Gardens Of The Pious #147 Aug 10th 2015
Channel: Muhammad Salah
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allah God is the greatest alone and all the glory to Him. To me you miss to be on give his best religion to Allah Our God has been greatest
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is to be the best and give his best religion to you. Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala and we hear most of her say dinner Muhammad in one early he will be here Manu Allah will praise you to Allah alone. We all praise Him and we seek His help. Whomsoever Allah guides is a truly guided one and whomsoever Allah leaves astray, none can show him guidance, made the best peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. Brothers and sisters, welcome to another live edition of your program. Guardians of the pious by the Grace of Allah today is going to be an episode number 175 in the series of the other Salaheddin by
remember, never we may Allah have mercy on him. And
we're still explained in chapter number 41. And that's going to be the fourth episode. This chapter is talking about the prohibition of being on dutiful to one's parents, and the severance of the ties of kinship.
The hadith which we're about to study is Hadith number 339.
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In this hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam made it very clear that a person who severs the ties of his kinship will not enter Jannah a person who will sever the ties of his kinship will not enter paradise. And this is a highly sound Hadith collected by the two great Imams Buhari and Muslim. May Allah have mercy on all of them.
But this is very dangerous.
You know why? Because I bet you, many of us are involved in severing the ties of our kinship, not necessarily to a very extreme extent where we're not talking to all our relatives, but you know, to some extent, some people are good with some relatives, and bad with some other relatives. So, you know, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said be careful, because a person who severs his relationship with his family members, parents,
uncles, aunts, paternal or maternal cousins, nephews or nieces. Layout Hello, agenda shall not enter paradise. What about saying La ilaha illa Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah. What about praying? What about fasting? What about performing Hajj? The scholars explain the Hadith as follows they said, a person who perceives this relationship as insignificant and he perceives it as Halal to sever the ties with his family members and his kinship. By that he has considered what Allah has forbidden as loafer.
And if any person were to perceive any Haram as love, or to perceive any love, as an unlawful has indeed declared disbelief, and upstate it from the Dean, because it in established first on the foundation of believing in the Oneness of Allah subhanaw taala, believing in the message of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, in whatever he conveyed from Allah Almighty. That's why when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam decided to avoid certain type of food, particular honey, because he was told that it smells,
Allah Almighty revealed Surah At a hurry. And guess what? He was addressing the Prophet sallallahu Sallam blaming him in the beginning of the surah Yeah, you
Whenever you limit to Herim Mohalla, who will occur? The victory motorboat as well?
Oh, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam, why do you perceive what Allah have made it lawful as a lawful? Why do you consider it haram, seeking the pleasure of your wife's Allah Who afford a Rahim that Allah has forgiven you and pardon you. But that should not happen again. It is not permissible for anyone. Nowadays, some people may
get involved. In particular, since a woman is struggling to wear hijab, and she's not wearing hijab, that's a that's a big sin.
But another woman says, I don't believe in hijab there are a lot of Sickler writers, TV hosts who say that there is no such thing in Islam called hijab. This is only for the baboons, and they deny the mandate of what Allah has ordered in the Quran, rejecting an idea of the Quran,
objecting to a single ruling that Allah Almighty has mandated, declares that you're rejecting the whole message.
Each order and Command of Allah is indivisible from the entire message of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. In Islam, there is no select and choose, you do not take what you like, and you reject what you do not like, you will not consider Well, that was okay back then. But nowadays, I don't buy that. Well, thank you so much, bye, that you're rejecting the whole message. So the prayers are the first thing these rituals will not benefit when the person actually does not believe in Allah, or rejecting his statement. This is very important brothers and sisters, that ye will have to be very careful. On the other hand, there are some people who know that they can they commit sins, and they
say, May Allah forgive me. And they say, Pray for me that I will quit. It's a sin. And they are under the mushiya whether Allah will forgive them or not, it's up to him. Hopefully Allah will enable them to quit, God them to repent, then accept the repentance and grant them forgiveness. But this category are still Muslims. They're sinners, but they're Muslims are under the Mercy of Allah. But the person who says I don't believe in that anymore, has declared this belief by himself or by herself. So a person who considers the salatu Rahim upholding the ties of kinship, as I don't care what the Quran says, I don't care what Muhammad says in this regard. I'm not going to talk to them,
no matter what happens, has rejected indeed, the message of Islam, which as I said, each command of Allah and His Messenger, Salah Salem is indivisible from the entire message. Be careful.
Other scholars say some of the commentators of the Hadith said well, it may refer to they will not enter a Jana among those who will enter at first rather, they will be in hell for a while, until they will be purified from the sense both are correct. Both views are correct. So the first view applies to the person who rejected this and eventually brothers and sisters you would not find a person who rejects one of the hopes of Allah
and maybe his brain or he's very keen to perform Hajj you know those people who appear on the scale and say, you know, Hodges nonsense people go and just perform several rounds around a Blackstone I will never do that. Wallahi those people do not even pray.
You see in Walla How do you know Yes, but the better till backdoor Amin f where he wants to fish. Akbar.
Allah Almighty says such people, even though this area is revealed, particularly concerning the people who belong to so some parts of the children of Israel, but it applies to everyone who attacks Islam by mouth. Hatred has appeared from the tongues from their mouth. Imagine this is just a little bit of what they consider their hearts. Al Botha the hatred or hate mongers has appeared just a little bit of hatred has appeared on their tongues, were meant to feel so the room Akbar and what is concealed in the hearts in the chest is not bigger,
greater hatred to the deed, but they cannot take it all at once. They hide in an ambush waiting for any opportunity to attend the Islam, the deen religiously committed people, so sometimes they will describe them as fanatic extremist
Why? Well because they pray in the masjid because these guys decided to grow their beards, or because this woman is who has decided to imitate the wives of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, the women of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So let's go ahead and bash these women and call them walk in tents. Those people who allow themselves to do so we have many of them, they speak our language. And they claim to be Muslims, they are Muslim names. By reality.
The very woman who says hijab is insignificant, and it is not mentioned in any part of the Quran, who would bow down in respect to a Jewish woman who's wearing a burqa covering her face? She respects their culture, but in Islam, no. And when it comes to,
for instance, gays relationship, she says, I don't see any problem with that this is the most supposedly, because when somebody says La ilaha illallah, Muhammad Rasool Allah will recognize them as Muslims, until and unless otherwise, if they declare that they are non Muslims, or they declare their opposition to the deen of Allah, or they reject what Allah has said in the Quran, or what the Prophet sallallahu Sallam communicated to us from Allah Subhana Allah, so we have to be very careful, no matter what you do, if any of us is involved in any sin.
You know, I want to share with you something very interesting.
In one of the Muslim countries where the government allow, usually,
even in the official religious organization,
a young man went and inquired about buying a car, and it will be financed by the bank.
So the Sheikh said, sitting in his office said, it is 100% halal. So this young man said, well, but the bank is not the owner.
The bank would only finance the purchase, and we'll pay we'll pay the car dealer. And I would pay the bank later on and they hold the title. So it is not only about River, it's also about very clear hokum in which the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has stayed Leatherby at Manchester in the UK. There are many violations in this transaction. They said Listen to me, son, Khaled, Khaled. He said, Thank you chef may know your good name. He said, My name is Chef such and such. I said, I'm going to memorize your name. I'm going to buy the car from the bank, mortgaged by the bank. And I'm going to always remember your name in case that Allah Almighty says, Why did he do that? I would say I will
share such and such said it is Halloween. So the share got ahold of him and said,
between you and I, It's haram. And don't you bite,
don't you? He said, So why did you just tell me he said because I'm forced to say that. The government is forcing me to say that. Okay.
You know how many times you're misleading people for the sake of your job for the sake of your salary?
You know, if I end up working as a janitor, cleaning up the bathroom for people and earn pennies from Helen and oh, they do what you do. Subhanallah This is the meaning of Lariat Hello Jana Takata. And Sophia says caught era. Is it such a big sin for a person when he severs the relationship with his family members whenever he's not talking to his uncle that he will enter hell forever. They said if he dismisses the hook of upholding the ethos of kinship and perceives the severance of the relationship as perfectly legal. Then he dismissed what Allah Almighty has ordered. That applies brothers and sisters, to every hook that Allah Almighty has ordered in Surah Nisa as a beautiful
It's a big test. Allah Almighty says fella Wallaby Kala, you may know when your hacky mukha female shedule Rabina home sumela Doofy unforeseen Harada Mima
why you said Limitus Lima
it is not
that easy to say Amana. We believed as Lemna were Muslims and that said, nay by you, Lord, they will not truly believe until they seek your judgment or Mohammed your judgment. They
failure cases, their cases to the Quran to sunnah your judgment in whatever
dispute or argument or any legal case that arise between them female in the anonymous, then they do not object they do not find any hurt feeling in the hearts towards your hook towards the Hukm of the Quran, towards the home of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and then they submit to it with full submission. In this case you are a Muslim, you are a true believer, the following Hadith brothers and sisters, before I go to the following Hadith also remember that the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam said, when two brothers not only relatives who must hold the ties of kinship, two brothers are not talking to each other.
And each one is turning his back to the other. He's not talking to him. The deeds are not being accepted, waiting on one of them to break the ice, take the initiative, search out his or her hand and says salam alaikum forgive me. Well, Hiram, oh man, man, yep, that will be stolen. The best of the two opponents who are Muslims is the one who begins the other was Salah, the one who begins the conciliation.
So if the good deeds are waiting on such thing to be accomplished, so that they will be elevated and they will be accepted by Allah subhanho wa Taala Subhan Allah
the following hadith is Hadith number 340.
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in Allah Tala ha Rama Aleykum ruku. Can OMA hat woman NanHu hat what del Burnett worker you hella come to our con Orchestre de su n. Y Ivana 10 Min Mustapha con la in this highly profound Hadith, which is narrated by Mr. Rivera, insha Allah may Allah be pleased with him. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Indeed, Allah has forbidden you, number one, being unfaithful to your mother's Roku while on that second
woman who had to withhold what you should give
and to demand what you do not deserve what they'll benefit and to bury your daughters alive. Whatever the hell accom and Allah Almighty dislikes for you the following Creel our call they talk
and to ask too many questions, unnecessary questions, and to waste your own wealth.
As I said, the hadith is collected by Al Bukhari or Muslim Allah have mercy on them
so it's a very interesting Hadith the Prophet sallallahu Sallam began by the confirmation the emphasis using in leanness be what the kid
benefits that the upcoming event the upcoming statement is very serious. The Prophet salaallah Salah put a lot of emphasis on its meaning that's why he said in
as Allah Almighty says in the Quran in Allah hippo sabe
in Allahu Hibou in Allah Allah photo Rahim indeed verily, so there is a meaning in,
in Allah to Allah ha Rama like the word to Allah the Most High because he's above his creation as he says when he finished the condition of the heavens and earth in six days, so Mr. Walsh, then he rose above the stone.
So in Allah Tala above initial coming with deficiency or any of the traits of his creatures, when I come has forbidden you the following Roku Kyle Oh, Matt. Hello Matt is a plural of ohm, which is a mother so I omad mother's
Alacoque is the opposite of a bear. And Bear is to be kind, to be dutiful, to be gentle. And Alacoque is entirely the opposite. To be rude, to be mean.
Not to obey your own parents to hurt them to sever your relationship with them. That's called a cook. While I don't know
somebody who is a child, a son, or a daughter of hers
Who's not dutiful to, the parents shall not enter paradise as we stated in the Hadith. And Allah Almighty says the least thing that a person could do and it is defined as or who is saying of objecting to them by making this notion of.
So it could be up to the level of not supporting them financially, not visiting them, not calling them, boycotting them, hurting them, eventually, nowadays, beaten them,
you know, very often, May Allah guide us to what is best. So this is emphasized that Allah Almighty has forbidden you against Rococo man, why will you alone, Matt,
and about the fathers, it is not forbidden to be ungrateful to them it is, of course, but remember, in the Hadith, which was studied couple months ago, before Ramadan, when the Prophet sallallahu sallam was asked,
who have more rights upon me, the prophets, Allah, Sam said, your mother, and the question was repeated, and who's next? He said, Your mother who was next I said, your mother and the fourth time, he said, then your father, just to emphasize that we explain the reason why the prophets Allah, Allah, Allah sent him repeated the mothers three times versus ones for the Father. It doesn't relate him the rights of the fathers. But because many people are negligent of their duties toward the mothers, when they are at old age, when they are not able to earn the living, they're not able to pay their bills and cover the utilities. So pay more attention to them, in addition to the suffering
of the mothers, whose way bigger and greater than the suffering of the father, because she's the one who spent with you all the time.
Whenever she bore you for nine months, then the pain of the delivery, then the breastfeeding, then whenever you get sick, the father is working hard, but he comes home to check on you and most of the days outside so we explain the reason why the mother was repeated several times here. When the Prophet sallallahu sallam said Allah has forbidden or who called omad it doesn't single out the mothers and neglect the fathers. But this is just as a reference to both of them. So hello, Matt or both of them. And some people the linguistic scholars say it is because of their idiom or Khokhloma hat man Anwar had their benefit. And so what is man and what hat and Mana is to withhold and not to
give had to demand and ask for things. Man is to the whole something which you're supposed to give a person who doesn't pay his
person who doesn't support his parents financially, a person who does not support his relatives while he is capable. It is the right upon him. So withholding what he should give what he should pay is a major sin. So what is what hat? Oh, he's always demanding, even though he's not a need.
He's demanding because he thinks that people have plenty. Let me take some, you know, sometimes in Hajj
you see some people mashallah I know some people, they donate huge containers of food, have drink cold water. And there are some people who are coming from rich countries, and they are very rich, masha Allah, and they have their own camp, and you know, they have plenty of food. So this food is supposed to be distributed amongst a pool. The wayfarers, the people who don't have a place, but the stand and compete with them. And they take once or twice and several times. Why? What are you gonna do with all of this? You know, in order for, for instance, when you look at yourself, this is how we came to this life and this is how you live in this life. You're not taking anything with you.
Wouldn't it be enough to take only what you're going to consume?
But some people I've come across, you know, some of those people in sorting out disputes, financial disputes between business partners and so on. He thinks that my partner has plenty has more businesses than the business that we have partnership in, so it won't hurt him if I take from him it's Hara.
When a thief steals from a multimillionaire and he thinks is a multi millionaire, it will hurt him. But for you It's haram is not us. Hat hat hat. This is a meeting of women and white hat. So it comes to given his withholding and when it comes something which is not his He does not deserve. He's very demanding
Well they'll benefit
what they'll benefit.
What is what that benefit? What is the burial
of Bernard, the daughters? This evil, Arabic tradition of burying the daughters alive? Yes, indeed alive out of shame.
And the Quran talked about it a lot. And this no order, the girl who would be buried alive because they would consider it a source of shame.
Where you illuminate Allah He may, Accra Hoon, Potosi for elsina, to Homolka added, an alarm will host, a lot of mighty says, they said that these girls are the daughters of God, we're not supposed to take them, send them back to God, look at the devilish justification. So in order for somebody to kill his own child, you need a justification. So Satan made it seem fair to them as follows. They said an alarm will process they will take what they like they keep the boys when it comes to the girls,
the daughters of Allah, send them back to Allah
Subhan Allah, send them back to Allah. So they would bury the door was alive. And they would keep the boys Allah subhanaw taala condemned that and there is another reference, what you they will show how to whom will answer well, who who misled them or who occurred we never any form is given a Beshara Hey, your wife does give birth boy girl, it's a girl ah, Viola was room was wet, then his face, his face would turn dark. And he's full of anger, then his choices are limited. Yet our nominal calm is hiding from people. Because of the evil news that he received in so amiable Sharabi. There, his choices are limited one of two choices, I will see people who aren't alone either to keep
her alive and live with this grace and humiliation because this is not a single sin, or a singular SIN NO, rather it's a community tradition. The whole community used to do that, and we had to solve to rob the other alternative is just to bury her alive. And to get rid of the shame. Ella sir Maria comun how evil in their judgment and their choices.
So Allah has forbidden that what they'll Burnett, I wish the women rights organizations learn what kind of rights that Islam granted women. What kind of honor that Allah the mighty, rented women, not just 50 years ago, or 100 or 500. Now 14 136 years ago Subhan Allah will carry Helicon and Allah Almighty also disliked for you.
Peel our con, what is peel our coin chatting,
unnecessary talk, idle talk. And among the traits of the believers, the successful believers Lavina whom money love him or her you do?
Those who turn away from idle talk. They do not waste their time in unnecessary chatting. Imagine some people I know some people who are on the verge of divorce. Why? He has a beautiful wife. Beautiful kids, but he's living with them body without soul. His fingers are always typing. He's always chatting, chatting with men chatting with women chatting about something serious, joking or laughing then you see him laughing What is going on? He's absent minded because his mind he is chained with the device. You know?
Subhanallah carry Halochem in our car worker throttle.
asking too many questions is a big problem.
Nowadays also is becoming very bad is going very explosive. You find somebody asking you a very, very particular and personal questions. Are you married? Yes. Hamdulillah. What do you want from?
Oh, how many kids do you have? How many boys and how many girls? How old are they? You know, as a shave and I travel abroad and here and there. Sometimes you come across some people like that, where you feel like you know, leave me alone.
I don't want to hurt your feeling. It won't benefit you to ask all these unnecessary questions. I do want to talk about it. Where is your wife from? What kind of the issue half was due? And what is the name of your older son you think that is going to be enough? No. And you
youngest and what is in between and how many are old Masha Allah is you have too many kids.
How do you raise them hug
Kathrada so I'll also ask him too many unnecessary questions about the the the the personal life of another is forbidden
and Allah Almighty said in Surah number 101
Yeah and you will have Lavina L one a she
tuber de la quinta so called. Oh believe?
Don't you ask about things were if the answer of these questions are presented to you, it will hurt you. Stop asking unnecessary questions that applies to questions. The applies to
questions about the ancestors questions about the unseen some people came to the Prophet salaallah Salomon Sadia Rasul Allah min Abby. He knows that his father's name is this name. But he says, Is he really my father, who is my biological father? Your father is dead. So why the Prophet Why do you want the Prophet Salah Salem to tell you that he would ask Allah Allah, Allah Allah will tell him that, that in Jahangir before Islam, your father is not actually your biological father. Oh, you just figured out that you were born out of illicit relationship.
Now you happy Why do you ask these questions? Another person came to the Prophet Salah Salem and insisted, where is my father? Now we are rasool Allah. And he kept bugging him with a question. So Allah subhanaw taala told him that his father is in hell he said your father is in hell are you happy now?
Why do you ask these questions? And
somebody says yeah, shall I go to buy
those you know cans from the store in Mecca? Okay, is it halal? If it is Mecca then it is halal, but it says is imported from Brazil? How do you know that it is halal? And maybe
as long as you're gonna keep asking more and more questions in very detail that I have no idea about it okay then it's hard. Because if you're not sure if that will make you happy. You make your life miserable asking too many questions that is the meaning of Katra to swallow it man which is wasting your money even in spending Halal if it is unnecessary but definitely if the spending is in Haram that's even much worse. Which is absolutely forbidden like what when example before we go for a break, smoking mine cigarette, right? May Allah guide us what is this brothers and sisters Let's take a short break. We'll be back in a few minutes stay tuned, please.
Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. Since this is a live episode, let me remind you with our phone numbers a code 0020238 treble 5249 alternatively a call 0020 Double 125 Double 08679
The following hadith is the first Hadith in a new chapter chapter number for you to and while I am very, very proud to be Muslim, and to belong to this beautiful religion, and to be a part of this beautiful teachings, masha Allah and measure this chapter. Now we've been talking about
salah Torah and first of all, pulling in the ties of kinship, you know to be nice to all your relatives. And number two, even if they're not nice to you to uphold their ties, even if they sever their ties with you. Number two, we spoke about the being dutiful to one's parents, no matter what they do, even if they are Kufa even if they're non Muslims, even they're struggling with you to convert you to this belief and the prohibition of being unfaithful to them and the severance of the ties of kinship. Now guess what? After this call, I'm going to surprise you with the name and the title of the chapter Salaam Alaikum.
Sister Maryanne from United Arab Emirates Welcome to the program
when equals Salam wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
I was actually expired a question after they had to question my question was, I am, I am, the boys get presently and they have been with me one time
which is on this path. Instead that long time ago he really wants me to give her the ghosting because he he says we found in like attacking him staring like
I need an Arab and I am an Asian. So
my question Sheikh is it? Is it okay that this thing that that he did, he did not tell the girl family in the girl that we got married. We got married here in Dubai and he wants home. And now that he's going to get married again, he
wants to be because he said that you might accept his clients. That is the money.
I think he's just confused. All the issues are gonna be very specific. is a question about divorce. What about three Marian?
Okay, if you can just be very specific and present the question without the you know, initial long story about divorce. If you can just present the question specifically.
Okay, go ahead and just phrase your question about divorce or remarriage after divorce.
Now divorce, I am divorced, and now he wants to get married with another lady. That's why he did those musicals of that lady. And we did not tell we taught them to fail, because we set them to count the three keys. We got married before, because he said that they will not accept
that okay, I got your question that I got your question.
I got your question.
SR Malik from the USA. Welcome to the program. Yes, I fell on my lap can check. How are you?
Mottola cat Welcome to the program and 500 Thank you. Well, I first want to say that I am so grateful for Huda. I have been a Muslim now for six years. And it is your program that Allah led me to one morning at three in the morning, six years ago looking for an English channel, here in Cairo. And I came upon CUDA, and you have helped me to grow in my game, I humbly
now, I have a question for you. Okay. And I need to just tell you this. Okay. You mentioned something about where some people say they're doing something wrong. And and they say, oh, but and you can you tell them gently, you know, you remind them and they say, oh, but a lot, so much mercy, you know, I will be forgiven? Well, I have someone very close to me, whom I love dearly, who smokes. And I keep reminding them gently, that this is wrong. It's haram in Islam, and that it's bad for me when they smoke around me and the children.
And I get the same answer. So I would like some advice from you. Maybe you could give me something to say. But I know also, I pray that Allah will release this person from the bondage of shaitaan. He has been chained to the cigarettes.
But how can I as a Muslim woman, gently
What can I say?
Thank you, Sister Malik. Appreciate your call and appreciate your compliment. May Allah subhanaw taala accept many people other than sister Malik, there was another lady who was hospitalized and she says that I was in the hospital and I was looking for an English channel. Then I came across her and this is how I came to accept Islam. Allah Almighty, chooses whoever he was to guide and he chooses whoever he wants to guide people through them. And this is an honor for any person to be chosen by Allah Almighty to be a means of guidance. Allahu Medina, ye Divina by Johanna suberb eliminated while Allah guide us and guide people through us and make us a means of guidance for
others along Mammon. Thank you, Sister, Melody Grady, Sister Marian from United Arab Emirates, there is an I asked you just to make the long story short, because, you know, guess what, like the psychiatrist, or a psychologist would like to hear all the details because the clock is ticking and your pain?
The answer will have nothing to do with the story and the additives. The answer will be limited to the question. And whether you add to what your personal view of the story or not, the answer will be still the same. If the question is presented in the proper way. Okay, so don't take me wrong.
Your husband divorced you because he wanted to marry another woman. Okay. Now, he conceded to the other woman that he was previously married.
And he lied to her. And he said he was not married before. And he married her. Is their marriage valid? Number one, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Man, Russia, fellas, I mean, this is a form of deception. But guess what, it doesn't hurt a woman to know that the husband was married previously before. But it hurts if the person lied.
And he said that I'm not married, and he's married. I'm not divorced, and he's divorced. And it's easy to find out. That's why I truly applaud the idea of issuing a marriage license. In North America. This is one of the things which has picked a great deal. So that when you apply for a license to get married, it shows whether you're a man or a woman, you're married or you divorce. Okay.
Not necessarily talking about the other measures that are taken in this regard. I'm talking about a particular thing when somebody proposes a woman to marry and he is currently married. And he doesn't say that he's married, he has a bunch of kids, he is struggling with them. He doesn't say any about that. He said, he's single, that's cheating.
That's cheating. It is up to the woman after knowing that the person is married to another woman to continue this marriage or to ask for separation because it will affect her rights, the time and the support. But if
the person was divorced, is no big deal. It would not affect the validity of the marriage contract of the new woman and in the wording. But he is cheating. And before Allah subhanaw taala that's a sin. Man, Russia, fellas, I mean, whoever receives and cheats is not one of us as the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said, you know how beautiful it is to be honest and say I'm divorced. There is another thing I would like to add. It's a very big sin. It's a major sin. For a woman who's about to marry somebody who's already married, and she puts it a condition Well, if you want to marry me, you have to divorce your wife Latech Murphy's have heartier. That's a very big sin. You're ruining
somebody's life because you want to marry this person and you put it as a condition. Guess what? You're gonna tase from the same glass? Okay, sister Melech from the USA.
We differentiated between two different
types of sins, the sin is the same, but between two categories A person who perceives a sin as no sin and a person who does the sin and he knows it is a sin and he is hoping that Allah will forgive him. Okay. So if the person is with the second category is a Muslim, is committed a sin will help the Allah will help him to quit. Will Allah will forgive him in sha Allah azza wa jal as far as those who love Him, those who love her, those will give them Dawa. Remember that Allah Almighty says now ALLAH Rasool inland Bella,
the duty of the messenger is just to convey the message, you're not going to twist their arm and force them to quit smoking, especially if they are like spouses, brothers and sisters or friends. But you can only continue to give them advices send them videos of people with lung cancer, lips cancer, lung cancer because of smoking, send them audio lectures in the messages.
Always alert them or whenever they come to smoke. Just hold my nose and say off what is this awful smell? How do you kiss your wife? How do you do this? This is a psychological treatments so to make them overcome the urge of smoking.
Tell them how haram it is. But Allah Almighty says in Surah Al cosas, to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in Nicoletta demon, wala Qin Allah yeah demon Yeshua O Muhammad you guide not those whom you love. Rather it is Allah who God's whomever he was, you know, we also pray for them to be rightly guided we pray for them that May Allah forgive them their sins because if my dua is accepted, then they will quit they will repent and they will be better people. May Allah guide all of us what is best Akula Kali had stopped for Allah and He will echo masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad in early he will be a Salam. Until next episode brothers and sisters I love you all in the care of Allah. wa
salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
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