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Oh, heavy

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love and God is the Greatest. The moment only glory to Him. He only has to be the best and give his best religion to allah God has the greatest

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glory

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on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to A salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah warahmatullahi wabarakatu Smilla rahmanir rahim. All praise due to Allah alone we all praise Him and we seek His help. So our Allah guides is a truly guided one and whoever Allah leaves us today, none can show him guidance. May there is peace and blessings be upon Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him brothers and sisters. Welcome to another Live edition of your program Guardians of the pious. Tonight's episode is episode number 161 in the Blissett series of Guardians of the pass, we'll continue with the second episode in explaining chapter number 38.

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Which is known as

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looking after the children and the family members, and urging one's relatives and kids to be obedient to Allah, and to refrain from evil.

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into today's episode Insha Allah, we're going to begin right away with studying Hadith number 299.

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Number 299. The hadith is narrated by aroma, AB Salama, may Allah be pleased with him. And I guess you remember a couple episodes ago, we spoke about Omar Selim about the Allahu anha how much she loved her husband, Abu selama and what happened to him when he died as a martyr. And then he left behind miners, and Roman was a young kid and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam married to OMO selama, Radi Allahu Allah. So Omar Ignagni, Solana was raised by Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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That's why is known as Robbie boo Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam because the Prophet sallallahu Sallam did tarbiyah for him. He raised them he educated him. And the concept of reason of poor upbringing the children isn't about putting some flesh and bones on them, making them grow bigger, or muscular, will look neat. Now, this is just one of the ingredients of upbringing, the children, but mainly forming their ideology, their way of thinking, in inspiring them with the proper etiquette, the etiquette of eating, the etiquette of drinking, the etiquette of dealing with the guests, what to do and what not to do, what to say, and what you should refrain from saying, and, you know, avoiding

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using foul language and whom to mingle with, and whom you distance yourself from. This is real upbringing. And this is the true tarbiyah. So Omar Salama, who was a young kid, narrated this hadith when he is brought his sisters and his brother, they all moved to live with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam became like their stepfather. And this is one of the reasons why the Prophet sallallahu Sallam married to almost selama Radi Allahu Allah. Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam took care of the children for IV Salam educated them. So Amaru is young. And this incident happened with him. And he remembered it and he rated it for us so that we

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learn and we educate our next generation or offspring, according to the prophetic etiquette with regards to what is mentioned in this hadith in sha Allah, and Abby Hudson, and that's it's his cornea, Abu Hafs aroma interview Salama al Dila hip now the sad RBV rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa salam, ala Khun to lemon fie Hijiri Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were cannot end the issue for Safa.

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For call Alia Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam? Yeah, we'll learn some Mala Hatha Allah, what will be a Munich or call me Malik.

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fermez Allah Tilka or Marathi, Bharat Mata Khan Ali, in this sound Hadith which is agreed upon its authenticity, I will have, who is Omar even Abby selama may Allah be pleased with him and his father narrated that I was a boy under the care of the Messenger of Allah to be upon him and my hand would roam around in the dish. So the messenger of Allah peace upon him say to me,

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oh, young boy, yeah, hula mentioned Allah's name, say Bismillah upon eating, before you start eating, before you put a bite in your mouth, before you take a sip of drink, say Bismillah and eat with your right hand and eat from whatever is near to you. So are most of you Salama learned the lesson. And he said, I've always followed this way of eating after this incident, the word or suffer refers to the dish, or the vessel in which people eat, and the word dog leash, Jonnie, to roam around to eat from here and from there, and to look for the desire food and to pick it up from the dish. And as you know, that until recently, families would gather around one use cipher. So some

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people do, they don't have serving plates for each person, rather, a big tray and everybody is from the same place from the same trade from the same suffer from the same dish. So everybody is expected to eat right from in front of them. Because sometimes, when you finish you share, you finish your meat, you finish your rice, then you you aggress against others and you take their share. This is not etiquette.

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Armory, Salah, Marathi, Allah Allahu Allah

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is telling us that when he was pretty young, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam adopted him

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and his brothers and sisters, and he started teaching them. So this is an incident the Prophet sallallahu Sallam took advantage of, in order to instill in his mind in almost mine, he did not say he's an orphan, he's too young, he still has a long way to go.

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I don't want to embarrass him, I don't want to hurt his mother's feeling. Now. This is the factory of producing men.

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You know, we raise our children to be leaders, not to be tased. Not to be fans of, you know, dancers or singers or actors and actresses. Rather, to have the prophets Allah Allah Selim as a role model, to have the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam as examples to follow. So he did not waste a chance and he said, Yeah, hula Semilla when you eat, you better say Bismillah in the beginning.

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And in another Hadith the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, in Hola Hola, Yaga and iLibrary and Aquila, at letter for mother who Allah, we are sure of a shorter better mother who Allah. The second Hadith I just quoted, in which the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, Indeed, Allah will be pleased with his servant whenever he eats a meal. Whenever he drinks a drink, he says Alhamdulillah so now we have the etiquette of eating with the gospel of God. You begin with the name of Allah, why

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call my Yasuko convener sama you will

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say who is the one who provides you from the heavens and the earth from both the heavens and the earth?

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Who does other than Allah subhanaw taala

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Well, if you say mama is Coco, Mama to Ardunio provision is coming from Allah subhanaw taala. So he deserves to be praised in the beginning of eating in the beginning of drinking, and he deserves to be praised and thanked upon eating and drinking his own worthy of all praise.

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But the very interesting part of this hadith is that Allah is very happy and pleased Leia da there are two means of confirmations and emphasis in little kid and the lamb.

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The lira lamb to confirm. So verily, indeed.

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Allah is very happy with this servant whenever he is, whenever he drinks he says that hamdulillah so you eat and you drink, you satisfy the desire of eating and drinking, and you will be blessed by Allah Almighty. What if somebody does not say Bismillah in the beginning,

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if somebody does not say Bismillah in the beginning, and by the way, you may say Bismillah or if you say Bismillah AR Rahman AR Rahim, no problem that is valid as well.

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If the person does not say Bismillah AR Rahman AR Rahim, or Bismillah in the beginning of eating or drinking, basically Satan will join him and that meal

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and he may eat and eat and he still feels hungry, or he is double, and treble those who are pious and we'll say Bismillah AR Rahman AR Rahim, one person bedwin came to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam to learn about the deen and the prophets, Allah, Allah salams hospitality was the greatest. So he ordered the companions to offer him something to eat. So he ate, and he ate and he ate, he ate like seven people all together.

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Then Alhamdulillah Allah guided him to Islam after he heard the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and he talked to him. And he accepted Islam.

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On the following day, after becoming Muslim and learning what to do and saying Bismillah

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when he was invited to eat, he ate something like very little compared to what he ate yesterday, and he was fun. So when the Companions shared this observation with the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, in that carefully, I could have you subharti Ma,

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we're in a minute we're in and what Minaya call Fiammetta yn y,

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which means the non believer is Lucky has seven stomachs to fill one after another, while the believer

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has only one stomach, and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, the proper prophetic etiquette with regards to managing this stomach,

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which is the home of all ailment,

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the stomach and made better death. He said, Salah Aeneas, and

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then if you want to eat much, then divide your stomach into three portions. One portion is for the food 1/3 and 1/3 spirit for the drink the water and otherwise have the drinks, and leave the third portion for the air.

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Nowadays, when they do stomach bypass, or the stomach balloon, in order to make people lose weight.

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One of the very prominent reasons behind gaining weight is Ashara.

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The desire to eat and over eat, eat too much. So they gain weight as a result of that one person.

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And I think it was in the state of Texas, he sued one of the hamburger restaurants. I wouldn't like to mention names. Why? Because his son was overweight. He said that his son is obsessed with the love of their hamburger. He eats it in the morning. And in the evening. He literally can live on it until he gain meaning of weight and he was very fat.

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You know, to me, that doesn't make any sense.

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If if the store is serving food, and you have a mind to control how much you need, Why do you blame the restaurant or the store or the cook? Because the food is delicious. To me it's not delicious. Of course, I'm talking about those who love to eat particular food until they gain weight, what happened to your mind? So this is what to do in the beginning. And in the end as far as I've got

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to say in the name of Allah in the beginning, so that Satan would not eat with you. This is the reason

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when the shaytaan attends the meal, and the person does not say Bismillah AR Rahman Rahim, even out of forgetfulness.

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The Satan would say to his company, because Satan does not just roam around by himself, he has his gang

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for gangster

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so he says to his company, we guarantee dinner tonight whether it's dinner or lunch or so they eat, they eat with the person and that's what he eats and he eats and he does not feel the blessing of the food he does not seem to have enough.

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Similarly of

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To drink. And the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, Papa's, if the person forgets to say Bismillah in the beginning, then whenever he remembers, even by the end, he should say, this Mala in its beginning, and in its end, fear or worry, we're actually I already had a hurry, so that you still have the blessing of the food. And Satan will be the pride from sharing the food with you. As far as praising Allah by the end and saying and hamdulillah because he's the one who provided us with the food with the drink, it's a sign of belief, it's a sign of

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admitted that all the favors are from Allah subhanaw taala, then the pleasure is guaranteed Allah's pleasure, Allah will be happy with the person who praises him. After eating after drinking, the second piece of advice to remember I will have some arbitrary Salama walls. So the first was similar, the second could be a meaning. And this is something now very problematic. Eat with your right hand. Eating with the right hand is a must. It's aware job. It's not just the Sunnah. For people who think that because you become moderate. Or because you come you become or you belong to the highest society or because you are a very rich person or a businessman. You have to go with the

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flow. And you have to eat like people who eat, put the fork in the left hand and the knife in the right hand and eat with the left hand. You don't want to break the rules. And you still claim that you will love the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and say Oh Allah, I want to see Him in heaven. Oh Allah, I want to drink from his basin. Oh Allah, I want to enjoy his health and I will enjoy his CalHFA River. Why is this how much you love him? He said, could be a meaning.

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In another incident when the prophets Allah, Allah sent him so why am I saying that eating with the right hand and drinking with the right hand is not optional. is not mere sunnah. It's a worship. There was a person new to the deen and he said, he notes the prophets Allah Salam nots. M was eating with his left hand. He said, Colby Amin, Ik, use your right hand. He said I can't. And he neglected the Prophet sallallahu sallam. Some of the commentators of the Hadith said that, because he had some arrogance and pride like you know, you're not going to teach me how to eat, I know better. So we asked him again, could be a minute.

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He said, I can't last tortilla. Third time, he said the same. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said to him last, May you never be able to use it. And he was never able to use his right hand at the word from this hadith who understand that? It's a must. It's a word you have to eat with the right hand. You don't say because my child is studying at an international school? Or at the French school, or the Dutch school? I don't want him or her to be different than others. So why don't you just let them become like them? Like non Muslims?

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Why not? You know, is nothing to be ashamed of. You should be very proud of whom you are. If you'd be very proud that you were one of those whom Allah saved. Why? Because when Allah makes it very clear in the Quran, in Edina and Allah he'll is then we may have a totally viral Islam Medina and fellow Yoko Bella men who were who were filled a hora terminal Ha, serene, you must believe in this verse, that there is no other Deen that will be accepted by Allah, other than Islam, and any face any religion that is adopted by whoever other than Islam would not be accepted. And its followers, according to the idea of the Quran. You know, because some people say,

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I don't think there is a certain Hadith that says that I'm just quoting an ayah of the Quran. Why don't you ever tell you why one is their median fellow, you know, cobalamin, who will who will fill a harati Minahasa in whosoever adopts other than Islam as a religion, it will not be accepted from him. Not because you make in the service on weekly basis or daily basis, or you burden yourself with various acts of worship, or you do not get married because you decided to become a monk or you forbidding yourself from eating a particular food and drinking particular drink on your own or because

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Have your religion or faith, Allah will appreciate that and will reward you for it or will take it easy on you with regards to reckoning on the Day of Judgment. It's as simple as that. When they tell you viral Islam Medina following you, or Bella Minh, whosoever takes other than Islam as faith or religion, it will not be accepted from him.

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Well, who will a Herati Minal ha serene, and in the Hereafter, he will count as one of the losers. It's as simple as that. So, Islam is a beautiful package. It is not only a matter of worship, but every act that we do in our life, which has some guidance in the Quran, in the Sunnah, in the actions in the scenes of our predecessors, the companions of the Prophet Salla salaam who should adopt it,

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because our happiness in this life and our salvation on the Day of Judgment, would be based on that. So if you are a company owner,

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if you are a politician, if you are a big shot, and you're embarrassed to eat with the right hand, because people in the West, or non Muslims, or the high society people eat with the left hand, stop claiming that you love the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam,

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because actions speak louder than words. And he said to this man, who will be a mean, couple times when he said, I can't be played against him. And he thought this young kid under 10, age 10 years old, yeah, Hoolahan semula, were called, be a meaning. Only if the person cannot use his or her right hand, then they're exempt. There is no blame upon them. But if you're healthy and you can use your right hand, eating with the right hand is where jib is not just mucin well couldn't be merely an eat from the food which is in front of you do not roam about in the dish. These eight tickets need to be taught to adults as well. Now only two youngsters sit down while eating sit down while

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drinking. It's permissible, though, occasionally to eat while standing and drink while standing. But it is preferable to eat and drink while being seated and small, healthy SubhanAllah. So

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well call me Malik. These three beautiful etiquette that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam taught or more in every cell and then he transmitted them to us so that we learn and we follow the instructions of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam are commands we must follow what the Prophet sallallahu sallam said in this regard

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the following hadith is Hadith number 300. Ma sha Allah Allah water in Nebula, just today we're thinking about since we started the series, and this is Michelle 161 episodes and 300 a hadith. Imagine if we together learn

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some of these Hadith and act upon some of them, how good and how righteous we get me a lot of mighty inspire us to follow what we learn from the Quran and the sound sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam. The following hadith is narrated by another young companion Abdullah Hypno Omar in the hotrod. May Allah be pleased with him and his father, Karla, Samia rasool Allah is Allah Allahu Allah, you're sending a fool Kulu Qumran could look a mess all NRI Yeti, and enamel ran on us all on our raw Yeti, or rodelle, raw infy le YMS all on our raw Yeti. One Moratalla yet and fee of eight is our rehab when it's all attune our why yet Yeah, well, her the Mora and female is a UDP almost all

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on our lie Yeti, for Hulu, Qumran, on a school on our Yeti, whatever canali. Brothers and sisters this hadith have been studied before. If you remember, chapter number 35, which was dealing with the rights of the husband upon his wife. That Hadith was discussed, and we studied it thoroughly. But just for the sake of also refreshing our memory, I will call the meaning of the Hadith and maybe in a couple of minutes. We'll talk about it since it is mentioned in the chapter as well, which is urging one's kith and family members to be obedient to Allah and

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And you know, urging them to refrain from committing sins. The hadith is, as Abdullah Hypno Amarrian Hatha may Allah be pleased with him and his father reported that the Prophet sallallahu sallam said all of you are guardians, and are responsible for your subjects. The ruler is a guardian and responsible for his subjects. The man is a guardian of his family. The woman is a guardian, in her husband's house, and responsible for her subjects. A servant is guardian for his master's property and responsible for his subjects. So all of you are guardians, and are responsible for your subjects.

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Maybe before we take a break I just shared with you once I was involved in marriage counseling, and the couple were really having a big fight, quarreling all the time. Why? Because the wife was accusing the husband, that she supported him until he finished his residency. And now he's become a very successful doctor. And he's making plenty of money. So Subhanallah, I was kind of surprised. So what is wrong with that? I thought this is the norm. She said, But I wasted my life. I wasted my life in raising his kids. I looked at her and my eyes grew wide. And I said, raising his kids, aren't they your kids as well? Are they you know, your stepkids? Are they from a different mother?

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Now? They are my kids, our kids? So how could you say that I wasted my life in raising his kids.

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This is a thought of Satan and evil thought. He whispers to one of the spouses or both of them in order to bring the family and when the thought is effective, and the person does not seek refuge of ALLAH does not anticipate their word

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for upbringing, the children for educating them for you know, this is your investment. How could you say that I raised his kids,

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they are your kids as well. And one of the couple has to work and earn and provide for the family. And the other has to take care of the children of bring them, raise them educate them, what happens when, whenever the couple go out. And they work, especially if they are will off like in this case, that the they always change the cars to the year model between Mercedes and BMWs and descend that are very rich, the man is making enough money to make them happy for good. But she wants to prove herself. She says I have to continue my education, I have to get my postgraduate degrees and I have to get a job I have to be to depend on myself and all of that. The question is, this is your right

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here for now. These are your subjects. You're responsible for raising them, and you're not in need for a job you're not in need for money. Because you guys are well off Hamdulillah. So if you go out to do that, what is going to happen to the children who's going to raise them?

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One person, a young man told me that because his parents both were working. So they hired a maid and the maid who was like his mother, his father everything. She frequently sexually molested him.

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And he did not know anything about sexuality. But he is home alone with this woman who was such an evil woman. And on regular basis, she will receive a naked he said she would even chase me I would hide on the bed in the closet and shoots. But why?

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Why do you think that any person would love your kids more than you

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would educate them better than you would care for them more than you do? This is if Al Hamdulillah you're not in need for a job or for an X earning. But there is of course, there are different cases and exceptions. Whenever the man's earning is not enough, barely sufficient. She has to work or part time or make some money so that they can raise their kids. There are exceptions. But the norm is the man is making enough and he's working hard. He is on a on what do you say? That is his own data feed and your own is reason the children you're a house engineer. So the Prophet sallallahu sallam said everyone not only the president, the Sultan or the Emir or the Caliph, but the Father.

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The mother, even the servant is a guardian and before Allah He is responsible for his subjects, and he will have to answer for that. Let's take a short break before we begin with the following Hadees Thank

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you

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome back. He may remind you in the beginning of the segment, what are phone numbers, as usual Area code 002, then 0238015249 Alternatively, record 0020 Double 125 Double 08679 And the email addresses [email protected] Baraka Luffy calm

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and now we'll begin with with the first Hadith after the first 300 So Hadith number 301.

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And I'm reading Shall I and V and J D are the Allahu Anhu kala kala rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Morrow Allah the Quran the celerity or hum Abner Seborrheic Nina Barbary whoo whom, Alia or whom Abner wa Shireen were fairly kubina home Phil Maha.

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This hadith is also Narrated by Abu Suraiya subhabrata manabadi journey as you have a May Allah be pleased with him. So we will just discuss the text of this hadith which is collected by Abu Dawood while the second is an array collected by Al Imam Tirmidhi. May Allah have mercy on all of them? What did the Prophet sallallahu Sallam say in this hadith he said, more or ANGLADA Kombis Salviati Lisa berry cine

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which means command your children to perform prior when the or even seven years old

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and discipline them for not offering the prayer whenever they are 10 when they reach the age of 10. And with a real Covina infill Maharaja do not let boys and girls sleep together on the same bed or spread or under the same cover.

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As I said, this text is collected by a Buddha wood and it's a fair Hadith.

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What do we learn from this hadith we learn that the father and the mother, the parents, before Allah subhanaw taala are responsible for teaching the children how to pray, how to read for and how to worship Allah, how to be truthful, how to refrain from sins, and mass. And they have to begin by themselves to be role models for their children in order to have their statements effective. Because if the person if the father, if the mother were to order the children to do something that they do not do, or ask them to abstain from something that they do, it makes no sense. It just creates a chaos and a state of distrust. And the person may end up with double personalities, like the mother,

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who insist on her girls to wear hijab, and have seen this. And she herself she's not wearing hijab.

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And once she begged me, she said, Please convince my daughters to wear hijab. I said, Look at yourself. Subhanallah What about you? She said, I know that I'm going to help. I'm afraid that my daughters will go to hell as well. Could anyone in respect a can of the men like that?

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Even though she feel sympathy for her children by does it make any sense? And how could a person say I know that I'm going to hell, but I'm afraid that my kids will go to hell as well. What is this doesn't make any sense. Subhanallah when a Prophet sallallahu Sallam visited a family of his companions, and a woman had her child was running away, so she called him to come back. The child was a baby and she had hidden something in her fist.

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And she said, there are a lot of twig come, I shall give you something. I will give you something as we all do with our kids. If you do this or buy an ice cream if you do that, we'll take you the swimming class. If you do that, we'll take you to the trip. You know

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so she said

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thiolate well to look at this, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Why are you hiding in your hand?

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So she opened her hand and there was a date she said, it's a date or prophet of Allah. He said, You know that if you did not have anything in your fist, it would have been recorded a lie against you, as a lie. If you did not have anything Subhan Allah, how many errors how many lies, how many mistakes who make by belittling things like that thinking that our our kids, they do not complain what we do know they do.

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And you are the image and they are your image.

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And you are role models for them, whether good or bad. Subhanallah so he said Salallahu Alaihe Salam. Morrow I will add on the celerity nisab, seven years old, I have to stop ordering and commanding my son and my daughter to pray with us know how to make we do know how to offer the prayer and offer it on time here. But Aren't they too young? We hear this all the time. That too young chef? This is very extreme. This is really tough. No, it is not tough. It is not extreme. This is their salvation, that will bring the light and happiness to the lives. Why? Because once they get used to it, do you think that if you're instructed to pray you learn how to pray overnight, or over

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a few months? No. So they learn discipline, how to pray, to pray on time what to do and to stand stand still. And ruku and bound down and sujood not to move into prayer so that they become devout worshippers

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they know what to do when it comes to fulfilling their duties towards Allah subhanho wa Taala you know that there are many people that are grown up and when they enter the masjid born in is that

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it seems like this is the first time. Why because they don't know how to pray. They keep looking at people trying to imitate them. And it looks very embarrassing. Why because nobody taught them when they was wrong. When they was your own. They were young. And this person who up to the age of fully used not to pray at all. And when gradually started coming to the machine and learning.

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He shared with me that Subhanallah where I used to live in my parents house. We were just across from the Masjid. Our door would open to the door of the Masjid. Just a couple of steps. I say subhanallah and you never prayed. He said yeah, because my father never asked me to pray. Never Taught me to pray.

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Never Taught me to pray, very problematic. never taught me how to fast and you expect them to be useful to you to be obedient to you if they are not useful to Allah subhanaw taala and another person

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who would refuse to pray but he wanted his children to pray so how would they pray if they do not see you're praying

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it's impossible to order somebody to do something that you yourself do not do it and you don't want to do it. Anything This is a worship. You say this is a form and if you don't pray or go to hell if you pray Allah will bless you. How will people look at you? When you say something that you do not act upon? Yeah, you are Latina admin limit aku Luna Meloetta Irun Kabul Rama Katana and the law he and the Kulu Meloetta for Haroon

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are you who believe?

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Why do you say things which you do not act upon? It is such a great sin and a heinous evil to say something that you do not act upon then in slaughter Bukhara. You said I thought Munna nurse that will vary within Sona and fullcycle more into that Luenell Kitab Flf Tapi rune. How could you command people to be righteous? To worship Allah to do what is good to stay away from what is evil? And you yourself? Do not act upon that. Once you have mine to reflect, don't you understand? Are you insane? Are you out of your mind? And so on. So when you instruct them how to pray.

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At the age of seven they get used to it. As we say the prayer begins with the Torah, the prerequisites of the salah of Torah

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All the horror is a purification of one's body of one's clothes. And on the spot that you're offering the prayer on, set through our covering your hour and facing the Qibla with the gospel Tahara I feel really sorry when they see people in hajj, you know in Hajj. The bathroom facilities are very humble, especially in Mina in Arafat, and they become very rare to find in Musa alpha. So you find people using the urinal urinating while standing, then guess what? They just pick up their selves, their trousers, and they go to make wudu he says of Han Allah, this groan of man, this doctor this professor, this businessman, you know is making do while he is in a state of impurity

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Naja because the US have soiled his body and his clothes he did not do is ninja and we spoke about that repeatedly before. Then he comes to attend the prayer. Then he goes to perform tawaf and Han and OSI. Oh my God, then I find myself have to speak about that repeatedly, in public and in general without pointing finger so that people you know, those who are involved in this misbehavior would comprehend but sometimes they're negligent while because they do not think there is such a big deal was Subhanallah the Prophet sallallahu sallam said about a man who used not to clean up himself after answering the call of nature cannula stab Roman bola, he was being tormented in the grave for

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not cleaning his private path after passing you in.

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When this happens, no prayer is valid. There is another incident where

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you know my colleague actually he was the business owner, masha Allah, everytime will go to the markets to the center and Ramadan at the federal would sit for a while. And

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you know, after rasa, maybe after Ross or another healthcare for that read and Quran and he would always find excuses not to attend, he will stay in the machine, but he will not attend the halka until I figured out that he doesn't know how to read the Quran. He's an Arab. He doesn't know how to read the Quran.

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He doesn't. Why because nobody thought him Do you think that because you were born in Egypt or in Saudi or in Morocco? Automatically you learn how to read the Quran. No, enamel Elmo bitter Hello, and the Prophet sallallahu sallam said in the sun Hadith which is narrated by or have murdered my friend.

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Hiroko mentale. Lemuel Khurana Alana so the process is first you learn then you teach. So he was embarrassed because he doesn't know how to read the Quran. On the other hand, and Hamdulillah I have seen some beautiful beautiful cases recently in the UK. Somebody came to me after I delivered my talk and he said Uncle, could you help me to enroll in Medina university or in Omokoroa university I British teenager I said a Solomonic mistake this call then inshallah continues.

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Now that man from Cameroon

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Salaam Alaikum.

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My question is concerning advertisement

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of the different product we have

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anything else

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okay, I think I understood from you that you're talking about Zika on a property that you own. Am I right? Mutual TV so that you can hear me from your handset? And an answer me.

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Meet your TV brother Robert Matthews.

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Go ahead.

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I'm thinking

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about

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advertisement advertisement to add an advert on ties meant yes.

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What about it?

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What does it say about a

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product that in fact is going to buy your products? Okay.

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Or not? Okay, okay. I got

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he's asking about advertising for a product

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What does Islam say about that? Yes, it is permissible. But how do you advertise number one the contents are halal. I'm not only talking about the commercial, I'm talking about the informations which are advertised Subhanallah there are many websites and many companies, you they advertise for something and then when you order it, it's something different or the quality is much lesser or sometimes the inner components are not genuine. Why? Because they are fake. So there is haram let's call her English and the prophets Allah Allah Salah mercy man, Russia, Feliz seminar

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and now advertisement for any product. If the commercial itself if the ad itself, the conferences are halal, the contents are halal, then it is permissible the idea of advertising for your product itself is permissible. Baraka Luffy.

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Yeah, I was talking about this young man, a teenager in London, who said that he wanted to read Iran in this university then Subhanallah I met his parents, they are revert

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both of them reverted to Islam. And they made all the children memorize the Quran, young and old. Subhanallah they have bunch of fun. I was very impressed and I was very touched. I was talking to my wife Subhanallah you know, in the UK, in London, and the endo reverts and there is the kids this way. And the child mashallah the teenager was speaking to me in Arabic which he says I spent a few months in Egypt I want to study Arabic and Quran. Allahu Akbar, amazing. Those are the parents whom in sha Allah Allah Allah loves and Allah who will always bless and will never disappoint them. Salaam Alaikum

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brother flew from Kuwait.

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Salam aleikum.

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Ali from salaam rahmatullah wa barakato. How are you? Fine handler thank you for asking for the photo sharing it was It has always been wonderful to hear you and may Allah who questions the dancers, it goes up to give him a lot of grace to us and Hamdulillah.

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Zach, allow the Pharaoh May Allah bless you and your family, their condition?

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So you guys a small question. Actually, I worked for a multinational company in Greece. And, of course, we know them regularly, we pray we go to the mosque and Hamdulillah.

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But, you know, when he made visible in the toilets, and he had the Hindu infinity, you know, those non Muslims.

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There's a tendency that these people normally wash, gone to the toilet without washing their hands.

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And now we face this problem. Sometimes. You don't know whether they wash their hands or not. They come and shake our hands when we go into the mosque. Yeah. So this this problem is really disturbing me a lot. I really don't know, almost. Most of the time I use a tissue to even open the door of the toilet.

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Yeah, just yet to make sure that

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somebody has started without washing his hands.

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Since you are talking about it, so I thought I'd mention No, thank you. Yes, as a matter of fact, that happens. I seen some people doing that in a food store. Then they use a urinal and they come in to serve the food, excuse me, I don't want to eat it. Period. You know, in all restaurants, and public places, they say all employees must wash their hands thoroughly with soap and water to eliminate as much possible of germs and bacteria. In addition to now the toilet seats as you know that the toilet seats are one of the prominent reasons or mediums for sexual transmitted diseases. So the person is clean chairs, they've never been in a bad relationship or an illicit relationship.

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And both are healthy, both couple are practicing unhealthy Subhanallah but because of sitting on a contaminated toilet seat, it can transmit very bad sexual transmitted diseases. May Allah subhanaw taala protect us. So you know,

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the beautiful example I gave with regards to the Blissett family may Allah bless them and please make dua for them. I can't stop thinking about this beautiful family in the UK. And may Allah make it easy for the children to enroll in Omokoroa university or Medina.

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If

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If anyone who's listening to me can assist me with regards to admitting at least their eldest son who's a teenager, half of a Koran, and

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he's a British national, and mashallah he knows Arabic as well. That will be in the scale of your good deeds May Allah make it easy for you

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insha Allah azza wa jal I would like to continue with the next Hadith in the next episode because we actually ran out of time until then brothers and sisters I live in the care of Allah of Holika we had our stuff for Allah Allah co masala Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad in Walla early he was so happy he was salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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Allah God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He asked me to be the best and gave his best religion to Allah Our God is the greatest

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glory to Him

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to us to be the best, and gave his religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise? We're shipping comes fire and stones, sending letters to the cheapest

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day

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forgetting about how bad guys were shipping cars, fire and stoves, selling their best were the cheapest