Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #629 Prohibition Of Rejoicing Over Another’s Trouble

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of protecting oneself from miscalculations, shaming, and the need for proper documentation. They stress the importance of not false accusations and the need for behavior behavior behavior behavior behavior behavior behavior behavior behavior. They also touch on the use of "has" in Islam, its meaning, and the importance of weighing the benefit risk. The speakers emphasize the importance of following Islam and considering local regulations. They also mention the prevalence of violent protests and the use of deadly drugs.
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to be the best and give his best to religion to

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a Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Anna, we almost have our back my dear viewers. Welcome to another Live edition of Guardians of the pious and today's episode is number 629 in the seas of Rio to Salahi by Imam nawawi Yahia initiative and Noah we may Allah had mercy on him. And we will continue with chapter number 274 second episode in the chapter and there's only one Hadith to discuss. Then we move on to the next chapter in sha Allah. What was the chapter about I hope you guys do remember, it is Babel Navy and Ilhan Hari shamatha T bill Muslim. The prohibition of rejoicing over another's trouble showing joy and delight

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at the suffering of others is known as Shemitah. And this is forbidden.

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So in Hadith number 15 177.

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And we'll see later Adnan Ascari or of the Allahu Anhu called

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Allah rasool Allah He is sallallahu alayhi wa sallam left over here is Shama. tattly, heka Farhana, who Allah who is authentic hadith is collected by Imams and MIDI.

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You should not express pleasure at the misfortune of your brother, Yanni, your Muslim brothers and your Muslim sisters. List. The Almighty Allah should bestow mercy upon him, relieve him from his mother's misfortune, and then make you suffer from a misfortune.

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This is in order to stablish, sympathy, love, affection, compassion among the members of the same Oma. So when one is suffering, even if you do have an issue with him or with her, you should not be happy, you should not show your joy and delight over the suffering of others. Rather, if you don't have sympathy, and if you don't have enough faith to pray for him or her, then at least be quiet.

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The default setup from an Islamic perspective is

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when you see somebody who is been

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in trouble, or suffering of any misfortune, whether disease sickness poverty, his house got burned, he got divorced, one of his sons fail any misfortune that afflicts a person, you should understand that all of us as human beings, we are being subjected to these some trials, and it can happen to any of us at any moment. So when you think about yourself being afflicted with the same, then you should say the following, Allah make it easy for him, or for her, or Allah remove his or her suffering and give them better than what they lost. That shows you're a human being and you're a true Muslim. Then in order to protect yourself from a similar misfortune, the Messenger of Allah

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said to recite the following dua hamdulillah Allah they are Fannie Mae teller can be of Ebola Annie, Allah Kathy remain healthy of Lila, you say that to yourself, not in front of a person who is afflicted, or been

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hit with a misfortune. You do say you say Alhamdulillah thanks and praises to Allah you thank Allah for what for protecting New for keeping you safe against what he has afflicted others with. And he have made me superior to many of his living creatures Alhamdulillah he, Allah the IFA, if any member of tele cabbie he will for daleney Allah Cathy remain healthy of de la. So the messenger of Allah peace be upon him said if you say the supplication upon seeing somebody who has been afflicted or going through any misfortune, whatever has afflicted him, you will be protected against it. It will not touch you. You will not be afflicted with something similar to it.

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Inside this application, sincerely from your home,

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Heart, then you're protected. And also you pray for others

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to ask Allah to relieve their suffering,

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to remove their pain and their misfortune, and that shows that you are a good person, you are a true Muslim. And meanwhile an angel will be standing next to you saying Amin, O Allah accept his dua, where Allah can be missed. An O Allah, give him likewise protect him, likewise,

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relieve him from his suffering likewise.

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Some people

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when they see one of those who are annoying the believers or hurting them,

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been afflicted or have died,

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then they say you should not show joy and delight, his death, you should not observe Shemitah now the word Shemitah is a pure an Arabic word, which means when you show joy and delight when you're happy and delighted over the misfortune of others. Is it like all the time, when someone who's an enemy to Allah to his messenger who have annoyed the believers who have heard them dies or is paralyzed or is having

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In this case, the believers are happy because this person's harm has been stopped. This person's affliction to others has been seized. Well May the fraud hormone be known be in Australia. So this is an exception when an enemy to Allah and his messenger when an oppressor when a wrongdoer is afflicted, or has died, and he feel better, you feel relieved, because this oppressor has expired. This is not Chemita, which is forbidden. We're talking about how you should deal with your Muslim brothers and sisters, Baraka lofi.

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The next chapter is chapter number 275. Bible the Hareem Bonnyville and service beta t feva. Here to shatter

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the prohibition of accusing or doubting one's lineage.

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As you know that one of the five necessities which is lamb,

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Valley vow to God preserve and protect is the progeny or the lineage.

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The five necessities are the religion

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and the intellect or the mind, the life, the progeny and the property. And Allah has stated all the laws and legislations which are required to protect these five necessities. If you dare to violate any form, there is a severe punishment for this violation, whether here or in the Hereafter. Among that is the progeny or the lineage. So Allah subhanho wa Taala stated that falsely accusing chaste women have an act of adultery or illicit relationship and failing to present for male witnesses is an act which is known as Karth. And it is punishable in this dunya and the punishment is very severe. It's stated in surah. Two more well, Levine

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And number four shutter number 24. So to know the light as for those who falsely accused the chest women, and then they fail to bring for male just Muslim witnesses, that they have seen this man or this woman, I will the man and the woman having a complete intimate relationship and committing fornication. Then if he fails to bring the witnesses and it was me a claim. Firstly, do home femenina jilda What is the punishment ad floods in public

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Flug them at lashes

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while at Taco Bell, hula hoops Shahadat, and EBITDA. And their shahada is waived their shahada, the testimony is not accepted in any contract in business contract, what in marriage contract or in any act, because they are not honest, they are not trustworthy. So their shahada does not accept it. And before Allah such people are labeled as fair silcoon rebellious, unless if the repent and do good writers deeds and Allah is reformed, alright. So according to this, if Allah has guarded the honor

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of every Muslim, that no one should falsely accuse another Muslim with an act of illicit relationship. And if he does, then they are required to present the four witnesses and if they fail, then the punishment is to be flogged 80 lashes. protecting and preserving the progeny is also required, requires that facilitating marriage and removing any obstacles on their way of getting married, and also commanding men and women to lower their gaze, and not to have meetings alone, because Satan will be the third and to distance themselves from anything which may lead to an act to fornication. Allah Almighty says, well, the caribou Xena in who can affair he shut them was said

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Do not go near adultery. So do not go near adulty do not date do not go out together do not stay with a woman who's not lawful for you alone in a private place.

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Do not do and undertake whatever is going to lead to having a privacy with a woman, which may lead to an act of fornication later, caribou don't go near it.

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Some people

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some secular people who accuse the religiously committed one of over reacting of overdoing things of being over protective. We tell them

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you guys are very smart. You know how to go online and find out the number of cases whether in the medical community in the law firms in the churches

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in the very civilized societies. Whenever the doctor and the nurse alone, whenever the doctor and the patient alone the lawyer and decline alone, the President of the United States and his secretary are in turn alone

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because this is a human nature. So the Almighty Allah prescribes for us what suits our human nature and what treats our ailments and what protects us against any Phaeton or Tryon.

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So Rama, retinol, Hatha Bharat, the Allahu Anhu said, You should never be alone with a woman who's not lawful for you. She's neither your wife, nor is she related to you as a Muharram then you should never be alone with her in a private place. Even if you're teaching her the Quran.

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You're a Quranic teacher, and you go to a lady at home or a girl at home to teach a Quran and no one is around that is not permitted. This is not permissible in Islam. So these laws legislations regulations in order to protect every Muslim from falling into any illicit app, whether willingly or by accident.

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Then on the other hand, if a person there's even joking, to accuse any person's honor, in this respect, there is a severe punishment in his face. In his farewell speech, Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, after asking his companions who are over 100,000, during the Hajj. He asked him Which day is this? Which month is this? Which city is this? And when they said Allah and His Messenger, know best, he said, Isn't that the day of Arafah? Isn't it? The city? It was actually there a day, isn't it? The city of Mecca is in the month of April hit. And they said yes, yes, yes. So he said Indeed. You blogged? Your Honor.

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and your properties are as sacred as the Day of the Day of hunch. They are Mahajan, Akbar the day, the month of the Hedgehog, which is a second month and as sacred as the sacredness of the city of Makkah. And while it is not permissible for anyone to attack another's honor,

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especially when you don't have a proof, or you will be punished for that. Allah subhanho wa Taala said in surah

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chapter number 33 and number 58. Well Lavina Moon al musona Swanage when the zonal meaning I will move Nina TV MCDA, Cebu Falco, Gugu

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Islam, Bina, when that means and those who falsely accused and harm they believe in men and women,

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for something that they have not done,

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they have not committed indeed, they have earned both Dan and slender, why is the men mobian And they have committed a heinous sin.

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No one wants to put himself in trouble by falsely accusing any man or any woman with anything that they have not done any reality, even

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if they're not true, so they're only sharing and repeating and echoing what others are saying.

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So as you know that everyone is innocent until proven guilty. When in the news, they say somebody was caught for theft, for taking drugs for whatever. Why do you share the message? Why do you spread it with others? It is not confirmed yet. Now before he is actually invited and judged. And even in this case, if I have no business with him, and it is of no use to share such news, then you're better off without doing so. The following Hadith in the chapter Hadees number 5015 7815 78.

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The hadith is a sound Hadith collected by a Muslim and an Ebihara era The Allahu Anhu caught fire Rasul Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is Nerney fineness he Houma be him cough.

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Allah of Tamil fineness IV, one year had to Ireland may yet

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have fallen off in nursery when near Hottel Alma yet

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a farm of innocent means to

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defaming and speaking evil,

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of a person's lineage

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and wailing over the dead.

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defaming and speaking evil of a person's lineage

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is similar to cough. But any act, which we study and we learn that there is a serious warning again is that it is similar to cough or it is cough, it is cool from donor cough. It is not the cuff, which takes the person out of the fold of Islam. It is not the kind of cough, which means the person eligible to abide eternal in hellfire. So what kind of coffee is it? It's as bad as cough.

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It is as bad as rejecting the message of Allah to His Messenger peace be upon him, it's terrible, is very hideous the test and stay away from it. This is the meaning of that. These two evil qualities, what the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam warned us against and he said are similar took off, for this belief is to defame somebody's lineage, or to doubt that he is the son of so and so. You have no clue. You're doubting? You don't know. So this is such an evil act. And if the person fails to prove that, then he should be punished with the punishment of alcohol to be flogged in the lashes. As mentioned earlier in anumber, four of Surah

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a nor chapter number 24. The second is an Yahoo Alabama yet

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and near Hartwell and many touches wailing and not just wailing. It is a

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combination, the word near Han Arabic, a combination of whaling and acting in a certain way, which shows an objection to Allah's decree.

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This is also such a terrible deed.

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And Abbey, Nabil sallallahu alayhi. Salam once

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was visiting the graveyard. And he passed by a woman who is wailing for the loss of her son. So he reminded her, this is a decree of Allah and all of us will die. And he said, The AMA Tila, it tequila house very, or the servant of Allah, the female servant of Allah, fear Allah and the patient. So she was very aggressive with the Messenger of Allah. And she said, leave me alone. You haven't been suffering, as much as I'm suffering. You haven't been afflicted with a calamity like mine. So leave me alone.

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When later on, she knew that it was the Messenger of Allah, she left everything and she ran to apologize to him, she went to his house, and she stood on his doorstep and saying that I'm sorry, I didn't recognize you. So we learn from that, and near her or waiting for the death of any person, a loved person or a relative or just to compliment somebody is a major sin. But does this take the person out of the fold of Islam? No. Does adultery committing adultery, take an adulterer or an adulterous out of the fold of Islam, even if they do it many times. No. Does alcoholic become a non Muslim for drinking all the time? No. So when does any of these sins take a person out of the fold

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of Islam by doing instead learn by perceiving any of these prohibitions as lawful? I don't care what the Quran says. So this person becomes an unlisted he rejected the message, right? So the only thing which will take a Muslim out of the fold of Islam, if he to denounce she, he or she denounced the Oneness of Allah or the message of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, or to object to any of the commandment of the of the Almighty Allah in the Quran, which has been confirmed. This is an order and a command from Allah, or MA normal minute Dini with Dawa it is necessary for every ordinary Muslim to know. Every Muslim learns and must learn that five daily prayers is a must. Every Muslim

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Arab or non Arab young girl must know that fasting during Ramadan is felt likewise had once in the lifetime is for adultery is haram. Drinking is haram. So these informations are no secret and you don't have to have a degree in religion to learn that this is haram and this is halal respect to these major issues. That's why the Scholars called him Mara Norman Mina Dini Dora, it is necessary for every Muslim to learn about these informations.

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So when a person

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believes in all of that acknowledges all of that, but he's weak, he is a sinner. He is lustful, but he believes in the Oneness of Allah. Yes, he is a sinner and he will be punished for that, but he's still Muslim. All of that was in order to explain the meaning of the word home, be him cough.

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And the word Kufri here is not the cuff which takes a person out of the fold of Islam.

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So now we have finished also, chapter number 275, who studied only one eye, and one Hadith to begin the following chapter 276 Inshallah, take a short break, and inshallah we'll be back in a couple of minutes please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back my dear viewers, our phone numbers as I'm seeing them, they will also appear on the bottom of the screen and they are as follows area code zero to 10 01095185170. Alternatively, record 002 Then 01, double 05469323 and the WhatsApp

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Sr Nafeesa from Denmark

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Yeah, I have one question. Go ahead, please.

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Yeah, it can a wife B. Can a pregnant women take one to the last one time?

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Well, the thesis cushion can person divorce his wife while she's pregnant. Am I correct Nafisa? Isn't this your question? Yes. The answer is yes, it is permissible. And Paula thought I cannot believe and Talaq is valid in this case. So the lateral fair is one that felt well now we're talking about the Hukm of divorce and during pregnancy, there is another Massara which is to Tala X or three two locks in the same sitting luck when somebody says you're divorced, divorced, divorced, or I divorce you three times.

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Ignore Tamia says this divorce more than once in the same city counts as one Talak. And this is easier and better respect of protecting the marriage relationship between the couples as many people do to anger. They just want to confirm the Talaq not actually initiate another dialogue. So if he was in the same city, and the person said more than once, Todd, Todd Todd, three divorces in the same city that counts as one BarakAllahu

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Sara Monica

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Sara Muhammad from the case a

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Alaikum salaam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh How are you all hamdulillah I'm doing fine. Thank you for asking Ahmed Mohammed Go ahead. Okay. Yeah, I need your assistance through my journey apart.

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Inshallah Allah

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I will be joining my Hamler from Judah and my residents of the month Okay. I will live we live in the ma'am on fifth of the HA HA inshallah. And we were told earlier this year we'll have either to do Kieron or if right when we reach we'll do on a thoughtful Kudo. Oh my question is where will I take my intention? And he asked me cut to Geeta or I will have wait until one seven. No as a matter of fact, since you're coming from the man then add them your cart while in the flight you would say a bake Allahumma own Murata noir had because you will be doing both if this is your intention to do the Umrah and had Clara you don't wait until you arrive to get the rather from your appointed

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Meerkat. Okay sister Omar Mohammed.

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And I was really hoping that somebody would pray for me that I can do Hajj this year. Like all day as I'm driving or going here and there my mind is preoccupied and dreaming of going to perform 100 This year it is very sad I cannot do it. But maybe once that will be accepted. May Allah Almighty accept from all of us. A Salam aleikum.

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Mohammed from India Salam aleikum.

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Wa Alaikum salaam wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Sheikh How are you Sheikh Alhamdulillah. Mohammed? Go ahead.

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Jake. I have two questions. Sheikh Yes. My first question is, I want to know who is the murderer of Bethel hatch from Mauritania? Is he a person from the athletes to now want to Gemma and my second question is Sheikh Sheikh Can you give me some tips on how I can find a practicing spouse? Is there any online matrimony Halal matrimony that you can suggest me? Thank you so much. Thank you, Mohammed for your first question. I'm not aware of it. And I'm not aware of the person. So I cannot answer your question. Your second question.

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I wouldn't really recommend Marian via matrimonial websites rather, India is such a huge Muslim community everywhere in India. So through spreading the word within the family within that

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live within the city, there are a lot of girls, we hear that they are at marriageable age. They're beautiful belonging to beautiful families, but they're waiting for the right person. This is my personal recommendation. I do not hide. I'm not a big fan of the matrimonial websites, especially for people who have big communities. They have big families, and they can simply find out physically about the right person, go and visit them at home, and so on. That's my recommendation for you. Okay, Mohammed. And I like to also add,

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that Marian is not only Marian and individual, Marian is joining two families, not two individuals, not a husband and wife rather than a whole family of the groom and the whole family of the bride. So it is very important for a person who's about to get married, to check out the whole family, the parents, the siblings, the uncles,

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in order to make sure that this is going to be my good family, likewise for the girl and her family As salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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We have Omar from United Arab Emirates. Welcome to weather TV, go ahead, Omar. Yes, I have Oh, my God, since I got forbidding evil and enjoying good. If I'm going to play to football, most of my friends were short, which is not going to show everyone that they should cover their while playing football. For guy you could only tell it to my boss friend, I answered your question before about playing football. But irrespective of the hour, there is a difference of opinion the Outre of a male of a Muslim male according to the more correct view from the level to the knees. But some of the scholars due to some references perceived the fights are not the hour. So is it permissible for me

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to play in a team where my teammates not covering their thighs wearing short shorts, and I'm wearing my three quarters which are covered in the my knees? Yes, it is permissible for you and you're not blameworthy for others choices in this case as salaam alaikum.

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Abu Aisha from Gambia As salam o Allah and Kuma guasha.

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Go ahead.

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Come Thank you so much. What is your question about Asia, please?

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Yeah, thank you very much. Yes. Yeah. What I have to say thank you very much for the audit.

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I'm very happy

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at this

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about interest

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if you receive interest in your telephone,

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what can we use that money for?

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If you receive interest in which transaction you said, from

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from pension funds, you know, normally when you work with the idea of taking a part of your money or

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something like that, so for example, after retirement money, the 401 K that what?

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It well in North America, they call it the 401 K, which is the retirement plan.

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Is this what you mean?

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I didn't get your point. I was saying that if you're

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sending some money, but part of the money that you receive from the pension includes an interest which was gathered along the years like for 11 years for example.

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What can we use that money for?

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By our Isha is asking a very interesting question, which is the pension plan. When I retire and I collected

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it was invested by the government. If I have a choice to decide where to invest it,

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then I should choose to invest it in Halal stocks in Halal fund in Halal is investment. But if I don't, and I don't know. And the government if I'm working for the government for innocence and they gave me my pension plan, then you're not

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blame worthy you take the whole thing.

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If there are companies which invest

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your retirement fund you and others and then they invest in unlawful means, then when you collect your pension you're supposed to take a portion out of that and give it away assuming that this is a portion which was earned a lawfully How much is this percentage It's all explained on our website AMDA which is the Sharia scholar Association of North America. It will be you will find it being explained in full length Inshallah, As Salam Alikum

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Omar from Canada As Salam aleikum

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wa salam.

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I have a question about a couple of if they have performed any wedding, but they How long can this stay without consuming the marriage?

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Can you please re explain your question in an easier way?

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So there they have performed Anika they have not, you know,

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they will not

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know, yeah, look in this day,

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before they consummate the marriage, well, there is no specific period that they are required to consume it the marriage during after the process of the marriage contract. After processing the marriage contract that school after Nica her husband and wife and if they want to move on, if they want to move in, and to live together innocently that husband and wife no one can stop them. If they want to move in and consume it their marriage next week, five years from now, it's permissible. We just don't recommend to prolong the period because it is not healthy for the bride. She is actually married, but she is not practically married. So the marriage contract makes this woman 100% lawful

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for you. The consumerization of the marriage is a matter of a deep hole. And by the way, from an Islamic perspective, it could be achieved even without having an intimate relationship. If a husband and wife, a man and a woman, groom and bride,

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happen to have marriage contract and the fulfilled it's our camp properly. So they were going out shopping or dining hello to each other husband and wife. And he said come let me show you my flat and they close the door behind them. This is called halwa. So now she's officially married. And this is equivalent to the consummation of the marriage, even without being intimate. This is as far as securing the rights of this woman. So we do recommend that the art to be followed by the consummation of the marriage as soon as possible. Thank you, Omar from Canada Salam aleikum.

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Ibrahim from Nigeria As salam o Allah Camilla Ibrahim,

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well, Nicholas Halawa live America are you doing? I'm doing great Al Hamdulillah thank you for asking a new

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Actually, I want to have a question about

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protesting against the leader and be the leader of the community, or the leader of the country is they I love Islamically is not Hello, for protests or to go against the leader of the community. But if zippay kuliah to a particular set of community where Islamic tradition is used

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his all ferromet Or our society we find ourselves

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and that is the first one. The second one is Eve like I'm Islamic scholar and learn from an adage that there are three ways in which you can go against something bad in your environment or your society is that by speaking up against that thing. Or maybe you if you can stop that thing by Hampshire, or the the least one is maybe in your mind you it's that particular app, is it allowed to be in a in a in a society or in the community you delete that or just

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They allow for for you to speak out against that particular leaders or those people, or those set obtain that way.

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Abraham, it's a little complicated, but in brief, let me break it down to make it simple for the viewers to comprehend.

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Muslims are being addressed as healers, every individual have respected views and respected rights. And we are given the choice to choose our leaders, those who are the best of us to rule and lead us. This is the the this is the the what is prescribed in our Sharia.

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What is happening is different in many cases, where dictators and oppressors, they come on the back of a tank and military regimes, this is very obvious, we cannot deny that, as they say, if it works like a block, if it talks like a block, then it must be a block. So we have to keep in mind, where are you living,

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and also the local laws and regulations. If you're in a country where the ruler is a dictator is an oppressor is a murderer. And he doesn't mind committing mass murders, he would open fire and his army would shoot anyone would go to the streets, then it will not be advised whatsoever

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to undertake such mission because you know the consequences. You don't want to do that. But as Muslims is our right to object is our right to say, hey, you room.

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Supposedly we have Congress, we have representatives, we have senators who are supposed to transmit our views to the ruling party to the regime and account them and tell them what is right and what is wrong and ask them for the fund of the Muslim estates. Is this happening? In most cases? No. Because again, those representatives are no representatives. Reality, we didn't choose most of them. They have been appointed through this or that or by the regime itself. So do not necessarily represent the public. Okay? If the people have an access to change that through publishing, advising, the representatives, the social media, the media, as long as it doesn't lead to a greater harm, it's

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permissible. So it is a matter of weighing the benefit risk ratio, and considering the law in the local land, in your community in your country, and whether it permits that or not. We have seen recently, the marshes and the protests, again is the aggression of the Zionist against our brothers and sisters in Palestine and in our courts. And it led to cease in this aggression. And he really portrayed the occupation forces as evil. So it was effective in Detroit, 10s of 1000s of Muslims protested Muslims or non Muslims in Dallas, likewise, in New York City, in New Jersey, and in Europe. So these protests by law, they're permitted and Islamically. They are permitted because this

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is the only way we as civilians can stop the evil from taking place and saving blood from being Chad and protecting the innocent civilians, women and children from being killed or hurt. Then in this case, it's permissible. If you take part in any of these protests, may the Almighty Allah guide us to what is best. Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah Baraka.

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amatola from India

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all right to sell Motorola Hilbert amatola. Go ahead.

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Jeff, I have one question myself. And one question My mother wants to ask you. I wanted to ask that. I took admission in two girls only Islamic school but after admission, I found out that the faculty that I've chosen in that it is a compulsory subject for me to study physical education, and in which I may have to study up

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of yoga. And of course, we may also have to do yoga and do exercises. Now, whilst these, in these classes of Physical Education, there is only a very slight probability that men may be able to see me whilst I'm doing these things, but during the examination, there most probably will be men present over there. Now, if I don't do these exercises, or if I don't study about yoga, they will fail. So I wanted to ask you, what should I do? And my mother wanted to ask you that my father has two sources of income, one of the source he spends on us and the other source he has given most of the time to his brother, so all of the profit goes to my father's brother. Now, the source of income

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he spends on us if he feels like our expenses, are being a little more than what he likes he.

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I'm not Allah.

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Where am I? From India, we lost you said if he feels your expenses are?

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Yeah, if he feels that our expenses are a little more than what he likes, then he questions my mother. And he says that why is this happening? Now my mother wants to ask you, is it permissible for a wife to in reply, or have this say to her husband, that? Why are you questioning me for my expenses? If there are little bit more than what you like? Whereas on the other hand, the second source of your income, you are neither spending on us? Nor are you questioning your brother for anything he does for it most of the time. But so

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how do you know that he is not really questioning his brother? And how do you know he's spending on his brother more than he is spending on you? How can you confirm that?

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This is not something secret. He has a plot of land on which my blood my uncle cultivates, and he gets all of the profit and very rarely, he takes some of that.

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Did your dad tell you that? I'm giving all the profit of this land? To my brother or this is your assumption?

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No, we this is 100% Sure, he has told us that we know this. Only rarely we get some of that profit. I'm not Allah. Thank you so much for your questions.

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Being accepted to girls only school is such good news Alhamdulillah shockula learning about in, in physical education, learning about physical education in different cultures, including yoga, as long as you don't believe this is an act of worship, as in Buddhism, you're not blameworthy? Well, I'm teaching the yoga as as an act of worship, I'm explaining in the comparative religion classes, why the practice of yoga is forbidden, so which requires me to explain how's it been done, but it doesn't mean that I believe in it, okay.

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Sometimes even doing certain practices, which is similar to but without the

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reading, or the saying of the certain statements, it doesn't become an act of worship. And I hope we have a chance to request that

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the examiner to be a female. And if in case that you have to be presented or to be examined, in the final exam by a male you dress up in your proper hijab, and that is okay in sha Allah. Otherwise, the alternative is a mixed school which is worse or to stay at home, which I do not advise.

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With regards to the conflict between your dad and your mom, I would really recommend that should be sorted out with a local Imam, because it's one side of the story right now. And no matter how many questions they ask you, it will be still one side story.

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A man is required to spend sufficiently on his family and to suffice for their needs, for food for clothing for education, and so on. And then if he is earning and spending on his parents on his siblings or giving away if we severely lie here and there.

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No one is to question him because that is his money, and that is his earning. If he's not really fulfilling his duty towards his family, while he's wealthy, now with question him, why are you being miser? Why?

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Aren't you shouldering the responsibility, but that has to be verified through having a council meeting between all the parties, not over on air. And here in one side of story, it's not something that I'm doubting your narrative or anything, but we're talking about the proper way to treat such issues. So my dear viewers by that we've come to the end of today's edition. And until next time, I leave you all in the care of Allah Akoko they had stuff for loyalty walakum wa salam ala ala Sayidina, Muhammad wa ala and he was salam. Wa Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He

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has to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best, and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping guns fire and stones, sending the best with the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how the bad guys are shipping cars fire and stores selling their best

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