Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #137 May 18th 2015

Muhammad Salah
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love our code is the greatest. The moment only Glory to the opening you is to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to a son Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh Smilla wa salatu salam ala Nabi here most of us are you didn't know Muhammad in one early he was sabe he women were their brothers and sisters, the viewers everywhere. I'd like to welcome you to another live edition of your program. Guardians of the pious sha Allah today is going to be an episode number 162 In blizzards series, and we should begin explaining chapter number 39 In the series, but

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before that, I'd like to finish an unfinished business that was started in the last episode The last hadith of chapter number three eight, in which the Prophet sallallahu Alia Solana instructed us to teach our children how to pray at the age of seven and to discipline them if they don't pray at the age of 10. Then he says Salah Salem with a RICO by now home feel Maharajah So, that is the segment that I wanted to elaborate on which means and do not let them sleep together. sleep together on the same bed under the same cover or in the same room. What does it mean? And why? What is the purpose of at the Frick? The word MALBA Jaya is plural of mob jah

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jah Who is it means when a person

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is laying down or reclining. And normally that happens on a sofa on a couch or on a bed.

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So if the person were to sleep on a bed, the kids normally especially if the person is blessed with number of kids, so they sleep in the same room if he doesn't have but a single room and sometimes they have one big bed or one big mat and not everybody is blessed with a roomy house where they can afford to give a room for each child. We're talking now about an average person or even less than average has only one bedroom for himself and his wife and another for older kids whether they're one or more.

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The prophets Allah Allah Allah Selim sh Federico Federico part between them in an Maharajah this parting and separation could be achieved by the following means if it is possible that everyone has its his own bed

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or spread, that's perfectly fine. If it is not possible then everyone have his own cover his or her and by the way at the free coughing Maharajah or

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separating between the kids at the age of 10. And bed does not only mean that between boys and girls, now even the same gender boys and boys, girls and girls and boys and girls, obviously, but this is too early yes that is too early. This is how we upbringing our children and follow the first Haole which says blocking the means or sedusa so very famous for payroll.

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So when we do that, we eliminate the physical contact which may lead to aphasia may lead to in the future. The brothers and sisters seen the hour of each other, the body apart of each other the change in the same room then they sleep in their sleep where

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the boy in the trunks or the shorts and the girl in the sleep where and they do not have intersections. In addition to the filth that is we're exposed to on the screen, online magazines and in the streets that can incite fitna. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam set certain rules for adults, the Prophet sallallahu Julius Malema said a man and a woman who are not neither a husband and wife nor are related to each other. They are not maharam to each other are not allowed to be alone.

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on behind closed doors, because if they happen to be alone behind closed doors, they are not alone. The third is Satan. And you can imagine in this condition, what is going to happen, even a doctor with his patient,

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they should not be alone behind closed doors

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and move to or I share or a Quranic teacher teaching a girl, there is citation of the Quran. But this is very suspicious. And this is very extreme. This is not extreme. Rather, this is called blocking the means blocking the means in order to maintain chastity, you keep the fuel away from the fire. And if you don't, what is going to happen if you break the rule, and you stay with a woman who's not lawful to you, in the same room, in the same office and you like yourself, and even if nothing happened, that is also haram.

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And why don't you look around and search the news, the scandals and the lawsuits in North America, many churches filed for bankruptcy settling child molestation cases and sexual harassment cases. Why this is, you know, this person is supposed to be a religious leader and a pious man, he's a human being.

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And she's a human being. And this is a human nature, there is a desire and Satan ignites this desire. If you do not agree to that, if you're not happy with that, then this is what you get a society which is full of corruption,

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a society which is full of family *, and family sexual relations within the same family, brothers and sisters and so on.

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So you say that boys and girls at the age of 10 are not are not supposed to sleep on the same bed.

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And we say, if you do not have but a single spread, then each one at least in a separate cover, and they should dress up properly before each other. What about have the same gender likewise,

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even boys and boys, and girls and girls,

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these instructions are concerning the under puberty age, the age of 10.

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Because most cases, a puberty is past the age of 1013 1415. But it happens. In some cases, a child may reach the age of puberty early earlier than that, at the age of nine at the age of eight. Can this happen? Yes, my friend is a gynecologist in Texas, and he delivered a girl she gave birth when she was only nine years old.

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This is just an example. So it happens. So if the person if the child

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achieved the age of puberty, and it can be determined simply by the girl by experiencing the monthly period, the minister's at any age, then she is mature. From a film perspective, she's very liberal,

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she must offer certain a by that what she used to do as voluntary now they become compulsory and she must wear hijab and she must be treated like a grown up go or barely ever that is a factor. So if this happens even under the age of 10, then we dismiss the restriction of the age of 10. That only when they reach the age of 10 they should do this and they should do that and we should separate between them in bed or in the spread or if it is possible and you can afford to put you know boys in one room and girls in one room and each one had their own beds. That is perfectly fine. But we also have to be logical and realistic. Not everyone can afford to do that. In this case. Each child have

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his own and her own cover and they should dress up properly. Not like what we see. Families are very careless when it comes to what the what their teenagers what their boys and daughters are wearing in front of them. To me, it looks like this is the Under clothes is very tight and short shorts boys and girls are wearing when we visit one Muslim families and sometimes unfortunately Muslim families who have been influenced much by the society.

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Yes, when we visit some people and we see that it is sad. So we try to explain to them what is halal and haram and they think this is the norms because everyone is doing

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lagged but will not like everyone. And the guidance, which was delivered to the to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is to maintain happiness, success and chastity of the entire society if we follow it will live happy and will be rewarded. If you break the rules, the rules of Allah, if you ignore the guidance of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe, salam, and most certainly one will have to pay the price. I can't explain anymore. But everybody knows what I mean and what I'm talking about. So we understand from this last segment, which is we're fairly cool by now. unfilmable idea, do not let them sleep together in the same bed, or under the same cover. boys and boys, boys and girls and

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girls and girls, at what age at the age of 10 with a real Kobe nofima Dodger, if any for each is the age of property under 10, then they will be treated as bad.

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Furthermore, rules and regulations will apply to them in this case. Now brothers and sisters, I would like to begin right away with the following chapter, beautiful chapter, which is known as the rights of the neighbors. The neighbors rights is chapter number 39 in the blue series of gardens of the pious,

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the area which shall Imam nawawi listed in the beginning of the Shefter is a magnificent I similarly is the rest of the entire Quran. It is an Al Sharpton number four Surah Nisa verse number 36. In this area, Allah Almighty says, why Buddha allah how Allah to Shri Kobe he shining

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what we learned and he is

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what we do koruba Our near term Misaki anyone Jerry they will Jerry Ruby was so heavy will be will be in is heavy. Sabi.

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wabi sabi Liwa man Allah cat Amen welcome.

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This is a segment of air number 36

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of Surah An Nisa The winner, what is the first command wobbu Allahu Allah to Sheikh will be shy. You owe all the audience, all mankind, worship Allah alone and do not associate with him any in wash. Okay, that is the first command. What is the next command? What will well either you need Santa and be useful to parents

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won't be they'll call back and also be good and useful to your kids fault to relatives.

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When you attack them, and be good to the orphans, while Messiah keen and be good to the poor. Well, Jerry they'll call while real June will be was Sahibi will jam with Guthrie terms, also to be good and useful to the following Algerie they'll call back the neighbor who is near of kin while Jerrell Juniper the neighbor who is a stranger while saw here we will Jim the companion by your side. And also have in history, the welfare America a man who come and your servants You made your slaves whenever there was slavery, whatever your right hand possessed.

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so Allah the Almighty, ordered the believers to worship Allah, and to be good to the following categories beginning with the parents, then the relatives. Then he mentioned the orphans, the poor, and a Jerry they'll quarterback. Well, Jerry in June will be was Sahibi, Belgium. This is our concern. And that's why I remember no we listed this idea in the shot. What is a Jerry, they'll call back they'll call by Al Caraga is against or the relatives, family members, cousins, fourth cousins, uncles, aunts, maternal and paternal and all of their

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nephews and nieces, if any of them if any of my relatives is also a neighbor in the same neighborhood, so this person has upon me the following rights. The first is the right of Islam, because every Muslim have rights upon every other Muslim. Second, the rights of the kinship because he's my narrative. Then the third right is the right of the neighborhood. So

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There will be a neighbor who has three rights because he's a Muslim. He is a relative. And he's a neighbor.

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And then Will Jerry l journal, a neighbor, who would have only two rights,

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such as

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a neighbor, who is a Muslim, but not relative. So he has the light of the Islam, and he has the rights of the neighborhood.

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While Sahibi bill can be either your colleague or the person who's traveling with you or a neighbor, who is not a Muslim, nor relative, so, he has only one right

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the right of the neighborhood, you mean even

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if the neighbor is a Jew, or a Christian, or Buddhist or Hindu or atheist, they have rights upon you. Yes, they do have rights upon Muslims, and who is considered a neighbor next door, upstairs downstairs.

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Up to 70 houses around you, they are all your neighbors, but the nearer have more rights than the further away as there is a Hadith are Aisha Radi Allahu Allah, as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that if she has something to give as a gift to the neighbor, but it's only limited. A you know she can afford to give only one neighbor at a time. Who should I give it to? Is it a crab Houma la ke Babban the one who is adjacent to the nearest house to you, he has more rights than anyone who's further away but they all have rights.

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Then, when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam taught his companions use etiquette and fulfilling the rights of the neighbors, even if they were non Muslims.

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They have rights upon us. Abdullah Hypno meridional Hatha, may Allah be pleased with him.

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Once slaughter the sheep,

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then he ordered his household to distribute it. And he said do not forget to give our Jewish neighbor

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they said would you give as you have the sadhaka from your sheep, is it Yes. I have heard Rasool Ullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is saying, Meza Allah Gibreel you'll see in a bill Gertie Hatter Vaughn and to Allah who say you are so

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this is how the Companions used to interpret the commands of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam into actions.

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The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam put lot of emphasis on the rights of the neighbors, even if they are non Muslims.

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And there is a long list of instructions. It's not just general advice, be kind, be cool. Be nice to your neighbor know, that hadith will show us that the prophets Allah Salam explained, concerning the house concerning the property concerning the food. There are a lot of things which we will learn in sha Allah in this chapter. And in order to do that, I would like to begin with the following Hadith Hadith number

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and Abdullah Hebner, Amara y Ishita of the Allahu Anhu uma kala, kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Mirza Allah GBT, you you'll see in the village Jerry had to have one and two and now who say you were wrestle?

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In this hadith which is narrated by two of the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam Abdullah Hebner, Omar, why Isha? May Allah be pleased with all of them. And that's a sound Hadith. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, angel, Gabriel kept recommending treating neighbors with kindness to me until I thought he would assign a share of the inheritance. Could that happen? Yes.

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And you realize Salam does not assign on his own. But it means to the point that I thought and I expected that Allah Almighty would reveal to me through Gibreel that the neighbor should be treated as a family member, including having a share in the inheritance.

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As you all know, when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam arrived to Medina as an immigrant, after Hedra, he established a hole where the brotherhood between Al Ansari, the supporters, regional dwellers of Medina and Al muhajir in migrants from Mecca and this

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What are Brotherhood was not just verbally as it is right now? No. So when he made a brotherhood between Sal man and Abu darda, they became like real blood brothers. And they came included that whoever will die of these two brothers, his brother will have a share of the inheritance like his blood brother. Exactly.

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Then, afterward, this ruling of the share of the inheritance was abrogated. Whoa hold our hand Eva boom Ella be about the relatives are more worthy to inherit from each other. But the main the rights of the Brotherhood and who are watching the Prophet sallallahu Sallam established so it was very possible that because you realize salaam awfully came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in joining in him to take care of the neighbors to take care of their neighbors and the Prophet sallallahu sallam was the greatest in this regard. And then there are many references in this regard. But Gibreel is conveying the message to him so he can pass it on to his OMA sallallahu alayhi salam

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Gibreel have come to me very awfully

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recommending for me to be kind and give kind treatment to the neighbors to the point that I thought the next revelation would be that the neighbor should have a share of the inheritance if his neighbor rule to die, that the neighbor will get a share of the inheritance. We are like one family, this is how it should be. But is this what we'll do in? No, not at all. And to be honest with you, in our Muslim societies, we're who suppose, and we're more worthy than others, to respect

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those rights and fulfill them. Unfortunately, we tend to adopt for the materialistic societies, only its evil traits and habits.

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Just yesterday, some neighbors had,

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you know, a newborn. So they decided to celebrate the slaughter of the sheep in the middle of the street, and the Blood was running on take him in front of people's houses. And it was all blood all over, including the way to the masjid.

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So if you're going to the masjid, you have to cross or jump over the blood. This is impurity. This isn't the Jassa there are so careless why, because we're celebrating, everybody should be happy with us. But nobody is happy with you. As a matter of fact, your neighbors may be invoking Allah Almighty, not to bless you. Or even worse than that, because you're making the life miserable. This dirt is impurities. And it's a very good medium for germs, bacteria and diseases. And you just left it in the seat has violated the basic rights of all the neighbors, not one or two. Then night they decided to throw a party and they had those huge speakers

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where there are sick people and there is another family look lost a loved one. So they have a deaf case and students who are attending their exams, but the neighbors are very selfish, the wound to celebrate. So if anyone will talk to them say just a couple hours we'll say rating we're having fun.

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Don't get that's why brothers and sisters, these rules and regulations are very virtuous. But in order to implement them, there are some people who would you know immediately comply with them because they are anticipating the reward from Allah.

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And there are some people who are careless. What should we do with them? Law and order, law and old if the neighbors have a dog and it is barking out loud at night in the states you simply dial 911 They will come and file a report against them and they will collect the dog and they will have to pay a fine and make a promise that they will keep it quiet or remove so that you will not bother others. As simple as that. You take I took my mother to the clinic and I tried to get off and there is a lady who blocked the way by simply parking across the street behind several cars including mine. So somebody is very sick is very l cannot stay even for a few minutes. They have to go and we

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have to start looking for a Hooper

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The car this way, who parked the car here, violating all the rights of the basic rights, even the common sense simply those kinds of people. It is not enough to say the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam sad masala Gibreel who you will see enable Jerry, hotter one and two now who say your ratio is not enough. Rather there has to be low and older and the person who feels oppressed simply have the right to dial a certain number or the authorities will take care of the case so that people will not end up in fist fighting or shooting blood or hatred. When a man came to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam complaining about his neighbor that he used to offend them and annoy him non stop so the

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prophets Allah Allah Allah selama stayed go home and take your furniture out put them in the seat

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and if anyone asked you are you moving? What is happening to them because my neighbor is annoying me is hurting me and is making my life miserable. So he did everyone everybody's passing by yeah befallen Oh, the father of so and so what is happening? Why are you leaving says I'm not leaving. I cannot stay in my house anymore. Because my neighbor is making my life miserable. So they say May Allah bless him. May Allah punish him. The neighbor heard people praying against him, condemning him and insulting him. He rushed to his neighbor and said, I beg you, let's take your furniture inside. And I promise you I will never hurt your feelings. I will never know you anymore.

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And Allah has I will be so tiny. Mariela? Yes belcarra To be continued in sha Allah after a short break, please stay tuned

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. As usual our phone numbers beginning with a code 0020238 Triple 5249 Turn the very same area code in zero Double 125 Double 08679 email addresses [email protected] the Facebook page is Dr. Mohamed Salah official

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the following hadith is Hadith number three or four in the bliss a series of Guardians of the pious It is narrated by the great companion of Wizardry fairy may Allah be pleased with him and of either in a lovely Allahu Anhu called Color Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam yeah

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either a

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model of attend for X here's what I had Gianna Ottawa who Muslim a few of you are at level one of either in color in the holly Lea sallallahu alayhi wasallam or Sony, either for work the Moroccan for exit from manga lab at minjee Iranica. For our simple home men have a ma roof

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and the meaning of these two generations collected by a Muslim Narrated by Abu zar really fairy may Allah be pleased with him that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam commanded me or others, whenever you prepare a soup, put plenty of water in it, and give some of it to your neighbors. In another narration, Obrador said, my best companion, my best friend, Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him advise me saying, whenever you prepare a soup, put plenty of water in it, and give some to your neighbors and then give out or give them out. This out of courtesy sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for our Cebu minha Bhima off

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ordered Abu Dhabi so that he can convey the message to us as he shared this with many other companions that among the eyes of the neighbors, there are some neighbors who are poor

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and cannot afford it. And Allah bless them with bunch of kids. So they cannot afford to buy meat like you do, or fruits like you do. So if you're going home with fruits with sweet and candy and plenty of food, you have one of two choices. If you can afford to pay

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Sansome to your neighbor, especially if the kids are in the seat and playing around. Your kids are not supposed to go out with the candy with the sweet or with the kind of things that the neighbors cannot afford, because this is teasing. And this is the person to them.

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And that creates jealousy and envy.

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Or simply make sure to give them a share. And this is one of the greatest form of sadaqa to give the neighbors in a very materialistic world, people are afraid to say hi,

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how are you? Because he may ask me for help. They may ask for something. They're very stingy. This is a very sick society. This is how it is. Everybody is living for himself or herself. How often you hear in the West that somebody died. And for three days or for a week, nobody knows where is he missing? Or Lee? When he starts milling, and they call the cops, they come and they have to break the front door to find the person is already swelled. And he's covered with robes. And his body is rotten.

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Because his family members abandoned him. His daughter, his son, and he's living by himself in misery. Yes, he's living his life. But whenever at the time of need, he had a heart attack. No one was there to help him.

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He couldn't call anyone no one is around, no one able to check on him and look at the beauty of attending the Salah in congregation.

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That when we attend

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prayer in our neighborhood masjid, which all the neighbors supposedly it is not all but one day hopefully Insha Allah, people will make sure to attend the pray in the masjid. Those who do whenever anyone is missing. For one salah. Maybe he has something to do second, Salah third, fourth day. Oh right away, people start calling and finding out. Is he sick? Is he okay? You feel like you have a big family much bigger than just your immediate family members, or your relatives, your neighbors, the people who pray with you and the machine, your community. You belong to them and they belong to you. This is an amazing beauty of our beautiful Islam.

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when the person

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out of courtesy, takes some food, some sweet and passes it on to the neighbors in Tulsa, Oklahoma, where I used to visit the Muslim community there. May Allah bless them on regular basis. They used to buy sweet baklawa and, you know, a Middle Eastern sweet, big dishes for about 300 homes around the center. All of them on a regular basis. Every happy occasion depends on dishes and food to all of them. Local people are not used to that.

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In a materialistic society, people wonder why are you doing this? What do you want from me? What are you after? We're after the word from Allah subhanho wa taala. We're only doing this Lemery domain comm Jezza. And while Shu Cora, and that's why the community is very supportive to the Muslim community there. This is our religion. This is what orders us those who are living in the West, your neighbor is very keen not to talk to you not even to say good morning or wave to you. You take the initiative.

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When next time you're going to the halal meat store, make sure that you buy some, you know, traditional foods and sweet and take it to the nib even if he does not reply with the same even if he does not reply at all, once and twice and 10 times and do it on a regular basis. You don't have to see the fruit but there will be definitely a fruit. We're doing this only for the sake of Allah and in order to practice our beautiful religion. If you can afford to give soup, which is you know, as a result of boiling meat or chicken or whatever, fine, thank you so much. And the neighbor would definitely appreciate that. But if you cannot afford the not do the barbecue and the smell, they

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ain't the wind is blowing on your neighbor and you know that they're very poor neighbors and the kids are looking at you. Why are you doing? It smells great. And they're hungry.

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You know, this is unbelievable. How could you do that? You break people's heart. This is not the attitude of

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Muslims is supposed to be not an attitude of even a human being what people do that sometimes, but for a Muslim, you must be very alert. And attentive. You should not do anything like that anything would hurt the feeling of your neighbor, you should avoid it. Rather you should do entirely the opposite. Whenever you meet him or her in the morning you greet them.

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Inquire about them about their health if they need any assistance if they need any help, invite them over once in a while, go and visit them over once in a while. Take some gifts the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said to her due to Habu, whenever we exchange gifts, it creates love. I perfectly understand there are some people no matter what you do for them. They are like idols like lifeless objects. Yes, they would enjoy the free ride. They would not even bother to reply back with any good deed with a smile or pick up the phone and say hi, or check on you or invite you over. No problem. I don't care. I'm doing this. For the benefit of my own self. I'm practicing my religious teaching. A

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look at the following Hadith, which is Hadith number 305 In the series, which is Narrated by Abu Hurayrah Radi Allahu Anhu Ananda V sallallahu alayhi wa sallam called

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wala Wallah healer you mean wala healer, you walawe healer you mean?

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Feel Emanuel rasool Allah, Allah let Isla manager rubella Erica

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whatever canali

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in another narration collected while Imam Muslim he said lay yet hold Janetta Mala manager who bow

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over IRA may Allah be pleased with him rated that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said by Allah. He is not a believer by Allah. He is not a believer by Allah. He is not a believer. When he was asked, Who is he a prophet of Allah? He said, When whose neighbors

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or his neighbor does not feel safe from his evil.

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In this narration use collected by both Bukhari and Muslim there is another narration only about a Muslim in which the Prophet sallallahu Sallam has said he shall never enter paradise home when whose neighbor does not feel safe from his evil

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Alba means evil and wrongful conduct

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the Companions once informed the Prophet sallallahu wasallam about a woman

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and the mention Kathrada Salah to her

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that she prays a lot and she does this and this and that of the different and various Eva that well I can Nana to the G Rana but oh prophet of Allah only one thing bad about her. She is good as a devout worshiper, but she harms her neighbors. The Prophet salallahu alayhi salam said without any reluctance, she will be in *. She will be in fire. Because look, if you're if you're praying, if you're practicing, if you are observing the teaching of your deen, they are in revisable. Allah Almighty says in a solid third hand infection, you will move on.

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One of the main reasons why we pray because it improves our behavior. It hinders us from evil. It prevents us from doing what is bad fascia will monka turn her a forbids us again is that? How good is it? If you're praying and you're harming others, you're lying to them. You're backbiting them or slandering them. You're annoying them that removes all your good deeds. And furthermore,

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Allah the Almighty will take from their bad deeds and cast upon this person who is rude to people who is harming them and annoying them.

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And when he was told about a woman, an ordinary woman, she barely does the forth like an average Muslim while I can, but she's good to her neighbors, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam I said, Hey, I feel Jana. She would be in heaven to that extent. You know how you treat your neighbor will determine your fate, not just the prayers and the first thing this is all for you, and in order to improve your manners, so that

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should reflect on your relationship with people who are Harlequin, NASA. The Holo Cohen has. Adultery

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is a major sin. And it is forbidden in Islam and in every other Sharia or faith in Judaism and Christianity.

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But committing adultery with one's neighbor is worst. Once in Hadith which is narrated by the companion ombre initial bill, or the Allahu Allah, He said, A man once as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam ya rasool Allah, I use them be add to borrower in the law which sin is the greatest before Allah. He said untether only Allah hinted then work at the Halacha

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invoke other than Allah, while Allah is the One who created you.

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So Now Pilate filmer May, then what is next is asking about the wolves kind of sense, the greatest sense. So the first was to associate partners to Allah in worship, or invoking any other deity. Then he says, Who man talk to Allah, Allah, Dhaka, Maha feta and Yama not to kill your own child, because you're afraid that he will be a burden on you when it comes to provision.

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Could anyone do that? They do that every day. And we'll get cushions. Oh, brother, we have two sons and my husband has, you know, a very limited income. And now I'm pregnant. Wallahi to the point that I get the questions the husband says to his wife, now more than two children but she couldn't see it who conceived or he did. And she says, he told me that if you if you keep the baby, you're divorced. You're supposed to drop it go for miscarriage. He wants to kill his own son out of fear of poverty. That is a second major sin after this belief. While at Taco Tulu will learn from Hershey Theatre in left in one eye, then in another Iowa taco Tulou I will add a comin imlach Allah has forbidden

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killing one's own child out of fear of poverty, because he's the one who provides for them. And for us, nationals Zuko come once a year.

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And in another area now who knows Zuko home, what a year ago. Your provision and their provision is upon Allah subhanaw taala. Whenever some body comes to this life, they come with a provision, they are not going to take a bit of your food or fuel drink of your provision. Everyone has his or her share without transgressing against others that is pre ordained before the child is born. And talk to Allah Allah Dakka harshita and Yatta Hi, Matt. So the man said, oh prophet of Allah, then what what is the next greatest sin? He said, to disbelieve in Allah or to invoke other than Allah to kill your child abortion nowadays is killing your own child. And the third, he said, and to then yeah,

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hydrilla Jerrick, to commit adultery

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with your neighbor's wife, that is the worst.

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It's worse than committing adultery with anybody else. Why? Because your neighbor, you should protect them.

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You should cover his horse and errors, not invade his privacy, not allow into his house and watch his wife and watch his door and take a peek. Whenever the window is tilted a little bit, or there is some light, we spy on them. While athleisure says who do not spy against each other. Nowadays, the homes are very congested and very adjacent to each other. So sometimes you find the bathroom window opens to somebody else's kitchen window, or somebody else's balcony. What we're supposed to do

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lower your gaze.

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Even when you see that there is a sign somebody is here, right away, move away. Do not give yourself a chance block the means leading to even do not give yourself a chance to look because you may look and you may some say something which arouses you, and it goes bigger and bigger and bigger. When he says that man was all rubella.

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That applies to when the neighbor has to keep the window closed all the time. Why? Because they have some teenagers that are very evil. They have no shame they keep looking. Sometimes they use magnifying glasses to spy on

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My daughters and my wife, this person will not enter paradise as a Prophet sallallahu ala celibacy. You are the family father of this household, you have to discipline your own children. You have to discipline yourself and them the rights of the neighbors are very very important. To the extent that the prophets Allah Salam made a cause of either entering paradise in their fulfill for a cause of entering Hellfire either been violated May Allah Almighty guide us what is best buy that will come to the end of today's edition of your program Guardians of the pious until next time I leave you in the care of Allah a full of our they had our stuff online you welcome masala Allahu ala Sayyidina

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Muhammad Imran

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salam ala

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God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He

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has to be the best gave his best religion to Allah Our God has been greatest

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glory to Him

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wants to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping comes fire and stones sending the rescue the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting about bad guys are shipping cars fire and stores selling the best and cheapest

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