the use of the " outer eye" in online advertising and the importance of finding a job to earn a living wage. The speakers also mention a depressing and confused situation where people have accepted Islam and faced financial difficulties, and the importance of forgiveness for schools.

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Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the pious Today's episode is number 656 in the Blissett series of the other Salahi by Imam Yahya inshallah and know where we may Allah have mercy on him.

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Today's episode is the first episode in chapter number 290, Babu to Hareem and novelry and more Atul edge in Abuja, the variety has gotten shorter a year. While UModel has any lady has attained Sharia, the prohibition of gazing at a woman who is not lawful for you,

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except in necessity

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is number 30 of surah. A North

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chapter number 24

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is a straightforward command from the Almighty Allah to the believers, to the believing men to block the means which may lead to an illicit relationship to the evil act of fornication. The Almighty Allah says only meaning I will do in other sorry him who I follow for Zelicah as gala whom, in Allah Fabio, Bina is now

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and that means all Muhammad, peace be upon him, tell the believing men to reduce some of their gaze some of their vision and to God the private parts that is pure for them. Indeed Allah is acquainted with what they do poorly not Millena your hope to meet our sorry him. So here the word men is a proposition which means some off

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so Allah did not command lower in the gaze period. He did not ask men to keep looking down all the time.

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No, he didn't say just walk while looking down all the time. Only when you see a beauty of a woman who was not lawful for you. I think last episode, we explained in depth, the meaning of a woman who's as Nebia and who are the Mhairi and who are not the Muharram, and the permanent Muharram, and so on.

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And it was very obvious that a lot of people a lot of viewers did not really comprehend that before. And we're here to share with you the facts about our beautiful religion.

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So we spoke about the Muharram. And what they find and muharram is the person whom you are never allowed to marry

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like a sibling,

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an uncle paternal and maternal parents, grandparents, grandchildren,

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and paternal and maternal.

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And also the two are Raba. If you happen to be breastfed by a woman, five fulfilling times, then this woman has become like your mother. And all her kids are your siblings due to a Riva or metacommunity of Donna cool how to win a robot.

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So if you walk in in the street, if you have a professor, a teacher, or a female doctor, and she's pretty, and she's not wearing hijab, as a patient, as a nurse, as a secretary, as a driver, as a very salient man walking in the street, you see the beauty of a woman who's not lawful for you to look at, lower your gaze.

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And that's why Allah said you do mean some of not all the time.

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Because you can look at your Muharram as much as you want.

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And that is called blocking the means which may lead to evil.

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So by lowering your gaze, you block the needs of insight in the shower, the desire and further the lust in your heart. When the person

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looks at what Allah has forbidden, he or she

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they start contemplating the idea thinking about it, even thinking about adoption, even though they haven't done it. The pure dark chest, but this chastity is becoming vulnerable and this immunity becoming weaker and weaker due to allow news

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serve to satisfy your eyesight, with what Allah has forbidden until you get used to it. And then one thing leads to another, and eventually at the earliest opportunity because you've been watching this

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and you've been enjoying watching this, and you become an addict of watching what Allah has forbidden at the earliest test, you will fail

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because you are weak.

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You don't have the immunity. So the chastity will disappear.

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And that's what Allah says, Yeah, hold on, I was sorry. Why I follow follow John, look at the beautiful order. So in order to guard your chastity, the word feroce is plural of Forge. And the word forgery refers to the private part whether male or female, will say the Quran is the most eloquent word it is the word of Allah the most polite. So he refers to the positive parts in the term forage.

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And we also know Allah and His Salam said in one Hadith, whoever guarantees to secure two things, I sensuality for him to enter paradise Murena Allah He, what is between the vows

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that most of the tongue

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what are they Nephi and what is between the thighs, he doesn't have to explicitly mentioned the private part with a formula female. So he says wherever secures and guards, these two parts, the tongue between the gels, the product park between the thighs, I should stand surety for him to enter paradise. When you make sure that you should have your mouth you don't talk ill about others you don't lie. Don't give a false testimony. You don't insult you don't curse. You don't use an obscene language. You don't backbite

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Masha Allah, this is 50% of the job. And then when you secure your profit part, you got it and you only fulfill your desire in a lawful way. You're a winner. And the Rio Salado, Selim says I stand surety for such person to enter paradise.

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So lower in some of the gays

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will definitely lead to guarding the chastity

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and allowing yourself to enjoy watching porn. It leads you from one haram to another from one haram to a greater haram until it becomes mild. So your conscience becomes diluted. And you don't mind and you become numb. Soon the sun even is practiced in front of you, actually, you're used to it.

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And what is even worse,

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when a husband starts losing interest in his lawful wife, because he's watching something deeper,

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more illicit.

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And he starts comparing between his trash wife and this prostitute. This adulterous and he expects his wife to be like her.

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That's not gonna happen. So he loses interest, he loses the enjoyment of the intimate relationship with his local wife. So he further satisfies this lust by watching over and over and over until he becomes

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addicted to it.

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This person is very vulnerable.

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Before when he used to lower his gaze, if a woman said hi to him, he'll say hi and why lowering his gaze or looking down or no interest. Purely innocent. Okay?

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They say another buried Regina. The isight is a male to adultery

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is the messenger to commit fornication.

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Some people are still stubborn, they say you guys keep talking about sex and sexual relations and last, like you know, this is all what you worry about in life. No, that's not necessarily true.

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But it's about what Allah said halal and haram. And if you guard your gaze, you guard your chastity and your immune even if you all of a sudden so a woman in the nude and you and her alone you have a strong immune system, again is that but if you use to the watching what is illicit? Then you're very vulnerable and very much

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looking like you're gonna fall in that sense. So be careful.

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Calling meaning I do mean about Saudi or Fabu down there like

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As gallon that is pure for them and achieving

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does Kia

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does gear to curb the skier to nurse, the sanctification of the soul and the purification of the heart is one of the ultimate goals of becoming Muslim.

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The Almighty Allah swore 11 times in the beginning of Surah questions, one after another, and also after another. Then the subject of his oath was KDF law Hammonds, aka Wakaya, Horeb Mendez, this

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successful indeed is the person who purifies himself

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and the person who wrote in himself is ruined. The Purification of oneself is through abstaining from the Haram beginning with looking at what Allah has forbidden you abstain from that, eating what Allah has prohibited drinking what Allah has prohibited smoking what Allah has forbidden. You ever seen from that? This is 50% of the religious commitment. Karla rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah sent him in the sound Hadith. Ma Amato can be fair to men who Moscato

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or men I took a man who fudged anywho if I command you to do anything, then do as much as you can live you can live for long enough

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and keep your duty to Allah to the best of your ability.

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Women man I hate to command woof and Tao and if I ever forbid you against anything, then you should entirely absolutely abstain from it. Do not indulge into it.

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In Allah hobby room beam is now on Indeed Allah is acquainted. Javier and his name is Al Javier they will acquainted the all acquainted hobby he encompasses all his creations with his knowledge. Even if they do what they do in private, they turn the light off his hobby.

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He's fully acquainted of what they do. So the person knows his gaze for the sake of Allah.

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There was a desire, there was a shower. I mean, every normal person likes Look at the beauty of another if a man of another woman format of another man etcetera. I'm talking about normal people you know what I'm talking about.

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So there is a desire and you overcome this desire by diverting your attention or forcing yourself to look away or look down. So the Almighty Allah replaces this temporary joy of looking at the beauty, which is forbidden with the joy and delight you will find it stays until the Day of Judgment, masha Allah, Europe.

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He will ask, is this command

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only for men? No for men and women, men have hour and women have hour or two. So Allah Almighty says in the following I will call him Minetti of none in authority him now I have nothing Raja Hoon and also commanded believing women to lower some of you their gaze some because you said you cannot keep looking down all the time. Look at your husband. Look at your family members. But do not look at this muscular handsome man who is not wearing a shirt on or wearing pair of trunks or swimsuit Haoran absolutely Hara

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people say but we watch this all the time in the movies. It's haram still. What about the games haram still, Haram is haram. Now because the Haram becomes widespread, it automatically becomes halal. And hallelujah, hallelujah. Well haram Omaha, Ramallah lawful is what Allah has declared as lawful and unlawful is what Allah has declared as on lawful.

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Time is not going to change the fact that adultery is haram Riba is haram, homosexuality is haram.

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Dating is haram, wine is haram, swine flesh is haram. Okay. But besides that, everything Allah has created most of the blessings that Allah bestowed upon us are lawful to use whether to consume eating and drinking, enjoy lawful sexual relationship, and that's why interview salatu salam assayed when he was explaining to his companions, what are the acts which you will be rewarded for? As

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If they are at Charity, they said or ineffable they had equal sadaqa.

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Or Buddha also refers to enlarge the profit part. When a person satisfies his sexual desire in a lawful fashion, when he has sex with his wife, or with her husband, they will be rewarded. The companions are shocked to know prophet of Allah

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llt ahead winner shahada, who will usually Yeah, how come that you know, sexual relations is a matter of desire. You know, so I desire to do something, I enjoy it. So you do it and you will be rewarded. How come you honey you treat it to the acts of worship. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam reason to the man said, what if the same person

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committed adultery? He satisfied his or her sexual desire outside marriage relationship.

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Will they deserve to be punished? Said certainly. They've committed adultery. He said likewise, for a person who avoided the Haram avoided committed adultery

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and looked for the halal to satisfy his desire in a lawful fashion.

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Allah Almighty will reward them for avoiding the Haram satisfying his sexual or her sexual desire in the halal in order to avoid what Allah has forbidden

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and as emblematic may Allah be pleased with him the rate that when a man got married the Prophet sallallahu selama said congratulations.

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Allah has helped you to achieve 50% of your religion, half of your deen so keep God to Allah and feel him concerning the remaining half

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50% What is 50% When a person gets married, and he satisfies or she satisfies their sexual desire in a lawful fashion, you know 50% of the Haram a person can commit and life is taken care of. He settles he is mentally stable.

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He's having this hormonal balance is he's got the halal, she's got the halal, so just take care of the rest.

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Restrain your tongue from talking bad. Fulfill your Aveda Masha Allah inter agenda as a Prophet sallallahu celibacy

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the following reference is of Surah Surah

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chapter number 17 and number 36. And this area we are studying it for the fourth time now

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in which Allah Almighty says what type of format Allah is Allah caddy here in in Assam, our masala our, the cooloola effect, homeless Hola ladapo And do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge, indeed hearing the sight and the heart about all those when will be questioned. The faculties of senses among them hearing sight, intellect, right. So the smell is okay because normally a person cannot commit sins, why the smell?

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You know?

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It's mainly the hearing on the site. So Allah says,

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the faculties of senses which ALLAH blessed you with, you will be questioned about them. How did you utilize them? The hearing, when we spoke about the prohibition of backbiting, slandering, lying, we say that the audience of backbiting are as blameworthy as the Speaker himself.

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How come? I didn't say anything? I'm just sitting and listening. No, you should have objected. You should have forbidden that person from backbite and others. Or if you can then at least be dismissed do not sit in the same place. cite

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a bizarre Allah the Almighty will ask me and ask him the human being about the blessing of the eyesight. How did you utilize it? And brothers and sisters, every blessing that Allah bestows upon us requires shock, thanks and gratitude.

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And the greatest means of shock is to thank Allah for the blessing via utilizing the blessing in what is lawful, and avoiding abusing or misusing that namah or the blessing that Allah bestowed upon you. Allah made you rich, not

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sha Allah and you're making 10 grands every day.

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Remember when used to work on foot now mashallah, you're a multimillionaire, very rich and lot of money is being generated. That's a blessing. How to thank Allah for this Nana

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now I'm going to smoke cigar to become like the millionaire's. Instead of saying thank you Allah, you miss us the namah you challenge Allah through the blessing that he bestowed upon you.

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Instead of going for ombre and Haji occasionally on a regular basis and sending people from rush because you have plenty of money you lost count

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some people on the get rich, you know the money is multiplying mitotic ly, even without while they're asleep.

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During the COVID pandemic,

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vast majority of people got poor lose their jobs lost some of their savings, and a few individuals their wealth doubled, tripled and quadrate SubhanAllah. So I have to say thank you Allah,

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how to say thank you Allah, utilize the naira in what pleases Allah or at least avoid utilizing the Nirma in what Allah has forbidden.

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So the site likewise,

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avoid looking at what Allah Almighty has forbidden and made haram for you. Because Allah will ask you kulula Iike all these faculties of senses kulula If you can handle masala alone question you about them. What about Alpha add the heart

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or the intellect?

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Are we

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going to be accounted and held accountable for our thoughts? Well, I can assure you No.

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Because initially when Allah Almighty said in Surah Al Baqarah the law EMF is somewhat your Murphy in two middle Murphy foster home alto who has been

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failed fully Manisha was the woman Yasha Walla Walla collusion in kadhi. So Allah said into the Doom Fe unforeseen come out of who anything that goes on

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in your mind, whether you reveal it, or you consider it to do out to full It's all recorded, and Allah Almighty will account you for it though Sahaba knelt down on the knees out of fear, said oh prophet of Allah wa rointe Because you know sometimes we have evil thoughts cross our minds who do not control them. So Nabil Salah Selim said, don't you act like the Israelites? Every time Allah gives him a command or a provision they said sir nanowalls We heard that will not get to obey will do the opposite. So immediately the companion said oh prophet of Allah Samia now Atlanta we heard the order of Allah and we obeyed.

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So Allah revealed the following is to abrogate what was mentioned in this lie. When a lot of mighty says there you can live in love with a son in law whose law Mac as well.

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But the Sabbath law Naka seven, why

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Allah will hold you accountable only for what you've actually done, or said actions or sayings. Then you follow that person or Ben Allah to his name in Siena.

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I will note do not hold us accountable. If we forget. If we make things by mistake, an error, or Ben our Lena is one camera Hamilton who Allah Levine and Paulina

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we're asking Allah subhanaw taala not to hold anything against us similar to the nations before us. Ben our two hand minallah catalana our Lord do not lay any burden above us or on us that we cannot afford to bear

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will fill in our hand and Telangana function Hello how are you been carefully read? Elf Allah forgive us 100 had this on us and demo learning are indeed our supporters. So grant us victory over the disbelieving ones. So Allah said, I did.

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So Allah has pardoned us for anything that we do haram that we do our forgetfulness, or by mistake.

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Does it mean that in joy it it can

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daydream and think about bad stuff and the old sins including adultery and dating and committing all the illicit relations, no name.

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Because if not call him may Allah have mercy on him says it's far hotter and evil thought that crosses your mind.

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We word of dismiss it. And if you don't, and you start thinking about it, it turns into a thought, then the thought turns into an idea and the idea is ready to be executed.

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And then if it is executed, it becomes a habit, even though it all started as a thought. So, when an evil thought crosses your mind, what do you do in the Honda caminar che upon in as long as there is Billahi in who was Semyon Lottie

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an evil thought from shaitan crosses your mind, immediately dismiss it and say I always will lay him in a shape when Rajiv I seek refuge with Allah again is the outcast Satan, in the horse and your rallying? Indeed, Allah is all here, the old known. So, even though we will not be held accountable for the evil thoughts, but guess what? Those evil thoughts if you go, they will evolve? They will be ideas to be contemplated at the earliest opportunity,

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you will execute and you will fall in the Hara.

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The following is number 19 of surah. Darfur, chapter number 40. You are number four in a unique way to fish. So do what is hot in piano means betrayal, deception,

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plural of iron, the eyes, so Allah knows that which the eyes deceive. That is the right order. Not which deceives the eye is what the eyes deceive. And what the breasts conceal.

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What does it mean what the eyes deceive? Could the eye deceive? Yes, sir.

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Our teachers, the CO teacher when we were young used to tell us whenever a group of men are sitting somewhere, and a beautiful woman passes by. So if they are righteous, everybody will avert their gaze. But when one of them takes advantage that everybody is looking down and from the corner of his eye, he steals a look.

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That is cool. Ha inator if everybody assumes this guy is pious, this guy is righteous. This guy, masha Allah does a look at what Allah has forbidden but whenever he has a chance, he steals that look. So stealing that look is hot in Adelaide. Do you guys know that your neighbors are not supposed to close their windows and those all the time. You know, you're supposed to lower your gaze you're supposed not to sneak in and to take a peek. Because this is my house. You know? So if I'm in my house, I need some breeze I need some air. Use supposed to lower your gaze and turn your sight away. But the person who steals that look that is called her inner eye and Allah says in surah Rafa,

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he is fully aware of the eye which is deceiving, which is still in the look hiddenly one metal for saloon and what the hearts conceal. It is time to take a short break and indeed we have a lot of beautiful more references to be continued in sha Allah on we returned from the short break. We'll be back in a couple of minutes in shallaki status.

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Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back our phone numbers beginning with the area code 00201095185170.

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Kibera from Morocco Salam aleikum.

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Wa Rahmatullah

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How are you? Keba?

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I have a question. No, go ahead.

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My question is about network marketing company is called is it halal or in

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Lehi, unfortunately Kibera I didn't get your question what is haram? What is haram?

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I mean, it is a network marketing company unit, it is a network marketing company.

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What is the system of this marketing company? What do you sell actually? Or is it only to recruit people and you take a commission on them?

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commission, they pay commissions. You bring anybody who buy a product.

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Okay, this marketing permit marketing system is a scam and it's not permissible. Keba Okay. Thank you. You're welcome. I Salam aleykum rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Sister and not Allah from Denmark as salaam alaikum.

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Follow me, Chef Mohammad. Yes, I can start amatola. Go ahead.

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First of all, thank you for granting me the opportunity to pose my concern. And secondly, I really appreciate your live sessions. It's very informative and learning sessions, may Allah reward you and your team for the hard work. They fought you all putting together for this work and spreading the guidance. Thank you. I'm not alone, same to you.

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And my question is, it's about my profession. My current job is in a bank in one of the European countries where I'm recently impolite. So it was not an intentionally chosen career, but Amex as accepted as well, as well, at the time I was newly graduated

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from the Masters, and then in these countries, seeking a job is very competitive. So then, at that time, I didn't know I didn't really know kind of the put a lot of focus on what gets haram or Talal working in a bank. But later on, I got some comments and from my, from my relatives, and they are saying that, you know, it's like your earnings source of your earning is coming from, you know, the place where working in a bank is not allowed or It's haram, then I was not very clear about this question, because I have also heard so many videos you have made and you have lectured on this topic. But I was not so clear that whether Should I stop working in a bank and continue looking for

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another job? Or

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are you don't have another question. And I just need to add some comment also, just to make it clear for you because the bank that I work in, and not to working in a department where they

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they are handling the interest rate or rebar, we call it and in Arabic, but it's more a section where we we as a team focus on the core sanctions and screening control of the customer. So it's overall it's it's a work related to anti money laundering, like we are controlling and mitigating risk for customers that they are we make sure that their business is not involved in in many illegitimate sources of

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you know, monetary so these things so it's it's mostly on the anti money laundering section that I'm engaged on. Understand says that amatola Thank you so much for trusting me with this question. And as you heard, in the many videos you've been watching, that it is crystal clear that the Almighty Allah has forbidden dealing with usury, charging pay in witnessing, facilitating, and the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said May Allah curse usually the one who pays the one who takes receives it, the one who charges and the witnesses and the scriber and it is obviously that the banking system established on dealing with usually with our pain the clients or charging also the clients

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who take loans from the bank. So this this is the main source of income of the commercial banks working in a bank accordingly, if it is conventional and it offers

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interest and usually is not permissible remains for you. The question is okay to hang on until I find another job.

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The question will be answered in the light of future

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Eat. If a person is living hand to mouth, paying the rent, medications, and if I don't come up with the money, the salary, I'll be homeless, I'll be kicked out I will not be able to send my kids to school. Jani is a necessity. So you are required to look for another lawful job while you are hanging on to this until, so that you will be able to go by and setting your monthly dues and payments. But if it is not going to affect me badly, then I would not die in a state of dealing with rebar because I'm not sure when I will die I don't want to die while my hands are immersed in usually or interest. This is one of the worst since there is no other punishment in the entire Quran

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associated with an evil deed greater than the punishment for usually what the Almighty Allah and His Messenger declare war again is the person who deals with interest may the Almighty Allah make it easy for you to find a pure Halal lawful job. Thank you I'm a to LA from Copenhagen as salaam alaikum

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Abdullah from India Salam aleikum.

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Abdullah from India can you hear me?

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What was wrong? Go ahead. Abdullah

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from India I reverted to Islam a year ago from big family.

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Okay, so what is I mean,

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very depressing and confused situation.

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I haven't told my family about my conversion yet.

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I'm trying to follow Islam as much as possible in a very private manner.

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And this thing is getting very, very difficult for me because my family is very much materialistic and the society here is full of technology.

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Are you living in a city or in the village? Abdullah?

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I am living in a city.

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My family wants me to marry a Sikh girl from their region. They both accept a Muslim girl for me.

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By Abdullah and the only guys I have my parents.

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I don't know what should I do? Should I leave them? I will

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be more than happy. I will be more than happy to answer your question Abdullah. As we know that the Almighty Allah has commanded the obedience of the parents and upholding the ties of the family the Khans, the kinship, even if they will non Muslims. And there are clear yet in surah. Lachman and in surah Lanka both in this regard, even if the parents are non Muslims, yet

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chosen, the faith that you are convinced it is the ultimate truth comes with a package of tests and trials. And the person who endures these tests and trials patiently will be eligible for the greatest reward of Allah which is entering paradise and being honored, and so on. And Hamdulillah you said, you've accepted Islam one year ago? If you think your family are tolerable, and they say we don't mind this is your choice, then you should let them right away and tell them my choices would be to marry a muslim God. If they will not tolerate that and you're certain to tell him and you're a grown up man, masha Allah, He can travel to another city and move out or even traveled to

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another country? Will you find a better earning a better a better livelihood, until Allah makes it easy for you?

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So my answer is, you should not put yourself in a corner and you feel that you're stuck. It's very simple. You're the judge. If you assume your family will take it easy. And wouldn't mind you got to tell them right away and furthermore, give them Dawa. But if this is not going to happen, and the Day of Judgment will erupt, the impact of a live will somewhere we can start from the scratch. Go to any Islamic center and say you guys have accepted Islam a year ago, and all what I need is a lawful job and I want to marry Normally people would not trust the person who's a newcomer to give them their dollars. It will take some time when they find out that you're practicing and you're genuine

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so on, but do not live in fear Abdullah, we are in the 21st century. And the world is very vast. India itself is huge and vast. If you think that your family are going to oppress you or target you, good luck. I'm leaving. Yes, I will check on you and if I have cash, I will send you gifts and I will send you money, but no one is capable to persuade me that will, you know, put any pressure on me in order to leave my religion or compromise the respect of my religion? May Allah keep up the last at first on history path may Allah support him and may Allah grant him a good spouse and a godly offspring me a Solomonic

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from India, while a ko salaam warahmatullahi barakato Khadija

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Jeff was here I want to thank you just Zakka Lau Hara your DUA MBT and definitely Mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala has made my son

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Juma prayer very easy in the

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Philippines summer boys who have joined him Allah, Allah the Juma Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, Masha, Allah, Allah.

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I'm happy, I'm very happy. And indeed, he is much more happier than I am. That is not missing his salah. Firstly,

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for your suggestion.

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Chef, I have a question. It says that I am running a school in the I'm running a school and you are what is in India, a small kindergarten? And we are what happens is they do not pay the fees and run away. So can I

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in order to and there are some Muslims also in it. So whatever laws I'm bearing, can I cut it out from the zakah that I distribute or I cannot do that. Okay, thank you, sister. Khadija from India. Look, if you are the landlord and the owner of the school, and somebody did not pay their dues, you cannot deduct it from Desica fun that you're supposed to distribute. But if you have an access, if you're entrusted to look after the school, and the money is not used, and you know that there is a family and Muslim family cannot afford the tuitions can I give them from this occur my Zacha phone or somebody else's account who entrusted me to dispense it? The answer is yes. But the beneficiary,

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and somebody owed me money and did not pay on time. So I deducted from the Zika. That is not permissible. And Nia denier is required before making the payment of the cat. What is this money that you're giving away? It's voluntary charity after he gave it you cannot say can I convert my intention to be mandatories occur? Or use a cat? No. Somebody owed me money. And they did not pay the ran off? can I deduct it from this account? The answer is no. But in the school, and while the students are already in the school, if you notice that some of the students, their families are bought because of COVID the father lost the job. So when you invite the Father and you give him an

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envelope, what is this? This is a little help from the school so he takes that money and he pays the tuitions. That is unacceptable. jakka may Allah bless you and your family, salaam alaikum.

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Mohammed from the USA, welcome to Hoda TV,

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slowly over

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Santa Monica. I want to get ahead and

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I have a quick question. It's about student loans. I am returning to school glamorous, presently, and I do not want to take any student loans. But the Job says they will pay for the student loans after you get done. So I don't know what is the ruling on that? I know you might have answered several times but a friend of mine recently

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you know, talk to a student loan and then he's in a dilemma where he says that I cannot find a job and I'm going to start paying interest. Okay. So, you know, I personally, I personally do not approve a loan what I know that I'm going to pay interest on that. Unless if it is a matter of necessity the Muslim community needs a female gynecologist and we don't have money to send

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her and everyone is broke. So this is an exception but everyone wants to study wants to go to Harvard wants to go to Yale wants to go to Baylor College, ATM Rice University. Okay, work, earn and cover your education the rich guys in the community should chip in and this is one of the greatest deeds so they support the students not necessarily scholarship that this is a loan they write a check checks that I'm going to pay on installment once I take a job, I'm sitting in my debt, but I know that some organizations have you know facilitated or consider the student loan kind of okay. But according to me any loan where I sign willingly, that I agree to pay interest and there is a

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possibility that I will end up in interest is not permissible unless in the cases of necessity how they will allow you to either allow a hook over the head with a cell phone line your local masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Salam wa salam aleikum, wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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God is the greatest, the woman only glory to Him. He

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has to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God has the greatest

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glory to Him all need to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving gold about an empire that we're shipping comes fire and stones, sending their best with the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad or guys were shipping cars, fire and stones selling their best were the cheapest