Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #292 Etiquette Of Eating 2

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The speakers discuss various etiquette related to the use of the right hand in Islam, including not using the left hand when eating and drinking, saying "saying born on the right hand" to prevent Dean and Frank from eating with you, and not being afraid of others' behavior. They also discuss the importance of proper etiquette and etiquette in various aspects of Islam, including not being afraid of others' behavior and not being afraid of others' image. The speakers emphasize the importance of respect and love for oneself and learning to code in annual Quran.
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Our God is the greatest

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glory to Him, He bought me you must to be the best and gave his best religion to Allah Our God is the Greatest. The one and only Glory to him on any given is to be the best and give is this religion.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome to another live edition of our program Guardians of the pious as usual we'll begin by praising Allah Almighty alone and send him the best Peace and blessings upon His most Beloved Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. My dear brothers and sisters, this is gonna be our 340/7 edition of Guardians of the pious by the Grace of Allah. And today we're beginning chapter number 104. It is another chapter in the book of etiquette, the etiquette of eating, from what is in front of you.

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It comes along with another etiquette that we have discussed before, which is eating with the right hand.

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The first episode in this chapter 104 babble, actually merrily.

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It teaches us, the Ecotec the etiquette of eating from right in front of us.

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Obviously, if we're eating from a plate or a dish that more than one is eating out of it. And also, how the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him used to advise discipline and teach

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those who may not follow the proper etiquette while eating. The first Hadith we have is a Hadith that we have discussed before.

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It is agreed upon its authenticity. It's a highly sound Hadith

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narrated by Rama NaVi Salim Salama, may Allah be pleased with him. And we know the story of Omar Salama, and how he ended up being raised by the Messenger of Allah peace upon him after his father was martyred. Then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam proposed to almost Elena while she was an old woman, and she's got a bunch of kids. And now we know that the Prophet SAW Selim intended to raise her kids to look after them and to support her. That's why even on the night of consummating the marriage, he inquired about the kids, she said, she sent them to their uncle. He said, No, bring them back. This is Hadith number 730. Mine in the seas of gardens of the pious on Omar Ignagni.

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For call Alia, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam Yahoo Lam, Semilla to Allah. Wa could be a Munich or call me may leak. Mustafa Ali.

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The young companion are in Me selama

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may Allah be pleased with him and his father rated that I was a young boy

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under the care of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him

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while eating my hand used to wander around in the dish, so the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him say to me Yeah, hola or young boy.

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say Bismillah mentioned Allah's name before eating,

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eat with your right hand and eat from what is in front of you see beautiful etiquette.

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semula we've started several Hadith before with regards to the importance of saying Bismillah either mentioned in the name of Allah by simply saying Bismillah or even saying Bismillah AR Rahman AR Rahim before eating in order to prevent Satan and Satan's from eating with you in order to keep baraka and the blessings in the middle.

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And also, if the person happened to forget to say it in the beginning, he should say it in the middle. It should say it even by the end

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If you happen to forget to say by simply saying Bismillahi r while you are hearing or Bismillahi r wala who will occur that will work. The second teaching he said work will be immediate II with the right hand.

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We did study a chapter dealing with the priority for using the right hand in eating and drinking in airport handing over something to another person use the right hand while keeping the left hand for the disgusting things such as cleaning up one's profits after answering the call of nature, or while taking a bath, picking up the trash picking up the shoes and so on.

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there is

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like to different opinions with regards to according to this hadith, this hadith resulted in the following difference of opinion. We have the vast majority of the Muslim jurists, including Imam Abu Hanifa

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Imam Muhammad is Chef a in American * and Imam Muhammad Muhammad. So God, the founders of the four schools of thoughts, they are of the view that using the right hand for eating and drinking is sunnah is an etiquette Adam,

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which means it is not a word you it is not a worship, because if it is a word, then it's a major sin to use the right hand in the left hand in eating, okay, or in drinking. But it is simply an etiquette it has no hurry. The founder of the law, hurry school of thought is of the view that it is mandatory to eat with a right hand and it is forbidden to use your left hand in eating and drinking. While there is a difference of opinion.

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Well, obviously,

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it must has a very May Allah mission him looks at the obvious meaning

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because the word of a hurry, they take the explicit the obvious meaning the power and meaning, while the vast majority of the formula, D consider a lot of factors before throwing the ruling before saying you must do that.

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You must not do that, which may be burdensome for some, they said whenever there is a command, such as OB do,

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such as

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the Prophet sallallahu sallam said in one Hadith also don't do Marathi welgevonden Allah Cooley Matalan he said PLO for initial foreigner Leia key I will explain the meaning of this hadith is it could be I mean, so the look into the Hadith and they say, if there is a command, but there is a factor of factors which may divert the command from the mandate, then it is simply for the recommendation.

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one of the factors which may divert the command from the obligation into mere recommendation is if it is mentioned within the context of other UN etiquette

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when the messenger of Allah peace be upon him said kill inertia upon Allah.

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Allah Hi, Lulu is taken up at noon. And in the past

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people didn't have fans, they didn't have air condition, you know, and at noon independent seller, it will be like really, really hot.

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Extremely hot.

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it was recommended for them to take a nap during this time. And not to walk out not to work under this very severe hot word. So the prophets have sent me recommended l Hi, Lulu.

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What if I don't want to take a nap? What if I get a job to do? Why if I have a study to do, it's a recommendation. It's an added etiquette, but it is not necessary. It is not obligatory. Why because it is mentioned within the context of LDAP Okay, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam also said whenever he hand over something to somebody, hand it over with the right hand eautiful etiquette you will be sitting on the Haram

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All right before Iftar a lot of people are very anxious to give you dates, yogurt, Zamzam water a piece of bread, a sandwich to bake your first upon kahawa. Beautiful. So sometimes your right hand is busy because you just collected something. So he is giving you another thing, and you're reluctant to take it to the left hand. Why? Because the Prophet SAW Selim said, to give and take with the right hand.

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Okay, what if my right hand is busy, and I can actually put it down. Now take it to the left hand, it's permissible. But the preference, the etiquette is whenever you give you give you the right hand, whenever you take a take with the right hand, like you're paying cash.

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In the States, they have a very interesting etiquette, customer service, that when you buy anything, let's say that you buy a can of Coke, you buy anything as simple as a drink, or a pair of shoes, or a suit anyway, once you pay cash, and you have some change,

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it is a lack of respect, to throw the change on the counter for you to collect it, the cashier, whether it's he or she will count the change in your hand, one after another and give you the the coins or the change in your hand. Thank you, sir. Very good to see you. See you next time. So what is wrong if I just put the money on the counter and you can collect it, it's a lack of respect. This is like you know,

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primary teachings and etiquette of customer service. Others in other countries, they don't really care, they will even throw the cash before you and the coins may roll down the counter and you have to chase it. And they say I didn't mean it. I just gave you a new you need to collect it. So please take that because it's a good etiquette. The Prophet sallallahu Sena is the source of all etiquette. Because Allah subhanho wa Taala taught him, he said, Devon, yarrabilba SEN. dB, said, My Lord has

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trained me, educated me, brought me up, and he did best in the sibling me in bringing me up in teaching me and so on. So he transmitted all of that to us. Salallahu Alaihe Salam.

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Similarly, it is this like to sleep on your belly, but it is not forbidden. So they said because this hadith is mentioned within the context of teaching, adapt, then it is merely commended. It is an etiquette, but it is not a word. It is not a word, which means if you ended up eating with the left hand, you have not committed a major sin. It is disliked to do that. So now we'll come across another Hadith, in which the prophets are sullen insisted on somebody to eat with the right hand but he refused and we will learn what happened to him. So how come that this is not in line with what you're saying right now you're saying is simply it is sunnah it is recommended. And this is not my

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opinion, this is opinion of the vast majority of the for what we will learn when we come to study this hadith the third etiquette is well call me melee

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will call me medic, what is the meaning of call me medic eat from what is in front of you.

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Until recent people used to eat from big dish. And, you know, awfully like to ask my wife, when we sit on the table or on the floor to put a big plate and we eat from the same plate. There is plenty of Baraka in that. And I make certain that we eat together. You know, I know that some of the kids come earlier than others from school, from swimming classes from karate from exercise from the gym, for never activities, okay, from the health classes. So we gotta wait. It's okay to wait for 30 minutes 45 minutes for an hour so that we get the family together and we eat together. Because this is also the Sunnah and the etiquette in order to increase Baraka in the food. That's a lot better

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than eating individually. One after another. Yes, everyone has a certain amount of food, they can serve it in their plates, and they can sit here and there and and just eat it. But look what you're missing.

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The blessings of getting together chit chatting, talking because nowadays a family and family members are everyone is busy. Not necessary.

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only busy was something serious, like work school or know what the taps were the tablets with their smartphones.

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So make certain that when you're eating, all of that is banned and begin by yourself a family father set it aside, put it on a silent mode. Okay, so you don't hear keep hearing the buzzes alerting you and others even if it rings and one of the kids says, I'll get it for you now I'm not interested. I'm eating.

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This is very special ritual. Eating with the family is something very precious. So they used to eat from a big dish and everyone would stretch out his or her hands and they would eat from the same plate. Last time we spoke about the geria the younger

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being pushed by satan in order to stretch out her hand to grab something to eat and the Prophet SAW Selim get all of her hand and then the baboon was next. And he said in a Shelton as the Hello Tom and I will Corolla his moolah.

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Okay, so they will eat him from one dish. Here the same the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam

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himself and his wife who was his wife at that dinner, almost Elena robbed the Allahu anha. And what happened to her children we say the Prophet sallallahu Sallam one of the main reasons why he decided to marry almost Elena, may Allah be pleased with her. Being a widow, being an old woman with a bunch of kids is to support her morally, and to look after her kids. I will sell him I used to be a great companion. May Allah be pleased with him and his entire family. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam at home is eating with the kids of Abu salah. He's raising the offense. When he says sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and our Kefalonia team if a Jannetty Hakka encouraging Muslims to look at their offensive

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sponsor them to adopt them and all of that. He'll be the first to do it. And he was himself an orphan he was orphaned, even before he was born, his father died a few months before his birth, then his mother followed his father at the age of six. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did really When did go through the the suffering of being an orphan, and Allah Almighty says in Surah, to Baja LME aged care team and for our did he find you an orphan, and he sheltered you. So according he says, and Maria tema Falletta. For the orphan behind Do not be repellent to the orphan, Do not offend the orphans. Rather Be kind to them, be gentle to them, look after them. You want to be so close to the

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Messenger of Allah peace be upon him in paradise,

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adopt an orphan, look after an orphan support an orphan financially, some of my very close shoe and senior shoe and scholars had a very interesting view in this regard when he says carefully a team in order to provide

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a full time Kahala

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a full time key fella to look after an orphan fully not part time, not by giving some money or some cash, or just to have a direct withdrawal

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from your account bank account every month to go a few bucks here and there to look after orphans. All of that is appreciated all of this weight. But to provide a full calf Allah in order to be where the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in the highest place in paradise in the highest ranking place in heaven, which is Alfa Del Sol Allah to be so close to him like these two fingers close to each other. He said in order to achieve that marry, they would have orphans

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and your intention is to look after those orphans. Subhanallah I used to have one of my colleagues

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at school. His brother used to be senior to us. He was a very good brother, masha Allah. May Allah bless his soul, he was very righteous on the wedding night. You know, he,

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you know, a few a few hours after, you know the wedding ceremony and consume it in the marriage. He lived far, far away from the machine. We found him in the masjid. Did you leave you buy it or use it? Oh, it's federal prayer. Yeah, no, you know, it's federal. This is the first night of marriage you can you could have skipped federal and you live far away from the machine anyway, you can

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You gotta pray to Tommy said no, prayer is more important to me. So anyway, he was very, very nice, mashallah very righteous, and usually dedicated as well Subhanallah at a very young age. And after having a couple of kids, he was diagnosed with cancer, colon cancer. And I used to see him dragging his feet, to go to the machine, federal Arusha, even a dark, and sometimes he would fall in the seat, fall unconscious, because he was very ill.

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And we keep begging him your execuse Your pardon, Your prayer at home would give you the same road because you have an excuse. I want to come and come and attend the prayer. It rains, it's muddy, he would still come Subhanallah he passed away. All of us felt very, very, very bad for him.

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You know, and especially for his kids, two young, beautiful kids. And subhanAllah, his wife, so

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beautiful night vision that our share shared that with us in the Friday sermon. But before they're not vision, what happened is his brother, younger brother, who is still a student at the university.

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Once his sister lo finished the eight day period, it took over and he married her. Ah, he married his sister in law. She used to be his sister in law. And now he has nephews who are orphans. And there is a woman who doesn't have a job, and the kids are babies. So he married her and the main concern that no one should raise my nephews, my brother's kids, other than myself. He's young, he has a long way to go is familiar words, he could have gotten him a beautiful bride version doesn't have a package. But why he did that he did that for a reason. This is a meaning of an hour Kefalonia team you feel Jannetty Hakka so mashallah, she, she she saw her ex husband in a night vision. And he

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said, Don't be sad, I'm already in heaven. I'm already in heaven. Derek Andrew bush for a moment, this is the glad tidings that is given to the person because before the actual entrance of paradise. So from this hadith, the prophet Salah Salem was raising this young boy and his brothers and while he was eating and his hand was wondering in the big dish eating for meat and there, you know, especially you know, if there is in the dish, there is meat here or there are some nuts here and there and you start picking them and collecting them from the middle of the plate. This is not the proper way to do it. The proper etiquette is to eat from in right in front of you. Similarly, if

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there is a big dish and people are serving the food from this dish, so some people would pick from the middle No, Sir, take from right in front of you. And we will learn why this is such a prophetic etiquette. After we take a short break in sha Allah have studied a beautiful Hadith in which the Prophet sallallahu wasallam assets and Milla semula Semilla to holla could be a Munich or call me Malik say in the name of Allah before eating, eat with your right hand and eat from what is in front of you. We'll take a short break and we'll be back in Sharla in a few minutes please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and we'll come back. I'd like to remind you with our phone numbers in the beginning the segment Area code 002 Then 0201 double 04569323 Alternatively I equals 002 Then 023 treble 5132. The email address is [email protected]

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Subhanallah the following hadith is Hadith number 740 and Salah Mata YBNL Aqua Radi Allahu Anhu. And Rod rollin Akela in the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Nabeshima Lee if a call will be Amin, ik call LS Dorthea call Allah stop ah. Man Munna who il Kibber thermal Rafa. LFV the hadith is collected by Imam Muslim may Allah

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have mercy on him?

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Salama YBNL Aqua

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May Allah be pleased with him the rated that once a man ate with his left hand in the presence of Rasulullah, peace be upon him well upon the Messenger of Allah said to him, teaching him eat with your right hand, the man said, I cannot do that, there upon the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, may not be able to do that. It was arrogance that prevented him from doing it, and he could not raise it, he could not raise the right hand.

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Upon this to his mouth afterward, the hadith is collected by Imam Muslim, and it has a story behind it.

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There was a person by the name, both in Harare, AlGhanim, as uj,

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who was one of those whose hearts were,

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unfortunately infiltrated with arrogance, and keep.

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So he wants eight in the presence of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And the messenger of Allah peace be upon him used to invite people to eat with him, even non Muslims, whenever they come to learn about Islam, he would give them their hospitality host them. And it is their code to accept Islam or not. So for this person who pretended to be Muslim, or

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He showed that he is a Muslim, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, not that he was eaten with his left hand. So he advised him once, twice, twice, it was the right hand, and the man kept saying, last naughty, I cannot do that. So the prophets, Allah, Allah, Allah Salam, the third time said, let's start, May you never be able to do that, you need to raise your right hand.

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femoral if I had a fee, his hand became stiff, he wasn't able to raise his hand, his right hand to his mouth afterward.

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You see, before the break, we're talking about the hokum ruling of using the right hand in eating and drinking, who said it's sunnah it's not a word, this opinion of the vast majority of the scholars and we'll explain the meaning of the Hadith. Well, if this is the case, why would the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him? Who is full of mercy? And he has been sent as mercy for all people? Why would you pray again, as somebody will curse again, as somebody who claims to be Muslim, simply because he doesn't want to eat with his right hand. And not only that, he said, I cannot.

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I cannot eat with the right hand. But this man who is due to be punished, because of this evil disease of Kibera, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam did not conceal the cause or otherwise it would have been very problematic.

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It would muzzle all of us. How could the Messenger of Allah the most peaceful man the mercy to everything that exists, curse somebody because he was unable to eat with his right hand? No, none of this not true.

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This man was known of arrogance, and he thought it is like a shame for anyone to teach him what to do. Like you're not the one who's gonna teach me how to eat, I know how to eat.

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But this is a messenger of Allah peace be upon. And he's teaching you what is the Sunnah and what is the right etiquette

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on a telco rasuluh woman how can man who fentanyl whatever the messenger of Allah peace be upon him, gives you you must take it, you must accept it, you must follow it, you must do it to the best of your ability and whatever he forbids you again instead you must totally understand from it. Oh man, how come and who Fanta. But when the messenger of Allah peace be upon him had been informed by Allah, this guy is arrogant. And he's definitely able to use his right hand but he doesn't want to out of arrogance. What does Allah Almighty say in this regard in Surah, Al are off verse number 146. It says I'll study for TL Adina carbona Fill out the virial Huck, I shall turn away from my guidance

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for my verses from my signs for my miracles.

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Those who show arrogance on earth without trait to the point that we're in your local area Tila you mean will be her yellow Seville of goose dilla Taheebo who sebelah

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If they see every single sign that confirms that Allah is a true God and His Messenger is conveyed his message, they will not believe in it. Any idea any sign any miracle, any tangible evidence will be rejected. Why? Because of arrogance. Keep. So as a result, Allah Almighty will put a seal on their hearts. This is what he said with regards to the Pharaoh and his hosts. He said what your head will be here was they cannot assume one man what Oh, wha

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the Phil

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and his mother and his horse, her man Hoon, and D style guys, not only they for himself, but his company gehad will be here.

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They denied all the aft of Musa alayhis salam.

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And the accusation will be in a sorcerer. But look what Allah Almighty said was they cannot enforce him is they cannot have from me opinion. They were very certain that those signs that Musa Ali Salam have both are true. And he's a messenger and he's been sent by Allah. Why? Why would they do that one Manoir Allah Allah Allah means arrogance. Keep. So look how Allah the Almighty punished, the corrupt and the arrogant Subhan Allah. Then Allah Almighty says in Surah, Darfur, 35 Carrick alphabet Allahu Allah kalbi, Allah Allah couldn't Nickleby Motek, a Behringer ba

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the similarly Allah Almighty Allah He puts a seal over the heart of every person who's arrogant and cruel.

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So, within himself he knows that this is the truth. He rejects it. What is the

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bottleneck or humbleness? rejecting the truth while you recognize it, and you're certain that this is the truth, but you still rejected

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Wuhan to Ness looking down at people.

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So because of that, the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said one who has an atom way of arrogance shall not into paradise, because this added weight of arrogance may prevent him from accepting the truth. Even though it is very clear crystal crystal clear.

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You see the sun in midday, clear sky is saying that there is no sun, it's cloudy. It's nighttime. There is an eclipse.

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He is not blind. It's arrogance rejecting the truth. So for such person, Allah Almighty says in Surah Al Baqarah. In error number 206 Chapter number two, what is their appeal Allah Who tequila hada tool is to be F for hospital who the hand? Well it is and we had, once he's reminded with Allah once it is said to him, fear Allah, keep your digital Allah avoid his punishment. What have what will happen? Pride carries him off to sin, therefore hair is sufficient for him. And certainly it is an evil resting place. Uh huh. That hula is to Bill Ethen. Pride carries him off to sin, He will do the opposite. You tell him a tequila, he will do the opposite. Okay? If you see somebody, maybe even

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with the left hand, because we are living in a western society, everyone is using the fork in the left hand. So say you're Muslim, eat with the right hand. He will take it very personal. Who are you to tell me how to eat and how to drink. I wasn't born yesterday, I know how to eat before you were born. So this is something similar to the behavior of best of both. That's why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said to him, let's stop.

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If you're really true, that you're not able to use your head, that is something but if you're making it up, then May you not be able to use your right hand feminine stata and your Farah Isla de femme Arafa Rafi and his hand became stiff that he wasn't able to lift his hand to his his right hand anymore afterwards. So I guess in the light of our explanation to the previous Hadith, now you know that the supplication of the Prophet Salah Salem Witch literally curse this person wasn't simply because he happened to eat with the left hand No, rather because he refused

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to obey the command of the press.

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Salim while he was capable, and what prevented him, arrogance, it was arrogance that prevented him from obeying the command and the teaching of the Prophet sallallahu sallam.

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The following chapter is a new chapter in the same book of adab or etiquette chapter number 105. Babel nahi annual Charania binatang rotini when a Hema either ecologia now tune in levy is near proof Katya

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the Chateau de is with the prohibition of eating two dates at a time, simultaneously, if you're eating when people are less when seeks permission from the rest of the partners, or those who are with him. So obviously, we know here, the restriction against eating to dates, to peaches, to plump plums, to strawberries, to raisins, to grains, any fruits, you know, a plate of fruits, the dishes in front of us. And sometimes you search out your hand to take two or three pieces at a time. And you keep picking them maybe one after another or you put them all together in your mouth. In regular circumstances.

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One may do that. And it is permissible sometimes when you're lucky to get the very sweet cherries, because sometimes they're very, like, you know, they're tasteless. But sometimes they're very tasty, but they're very low and tiny. You know, similarly, the grapes, very sweet. You know, you feel like both of eating one after another. You don't have patience. It's your house. You bought it out of your loaf of income. And your honey, your wife is serving you the plate and now you're sitting together chatting in the balcony. And you eat two or three at a time. Is that permissible? It is permissible to coal, no problem. But there is a clause here. If you're eating with people, and the

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food is barely enough, then you got to understand that you're not by yourself. You're not alone. You got to respect others, love for others wherever you love for yourself. So what does the Hadith says Hadith number 741. I know that many Muslims have never heard about these etiquette before.

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And there will be some more etiquette that for some, this is the first time to learn about it. When you adopt these etiquette and practice them anticipate in the world of a lot of money guaranteed you will be rewarded for that. Then you teach them to the rest of your family members. And Jamela Taberna so Haman Radi Allahu Anhu call

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or Saldana. Senate in madness Zubayr. For Rosie okna Tamron what can Abdullah Hypno Omar Radi Allahu Anhu uma there are more Rubino could fool lead to Corino for in Anivia Salallahu Ira he was Alana na Neil Koran, su Mayer, who in as Xena Raju A ha

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ha con la

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jolla evening So hi, may Allah be pleased with him. The rated that we were with Abdullah is available that I were may Allah be pleased with him

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in a time of Faiman

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then we were provided with some dates, the dates fruits, and then once we were eating and Abdullah if no matter Mahatama Allah we visited him and his father passed by us. Then he saw us eating and he said do not eat two days together. Do not eat two dates together. Since the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him prohibited that unless one seeks permission from his partner or his brother or brothers. What do we have in this hadith? Two things. Number one is circumstances. The word Santa

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okay is different than Cinna

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we read in an article see the greatest idea in the entire Quran.

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Later who sent it on Wallah. Now what is a center watch me

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that is center. A lot of lumber may overtake you because you're moving

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really overwhelmed with sleep, you're tired, you're fatigued. So even if you're standing you may do have a little bit those in office, the center, a center may refer to the year and it refers to the hardship of Faiman no rain, nerves, nothing vegetations livestock buying, people are starving that school Santa would the FATCA or the Zabur on the Lehrer scene, so it is the same spilling like sinner. And also it is an ambiguous word. It has the two meanings the year and it has defaming.

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we were giving some dates. And while we're eating Abdullah Ahmad Al Khattab Radi Allahu anhu, my passed by us, he so some of us we're eating Of course, when you're hungry, and finally get dates is not just fruits, dates are food. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said in the Hadith, beta Lethem of EGR, on Arrow, if any house do not have dates, then it's people may suffer of hunger. Why? Because, look, if you're hungry and the food is not ready yet, he can be patient you can entertain yourself, being patients yourself by eating a few dates. It's very nutritive and it may actually be like a meal. So anyway,

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I believe normal hubub saw them eating the dates. And he saw some eating two dates together simultaneously. So he said don't do that because I have heard the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said learn to code in our annual Quran.

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I was actually shocked to hear that some of those deviant sects they perceive hydro Quran forbidden, because they say, well, the prophet Salah Salem forbade Al Quran. What coronial talking about Koran here refers to joining two fruits two dates together in one mouse. Yeah, and you eat two at a time simultaneously. And in certain circumstances, like if you're a group of people, and eating together and the food is limited, it is not permissible to give preference to yourself to in one handful you pick two or three at a time, no one other time so that you give a chance to others. But in regular circumstances, that is definitely permissible. If the food is adduced you're eating from your own

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crate. You even throw it in from your sack or duffel bag. You're traveling you have your provision with you. Do as you wish you want to eat one, two or three simultaneously. No problem but make sure make sure to take the seat out please. So this hadith the Prophet sallahu wa salam assayed in N Yes. The Zener Raju AHA

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What if the people permit you and they don't have any problem with that and there is plenty of day no problem. What if you say Do you mind if I eat like two dates together? And they say no no, no problem there is plenty of food so it is permissible. From that we know that the prohibition is directed towards limited circumstances. Brothers and sisters. In following the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, we will find a great deal of virtues and we will learn a lot we will learn that the Prophet Salah Salem forbade that you set have your body in the shade and have your body under the sun. Because you're not being fair to the rest of your body. Here forbidden to work while

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one of your feet you keep the shoe on and the other one is barefoot in no no, no, no. Either both, you know bear or you keep the shoes in both feet. You know these are very fine details. But these are our Islamic etiquette. May Allah Almighty teach us what we don't know. Help us follow the guidance and the teachings of our most beloved messenger Muhammad salallahu Alaihe Salam and until next episode, brothers and sisters I love you all in the care of Hola Hola. Hola hair that was tough for Allah Annie welcome for SallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Salam wa salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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glory to Him. He bought me Good Ole Miss to be the best against his best religion to allah God has the greatest

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glory to Him.

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To be the best and give his religion to them. So why did they know that forgetting all about and in paradise, we're shipping cows fire and stones, sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stoves, selling the best were the cheapest

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