Gardens Of The Pious #293 Etiquette Of Eating 3

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AI: Summary © The segment discusses the importance of being mindful of one's posture positions and positions in theeccaeccaecca region. It emphasizes the importance of avoiding touching the spoon and the use of the "hasith" in various positions, including sitting, drinking, and praying. The segment also highlights the importance of eating with the right hand and not with fingers, and mentions a recommendation from a Muslim community to avoid touching the spoon. The segment ends with a brief advertisement for coffee and coffee drink.
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is the greatest

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glory to Him.

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You must to be the best and give his best religion to allah God is the greatest, the one and only glory to Him.

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You to be there this is this religion to a Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back to another live edition of our program Guardians of the pious. Today's episode is number 348. In the bliss a series of Guardians of the pious explaining the marvelous collection of real docile Hain by Imam nawawi. May Allah have mercy on him. As usual. We begin by praising Allah Almighty alone and sending the best Peace and blessings upon His most Beloved Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam what brothers and sisters, the chapter that we're about to tackle today is chapter number one or six.

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And it is dealing with what to say, and what to do in case that you eat and you don't feel full. What should a person say or do when he eats, but he is not satisfied? level may according to who I have at home and yet according to what I ashba And

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this chapter is only one Hadith Hadith which is collected by Abu Dawood and it is classified as Hassan Hadith warfare Hadith and worshipped and how are all the Allahu Anhu and as herb Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Mikado, ya rasool Allah in Kulu wala nashbar on Salah lagoon Testa raccoon, Cardona, Carla fish, Tammy Oh, Hello, Tom econ. Was Cosmo Allah He Yuba rock lecom fee Rahu aboda would very lovely advice.

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One of the companions of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam,

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or some of the companions of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, complained to him. Sometimes we eat, but we still feel hungry, or not satisfied, no matter how much we eat. So the messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, well, perhaps we eat separately.

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You eat individually. The Companions replied in the affirmative, yes, we do.

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Then he said, peace be upon him, well then eat together and mention the name of Allah over your food, it will be blessed for you.

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This is an advice to myself, to my family, to all of you brothers and sisters. Nowadays, in the very fast paced life.

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You know, very rarely you see the family getting together to have a meal, even once a week,

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they all eat on their own individually. Everybody heats up his plate, or her plate. And they eat whenever they want to eat, they live in the morning for their classes for their schools for their work. So everyone grabs their sandwich or something to go or they even buy the food, the fast food from outside.

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Which brings about plenty of health problems. And then everyone eats on their own. Sometimes the father or the mother, who has been fixing everything for them before they leave. She ends up eating by herself at home because everyone has left without even having a cup of tea with her.

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Then when they get when they come back for more from classes, still everyone would work would eat on their own that if they haven't already eaten outside, no I already ate a sandwich or grab some burger.

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Pizza outside. So the prophets of Allah Han in Selma said this is one of the reasons of lacking the baraka. What is baraka, which we give it an English term, the blessings, what does it mean?

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What does it mean to pray for somebody and say, may God bless you?

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What does it mean? albaraka is a concept which makes the people's life the happiest, even if they have something which is little compared to others who have a lot, this little positions, little wealth for provision, if there is baraka in it,

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if there is blessings in it, it becomes a lot so that people will enjoy it as if it is plenty while reality its volume is small. Its amount is small. A typical example to that is what Allah Almighty said about dealing with interest, earning or lawfully through charging interest from the creditors.

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Allah Almighty said Yonhap Allahu riba were Yoruba sada solder cart,

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Allah Almighty yum hack, and yum hack means he will those the blessings from any transaction, which involves

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earning interest, so those who earn their money through charging interest, depositing their money in the banks or any financial Institute's, and charging interest, and they live on that the baleka is withdrawn from the life, happiness is eliminated from the lives are always fighting, no matter how much they have the complaint that it is not sufficient. Many problems between the couple,

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many problems between the parents and the children, they complain of a generation gap, it isn't that much of a generation gap. Rather, it is introducing the unlawful earning to one's family, which will be utilized in food, eating, and drinking and clothe and education in moving to a bigger house. So at that time, they live in a bigger house, they drive a very luxurious car. But they're not smiling. They're always fighting. One System consulted me in this regard. And she said they live like in a Paris. But ever since they said the foot in it is like hell.

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It is like hell, they hated it. So they have plenty. Why? Because the withdrawal of the baraka or the blessings, while if somebody has, has been blessed in his worth, in his family, in his children, even if his positions are very limited and restrained for him, he's happy, he's satisfied, and he is content. And these are the components of happiness, being content, being satisfied, being blessed and having Baraka in your provision and in your position. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that when the companions or some of the companions complained to him that they have a problem that they eat and they don't feel full, they still feel hungry, and they eat more and they still

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feel hungry. There's something wrong, it happens. It happens. And it happens when you watch those who order double burger now has become triple burger and quad burger like that. And to be honest with you, I can imagine how will the person stuff that tower in his or her mouth, you see them like

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you know, I don't say like, you know, wild beasts, devouring the sandwich, but this is how it is, unfortunately, may Allah have mercy on us.

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And the still one more, the prophets, Allah, Allah Salam have mentioned the remedy to that two things. Number one, do not eat separately try to get together and eat together, especially for the family, eat together. friends get together and eat together, roommates get together and eat together. It brings Baraka on the food with Kurose, Mullah Ali, and most importantly, mentioned the name of Allah before eating that instills Baraka in the food and it deprives Satan and all Satan's from touching or tasting your food. He said first me Oh ALLAH amico was kudos, Mala he Yuvaraj click on fee. So eat together and mention the name of Allah over your food. It will be blessed for you. So

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brothers and sisters, you need to share this with your children, with your family members. And so gotta make sure that we eat together in the past. It was like the rules of the house. I come back from college, my younger

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others are coming back from their schools. And somebody would come back an hour earlier than others and others will come to our lair. And those who came early are hungry and starving I want to eat. And mother would say no. Now before you that comes back now before you that come home, and then all of us we sit together and eat on the same table. So it is okay to grab some, you know,

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some dates something to keep you patient. But as far as a meal that we used to get together, it is kind of missing nowadays. And I know that this is it has become global in fiction. But as Muslims, we need to

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restore this prophetic tradition of eating together, especially the family members. The next chapter is chapter number 107

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which deals with eating from the side of the dish plate or vessel, not from the middle babble Emery bill at Lehman journey Bill Casati We're now here and elect Lehman was awfully ha

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ha Hadith number 743. I live now best Radi Allahu Anhu man. And in the Vidya sallallahu alayhi wa sallam call

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al baraka to 10 zero was of prime for Kulu mean half at AG, while at Kulu May was alter

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the hadith is collected by Abu Dawood and at Tirmidhi. And it is Hadith which is categorized as Hassan sahih. It's a fair Hadith.

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Abdullah inna bass, may Allah be pleased with him and his father narrated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, blessing descends upon food, in its medicine, in the middle of the food, to eat from the sides of the vessel, and do not eat from its middle.

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It means that, if a group of people eat in from one dish, that we should begin by eating from the sides of the dish or the plate, you do not pick the food from the middle. The Baraka is centered in the middle of the food, we just explain the definition of baraka and what does it mean? So, when somebody singles out himself, and gives preference for himself, to eat from the middle of the plate, or to serve from the middle of the dish or the vessel, this is being selfish, and that with those the baraka from the food, so if there is a big plate and people are serving the food from this plate, everyone take from right in front of you, similar to what the prophet Salah Salem thought,

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originally selamat, may Allah be pleased with him and his father when he said, Call me Mayor leek eat from what is right in front of you Do not wander around, nor should you take the middle, does it mean that will keep the middle of the plate intact? Entire we don't touch it? Of course not. It doesn't mean that at all. It means rather we'll begin by taking from the sides and gradually until we come to the middle and we eat the whole thing. But to begin from the middle notice is against the Sunnah do we see the baraka

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is something that you can visualize, is it something tangible that you can feel it, you can touch it, you can see it.

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It is rather something that you can see its results and its outcome. Whenever there's Baraka you said Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim and you had food enough for you, your colleague at work at home and the bus in the train

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happened to show up please come and join me you know that this food was barely enough for you. We will learn that when there is baraka this food will be enough for you and somebody has why it is not about the volume. It is not about the amount. It is about that secret which is called Baraka, the blessings so when you eat, make sure that you begin by eating from in front of you. Okay, and leave the middle to the last so everyone will get the portion of the middle. So this way the America will remain in the plate until you finish the whole vision and its contents.

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The following Hadith in the same chapter, chapter number 107 is

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Very interesting Hadith Hadith number 744 and Abdullah hit the bowstring or of the Allahu Anhu called Kenneally Nebia sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Nana Kasan you call hula hell her luck. You may know her out of that region.

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felon out how was surgery to Baja OTB till Cal Casa Yanni work on Suri DAFI hair filter for Allah. Farah nakasu Jessa rasool Allah He is Allah allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for call our be now had to heal Jelsa so called Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in Allaha Jaya Eleni either then Karina, what am the Adjani jab baronne Anita so Nakata Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Kulu Minh how La Jolla

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where they are who their water how you Barak fee where the hadith is collected by Abu Dawood may Allah have mercy on him

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Abdullah Ibni boss,

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may Allah be pleased with him the rated that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him had a large bowl

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it was called L vom Ra, with a touch did on the lira lira,

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which could be carried by four people.

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On one day when the Companions finished the Wuhan prayer Olara was bought for of soup, bread,

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meat and boss.

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And they a and they sat down around it. And when the number have increased, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, sat down on his knees,

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and he rested

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on the soles of his feet.

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A bed when bedwin say to him,

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was sort of sitting is that they are upon the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, Verily, Allah has made me a courteous slave, not a fierce tyrant.

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Then he said, eat from the sides of the bowl

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and leave the central part of it so that your food will be blessed.

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In this hadith

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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used to have a big dish a big bowl

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so that people would eat from it.

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Normally, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam used to call the objects good names for good omen. So he used to call his camel he she came on Alpha swap. And he has a sword which he gave it a name and immune which you call it dual dual, and so on. So this bowl was called alpha. And the commentators of the Hadith said it was a raw because of its brightness. Because a Laura which is the whiteness that appears in the forehead of an exceedingly black horse, or because it was kind of generous to serve food for people in this big bowl. Imagine it would require for Ben to carry it. So phantom up how was Saju Abraha Yanni it was one morning and it was Baja time, the four known time so sajer

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doulas Baja, we have learned in the past that you may call the prayer after any of its parts or segments. So sometimes we call it we say I prayed Arakata in

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Okay, two workers or two soldiers referring to a prayer of two units, even though Urraca is only one of the pillars of the prayers of each unit. Similarly, a stage that which is one prostration but it is okay not only that, but you can also call the whole prayer after one of its

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components such as this B, you can call it so pa Otis B. Sub battle soap means he offered the morning prayer.

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I shadowed the hola on her in the Hadith, which is a sound heavy she said that I have never seen the pro

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for Salah Salem offering so part of Baja, so pettah Baja from SB, so it is okay to call the whole prayer after one of its ingredients or one of its segments. So you can call it raka you can call it stage, you can call it sub hub. Here in the Hadith, Abdullah had no boss said Philip nowpow whenever it was before noon, and they have finished the Doha prayer.

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And it's also known as the shallot prayer which is past sunrise until before the sun moves away from its median. The bowl was bowed before them and in it there was a salaried what is a salaried, it is one of the favorite meals to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and to the earth in general, where the thin bread is soaked in soup in the broth of the meat. Okay, then it is, you know the meat is put on top of it. Okay.

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Something like the oatmeal, but with the soup, instead of the milk with the soup and the meat. So it was put before them. So they started sitting around this huge bowl, and more and more people were coming. When the Prophet sallallahu Sallam noticed that more people are coming. While he was sitting comfortably. He shrunk himself. And he said Jessa Rasulullah Salallahu salam ala, look better.

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This position is by resting your knees, wrists and your knees on the floor. And then once buttocks or the bottom will be resting on the heels of his feet. This is one of the positions in the prayer, especially between the two stages.

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Like if you're sitting between the two soldiers,

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why why did he do that? When he saw more people are coming. So he wanted to give them room. So he shrunk himself after he will sit in taking you know, in a form to sit comfortably. Now he shrunk himself. And he said in this position which is Jessa Alaric. Betty, one of the bad ones. Now, the bad ones are used to see if somebody is honorable, like the tribe clan, chief of the clan or the chief of the tribe, he will be given plenty of room and people can sit on top of each other, but they will leave plenty of room for him. They will give him the food before others they will show the utmost respect to the chiefs and so on. So he said what kind of sitting is this? And by the way, the

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word Jelsa with the Zaher beneath the

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the law regime provides a different meaning than Jalsa.

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I'll explain to you the meaning of Jelsa versus Jelsa.

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What is air beneath the law regime? Jelsa a refers to the type of sitting,

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the type of sitting

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How are you sitting cross and legs are sitting in Jiffy or sit in a car or Motek Ian and these are different types of city. So the kind of sitting that the Prophet SAW Selim was sitting here, listen his knees on the floor areas then his bottom on his heels. Jesse Yeah.

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So the Bedouin said, what kind of sitting is this? You see, because the Arabic was the language, so he didn't have a problem, saying Jelsa? Because everybody would understand what he said, Jill? Sir, not just while Jelsa is the whole setting?

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No, I'm going to adjust to a meeting.

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How are you going to sit in a meeting, I will be sitting on the floor describing the type of sitting that's called Jelsa. I'm going to sit like in the prayer, we say the sitting of the first childhood versus the sitting of the second dish out there is the wardrobe and there is if trash and so on.

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So he was kind of, you know, surprised that this man who is supposed to be a great man and a chief of Muslims, he shouldn't get himself and he's sitting humbly like that and give a room to people who said what kind of sitting is this? So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam explained to him he said in Elijah Eleni have done Kareena are sitting like that because Allah Almighty have made me a journalist servant.

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What are we a John is a burden on EDA, and it means stubborn, and Jabbar means tyrant. So he humbled himself before his companions peace be upon him.

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gave them room. He didn't eat before them, he gave them to eat for he served him the food to eat first. And this is out of his kindness, which Allah Almighty educated him accordingly. While canta for vanilla evil Hello bill and Fabio Mahalik, the air begins with Febi Mara Matignon, Allah heyland Talamh. So as a result of a Nursey, from Allah that He bestowed upon you, you become very lenient, you become very kind and gentle while dealing with your companions. Have you been

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harsh hearted, they would have dispersed away from you. But the Prophet sallahu wa salam was the kindest peace be upon him. So he said, this way in order to give room to others, and he explained to the bedwin, who was kind of surprised that Why are you sitting like that? You know, they're supposed to give you Rome, you're the chief, you're the master, you're the prophet. He said, No, no, no, no, no, indeed, Allah have made me a generous servant. And generosity require the following. To serve your guests to give them preference over yourself. We said when Allah unforeseen, well, how can I be him? Kasasa What are you sure Hennessey felt will let you get home and mostly home to get preference

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your guest to honor your guests to honor your neighbor? So the prophets Allah Sinan did what he preached practice, and He began by himself before preaching others, and he never made me arrogant. He never made me tyrant Subhanallah then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam advices companions in order to keep the blessing in our food, you guys need to do the following it from its sides. What are we here Rwanda. And now here we learn also because there are a lot of you and hamdulillah who are studying Arabic, and they may hear some words and misspell it will miss say it because we heard it from an Arab person wrong. So it is called zero we're not zawa Okay, whether it was your water,

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which is the peak or the top part or the middle of the plate, here, it was the middle of the Akasa or the bone is it gonna mean however you whatever water you Barak Fie, eat from the sides of the bowl, and leave the central part of it so that your food will be blessed. That was another beautiful advice and it was a second Hadith in chapter number 107 I guess it's time to take a short break. So that insha Allah soon after, we'll come back from the break. We'll begin with the new chapter chapter number 108. Kara here to actually more tech and so until we meet again in a couple of minutes, I leave you in the care of Allah wa Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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I love

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Oh, phone numbers and the contact information should appear on the bottom of the screen for those who like to drop us a call. And the priority is to ask something relating to the topic that we're discussing and in the segment chapter number 108. The chapter these with Cara here will actually more techie and the disliked notice of eating in a reclining position.

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There is to a hadith and disregard Hadith number 745 And the following Hadith the first hadith is a sound Hadith agreed, collected by a member Haleiwa The second is collected by Imam Muslim. Let's see the to a hadith talking about the posture of the sitting what eating on me Joe Hi Fattah where bib knob the learning of the Allahu Anhu called kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Kulu mata ki and that's it. hadith is collected by Imam Hari

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Abu Haifa Wehbe Abdullah

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may Allah be pleased with him they're rated the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said I do not eat reclining.

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The reclining position is when you can have recline or lie down on one

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For your sides against a pillow in a resting position

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and we see that a lot many people are doing that, especially after eating and now enjoying their dessert their food, their tea their drink. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam disliked eating and accordingly drinking in this position. Why is it simply a respect for the food? Why is it exactly you know, the prophet Salah Salem used to have a sitting while eating in order to limit his food consumption. But while you're reclining, you keep eating and you keep eating. Okay, this is one of the positions which the prophets Allah Salam disliked to eat while you are in to recline on your site, or tourist again is the pillow like that, okay on the floor, and to eat. So out of respect,

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the Prophet sallallahu sallam said Allah, Allah Kulu MATEC Ian, and if that was his instructions, then the believers are more worthy to follow the guidance of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in this regard. So if you see somebody

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happened to be reclining and eating, advise him to sit properly either coarser legs or to sit same Jelsa of the sitting in the prayer or perfectly. It is perfectly fine to sit on a table for innocence.

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Why the following Hadith

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explains another interesting posture or position that the Prophet Salah Salem once we've seen sitting while eating Hadith number 746 collected by a non Muslim it's a sound Hadith narrated Anis ethnomedical The Allahu Anhu call or a to Rasul Allah, His sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Journalisten, Mochrie Ania Kulu Tamra are our who Muslim.

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And as a mnemonic said, I have seen a messenger of Allah peace be upon him eating some days while sitting on his bomb, with his legs raised.

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By the way, the word more Korean has different postures.

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Not only,

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you know, raise, raising the legs, or the knees and sitting on one's buttocks. You know, like this, you collect your

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knees or legs, your your knees are up, and you're sitting on the bottom, and you collect your legs between your arms like this, this is this is one position.

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And the second is similar to jatheon, which we explained earlier in the Hadith, when the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam was sitting in front of his big bowl.

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And when the number started increasing, so the Prophet Salah Salem, straighten himself, he shone himself and he sat in a different posture or different position where knees were on the floor, they said, his knees on the floor, and then he rested his bottom on the soles of his feet, or on the heels of his feet, the back of his feet. That is also the car similar to the position in between the two sides. There's in the prayer. And the commentators of the Hadith say this is one position that the Prophet SAW said and used to sit in, in order not to sit comfortably while eating, so to consume more food versus the sitting more Tachyon. So the Prophet SAW Selim in his setting for eating would

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be always on the standby position that he is ready to leave, he is not sitting forever, he is not sitting, some people sit. And when they eat, they keep sitting and talking and maybe after talking a little bit, I feel like there is a little room, you know, they shake themselves a little bit in order to empty some spots so they can eat some more. This is totally totally against the guidance of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam his guidance with regards to eating and drinking. If people were to follow it, they will never encounter any of these abdominal diseases, they will not have diabetes, they will not suffer obesity, they will not have why because he said, it is enough for a person to

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eat a few bites to keep you standing to keep you functioning. But if you're really into eating too much, then you got to understand that your stomach should be divided into three portions 1/3 of your stomach. Maximum 1/3 of your stomach should be for the food and another 1/3 for the water or the drink and spirits so

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A third of your stomach so that for your air in order to complete the process of digestion, when people eat, they're fed, they eat until they're ready to throw up. And they say, hola as you do Lahoma slacker. I don't have any room the food is standing up here.

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This is totally disliked. So they start their stomach. And then they go to sleep. And they say she I saw a very bad dream. I saw a nightmare. What do you expect, you know, your your, your stomach is pressing against your heart, you're having difficulty breathing, you're taking digestive medications, you're taking effervescence, you're taking privacy and you're thinking all of that, and it isn't helping because basically that sack which is the stomach is full of food

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is full of concrete. You know, you're you're really really fatiguing and tiring your stomach. So the prophets Allah sallam said, the maximum food consumption that if a person is like big eater should be only 1/3 of the stomach Subhanallah

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you here and you see the commercials of operations to reduce stomach size stomach bypass or disabling of the stomach or the tying of the stomach, all of that why in order to lose weight, why because I have developed diabetes and blood pressure and and and difficult to breathing and sleep apnea, all of that because of obesity and overweight. Why? Why did this all happen, I love to eat. And after eating yummy, I love the dessert. And after eating and having the dessert or like to have the soda and the big drink and all of that, have mercy on yourself, have mercy on yourself. So there is a position of sitting. Unfortunately, I'm not able to get off the desk and sit on the floor and

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show it to you. But this position is proven to withhold 1/3 of the stomach, big portion of the stomach, which is simply by raising the right knee raising the right knee up and sitting on the bottom and bending the left

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leg beneath you. Okay. So this way you will find the left foot beneath your bottom while your right knee is up this way. So it is squeezes the stomach a little bit. So when you eat you know one point if you like you know you had enough that is the same like the stomach bypass or disabling of the stomach because it reduces the size but without having to go through a surgery or inserting the loan or doing any of that. Be your own doctor, be your own doctor follow the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, you will be fine in sha Allah.

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So we have learned about sitting more Korean and jatheon versus Muteki. And what is this like, is to eat while you're reclining. Obviously, people who have medical conditions, people are kind of old. They are being hospitalized, they cannot sit up they can eat in whichever position that is possible for them to eat. If they can pray in deposition, then they can it is more worthy for them to eat because it is not haram who said it is only disliked in case that you're capable to sit up properly, then set up and eat or sit down and eat. You do not recline and eat while reclining and that applies to the drink as well. Any kind of eating including the desert, of course, the following chapter.

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I think we have a few minutes left so that we can take one Hadith of the chapter or so. Bibles there will actually be Selassie outside Asada

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shutter number 109 These with the recommendation of eating with three fingers

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Subhanallah now and before we tackle the chapter, you guys can figure out why would Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam eat with three fingers

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and it is a bit difficult, especially if you're eating rice. Somebody would say is it forbidden to eat with the fork? With the spoon with these utensils? No no no no this it is not forbidden as long as it is not either silver or no gold It is okay.

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But even with the three fingers

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Three fingers. It's very hard. Why? Because you just take a little bit by little bit like the chopsticks, the Chinese chopsticks or Japanese ones. So that's why you see most of them are kind of slim. You know, you can eat in a little bilayer but filling up your palm or your hand with a big spoon or eating with a big spoon, any key filling up and stuff in your, your mouth, then accordingly your stomach. It's entirely up to you. But the prophet Salah Salem recommended that when you eat, you eat with the three spoons. Is it permissible to eat? Is it permissible to Eat with the spoon or the fork? Yes, it is permissible. But we're talking about at the time what the prophet Salah Salem

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used to do. And if people want to do today they will be also following the guidance of the prophets, Allah Salam, those who choose to eat with the spoons or with the fork that is perfectly fine as well. So long as you eat with your right hand. One Hadith we will study as I said, 748 and Karibuni. Malika Radi Allahu Anh fala right rasool Allah is Allah Allah sellin yet Kuru. We sell earthy or Saba for either Thoreau, Larry Acaba, the hadith is collected by a Muslim, Gabby Malik. May Allah be pleased with him, and I hope you remember this great companion. Unfortunately, we don't have time to go over his biography, for two reasons, one that we have already discussed him before. And the

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second is we actually run out of time he said, So the messenger of Allah peace be upon him eating with three fingers, the thumb, the index finger and the middle one. And then he left then after having finished the food, and we will have a talk in sha Allah. Next episode, why would the Prophet SAW Selim lick his fingers, it is pertaining to there is baraka in the food and you don't know which part of the food that has a blessing. It could be in the left over in the plate. It could be in the leftover around your fingers, some rice gains or some whatever around your fingers. It could be on a bite that fell on the floor and the Prophet sallallahu sallam said if you drop a bite, do not throw

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it in the trash, pick it up, clean it up and eat it you never know. Maybe there is a Baraka in it. So inshallah will shed some more light upon the baraka issue and the food or the left over in the dish around the fingers, or in the holding part. Hopefully in sha Allah insha Allah in the next episode until then brothers and sisters and leave you all in the care of Allah Hoolock only had our cell for Hola Hola, como SallAllahu ala Nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salaam wa Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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love our God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He asked me to be the best and gave his best religion to allah God has the greatest

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glory to Him.

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It used to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving God about an empire that was shaping Carl's fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stones selling the cheapest