Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #146 Aug 5th 2015

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The conversation covers the history and impact of Islam, including its use of alcohol and drugs, its implementation of Islam as a law, and its impact on society. It emphasizes the importance of praying for those who kill their own citizens and their loved ones, avoiding false accusations, false predictions, and false words. The importance of praying before failure, staying true to one's promises, and not giving the opportunity to do so. The segment also touches on the history of Islam, including the use of drugs and the use of drugs in the past, and the importance of praying before a wedding or when a woman is married.
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allah God is the Greatest. The moment only glory to Him. To me you miss to be missed, gave his best religion to Allah Our God has the greatest

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glory to Him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to

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a Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen WA and I attribute to little motorcade while out when a lot of aalameen or salat wa salam O Allah say you will only in a hurry and so you didn't know Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sabe remain. My dear beloved brothers and sisters Welcome to another Live edition of your program Guardians of the pious. This is an episode number 174 By the grace of Allah will continue to explain chapter number 41 That is going to be the third episode in explaining the chapter which is known

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as the honeymoon or group workout regime, the prohibition of being on dutiful transparence and the severance of ties of kinship.

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The hadith which you're about to study is a very interesting Hadith Hadith number 337.

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Narrated by the great companion Abdullah the son of amaryllis. May Allah be pleased with him and his father.

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And in the video Salallahu Alaihe Salam makan, al Qaeda Eero and inshallah Kuebler. Whoa, cool. Cool. Well, today, we're at LUNA FC qualia, mula mousse are our hula Buhari.

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And this hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam has said,

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major sins are to ascribe partners to Allah disobey parents murder innocent person, and to take a false oath intentionally

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collected by a man will hurry. Obviously, Omron allows for the Allahu and is one of the gate companions, whom we admire and we revere and we send the peace and the blessings upon the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and upon his family members and upon his great companions. And Abdullah, the son of AMRAAM. The loss was also a great companion. He's the one who used to write down whenever he was young and a teenager, he would write down the Hadith of the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam. So the elders from Quraysh forbade him and said, Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam is a human being. Sometimes he says things, whenever he's angry, he does not necessarily mean it may not be our hate.

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So you should not write down everything he says, not to confuse it with the way with the revelation.

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So he seized from writing. Then one day he came to Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, and he told him the story you should use or write down whatever you say, of the Hadith, but kurush stopped me from doing so. The Prophet salallahu alayhi salam ordered him to resume writing down his sunnah and he said, October

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I swear to the one who sent me the truth nothing comes from between my lips, but the truth.

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Vermillion took one in Hawaii in Hawaii Illa, who you knew her? The Prophet sallallahu Sallam assayed resume writing by Allah. Nothing comes from between my lips, but the truth. And Allah says in surah, Tunisia, Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, doesn't utter a word on his own from his own whim. But rather it is only a revelation that has been revealed unto him Salallahu Alaihe Salam and obviously all Egyptians or armoured the last Radi Allahu aren't

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being Muslims today. He's the one who introduced Islam to Egypt, may Allah be pleased with him.

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Imagine all those people who have accepted Islam and who are currently Muslims and who will become Muslims in the soil until the day of judgment will come in the scale of the good deeds of farmers the last for the Allah who aren't Why am I saying this? We all know that we all know that.

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The Allahu Bukhara Jhulan were hidden hydrolock I'm in home right now. If Allah guides through you one person

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That is more than enough for you that is better than the RED camera that is better than the whole world and what it contains. Imagine when you are a cause, and Amin of guidance of a whole nation like Egypt, Egyptian people were similarly idolaters because they were divided between Pharaonic people who used to worship idols and Romans who also practiced paganism. Because bowing down to other than a lot of mighty whether it's a human being, or a statue or an idol, is an act of disbelief. So in this mass of people, back then, then generations after generations, Masha Allah 1400 years now, all those people have accepted Islam mainly because of him. So may Allah be pleased

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with him.

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His son Abdullah said I,

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he narrated that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam assayed. Among the major sins. Why did we say among the major sins even though the Hadith says Al Qaeda, Eero al Qaeda, but we know that from the previous Hadith, that in some other Hadith the Prophet sallallahu Sallam mentioned more than three major sins. In one Hadith, he says, avoid the seven destructive sins, so there are seven. And in other Hadith he also mentioned

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some major sins which were not mentioned in this hadith such as when he was reclining, then he sat up and he continued, saying, Allahu Akbar will absorb alcoholism many times right. So now we understand that the three major sins in this hadith are not only major sins rather, among the major sins, then he mentioned three. If the Prophet Salah Salem wants to speak about any major sins that comes number one of the major sins shift, associating partners to Allah in worship, because this is the most dangerous why the rest of the major sense of subject for forgiveness, that is the only sin which there is no way that a person who dies in a state of disbelief or while associating partners

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to Allah in worship, Maggie forgiveness may gain forgiveness, because Allah Almighty says in Allah Allah el Fil A new Shara cabbie, well Philomath una de Luca de Manisha. Verily Allah does not forgive that a person may associate partners to Him in worship, or ascribe other deities with Him in worship.

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Well, Pharaoh Medina, delicately Manisha and he forgives

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other sins from ever he was this is number 48 of Surah tennis following that there is another eye which provides the same meaning also in Allah Allah yo fu Angel SRA cabbie

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way up through Medwin Adeleke eliminations, like Hola, confirming this matter. So he listed number one, al Qaeda, Al Ishaku Billa, ascribing partners to Allah in worship.

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The second called validate, being untruthful to both parents or whoever is leaving a form.

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being untruthful to them verbally by action, or by negligence, because maybe you're not saying a bad word to them. But meanwhile, you're not fulfilling your duty to them. You're not serving them as it should be. We'll call Rob Durham, Houma, Kamara, Bernie, so you're not praying for them is considered as being not useful to them. So imagine how many times you remember to pray for our children, for our wives, for our businesses, for our health, you know, and how many times on the other hand, you remember to make dua for your parents, for those who neglect making dua for the parents. This is a form of hope, or being untruthful to them.

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And Allah Almighty says the word, the utterance of the term off, which is not even a word. It's a motion. That is considered a major sin. Werfel full validate, and the third is workato nefs. Killing

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or taking the life of an innocent person.

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Allah Almighty says in Surah Denisa by Maniapoto Menon moto her maiden, Folgers Oh Jahannam Khalid and fear will hopefully have Allahu alayhi wa ala Anna who will add della who are the heaven are women. Imagine how many warnings against taking the life of an end

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The same person.

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Some people take it very lightly to take the lives of innocent people simply because they were commanded to do so, by their superior. This is their source of income. This is how they make the living. So become for them like a piece of cake. Allah says in these warnings, whosoever kills a single believer deliberately Muhtar minute, his recompense will be as follows. Number one, Johanna, what is your Hanim the hellfire? Oh, okay. Well the US says lengthen Asana. Naru Illa Jana Duda. Even if we enter far, we're gonna be there for a few days, seven days and we'll come out of it. Listen to this Johanna Moo ha Lydon fee

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and followed eternity. So he will be thrown in * forever to abide there in a terminally those who kill their own citizens those who kill their own people

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for a competition over rulership kinship, presidency. You know, I don't know what you're fighting for. Sooner or later, you're gonna meet your Lord, you're gonna sit on a throne but in *. Taking the life of a single believer of a single moment will make you doomed to * forever. Hardly than fear. Number one, this is not the only tournament number two, well we've Allahu Allah He and Allah is Earth is upon him. Well, Anna, who and Allah curses him. Well Abdullah, who other than our Lima, and he's still meant, Allah has prepared for him a very huge tournament in * May Allah protect us. You know, the demolition of the Kaaba, which is the most sacred building for Muslims is a lot

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easier than shedding the blood of a single Muslim. Just a reminder, obviously, those who are involved in taking the lives of innocent people are negligent of that. There are many lesson of the fact that soon they will die. And soon they will be questioned. And soon they will face

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the reality that their superior who ordered them to pull the trigger or to bombard the innocent people imagine when Syria this war criminal, this tyrant who's killing his own people, Muslim innocent people, men, women, children, and elders and all of that masking everyday when regular basis and there are some movies under Assam share who line up with him and they appear with Him in you know, religious occasions in religious holidays. So pray read and so on. On the Day of Judgment, it will not be they will not have any excuse they cannot say in Atlanta that work over an hour Luna Sevilla.

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Our Lord, we only obey the orders of our superiors, of our leaders of our masters of our Cheves and the misled us they say there's not an excuse is

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to be mean Allah Dnata. Now, what I will add about Takata be human as bad, the superior the leaders are going to * anyway because making the order they did not carry out the mission of killing the innocent people. But they pass the orders to those who executed the order. They will disown them. We're free from your sin. We didn't tell you to do anything. You are entirely responsible.

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Welcome call a lady in a table. Now the follower who blindly followed orders.

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They say hello and Elena Kurata infinity I mean whom Camerata Barbara Omen we wish we have an opportunity and a chair a chance to this own them as they disowned us. Cadet carry him Allahu Akbar madam Hassan Allah him. Well now whom Bihari Jean Amin and are both the followers and those from the followed will not come out of *. Well now whom Bihar Regina manana

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what repeat in this ayat so those who are being negligent

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or may not know should be aware of the fact that sabula Who Anna Sue if you think that after all, he can perform Hajj or Umrah and you will be forgiven and you can start a new page in your dreams

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in your dreams.

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Alhaji gadget news for sell coffee it was a big time criminal

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And he was a governor appointed by one of the maid colleagues. But he was criminally he killed a lot of innocent people when he came to kill the last person that he murdered, so you don't say the potential buyer, may Allah be pleased with him. And he was a great scholar, there was a very interesting dialogue between this tyrant perpetrator,

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and criminal. And this great companion, the tabby, he was a companion of the companions of the Prophet Salalah. Some use a master of atterberry and the followers of the companions. They said, I'm going to take your life he said, Well, you're going to ruin my life. And that will draw in your hereafter. So what is the maximum you can do? You're not going to make my life short. Licola Jalin kita if you take my life today anyway, I was going to die today if you did not kill me if you did not shoot me if you did not stop me to this. I was gonna die today anyway. But since you are the one who executed this, that would ruin your hereafter. Okay, and I'm happy when Klaviyo came to kill

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have been

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heavy you ever said let him sell a layup that Caleta for toolani. No unabashedly idea, you know, you can get up to like, if you stretch out your hand to kill me, I ain't gonna do the same. He is capable to defend himself. He was capable to kill Kobe.

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And he was righteous to the point that he said I'm not going to cheat to the same why in a half Allah Rob Bella al Amin.

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That is the reason why we do not kill even though we are capable to kill.

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But we are capable to kill our oppressors but because we fear Allah the Lord of everything that exists. Then he said in the radio and taboo ABS me What is mica feta, Poonam in us having now with early caches of oily mean, for me, I want you to build my center Newson accordingly, you will do eternally and *.

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And this is the recompense of the wrongdoers. He continued to do what he planned and he killed his brother. What did he say? I'm not gonna do the same to you because I fear Allah. And if you kill me, you're gonna bear my sin and usin those who have been killed while they were innocent. Allah Almighty will forgive them their sins. They are martyrs. They are shahada, they will be admitted to Paradise, they will get to intercede for 70 of their family members. Why they are murderers, those who took the lives they will live in misery in this life. Wallahi they will live in misery in this life. And even when they die, whether they die a natural death or they're killed or they end up

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taking their lives, they will experience the worst a turn

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of the Lord Almighty says we're having a more highly than fear. Well, we've Allahu Allahu Allah, Allahu Abdullah, who other than of him May Allah guide us and protect us against these evil and heinous crimes. Then he said, Now how many measures sends a prophet Salalah Salah mentioned in this hadith Alicia Coppola who will validate in a cartoonists the fourth time the lesson this hadith is wildly amenable vamos

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and Allah Most of us what is Lea Lea Muna, Allah Most, which is the taker falls off intentionally,

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as we explained earlier, many times that earlier mean, which is an oath, a confirmation of your statement by saying I swear to allow any of his names or any of his attributes, that is categorized into three categories. The first is EME, and on Mon Arpita, second level, third Ramos and let me know when Al Qaeda which means a confirmed oath, the person swears to Allah takes an oath to Allah, whether to do or to not to do anything in the future. So he is capable whether to do it or not to do it, and that's why he confirmed this statement by saying Wallahi somebody says Wallahi I should stop smoking and this is the last cigarette to smoke and I'm not gonna smoke anymore. So this is called

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immune Arpita the Confirm oath and somebody says, I swear to Allah ain't talking to my brother anymore. That's also immuno monopoly. He promised and he swore to Allah not to talk to his brother, not to visit him not accept his visit, not to talk to him over the phone. But the difference between the two cases is that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said in the Hadith, Mara, man ha

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FL Allah Yameen for Allah hyaluron minha failure Attila the Alethia Hi when you get Ferrania meaning, which means when somebody takes an oath, to do anything, or as we say not to do anything, then he realizes that his oath was wrong, he is not suppose in the first place to make this promise, and this is home, like the lira case when he says, I swear not to talk to my brother or to boycott my sister or not to pray in this machine or not to do a good deed. So he realized that he was wrong. What is the alternative is to break his oath for a good thing. Yes, then do it.

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Fairly Attila the here Hi. Let him do what is better. While you can Ferrania mean?

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What is the meaning of Iluka Ferrania mini only Atilla T Hi. To give a thorough answer because he confirmed his oath by saying Wallahi and this is no play. You are saying Wallahi. And Allah's name is the greatest. And when you take His name in your oath, this is a means of confirming your oath and a sign of belief in that believing that Allah subhanaw taala is the only one who's worthy of worship. That's why he said Wallahi and that's why you're not allowed to swear to other than Allah as the Prophet sallallahu Ania selama said in the sound, Hadith, mankind Hallahan failure holy Billahi I will your small, little, whoever takes an oath to swear to Allah or to be quiet, to

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swearing to your grandmother life, to your father's grave, to anything that is valuable in your life is not permissible in the Prophet sallallahu Sallam perceived such oath as a form of shell.

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When you swear you should only swear to Allah the Almighty and Allah Almighty says in Surah Al Baqarah, wella jalila or Natali, a Manik and double what a temple what was the whole bananas? What does it mean? A robot is an obstacle.

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So do not make your own Earth like an obstacle on the way or again is doing something which is good such as an taba row at a taco to see how bananas to do what is good to uphold the ties of kinship and to reconcile between people like what the example again, somebody is having a problem or a conflict with his relative, or one of his relatives or brother a sister says Wallahi I'm not gonna talk to you forever.

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Or he says, you know, what, had it not been for my office because I said, Well, Allah He, you know, I wanted to talk to him I wanted to resume talking to him, but I said Allah. So Allah said, no, no, no, do not make Allah as an obstacle on the way of making good deeds, doing their reconciling between people. So what should we do? The prophets Allah Allah Allah send Msh in this case, do the kuffar the ransom and do what is better? Do what is better resume doing? What is better bake your oath. What is the ransom Surah Tenma ADA says

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What can you can be market turmoil, a manufacturer ferrata who if Amash rottenness again, I mean, also to the metal to ammonia Alikum elkus wetroom Elta Hirakata. So they occur Farah for Le Amin, which is described as mana Arpita either two feet in poor people, or to close them or to free a slave neck. Pamela myalgic Fossey mo Salah Sati uh, yeah, if the person is poor, cannot afford the feeding of clothing, thin poor people, then the alternative is to fast for three days and it doesn't have to be constructed, then he can refer to a man he can either have to follow a man now.

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So this is an amino monarca and we learn why is it monopolar? And what is its ransom in case that you have to break it? And whether it is better to keep it or vacate? Should you make an oath to commit a sin or not to do an obedience?

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What about me no vamos an immuno Lamos is one of the major sins which shows equated in the Hadith mentioned along with shirk, and being on beautiful transparence and killing deliberate killing of innocent people taking the lives of LMU homos that means is such a very grave sin. Yes, indeed it is. Why? Because you think that you're belittling Allah's name. You think that Allah is not seeing you? He thinks that Allah is not aware of your intent and your falsehood. When you deliberately swear to Allah

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To prove to people that you did not do something which you actually did, and you swear to Allah Allah He deliberately why knowing

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okay that Scalia mean, but why is it Ramos?

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When you have your finger, or a bite or bread in a glass or the plate until it's completely soaked

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it a bit completely inside the vessel that's called humps, verbs.

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In the Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi selama says, that on the Day of Judgment, Allah will bring the most distant you the person on earth.

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He will immerse him in paradise once so this person in dunya, he was the most misfortunate person,

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the most suffering person, then on the Day of Judgment, Allah subhanaw taala will order the angels to put him in heaven once. That's called immersing, like he enters it holy, then he will take him out of it and say My servant, have you ever experienced any suffering any adversity or any hardship in your life?

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He was the person who suffered most in this life, but he was a believer. So when he made it to agenda for a few minutes, then he was taken out and Allah asked him this question, he says, Where is that? Our journey Anika NFE Namie Moo ha Kenny. I swear to your honor and majesty, I have been enjoying my life since you created me I do not recall no renumber in your suffering whatsoever.

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Lamsa lnn Allah moose is when the person deliberately immerses himself in fire. He chooses to enter fire without an answer. Why? Because he had the guts to say Wallah, he lying knowingly and deliberately. That's why it's called Hamas because it doesn't have any Kuffar. How can I fast for three days? Can I fit 100 miskeen and instead of 10, because I appeared in court and I said, I swear to Allah, this card is mine. And it is not used. I swear to Allah, I saw this man accepting bribery. And he's an innocent person. I swear to Allah, I saw this woman committing adultery, and she wasn't. And he just wanted to talk with people. You are hired or out of envy or out of hatred, you lie

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against other people to grow in the life to make the life miserable. Some people get killed, some people lose their lives as a result of a fake auth accordingly, this immune is known as immune Ramos and it doesn't have inherent some bad luck. If you have the gods to play games with the name of Allah subhanaw taala. Then there is an entry without exit entry to Allah. They are now telling you so Sahiba have you now because it immerses the person who does so in * May Allah protect us again is that they were the four major sins which had been mentioned in this hadith the second in order after associating partners to Allah and worship was indeed being unfaithful to one's parents. We'll

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take a short break. We'll be back in Sharla in a few minutes, please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. As usual, a quick reminder with our phone numbers a call 0020238 treble 5249 alternatively Area code 0020 Double 125 Double 08679 and the email address is [email protected].

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And as I mentioned earlier, this is a live edition though,

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the Hadith that we're studying now insha Allah is Hadith number 338.

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The hadith is also narrated by the same narrator of the previous Hadith Abdullah if Nam written Alas, but the Allahu Anhu man and now rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Akkad mineral kava every shot more Murad Julio le de Carlos rasool Allah. Wa * yes to more Raju Wally they call Anam so boo ever truly fair so boo, boo, boo boo Oh Now fair so boom, whatever con la we're here

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in Amman act very clever at a Alana Raju where the de killer rasool Allah typha Alana ra

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were so bona fide yeah so boo oh man

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Abdullah have an honorable asked me I love you please with him and his father rated that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam assayed it is one of the grave sins to curse one's parents.

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He was asked Oh prophet of Allah.

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Can Eman ever curse his own parents? The Prophet peace be upon him said yeah, when he curses the father of somebody else who return curses the former's father. And then he curses the mother of somebody else who return curses his mother. This narration is agreed upon its authenticity in another narration.

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The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said, one of the major sins is to curse one's parents.

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Then the Prophet sallahu wa sallam was asked, How can a man curse his own parents, he said, peace be upon him, when somebody curses appearance of another man who return curses the former's father.

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And when someone curses the mother of another man who return abuses or curses, his mother,

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this is a sound Hadith. And the Prophet sallallahu Ania. Solomon, this hadith means to block all the means of being untruthful to one's parents.

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The person may be very kind, shown a great deal of servitude to his parents.

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And he's taking care of them to the best of his ability. And they love him so much. They pray for him, they admire him, but outside at work at school with his colleagues, or whenever he picks up a fight, whenever he is driving his car, and he has some friction with somebody else. So they fight verbally. So he says, You're such a such and such.

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Okay, in this case, do you think that the other guy would remain quiet and say, man, God forgive you? I will very few do that. But in today's world, I don't think so.

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Somebody curses somebody's father, abuses somebody's mother.

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In South somebody's parents, he is not going to simply take it quietly. Rather, Eucharist his father is going to curse your father and grandfather, your mother and grandmother and the whole family.

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So basically, this person

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cursed your whole family because you started it.

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You cursed?

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His father, he abused his mother. How often? Do you hear that in movies, and sees talk shows,

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while playing games, use high school kids,

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even middle school kids now. And college, people take it very lightly. To the point that I need some college students, I pass by them. Whenever they're joking with each other. They're having fun, smoking and chit chatting.

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You know, it's like a compliment, oh, you son of such and such. So the other guy, you too son of such and such. Maybe the parents are innocent parents somewhere and have no clue what the son is doing. Maybe they're even dead, and they've been cursed. They're being insulted, sometimes being insulted, where the act of fascia or Zina

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there is a particular insult. When the person says your son have such and such that means that your mother bore you and give birth to you illegitimately.

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Simply as a result of an illicit relationship. One word, this one word means that your mother is an adulterous

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and Islam. This is not taken lightly.

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This is perceived as not just a major sin. In the Hadith in the other narration, in Amin, Akbar Al Qaeda, one of the grave stunts, one of the most heinous sins is when you curse your parents. Now we know that a person does not necessarily have to tell his father

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to tell him off or to curse his mother or to abuse his parents in order to be cursed because he's not

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Something bad No. Even if he's super nice to them, but outside he deals with people as they do so that he curses his father and mother and so on. This is perceived as one of the gravest sins Salam. Alaikum wa Rahmatullah Baraka,

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Brother Mohammed from Gambia

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wa Salam wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Welcome to the program.

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Thank you, sir. Thank you, sir. Thank you very much. Playing him the Islam may God guide you give me a long life and you to

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the more people like you

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Zach, Allah.

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Allah, question is, is

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it permissible for a married woman to do adoption after delivery? For moms all daily?

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abortion, abortion for abortion after delivery a four month baby?

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Could you tell me the reason?

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The reason because of the new mantra, she swears to feed the baby, blah, blah, blah. I understand that we asked this question before anything. Okay. JazakAllah. For your question, Muhammad, thank you.

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Abortion in Islam is equivalent to killing, whether you kill an adult, whether he killed the fetus in the womb of his mother, it is all forbidden. And Islam was the very first religion to legislate the prohibition of abortion.

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Whether before four months, or after four months, there are some very limited conditions during which abortion becomes legitimate when there is a serious life threat to the mother was burying the child. So the physician says, if you continue burying the child, you may die and there is a great possibility that we will lose you in this case, no, we'll just lose a child and abort the baby. But other than that, when the family said, Oh my god, I have three kids already and they're giving me a hard time. I'm not ready for a fourth one. It's not up to you

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to take the life of an innocent child, because yes, it's been formed in the womb of the mother before or after.

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So this is a living being.

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It is not permissible. In the Quran, Allah Almighty says about those who used to kill their daughters once they're born.

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Because of the same reason, they Allah Almighty says either now or they're too soon to be a than Ben kottelat.

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Allah Almighty addressed this issue in the Quran many times, which shows this is not an easy sin. This is killing and both parents and the doctor is doing the abortion or blameworthy and there will be a D in the blood money and a compensation it's a major sin Please do not do that. Only when the physician says it is causing a life threat to the mother now we can abort the baby as salaam alaikum.

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Sisters you idea from Uganda.

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Thank you for the program. Shake me and I want you

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I have two questions. Shake.

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The first question is about

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my father, one of my father is screaming that we talked something bad about him. And he is very angry, very angry and and he says he wants us to apologize. As we we don't know what we get.

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And we know in our hearts that we did nothing, nothing at all. So if I don't apologize to him, am I accounted like, I'm a bad person, my kinship. Because I know I did not do anything. But for me we says I did something. Sandwich I don't know. So I don't know about the I don't know if I don't do it. I'm doing something haram.

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You said he's one of your brothers. Right? My

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brother to my father.

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Mother, too. Okay, so he's your brother from your father's side.

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Is your knife as I say? Regardless, he is your brother. Okay. Yeah, I'll tell you what I would do if I were in your position if one of my brothers said I'm upset. Okay, I hope you

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Send me if one of my friends or one of my brothers says upset with you because of something bad you did and you need to apologize I would say immediately I do apologize if that is the only thing which will reconcile between us I will take it I would say it no big deal, I would not make a big deal out of it. Then when we concise say I would be more than happy if you can just explain to me what wrong did I do in order to avoid it in the future? We need to look at the bigger picture the picture or the problem is not that either think I did something bad and he believes that something back maybe somebody in between say that we once were talking and your sister said whatever. So we need to know

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what is the cause of this affliction in order to eliminate it if I say to this person

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initially and without even know in what I did, I do apologize my you're my beloved brother and I will not lose you for anything in this life. Okay, that breaks the ice removes all the barriers and the walls that there is a psychological barrier. Something in his mind right now is telling him that you abused him and you need to apologize. My apologies. No probably next. What was wrong? Okay, that would lift the fog Thank you sister you area as the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, the best of the two opponents when Two Brothers Two sisters to friends breakup, the best of whom is the one who takes the initiative and begins reconciling simply by saying Saramonic Salam aleikum

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sister Aisha from the case a

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my friend say that she wants to pray quickly before going to bed that is after Isha and when she wants to wake up at night and saying

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gosh she's so easy it's okay to do that. And she had that if you already pray which will be firstly things then he will not play in have a

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fight with

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my sister had that problem with my brother my stepbrother. So this that is a few days before Ramadan. And you say you should look that person with you have anything between you and any of your relatives. Now I called my sister and I told her that she should be confined with my step. But it's my step brother.

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My sister called my father and we went from we solve this issue that when my father called,

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he wishes to come so that they can sit with mother, brother, sister. So we did not solve anything. Now my sister, say, I'm not in the future, but

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kids should know what Now should I do rather than is approaching? I say now what you should do just say that I wanted to do EPR at Alfred. Okay, if he does, then that's a good thing.

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She she called me back and said, he's still not responding to you.

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Now, if you feel accountable for that, whatever happened between them.

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But my brother it needs to come to that because,

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okay, Baraka lofi.

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Thank you, Sister. Ah, Ishizaki la Hieron. I'll begin with your second question that your sister have done,

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what she can do, and she is not blameworthy afterward. But she will continue give him the Salem if he doesn't answer. This is exactly as the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said he said continue upholding their ties even if they do not even if they sever your ties continue to do what you think is good. Even if they're not doing so they're doing the opposite.

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And she's not blameworthy anymore. What do you guys your first question that pray in which didn't go into sleep and get an up before failure to pray to had good or night prayer? We have to pray which again No, Have you prayed good once, whether in the beginning or halfway midnight, then you are not supposed to pray another word even if you pray afterward, because the Prophet peace be upon him said in the Hadith one should not pray to which in the same night law with Ronnie fee Leila and that is simply because if you pray to which that means it will be even. So you will have to pray you will try again. So only once you pray with at night and it is still permissible if you decided to pray

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like you

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Got up and you decided to pray before fed. It is permissible to pray voluntary prayers as much as you want a Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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Hurry to from Gambia salam ala compared to what anything

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Welcome to the program

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want to ask

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if if a married woman

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a married man for me,

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and then after he or she realized that doing dinner is what is the solution for them?

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But sister from the beginning, don't you think that adultery is haram? You mean in your question that after a married couple,

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a man or a woman committed adultery, they realize that is haram like Surprise, surprise, they just figured out that adultery is haram. Of course. Every sane person knows that. Even with our with knowing the religious ruling, out of honesty, you're already married. So establishing an illicit relationship with somebody else while you're married, whether it is the husband or the wife is a grave sin. Right? But in this case, the punishment in Islam is very severe way severe than if the person was unmarried. And when we say unmarried, or a single or a bachelor, it means have not been married before, because the sin is the same if the person is currently married or was married before

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but currently is a bachelor. Okay? Nowadays we don't have an Islamic law

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in most of the states, so what am I supposed to do in order to get rid of the sin?

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Do not confuse the Sentinel one.

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Keep it between you and Allah and make sincere Toba. Try to be pious and chest to the best of your ability. Sever all your relations with people who assisted you or lead you to commit the sin.

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Avoid that completely, making sincere Toba even if the person had committed adultery with XCP the sin provided it is sincere. In Surah Furqan Allah Almighty says while i is known, the ayah begins with Allah Dean Allah Runa ma Allahu Allah and

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while I Aqua to Luna Neff, seletti Haram Allah who enable help well as noon on my FX Erica and Sam Yudof level Malkia Amity WIAA Lodi fee Mohan Illa min Thurber. We're gonna we're on the llama lawn Solly her for hula eco but the room love will say to him has an ad. Okay and Allahu Allah for Rahim. No matter how bad is a sin, including adultery. If the person repented sincerely, then the sin will be waived. Not only waived is the person tab where manner and number 70 tab repented and believed Amina Annalen saleha follow the evil deed with good deeds

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started doing good righteous deeds. Read as much Quran as you can give any charity as much as you can. Fast voluntary fasting pray at night make sure you attend the prayer on time lower your gaze line up do your best to be righteous for them hola Erica you but they will love who say to him has

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not only that Allah will forgive them their sins but will convert their bad deeds into good deeds in a state what can Allahu wa Rahima and listen. Not only that, but Allah is so forgiving the Most Merciful women turbo amylose Holohan fit in now we are to Allah He metabo for them their Toba is definitely accepted, but that is between the sinner and Allah to really show that he or she is sincere in the repentance. My dear beloved brothers and sisters, we have just come to the end of today's program and we consumed all the time that is allotted for us to be continued in sha Allah next week. Until then I leave you all in the care of Allah of Holika we had our stuff for Allah the

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welcome masala Allahu ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam, wa Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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have a

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love of God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He

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has to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God has been greatest

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glory to Him. He only wants to be the best and give his religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about an empire that we're shaping combs fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting about bad guys. We're shipping cars fire and stores selling the best were the cheapest

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