Muhammad Salah – Gardens Of The Pious #138 May 27th 2015

Muhammad Salah
AI: Summary © The transcript discusses the struggles of Islam's parents and children with conversion to Islam, as well as the importance of belief and worship for being useful to parents. The speakers emphasize the need for peace and mercy towards parents and the importance of avoiding false accusations and being humble and mercyful towards parents. The transcript also touches on struggles with death, such as family members and job loss, and mentions a person named Moshe operation.
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love our code is the greatest. The moment only glory to Him. He bought me humans to be the best and give his best religion to them. Allah God is the greatest, the one and only Glory to him on any illness to be the best and give his best religion to A salaam, Allah Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome to an episode number 165 indices of Guardians of the pious Smilla Rahmanir Rahim

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Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Nabi Mustafa.

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So you didn't know Muhammad Ali early he also be here, your Manuela Wahdat.

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Today inshallah we'll continue in the second episode, in chapter number 40, which is pertaining to being beautiful transparence and the command of upholding the ties of kinship.

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We started the AI to Surah Denisa the AI to serata rod, the eye of Saudi Lanka boat, and number eight or sinal inside of us today he hosts now and we started in the last episode, with the two verses of Surah Surah 23 and 24 were called or a book a lotta abou Illa Yeah, who will well is there any Santa?

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If we can open the Quran and we'll look into the two commands, the one in Surah Al Assad versus the one which was studied in the previous episode in Surah, Lanka both we realize that in one eye of Surah Lanka both and number eight Allah Almighty says was sinal insanity well today he hosts na

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while in surah

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Allah cough and in surat

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al Israa. A lot of mighty says if Santa sorted aka for sonnet in Santa Viola de Santa, as well as Blanca would host now what is the difference between a horse and lsn and why Allah Almighty use two different terms. First of all, these terms are relating to each other.

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So Allison, Allison, which is goodness, kindness and righteousness is derived from its source which is a host so a host is a source of goodness.

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Why did Allah Almighty use

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him magnifier term of goodness which is a host

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the source of all goodness which is a host he used it in the eye of Surah Lanka boot.

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While he used in Surah tele cough

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LSL and in Surah Surah Al SN.

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When we look into the eye of Surah Al Anka hood, we read the following while sinal insert a b word today he has none what is the following

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phrase? We're in Tjahaja Kelly to Cherie curvy Melissa, let me hear ailment fell out Oklahoma.

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So Allah Almighty, ordered a Greater Austin, a greater kindness and put lot of emphasis

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on decline treatment to the parents, even if they are non believers. And not only that they are non believers. But furthermore, they are struggling with their children to convert them to disbelief.

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Obviously, this is something very common, now only in the past 1400 years ago. And the Saudis which happened during the life of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam in the early stages of the Dawa, such as a story of Saudi Arabia cos with his mother, but also as we're speaking today,

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many sisters will accept Islam and they changed. They quit drinking.

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They don't have boyfriends anymore. They quit smoking.

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And they are righteous. They pray. She wears hijab. She takes care of her family. She does not spin in anything that is haram. So they're supposed to please the family the parents

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yet, the parents are very upset because their daughter become Muslim.

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And they keep putting pressure on her. So she migrates, she makes Hedra. She tries to live and work and learn in a Muslim society. And whenever she visits them, because she is obliged to be kind to them, and treat them with a host, which is even greater than yourself, I'll host is a source is a master of Elissa.

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She complains to me, she is not only one or two, there are many. During the last couple of weeks, she stays with them with the parents, they try their utmost to make her take the hijab off. They tried to convince her, this is a terrorist religion, and Muslims are terrorists. And we're afraid that you will go astray. And you will become a terrorist. Despite that, she's become much better in treating them before she was like an average American Girl

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or European girl. And as you know that very few people really respect their parents take care of them when they get old, and send them money, they make money and they send the money. But even though she's doing all of that, the parents are struggling with her to converter to this belief, to take her out of Islam. If she decided to be an atheist, they would celebrate that she's free to do whatever she wants to do. If she goes home, and she says, Guess what? I'm not saying anymore, I'm gay, I'm lesbian. No problem. That's her choice. I met some families like that.

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Only when she says, I've accepted Islam, when the son says become a Muslim, this is when it becomes very problematic. So it is pretty much expected because of the tremendous pressure that is put on the son or the daughter, that they neglect their parents altogether. And they say, I have an excuse. I don't even to talk to them because they're too far.

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And because they are doing their best and putting pressure on me in order to convert me or hinder me from the Path of Allah subhanaw taala. So they find this as an excuse to sever their relations with their parents. Allah Almighty says no,

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you cannot do that.

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So if with Muslim parents with righteous parents who says or sinal insanity, Wiley de Sena

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with the parents who are struggling with their children to convert them to this belief, after Allah have guided them, he uses a greater form of goodness which is a host, which is a source of goodness, I'll host is a source of lsn.

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These linguistic hints in the Quran requires us to understand the Arabic language or at least somebody who understands Arabic language to explain to us what is the master? What is the root word? What is the difference between this word and that word? And what are the different dialects but often and more often Kohan and Kureha. As we will be reading insha Allah azza wa jal in the area to come.

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In Jaya Hedda Kelly to Sri Karim la sala kabhi here in one fell out Oklahoma, that is the only area which you're not allowed to obey them and

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obeying them in anything which you require it to comprise your relationship with Allah, will you believe ALLAH Yamaji Eurocom for owner Bill convey Maccon TomTom alone unto me is your return you and then believers or non believers, all the living creatures shall return back to Allah. Then he shall inform them with what they used to do, whatever is good and whatever is bad.

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But in regular conditions, such as in the area of Surah Surah wakad rabuka alerta Whoo. Yah hoo. What will validate nasn

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The word acaba means ordained and made it mandatory. Kaaba. let's affirm. Being good to one's parents is not merely recommended, is an option isn't whenever you have a chance, it's a duty

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that children ought to their parents, as much as they owe Allah, belief, worship and obedience. So that's why they will join together in the same segment, as they will join together in the area of surah.

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Nyssa and number 36 will cover a bootcut Allah taboo Ilaria that is in surah Al Israa and number 23 What about Allah, Allah to shield Kobe che and what will well Edenia Santa that is in and number 36 of chapter number four. Look at the link. We'll call the book Allah taboo. Illa Yeah, toe Tawheed monotheism. And if you truly believe in Allah, then you have to understand that also Allah cabal ordained as a command as a father, to be good to parents, to be obedient to the parents to be useful to parents.

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Does the term parents apply to the biological parents or the person who was the reason for your existence?

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Or is it much broader than that it covers those who actually raised you,

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you know, somebody who was born as an orphan who lost one or both his parents at an early age. This is Al Hamdulillah, I don't have to worry about the duty of biryani, they

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will been

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good to my parents because I did last

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night the applies also to those who brought you up to those who raised you, because they spent the life

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in fashioning you

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shaping your future, feeding you educating you so they have those rights upon you. You have to be kind to them. Where did we have this understanding from because some people think the command will be in good to the parents is over once once parents die. In the Hadith A man came to the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam and said,

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Oh prophet of Allah. My parents are already dead. He used to be dutiful to them during their lives. Now they're dead. Is there anything remaining as far as serving them, be dutiful to them that I can do even after their death. The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam has said, Certainly our battle Hassan.

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There are four qualities and four duties that you have to continue to do and perform even after your parents death, in order to be dutiful to them. Subhan Allah. This is really amazing.

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When we know that some people wish that their elderly parents or parent who is denial and have chronic diseases, and they are giving them a hard time moving from one hospital to another, they don't have insurance, and they have to support them financially and why they medication. So what do they do?

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They say oh Allah make it easy for them. And he means by that, oh, Allah take the source. Give them some comfort.

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And if you look at the same person when he was young, he was a baby, then he has a flu, or he has diabetes, or he has a heart problem, congenital heart problem. And the father works double time, extra shifts and overtime. Why in order to save some money for the treatment, and the mother does not sleep in her bed, she takes care of the baby who's sick. And as long as he's awake all night, she's awake next to him. She doesn't say, Oh Allah take him so that he can say, you know, he can have some rest. No, she and he the parents, both of whom are working hard to treat their child. And meanwhile, they're praying that Allah Almighty will make him recover would make him better, and

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would live to even outlive them

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as the same child goes up.

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Those who do not behave properly towards the parents, even if they are taking care of them, but they wish that Allah would make it short for them.

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And they say my intention is good. I just want Allah to give them rest because their suffering is none of your business. Imagine that their presence around you, as long as they are living. This is a source of blessing for you. A single dua that they make for you that Allah answers changes your life.

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A blessing in your provision, a blessing in your world, blessing your children. And one your children observe how you treat your parents.

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They earn these qualities

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and they automatically treat you the same when you go old.

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There was one person

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had his older father living with him and he was very sick. But his wife did not like his father did not like serving him and she wanted to get rid of him. So every once in

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I should say, take him to your sister, kick him out, put him in a nursing home.

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And finally, he was convinced that he has to get rid of his father, because of the pressure that his wife was putting on him. And he loved his wife, his pretty wife so much, that he finally complied with her wish. And since he doesn't know what to do, he took his own father in the building, which was provided to him by his father. That's his wealth. And

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he contemplated a devilish idea, just to push him

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from the fence upstairs. So when he falls down, it would look like it was an accident.

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As the father realized that his son is planning to get rid of him,

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is his son.

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If you have to do it, then please take me to this corner and push me from their

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son said, Why do you say that? Why do you think that I'm planning to do something bad to you or hurt you? He said, because this is what I did exactly to my father. And I pushed him and he fell down from this corner.

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So can I said no to them.

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If you hurt your parents,

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if you speak to them, in

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an awful way, with this respect, if you scream and shout at them, then expect your children to treat you the same.

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Because this is what you've done to your parents. If you're kind, and if you're generous for your parents, then expect that your children will treat you the same way. And this is not a single story, or two or three or a carbon or 10. This is typical.

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This happens all the time.

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All the time, the same way you treat your parents, your children will treat you when I look into all the eight how many I had that. We studied so far about being dutiful to one's peers. In the Quran, there are many, but how many area in which Allah Almighty ordered the parents to be kind to their children, to be dutiful, two children to love their children? None.

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How come?

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Simply because the person in this life undergoes two circumstances.

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The first is what is natural, what is desirable.

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And the second phase in the commands, whether the commands of God if he's a believer of his religion, or the commands of law and order, even if he is not a believer.

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So it is natural that the parents love their children.

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It is natural that the person works hard and works extra time so that he can secure a bright future for the children. He may skip a vacation he may skip some fun. Why? Because he wants to save up for the future is a child or his children and the mother

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while being pregnant.

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She desires certain types of food. But she has pregnancy diabetes, she cannot eat this. Because she's worried about the fetus. She cannot drink that she's worried about the futures. She has a headache or migraine.

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She needs the medication badly. I have to look into the prescription.

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Oh, that's not safe in the first trimester. And more in the second. The doctor says Nothing is safe during pregnancy as far as medication. So she instead ties a bandana, or she drinks coffee or tea or she was trying her best to avoid taking medication and she's bearing the pain.

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Even though she's sick and she's suffering, why?

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To make certain that the baby will be safe and sound he is not even born yet this is called natural tobei Even animals will do that. This is simply because of the mercy that Allah subhanaw taala descended so that living creatures have on their babies on their children. In the Hadith, the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said Allah has created mercy and He divided it into 100 portions 99% of His mercy He saved in order to deliver and grow grant the believers on the day of judgment. And out of this 1% One portion of 100 portions of His mercy He descended on Earth

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We have mercy on each other, the parents love their children, even the wild animals.

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If you watch some national geography programs, and you see how the lions and you know the wild animals,

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three their babies, protect them. They devour others, but when it comes to their babies, they're very protective. This is because of this one portion of Allah's mercy. So this is natural, in the house of the parents to love children, to be protective, to be guarding and guiding them, to put them in the best schools and even save from their meals, to avoid things that they like to do. And it is permissible, because you know what, let me save it for my children. This is a quality of parents are they the parents naturally do that? Obviously, there are odd cases. And there are people who are sick, those who may throw the children away or you know, be harsh, then this is sick. But

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we're talking about the ordinary cases and the norms.

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On the other hand,

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being dutiful and loving and caring to the parents is the cliffie

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is a command from Allah subhanho wa taala. And if it is left without command, we can examine the non Muslim societies what happened to the parents as they grow old. You can look into the nursing homes, you can look into those who die in their flats or their houses. And nobody knows about them. Nobody knows about their suffering, but they had their Medicaid they can go to the hospital

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and the children rarely care about the parents. So that's why it needed a command from Allah subhanaw taala and this command is linked to the matter of belief.

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Where I will allow Allah to Sheikh will be sure you will validate your son will call out a bouquet alert I will do what will validate any SN will sign on insanity while today he hosted what was final in Cernobbio led Santa really I had in the cigar, that is the cliffie Even if it goes against your desire, even if the parents are awful to you or any form and you have to understand that as a person goes older, they develop a bad temper and they become demanding and they become less patient and he gets sick a lot and very frequently. And you have to bear patiently with all their needs. With a smile. cheerful smile was joy and happiness because through serving them that is your easy pass to

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agenda. After the bacon sha Allah. I will share with you a very important point with regards to being dutiful to one's parents please stay

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happy Heavy.

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Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. And welcome back.

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Before the break, I said we need to discuss a very important point with regards to being good and useful to one's parents.

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Do we do that with the intention of hey, I rather be good to my parents so that my children will be good to me. And being afraid that if I mistreat them, I'll be mistreated whenever I go old. That's the reason but this is a very selfish reason. It is. This is similar to when Allah Almighty said about the message of all the prophets Bashir on one idea and the Quran Bashir on on the euro, to give glad tidings and as a woman, so some people

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would be affected more with the warning.

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The it will hinder them from disobeying Allah from doing what is bad. And some people will never allow the almighty tells him about the glad tidings about what he has prepared for them. That is more than enough as a motive

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to do what pleases Allah to stay away from anything that displeases Allah. And there are some people who would simply do that because who is the source of the command?

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Who ordered me to do that? That is my most beloved that is Allah the Almighty. That's it.

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No further discussion. Allah wants me to do that. So imagine a combination of this command is from Allah. For my most beloved number two, it is a command or

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Something that I love to do because people with good hearts naturally they love their parents, and they love to sacrifice their lives, not just their time, their wealth and their health for the parents know if one of the parents is a need for a kidney transplant, oh, check out my kidneys. Check out if this compatible. Can I donate one of my kidneys to my father? My sick mother? Yeah, they don't say he's only 70 What is he going to do more with a kidney. That's more than enough no Wallahi if it is in my hand to extend in his or life, if any, in the life of any of my parents and to take for my lifespan, I would not hesitate to do it. This is the behavior of a true believer.

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He does not think about it from a materialistic point of view.

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It is enough to know that it is Allah who commanded that

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and it is enough to remember how they brought you up when you're young. And that's why sometimes yet will give us some hints as we will see in sha Allah

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in the following If but I want to wrap up the to Aya to Surah Al Islam 23 and 24 in May of 1009 Deckel cable huduma alquila Houma Fela taco Lahoma ofin wala tun hub Wuma warmer, which means, if one of them or both of them attain all age in your life,

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do not say to them a word of this suspect. And that word

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which is referred to in the Quran is the word of

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and off is a term that expresses dissatisfaction, objection and

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being upset,

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it is not really like a speech or a word, but it expresses your feeling of dissatisfaction.

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Then you blow air,

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this word is very offensive. Can you say that your boss

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can say

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you cannot say that, can you say that your employer? Can you say that to a higher ranking officer and you are working under him? Obviously not. Why if it is not out of respect, then it is out of fear that you will be in trouble.

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Saying that word to your parents hurts your feeling. And it shows that you care not about them.

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You do not respect them. You do not love them. So this word Allah Almighty perceived it in the Quran as a major sin. If this word is a puts the person in big trouble, what about what is more than that?

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Man, you're very demanding. I've done my part I've done my best enough is enough, I can take it anymore. Things like that, which expresses that you're not welcoming the parents or any of them at an old age in your place in your life. You refusing to assess them, you're not being patient with them anymore. And you're trying to put a stop to the demands and the request Nabi SallAllahu, selama says, you and whatever you own are owned by your father, by your parent,

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they made you there the reason behind your existence, you know all the worlds you made

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the intelligence that you have, because you acquire a degree you started a business and you became very intelligent, they are the source. So you owe them all of that. So he number one forbade the saying of then the action, which may hurt the feeling any action wave on you did a hand

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but you know, it's not only waving now, we read the news, people be the parents

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and people killed their parents to take away their wealth. Yeah, that happens unfortunately. Well, turn her Huma. No shout at them.

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Rather, work with Lahoma Cole and Karima so there are two prohibitions with regards to the act the saying then the action. Then there are two commands with regards to the saying and the action they're saying Allahumma colon Kareena.

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Say to them a good saying address them with an honorable statement.

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They are not your children. They are not your junior. They

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Are your parents so you have to address them with kindness and choose the best words which will bring pleasure and happiness to their hearts of Hula, hula MARPOL and Crema say a noble and an honorable statement to them. What fell below Mariana has eliminated Rama. So the command of good saying and the command of good action Allah Almighty uses metaphor. Jana has Zhu Li Min or Rama lower unto them the wing of submission and humility through mercy. What does it mean? It means be humble

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to them, treat them with humility. Always make them feel that they're superior. And make them feel that everything that you enjoy is because of them. Make them that you're not making them feel that you're not doing them any favor. Rather, you're just trying to pay back some of the countless favors that your parents have upon you. At this age, they're very sensitive. They're very sensitive.

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Any slight saying or action, which shows that you're dissatisfied? or your wife or your children would hurt their feeling and you will go big in the hearts and they would wish to die before being disrespected with any other children. We're talking about normal conditions of course. So avoid any of that. Lower to them. You see how the bird lowers its wings

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to its chicks and babies. Lower your wing with humility and mercy to them. Walk for low measure now has Zuly Manorama and furthermore, constantly make dua for them. We'll call Rob Durham, Houma, Kamara banya cerebra You say that in your life in the lives and after the death my lol bestow upon them your mercy, as he did beating me up when I was young, when I was narrow when I was helpless. This dua Rob, Bill felt Rob Durham, Houma, Kamara, Bernie Sameera. And also Bill Phil Lee. Well, you were the day Yeah, well, me Nina Helmer, Hamid Hassan These are beautiful supplications prescribed in the Quran. That ham woman came out of bed and you're Salera it reminds you that whatever you're

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doing is just

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paying back a little bit for a countless favors that they have done to you. Come out of Bernie Salyer. My Lord, have mercy on them, shower them with you mercy as they brought me up when I was young.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam say to the companion who said that my parents are already dead?

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Do I still have to do anything to be grateful to them?

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He said yes. Four duties. Number one is Allah to Allah email a list of Pharaoh Lahoma. To pray for them, and to seek forgiveness for them.

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And especially after the death, this is when they need it most.

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That is my intention as a parent behind marrying a righteous woman behind choosing a good spouse so that we have good children, so we raise them properly. So that insha Allah one day when I die, I do not actually die. I have an extension to my life. I have

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devout children, boys and girls who remember me in their dua,

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who constantly make dua that may Allah have mercy on me May Allah make my god my grave a garden of paradise May Allah forgive me my sin, as in the author when the person is promoted in his grave, and he sees a better place in heaven. He says, Oh Allah, what for what I have done, because when the person dies, there is no way that he can earn Hassan earth anymore, except from three ways as the hadith of Muslim May. Allah admits to enhance the rates, either Metalab and Katama will ill MSLs one of these ways is righteous child will pray for him. So Allah Almighty will tell that person, your son, your daughter just made dua for you, and that's why you promoted but Allah takes it easy on him

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on the accounting and reckoning, you know, because of the baraka of the DUA. My father in law is still in me when they visited

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a scholar at the time of death,

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and he was crying, and he was their colleague, and he was a great scholar. So they did not expect a person with this kind of knowledge and righteousness.

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To cry at the time of death. So they tried to give him some words of assurance and Allah will bless you by the visuals of the Quran and the knowledge you thought he said, I'm not crying because I'm dying.

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I'm not crying because I'm afraid of death, because I'm gonna miss this life. They look into each other and said, Why are you crying them?

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This is I'm crying because

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I'm worried that if I die today, who will continue to make dua for my late father. This is really amazing that this color, this shape, and this person, you know, devoted his life to mental health for his father. So he's worried now if I die today, who's gonna carry on this mission? After me? He is dying and he's worried about his parents. Subhanallah This is how much this person loved his parents because he knows that loving his parents, especially they were believers, they brought them rightly is actually a sign of loving Allah subhanahu what I will call up their hand Numerica Mara baronial Cerebro is a general command exempt from that if the parents or in your phone died in a

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state of disbelief

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Allah Almighty says in the Quran, makan and in NaVi were Lavina Amman, a Estelle Pharaoh lil Moshe kina wallow can only CORBA

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mimbar the matter the you enter the home and now must have a job.

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It is not permitted for the profit. Now the believers

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to see forgiveness for those who died in a state of disbelief and Moshe kina. While can only a quarterback, even if they are related to them, including the parents, including the sons and daughters, the brothers and sisters or the spouses meant that the matter the yellow Home and the Home as hobble Jehane after it has become clear to them, that they are amongst the widows of fire. And how do we know that any person had become from amongst us how will Jehane if the person died in a state of disbelief? If the person does not say a chateau La ilaha illallah wa Chateau Anna, Muhammad Rasool Allah, and they die not believing in Allah and His Oneness and in the message of all

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the prophets including Mohammed Salah Salem, then he died. As an unbeliever This is from an Islamic perspective.

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So Allah Almighty forbade Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, again is seeking forgiveness for anyone who dies in a state of cough, including relatives and parents. Can Elinor be well Edina, and then he follows that by an explanation, because also in another era of the Quran, Prophet, Ibrahim alayhi salam said to his non believing father

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who used to worship idols, when he invited him

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repeatedly to worship Allah subhanaw taala did he refused? He said, That Estelle Farah Anelka Omer and Luca Kameena Allah him in shape, I promise I shall continue to see forgiveness for you. But I cannot help you on RT against Allah Almighty, I will do my best. So the ayah the following essays Omeka earnest still follow Ibrahim Ali IV L. I'm nowhere either thing Whadda ya.

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Farah Mata yen Allahu Allahu wa who will Lila heat about Amin? Ibrahima, let a well known Halle. And as far as

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the behavior of Ibrahim Ali salaam, when he used to seek forgiveness for his non believing father. It was only because he promised him when he said let us tell Phil Anelka I shall see forgiveness for you. I know editing Why the * yeah, because of a promise that you promised them. But fella matter the yen Allahu Allahu Allah, Allah. Deborah. I mean, when he realized that his father is an enemy to Allah, He disowned his own father.

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And when did he realize that? That his father is an enemy to Allah, He has been an enemy to Allah since the beginning, but it means here when he died in a state of disbelief, he refused to believe in Allah. And who was the messenger who was the prophet it was Ibrahim Ali Salah. So we use dutiful to him and the Quran expresses how he used to give him Dawa.

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Remember the Eye of Sauron surah when Allah Almighty says walk

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Hola Houma, colon Karima addressing with a nobody statement, talk to them nicely.

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Do not call them by their their names, pesos and how are you? This is your mom.

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My WhatsApp, this is your dad. Ibrahim Ali Salam addressed and used to address his non believing father saying yeah Betty

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yeah Betty repeatedly in the Quran whenever Ibrahim Ali Salam was calling upon his father to worship Allah will not worship idols

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however limita Abu mana yes smart valuable sudwala euganean kashaya Why do you wish you're one who does not here does not see and does not avail you on RT cannot help you by any mean. Yeah but he abiti Yeah, but it is different than your abi. ABI is my father. Yeah, Betty is my beloved father.

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So he continued to do that fella metta? Yeah and Unawatuna Allah He He disowned him. That's it. Why did he it is on him because they do not have any relation anymore. Similar to when no highlight his cellar, argued and interceded for his son before Allah saying

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Rob be Neverland even early. My son, he's from me. He's a family member. He's my own son. We're in no other can help. And you promises the truth. What did Allah Almighty say to no honey Salam, when he wanted his son to be saved, even though he was a disbeliever.

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And he's been given dower for years for centuries. And he rejected it. And when he saw this during the flood, he called upon him and said, Yeah, we're gonna You're Comana. come on board with us. No, he refused and say don't worry about me. I'm gonna take shelter and a high mountain to be saved. You're gonna yell at Acumatica theory. And father is calling his son with a perfect word my beloved Son, come with us ride with us get on board with us Do not be with the disbelievers. They said no sir we Elijah Billy al Simoni Malema

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why in no hurry CERAM is fine to explain to his son you don't understand today is not just a regular flood. This is a flood that would kill every non believer halibut you know human Novocaine I'm gonna Moroccan huge wave came up and he drowned him and others of the non believers. Afterward new Halle Salam

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called upon Allah because he is his prophet when a new robber who fell cholera be interviewing him in a rally. We're in no other Cal hubco and Campbell hockey mean

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he's my son,

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you will the most wife the most wise.

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Of all the wise, the best judge of all the judges have mercy on my son. But he was even forbidden to call him his son anymore or to ask for forgiveness for him for him anymore. Because a lot of mighty says in the Himalayas. I mean alakea know, in our lives, I mean Alec. He is not from your family anymore, because in the whoami room or euro soil fell at US Eleni Maristella can be here and one in Azuka Antigona. Manager Helene Allah warned no hurry, Salam if you ever do it again.

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You're going to be one of the ignorant. I'm warning you then no Holly Sarah is worried about himself caught up in the hours a weekend SLR camera lens, Sally b be here and we're inlet affiliate or HMI icon Minal Ha, Syria. He sought refuge with Allah. Again sending and again is asking for things which you have no knowledge about. And he said, If you do not forgive me, if you don't have mercy on me, I will definitely be one of the losers. So the last couple that I tried to explain, from Surah Toba and pertaining to so the story of Nahalat Salah Medea son, is to show us that the last segment of air number 24, of Surah Al Israa, when Allah Almighty commanded that we should make dua for our

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parents in the lives, then after the death will rub their ham Huma Kamara Bernice Avira. exempt from that is whenever any of the parents is an unbeliever, she will commend it to be good and faithful to them no matter what happens, but if they still die in a state of disbelief, and that is a choice. That's it.

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You cannot see forgiveness for them.

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Have anymore. May Allah subhanaw taala pardon us and forgive us our sins and guide us what is best and guide our parents and have mercy on them. Give them good health strength and make them happy in both this life and in the Hereafter. And may Allah make our children and our offspring, righteous and useful to us as we go old insha Allah wa Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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love of God is the greatest

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glory to Him. He wanted me to be the best and gave his best religion to them. Allah Our God has been greatest

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glory to him

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is to be the best and give his best religion to them. So why did they know that forgiving all about and in paradise, where shipping cartons fire and stones sending letters to the cheapest

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day ignore that forgetting about how bad guys are shipping cars fire and stores selling the best were the cheapest

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