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Gardens Of The Pious #278 Apr 19th 2017

Muhammad Salah

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a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ALA and maybe he almost suffer. Maybe you know, Muhammad in one early he was so happy or Manuela Habad My dear brothers and sisters, I'd love to welcome you to another live edition of your program Guardians of the pious, in the beginning of the program,

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I turned to Allah Almighty with sincere dua that may Allah grant us all forgiveness. May Allah Almighty have mercy on all of us. May Allah teach us the useful knowledge that will help us to worship Him in the best way that he likes, and, most importantly, accept the best of our deeds. Aloha Miami. Today insha. Allah will begin a new chapter, chapter number 94.

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And the chapter is still in the book of etiquette. Chapter 94 deals with honoring the guests.

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And honoring the guests in Islam isn't some social traditions, or some habits simply due to our cultural customs? No. Honoring the guest is a great act of worship. So the acts of worship in Islam aren't limited to me or praying, fasting, or, you know, performing Hajj, these acts of worship which mainly to strengthen the tie between the servant and his Creator, He is the greatest beneficiary out of that. So I benefit out of my prayer, a benefit out of my fasting in the dunya and in the Hereafter, improving my manners, getting close to Allah, granting me forgiveness, accepted my deed and so on.

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Then, there comes the importance of these a badass to reflect upon your relationship with the rest of the creation, whether human beings divided into Muslims, or non Muslims, or even other living creatures, such as enemas for innocence. So the person who benefits out of the acts of worship the prescribed a badass and atras

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you will find them automatically

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behaving in the best manner with other teachers.

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Allah Almighty says in a solid that unhandled fascia you will need God.

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Verily the prayer forbids a person against every evil

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and every sin

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against illicit relationship against injustice, against substitution. So if the person is truly offering the prayer properly, that should reflect upon his relationship with others. Fasting

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isn't only about experiencing hunger and thirst, no.

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The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, one whose fasting does not stop him from acting upon falsehood and saying what is false, then Allah is not interested in his hunger and thirst, then in this case, his first thing is mere suffering. He's hungry, and he's starving for no reason. So it is not about losing weight. It is not simply because it's a good opportunity to have a mandatory diet. No. It's much deeper than that. What is it?

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In order to be righteous? That is the main reason why a lot of mighty proscribed fastly. being righteous includes feeling sympathy for the poor, feeling pity for the needy, and rushing to assess them because

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if you get to experience on hunger for a little bit, while you're certain that at the time of bacon, you're fast, you will have all the delicious food that you desire and the drinks. It gives you an assurance so that you are patient and meanwhile you know, in a narrow bed you shall eat and you shall drink you shall make it up.

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What about a person who does not see a light by the

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end of the tunnel. What about people who live in areas where they have droughts and Faiman it's very scary. It is our duty as Muslims to feel the same of those who are suffering. And once we have the same feeling for us to help, and we will not consider it nor perceive it as if we're doing them a favor. No, we're doing ourselves a big favor. So the Prophet salallahu Salam talks about one of these practices, which some people look at it as social

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or human, while it is pure religious.

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Rasul Allah is Allah Allah Allah is the lemma says By Allah, he does not believe, who doesn't believe.

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And Berta Shavon the person who goes to sleep while his phone he had plenty of food, wha hoo, Iranian behavior while his next door neighbor is starving. So he has and he ate, he ate to his phone, and his pantry is full. And he knows that his neighbor is hungry, doesn't have anything to eat. You're stuck with food for how long next month, two months to come, while you see somebody is starving. This is a sign of lacking of EMA

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because of that brothers and sisters.

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And I have lived in both cultures in Muslim cultures and whether in Muslim countries or non Muslim countries and also have lived amongst non Muslims in their culture.

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Materialism have become so dominant that the person only thinks about himself or herself. Sometimes even the couple

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who live in together, whether in halal or haram, married or a boyfriend or a girlfriend.

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Materialism is given precedence. So even at the time of paying the check, each one pays for himself or herself separate.

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While

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it is really interesting to see Muslims, whether Muslims have indo Pak background or an Arabic background, or anywhere you find them fighting as who would pay the check.

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Sometimes the waiter

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would say, as I have heard it myself once in London in the UK, I wish I have friends like you guys. I wish I could have friends like you because unlike what he experienced, he saw Muslims. Everyone is wearing a beard and offer no no no Wallahi I'm gonna pay Wallahi it is my turn. And he see us he is so eager to host your crowd because he knows that he will be rewarded for that.

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And whatever he spends in hosting people feed in them whether they are poor or they're just mere guests, Allah Almighty promised on faculty min che in for Julio Khalifa. Whatever you spin off shape, the word that shape means I think anything, whether it is little UK water, or big.

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We are commanded Wakulla wasabi wallet to threefold.

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We are commanded to eat and drink but not to be extravagant. So keep in balance. But being generous is a pure monotheistic trait. It is stemming from the belief that whatever you spend, whether in honoring your guests, taking care of your neighbors, or supporting the poor and the needy, or giving somebody alone or giving in a voluntary charity definitely will come back to you

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and will be materialized 10 times more. We're not only talking about the mortar word like expect that word there in the hereafter. Now we're talking about also in this dunya SubhanAllah. We have heard Aisha Radi Allahu anha used to welcome the acetyl

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a sale is the true bagger, the one who really is in need, so he is begging for anything to eat. And she says, Welcome, you've come to carry my provision to Paradise, you are a means of carrying my provision to paradise. We need to recover those beautiful meanings of the receiving given as a quality receiving given as a privilege. Not a thing that

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it burdens you and you're trying to slip away and you're trying to hide. No.

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Nowadays people are avoiding hosting people, or avoiding receiving people in their houses, even for a short period of time, why we will cause us some sweet it will cause us this and this and that and even the time you spent with the person as long as you're discussing something, lawful,

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socializing, visiting family members receiving family members, you can convert all these habits into pure acts of worship.

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Didn't Allah Almighty inform us that on the day of judgment, He will call upon Anan Mutasa within a fee? Where are those who used to visit one another? For my sake, did in the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him, narrate to us about a man who visited one of his brothers in another city? And Allah Almighty, have sent to him an angel to ask him what are you up to? He said, I'm going to visit my brother so and so.

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Are you going to take any loan from him? Are you going to benefit from him anything that that's why you are traveling such a long distance?

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Does you owe you any money?

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Why are you visited him? This is nowadays is a question why? Why shall I spend time with this person? What kind of benefit will I get out of that? Why do I have to visit this person and people make a less of I visit him because last year he visited me. I take so much gifts equivalent to how much gifts that he or she had brought to me had nothing to do with Islamic traditions. This is pure materialistic. But Islamic traditions You're doing this because you're visiting somebody you visit and Allah

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you know that your word is what Allah Almighty you're taking the cake, you're taking food you're taking whatever

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you want to see the great reward for that. It is an act of charity but he is not in need. It is an act of charity. We have figured from the Hadith that even when you buy clothes or food for yourself and your family member

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as a sadhaka from you upon yourself or upon your family members.

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When a man came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him and he said

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I have a DNR he said

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and feel cool Alan etc. So doc be here and NFC, spend it upon yourself as a as a charity from you to yourself. I have another one.

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spend it on your family that's a charity from you upon your family. I have a third one borrow high associate then donate it wherever you want to do as long as it is the right place.

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So all of that is perceived as a bad debt.

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acts of worship you will be rewarded for that is so beautiful. It is so beautiful that Allah Almighty summarizes this whole thing in a very comprehensive reference in Surah till and I'm when he said call in now Salah T one also okay. Yeah, mana tea. Here.

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Let me learn Cherie Keller who Nika O'Meara to

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mostly me. Say oh Mohamed Salah Salem and the command here is not limited to the person of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam say, Oh, who you believe every believer, you must say that because you believe in it. Indeed, my prayers,

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my sacrifice, and my entire life, waking up going to sleep, eating, drinking, enjoying my sexual relations, where Manatee and my death

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all belongs to Allah, the Lord of everything that exists. There is no partner to him. And I was commanded to do so I'm the first to be a believer and submissive to the will of Allah on might.

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So brothers and sisters,

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going to school,

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graduating, get a job earning Halal provision spending the Earn provision on Halal outlets and sources. These are all very bad out here any acts of worship, you will be rewarded for that. Amongst that is a karamo Bife honoring the guest

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and there are many a hadith on top of those Hadith the Hadith which says which links honoring the guests to the concept of faith. Let whoever believes in Allah and in the last day, let him honor his good

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I will be studying this hadith assassin Hadith as well. But also there are some a yet such as the verses which talk about the generosity of Prophet Ibrahim Ali Salam and his story has been rated in many yet and in many sewer

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so for innocence in the verses from 24 to 27 Allah Almighty says hell attack or Hadees although if he ever or he email muka roaming is the follow up on Lucerna corner Salem

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go follow

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me

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send me

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for Kawada who lie him call Ella Kulu.

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This is talking about are talking about the story of Prophet Ibrahim alayhi salam when he received honorable guests who are the honorable guests.

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The angels led by Gibreel Alison and these verses are from 2427 Surah Azhar yet the rate and upon us the story or a segment of the story of Prophet Ibrahim Al Salam who is also known as Abu Dhabi fan.

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The word Abu as you all know means father, a boyfriend means the guests. He was like the father

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of all their guests, he will take care of them, like if he was their own father, and he was the most generous person

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and this is one of the reasons why I love him mighty have taken him as a Helene so he is known as Holly you know Rama similarly was Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam because in the Hadith the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said that indeed Allah have taken Ibrahim as a hot meal and has taken me as a holiday so the only two prophets who have the title of holly low ramen and I'll holla is a level which is higher than Al Habib.

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The Beloved, is even higher and closer to Al Habib.

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So that's why we say Mohammed who is Holly you are rock man. So now these this is from 24 to 27 of swords as they are yet they mean the off meaning is that a lot of mighty says, has a story reached you about the honor guests of Ibrahim, when they came to him and said Peace, he said then apply

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permanent peace. So how do we know that it says permanent peace, they said Solomon, Solomon means peace. But when he said, Sir, Moon, that means an everlasting Salem, coma Moon cone, that he did not really he felt nice them. And he said to himself, those seem to be strange people from out of town.

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So if those people are strangers, and from out of town, that means they don't have a place to stay in. And there was no restaurants. So they did not over the must have not eaten for a while. So what did he do for Raha Isla Lee? So he rushed, he slipped away without feeling him without sensing them, that he is going to prepare a meal or to cook food for our Illa Allah He also slipped away without anybody feeling that he left. And he rushed to his family to his wife and he quickly brought back beer add linens, I mean, so he is Lara, a calf, a very fat calf, and he also did it.

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And furthermore, for Kawada who lie him and he brought it near to them. Then he said, Will you not then eat Allah? Allah Quran? Of course, the story is long. Those three angels who came to Prophet Ibrahim Ali Salam, they disguised as human beings.

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And they bought him they Beshara the news that your wife Sarah will conceive.

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And that's why the ASC fasade cat watch will call at our June RP. When Sarah overheard

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the conversation between these three guys telling Ibrahim Ali Salam that

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what kind of Beshara you brought to me they say

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that you will be a father. He's been really fun

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Other before when Hajj or Allah has Salam conceived and she delivered Ismail then he was commanded to take them to babka the abandoned place from Palestine to Baca Mecca.

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So now Sarah, have only given Ibrahim Hajj or

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so that she would he would have a child from harder because Sarah was stern. Now Saara, not only Stern, she's also old, very old, are Jews. She's really old. And Ibrahim Hassan was over 86. So Ibrahim was all say I was old. And when they were young, she was still. So how is it possible after besides reality and infertility, that now we're really old as well, and I would have a child? Well, that's true. Bill gulaman. Aleem, they gave him the Beshara you would have a knowledgeable child.

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So when Sarah heard that soccer toward her, she slammed your face inside. She said, Ottosson Aki, I'm old and I'm standing How am I supposed to have a child? So they assured her, this is a message from your Lord. And this is his command. It's over. So basically, the angels came to give the Beshara to Ibrahim Ali Salam that he would have a child but this time from Sarah miracle.

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And Ibrahim Ali Salam before recognizing their identity. When he saw strangers, people from out of town, he said salaam, calm and he said to himself, those people are strangers. They must be hungry. So immediately after hosting them. Okay? If you look into the eye, it gives you a very detailed explanation of the situation, the Hailu ally, he admitted them to his house, he did not leave them by the door. Then he asked them what brought you here and what do you want? And how did you know that? I'm living here and what do you expect from me? No, he admitted them. He led them into the huddle already. They have entered already upon him. And they have entered while he does not

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recognize any of them. And that's why he said to himself, como macaron. Those people are strangers. So what am I supposed to do in this case? For Raha he slipped away?

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Some people when they have a guest, they make a scene? So the code to order some food? Or do you care for meat or chicken? Shall I order like, a whole chicken or have would be enough for you? These are all signs of stinginess.

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You know, you're not supposed to show the guests that you are preparing food for him. And you're encountering difficulty in order to make food for him or to order food from him. It's you other really generous, and you can afford it and you're gonna bring whatever he can afford, or stop talking about it. Because some people, you know, tend to be loud, attempting to inform the guests that you see struggling in order to serve a meal. So what they expect from the guests. No, no, no, no, no, don't bother. You don't have to worry about it. We just ate you know, this is natural. Now why because you are burdening them they make you're making them feel like you know, encountered this

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hardship or because of you. So what do you expect from them? So Farah Illa actually have a seat please. And he slipped away and he immediately

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rode the broil calf which took him some time. He did not make them feel that he is preparing the food why? Because they are strangers. They must be traveling for a while.

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And he brought the food and immediately he brought it near to them the isas Sakuraba who ilae him, he brought near to them. This is also a sign of generosity. If you look into the beginning of the act when he for Allah Almighty describe the wife and the wife applies for singular and plural because there were three the guests of Ibrahim Ali Salaam. He described him as Mukuro Amin honorable and if they guess our honorable then the horse is honorable to

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when you have a neighbor and this neighbor every other day or every weekend he is throwing a party and is inviting people. The type of people who are invited can tell what kind of neighborhood you have. The type of guests who visit the person can tell what kind of home

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First is the host, when he invites righteous people as a Prophet salaallah Allah selama said make certain that no one shall enter your house but a righteous person and no one should eat from your food, but a believer, which means that those who come so close to you and your family should be right to speak otherwise, of course we feed everyone believers and non believers as well. In NaNoWriMo, calm Lord Hill Hill and Murray domain comm just one issue, Cora Ibrahim Al Islam never asked the guests about their faith, or their belief. The right was hospitality. So he let them in. And he immediately fulfilled the right and he brought it near to them, then they didn't eat for

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carrabba Who, Eli, if you're traveling, if you're from out of town, as they expect, you must be hungry. And once the food is served, and if you're hungry, I'm not going to ask you whether you want to eat or not. Because I forgot that on my own and the food is already ready. Why don't you eat. So he was suspicious? Alligator Kowloon. Because when the person is from your food, this is a sign of safety and security. But if the person doesn't want to eat from your food, you may suspect that there is something behind this person doesn't want to eat doesn't want to drink in your place. So it is very suspicious. And then they reveal their identity. And they said in our Rasulo robic, we are

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the messengers of your load in order to give you the Beshara which I told you earlier. We'll take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a couple of minutes please stay tuned.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. This was a live edition of your program Guardians of the pious second segment and our phone numbers Area code 002 and 0228 treble 5131 Or one say to my dear brothers and sisters, the second reference is relating to also the family of Ibrahim Ali salaam, his nephew, Prophet, lute, ESP upon Him, who is a believer to those three angels, when they deliver the Beshara the good news to

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Abraham and his salon that he will be a father for the second time and Sarah would be the mother for the first time in her life. Now, he said, What are you up to? They said we're going to loot. Why he knew that. Because Luth Allah Salam lived in a city where the people were very wicked, they do to practice some wickedness. Okay.

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So he said in the few Hello open, they said, We know, we know that notice there are going to spare him and his family, but the rest are going to take care of them. They will be utterly destroyed. So now, we're Hemara Salem, feel safe that loot will be safe and they believers around him. The area which I'm going to call upon you is one of the differences which tell us about the story of Portales Salam and those angels, which would specifically refer to how a person should be generous and protective to his guests. Once they enter your house.

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They should be protected. But what happens is when the guests those beautiful, nice looking angels disguised as human beings, okay, as you know that the real al Islam used to come to the Messenger of Allah sometimes in the form of a human being the Sahaba would see him as the most handsome companion.

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Okay? Sometimes, like the heel kalbi, may Allah be pleased with him. So when they appear in this very magnificent form,

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the people, the people of the city of loathe Ria, Salem will not state the US to practice homosexuality.

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So they were after those men.

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And loot Ali Salam was so scared, because he knew that once the news spread, that there are handsome men visit and look Ali Salam and they are from out of town, that they are going to attack his house in order to rape those guests. You see how evil they were to rape the guests? Again is the word.

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So low toilets Salam was so frightened, and he said lo anelli. We can go what and where are we headed? I will. I wish I was strong enough in order to protect my guests had their Gibreel

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RS Salam said don't worry about it. We'll take care of that. Okay, here because he didn't have the power to protect them and he was standing against the law trying to protect his guests. He offered his people, the evil people he offered them something better. Halal, legitimate, he said, How old are you? Burnett? Those are my daughters. Now we're going to talk about what did he actually mean by saying my daughter's let me call the eye upon you first. It's number 78 of Surah tude peace be upon him wotja Who como una la he were Myung COVID Okay, we are MeLuna say

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on a poem we have all

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even at the

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alcoholic

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law,

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third law hawala to ZUN, if he bought aefi, la salmon kumara Dulo, washing need

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here, as I said, the eye is focused on a particular incident in this visit, when the people of North Alehissalaam came rushing to him, why his wife leaked the news to those evil people that we have very handsome men at home come over.

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And they had grown accustomed to their sinful acts. He said, Oh my people, these are my daughters. They are pure for you, Sophia, Allah and do not disgrace me in the presence of my guests, as they are now among you, one man with rational intellect. You see, those people have been demanding earlier that people have brought Ali Salam had been demanding

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the expulsion

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of hula afloat Ali Salam

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and his family with the exception of his wife because she was Eve, and they said, A Haeju ll Ottoman Korea to come kick them out, exile them we don't want the people and his loot and his followers here. Why? Look at the guilt. And now Mona Sonia, tapa how, because those people like to be pure, like to be clean, we don't want any cleaning people around. Can you imagine this is a message for our brothers and sisters who are holding fast on to their deed, whether in non Muslim societies, or even in many Muslim societies who have which have turned pure secular, they are attacking morality, and they are attacking those who are religiously committed, they don't have an issue with a woman

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who's, you know, almost not wearing anything, revealing her our and they say this is freedom. This is freedom, you're everybody's free to wear or to tear.

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But when a woman chooses to be pure,

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if it is freedom, then everyone is free to cover or not to cover. But freedom is limited to nudity, to be naked, to be in an illicit relationship.

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But to be fewer, you don't have a room here. Unfortunately, this is happening in some of our Muslim societies as well. So the war is against those who are religiously practicing religiously committed those who want to purify themselves. Okay.

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Accordingly, loathe Ali Salam begged Allah for help. And then Gibreel Allah Salam revealed his identity to Tara's Salam said, don't worry about it, we'll take care of them. And with one hit, he blinded all and in the morning Allah subhanaw taala rebrand Ali salaam left the whole town.

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They ascended to heaven, and he turned it upside down, upside down. And while they were falling, all the wicked people he saved loathe Ali Salam and his daughters, Ella Murata.

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But his wife was of the wicked. She used to assess them.

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So accordingly, they fell. And then Holmes stones, the rocks, everything was falling on top of them so they weren't stoned to death. This is how the people have not Allah Salam have been destroyed. The appeal of fluid peace be upon him to his people. He said hola Urbinati who not holla come, please. I beg you. Those are my daughters. The word vanity here. What does it mean? When I say Binti? I mean my daughter Rupiah okay. I mean, my and sometimes when I'm answering a question, and a young girl is asking the question so I say

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My dear daughter, okay, metaphorically, because you are in my daughter's age or I respect you and I appreciate you like my daughter. It doesn't mean that our mutual by our biological father, and in the Quran in surah Al Ahzab. Allah Almighty says to Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam and EBU llbean meaning, I mean, foresee him as well due

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to whom this is morally will the wives of Prophet Mohammed Salah Salem are our mothers, not biologically, morally. You shall out the hola on his own mother Hafsa.

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Sophia, while the alo Anna OMO Habiba or more Selena Xena, the two signups

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and so, so those are our mothers.

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And there have been, you know, many generations between us and them, and they are our mothers. Oh, my mean are the Allahu anha Isha or Hafsa, or whatever, any of those of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So that means a, all the girls who are unmarried in town, they're all my daughters, if you wish I can get you married. Why didn't you get married to girls, and instead of chasing after the men, this is what he said to them. It was not that evil was not limited to concealing their practice behind closed doors. No, it was so provocative to the point that they chase after the guests. People out of town, they chase after them. So that's why they came knocking on the door of Lewis house, we

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want those guests, we heard that you have some nice handsome men, we want them. And he begged the Lord Almighty for help. And then you know what happened? So here locally, Salam was trying to his utmost to be protective,

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by preventing those people from reaching out to his guests, as long as and by the way, the Arab even in January Lea before Islam, once they were given a word like this person is in my protection that said, he would fight to death himself, his family and his clan, to protect this guest or the person who entered under his protection.

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And the Prophet sallallahu sallam said about the believers the same your co movies he met him and now if any Muslim, even the nice person said this person is in my protection as long as he did not commit a crime,

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then we shall respect this person and we shall honor this person. Okay. The following is simply insha Allah.

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Some of the etiquette of honoring the guests,

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such as

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the person is supposed to offer as much as he can afford no problem. But sometimes a person have none.

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Literally have one. It happened and the hadith is collected by Imam Bukhari. When the Prophet sallallahu Sallam had a guest somebody from out of town and he asked his wives, if we can host our guests, one after another, before asking any of the companions

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and have you ever been meaning I mean, and force him he is more worthy, you have more rights upon the believers than their own selves. He's my guest. He's coming to Medina to learn about Islam. He's my guest. Aisha half. So Sophie, everybody says, Oh prophet of Allah.

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Have you forgotten that it's been three days we have none at home? Just water.

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We cannot afford we don't have anything to offer to the guests. So at that the prophets, Allah, Allah, Allah said and turn to his companions, we have a guest here who would like to take care of him tonight. So one of the Sahaba I will tell her may Allah be pleased with him, the husband of homosalate, the mother of aniseed numeric. She's such a great woman, may Allah be pleased with her said in sha Allah, I shall take care of him. Yeah, rasool Allah, it's an honor for me. Then he asked his wife, if we have anything to host, the Prophet's guests, she said, What a shame we don't have what the food of the kids said, Let's do something about it. So she put them to sleep without

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eating. And then when he sat with the guests, he turned the light off the oil lamp, so that he would not see how much food is there. And he will not perceive that the host himself, the household didn't eat, because they don't have food. So they offer all the food to the guest.

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And then when he ate, he went to sleep. And in the morning, he accompanied his guest to the machine to pray, fed. Then when aborted, enter the masjid and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam saw him, he smiled to him and said, Look at the RGB Allah hoomans Sunni eco melbury Ha

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Allah is so pleased and happy with what you and your wife did yesterday, I love the term Sony equimat Duel.

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you and your wife, one hand doesn't clap. In order to hear the sound, you need two hands. In order to have a righteous children, you have to have a righteous spouse, he or she both have to righteous have to be on the same page. When somebody makes the wrong decision, and he marries maybe a woman who is not practicing, she is not Muslim. And he says Inshallah, we'll bring her to Islam, and she will start praying and what if she doesn't do that? When he marries a woman who likes to wear all the new fashion clothes and the makeup and the perfume and she loves to go out like that? And it says, In sha Allah, I will make her a pious woman and she will wear hijab, what if she doesn't? And

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it happens 1020 30 years. And he goes out with his wife while she's wearing those very tight jeans. He can even dare to say no, then they have a daughter. And like mother like daughter, and he's a father of a girl who's revealing her out because he doesn't have a say. On the other hand when a girl accepts to marry a man whose job is haram. So she knows that from the beginning, he is earning a lot. She said but he promised me he will look for another job, honey, when he gets another job, and when he is completely away from the Haram come and knock on our door. I'll be waiting for you. But not before that. Okay.

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You know that almost like

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her mother, her dowry was the avatar should accept Islam.

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Okay, that's a such a Blissett family. So I love what the Prophet sallallahu selama said when he described Allah's pleasure, he said love the army of Allah hoomins Sania EchoMap both of you are praiseworthy. Both of you, Allah loves you, and appreciate what you both have done.

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Why? Because they give preference to the guests over their own selves. Then the idea to sort of hash the AYA describes that by saying well you see Runa Allah and fusi him well, okay and IBM Kasasa when the yo casual Han FC for Ola ecoman movie home, and they give preference to others over their own selves. They will hungry, their kids who are hungry, but we have a guest. They gave him precedents. Why?

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Before Islam it was not like that. Before Islam it was never seen FC.

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But they have done so she said to her life Rasulullah the guests of the Messenger of Allah Oh welcome, and she assisted him she helped them they were on the same page because she knows that

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spending out of the little bit that you have to honor your guest is simply because you believe that Allah whom you believe in His Oneness, shall reward you in the hereafter as well because you leave you believe in life after death, resurrection, and in recompense, we ran out of time in sha Allah azza wa jal next time we'll continue with the etiquette of a wife and a mother if the guest and the host as well and we'll study the two Hadith which have been mentioned in the chapter until next time, I leave you all in the care of

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