Gardens Of The Pious #279 May 3rd 2017

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala Anna V. Mustafa who are back by the viewers welcome to another live edition of our program Guardians of the pious. Today's episode is number 334. And it will be the second in explained in chapter number 92 which is known as the hospitality of honoring your guests the virtues of hospitality in Islam and honoring the guests. I just like to remind you, all of that is under the book of Allah Adam, who the etiquette So, today's hadith is Hadith number 705. And it is a sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity. Narrated by Abu Huraira Radi Allahu Allah and Ebihara your

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Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him said, He who believes in Allah and in the last day, let him show hospitality to his guest. And he who believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain good relation with his relatives. And he who believes in Allah, and the Last Day, let him say what is good, or be quiet?

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Obviously, this hadith had been mentioned and quoted in many, many occasions.

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So in this chapter, which deals with the virtues of honoring the guests, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam reminded us with why do we do that?

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In a very materialistic society, people do not pay attention to that because everything is about how much and what did you do to me, in order to pay you the same, and so on?

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In Islam, we do whatever we do, supposedly seeking the pleasure of Allah and His countenance and sorted insane. Allah Almighty recounted what the believers say, the believers who do whatever they do for his sake, such as feeding the poor, the orphans, and the captives, the prisoners of war. He said about them. Why Otto Mo, not parama Allah who be a ski in and weigh a team and what a Sierra

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is in their manual toy more commonly, what do Hilaire Lemery domain comm Jazza and went through Cora,

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they feed and they offer the food to the poor, to the orphans, and to the captives. And they say, are doing so seeking the pleasure of Allah, we're not anticipating any gratitude or compensation from you. Our goal and anticipation is from Allah, not from you. Now because we did you a favor of offering you the food, we're expecting you to give a thanks, gratitude, or make live for us.

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Our goal is Allah Inanna in Arabic grammar is hustle on walk us exclusively are doing so. See can the pleasure of Allah, the word you Hila hoping to enter paradise and hoping to be rewarded by seeing Allah Almighty in heaven? Then in Nana ha former Rob

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In a young man who sang computer era, We fear from our Lord a day on which the day would make people with frown faces and what would make people overwhelmed with fear for worker Humala who Shirwa luckily Welaka hung up rotten was Rura, which has been Saba Bucha net and will hairier as a result because he will doing so for the sake of Allah.

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Allah protected them, again is the evil of the day. And he blessed them, and he brought in their faces, and he granted them joy and delight on the day, when others are overwhelmed with fear, sorrow and grief. What is OB Masaba? Oh, Jeanette and harira. And he granted in the reward as a result of the patient's gardens of Paradise. And in it, they will be dressed up of silk fabric, and the I go on. So here is why we reference why those people who did whatever they did, of offering the food, not only to the poor, because the poor and not only to the offense, because they're orphans, what about the prisoners of war, the captives are the enemies who came to fight against us, and they

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ended up being captivated their enemies that non Muslims, but we still feed them, we still treat them with respect. Why? Because Allah ordered us to do so. So we do whatever we do have all the acts of goodness towards others, seeking the pleasure and the countenance of Allah Almighty. Why? Because we believe that there will be a day on which people will be other blessed, happy or rich, and unblessed. So are seeking His pleasure. And we are trying to protect ourselves against that day, Yo, man Agusan come Toria this belief in Allah, in his oneness, and in the last day, is what makes the believers do whatever they do. Not waiting, we're anticipating any word from no one.

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From no people. When you find money, a lot of money. When you find a gold watch, when you find a wallet, full of money. What do you do? You pick it up, you go home, and you say, Good luck for me. I'm lucky today, I don't have to work for all months. You don't say that? You believe now you have

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a big responsibility. Either there is an ID in this wallet, identification card, or a phone number. So you start looking for the person who had robbed this purse or wallet or watch until you find them and say, Here's your property.

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Waiting for what 10% of its value? No. Waiting for your name to be recognized on the bulletin board. No. So waiting for what? Waiting for their word from Allah for your honesty, because this is Locata you're not supposed to take it for yourself. When this happens amongst non Muslims and a Muslim returns the man that surprised? Are you crazy? What made you do that? What made me do that? In an AHA former Rabina young man I blew some country around. Because besides believing in Allah, and loving him, I'm afraid of him on the day of judgment. He is going to confront me with this elbowing, why did he take something which is not yours?

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so believe in Allah, and the Last Day will make the believers righteous, not only in the relationship with the Lord and delegate, not only in performing the rituals of worship, but also in dealing with others, whether others are Muslims or non Muslims, friends or opponents, human beings or animals, because we do whatever we do, and in front of our eyes, we keep in mind that there will be another day of reckoning and Yambol error. Because of that you find the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam occasionally

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reminding the believers to either do exhorting them to do some good deeds by saying, If you believe in Allah, if you believe in the last day, you got to do this, such as if you believe in Allah and the Last Day, you should honor your guest should take care of your neighbor, you should do this, you should do that. And on the other hand, sometimes through reminding the audience of Allah and the recording of the last day, he would order them to sustain

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from doing what is forbidden. In one Hadith he said

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mankind you mean Avila he only omineca fell as Korean and ooze or other era.

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Let whoever believe in Allah and the Last Day not to commit adultery so that his a sexual discharge would go into a place which is not permissible for him while the woman is married to somebody else, and that causes this confusion of who's the father, and they are on a DNA test. And this is very common in the West, because there is a big deal of confusion. Why, if somebody is not afraid of Allah, if one doesn't believe that there will be a day where everyone's deed will be exposed. Aircrack Kitab Cafe Urbina, seeker Liang Malaika has Eber, everyone will be given the record, and he will be order to read it in public and before people. So he's not afraid of that. Some people

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believe that God sacrificed His own Son for our sins. Would you please explain the previous phrase? What does it mean? It means whatever sins we do, as long as you believe that Jesus is the Son of God, You're forgiven. Does this make any sense?

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So a person a perpetrator hurts others, hit and run steals from people so I'll be leaving Jesus. He will sacrifice for our sins. He's a sacrifice why so that we can go to heaven? It doesn't make any sense. What does the Quran say in this regard? The Quran says go Luna FCMB Mikasa Batra Hina every soul will be accountable and a cone for what have earned for what it has earned the good for good and the bad for bad health. Jessa Oleoresin inland SN familia am and Miss Carla rotten Hi Ella era when the yam and Miss Carla the rotten shoveling era

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letter 00 tune was rah rah no bearer of essential bear the sin of another. Why would anyone else bear your own sins? And what is the sin, the guilt and the problem of the oppressed and the week that the oppressor will get away with his crime the thief will get away with his crime simply because he was not caught.

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Saying that, you know, I confess my sin before another man and he said You're forgiven. Is this a joke?

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No one forgive sins but Allah women young Pharaoh, zuba Jami and il Allah. And if you want the sins to be forgiven, you gotta go to this person and beg him to say, Sir, I found your wallet. And I picked it up, I should have given it to you. I'm not talking about stealing. I'm talking about picking up a property which is not us.

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You're not allowed to enjoy it. Why? Because I believe in the last day I believe in the hereafter. I believe that in Surah till KEF

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Allah Almighty stated that all the Al Kitab the Book would be laid open for thorough and moody me and I was 15 I mean fi were Kowloon I have a letter and I'm early had alkie tabula rasa lila tang walla, cabbie rotten. Ill saw her. Well, what do I do now? I'm in La Habra. Well I have limo Rob Booker had quite interesting. When the book the record of each and every one of us you meet every human being will be laid open.

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At that time, and moody remain the criminals, the wicked, the non believers will examine the record, when they receive it in the left hands when they receive it behind their back. And they look and they read in the record, oh my god, what is wrong with this book? What is wrong with it? It does not leave anything, whether literal or big, but it is all included in it. It is all a spa it is already coded. Well what do you do man? I mean, how thorough whatever they find in the book is what they have actually done. Well, I will be more a book I had, and you load does not wrong. No one. So you see brothers and sisters, why the Messenger of Allah have occasionally used the phrase mankind I

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mean, we rely heavily on malaria. Because believe in the hereafter and believe that Allah the only load was worthy of worship, on the Day of Judgment will account us will hold us for Reckoning and no one will be dismissed before examining the record, and people will be rewarded if they did good and they will be definitely be punished if they did evil that will make the person tend to straighten himself and herself. try their best to be righteous and try their best to distance themselves from committing sins from indulging into anything that displeases Allah Almighty even

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If no one is seeing them because now they believe that Allah is with them wherever they may be at now they believe that the Quran says, Well what do you do manual habra, whatever they have done will be recorded will be present will be displayed before not only them, but all mankind

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whosoever doesn't add some weight of good shall seat and whosoever doesn't add some weight of evil, shall see. Then the Prophet sallallahu selama says in the other Hadith, mankind I mean of Allah who alone will ever fellas listen Allah Allah edit into rural Allah hum, oh my god.

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If you truly believe in Allah, if you truly believe in the last day, then you should not be sitting with people who are drinking on the same table.

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Now only you should not be drinking know if there are people who drink him, you shouldn't associate with them.

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Those who would say but my company and the cycle meeting and the business meeting and we'll do business and people will drink a drink and myself

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and all of that Allah the Almighty is still in you, if you truly believe in him was

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the ever provide, if you truly believe in the hereafter, and all your actions will be displayed before you and others, then you should not be hanging around those who are drinking fellas with analemma edit into Rolla, your funk, why? Because all of that will be projected and you will be exposed, all of that will be displayed and people will get to see sometimes when people travel abroad

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you know, to the west Muslims, business owners, people who have become multimillionaires, they like the Tudor cloth and they change their face. So they become different well Allah Almighty said there is not a secret council of three but he is a force notifier but he there are six no more no less but he's with them as an American

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Well, Adam amazonica Allah Xsara Illa who are now in America and we're whatsoever you may be at, in another country in another continent.

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You know, airborne even if you go to Mars or the Moon He is with you supervising you see in what you do, and all of that will be recorded. So the motive is very powerful.

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Male film and Colin Isla de Heraclea Bonati whatever you utter, of cow the cow may mean something and may not mean anything, it's just a phrase or a word. And there are a lot of words and there are a lot of letters nowadays that the US come up with you know to many of us does not mean anything because you're not familiar with the code.

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But for them it means other mockery or ridiculing somebody luck you know Subhanallah I was you know we will eat and

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somewhere and the food was very delicious. So one of these kids said oh man ridiculous, I said what is ridiculous, the food the food is ridiculous the food is very tasty he said this is what I mean. So, they change the use words for meanings which are the opposite. Nowadays some some of those kids some of those years actually they like something they say sick man sick means sick. But to then sit means this is really good. Okay. So you and you intention, whatever you utter is recorded. Sometimes the angels do not know your intention, of course so they would write the word as it appears. They will write the act as it appears, but all sorted out. Allah Almighty.

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You say a DA you say off? Okay, that Akula Houma of film Walton haha, this is all recorded. I saw hula hula. And so that's why the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam Yakyuu us harbor who Illa Imani him, he trusts the companions and the believers with their faith, Jonnie if you truly believe in Allah. If you truly believe that one day you will die, you will be resurrected, you will be gathered, you will be recovered, then you better understand from that. You better not do that. If you truly believe in Allah, if you truly believe in the day of accountability, then when you have a guest take care of him

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or for him whatever you have at home. Why?

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Because you're not honoring the guests so that he would propagate the message so and so is very generous. No. And doing so because I know how much Allah Almighty will reward me for honoring my guest for honoring my neighbor. Look at the Hadith. Examine it. Men can

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immunobiological Yami let him honor his guest. Then the second when can I mean Avila who along with Foley LC Laura Hema.

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Some relatives are really really cruel. No matter what you do to them, they are very cruel.

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As a matter of fact, during the life of the Messenger of Allah, some people would like that. And a companion came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and said, Oh prophet of Allah. In Nicaragua, I have some relatives, I take care of them. But they're very rude to me. Also, you know, whom uphold the ties, but instead of treating me the same, or appreciating the deceiver, the relations with me, what did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam say to him? Did he say treat him the same, drop them, flush them, erase them from your notepad, from your phone book, you know, it said, If this is the case, you need to continue doing the same. And as long as you continue doing the same, Allah will support you and

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for them, they will be like eating the hot sand, they will be punished for being rude to you for being cruel. But you still have to do the same. Why do I have to continue being nice to somebody who's really rude to me? Man? Can I mean will there holy? I'm laughing because I believe in Allah. And I believe in the last day, I'm building up an asset of has an act of good deeds, then the third? And can I win over lady Oyamel? After failure coherent I

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guess what? This may be the hardest one.

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It may appear as easy as it sounds, but in reality, no, because actions speak louder than words is not easy said than done.

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As a matter of fact, it's easier said than done. As a matter of fact, this statement means whoever believes in Allah, and the last day should say what is good. Or zip of your mouth. Be quiet. I don't want to use the other word Shut up. Why? Because you don't know once you utter a word, once it comes out of your mouth, it's impossible to swallow it back. You try your best to say I'm sorry. I'm sorry. You know, the there was a very interesting story about somebody who borrowed a car from one person said, happily please take it. So as he did drive the car around, he he brought the the right side light. And when he came, he apologized. He said, I will fix it. I'll pay for it. No, no, no,

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no, I swear to God, you don't have to, I'll take care of it. Okay? And why later, he came to borrow the car. So I say, Okay, no problem, but make sure you bring the left light. He was trying to joke around with him. But the other person thought he is reminding him and he is blaming him for the first time breaking the light. So he's reminding him again, and he said, I'm sorry, I don't have to take the car and I do apologize. This person says Subhanallah I've been apologizing for him for the past couple of years, begging him whenever you need a car ticket and said no, I don't want it.

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You know, you may think that it doesn't mean anything. But if it hurts the person's feeling, it's hard to fix it after you broke his heart and he broke his feelings. This is just a very superficial and simple example. But there are deeper ones. That's why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did not tolerate the word for men as his wives as she was describing another Kawhia by saying that she is like this meaning she is kind of shorty. So the prophets Allah Allah, Santa Ana said, Oh, you'll just have utter the word. If it makes if this word is mixed with the water of the ocean, a word polluted, it will change its color. Was it a word? No, she did not say a word. She just motion she

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just pointed out, but it is understood what you meant. You meant to pick on her because she showed this is not permissible.

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Making fun of others being sarcastic. At others, this is all forbidden. And these are only major sins. Last Hong Kong in common as a young woman require a minimum when you sell a minister and asset you're gonna have them in one for a person who remembers the, the, the severity and the grave sin of saying a word. He would rather zip off his mouth and say, you know, I would swallow I don't have to say I'm better off. Just imagine some of the companions like a worker so the use of water stone in his mouth why I don't want to talk? Well, a friend if I open my mouth, I may say something bad. How many bad things that we say every hour without even paying heed to it without paying attention to

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may Allah have mercy on us. May Allah keep reminding us of himself and the good deeds that we have to do and abstaining from anything that may upset or displeased and we'll take a short break

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And we'll be back in sha Allah in a few minutes to tackle the following Hadith which will be 706 and the last in the chapter please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. I would like to remind you with our phone numbers Area code 002, then 023, treble 5131 or 132 and the email address is [email protected]. And obviously you still remember my page is the arm Hamid Salah official.

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My dear brothers and sisters the following Hadith, which also will be the last in this chapter, is in line with the previous Hadith Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam again, will recommend for us honor in the guest but he will explain for how long and then he will give some guidance to both the host and the guest. The hadith is Narrated by Abu Choi while it is AP number alphazero. A lot of the Allaha called Semir to rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Cole and Ken I mean of Allah Holloman Air here value Krim wife who is

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called who a measure is a to who we are rasool Allah, Allah yo Moo hoo. And I like to What do you prefer to sell or sell to a year? Americana or Erlich for who are sada katoon Ali? Mustafa canali of Uruguay Attila Muslim, Leia Hey Lulu Muslim in and you know Cana and he had you aseema called we are rasool Allah. okay for you aseema Kala you Primo and Dehiwala che Allahu Ukri hibi

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in the first Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, let whoever believe in Allah and the Last Day to honor his guests with his word. So the companion said, oh prophet of Allah, what is the word? What is Jay is that he said, a day and a night. And a hospitality is for three days. Whatever is beyond that is charity. This hadith is agreed upon its authenticity between both in Bukhari and Muslim, while in another narration collected by Imam Muslim, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam gave some guidance to the guests. So the previous was guidance to the host. The following segment is guidance to the guest.

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lay ahead lowly Muslim, and it is not permissible for a Muslim to stay in his brother's house until he makes him sinful Hatter, you aseema Again, the Companions asked, How would a person make the host sinful?

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The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said he stays with him so long that nothing is left with the host to be hospitable to him. Subhanallah some people, they take advantage they always take and they never give.

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Do you remember the story of Sodom neuroglia and Abdurrahman him the half, may Allah be pleased with him. Do you remember the story? Try to recall it. Abdullah Manny bow was an immigrant Sadiq. navabi was one of Al Ansari, who was very wealthy. When the Prophet sallallahu Sallam stablish, the brotherhood between the immigrants and Al Ansari, the supporters, he gave each one or a family of Elmo Hijri the immigrants to be family members of one of our own source families. So, man, it now happened to be chosen by the Messenger of Allah to be a brother to Saudi Arabia. And this brotherhood, the early stage was actually similar to the family lineage and the blood brotherhood.

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If any of them were to die, the other would get an a share of the inheritance like the real brothers. Started Nairobi, recognizes that our Birdman had now had to leave everything behind and Maccha his book, he's barefoot, he has nothing.

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He did not give him 1000 Or two, or 10 or 20,000 to start his new business rather He said My dear brother, people here recognize me as the wealthiest one in Medina. I have plenty of wealth. I'd like to share it with you 5050 Take half of my wealth. I have two houses

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As choose whichever one you like, it's us. A

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lot of people are very impressed with the proposal of Saudi Arabia. Of course, it is very impressive. Look at the ethos or look how the person gives precedence to his own brother over himself. I mean, even if one has 10 million, why would he give 1 million out of that to somebody else? If it is a matter of charity? I'll give him 50 bucks, 100 bucks, you know, 200 bucks, but have my wealth. One of my house is one of my two houses. What did I borrow money now to do? It said, My dear brother, may Allah bless you in your wealth. May Allah bless you in your house, may Allah bless you in your family, keep your wealth for yourself. Just show me where is the market. If I need

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anything, I will let you know. He did not rely on that. He doesn't want to have a sugar daddy. He wants to work he wants to earn he wants to be rich in order to support others, and yet will aronia high omega ladies souffle what that meant? The upper hand is superior and it is better before Allah than the lower hand. Remember, last year, we're talking about what is the upper hand and what is the lower hand? What does it mean? Is this a metaphor? In reality, when the giver when the charitable person gives any charity, he says should out his hand so that the beggar would stretch out his hand in order to take the sadhaka which hand is upper, the hand of the giver? Which hand is lower, the

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handle the taker, the recipient, both are believers. But Allah appreciates the hand which gives more than the hand, which receives and collects a little earlier. Hi, Ramona, Lady Sofia. So Abdullah Maribel says, no, no, no, just show me what is the market and he says his own business, trading and so on, in no time, Mashallah. He makes very good fortune. He gets married, and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam is very impressed with his success. And he gives in a charity to the point that he says, If I flip a stone, I will find gold beneath it. Why the more he gives any charity, the more Allah Almighty gives him, he likes to be a giver. multibagger understand. So when Allah Almighty

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urges the person to host his guest, and to be hospitable, and to be generous to him, and he the Prophet salaallah Santa Anita Allah's is the this motive if you truly believe in Allah, if you truly believe in the last day, you should honor your guests. And in this hadith, he says, You should honor your guest and give him his reward. There is at a who, for Lucrin BIFA, who there is that? They said, What is your is that a who does a guest have a word that I have to reward him? He said, Yes, of course. They're all here, the first day and night. Okay, we all understand that. The guest is most welcome to stay for three days and three nights correct. If he has to, if he has no other place

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to go, if he's coming from out of town, and he has to be kind of sensitive. If the host has all his family packed in one room, his parents are living with him and ours crumble on top of each other. And the guest is taken room by himself. He should be sensitive. Okay, you've got your hospitality, take a hike, look around, maybe you can find a place to hang around. But the guests would never the host would never urge the guest to leave or make him feel like he's a heavy guest. Why? Because I'm doing this I'm being I'm honoring my guests. I'm being hospitable to my guests for the sake of Allah in a NaNoWriMo company what he left, so he doesn't want him to feel anything that may disturb his

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feeding or make him feel that he's kind of heavy, or he has to leave. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam says about the Jaya is another word. Yo meanwhile, I let the first day and the first night of hurry him offer him the best of what you have a food of drink. Okay. And then after word, you know most people cannot afford most people cannot afford to buy meat and foods on daily basis. Some times they buy it once a week and the rest of the days they eat rice, Brianna without meat without chicken is just vegetarian cheese, beans, maybe eggs. So if the person for himself and his family cannot afford but that in this case, first day I give you the best of what I have for the sake of Allah. Then the

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next two days because also Algeria is another word is one of the three days the following two days. Whatever you can afford

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Do whatever you and your family normally eat. You don't have to do anything extra. You don't have to do anything special. You guys have breakfast, food, beans, you have cheese, you have lunch and dinner. This is what you offer him. You don't have to borrow, in order to give him extra hospitality. It was only the word for the very first day and night afterward, wherever you normally eat. So this is the kind of hospitality that the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam urged the host to give to his guest, okay, to the best of his ability. During the following narration, he directed the guest to be sensitive, to be sensitive to have some feeling. So he said SallAllahu sallam, it is not

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permissible for the guest

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to make the host blameworthy.

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Okay. Why? What does it mean?

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When the host is burdened, now the guest stayed for three days, today's the fourth, fifth, six sevens, I can go to work. Why, because he's staying at home, I have to take care of him. I'm not earning, I cannot provide for the family. And as a matter of fact, I have to borrow from my neighbors from my friends in order to feed our guests. So he puts him in burden, he burdens him. He actually may end up after offering this hospitality and being generous to him. Once he closes the door. He talks to his wife, he used Oxo himself. He said he's such a cruel person. He's a very heavy guest. And now he was involved in backbiting and in a slander, why because he pushed them

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he put them under pressure. So he uttered that word. And this is how we did and commit the sin that is the meaning of love. Yeah, he Lully muslimin and your crema and he had you aseema They said yeah rasool Allah and how would he make him commit a sin or burden is it up more in the hula che or in the who you crazy. So, he will keep staying at his place until he has nothing to offer and it burdens him and it embarrasses him Subhanallah So, one has to be sensitive, one has to be light, and the matter of how long you stay it is based on the customs life nowadays is very difficult. It is not like in the past. So for a person to live a guess at home and to go to work, it's not possible.

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Okay. Especially if the flat is small. I travel the world Subhanallah many of these countries, which we think are very rich countries, people will drive very nice cars, but their flats are very little tiny, one or two bedrooms, why because it costs a lot, he has a matter of fact, you have to pay like 10 grands 1112 or 13 per month

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rent for one flat and the person maybe is making 20. So most of the earning is directed towards the rent and utilities and so on life is tough. So based on the customs or people, the person have to deal with and against have to have some feeling and to be sensitive not to burden his host. Now brothers and sisters without any further ado,

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we shall begin the following chapter chapter number 95. And still the chapter is under the book of etiquette.

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The chapter deals with the recommendation of giving good news glad tidings and congratulating one another upon receiving good news. You know, this religion is all about Beshara

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and delivering good news. And this is what the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam advised his companions with when he sent why the Punjab and Abu Musa lashari to Yemen.

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He taught them how to preach and how to educate people. He said the Shara well Altona Farah well, you're Sarah. Well, that was Sarah Bashara. Both of you should give and deliver glad tidings and good news. Share with people good news. While tuna Farah do not work people off. Well, yes, Sara, and make things easy. Both of you make things easy on people. Well add to our Sarah and do not make things difficult how upon them, lest they may run away from you.

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So they Beshara is a very original principle in this beautiful religion of ours. Here we've got many Quranic references in the beginning of the chapter

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that when we studied them we'll learn how the Quran delivered mini Beshara such as in Surah Azumah they have two full consecutive is 17 and 18 Allah Almighty says further share

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a Loreen is to me one I'll call F. Debbie Runa Santa Ana Ecole de humo Allahu

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Iike whom all

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beshear a bad O Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihe Salam give glad tidings to our servants. Who anyone and everyone of course not. Those who listen and follow the best of teachings those are guided by Allah the Almighty and the people have intellect and understanding. So what is Zoomer is chapter number 39. brothers and sister What is the meaning of following the best of the guidance, the best of the teachings of Allah the Almighty? What does it mean?

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It means the following. For instance, when Allah Almighty is giving us the option, the choice between variety of Cafaro

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either to free a slave neck to feed the poor or to clothe them, such as in Cafaro Thalia mean for innocence, if we fail to fulfill your oath, what is the best you look into what is more beneficial?

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What is better for the recipient because the recipients are the poor.

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So, if I have the choice, what do they need more? I can afford both. When people say chef, I can afford them Hamdulillah I can afford to feed the meat and I can afford to feed them

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you know, seafood, give them whatever he can afford. And whatever you like for yourself. It is true that Allah Almighty said min l salty meltwater ammonia leikam elke swosu given XR, this is better for you, and better for the poor. So the choice is between pakka Farah to Utah mashallah T Misaki. And I mean l supplemental to M wanna Alikum elke sua to whom outta hurry Baraka al Kiswa buying clothes for 10 Poor people

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costs more than buying meals for them. Buying a set an outfit for one person obviously costs more than buying a meal. I can afford both. What is better for the poor. If you give him a meal, he eats it. Then a few hours there he is hungry again. Okay. But if you give him an outfit in winter, it may last for with him for another 10 years, then this is better for him. And if you were to ask him and give him the choice to say I would rather have a set of clothes, I would love to have a jacket or a coat or a clock. So you choose the best istemi on Cola, Fayette Tebbe Runa Aksana. Also the ken Farah

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in case that you have to shave your head while you are in a state of haram due to sickness or you have to wear clothes, then feed the two men so yeah, I mean, I'll solder cotton Alnus Wow, you have the choice to fast for three days to feed six poor people or a nurse is to slaughter a sheep and to distribute it what is more beneficial for the poor obviously distributor and a whole cheap, okay, Allah have given you the choice. So if you choose to fast for three days and instead that's perfectly fine and it will do it. If you choose to feed six poor people, each one one meal that will do it. But you said yourself you know what, I think buying and distributing the meat of a whole

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cheap slaughter and sacrificing the sheep will will serve maybe 30 or 40 people this is better for them. So you do what is better for people. For such people who they choose what is better for others a lot of medicines fair beshear a bad give them they Beshara of what that Allah Almighty have chosen to have chosen them to be rightly guided and they are the people of intellect May Allah Almighty make us amongst them. Brothers and sisters, again we run out of time as well as life itself is running by and zipping by very fast May Allah make us make and get the best benefit of every minute that passes by Allah mean so we run out of time and until next episode, I leave you all in the care

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of Allah. Allahu loca we had our stuff for Lady welcome. Masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam was Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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have a

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love of God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He asked me to be the best and give his best religion to Allah Our God has been greatest

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glory to Him.

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It used to be the best and give his religion to them so why did they know that forgiving gold about an empire the eyes were shipping cars fire and stones, sending their best with the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting all about how bad guys are shipping cars fire and stores selling their best were the cheapest.

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