Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #658 Prohibition Of Gazing At Women

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The Hadith mythology claims that the gods have given the woman a license to look at them, but the history of the Hadith is discussed, including the use of leather clothing and the lack of evidence for the "verbal" meaning in Islam. The segment also touches on the negative consequences of sexual harassment and Wereks, and the importance of praying for others. The conversation also touches on the idea of "ma'am everywhere" and the success of the Dawa community. The conversation ends with a reference to a church visitation and the importance of being informed about events.
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Salam o Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of gardens of the pious Bismillah AR Rahman AR Rahim, where praise is due to Allah alone. We praise them and we seek His help whomsoever Allah guides is a truly guarded one. And also of our Allah leaves us say none can show him guidance May the greatest peace and Salutations be upon Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Today's episode brothers and sisters is number 658.

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And the blessing series of three out of Salehi by Imam nawawi may Allah have mercy on him. And it will be the third in chapter number 290 Babauta Harryman novelry LOL murottal Janelle via

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the prohibition of gazing at a woman who's not lawful for you to look at.

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And obviously in the first episode, we'll get to speak about the definition of this woman who is not lawful for you to look at. And we explain also what is Muharram and what is not Muharram in the light of Anbar 23 chapter number four Surah Nisa today's Hadith the first Hadith we're going to tackle in today's episode, Hadith number 16 125 addresses something very important which is if we're talking about the prohibition of gazing at a woman we're looking at the beautiful woman was not lawful for you to look at. People normally say well so what can I do they are everywhere, you know, so am I blameworthy for what I cannot control?

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So here are Nabil Salah Salem explains which gaze which look is pardoned and which one is not. So you normally will speak in about nobody will fetch our aphasia. I'm going downstairs or upstairs on entering the elevator or coming out of the elevator and I bumped into a woman woman. And this woman is wearing very attractive perfume and full makeup.

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not wearing any hijab, wearing revealing clothes. So she's attractive, and she's pretty. Okay, what are we supposed to do? I saw her for the first instance then lower your gaze. So Jerry, rob the Allahu Allah say, sell to rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, another real fed Bacala slave, masala Raha who Muslim?

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The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him was asked by Jerry IRIB Abdullah may Allah be pleased with him?

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He said

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your rasool Allah

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wa What about another rule fetch

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what is the hokum

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on accidental glance? If I see a woman by accident, and this woman

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is not lawful for me to look at so the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said turn away your eyes from looking at her in other terms, lower your gaze stop looking at her so we understand from that another tool hola the first glance you're pardoned because you cannot just blind yourself or keep walking lower in your head all the time.

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Or lowering your gaze constantly That's what I said min ago sorry him pulling Mina Yeah, who do min above Saudi him to lower some of their gaze.

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So if you happen by accident to see the beauty of a woman who's not lawful for you to look at, then immediately lower your gaze. What happened accidentally, you're not blameworthy for your pardon.

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Kim In doing so is one of the greatest acts of worship, because it requires patience to lower your gaze from something that every normal human being desires to look at even married people. When they see a beautiful woman, do you want to look at her? Do you want to scan her from head to toe, especially if she's wearing revealing clothes as we see in our days?

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And it's not only about looking at the woman who's not wearing hijab, but women who are wearing hijab, but they're not wearing veil.

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And Allah bless them with the beauty over their face. So does it mean that you're a teacher? You're a doctor, you're a student. You're a professor

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You're a conductor in the bus or in the train, you keep staring at her, even the face itself.

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You look at the person in order to identify them, then afterward, look away lower your gaze. This is the Prophetic guidance in this regard, brothers and sisters, the following Hadith and before I say it, it's a weak Hadith. And it's an odd Hadith. So why are we going to study it because it is mentioned in the course of the huddle Sol Hain in this book, the book of the prohibition the chapter of the prohibition of looking at the beauty of a woman who is not lawful for you.

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The other Salehi in some have some a hadith which are weak and not to be considered as a reference for her. And it is my duty in this program, if we're going to study it to warn you in advance, and then when we studied and then after work, so that the audience would get to know that this hadith is mentioned and it said we had an extremely weak Hadith to the extent that the scholars of Hadith said it's life on chairs very odd. Lay on Allah, how come you cannot establish a verdict based on this hadith, especially when we will come to know that

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it is clearly contradicted with other sound a hadith so almost selama in this hadith 1600 26 and almost ilimitado the alarm on

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an all new Salah mythology Allah and her call it contained Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam ala in the who may Munna for our Kabbalah, no Omi Maktoum, with Erykah Badu, and we mere Nabeel hijab, for calling the VU sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Theurgy Berman for Honiara, Sula, Allah Elisa who luggable sooner or later Honey fauna for Colin view Salalah, the Sultan of Amiya when he and toma let's do Tober Sarani. The hadith, by the way, is collected by both Abu Dawood and Tirmidhi. And yet, it's still an extremely weak Hadith and an odd narration. That is because

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one of the writers of the Hadith by the name nub Han

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is not known of having a good memory and of being a just narrator. And that's why, in the science of Hadith, when only one person in the chain of the narrator's is discredited, the Hadith right away, is judged either weak or extremely weak or shed based on the level of discrediting one single person of the narrator's and some of the Hadith are not just weak fabricated, because who is this narrative? Nobody knows him. So there is something in between we do not recognize the Almighty Allah has preserved the sunnah of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam as he did preserve the Quran. And Number Nine of Surat al Hajj Allah Almighty said in an Act known as Xena Zakharova in Allahu Allah

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have you alone, more certainly it is us Allah is using the royal we who have sinned down as zikr the remembrance of Allah their way, whether the Quran or the Sunnah, which Allah said, We're Malian took one in Hawaii, in Hawaii in our new house. So it is Allah Almighty who said that whatever the messenger of Allah says pertaining to the religion is a matter of why it is a remembrance zikr and also in Surah a na the Almighty Allah says who and then II like z Cara Lee to bring in L in see man who Zilla la him Allah Allah home Yetta karoun So Allah refer to the Sunnah as zikr as well. So when he promised

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and he confirmed, he is going to protect

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and preserve and why and avec that covers both. And there is no amount on Earth and there is no Sharia on Earth, and there are no fool was of any profit on Earth. as lucky as the Muslim ummah, home the reference, the Quran is preserved,

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despite all the attempts, of the enemies of Islam, in order to distort it, to alter it to change it. They can't, why can't they? Because Allah said I'm going to preserve it, that set at Sudan deal, the Quran and the Sunnah. And that's why every attempt to remove this religion from Earth, or to turn Muslims away from the religion, you might be successful temporarily. It might be successful under military pressure.

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Like what happened in some countries where they have been ruled by so called Muslim rulers but in reality they will not Muslims. And the they attempted to remove the religion completely they canceled the Arabic language they canceled the other the cancer read in the Quran they shut down the masjid and turn them into stables and into theatres and so on. What happened afterward, back to track and why the Quran is there?

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What are you going to do with the Quran?

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All the enemies of Islam whether of the human beings

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or of the jinn, or both of them combined, they cannot do anything about it. Allah preserved the Quran. Allah preserved the sunnah of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, until the day of judgment. So because of that will feel very powerful, he very strong, even when we give Dawa and we'll say Allah says, You're certain you're saying Allah says, But show me in any other book. What can you verify whether this is the word of God, or it has been edited by human beings Alhamdulillah thanks and praises to Allah for guiding us to Islam, for Cuban us Muslims, and for blessing us with Prophet Muhammad, with his gardens and obviously, with the everlasting message, a miracle. That is the

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message of the Quran. So as I said, the hadith is extremely weak. We are not studying this hadith to conclude or deduce or how because the Hukm as a result of this hadith is in vain.

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What does the Hadith say? The hadith says in English because I guess I only mentioned the Arabic text that almost selama or the Allahu Anhu said, I was with the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, along with me, Mona, Mona Vinted Harris, another wife of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam when Abdullah even on Maktoum Radi Allahu Anhu.

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And Abdullah have no Maktoum was a blind companion.

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He came to visit the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam.

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And this incident occurred after Allah has revealed the area of mandate in the hijab.

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So we will study this area in sha Allah in Surah, Al Ahzab, in the following chapter, shortly insha Allah

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so the Prophet sallallahu Sallam told them, cover up yourselves from him.

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Yeah, and you wear your hijab, put on your hijab. So they said, Oh prophet of Allah. But this guy is blind, and is unable to see us. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, but you're not blind. Lower your gaze, and he replied, Are us also blind and unable to see him?

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So there is inconsistency in the Hadith for number one who said one of the generators in the chain of generators, NAB Han, is not known for being a just eater, or having a good memory. Number two, because there are other a hadith which proved the opposite. Prove that it is not required for a woman to wear hijab before somebody who could not see her wearing hijab, for a woman is mandatory. If you're around men who are not Muslim, there is a possibility that they will see you and they will look at your hour. But this guy is definitely blind faith in the case when she was in her Ada, and the view Salah Salem, so to spin the idea in Abdullah tombs house because he's blind.

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And there is an agreement that it is not required for a woman to wear hijab before a blind man this blind man is the same very man whom Allah Almighty made mention or reference to him in Surah

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Eivissa Ivor Selter well under armour

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and it was concerning Abdullah hebdomad To model the Allahu Anhu came to inquire and ask the Prophet sallallahu Sallam cushions, why the prophets Allah Salam was busy with other people whom he was giving dower to also Abdullah in normal Maktoum was in charge of calling Amazon. I then will fetch the second other bill I'll use to call the first then 15 or 20 minutes before the action other so they say yeah, the law you know Maktoum as in as in, it's already February. So he would call that may Allah be pleased with all the companions of the Prophet salaallah Sana

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the final Hadith in the chapter is Hadith number 16 127. And me sorry, Daniel Cordray,

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while the Allahu Anhu

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another Seul Allah is Allah Allah

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And he was telling them a call lie on rural Raju in our auto Raju Walmart to allow Ratan Mara. While I have the Raju Raju li fi cell been worked with tofu in Morocco in Marathi his cell bill where the hadith is collected by Imam Musa

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I will say Eid al Padre may Allah be pleased with him said the messenger of allah sallallahu sallam said, and then must not look at the man's private parts, nor must a woman look at the woman's private part or our now there should two men lie naked under one cover, nor should two women lie naked under the same cover.

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Okay, there are a lot of things here, which people actually

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do not pay attention to. There are a lot of restrictions which people are involved in, and not occasionally rather on regular basis. Fact number one, a woman before another woman has our Oh, so I thought the horror of a woman is only before men.

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And I thought men can look at each other normal because hey guys, we're men. We're all men. You go to the gym.

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You go to the locker room, after the soccer game, the basketball game after the yoga practice after you know the aerobic, everybody strips naked. They take shower, open shower, everyone

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in the new suit,

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like the day they were born,

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and they don't see anything wrong with that, hey, guys, we're men and women. Likewise, we're all women, no shame. What a shame. What a shame. In many incidents whenever the university was holding a camp or whatever, or even

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you know, without specifying in some in in their camps, which I attended in the US a with the youth.

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The bathroom, and the shower area, doesn't have those curtains, or barriers, even the bathrooms, they sit and they talk as they are chatting on food while they are doing number one or number two. And when it comes to the shower, everybody strips naked and the old shower like 10 showers. And all of them are standing beneath them who women likewise. So you think that when I saw some Muslims being raised there, they don't realize that this is haram. So they do the same. And I home the two brothers or older brothers after the soccer game or after the practice when they come back from the school they all shower together in the *. And when I told the parents this is haram, really, how

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come the brothers or the sister their sisters, they're all boys share. Oh my god, you don't understand you don't get it. It seems like we have to start from the scratch. Even my own children, there is our for me before them. The Outre of a man before every other man from the Naval to the knees. Or in some opinions, the thighs are not included in the hour.

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But were in those swimming suits in front of men are taking your clothes off completely. And your private parts are hanging because you're taking shower. And this is normal. If it is normal for them. They have lots of normals, and they're all haram and major sins. So Wallahi I used to wait until it is lunchtime. They all go to lunch and I walk in into this huge bathroom facility I lock the door inside from here and here so that I can relieve myself. They don't have doors to that extent to each compartment.

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It's crazy. But this is the culture. And then when they only hear about the enormous amount of child molestation, sexual harassment, and adultery and fornication, even among married couples, that's no money because we're human beings, if one sees the hour of another, and also you know, afterward the homosexuality and all of that it is because of another when you look and you think this is normal, this is not normal. Allah can yet in every human being a desire. So when the person sees the out of another, there is a desire there is a lust.

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Okay, and then it's accessible. So what when they sleep together so that one when they commit? We call it adultery.

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We call it fornication. And it has a severe punishment in Islam in Christianity in Judaism. Now because in the west or nowadays also in some of the Arabic countries they perceive it as the gnomes It's haram. It's a major sin. Looking at the horror of your own child is a major sin. Your child looking at your own our is a major sin, your daughter, the mother and the daughter, the sisters, the siblings, the brothers and the sisters, this is haram. So an abuse of the Lord is selama said a man should not look at the out of another man.

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And a woman should not look at the power of another woman and what is our of a woman before another woman from the Naval to the knees as well. But out of a woman before any man who's not Muharram taught from head to toe,

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there is a difference of opinion concerning the face on the palms. But otherwise, the hair, the V neck, the arms, the shins, all of that is our It's haram to walk around like that. But he's my brother he low or he's my cousin. You know, he's my cousin, we were raised together. We grew up together. All of that doesn't make any sense. If he is not your permanent Muharram nor is your husband, then there is our you should wear your full hijab like you're going to say Allahu Akbar and offer the prayer.

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Unless if this guy who has been breastfed with you so you have a relationship due to socketing a hook him in Arvada, otherwise he's no one.

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But my sister in law, she's no one when it comes to the Mahamaya she's not. She's not your mom.

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And we spoke before about Yes, you cannot marry her as long as you're married to her sister. But what if her sister dies? What if you divorce her sister? Can you marry her? Of course absolutely. We said of money now fan was married to Roca and require died, she married to console. So his sister in law was okay for him to marry. After her sister passed away, may Allah be pleased with all of them.

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And then we'll come to another case where a lot of people also acknowledge and unknowingly while I have the Raju Raju Leafy, salby noir head,

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know some people again, in camps in the military in Boy Scouts, or in the campus, you know, we all sleep in the same sleeping bag. It's a it's a big one, come come bro. You know, we CAN SLIM in the same sleeping bag. No, that is not permissible. But we're two men. It's not permissible to women together, it is not permissible. Because whenever you're asleep, even if you have a good intention, you know, there is something called a dream. Can you control your dreams? When a person he or she experienced in their dreams, a complete sexual relation? And as a result, it's called a dream because they experience sexual discharge. Did you want it? Did you really mean it?

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Did you visualize it? Or experience it physically? No, no, no, it was all in your brain. So if you are physically next to somebody, things may happen. So there's something Islam called said those blocking the means prevention is better than control. And that's why Allah never say do not commit adultery. Rather, he said do not go near adultery. He never said Do not drink. He said do not go near drinking. First Anywhoo avoid it. Keep distance, do not approach anything, which inevitably will lead to an act of adultery. Like in the next chapter, we'll get to speak about being with a woman in a private place behind closed doors. He says I'm an old man shake. You know, think about

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that. Oh, yeah. Well, the priest, his ad, and he's indulged into a sexual relationship with a woman who's coming to confess her sin, why shaitan is there. How are undesired there? Protect yourselves. We're very weak or vulnerable human beings. So protect yourselves.

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So whenever you also Allah Allah Salam in the hadith of disciplining the children and teaching them how to pray at the age of seven then at the age of 10, you should take it serious and he said we're variable by now and Medallia.

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Which means even your own children, not only boys and girls, but boys and boys, girls and girls should not be covered with the same comfort.

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While if we have a tight place and it is the same bed but you know we sleep on the same bed everyone with their own comfort. Everyone with their own blankets, who do not cover up with the same cover. A mother and son father and daughter a mother and daughter do sister and sister.

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This is our religion.

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My brothers and sisters, if anyone is talking about sickness in person's mind, it is in the mind of those who have reported hundreds of 1000s of sexual harassment and sexual abuse and child molestation. And you all know where this is happening. It is in the churches. Okay. documented all over the news. Look at France. It's a liberal country. very secular. You know, if anyone wanted to do anything, which is haram, it's halal for them. But over 200,000 cases of sexual harassment, check sexual molestation have been reported and what was not reported. And this is in the church, and what was not reported maybe even more. Why? Because they take it lightly in Islam.

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While Atakora Bozena in hookah factory, Chateau

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de la, don't you go near near Xena, it's an illicit relation and it leads the way we're astray. Don't you go near it? How don't you go near it, lower your gaze. Never be with a woman alone. Do not start without a third person and do not start an unnecessary conversation. While it might lead you into the area which everybody is aware of. May Allah guide us through this best. We'll take a short break and there is still a lot more to discuss beautiful subject and it is very important in this particular episode brothers and sisters, I want you to share it to the best of your ability. Why? Because I have seen religiously committed people by my own eyes. Do you do not know anything about

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this? They have their sisters in law and the kiss them on the sheets are like this is haram and never shook hands with my sister in law because it's not permissible. And never live my eyes on my sister in law. Because it's not permitted. She's she's not permissible for me to look at or to hang around with or to go out together. No, it is not permissible. Any of my brothers when they come home, if I'm not home, they hang around. They go to a coffee shop. We stay in the car until I come. This is Islam. This is what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam taught us. We'll take a short break and we'll be back in Sharla in a few minutes. Please stay tuned.

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salam o aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakato and welcome back. Our phone numbers beginning with Area code 002 then 01095185170

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Our first caller is SR Shala from the UK a Salam aleikum.

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Wa Alaikum salaam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. Sister Shala.

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She so it got two questions from my daughter. She's nine years old. And Hamdulillah. She's praying, but she has questions about prayer, her prayers. The first question is, she said, So why are we doing ROCOR our pseudocode show and understand that, why she is doing ReCore I try to explain to her, she said that means she's all the time she's on record, because she's following along or she's following you know what Allah wants her to do. And she's not doing that what Allah want, doesn't want her to do. So she said that all the time she's on record. So what is the point that she's just doing for pray and just five times a day? So this how first questions are high second questions is

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about a Salam wa salam at the end of the Salah. She said, Why should I do a says hello, Ali Khan, Salam Alikum from LA Solloway. I was Allah all the time. She said that she's feeling hostiles. She's sort of rounding by everywhere all the times. So why does she need to say salaam aleikum to disconnected from him

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Well, thank you so much. And I really appreciate asking these questions on behalf of your door. And when you explain the answer to the first question, I mean, you're doing very well on your own. As far as the prayers, or the fasting, or the Hajj ceremonies, the steps of each act of worship have been prescribed by the Almighty Allah, in order for the servant to show servitude to the Almighty Allah. So worshiping Islam is all about obedience. And obviously, you feel it when you're bound down before Allah you, you show submission, and humility. And then when you prostrate yourself and you back from Allah and your prostration you show the Almighty Allah that You are nothing without his

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help without his guidance, and you all belong to Him. And that's why he says, glory be to my lord the most Hi, Allah. Why we do this one's why we do this soju twice this is prescribed by Allah. So any act of worship is prescribed in a particular way, is not to be explained what is the purpose of doing this in this format. Rather, it is to be explained that Allah is testing your compliance. Likewise, you can extend these questions to why five times a day, why this time and that time, why can't I just pray them all in the morning, or late in the evening, when Allah Almighty commands any command or respect of dues or do not dues, he is not to be questioned. He knows what suits us as His

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creation most. And then when you say a Salam or Aleikum, to the right and to the left, you're not saying that to Allah. You're saying that to the angels who are around you and surrounding you. Right or Left? Baraka love you, sister, Shala. May Allah bless you and your family, and give special regards to your beautiful daughter please.

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Sister Fatima from India, welcome to weather TV.

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I said

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medulla obrigado. Salah Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Fatima how are you?

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Furlan Hi, Jake, how are you? I'm doing great. Go ahead.

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So, I have two questions. My first question is, Is it okay to not go to an event not to accept the invitation by Kenan cage because you feel uncomfortable there? Like either they are gossiping there? Or is it okay to be an introvert in Islam to sit into their car at home and avoid unwanted functions instead? My second question is fasting. Mr. Donilon, Cara fasting if the month of Ramadan was in summer, is it permissible to do color and winter as a time is short and less tiring? Will it be valid? Okay, thank you Fatima. Very articulated. May Allah bless you beautiful and beautifully presented your questions. And we'll Salalah Han is an MC generally speaking, either infallible. So

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when somebody here in the studio says share, I have the olema for my wedding or my son is getting married and I'm inviting you or for the RP. If I have time, and I'm available, I should accept the invitation. But somebody said you know share the bring a dancer and they do this and this and that, then I should not go. Okay. Well, so under regular circumstances if I'm available, and I know it's a very good function and it will bring happiness to the heart of the host and I can afford to go Bismillah you should go otherwise, I'm not available. I'm tired up. I have a schedule. I have an exam I have a case you don't have to go it's only recommended.

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Then when I know that if I go these guys they start chit chatting fee mingling, or they have watch I don't feel comfortable with you're absolutely free from any commitment you can execuse yourself when that time the day time is a lot shorter than the night time. So take advantage of fasting now only the voluntary fasting if you old fasting from last Ramadan or the last Ramadan's now it is time to make it up. Would it be sufficient because it's short, easy and affordable? It will be pretty sufficient. So Ramadan, the daytime is short. You can fast the nighttime is long. You can pray to hedgerows at any part of the night and still get some enough rest. And it's the thank you Fatima

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from India As salam o alaikum.

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Anwar come from the UK Welcome to whether TV

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Salam aleikum

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wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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I have a few questions. One of them is a follow up from a few weeks ago, I asked about a company in the UK that has cited it as an alternative to a mortgage. I did WhatsApp the thing I wasn't sure if there was an update on it at all. I received.

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I did WhatsApp tip to the to the number I call on early speak to the brother and he said he did receive it, I

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will check on it Inshallah, soon after the program. He's hearing me now Inshallah, we'll make sure to check on it. Thank you, Omar, do you have another question? My other question. Yes. A couple of questions. Firstly, with regards to covering the or is it okay for my sister, sometimes when I give my five year old a bath, and obviously he's a kid, if I have to answer the door or the phone, my 13 year old daughter watches her over him?

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Is that okay? Is that permissible?

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And my other question is, my son goes to a non Muslim school. And they have said that they'd like to do a church visit.

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When my daughters are in school, I did have to do just not send them in on the day. But some other people in the UK are saying, well, you know, you live in a normal country, they're gonna learn about Christianity is better than you go along, and you're involved in and take part in whatever they're learning. So it's best to just let them go, but be involved and maybe go along on the trip. I'm just not sure which is better and not just

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have a question for you. What is the agenda of visiting the church? What is the purpose, I think, because obviously now with Christmas coming up, they're learning about Christianity, and they're learning about Christmas. And this is what they do when they're teaching about Buddhism. They take them to the Buddhist temple, and they're learning about Hinduism. I mean, I've had the same problem with my daughter. But in those cases, I just kept her at home, you know, what

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saying is better to Omar Khan, let me share with you one of the subjects I teach at the university is religions on doctrines where I teach my students at the university about Hinduism, Buddhism, Confucianism, Eastern religions, Christianity, Judaism, and the various denominations of Christianity. And I assured them in the beginning of the semester, and by the end of every class, one will study about a different religion that we, we learn, and we'll compare, we'll compare the blessing that Allah bestowed upon us to others. So by the end, we say Alhamdulillah, Hilary had an earlier method, Islam, thank you, Allah for guiding us to Islam, and for not leaving us astray. When

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we learn about what others actually worship, whether human beings or ideas, and even the people of the book in Christianity and Judaism and what went wrong and how they deviated from the path of God. All of that. So if this is a case, where I'm taking my child, so I'm showing him practically, after I've explained to them, and I give them the proper understanding, it makes sense. But if I'm taking them in a tour, or a visit where they learn about Christmas, and I have not equip them enough, I did not tell them about what is right and what is wrong. What is haram and what is halal, and what is the correct belief, then, that's very risky, because you don't know initially when the Prophet

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salallahu Alaihe Salam. So Omar Hatha was holding a scripture from the Old Testament from the Torah. He told him off and he said, you know, the Quran has everything, but afterward, when you become firm in your faith firm in your religion, and you want to learn about others in order to give them Dawa in order to refute their misconceptions in order to immune your own community and teach them about other religions so that they will become immune against deviation. That is permissible, of course. So guess what, every now and then I take my kids, but after I give them the dose, and I explain to them, I even told them to someplace where supposedly Muslims literally worship the grave. Okay, of

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the Saint of that person. They asked from him, the invoke him a dead person, and they make supplications to him, and they may throw off around his grave. So now my kids know exactly everything in this regard. And once they saw that, they said, Abby, are these people Muslims, and that was done in

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admission. So the purpose of taking them is to show them now I have been warning you. I've been teaching you what is right and what is wrong and here's a sample of what is wrong. So they are kind of immune. If not, then there is no point of visiting the church.

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Thank you, Omar Khan. Salam Alikum.

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Her first question first. It's not permissible for your 13 years old to look at the hour of her brother when he's taken a bath. Okay. Baraka law. Santa Monica, five years old share. I know I know. I know. I know. She's a teenager. Okay, okay. That's fine. Okay, that's fine. Sure.

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What last one question for my daughter. And with regards to

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the for example, why do we call Khadija the Allahu Allah cathedra haha and then we also know um, the other words of the prophet for example on some Selma as all Salomon not their names Same with the daughters of the Prophet Okay, yeah, and all concern Why call phone call? No, no, no, no. Come, every every companion, not only the Mothers of the Believers, not only the daughters of the Prophet, every companion when we say his name, or her name will say Radi Allahu Anhu for a muscular Oh, no, that's not my question. I mean, why is for example on Salama means mother of Santa Marais. And Kathy generally Allah on her that's her name. So what she was asking when we were learning, reading about

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the Sierra is Why is one

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wife of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam for example, had the German the Allahu and her name known as her name. I do they're a doula on how whereas she was also a mother. But wait a minute Selma is known as salaries what she's trying to ask Wait a minute, but also our Isha. Hafsa my Munna

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and Zane up. And even though I shadow the Allaha didn't have any children but she had a Konya her Konya was Omar Abdullah one was study here another Salah Hain sometimes you say and oh me IV de la he, Aisha Radi Allahu, so you can say this, and you can say that, and don't forget that a Felicia or the Alon hat got married to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam before Islam before he was commissioned with the prophethood okay okay Baraka love you.

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Thank you Mohamed Salah Malika

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I'm not Allah from India, thank you for your patience. I'm not Allah.

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No Salam aleikum.

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Wa alaykum wa salaam Rhonda labor carto I live in a family where most of the

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the gents follow innovations in the religions. And the ladies there are Alhamdulillah they have correct al Qaeda. But when they fall when they keep ceremonies at home of vidiian innovation, we do not participate in it.

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And but since it's like they are our relatives are coming home, we have to say salam so I live upstairs and so is it. Is it possible for me to you know, like, Is it a sin to go and meet that just for saying Salaam and coming back? No, it's not a sin actually should do that.

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Okay, yeah, I was in a dilemma actually. Because it's the same house the relatives are coming over, we don't eat with them. We, the ladies abstain from it. It's just the gems of the House who carry out those innovations by themselves. No, you're okay. And when they come and you give salam and you go back to your room, you're okay BarakAllahu Li, and you know, Hamdulillah shockula For for you guys that you know what is right and what is wrong.

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never dismiss the idea of approaching those who are involved in forbidden acts, or in innovations or even the non Muslims among the family members cannot simply give them Dawa. Never underestimate the power of the word. When single advice quickly changed the life of this individual and the individual. When we went to a community,

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we started from the scratch as a community in one city in the USA. He was living in innovations and haram everybody was selling wine not everybody but a lot of people were selling liquor beer lotto tickets working in Haram. You can barely find a single woman wearing hijab. But the effort of Dawa by the Grace of Allah in a few years, all the men who run stores selling haram

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Call Us shut down. They change their career, and they have prospered 1000 times greater than if they were selling alcohol and lotto ticket still. When every woman in the community started wearing hijab, their children or started joining the Quran, school learning and some of us have memorize Quran, it is the blessing of giving Dawa Shia members of the community have become Sunni. Qadiani has started coming to the masjid and to learn and attend to learn about the true Islam. And even though they have not changed, but they were so close, as far as I know, to become Muslims, it is the blessing of making Dawa particle offical?

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Yeah, I think we run out of time already so I will not be able to take any further calls. By insha Allah if Allah extends in our lives further, I will see you tomorrow with as Coda until then I leave you all in the care of hola hola hola had our stuff roll it welcome Subhanak Allah Mohammed technicial hola hola hola and nessa for Okona to like wa salam ala ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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God is the greatest

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glory to him

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is to be the best and give his best religion to Allah, Allah God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best, and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about an empire that we're shipping columns, fire and stones, sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys are shipping costs fire and stones selling their best were the GPS

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