Channel: Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari
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This is a verse from the Quran for those people who are not acquainted with the Quran, para una una de barro, je de una de la la be
expected brothers, sisters,
and federal philarmonic.
As you know, the topic today, which has been
for me to talk on and regarding is the topic of HR.
is something or it's a topic, which many of you might have heard of before, especially
because of the reason you may have some idea regarding HR, etc.
What I want to do some brief time I have in front of us just briefly look at some of the injunctions of Islam in regards to Egypt just briefly.
He says First of all, before actually understanding the job and before actually understanding the ruling of Asia
and the injunctions relating to the job we need to understand and as you know, this topic is primarily concerned with and our system. And also it concerns the Muslim Brotherhood. So we can talk about Michelle
is primarily concerned are Muslim.
So before actually knowing why she just has been prescribed the
data has ordered
the Muslims to cover themselves. The reason in order to understand the reasons we need to understand the, the, the cause or the reason behind a lot of
God, creating us creating human beings creating men and women. What is the reason behind our creation? We need to understand what we understand, in the life of
the sunless, which are the things of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you should be absolutely clear why this injunction has been given.
When we look at the book of Allah, the Quran, and the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
it becomes clear that Canada has, as we all know, that he has created men and women separately, physically, emotionally, in all different ways, and both men and women have been treated separately. And because of that, nobody can deny. Today we have
extremism on both sides, we have a feminist movement, who would like to come out and feed themselves from the injections of Quran and Sunnah of Islam. And then on the other side, we have both extremes, where we have certain people who follow cultural ideology, and the cultural
understanding of Islam, which is also wrong, this extremism on the right extremism on the left, and we need to,
we need to defend extreme except
for our friends, we
use the word a lot, but
it should mean God. So
created men and women definitely differently, physically as well as mentally as well as emotionally. And as I was saying that this extremism on both sides, extremism on one side, I think we have to be from the injections. And this especially in the feminist movement, on the name of freedom in the name of liberation, they work to free themselves from the intentions of Islam. On the other hand, we have different cultural understandings of many cultures, whether the, the best way is a middle way.
The best way is the middle way with moderation. Now, Allah subhanaw taala, when he created men and women separately, he is given the duties and responsibilities of both
sexes, both of them separate different responsibilities. The man has been given the fact that
as you know, physically,
physically strong, physically is created separately. I mean, you can't you can't tell a man that
Okay, so now I'm pregnant and give birth to a child because I mean, even though probably they will try to do that in the future, but who knows.
Breastfeeding rather than the woman
physically alive separately from a woman, you have to understand that they are separate in their lives is no such thing. You know, when there's a lot of attack on Islam, that Islam does not give rise to women, there's no
there is no superiority over men over women or women over men. When we say this, there are two separate sets of rules, there is no superior
that the world of men have the same rights, every single right rather than towards,
you will see that women actually have more rights than men.
Women have more as men. So
there are rights for men and there are rights for women also, as I said,
that Allah subhanho wa Taala say, that all the rights which men have received and gains the same rights of women also.
But here, there is only division or distribution of work, the man has been given responsibilities, the man has been given a responsibility which is for work which is more suited to him and the woman, she has been given a responsibility which is suited to her just as a woman, if the church has a woman that feeds children. Similarly, Allah subhana wa tada Islam in general has divided the work of
a family into two categories, the work of our side of the house, the work of inside of the house, this does not mean I will mention that women cannot come outside etc, which I will extend this division of the work if you look in the time of the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wasallam, the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he distributed the work of the house and the work outside because men are physically stronger, it is more suited if Allah Subhana Allah in the Quran, if he ordered that, okay, men should, you know, get inside the house and do the washing up, go to the kitchen, cook food, look after the children clean, clean the house and the women should go and
work in the factory, nude and be able to say anything, this is the person who creates it. He knows that that's that he knows better than if this was the command of Allah that okay men and women go ahead and we would have accepted it submission to Allah subhana wa Tada. But Allah subhanaw taala, the creator of human beings, he knows how to treat men, just like two people. For example, if I had two friends, one friend, his, you know, Mashallah bodybuilder, something very strong, and there's another one, but he's mentally weak. As you know, this is the those people who are, you know, need a strong, good body, they're mentally weak. This is through experience. But I know many people lose
their brains, when they when they do too much exercise, it is different. But
so they have to send for example, one example. I'm not saying that it's wrong, a lot of them the Quran and Hadith. And in Islam, there's a lot of emphasis and a lot of encouragement of physical exercise, but there's a limit for everything, you don't go beyond the limit. So
if I have two friends, there's one friend who is physically very strong,
and then another friend, but the first one is not very clever, doesn't have a very strong mind, intellectually, is not very capable. But another friend of mine is weak. But he's got a very good brain, I have two things to do. I need some, you know, calculations to be done in my shop. And then I need a lot of furniture to be lifted and taken upstairs. If I give the person who is really weak, okay, you start taking the furniture stuff, and the one who's a bodybuilder, but his mind does not work that well. I said, Okay, you do all the calculations for me another accountancy job for me, everybody will say this person's insane, because it does not suit us change this, the order. This is
the same way that the way Allah Subhana Allah, God created human beings, he created men physically stronger, and there's no denying that but physically they are from, therefore the responsibility of outside work, which needs a lot of physical power and strength, and it needs and going outside and working. This was given this, this was made the responsibility of the husband of the man. Similarly, the woman was more suited to stay in the house, which doesn't mean she can't go outside, but to remain in the house and look up to the household affairs and look up to the children, especially when the children are young. The children they need they need the love of the mother, first of all,
and this is the reason why we look when we look into the Islamic law, child custody first until the age of nine, a boy who is under the age of nine remains with the mother or the father, when there's divorce, if there's an unfortunate event of divorce, that what happened
Under the child, the custody, the woman takes custody of the child, the mother takes custody. And if she could not, for some reason or another ticket, custody will go to her own mother. If not, then it will go to the father's mother, not the husband, not the father, the father's mother, and then on to all the women on the other side, and on the father's side when there is nobody there, or they're not willing to take the child. And then finally, we'll go to the husband until the age of nine, right because the child is the mother, mother's care, mother's attention, mother's love at that time.
So this and then up to the age of nine,
or up to the age of seven, in the case of a boy seven in the case of a good night, then the country will change and go to the Father. So this is the distinction which Allah Subhana Allah has made that women are more suited to the housework, and
work and responsibility of looking after the children etc. And these are two separate words. This does not mean whatsoever that one sex for one gender is more superior than the other. No, it's just a distribution. This is a false misconception or it's a misconception, a false understanding of Islam, that from gives no right to women and men are superior. No, there's no way whatsoever men are more superior. In the Quran is
also the Messenger of Allah.
There's no there's no formula, there's no excellence, there's no virtue there's there's no superiority for one person over another whether it's a man or a woman, the best, according to our data is the one who is the most righteous, the one of the most pious and the one who is the most practicing and more closest to Allah. Whether it's a man or a woman, there are many, many women in Islam, our sisters, who are the great great people of this oma and the great, great ones scholar, conservative scholar, he is gathering your book, massive work in 20 volumes where he is gathering the life story of data. Mahabharata means that those great scholars of Hadith is the statement or
the saying of the messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam which is a science in itself, a very complicated and detailed time is gathering very big work in 20 volumes. mentioning the autobiography and the life story of the great great Maha discharge in history, from the time of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu, alayhi wasallam
century have been great, great people in industry. So there is no superiority. But there is just division or distinction of work.
And this is the reason why Allah Subhana Allah in the Quran, in the in the verse which I recited in
that he's addressing the whys of the Messenger of Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah was going to primarily and initially, and then to all the Muslim sisters, all the Muslims, the women that try to remain in the confines of your home, walk around the corner, what that does not mean you can't come out because he says what I said originally.
But when the need arises when he needs to go outside when you need to go out of the house, because the human beings of course, they need to go outside.
Even for social things they need to go they need to go and visit relatives, friends, I mean, you can't just
you know, we can sometimes some husbands are really strict. I mean, the problem really is you have to stay in you know, the lock the door from outside, the wife comes from outside,
you should, you know, reverse the roles and lock him in for about a week and see how he feels. There's so many times where there's so much of pressure is the pressure from the man side and the woman and this has come to all come from the cultural aspects of Islam, which is a totally different topic whatsoever altogether. But
so, when the need comes with a need to go outside,
Do not adorn yourself, do not adorn yourself like the women used to adorn themselves in the day or in the days of ignorance in the days of germanium. If you do need to come outside and do not display yourself, do not adorn yourself. And this is the this is the reason of cgrp This is the introductions for a job. Why? Because of the Quran, Allah subhanaw taala in Islam, of course, fornication, adultery is totally prohibited and unlawful and there's no such thing as long as one person will tell you that fornication is heroin, adultery, sinner should be it should be totally unlawful and prohibited. And in every region of the Caribbean, I was eating
dinner, that let alone one station and we do not even come close to fornication
because it is totally clearly an Ebola. And you know that the consequences of that is is apparent to everybody that the crash of the family system and the lineage being mixed up. You ask somebody you ask the woman or a man What if the kids born that who's the father
This could be a it could be it could be, you could
say that I don't know the food matters at night, we don't know who the father
was dinner do not even come close to dinner.
And because of that Islam has this great principal. Islam has a very important principle known in Arabic as
the very average knee, blocking the means to an evil before it actually material materializes. And it actually happened. blocking the means cutting up the real cutting of the pieces. This is known as many of the injections many of the rulings of Islam of Sharia are based on this principle. For example, alcohol and other intoxicating substances have been totally declared unlawful. And this is the reason why even selling alcohol is impermissible. selling alcohol totally prohibited. Why because if you sell, it's the mean of people consuming alcohol. Similarly, adultery, fornication is totally harana. Local. And all those things which need to fornication are also prohibited in Islam.
And this is the reason why we have two jobs, that we have segregation with others with respect with manners we have, we don't have open mixing between men and women. A lot isn't the Quran
that inform an order or messenger of Allah sallallahu it was set up for the men First Amendment,
that you're calling him that they should lower the cages, where they should guard their modesty. And then the next verse, says lacunae, minashi avoided having a party hinder that old messenger of Allah sallallahu it was an order and commanded women have your own mother, they should know what the case is also, and God there must be from a routing perspective from from a different perspective, when the fuqaha deduce all the rules of Quran from the
ruling is that men cannot look at women whatsoever.
Full stop, you can't look full stop. No, it's been but men are not supposed to look at women at all. This is because of this verse, it is unlawful according to this, the majority of the scholars that you are not supposed to know, because it's a temptation which a man has and man is more vulnerable at falling into sin than women, none is more vulnerable. Therefore, it's been mentioned that the order or the command is that men should
keep the gauges low. And with regard to women looking at men, the ruling which has been given is that they can as long as they don't feel any desire and passion and interest, etc. So as long as they don't see anything they can, but if they think that,
you know, they're looking at somebody and they by looking at something happening to them, you know, they're hot, it's the basis on the
at that time, they are not allowed to look at men but generally they can and this is why we have this is looking at all the burdens here and the burdens that are the front and also for those and this is the reason
this is the reason why we have to teach it other than to not look into why older brothers and sisters are the best not because there is a better than this is not because the brothers consider sisters and sisters configurability is understanding the ruling if they lose an effect brother.
So so this is
community. These are the two verses of the Quran.
Very important. And this is a reason why Allah subhana wa tada has commanded that women should not display themselves not display themselves in front of men and should not be the reason why, for women's perfume and go outside the house in front of strange men, not from those words not related to the lack of brother Father excetera is totally impermissible and unlawful. Why, because the man will have desires his heart and they move vulnerable when the reason why more emphasis is on the woman is he there is also regard for manhood for certain parts like for example, the hour which is the part of the body which must be covered which must be concealed for another neighbor to the
knees, and even then the rest of the body he has to dress modestly. He should not just walk around with a T shirt. You know of course, just like that, in short, as I know there is modest clothing for men and also the part of the body which must be covered from under the neighbor to the knees. The order for the man is that it should not be tied up for our brothers a lot of them that a job for the brothers. Now a lot of times we type you know childhood jeans or something which is extremely tight that you can see the side that is unlawful because the
Part of the body which is our which must meet our needs.
In the Quran and Hadith in the statement of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a man has been ordered and commanded that you have to cover your nakedness, the nakedness, which is absolutely necessary, the nakedness, which is up the mountain from the naval to the knees, and that part of the body must be not covered with tight clothing, neither should you be seated for both men and women. So this is a job with the color of the man and he should cover modestly when going outside. Similarly, for a woman with a job, which is the whole body, she should she should cover her head, she should cover a body, in a modest way, she should have a fitting clothing, not something
which is tight fitting or something which is transparent. If she covers herself with tight clothing, it is known that she has not covered herself, if she is covered with seasonal clothing, it is Associate shares are covered. So these are the two important learnings with regards to covering the nakedness. And
so this is why there is
a job for a woman. And this is why the commander of a lot of animals, that women they should remain in the confines of the home but when there is a need, they can go outside the feminist movement and the people who are the name of freedom and they think this is freedom that is not really freedom today.
Women in the name of freedom they have, you know the the feminist movement.
Women have come outside and they think this is our freedom of going outside. We need to be level with men, whatever the men do, we need to do so. And as I mentioned that there's no superiority of one
group or one x over the other. They're both equal, but there are other responsibilities.
According to some people when there's no research, they said that
the most profitable
profession today for a woman is to pose nude pictures for nudity taking a woman will earn $25 million in one day for somebody taking her pictures in the nude. However you want how many you want in whatever angle you want. This is the most profitable, most profitable profession for women. And women are ready to do nothing. But there are people in the West that already
have bodies that are either given this give up this modesty that this is this is not as before you know kuranda
children of Adam and Eve set up the first prophet of Allah, we have descended revealed to you have chosen whether you're a man or a woman is a clothing
It covers your nakedness. And it's the fundamental thing for human beings for humanity since the first profit from the first man on earth. And you know that when Adam
and his wife have been up, when they were when they ate from the forbidden tree, what happened, they started getting removed, the first thing they did was, they started coming in and they started covering the nakedness because of shape and human being made and created on this model can change. But what's happened now that this is just gonna be somebody's nature changes, then what can we do? So this is the nature on which human being was created from the time of
peace be upon him, all the way to the last stop is the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Allah bless him and give him peace. All the prophets have given this command and this old ruling of modesty and higher demands, that modesty is part of our faith. And because of not modesty being there. We have one problem today in society, families are being broken down, men and women are mixed, working in an atmosphere. The father is going and working with his secretary, you know
that the woman is working for another part who's always giving a compliment. And the children are working in the shop, and there's no school and there's no home. And now what happened, she fought for her boss and he fought for his secretary. And that's a breakup of marriage, and divorce. It's all and this is a parent, everybody knows this. There's nothing to do. We don't need to really emphasize this. And this is a reason why we have a job in Islam that we have feminization, women can go not just Tango, they should go, they should go they should work. We need women to be doctors, with women, for everything but there's a limit you need modesty you need to not be
in an environment where you are socially free and
you have informal interaction with the opposite sex.
being free is nothing wrong with opposite sex joking around casually. This is totally forbidden if there's a time, there's a need for
To talk to a man, modestly formal, no informal, no extra one word.
So much so that they have given talks about whether you can
or not the Dhamma and the majority of the parameters of the parameters that discusses that are even supposed to say,
PC upon you, which is a Muslim greeting. The debate you can see sometimes sometimes we call it the whole routine discussion, which is very detailed, but nothing extra formal. If that's not timely that you need, if there's a need, then you need to talk to them a lot.
Then when you need to talk with women, or men to talk with sisters or sisters to talk with
them, talk to them, ask them from behind the curtain from behind the veil.
So, this is the guidance of Allah subhanho wa Taala. That, if there is a need for conservation conservation is the need of interaction that should be done in the modern manner, without transgressed, transgressing the limits, and going beyond the limits, which set down by Sharia.
And this is the reason as I was saying, to look, we are supposed to keep our gauges low. And this is why Islam is prescribed marriage in the heavens, the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in one of his statements, that he was addressing the
the use of the time he was telling me to do my shadow Shadow
whoever from you who has the means this is for the men, because the financial responsibility is the man's responsibility, there is also a unique aspect, that the responsibility, the financial responsibility of supporting the family is solely only on the
only on the shoulder of the husband and sponsibility of that. But no matter how rich the wife would be, if you get married, if a man gets married to someone who's a millionaire, she does not have to take a penny out of her pocket.
She doesn't have to take a penny out of her pocket, the responsibility is of the man why because he has been ordered to go outside and look for work and finish work and taking a quiet early work, and then bring that income in the house and provide and support the children and the family. It's not a woman's responsibility, she can keep her manual you can have faith in the bank, no problem, but the man has to spend his money and the man does not because he cannot, from an Islamic perspective, from his own point of view, he cannot deny his wife to give money for the household affairs for giving food, nothing whatsoever if he does, and she does not want to be defensive, because what the man and
the men have cases of women, the reason why why are they cases is
that the cause that they fell out of the rug over the women. So this is the responsibility of men.
before that, as I was saying that, so keeping again is the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he was addressing the youngsters in the time. And he said to them that own young says, if you have the means, if you have the capability to narrow meaning financial capability, then you should know because this is the Sunnah, the method or the way of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, therefore you should know
the reason why is the reason
because it is how it helps in keeping your game in law, and God in your model. And this is the reason why marriage has been prescribed Islam that you have a legal way. If we are human beings, we are not
some creation of something, whether whether the person is a normal Muslim, and or whether it's a scholar with his army, whether whoever, whatever he is, or the human being is wearing the Prophet given the prophecy to get married, because a lot, the one who created the Prophet, the one who created all human beings, he knows that they are human beings. And they have to come like as if the profit was such that they were like angels coming down from the heavens, and some different type of form, then we will say, non Muslim, filling the tank of the messenger blah, blah, blah. You know, we want somebody else to come from the heavens, an angel to determine how to solve this property is
likely to return is profit. You walked on in the market, like the way we walk around in the market, no one to somebody who was like, that's why it says in the Quran, who was
the one who sent the messenger who is one of them. So if this just like us, then we can of course,
following his footsteps, that is the reason why you will hit the Messenger of Allah
religion that you don't need, you can't. But then after that God has problems on the side, but something happened here or there, you know, the children involved, etc. But in Islam is a natural religion that you can manage. And this is the need of a man.
this is a reason
he said that young,
get married, it will keep your wages low, and it will guard your money. And then, further along, he said that if a person does not have the capability and means to get married, then once you do, she's super fast because she is. So this is the responsibility of the man that he himself also takes care of not looking at women is good. And we say to the women, that they have to also keep modestly dressed modestly. And they have to dress modestly in the Quran, the word lovely.
They should cover themselves veil, the veil themselves, in a modest manner without coke or garlic. And as I mentioned that they should cover themselves in a way two important principles. Number one is that we have just mentioned that number one, like the coding must not be tight. And number two, we should not be fearful. If a sister performs her follow her prayer, the five tampers, we do. And if she prays even at home where there's nobody there, you know, that they have to cover themselves on top. If you perform to sell at home in a way that's
transparent, and you can see the you know, the body
or the clothing is tight
and close. Even though this law becomes invalid, the prayer becomes invalid, repeated because anything covered in a way that it's not
new, and it's not thick, then this is not considered to be covering within a matter for a woman. And there's so many injunctions in the Quran, for example, for this segregation for not having gender interaction or not having mixed gatherings where in the social gatherings where men and women are very free with one another, in
this case, it is
to find that a man and a woman should not stay and remain in seclusion in isolation by themselves, which is known as holla. Holla means that you are in a place or in a, in a room where the room is locked, if something's only new, and other women
stay in that will remain that way is unlawful for vague and totally Haram. Why? Because the having a data that can establish ownership on that chiffon, who Satan, he believes, is the one who will create this atmosphere between men and read them into falling into sin. And you know, the weakest instinct of the human being is this desire, the sexual desire and let the weakest instinct. We all know that. And this is the reason why you found and Satan has chosen this particular week in front of you, of the human being to attack this instinct. And this is something which, when everybody is vulnerable, even a person can reach a very high level of status of piety, of God theory of knowledge
of taqwa, and scholarship, whatever. But this is a very delicate step where anybody at every company can be affected, unless you don't have the means where you block off the means, unless you don't take responsibility that you avoid the things which leads to the evil, you will not descend from the evil and finally we will fall into fornication. And as we see today, in our society, the Western society as well as Muslim society, and what's happening, nevertheless a marriage. The state, we are devoted, devoted is very common. We have problems in the household, we have men having affairs on the side is winning, and we have women also sometimes having friends and running away with other
men. Why Why is this happening? Because we have, we have not taken care of this. That means to fornication must be cut off. And it is very important, it's a responsibility for all of us. However, there are exceptions. There are exceptions that all the exceptions to the general rule. For example, for medic medication, medic medical treatment, whether it's a man or a woman, a woman or a man to expose themselves removed. The government of the body by all means is permissible because there's any
there's a principle a juristic principle estate above little rough to be
that necessities make for a local thing. If I'm the best I can drink from dying of hunger. I can eat pork meat. It's probably
Since this is a general principle of sharing, taken from the hearts of the Quran and Sunnah, that necessity and need make prohibition, prohibition is not permissible and lawful treatment, medical treatment by all means we can expose itself. For example, a man wants to get married.
And there's also another misconception about arranged marriage. Some people think arranged marriages means that you can't see the good and your parents say you have to get married to this girl finish. No, without second thought, you have to make this boy, which is not, which is not part of Islam. So many however, the Allahu anhu, when they want you to know the Messenger of Allah sallallahu, it will send them the companions of the text to them. But have you seen the girl having gone through and spoken to her? They said, No, he said, why not go and see them first, before you actually decide to take this good step of your life. Because it's not for short term, you know, marriage is not for a
for life. So you must go and look at the car and look at her and look at him and see him and see that if it's the right person for you or not. And then if you decide to focus on having a conversation, but after that, of course, you can't have informed once you make that decision finish, then when you engage, when there is no informal conversation or going around to restaurants, no, if you want to then get you know, get married the next day, there's no way there's no reason to wait.
So these are certain exceptions, where the medical treatment marriage where women may expose the fact that you have a job, but also and there are many non Muslims who have converted into Islam
who have converted Islam and Africa into sound, especially system they have said that the most most intriguing part for the party, which is which is the most fun Islam was the aspects of Islam giving rise to women and safeguarding them and tracking them.
There was a book which I had been where the code, although the article entirely is safe. I don't know about feedback,
written by a non Muslim writer, and he wrote, why Islam, I have the book, I want you to read it out in front of you. But because I've been you know, I got locked up my keys the left side. And that's why I was delayed, you know, when I left the booking site, but I managed to get my notary. So
the whole article is there from the title newspaper, where it's been recorded, that Islam is being it's widespread, and it's spreading really fast in the West, especially in America and Britain. And it's ironic that the most people entering into Islam are sisters than but women than men, females and men, not males, females are the most well entered into Islam. And there are Coco, from many of our sisters, who are fed by, for example, about 150 she quoted from what I remember is that when I looked at what are the rights given to the sisters to women, it really amazed me so much so that we in the West, we when we get married, we have to change our Maven into the name of a husband. And if
you can keep your name, there's no such a thing of changing your major name to your husband's name.
She can keep a first name, she can keep a second he can keep her sadly, she doesn't have to change the name. And the man has his own name, there's no change of a major minister. This is just one example of the rights which Islam give to women. And she also one of them stated that whatever the feminist movement is trying to achieve and acquire that again and obtain Islam give everything except for two things. One is abortion and other ones left in Islam give all the rights and give more, except for two things which Islam which the feminist movement is trying to achieve or striving for the two things which Islam does not give, and rightfully abortion and lesbian ism, which is, of
course, a different topic whatsoever. So many of them, many, many systems have accepted Islam is the fastest growing religion in the West. And also the reason is that there's a negative, negative picture being portrayed against Islam. It's having an adverse effect and more and more people are coming to Islam. And this is many people are accepting Islam. This is without our endeavor. And this is another thing we should find another topic whatsoever altogether, but really,
most of the responsibility are very neglected responsibility that we have to invite make our two non Muslims about Islam given the truth long, you know, explain to them the truth law and not just verbally with our action also. You see action is you know, and
we will find
The goat that actually own the English they actually speak louder than that now, they will
actually speak louder than Yes.
without actually, Now a lot of times when Muslims non Muslim, Muslim, Muslim, you know, when you see an argument, the truth is that there's a fight going on. And there's a debate as to what to do in a fight called argue debate within
the character, the narrative we have to portray Islam and we have to take the man on the character of our beloved messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam whose life fully is recorded in the books, of hadith of tradition, prophetic tradition, with this amazing infinite, like, for example, one of his servants who said that
he was under said he
was a companion and a servant of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
He said that I was in the service of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for 10 years, and neither in the genie everything to me, why did you do this for something which I should have done? And why didn't you do this, something I should have done 10 years, just imagine if this is not a great Middle School for 10 years, stay with somebody, and never never even raising your voice. And he used to not be just Muslim, he is to his to his enemies. One of the animals used to throw class on the road where the messengers were allowed to walk and put,
put all sorts of things for him. And that he did not create he went to he went to see that visitor that are you sick or something. This is how you work with enemies, and not just enemies, even animals.
Respect animals take care of animals, what Islam teaches us,
this country this job. So this is one of the very important thing as well that we need to get out of Islam to our non Frank, and this is a very important responsibility each other and the conclusion is that the job is something which is important, which is necessary. And the reason for a job that job for both men and women, men need to cover modesty. And also women need to cover modesty. And the reason behind this the objective, the wisdom behind it is that it stopped fornication and stopped adultery, and unlawful mixing. And with this,
I was trying to talk for 20 minutes and take questions.
The questions are coming in Charlotte, the first question
about what's your opinion on the laws passed in countries such as France, Turkey, etc. This is a
topic on which many people have talked about. And also one of the Friday
lectures, because you want to talk about
I mean, the stance of Muslim
record the opposing, took away, one of the fundamental aspects of the plan. It's not just
that it's the responsibility, you have to do something which is prescribed the borderland cannot develop.
Therefore, if something were your basic rights of your religion, you are prevented from carrying out your basic rights, which is an obligation and therefore as any religion whether you're a Christian, whether you are Hindu, Buddhist, whether you're if you're somebody prohibiting somebody put the stock price of course, you in opposes. So we totally oppose it. Of course, I mean, the opinion of the no such countries, we totally oppose it. And we do our utmost best wherever we could work within our capabilities to raise our voices against this man in
any way, shape, or form. Financially anyways, you have to tell us that this does not mean that we become crazy and that they you know, you can
do that now you totally ignore, we be gentle.
And we be calm and composed. And then do one of those who can be illegal and fight for our rights. This is what we can do.
You can ask questions.
You're trying to figure out a job at Kirtland during your talk. Where is it mentioned that human hair mistakes were mentioned that a woman to him is because
there is also something that some men are not many some of the Western ideology or misunderstanding that there's no cordoning off
of the head Rolling Stone emissary
I mean, this is very
Which really hurt? Because never in Islamic history has anyone ever come in the 1500 years of Islamic, there's been debate, that the differences of opinion in many different issues of
you know that there are differences of opinion, we have Islamic legally we can have different opinions in certain secondary issues with having respect for one another, no problem, then there's been a difference of opinion about covering the faith, as you know that some people think you must cover something that is not necessary that indicates that, but no one has ever come in Islamic history ever, in any school or anything that a woman needs to cover. It's been something unanimously agreed upon, accepted by the whole oma from the time of the message, that a lot of it was going to kill everybody, and in many, many evidence, books and so on, this is a book called
being coated For example, one is
something which covers your head, you smell the face, you do need
and then we've got
the job done behind the curtain, which means that there must not come in front of the men. And also there are many, many other verses of the Quran, and also the patrons of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one How did you say that those women who do not cover their hair, and who dress in an unmarked manner where they are naked, what is done to hire the those women who are close. But
the women who are the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that
before pm or before the day of judgment, there'll be women who will come there will be closed, yes, nature. The companion said he couldn't understand that. But today we
have short skirt, clothes that are plated for different clothing.
And he said after that, that these will be the whole agenda, they will not enter Jannah paradise, let alone entering paradise.
They won't even smell the fragrance of genuine, even though the fragrance of genuine products can be smoked on such and such a distance. So
is a very, very common question is a woman of badness.
We don't think the job of Allah God is he or the Messenger of Allah, we don't.
Whether person is practicing action you don't like it's not personal performance is not praying, we say this action of not praying is that even? That's why in Hades, statement of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu, I used to live money,
somebody needs something, to do something to change it.
Then if you can't change this evil, you have to change with your time, give them life advice in a genuine way polite manner, etc. Using wisdom and economics. In the Quran, Allah says that cold invite towards your nose, but it was not with us, it happened with wisdom with good advice. So if you continue with your hand, the changes with your tongue, if you can't even do that, then for the economy, with your heart for the meaning that just think of that action can be bad or evil in your heart. And this is the lowest degree of NEMA. So we don't say each individually bad. No, that's totally wrong. Even you know.
How can you say the creation of a human being she's a human being with a Christian whatever.
That actually we do not like or dislike, so you can never call somebody out.
And even accurate way, he just won the time because my family do not know that Muslim devalued excuse to not graduate inshallah he's accepted Islam at the moment, and which is a great bounty and gift that was given to you. Which I mean, you will,
you will realize that more than most people who are born often take for granted that we've been born within, you know, we don't really care of the ingestion of sound mean to the door. But those people who accept Islam will come to the exam. And, you know, really, I'm telling you this experience has a lot of friends who don't want to see England, they live in Georgia.
So we're practicing as those sisters and brothers who and
practicing, practicing and
you know, we just come in on culture, father to father you know, we don't take it we don't we don't appreciate it for those people who have come to them, the graduates and they practice it much more better than us.
You know, and this is the way
Have the verse of the Quran that if you do not practice Islam, a lot of change and bring another nation and make them Muslims and give them what you sow. I mean, gradually inshallah is the sister, she can't there's no problem slowly, slowly, once the time is ripe, then she can start reading. Okay.
Question and very tight clothing that is not on this issue. What is the opinion? No, this is this is consensus of everybody, of all the scholars that title. But there is a slight difference between some of the schools of thought as to exactly what the hour or the nakedness is.
For the man, for example, I fit into the nasal to the nice majority of that, but the slight minority of some schools of thought, one particular thing, the medical model, where it's less than that the five will not be included in the nakedness part of the body, which must be covered. So that part which must be covered, it must be nude. And it must not be confirmed by the actual area, the study of difference.
He's quoted a heavy that's a bargain of Adam Tyler said that
the messenger for love said that a lot give mercy to those with a great childhood. But it is not the type of travel. It means the government and our government and the government.
And remember, we don't mean the problem, the question trying to say that he didn't say that he has to be the you know, you know, Islam is one of these unfinished because, you know, you have 1000s and 1000s and 1000s of books of Heidi. She's not just one book, one page or one chapter, we have the whole Quran
which is the most authentic book after the book of Allah.
And we are not just these two, these are just two, probably 5% of the authentic narrations. There are 1000s of other heavy the narrations, authentic ones in other books. We don't look at one thing, okay, we look at the whole collective thing. And then we use the ruling.
You mentioned that the man men work outside the house and women work with it. Will this mean that women have to cook and
this is a very common question I've written on the
other website before before I tell you I do
have a website, which I think I mentioned this
is a website to drift
data.org w. w w.dut.org. Just today, the website was
reconstructed just today some brothers from Birmingham handled it in a whole new direction essentially, just like any other new website, which looks very good.
There's loads of articles approximately 500 long detailed articles if you go into chapter in the section of marriage, read each other one very detailed two pages of the book is very detailed
detail in there the especially as I
say that is not a responsibility of the wife to cook.
You see so many things missing from the culture in according to the hiring manager, and this is based on the Quran Sunnah, that a wife is not her responsibility, she does not have to cook rather so much so that if
if she demands the husband, that gives me food that he will have to go and get food from the restaurant and give it in her lap. She's a queen. This is a really, this is a lot of things missing from culture. This is a movie that he has to learn the cooking, or bring it from outside and give it to her.
People are amazed. I mean, this is this
is one of the rules, but at the same time, at the same time. At the same time. Having said that, there's a lot of rewards for a woman to cook for children and look after and cook the food and there's a lot of rewards and modeling she should do and why I just mentioned this one is why the children come. Because you see for example in culture we have things such as you know, looking after the father, your mother, if she does not have to cook for the husband, looking after the Father.
Of course it's not a responsibility when
What is the husband like you must provide
how for the wife, if the wife gets married, and she does not want to live separately, if it is not
the husband responsibility for financial support as well as
having a separate political responsibility, you must product. The reason why we have the blue
is that, for example, the woman can
listen to this scenario, if a woman gets married, she goes to her in laws house, she's living with the father in law and the mother, especially the mother, and the mother, your
mother in law thinks that she is not supposed to do this. If she doesn't,
part of the world, however, she will compliment him saying, you know, you don't have to, you don't have to do that, because
you don't have to do it. And you know, women, if you compliment them, then
this is the nature of men if you compliment them, and if you you know, tell them that is very important. This is the way to
very easy to
convince your wife. So
if the mother knows that she returned and give more back, and this will make good relations between because the mother was in the mother in law, she didn't really have to do it. Every time she didn't have to say thank you very much as Apple, okay, we don't have to, it's okay. She won't demand it. And she won't think that this is her.
Yeah, what do you think of the idea of the houses,
we don't have the husbands, but the how the husband should take his fair share of household duties responsibility, also the messenger
role models, he's to have in the household work, despite having this primary distinction, that the know how homework the method to help his wife, be nourished,
sometimes key and
so this is, you know, you should have whenever you can, but if you need to, you know, your main work to the outside, of course, whenever you can you have to do
the work load is a lot for the woman.
today's society has portrayed that this is more of the same for a woman committed, adultery is
less of a sin for a man, how do you respond to that is totally untrue. grunk
sending the magazine a woman, if a woman is a heroine totally mandated both around, there's no distinction between the two societies to trade, there's no need to respond because this is not correct as a society, Islam
and the Quran all the time, a lot of ages and genders a man and a woman aged men.
Somebody has a good deal whether you're a male or a female, if you're male or female.
If a Muslim brother sees a sister that appeals to him, but doesn't know
any of our friends, for example, at this lecture,
you should be shooting
How should he pursuit of American in some degree? It is also
I mean, there are proper to get married. If this is the guidelines when you want to get married in Islam, you have to do it in a proper way in a proper manner through proper channels. It's not just you know, anyhow the ones that are proper ways and the proper channels go through which we know that have
an impact. Are you interested again right? We know it's up to you and then you can go
to the question How is the man
how's the man or woman supposed to choose their future partner as they are permitted? If they cannot look at each other, which is a lot I said no, because if somebody recommended a boy or a man or a girl, for example, you
should you should do your homework. If you have sisters, to just go and do the homework what type of girl she is, and if the sister she should do our homework and investigate and
about the person. And remember, this is a very important topic.
Selecting and choosing the right partner for marriage of
a given PC stated that men and women are meant for for reason, and in the same manner, that they married for the mother what he has to do
for the world for the beauty, for the lineage and from for for the Thai tea and Africans. And that is that, for
a measure you choose, choose the type of tea and her nature, because Islam and the connection in Islam, but here is a very important point which law people neglect. Many people think that you know, when you when you say that, choose the one who is the most religious, the one who is more practical will be. This does not mean that you choose the one who just play fight and pray for a woman who covers herself from top to bottom.
Islam is a comprehensive word, it means your belief. It's your social life, how you do others if you want to get noticed that both found out that if you vote the money was essentially paid next Monday, she paid by Monday. Oh,
that's what you asked about, that she called. She become angry. she she she has always disputed a friend. This is very important because matter and character is the most important. Even though you have two people want one sister She is not consulted the prayer for her manner is very good. Another thing she she totally covered everything socks and gloves and everything but she's evil man, then you'd rather go for the ones who could manage rather than the one who's fully covered and Batman and why because the one who has good manners, you slightly encouraging the marriage to start performing and praying all the praise, followed by temperance and just practice.
were the one who is practicing, you know, if she if she becomes angry, she might just stop playing altogether. You see. So this is very important that the actual matter we should look at.
You said that things that are not allowed for female abortion lesbianism What if a human has been raped? Will abortion be allowed such as?
This is a very important question. As a book called birth control and abortion, Sharon Souter published his paintings before the Revised Edition.
I was distracted with the voice so that in case of rape, in case of rape, they have given Islam does give permission for a woman who is raped, then she aborts the pregnancy, because it's not her fault, and how will she be comfortable living with a child of somebody who, when she went through such a traumatic experience, and as you can see, this also she went through the cause of rape is permissible. Abortion is
because we have two categories of abortion today, you have four months before movement and as a woman, normally,
the ruling is that abortion after a woman is totally unknown, totally, totally, totally up to 420 days, after which the soul loop is built into the pieces become the living creatures as murders, somebody does have an abortion considered to be murder. But in one extreme situation, and that is the second one the first actual situation where you cannot perform live is London live the life of the mother in certain days, meaning that the doctor still has a baby in July with a mother like one of the things you take the lesser of the two evils because you keep the mother alive is better than keeping the baby alive because the mother is already established in life with responsibility and
unborn child so you can watch and keep the other one because there's one or the to the left of the trees. So only in this one case, and with that many, many contemporary Jews have given the permission in rape also But even as a woman that because rape was
So but precaution would be that if she did not, you know, you know, she can give them adoption and she does not want to keep the child then
it would be very good that he does not do it.
No problem whatsoever.
take off a job in front of none of the women. This is a very common question also has an answer. On the website is the article on the website. A comprehensive look you have women issues. A comprehensive look at a woman's are
Basically, exactly, there are categories for a woman's naked woman, what she needed to cover is eight categories in prayer than outside prayer in front of her brother, father justice, et cetera. The non Roman Muslim and non Muslim women, the women for
each category are non Muslim women, they are, they are the ruling patient and Hannah's mother. And then she has to cover the head. But the it's not.
The ruling is not as strict as it meant as a degree of leniency. The reason behind that is that because if she just keep her head open, it's not because of the fear of, you know, lesbians emotion, I don't know, the reason behind that woman, she will
describe her to her husband, or boyfriend or other men. And because of that, and then it also, and if this is from a Muslim sister,
if you have a friend, she's married, and you know that she sees you, and when she goes home, she tells her husband a knife, and he says, he has this makeup, I love makeup on. And she looks like she looks gorgeous. Thinking of her rather than it
never happened, this woman in front of
me do that. This is one of the evils of paternity. Some women do that, they do that and they don't know that they are they are being themselves the cause of their their husbands turning away from them, you're not supposed to mention the mahathat the qualities or the beauty of another woman, totally normal. So if a woman feels that a Muslim woman will do the same that you covered with the woman also, it's not that strict. So therefore, like for example, if a woman's performing ablution and the need is, you know Muslim, non Muslim, she's on a presentation for example, she needs to take a job remove her
wife and do not have a head component is not a problem.
What is the ruling uncovering the face what part of the body is a woman allowed to uncover
the body of
the woman fully our accept the same thing, which is not our number one thing our nation
the whole body is power, which must be covered except with three things, the hand until the wrist, the feet until the anchor and the face which is just from from the top of the forehead to the chin and from when you look to
the past are not out of our nakedness meaning if she was a programmer product, she can keep the parts open and exposed. If she keeps any other product focus around becomes embedded. Nevertheless, the focus
as well as other schools of thought they have said, for example, the shark is good that they did that due to fit in and because of people falling into the same thing. fornication, adultery, etc, is strictly recommended. And she must cover the face also. But there are other contemporary scholars who say that it's not
really, really at this moment in time where I think we have to really emphasize on becoming the head
champion. Rather than covering the head, we have to start emphasizing it. And we need to of course, but you know that this moment in time, a lot of emphasis is needed on people to cover their hair and dress modestly. Once they do that when they start doing that and we have a very good healthy
analysis, just read the full hijab, but uncover the chest above the rest, you will purchase you have to cover it from the top of the forehead to the chin that's called the chest, the arm also the arm part of the nakedness which must be covered only to the wrist, you can raise
the legs also above the feet is total nakedness. Therefore, the woman is walking and her garment is striking greater because of the window because of stepping into the car or coming out of the car going up the stairs. And if the part of the leg is exposed is totally unlawful. Besides the handles and the wrist and the feet and the land and the face everything else must be covered
to the question
to make these the last questions
of times and if we
Important to act your religion whether you cover fully or not.
Even some people cover themselves fully, but still act unlawfully a very, very common question. The
right thing that there are some people who pray with poor performance, so therefore they should go for her for their definition.
It doesn't mean
it's important to follow the number the injections of Quran and Sunnah are of two types, outward and inward. Allah was raw human knew about refrain, obtain and do things that are connected to your outward appearance and interest in both. Internally you have to be modest internally, you have to have patient integrity, you have to save yourself from things like enmity, jealousy, hatred, and you know, you shouldn't have pride in all of that important outwardly effort you have, in junction that a man has the covenant of modesty, a woman has the covenant of modesty, we had our we have our production we have in production, both, both are necessary. Both are important, you have to do both,
doesn't mean that one should do the other one shouldn't do it. When somebody is doing one and leaving the other. He's doing one and he's leaving.
If somebody is leaving outward and inward,
inward and outward, both equidistant from the Quran, you have to abstain from both. Similarly, just like the question says that they cover themselves inward with a lever. That's wrong. That doesn't mean that they take the
job. The question is that if somebody is inwardly evil, they discover themselves that solution is not that Okay, now first nature outward arguing anyone know the solution is make your inward like, you know, you should improve.
Final question says, You talk about women and men being equal and equality yet most of the advocacy talks about the activities there are differences in what they do.
That's why they're failing all the time. Inequality button is superior and inferior. There's no superiority of one leg over the other responsibilities are different. And I'll give an example of two friends as the one who's the bodybuilder is not better than the one who got a brain and the ones that are brains on a bed and this one is more suited to this one. It's totally quality. responsibilities are distributed and divided according to how a lot harder with Allah created you physically, mentally, emotionally etc.