Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #628 Prohibition Of Despising Muslmis

Muhammad Salah
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a Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another love edition of gardens of the pious Bismillah wa salatu salam ala Anna we almost a while back. But the viewers today in sha Allah will continue with another live edition of gardens of the pious episode number 628. In the businesses of Rio Salado Hain by Imam nawawi may Allah have mercy on him. And today insha Allah is our third episode in chapter number 273 Babu to hurry me the car it will mostly mean the prohibition of despising Muslims and belittling others.

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Today insha Allah will begin with Hadith number 15 176 and John Ignace Abdullah Radi Allahu Anhu called kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam, O Allah Rasool, Allah healer, young funeral la huli Poulin for call Allahu Allah azza wa jal Menza. Lady Yet Allah Allah Yeah, l Filoli Falon for any kind of refer to Allah

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to Allah.

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It's a very powerful narrative, others in sisters, and before I share with you the meaning of the Hadith, it's a serious warning against appointing yourself as a judge over others, and deciding who is righteous and who's not. And who's gonna go to heaven and who's gonna go to *.

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Whenever somebody already claims, declares the Oneness of Allah and says La Ilaha illa Allah, Muhammad Rasool Allah, even if he's a major sinner, it's not you to decide whether he's going to heaven or to hellfire.

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And I'm tell him and Allah your eyes the booming Yasha oil Filoli Manisha Don't you know that Allah may punish whomever he wills may forgive whomever he wills will Allah Allah cliche in Kalia and Allah is Able to do all things. So in this hadith, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said,

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once a man say by Allah, Allah who will never forgive so and so.

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The Almighty Allah

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was mad at this person they are upon he said,

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Who is he who takes an oath in my name that I will not go and pardon to so and so. I've granted pardon to so and so rendered your good deeds fruitless?

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Well, we really need to shed some light on this narration, especially in the light of another explanatory narration in which interview Salallahu Alaihe Salam tells us about two people from the nations before us, one of whom who happened to be very righteous.

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And the other was a sinner,

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a sinner, but he believes in the Oneness of Allah.

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And that happens.

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Some of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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happened to drink alcohol, and they were punished.

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And some

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were involved in the new sin of fornication, and they were punished and they repented sincerely. And that shows us that even the companions of the Messenger of Allah are not infallible.

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They are dear to Allah, the best of this OMA divish of generation, yet they're not infallible. The only infallible one was Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him and he passed away Allah made him so but us as human beings, it's human nature.

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Allah says on wherever he was from this evil human nature and then those who strive for Allah sake in order to avoid sense particularly the major sense you Almighty Allah promised to assist them to guide them to the straight path or Latina jarhead or phenol and Dr. Nam Solana and to support them were in Allah Allah ma al Morsi Nene.

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And when Allah says in Surah Yusuf in the nurse Salah Amara to be su

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nombre authorizes said a llama Rahim Allah be in our beautiful Rahim except for those souls whom Allah have mercy on Indeed my Lord is oft forgiving, Most Merciful so we ask Allah to avoid us sitting major or minor

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We ask Allah to beautify Eman and to beautify and adorn the good deeds in our hearts as it is stated in the Hadith

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on the day of the Battle of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said to the Companions is tough for heteros Niala or be lion in order to praise my Lord.

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Then he prays the most beautiful praises and he supplicated as follows He says Allahumma Habib, ala in an email

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will carry Lionel COFRA while Fuzu ca while FCN wa Jana Mina Rashid,

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I know you remember there is similar meaning in iron number seven of sortal project which was funded the other day so here the Almighty Allah is a source of guidance so the Prophet peace be upon him used to invoke Him as follows Oh ALLAH Habib Elena Imana

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make faith dear to our hearts make it adorable.

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Make us love Eman was a yen who feel called Obinna and adorn and beautify Eman faith and good deeds good writers deeds because they are inseparable from each other.

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And on the other hand, will carry Eli Ina and make us hate and dislike Al Kahf disbelief Alpha zoo rebelliousness and alessian Singing major or minor? Well, John Menard Rashidi in and make us among the rightly guided ones, beautiful God.

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So he Daya is from Allah. So a man say to the other guy who's committing sins, every time he would see him committing a sin, he would invite him to repent, to follow through the good deed and the guy would postpone, say one day, just pray for me, as many of us do. Don't you have an experience like that? Don't you have a family member or a colleague or a friend? Every time you advise him to be the fear in this area inshallah one day just make dua for me. Just pray for me, sister, why don't you wear hijab? Yeah, one day, when I go older, just make dua for me, just pray for me.

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He, when are you going to start praying one day, when are you going to start offering your a better and bigger theory when I retire, and so on. So there is somebody who keeps postponing, and the postponing is a sin by itself. But it doesn't give me any right to be judgmental of this person's faith, or faith.

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Somebody said, I bear witness that there is no God but Allah, that's it. He's a believer,

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as it appears to me,

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even if he's involved in major sins. This is the belief of the mainstream Muslims and the scholars of Arizona, the mainstream OMA

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that they do not take a person out of the form of Islam simply because of indulging into measure sins.

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And when this person saw him once, when the righteous so his friend who was a big sinner committing such a huge sin, he said by Allah Allah will never forgive you. Lie or fear Allah holy, Fuller.

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So he said wala he and when do you say Wallahi? Allah says Allah Tada Allah or.le A Manickam

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terbaru water taco what was the Hubei in us?

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So not everything she will law he I swear to Allah take an oath to the name of Allah this if it is something serious, or right, yes. Or to reconcile between opponents.

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And when you say what Allah He Allah will not bring the sun from the east for more. How do you know? How give you an access to know and to say Wallahi it's either you're making fun of Allah's Name and built in such oath, or you're certain and Allah has revealed to you and you're not a prophet, so you're not receiving any revelation. So it's neither one of the truth, then you are a liar.

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And a person who swears to Allah's Name, while lying knowingly will be immersed in hellfire, where you had to be learned. May Allah protect us again is that because of the brothers and sisters,

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the Almighty Allah in the other narration, sin the angel of death, and he taught the souls of both of them the super righteous and the super wicked.

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The one who's committed a lot of sins both died. And then when Allah is erected them and brought their souls before him, he said to the one who used to be very righteous, but judgmental of others

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mentality, Allah, He will give you an access to speak in my name,

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who gives you the power of attorney to speak on my behalf and to represent me, and to decide who will be sent to heaven and who will be sent to hellfire. This is such a great sin, it's equivalent to disbelief, it's actually disbelief.

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Because only Allah knows where where Allah mobiel more daddy, and he knows who are the truly righteous and guided ones.

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So when you say this person is going to Jannah, or this person is going to not you're intervening with Allah's business, you just simply crossed your territories,

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no one have the right to do so. One of the great companions of the Messenger of Allah by the name of man, may Allah be pleased with him,

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passed away and he was super righteous. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam went to check on him before the burial, and to pray for him and for the funeral. And he kills them between the eyes and he praised them and even shed tears out of grief. Over his death, he heard a woman in the house saying that I bear witness you will be from a hello Jana.

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Allah has forgiven you, and you will enter paradise. So in the midst of that, when the Prophet salallahu Salam is very much affected, and he's getting emotional, he turns to the woman and he says, and how do you know?

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And how do you know for certain that Allah has forgiven him and admitted him to paradise? Wait a minute, we need to have a stab with this. I saw you you're kissing him between the eyes and you're praying for him. So she said for men, which means if us men doesn't interject, I didn't the whole internet. He was such a very good person. And you just cried for his death. So why should I say that? He's from Allergan. He says Indeed, only Allah knows who is going to Jana and who's going to not. So be careful. Be careful. You don't say this person is going to hellfire because he saw him drinking.

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Some of the great scholars used to be alcoholic, and were involved in fornication and

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wasn't in that highway robbers. Have you heard about AlphaGo Illyria? May Allah be pleased with him? He used to be like that. Okay, and many people so what happened to them?

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They repented. Allah has guided them, and they sought knowledge. And he became very well versed in the Quran and in the Sunnah. And they became very righteous, and people started learning from them. How could this happen? What do you mean, how could this happen? Only companions before Islam were pagans,

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or the sahaba. Before they took shahada, they used to bow down to items. They used to worship stones, generally speaking, and they were involved in the evil activities that the American pagans or the Arab independent Salah were involved in. Yeah, they have some good traits, but they didn't recognize the Oneness of Allah, which is a worst thing. And some were involved in murder, and some of them have murdered some of the believers.

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You know about Rashi

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she is the one who asked us to nated al Hamza is now the mortality Prophet Muhammad's uncle

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cyfle al Hamza Asad Allah. And then what happened is was she in hellfire or she accepted Islam, he took shahada and he defended Islam on the battlefield and he fought against Musa Ulema and his army and he's the one who killed more Salem, al Qaeda, with the same spear that he killed Hamza with

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or you're gonna say,

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is is still in hellfire. So stop being judgmental of others and never say to anyone, Allah will never forgive you that sin. So Allah brought him back to life and he judged both of them and he said to the sinner,

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whom the good person said that but Allah Allah will never forgive you and you will enter hellfire. He said I forgiven him.

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Can anyone intervene and interfere with Allah's business? No.

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So is it I have forgiven him? And as for you haven't accepted any of your good deeds your rent

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was about to Hamelech and I've rendered all your good deeds fruitless because

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The person may have a corrupt belief that would ruin all the good deeds, the good, right his deeds are supposed to crown the correct belief. And that's why there are many non believers who do very good deeds, but those good deeds will benefit them in the life of this world. They will not benefit them as any credit towards interest Jana, because the NIA sincere intention of doing this for the sake of Allah was in there. So be careful brothers and sisters. That was the last Hadith in chapter number 273 Babauta Hidemi, the Korean muslimin

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maybe 20 years ago,

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when I think I shared this story with you. So an indo Pak lady in the Haram

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and she was making dua, she was supplicating.

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And when she was supplicating, I was doing tawaf. You know, her hijab

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slid back. So she was not wearing the proper hijab. Some of the hair was showing

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a young men, like myself very active in enjoying what is good in forbidding what is evil. And this was a hump.

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I spearheaded, and I went to the lady to tell her to cover up her head and her arm and this is, as I approached her, she was making dry up, and she was closing her eyes, but in tears.

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She was crying excessively,

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to the extent that I hated to interrupt her supplication. And I ended up crying myself. I ended up learning from her. So she wasn't a sinner or anything, maybe she didn't pay attention. She didn't pay attention.

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So who would judge Allah subhanaw taala? Yes, it is my it is my role. And it is my duty to enjoy in what is God forbid? What is evil, nicely and kindly. And then Allah subhanaw taala is the one who will judge whether you are doing this with a good intention or not, and whether you're doing this deliberately or not.

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And in the hadith of Abdullah, have numerous rule. The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, I swear to the one in whose hand is my soul. And man may live his entire life or a woman obviously,

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doing all the wicked acts.

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So they are doomed to *.

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Until there is only an arm's length between them and enter in hellfire.

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Then the Almighty Allah will have mercy on them and they will change and they will repent so that they will enter heaven and they will be among the dwellers of Jannah. How did this happen? It's his will.

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So only when you set your foot in Jannah he can make fun of the people of Ghana, but since you yourself you haven't made it.

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We used to have some shoe.

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One chair, one scholar who used to teach everyone and he's very senior to all the shoe.

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Then what happened to him. He was tested in his Deen. He changed he quit the Quran, sunnah, he quit, he shaved his beard and he started wearing strange clothes. And he started attacking the new those who are religiously committed and once he was caught coming out of a movie theater watching a movie which would be classified as 21 plus.

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And when he was asked on camera,

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he explained that because this is drama, and the drama requires to show some * and so on. So this is for the sake of drama. You know, it's mind blowing.

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Wallah Wallahi I couldn't believe myself. This person people used to ask him, shall we listen to the sheriff? Shall we take the Fackler from this person, and he himself slipped off the road completely and went astray May Allah guide him and guide all of us to what is best. What happened to him 1000s of hours online lectures, audio and video lectures, where he himself was so judgmental of other speakers and Shu DUA and scholars and telling the audience you should not be listening to the shift. You should not be learning from this guy because he's not on the on the sooner he's not on the one hand. He was his trousers. He wears trousers. He was warning the audience against

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Some of the scholars not to listen to him because he was seen wearing trousers.

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And if someone's clothed beneath the ankles or not up to the shirt, then this person is totally of the match what happened to this guy? He left all of that Subhanallah we still ask Allah Almighty to guide him and bring him back to the fold of Islam. And we ask Allah subhanaw taala to keep us steadfast on the three paths. And this is a very serious warning for all of us. And they explains why the Prophet peace be upon him used to awfully say Oh, Allah is the one who changes the hearts keep our hearts firm on your path on your straight path or in your religion.

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And that will lead us to the following chapter, which is chapter number 274.

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Bebo nahi. And Ill Holly Shama Tati, Bill Mosley, me,

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Paul Atala

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and salted Hydra chapter number 49. area number 10.

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The Almighty Allah says in Naml mean guna if welcome for us, Lee, who by Hubei in fry equal mu at Temple Law, Hala, I like to hammer on

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the believers or but brothers

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so that he can cycle between your brothers and fear Allah keep your duty to Allah

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in order to be eligible for His mercy.

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We studied this a couple of times before. And we said in ama in the Arabic language is known as the two houses in war passed. Yeah, neither believers should be and should behave like real brothers, blood related biological brothers, from the same parents fall brothers and sisters.

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I'm talking about the ordinary brothers and sisters who love each other who love for their siblings what they love for themselves. Were protective of their siblings of their cousins of the nephews and nieces. So if this guy whom you don't even know his name, but he he's a Muslim hollows, his he's really your brother. She's really your sister, and so on.

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And the possibility of fighting is there. All the time. Since the beginning, the two sons of Adam fought and one of them killed his own brother.

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What do I like him never other than a demo reel hockey, if called Radha perubahan. Fair to cook billon in a hottie Hema wala muta, Cabell mineral fo kala effort. Tulum Nica, Cora in knanaya combat, minimal therapy, chapter number five in Surah ADA Allah Almighty tells us how Adam had two sons,

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and one of them killed his own rather.

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So why wait until we reach this level, we may differ, we may disagree, we may fight, we may 1 fight, but we should not exceed the limit. We should understand that. You know, it happens between the husband and wife, the brothers and the sisters, the uncles and and so on. So based on that Allah Almighty said you should behave as brothers and the community whenever they see a dispute or a fight between money or any of minion Asli who Boehner How come you can cycle between your brothers, you don't say is none of my business. I have nothing to do there but he's your neighbor. And he's Muslim. So he has two rights upon you. You should intervene. You should try to reconcile. Some

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people say if I ever try I only get hurt. I would rather sit back and watch. This is not the attitude of Elmo meaning for our sleepover in a hallway como tech Allah and this is a warning from Allah and if you don't, then you will not God fearing.

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If you want to be eligible for Allah's Mercy attack Allah Allah Allah come to hormone reconcile between your brothers and sisters, in case of dispute, not show pleasure, joy and happiness whenever something bad afflicts them.

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The following area is of Surah to know about 90 Chapter number 24 Surah a nor the Almighty Allah says in

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dunya. Well, FIRA

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wala we are

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to Tala moon.

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Indeed, those who like alpha Heisha in morality,

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then this acts to be spread among the believers. For them, Allah Almighty have prepared a painful punishment, not only in the Hereafter, but in the dunya and in the hereafter as well. And Allah knows, and you know not to be careful. Even if you do that, in the privacy of your house or your room,

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you create an account a fake account in order to spit in morality,

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or to disclose the secrets of another Muslim or another person, then you're entitled for this punishment, both in the dunya and in the hereafter. Why? Because you're one of those who like immorality to spread, and to be publicized among the believers to expose them to expose their sins.

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We differentiated before between a person who did commit the sin once or twice or occasionally, versus a person who brags about the sins. Okay?

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The person who brags about their sins, the punishment is doubled. But I as a Muslim, I'm not supposed to split the fascia

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and talk about it.

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fallston a video about child molestation. Well, that should be given to the authorities, so the person will be punished. But what is the fault of the child boy or a girl to be exposed and that would ruin the future? Think before you act, and understand that Allah Almighty has deregulated our lives, everything, business transaction, husband and wife relationship, marriage and divorce, education, to the extent of how to clean up after answering the call of nature, how to sit while answering the call of nature, how to eat, how to drink and so on. So ask before you act, lest you commit something really bad. And you make a claim that it's with a good intention. You wanted to

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expose the bad person but you spread that fascia and Allah says in an ad you know hey Bona, and she Alpha Heisha to fillerina Manu Lahoma le Moon feed dunya Surah wala who you are and to net on the moon. It's time to take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a couple of minutes please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Oh, phone numbers should appear on the bottom of the screen and they are as follows code 002 Then 01095185170. Alternatively, code 00201 double 05469323 the WhatsApp numbers Area code 00134780600 to five and finally records user 1-361-489-1503.

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Sister Mohammed from Canada salaam Aleykum is our first caller today. We

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are Anakin salaam What are you doing? I'm doing great on hamdulillah thank you for asking sister or Mohammed go ahead with your question

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about the wishing. Let's say your sister is her wedding anniversary. Is the wish or not. I know celebration is not is not good or maybe haram. But how about wishing like wedding anniversary? Or happy birthday for children just to tell them Today's your birthday? Or to give them a gift or to do something but not celebration? Is it also haram? No, it's not haram to somebody happy happy week, happy day. happy occasion. Okay. And the restriction is concerning imitating non Muslims in their festivals and celebrations.

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And we say because we as Muslims have our role model. The greatest role model ever is Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, and we all believe that his birth indeed is the greatest birth ever. And Subhan Allah Allah is

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never brought to his attention or ask him or ask any of his companions to throw a party for him or to celebrate his birth or to commemorate his death or to have an anniversary for this or that. So we are as Muslims, we're very strict in this regard. We try to follow the guidance and the lifestyle of Prophet Muhammad, Salah Levana yourself, those who decide to do whatever they do, but if I claim now Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah his Messenger SallAllahu sallam, I'm trying to imitate Him in everything. And definitely my my birth is,

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by any mean not any valuable than the birth of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, or any of his companions. So why should they consider this something very special and to celebrate every year, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam didn't do it. And when he passed away, the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam was not celebrated by his companions in that fashion. They celebrated him on every single moment in their lives by imitating him in the Sunnah of eating, drinking, sleeping, having an intimate relationship Marriage Divorce Hola. In in trying to follow His guidance in every aspect of life. This is the true celebration and commemoration of the birth of those whom you love. On the

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other hand,

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when you're somebody any happy occasion, as long as it is not a religious occasion for non Muslims who worship other than Allah it is okay.

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Thank you, Mohammed from Canada.

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Sister, Emma Tula from Neverland.

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Yes, please, shake Salam Alikum walaikum salam or

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I got a divorce. Last year, I am 40 years old, and

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I have no children. I have my own income. And my

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my question is, is there an obligation to remarry? Because I find it Yeah, I don't know how

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to give meaning to my life. Now. So my question is, is there an obligation for me as a Muslim woman to remarry Thank you, um, Atala marriage in Islam under goes

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one of the five

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or if I may face it may undergo any of the five rulings. So, maybe the hook for you is different than for me different than for my sister different than anyone else, it could be obligatory for certain people. And it could be mere permissible or recommended for others. It could be even haram. In some cases.

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The five Islamic rulings vary from obligatory to haram obligatory forbidden and in between after the obligatory recommended

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and then in the middle, permissible and then before the Haram disliked.

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So let me give you an example. A young man or a young woman will find a very strong desire in having sexual relations.

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And they have the means their own source of income, they have a place to live in. And there is a fear that if they don't get married, they may and knowledge will slip into an illicit relationship. Such people marriage for them is obligatory. You have the means and you are at marriageable age, go ahead and get married.

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Some people who devoted the lives of seeking knowledge and they don't have an issue, they don't have a problem if they don't get married. The third doesn't even close the mind. Some of the Muslim scholars never got married if no Tamia for innocence. So marriage is recommended, generally speaking, because then abuse Allah Allah Allah Salam encouraged us to get married.

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And it may be permissible if I have the means and it's just like everyone else, I want to form a family and have a good wife, I have a good spouse and I have a children okay. It could be this like, if it is going to affect somebody else's life negatively

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or there is a fear that you may not be fair and it will be haram if you marry somebody who is forbidden for you to marry or you know for certain

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Not that you're going to affect them negatively like somebody who has STDs.

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Somebody who is

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providing false informations while proposing to another person. So when she marries him she will find a totally different person. This is Hara. I'm just giving you some examples. You check your condition and compare it to the five different rulings as I mentioned earlier, and what is generally speaking recommended is if you have the means and you have the opportunity to get married, masha Allah, go ahead and get married, and try to avoid falling in the wrong person so that you won't get divorced again. May Allah make it easy for you, sister amatola To find the life mate and the right spouse who will be also your spouse in the hereafter in Jannah. Inshallah, Santa Monica.

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Fatima from India Salam Alikum

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out in my wallet calm Salam rahmatullah wa barakato

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I'm Amina you're me mana you fought in a sister Correct?

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Yeah, masha Allah Go ahead. Amina how are you?

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handler, you want to ask a question today?

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Yes to Question Two Mashallah. Go ahead with the first question Amira.

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Can we listen to me?

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Okay, your next question.

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Your second question

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what is your

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okay? No problem when you remember. Give me a call back. Amina and say hi to Fatima.

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Well, how many?

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How many?

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Okay, thank you. Amina and Fatima from India. Can we listen to Islamic songs? machines with humming? Yes. With the drum? Yes, that is permissible. Okay. Not with the regular musical instruments as salaam alaikum.

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Yeah, here from Kenya Salam Alikum.

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On come Salam.

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Yeah, here. Welcome to Hoda TV. Go ahead. What is your question?

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My question is can a woman be a caddy?

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Okay, any other questions?

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No, only that one. Okay. Thank you. You're here.

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There are certain

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judgments, which may require a woman and in this case, it will be permissible for her but as a chief judge, or to judge in every case, no, because there are cases where women will not be involved in witnessing or discussing and Nabil Salalah. Anya Selim forbade men,

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men from judging while they're hungry while they're angry. Why because it affects their decision. So if a woman was to judge between women in their issues,

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in addition to what we mentioned earlier, there are certain times of the month if a woman is not in her menopause yet, where she will be experiencing

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or the symptoms of the menses, which may affect the mood or keep the sister under certain pressure, and that's why she should avoid making a decision like that during this time. A Salam Alikum

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Ejaz from the USA

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As salam Alaikum shake, this is Dr. Ijaz Ahmed from USA. Salam aleikum, the Tunisia's Welcome to Hooda. TV Go ahead.

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Alright, I have a question regarding marriage.

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Those of us who are living in Western countries like USA, how do we find a righteous Muslim wife who really wants to please Allah and not involved in fashion and you know, Western

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The other part of the question is

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is it advisable to marry a non Muslim who wants to convert and maybe she will become a good Muslim maybe she will not. So she doesn't want to take the risk

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by your cushions Dr. Aegis

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living in the West and particularly in North America and more specifically in the USA, masha Allah we have plenty of massage and and Islamic centers. In Houston, Texas alone, we have over 120 Islamic centers and some of whom are huge, masha Allah. So in every,

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every direction in every location, you will find an Islamic center or a machine and there is a main center. So if you get in touch with the local Imam

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and if they have a matrimonial service, you look into those girls who would like to get married there that may help. I would advise you to marry through the local Imam or the Committee of the Islamic center. Because I'm sure that a lot of people, you many people used to come to me and say my daughter is measurable age. And if you have somebody in mind, provided is a good person decent, religiously committed, making a good earning, you know, if she's like your daughter, she's like your sister find somebody for her. So I used to have a long list of girls at marriageable age looking for righteous men, right your spouse's. So

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go to the local Imam, I'm sure he will be able to assist you in this regard.

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The Horizon magazine used to have a weekly matrimonial advertisement. But I'm not too much into marrying through known the other person online or any matrimonial service that is virtual. I've got to know everything about the family reality. The neighbors collect some data and informations how are they the Muslim community with the rest of people are the troublemakers the history of the family? This is very important actually. Ages as for your question, marine Anna Muslim, even if she's a hero Kitab I would highly, highly recommend that you should never do that.

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Man, vast majority of the cases, the end up with a very painful experience. And as you know that we Muslims are very keen to have children. So from the first year, first couple months, the wife will get pregnant hopefully.

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And then when she delivers, God forbid if you have any dispute, she automatically have the right over the custody which means now you're torn apart because you see in your son or daughter not only not practicing or your daughter is having a boyfriend or the son is having a girlfriend but also leaving Islam altogether. And you don't have a say Okay, so there's something there yet to keep in mind. I understand that Allah says while more so on our two minute minute you will Masana to Minella Xena Otto Kitab min Cabela is permissible, but there are certain conditions which must be met.

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So if you have a chance to marry from the local community

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through the Imam, the any of the board members of the community, this is my advice. Otherwise if you have family back home and whenever you visit you check out the different sisters who are into marrying and traveling and living in the States. Then in sha Allah, this is one of the two options are best in your case may Allah subhanaw taala make it easy for you to find the rightful spouse Amin

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Sami from the USA SLM Alikum Sammy

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Malik was slavery Kate How are you here? How have you been? I'm doing great and hamdulillah Anu

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from the from the ship. Just wanted to ask if we take regular person, a layman or maybe even a new convert. What books to read? Would you recommend to gain a strong knowledge in the deen

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and love which teachings from which

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For example, modern scholars like share handle money refer for love or she has to be mad you know, from their teachings, which books should read or not follow just like a locker is no yeah kobada Luffy as you know that the religious knowledge is categorized into the science of belief, Akita. For those who do not use the verdicts, rulings, the Sierra the biography of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and also his companions,

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the sciences of the Quran, so every science I can recommend some books for you. But for a layperson, I wouldn't advise them that they should read on their own mashallah everything is now available audio and video. So through a professional and reliable scholar, he will be best to study any of these books if they have a series of study in the books. So when I give an example I don't mean that I'm one of the scholars but what I'm saying is it's been Masha Allah several years, what if supplementary Abu Salah Hain and this is a wonderful book, whether for lemon or for educated people. So, if you have a series of write your scholar to explain the tafsir the Sierra the Arcada stick to

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work. So this way you can be reading there is a beautiful book which is called Alpha Coleman Yes sir.

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The easy fact it's a group of the scholars one single volume, it will give you a fuck in a very simple form. This I highly recommend

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tafsir you can read that a CEO of Chef Saudi and it is available in English and it is brief and to the point of excluding all the you know, Israeli lights and the weird narrations

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study Abu Saleh, in

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the in English the book of the provision, the hereafter, which is an abbreviation of Zed omad. What if Nakaya may Allah have mercy on him?

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For the Sierra, we can also read a summary which is one single volume or a Hakan Maktoum or the CL network by Sofia Rockman. Worker 40. May Allah have mercy on him? Arcada a highly recommend the

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volumes of share Dr. Omar Suleiman al Ashkar may Allah have mercy on him. And they're available in English belief in Allah belief in the angels belief in the messengers. Each article of faith has one volume BarakAllahu li

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ya hear from Kenya when he asked about can a woman be judge?

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And the answer you It's also worth sharing with the viewers that what I presented was the opinion of Imam Abu Hanifa may Allah have mercy on him? Who says yes, a woman can be a judge in anything other than God sauce and who dude

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Kasasa which is equality and punishment, including the capital punishment, and alpha dude you know the punishment for theft for adultery for but business disputes, couple of disputes, marriage and divorce he says yes.

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While the vast majority of the scholars Malik was Shafi handle out of the view No, a woman cannot be judged. So I presented the opinion of Imam Abu Hanifa may Allah have mercy on him? May the Almighty Allah guide us to at his best. May he teach us what we do know. May He keep us all steadfast on his straight path a holy holy had our stuff really welcome. Or salam ala ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Salam wa salam aleikum, wa Rahmatullah Ibaka

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Our God is the greatest

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glory to Him.

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Illness to be the best, and give his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best, and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about an empire that we're shipping comes fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad or dyes are shaping cause fire and stones selling their best were the cheapest

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