Gardens Of The Pious #267 Mar 8th 2017

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Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala and ABBYY almost have sad and I'm hammered in while early he was so happy or Manuela about my dear brothers and sisters. Welcome to another edition of our program Guardians of the pious Today's episode is number 321 in the series of real solid heen and in the previous episode, we just tackled the beginning of the new book Kitab will adopt the book of good manners and etiquette. And we'll give an introduction to the first chapter which is Babel higher e we're probably will have seoladh The Hello Coby modesty is great reward and urging Muslims to have it as a virtue.

And a quick reminder with the definition

of higher as I say that it's hard to describe it with one single word whether modesty or bashfulness, or shyness or feeling ashamed. Rather, it is all of that and what an enamel Junaid said and higher, yet will lie. We're here to talk so here is to acknowledge the countless blessings upon you. Meanwhile, you perceive your shortcomings as a result of living both meanings that will result in the quality of UL higher and higher Lupin and higher is a manner which grounds all the good manners and etiquette and good manners is a cool The Tao of Islam. The Prophet sallallahu Anisa lemma said in the Hadith in unabridged to live with me Mama caramel Haluk I have been sent

exclusively to perfect good manners. So before Islam, there have been some good manners and I came to perfect them. Some of these manners are indigenous,

with the innocence created in the person along with the pure interesting and some of them are acquired after Islam the person acquires certain o'clock certain other that he did not have before Islam, whether he used to have a religion or he did not recognize a god to begin with.

And that's why the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said in the Hadith when he was asked about the best of people, he said here will configure Haney here configure Islam me either faculty who those who used to be the best with regards to manners with regards to good conduct, not with regards to you know, family lineage. And because this is not the determining factor, it is rather behavior and good conduct. When they accept Islam, when they become religiously committed, when they maintain these qualities and they learn their Deen they become the best in Islam to so the best before Islam because of manners when they accept Islam and they maintain those good manners and they learn the

deen of Allah. So the good behavior and the good conduct would be practice and maintain for the sake of Allah. They turned to be the best in Islam as well and that will not be achieved. Unless if they Falco who if they learn that then because as we come to study that hadith some people would assume when when the prophets Allah, Allah, Allah cinema says Al higher is one of the greatest qualities of Islam. What about those who born with it?

They did not acquire it. They have this quality. I have seen some people

in in the United States, some families who maintain very good qualities and their women are very shy. The women are very shy. This the live like in complete isolation. They do homeschooling, they don't watch TV. They don't mingle with the with the local community.

The very shy people, well, this is a good quality but when they accept Islam, they maintain the quality. That's right, because this quality is indigenous in them. But after Islam they will be rewarded for it. Because knowing anything once you believe in Allah will be done exclusively for the sake of Allah. Not because you're shy by nature, but you're doing this in order to fulfill Allah's rights upon you, people rights upon you. Now because it is something that, you know, you don't know any better. And this is how you will talk.

The Prophet sallallahu sallam said to this companion to the schedge in the fika hustler telling you hey boom, Allahu rasool Allah Almighty blessed with two qualities two manners which Allah and His Messenger love when he spoke about you know, l Hill well and he asked him I showed you Abdullah case asked him, oh prophet of Allah, are these two trades something which Allah created in me, or I earn them?

That Allah jobelan Allahu Allah Hema that Allah can meet me like that? He said, Yes, indeed Allah created you like that. Because some of the traits are indigenous created within a person and some of the traits are acquired. Either this or that if you do this for the sake of Allah, and you maintain the good conduct in order to please Allah Almighty and anticipating the award from Him, you will definitely be rewarded for that. The first Hadith we have in the chapter is Hadith number 680.

The hadith Mustafa Quran Allah is agreed upon its authenticity narrated by the great companion, Abdullah the son of Rama in the katabi Allahu Anhu. Man, may Allah be pleased with him and his father. And now rasool Allah He is Allah Allahu Allah you Selena Marana Rajamouli Minal Ansari whoo hoo ha hoo fill higher for color Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for in mineral Eman motif upon Allah.

The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam once passed by a man from Al Ansari.

Well, who is? Uh huh. He was giving an advice to one of his brothers. He was telling him he was condemning his brothers regarding

his modesty. So the messenger of Allah peace be upon him say to him, leave him.

Leave him alone, for modesty is a part of faith. What is the meaning of this hadith? For inner higher minute Amen.

I'll answer our, a group of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

whom Allah Almighty admired in the Quran, in many aids such as in Surah Al hush Well, Adina taba What would our Eman and then Kabila him your hipbone and Hydra la him? Well as you don't a few so don't worry him harder than me Matt Oh, to where you will see Runa Allah and foresee him well, how can I be him? Kasasa Hanif Sefa Hola, Erica Holman, waffly Hoon. It is a group of the original developers of an Medina who received and supported the immigrants who have worn and Hedorah Illa hem they love those who immigrated to them, even though they came to them barehanded book, have no homes have no worth. And

they get preference for them over their own selves, even sometimes the word themselves in need, but they still preferred the brothers over themselves. They supported them morally, physically, and financially. Allah Almighty described him as successful. May Allah be pleased with Al Ansari, alongside the group of the companions whom the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam prayed for them, is it Allah who know filial unsought

Allah Who Mark Hamill unsought were Abner Al Ansari, Abner, Abner Al Ansari. Well Allah have mercy on Al Ansari, and when their children and when their great grandchildren he prayed for the generations and offspring as well. Then he also said that by Allah had it not been for the Hydra. If I were not one of the Mahajan. I would definitely like to be one of an answer. But there are human beads. So I'll answer one of them. The Prophet sallallahu sallam was passing by, he heard

one of them is given Naziha. Now wherever he was admonishing one of

His brothers, but not in the right way. He would rather condemning a behavior that he have, which is bashfulness and shyness. Okay?

Yeah, it will feel higher. It's like this person will not demand his rights. This person was very quiet this person

who would not

be vocal, demanding his rights in the community. Or if somebody borrowed something from him, he would not meet him to say you say, give me my money back. So he was kind of shy, very shy person. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam objected to the one who's given this rune Naseeha, to the sahabi, who have the quality of a higher and said Leave him alone. He's better off like that. Why? Bow for internal higher emanate, amen? Don't you know that naturalness and shyness is the quality of faith. We often hear whenever the teacher sees a child who's kind of shy.

And whenever the families see, a one of the children is shy, they say to him, don't be goldfish. Don't be like girls. It's like shyness is only for girls. Only girls must know their gaze. Only girls must speak with, you know, low tone.

But at higher is a quality that is admired in both men and women in Islam. It is a quality that crowns only good conduct and the good UCLA to the point that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam stopped the man who's condemning his brother for being shy. And he said, leave him alone. For internal higher minute Amen. Indeed. And higher is one of the branches of faith is one of the qualities of belief. It prevents a person from saying

what is a source of shame or doing anything which is shameful as well? That's why the prophets Allah Allah Allah cinema said another Hadith in drunkenness mean Qlm Enugu. What older people have been transmitting statements from previous generations from one prophet to another, that eliminates the hate for SNAP mash it.

And this is one of the very broadly misunderstood Hadith because they think that LM Testa has not mesh it which means if you don't have shame, then do as you wish you're okay to do now it's a warning.

It's a serious warning. Because if the person doesn't have higher than nothing will prevent him from disobey and nothing will prevent him from indulging into sins, whether major or minor, which means that you are doing what you're doing. You're saying what you're saying simply because you have no shame. You have no higher electrostatic force now no * that the Prophet saw a lot of cinema said. If you don't feel a shame, then do whatever you like. It's a warning. Not a permission to do as you wish. The following hadith

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another sound Hadith collected by Imam Muslim, may Allah have mercy on him, narrated by a companion by the name Imran Edna for Swain. May Allah be pleased with him and his father, Karl, caller Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam l higher layer t Ellerbee high

and higher T in the higher Mustafa canali theory Wyatt in the Muslim and higher Gulu higher and higher high urine color.

All these different faces providing the same meaning which means that modesty bashfulness and shyness does not bring about except good. It's all good. Modesty is all good. bashfulness is all great.

Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam,

sometimes a man would enter upon him.

And this man is such an evil person. To the point that they're so hard I've heard them one saying this apple last year this person is really evil. But when he sits with him,

Can I have a few words here?

He would meet him with warm welcome. He will spread his government for him to sit on it. He will deal with him very currently, some people think the opposite is right. That if you don't like any person, you should tell him in the face that hey, I don't like you. I hate you.

You're a cool man.

don't often Woman No. and hire prevents you from confronting people with your feeling towards them. Maybe you dislike this person. It doesn't make you courageous to tell him that I hate you when I don't like you. Because this way you're going to sever your relationship with many people.

Okay? You just have to treat people the same way they like you like yourself to be treated.

Rasool Allah is Allah Allah Allah Selim would not hurt the feeling of any person. Once

the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam heard acquiring in the machine, a man who lent somebody some money.

And the person who borrowed the money, wasn't able to pay on time doesn't have the means. So you heard the quartering in the mesh. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam pulled away the curtain and he pointed with his hand like that, which means that chakra who Yanni

wave half of the depth,

give away half of the dead. So the man said I did oh prophet of Allah, Allah, Allah to your rasool Allah.

So he was not shy when he was talking to his companion Give me my money, and the other person was not able to pay. But when he came to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he felt shy. He felt ashamed. Okay, so the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam once he gave him a hint or recommended for him, to give him a cut, to give him a break. He immediately responded to the advice of the Prophet Salah Lawson and positively that is due to the quality of Al higher. The following Hadith, Hadith number 682. Is a sound Hadith agreed upon its authenticity and Narrated by Abu Hurayrah or the Allahu Allah

and every lawyer author of the Allahu Anhu and Rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Cohn

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First of all who have Kulu Illa Illa Allah

we're Edna now total other anaphoric while higher sure baton mineral Eman Mustafa finale. In this hadith our most beloved Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said belief has over 70 branches or over 60 branches

the upper most of which is the declaration of faith by saying and uttering the word, La ilaha illallah nonhazardous the right to be worshipped but Allah alone and l Hyah.

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and before he said about Allah He said at na. The least of the benches of faith is the removal of a harmful object from the road from the past of people.

And modesty is a branch of faith a branch of belief. The term BuildBlock in Arabic, it is no medicine to refer to the number any number from three to nine.

from three to mind.

While the word shorter by means category or branch. So when the Prophet sallallahu selama says Milan was it Thun, Yanni 3070 as a builder on WhatsApp alone 7374 75 Anywhere between 73 to 79.

Build on YC tool anywhere between

63 to 69. The meaning of that is the tree of faith is huge. cachora also has a bit is super firm under the ground. What four Oh half is Santa.

Will Allah Almighty give the parable of faith and the heat?

To a tree? But I've Allahu Maslen Kelly Matanga, ye baton Khashoggi about him for a year but in Oslo has habit will forego half his summer to the Akula Kula Hainan B is near a beer like a tree deeply rooted under the ground the roots are very deep under the ground. So it is very firm. That is a tree of faith. Well, for one half is summer the tree

The poll has many branches, is branches seem like they're touching heaven?

Okay, many branches.

The highest

branch of faith is a declaration of faith is acknowledging the Oneness of Allah.

And the least is to pick up a harmful thing and remove it from the path of people. And in between there are many, many branches belong to this beautiful goodly tree, such as offering the obligations, fulfilling the mandatory acts of worship the five daily prayers, or fasting during Ramadan or giving arms and below that is offering the voluntary acts of worship in supererogatory acts of worship, then awasu For the Salah, fasting, the voluntary fasting Monday, Thursday three days of every lunar month, the tense of Muharram the nines of the Matsudo hija given a voluntary charity, these are all different branches of goodness that brings virtues to the believer who

maintains them.

And the Prophet sallallahu ala selon mentioned that among those many branches, 60 plus or 70, plus a branch which is known as Al higher, while higher, shorter, but when Minalima and shyness bashfulness. And modesty is definitely a branch of faith. So a person who have the quality of hire not only that he has add up an etiquette, and he's a man of good conduct, but also he's a man who maintains one of the branches of faith, a man or a woman of course. Okay brothers and sisters, we'll take a short break and we'll be back in sha Allah in a couple of minutes for some more please stay tuned.

Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. The following hadith is Hadith number 683 Narrated by Abu Saeed Al Kadri. May Allah be pleased with him, and it is agreed upon its authenticity

and emphasized in Al Coudray Radi Allahu Anhu called can Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam shared the higher and mineralized raw if he if he had for either, che and the Accra who are of na houfy word motif upon Allah.

Double Sade and Kadri may Allah be pleased with him. The rate that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him was

even Shire more shy than a version gold behind her veil.

And when he saw something which he disliked, we could see it on his face, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

It's a very important Hadith

that confirms that the quality of hire is something that Allah likes. And it was a quality that the Prophet sallallahu sallam was described with high E

he has the shyness and bashfulness he was even more shy than L as Allah E Fi Federico, what is the word as raw as refers to the version God

is taken according to the linguistic scholars from the word Rosa, which refers to the hymen. Okay, the word hit that means a veil.

So the Prophet sallallahu sallam was more shy than a vision goal. And normally, young girls are more shy than, you know, older women, those who got married and have children and have experience. Okay, this is one thing that we need to stop at.

The narrator is describing is like, you know, the shyness of the young girl is the greatest shyness that was at this time. And it is the quality of the believers to be shy like that.

But those who have no faith, those who have taken off the government of higher they allow themselves to do things which believers cannot even imagine.

So you'll find in the public Gym, in the locker room,

people take off their clothes in front of each other either to take shower, or to change, and they are completely in the nude, zero higher.

No shame.

No shyness whatsoever. And this is evil.

If Allah Almighty ordered, when he should lower his gaze, now only from looking at women who are not lawful for him, also from looking at the hour of other men, men do have hour before other men and before women.

And in the following area, Allah also ordered women to lower their gaze.

Now only from looking at the hour of men, women to have hour before other women.

They go, they take off the cloth, there are public shower places, in the camps in the West. It's easy.

And it's very common to see bathrooms without doors. And people will be answering the call of nature while chatting, talking to each other facing each other. Showing of their our taking of their clothes, showering, thinking that you know this is men with men and girls with girls. It's okay.

No, it's not okay.

There's our for a man before others, including men, including his son, including his father, including his brother. When people think oh, don't be shy or all men around. That's not permissible.

So your son has our that you cannot see neither you nor your wife, his mother. Between the navel to the knees is our the son cannot just wear a pair of shorts, or a swimming

very short shorts, and in front of his father in front of anyone, only his wife

because a man and his wife can see from each other everything. And those who are very high higher, they are even embarrassed to see everything they cover.

But those who have no shame,

you know, you find a woman is chicken around who is the best gynecologist but there are female gynecologist. No, no, they say this guy is better.

It is not about having a better gynecologist. It's about his male gynecologist. He is going to look at your major our you're going to take off your empire clothes before him and the private part will be completely displayed before a man who say it's okay for a woman due to the necessity before another woman

for a you know, a chicken up with the pregnancy conception and following up and the delivery and obviously tech female doctor. But those who do not mind at all, even though we have a female gynecologist and female obstetricians that the husband would take his wife willingly to a male gynecologist. He was sitting in wait outside while she is completely exposed before another man is not permissible. And this is a sign of absence of higher and higher is one of the branches of Eman. It is a sign of faith. It is a sign of belief as a Prophet sallallahu ala celibacy. So rasool Allah is Allah Allah Salam was even more shy than a version girl in her vein, a girl who have no

experience in the past. I remember that at school. Even we will shy to look at our teacher, female teacher. And one of us his face would turn red. If you happen to bump into a girl or see a girl. Why because of higher

the moon will travel abroad, we find that people have literally over many people have literally no hire, whatsoever

they do in public, what we are ashamed to do in private. The live now bear sort of the Allahu Anhu met you know, Al Haj Imam is something there is something called Moroccan hum man. It was not only Moroccan who have the public shower places, and they do massage and they do all of that. It was across the world, especially in the Arabic world because people didn't have shower places in their homes like it was not that luxury.

Use, everyone would have a shower place in their home. But there was a public places or public places where people go and take a shower. And so I'm gonna lie, those would not go and people are around, he would go by himself. So he will make certain that he is all alone by himself and he will be wearing his clothes out of shyness.

But nowadays, it is very contagious. They think this is a sign of modernization to transmit these bad habits to the Muslim world,

to their Muslim societies. Don't be ashamed. You're a man and we are all men. You can take off your clothes in the dorm before you roommates. Now, you shouldn't be ashamed.

Because there's something called our, the our Isabody apart we should be covered at all times, maybe only during necessities, like no due to pregnancy and given birth, there is a female

you know midwife, or a female obstetric doctor who can assist fine.

But to go to a male doctor, to check on your private part. That's a shame. And in the presence of a female and oncologist and an obstetrician It's haram to skip that and go to a male doctor. And this is a sign of lack of higher the second segment of the Hadith. Che and yet Cara who are off now if you watch how

many a hadith the Prophet sallallahu sallam was described as he would not get mad for anything that affects him personally. But whenever any of the WHO dude of Allah had been violated, he will get very angry, and that will be recognized and seeing on his face, what his face will be flashing red.

Such as when a man whom the Prophet Salah Salem sent to collect the Zika. And he returned back saying that this is for you. And this part is given to me as a gift, the Prophet sallallahu sallam, his face turned red, and he gave a very, very serious talk. And he warned against accepting any gift from the public fund. Because this is Vishwa not a gift. Rather,

in many incidents, whenever any of the hood of Allah are violated, his face will turn red. This is a sign that the Prophet Salah Salem would get angry.

The following hadith

is actually the beginning of a new chapter,

chapter number 85 which is keeping the secrets Baboo have a surgery

called Allahu Taala in Surah Surah

shut down number 17 Verse number 34, where l four B ly D in a law

school.

So divine command which means keep your promise for sure. You will be questioned about it.

And I had means the promise means a word means a covenant. And you will be questioned about your covenant. You will be questioned about your word about the promise you gave. And Allah subhanaw taala explained to us that

he will fail in the art. The word keeping your promise is a sign of success because it's a sign of faith. If you examine the verse, verse number eight of Surah minored in the beginning sort of Moon Allah Almighty said KDF Lohan mommy known successful indeed are the believers. Then he started listing the qualities of the successful believers. May Allah make us amongst them.

The eighth verse, Allah Almighty says, When Lavina homely Anna de moi, de Mauro, Joan,

and those who deliver the Amana and they keep their promises, and basically, they are so attached to each other, being honest and keeping the promise you saw the qualities of the believers. Okay.

Are they for Indonesia man? May Allah be pleased with him, who is known as ketemu Serena via Salah Salem, the secret keeper of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam said, Nothing prevented me and my father from attending the Battle of bed, but the fact that as we were leaving for

A mechanic and Hedra

the Americans Porsche arrested us, both of us, me and my father.

And they said, We will not let you go. We know that you're going to join Muhammad

and attend the battle. They said we're only going to Medina. He said, You got to promise us that if we leave you you're not going to join Mohammed army. So they promise them anyway, just a word. When they reach the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and they told him the story so the prophets Allah, Allah, Allah cinema said, Nephi Allah who didn't want to stay in Allah, Allah him. He was desperately in need for every man power, he needs them whatever. It may be a man and his father, but because they gave a word to the enemies, that they will not fight with the Prophet sallallahu sallam, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam order that we should honor your word. And you guys are not

going to fight with us again Islam. Rather we will respect your work and we would seek the help of Allah the Almighty okay brothers and sisters, by that we've come to the end of today's edition of Guardians of the pious and until next episode I leave you in in the care of Allah. Allahu La Kohli had escaped from La de walakum wa sallahu, wa ala Sayidina Muhammad Anwar early he was Salam wa Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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