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you want to stop to study when I will be left guide and the shooting for CML we see Dr. Medina media done for them. The utility for the idea that a shadow Allah illallah, who could actually see that our having better was within our body, no, no hammock and outdoor Sulu a lot on Sunday was said Sallim wa Barik, ala sayyidina, Muhammad wa ala for that he was having HIV, or the continent of Europe in the sense that unity of long term and fundamental Valentina was in Ireland Subhan Allah who are in London, and he

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came about Hamdulillah we praise Allah subhanaw taala our Lord and our Creator,

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it's an honor and a privilege to be here again, in your beautiful country, knowing

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one of my teachers just two days ago saying that he's traveled the whole world and you're saying that the best country is need to ever in terms of

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in terms of beauty and nature is knowing. And I also agree with that. So how do I know it's a privilege?

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And this is my fifth visit. So I'm getting used to it, you probably some of you are already used to me as well and you're probably getting bored by seeing the sight of me, hopefully something like that Inshallah, and I hope you will understand, chances are he just told me as a gaming, he's going to don't understand English.

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I said, I don't know maybe your English very strong, very strong

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accent. But in England, we have different faces different accents, I'm sure you have the same ear.

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If you live in London, sometimes the people living in right north of England, which is Newcastle, you can't understand you think they're speaking Chinese. Seriously, sometimes you just don't understand what is a very heavy accent. But anyway handling today's program and invention that we have

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is about Darwin.

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Inviting towards Allah subhanahu wa is

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a very important topic, a very important convention.

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we have many things that we need to discuss today and tomorrow inshallah.

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As you may have heard in the session before, and as we normally do all the time, and we know and I'm sure you all know, the importance of the obligation of inviting towards a boss panel data, and inviting towards the messenger set of organisms teachings, and enjoying the good and forbidding the evil a very important obligation which is an obligation for every Muslim and

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numerous verses of the Quran and Sunnah talk about this numerous verses I just mentioned wanted to my title, what I want to talk about is a talk about this specific

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which is Pluto Venus a video of Vika been Hekmati winmo a lot in Hassan, Allah talks about the method, the methodology, the manner the way in which people should invite to us Allah. And it's so important especially in this day and age system, that this particular I have the advantage is overlooked by many, many people who actually think they are doing good and inviting towards ALLAH two very important points have been mentioned in that particular verse of the Quran. But before I go into that,

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what is the general

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iron hadith is the talk about Dawa itself. What does Allah say the famous person in sort of an Iran where you might have heard of this verse?

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Allah says it was definitely mean come only to hear the rune in Hi yah maroon had been my roofie way the whole night and

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this is a very important that talks about inviting towards ALLAH. But just before that, the iron before that Allah says yada yada yada and on top of Allah, O you who believe fear Allah, you will Arena on top of Allah have come to see him as he is ought to be fear. One of them will do nothing less than to lose the moon. Do not accept in the state of emergency slum. What does Allah teaches in this island? Remember, we are Taboola what what I was gonna say fear of God so taco

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and then he says, what it costs him to be happy learning Jimmy I wanted to for roku.

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What does him all of you all use?

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it collectively

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hold on to the rope of Allah which is unity work Kasim will be heavily in the journey and what are the for Roku, do not be disunited

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Do not be disunited, don't just agree do not fight and Quarrel and have disputes amongst yourselves.

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We're assuming we have a Jimmy our letter and then it carries on. And then he the verse after that Allah has a panel data talks about

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this doubt, we'll tackle mean come only to hear their own internal claim they should be a group amongst you that invite towards good.

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In other words, the first two points Allah mentioned in order for anyone's Darwin to be effective.

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Anyone's Darwin to be effective, whether there were two Islam you want to invite non Muslims towards Islam.

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Two prerequisites two things Allah mentioned in the Quran before you do that. One is fear of Allah. So God consciousness, you have to be practicing Islam yourself. If there's no Islam in our own lives, we can talk all day long lecture all day long. I can talk all day long we can do that. Or we can hold programs and seminars write books, we can talk about Islam to everyone, but there will be no effect in it.

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DARPA is talking about surprise, ratification and number two, Unity that's not my topic, which I will talk about tomorrow. Which unity doesn't mean that you can't disagree basically agreeing to disagree, disagreeing with ethics with moral ethics with other which is a topic on its own, which we'll talk about tomorrow. Now this is one of the reasons why we don't find that will be effective. When we invite non Muslims towards Islam or even Muslims towards Islamic obligations. We have to start off first with the oil and tossing we'll be happy in the unity and if we don't, then this dark weather will do will not be affected.

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These are very important two conditions, prerequisites Intel intervals before we even think about doing data.

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So this is what Allah says well temple min Houma to get your own height. Let there be a group from amongst you. That invite people towards good

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you're the only girl Hi, Marina

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Thank you enjoyed a good yet maroon roof. Those of you are some of you who might know Arabic yet moon base rules the word yet maroon is from the word America choose to command. Right now the Arabic word in here yet a maroon is what we call silver to the Simrock which means continuously.

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Allah didn't say amaku it's young ruin which means continuously all the time.

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Silverton is Demerol without any change continuously. They enjoy the good continuously you don't wait for the time. You can talk about fasting before Ramadan comes. You can invite someone for Asia for that before you share time arrives. Continuously. Wait, hold on, you wouldn't come and they continuously forbid the evil. This is our responsibility when the COVID come over to me and ruining the highway and we would have been might have went home and woke up. And I'll tell you another thing here as well. The word Allah used is yet marooned on my roof.

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What do they do? They enjoy? What's the word used from Allah from enjoying the good good.

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Which was within industry not Have not you know what literally linguistically mouth means?

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That no no when recognized, not the disagree that you don't have to you know, argue and fight about something which is done not with disagree between hundreds of Imams of his own mark, it's my own. It's no enjoy that first and foremost that doesn't mean you find joy and enjoy an order and ask people, others to do other things. But this is what Allah is saying this Yamamura Kumar roof. It's so well known who doesn't know from the Muslims, that there's an obligation to offer prayers. Who doesn't know within the Muslims that alcohol is haram Riba is haram. Gambling is unlawful, Zina adultery, fornication is sinful unlawful. cheating, lying deceiving fraud, unlawful backbiting

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unlawful jealousy unlawful hatred unlawful calling names, no phone numbers will be up soon we'll learn that opinion suspicion and rueful a major sin.

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Joshua's wallet addresses will receive no Quran going and searching out people's faults a major sin haram. These are basic laws of Islam more important than many other issues that sometimes they think are much more important. So this will avoid saying, well, they're coming at me the wrong way. I wouldn't even now remember the two conditions in the aisle before that.

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taco and JSON be happy they love holding on collective collectively to the rope of Allah. I'll tell you one thing that just remember in order for one of the two conditions mentioned before that in order for Darwin to be effective, the poor self rectification practice Islam ownselves and number two, what's number two holding on to connectivity to the rope of Allah and not having this unity? You know why? Because if we have this unity then what happens and this is not my topic but I just mentioned this because it's just remembered what will happen is that will will not be effective and I'll tell you incident you know, England UK United Kingdom Do you know what that is? Yeah, you're

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not used to this thing. But anyway, last time I came out to take this off I never use this but next time I think you know, like send you a long email with all the prerequisites you know, we need a minute to stand here with with one of those but anyway Hamdulillah

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I tell you something, you know, in England, there was a system a few years ago, somebody told me about this she became Muslim.

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She got she converted to Islam and she was interested in Islam as soon as she became Muslim, the people who worked on that gave her some books to read off some shades and everyone else has guff and wishes are better you know, this is wrong. So she started okay after the next day some other people came they came to the visitor some sisters we do those book of should have them go from the house

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this is not Islam so when deceived you give a will take all the books away I came and give their books next day then somebody else came was always this is wrong this guy you need to follow the true Islam the traditional Islam these are the books what they became about four or five times is that this is true story I'm not making this up

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after five six times different things came and give you the different versions of Islam you know she said that this is not something to laugh about she said

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Why bother take all this hassle and she just left Islam altogether

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is different even if she's even if she's Muslim in a different types of Muslim different group at which is better than not being a Muslim? How can you better be Muslim and see if it's fine later on? Maybe you can say okay, this is a better version, or this is what we think to be more correct. No problem, but that's not my topic. Anyway, we shall talk about tomorrow, but these are the two conditions. certification number one number two, hold on collectively to the rope of Allah subhanaw taala with those two conditions of losses water coming to you the roaring lion Yeah, Motorola Moto, for in hold. I mean, mooncup this thing this guy is is in commanding us that we must fulfill this

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obligation to enjoying a good audit a good command that God forbid that evil. Number two another higher. When Allah says that

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woman acts alone, this is in surah such a woman axon, our women in Allah who are made of Saudi Haniwa Allah in any minute Muslimeen

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whatever still has an answer. What is it Fabien letter here asking for is a letter Viva la de Binaca Aveda who deja vu when you and having What does Allah say amazing for this is the whole the whole of Quran is amazing, of course 100 and look into the meetings or what does Allah say here? Woman axon will call a moment that are in Allah. Allah is talking about in the context of mentioning the the characteristics of the Greeks complete believers. These are the good qualities, the attributes to survive, the characteristics of the believers. It says woman accidental power women that are in a law whose speech can be better than the one who use this speech to call and invite with Allah, whose

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speech can be better which means nobody speech can be better. If you say a good word to someone, whether it's lecturing and it's not just speech by mouth you can even write but in any way even any good word any good advice any goodness you have any small let's see how you give Allah says there's nothing better than this in the world woman is an older women that are in Allah, the One who invites to Allah remember it's not just inviting meaning okay Brothers is where you go to non Muslim say you need to be a Muslim today tomorrow right now you know, sit down and of course it's a gradual process, but anything good anything good woman astronaut golden mandala and then what Amina Saudi

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and they do the righteous good things themselves again in this is what Allah is talking about practicing Islam yourself.

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There are no longer I mean aside they have recording in an evening and then what does he say?

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Well that is that we have said that when a senior member of our says what I just said with hesitant want to say yes, he's good and evil cannot be equal and that he says straight after that. What is this the wind has told us to eat far be lucky the sun repelled

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with the most beautiful of ways and manners even if you have to have a discussion or a debate with a non Muslim

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Allah says a lady a person even if it's a non Muslim, your manner your speech your conduct if a Muslim doesn't swear slander, this is the problem sometimes, unfortunately or something big problem. Because we think we are doing good for Islam we think everything's justified.

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It's okay I'm inviting people to Allah doesn't matter. You know, whether it's West London another Muslim, you're this you're this you're Mushrik you're this You're that and then you start swearing at the parents. Um, as soon as the unit connected sometimes the way people argue from different groups, swearing, slandering, vulgar language, I will be done. And because this is Shavon, very tricky, very, very. He is very

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cunning. She had gone before me belief. There is a book in Arabic at the moment when Josie humble is called that you want a book called Tel Aviv is the tricks of sheer power. If you want to save yourself from Japan, we need to understand these tricks. So learn all the tricks, the tricks that he uses. I think it's translating to English.

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But scenario

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Shavon you know, this is a time when he uses because he paints the picture in a good way. So we are committing the sins of backbiting. Jessie's swearing slander every major haram sin that is bigger than anything that we can think of cover. But we don't realize because we think you know what? I'm wanting you for the sake of Allah. Since when did swearing become halal for the sake of Allah? Since when did you know being vulgar in your language we could have for the sake of a god. And we have examples of the messengers of Allah and He will set them so what does Allah say what it has to it has to do with us India is forbidden the accent, what? No God, really loving that the sun. In

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another verse, Allah says, that do not

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debate with the people of the book, Christians and Jews and welcome to Germany in Binetti accent except in the most accent of ways, the greatest always the best of ways. We have. The great example is for the for us zoo, messenger of Allah. So a lot of times when you

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look at this level number

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two, the hustler. The best example for us is

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the messenger of allah sallallahu Gaida.

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Okay, let's look at his example. Just one or two examples.

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The Messenger of Allah Allah He was telling me one of the famous Hadith he says in his idea of a non Muslim and elsewhere, and absolutely authenticated rivers in Saudi Hadith, he says, that the story in which you know once you became obsessed with some of his wives, and then he gave them an option, a choice and ultimatum which then the Quran was mentioned in the Quran, choose to him. So Allah Allah says, Oh choose Dounia when you know over him in controlling the grid, and yet is

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it going to return higher the dunya was here to have a die Lena metalcore knows goodness or Angelina will continue to renumber horizontal, but there are

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good natural halimun to verses in the Quran. So when the messengers of Allah sent him gave these choices, first person, the first wife, he went to Asia, so they follow their mother and the Mother of the Believers woman movement in

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Asia, a Siddiqa to be preceded

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the truthful the daughter the truth, that's

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one of the narrator's whether it's a hadith actually wasn't her nephew. Every time he used to direct Hadith from her,

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he used to say, had definitely said the call to build to say D and Barbara.

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I was informed by the great truthful this daughter of a team full of backgrounds in deca, global annual regarding whom Allah has revealed that whole like regul a page or two in the Quran about chastity,

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about a chastity. So when the messenger salAllahu alayhi wa sallam

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gave her the choice, you know the story? What did she do? She said, the message is that Allah recently she said to her that look, don't make a decision right now. Go and ask your parents speak Mashallah. Ask them if you want to remain in a marriage or you know you want because things were difficult for them. So she said, a week after

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Joy, you know, is this a question? This is something that I need to talk to my parents about, regarding you from last year of Allah. So Allah How do you say, but anyway, she chose the Messenger of Allah when he said it, but she said one thing, please don't inform relate my answer to any of the others if they ask you. So the messenger

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Some of our viewers said no, he said in Namibia but I find even more and later I will tell them but if they asked me I will tell them because Allah has not sent me to put people in difficulty manager

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while I'm trying neither and neither someone who likes you know hardship or difficulty on others what a kidney what I can buy anymore i lemon will sera Allah has sent me as a teacher writing in a diary a teacher will still run who makes things difficult person who makes things easy for people. That's why when the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to send his companions used to tell them yes, so I had to assume that you weren't gonna fiddle. Make things easy for people. Yes, you will have to ask him to make things difficult for people, but she will give glad tidings thou shalt be this is my topic. Although based on the study of Motorola Serbia rugby club in Heckman, two

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things Hekima algorithm has been talking about more than it has an invite towards your load demos we should be with two things. This is the methodology that are many of the things which speak after me will speak about. But these are the two things I want to concentrate on Hekla and more than hasna anyone who wants to do Dawa anyone who wants to take on this job task of Dawa. If they don't have these two important aspects in the devil, it will fail.

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Using wisdom hekman

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icon you need aka you need brave Internet. Anyone doesn't have a brain. There's a time and place for everything. There are times to say things that are times not to say something. There are ways to do doubt often plays a big role if we need to have brains. So that's hegman a number two one more effort and a has a good rule it has to be a bit Hekmati when anything has been good preaching, this is what we see in the life. We must do some alone by yourself good preaching in the signing of a Muslim or I would have been a heck of but the long run. He says one day made me delusional Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he was no brainer that was Sunday Mahara who device and

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Allah said one day we were set to the message we were praying with the rest of us some of our producer in the messaging and you know what happened? How does our Roger Domina called a person

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within the congregation sneezed

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he was missing Do you know

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I can't do it because these things only happens automatically when everybody knows what's easiest.

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I've also Roger luminol on

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this why are we having a hiccup was someone who had recently newly become Muslim he was not aware that you can't talk or converse in Salah This is a Hadith Sahih Muslim

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so he said go to your hamburger I said masala Allah you know when he when he sleeps and hamdulillah the person has to say what you're hunkered down so they said their hamburger

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say something people around me you know they were looking for a medical home we have sorry heavy people started looking at me

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so I said medical mashella will not already also with you guys why look me for one of you gave me all these dirty looks.

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He's carrying on talking in his salary. He didn't know and we was with him looking at me.

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So when I said that they said the horrible idea will be up to him they started us we can do is

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they hit with the hands on the facts.

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Meaning we can talk so he said

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to you some me Tony when I realized that to try to make me quiet. That I just stayed quiet. After that, when I offered so that when the Salah was complete for the masala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam completed his prayer

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look at this example. Good preaching.

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If he was someone like me today,

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or he who was that? Who gave me the most today like stuff that Hola Hola. Hola, David. Do you know how to pray? Has anyone to chant to pray?

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You need to you need to learn how to pray don't come until ask and if you're disturbing everybody, women with children disturbing everybody pretty Katrineholm

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This is not the way of the Messenger of Allah and Allah when he was in a Muslim sisters. He says for what Allah He He said we are being BRB will own me my parents be sacrificed on Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for what Allah He mancha Rani, what many what a shaker many. By Allah. He did not rebuke me. He never said anything better than his mouth. He never hits me. He never. He never swore at me. He wasn't foul mouth nothing. And then he said from our ad to Murray to him and hugged up we're back.

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When Senator Lehmann with whom I have never seen a teacher before him and after him in my life, as a better teacher than the messenger of Boston Volunteer Center, this is an example. We've forgotten all these examples of very sad, very sad, you know, the famous incidents of the tarawih the villager, there was a villager famous hiding behind he was the most way.

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He came to the mercy of the messengers of Allah it said, first of all, when he came to the messenger, the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, what happened was that he he came and he's made a deal out, he made it to Allah Houma come near ne Muhammad.

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Allah just have Rama, mercy on me and Muhammad from Allah peninsula, and nobody else. So the message is from Allah, what is the yoke that I have with Allah, you know, you really

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narrow with the Mercy of Allah, it never became upset. And then after that, in the Quran, domestic humans and studying human aging that are given massive human aging. Imagine this happening in our streets like I don't know here, but even if that happened, all the people were taken the good part is striking when you don't get bruised.

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Kick him out of the Masjid. You know, take him out of the machine when stuff Rula

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he started urinating in the masjid of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in one corner. He wasn't aware he thought you can can do that no problem. So he said some people sign up for Allah you hope will be a sign of him. The Lord of the companions is starting up what is he doing? So the messengers of Allah has given us okay, let us remove don't even rebuking don't say anything in another reminder, let him finish. Let him complete his job that he is doing.

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And the commentators of the Hadith they actually mentioned a couple of reasons why. Number one is that Medical Medium, and if you like my medics here, I know a lot of people and medics medically is harmful for someone to stop someone once a urinating in the midst. Okay, so he actually he was more concerned about his personal health and well being over the masjid being polluted because you can clean that afterwards. And number two, the second reason is that if they start stopping, you might move down, rather than just that part being polluted, the whole area will be polluted. So these are two reasons but he said don't and then he said after that they finish and then just doesn't want me

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money, just take some water and just put it over into the Washington Treaty and pick a fight. And then he said after I finished he called me over but you know, he came to me, you can go to these people didn't mean that I'm a chef. So people have to come to me, okay. The messengers of Allah, I just wanna you know, the example best example for us messenger philosophy was really, there are no protocols, there is no over exaggeration, none of that kind of stuff. Simple, you know, clean hearted human being flush with that all for the sake of Allah for nobody else. He went to him and he said, Look, you know, the inherent misogyny let me show you another

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day or so that you have gotten

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this message must be places of worship houses of Allah flood appropriately that these places are not to unidade This is a place where we need to Quran recited, c'mon, you have a Salah and you make record of Allah. In other words, next time, don't do it not a problem.

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This is the example for us. So this person is well. He said the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never said anything bad to me was he was talking in Salah and the same thing the messenger sallallahu alayhi salam actually told him he went to him and said in a hadith solid and I guess he or she will maintain and Enos in prayer to talk once people are praying is not appropriate. So next time don't talk and this you know in that kind of way method when we do that with with love with affection with Rama with mercy with Marina it has an it has an impact on people's hearts. If we're harsh. What does Allah say in the Quran? Allah says to the messenger of Allah so Allah and you send

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suddenly Mirage Matthew mean Allah He didn't tell them what opened the frog been heard even Albee l'enfant boom in how would IC O Messenger of God or messenger Allah is talking addressing the Messenger of Allah. He said it's because of the rationale of Allah because of my rationalization the messenger SallAllahu sallam, Linda whom

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you are gentle with your companions and the people around you. You are gentle. What a wonderful woman had you been rude? In your vulgar rude in your language rude, you know very, like, strict and rude and very reserved. Some people think being reserved for everybody I want to build up

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I'm practicing now this like I met his brother wants different tents, you know, reserved, you know, reserved and he's like, do you know do you know reserved Come on somebody translating Norwegian.

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Like okay, so thanks and

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So reserved

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whichever he's probably met many of those in his city of Birmingham grief. So fairly reserved.

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Is everything okay brother? No question reserved. Practice.

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You can practice. I never used to practice African practice. Since when was being reserved had anything to do with being a practicing Muslim. Sometimes you think when you're now a pious Muslim, you can't smile anymore. You can't crack a joke anymore. And it's just I've got to think because I'm here in this world. I've got an objective you know, I don't tend to, you know, be you know,

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interact with people in a

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joyful way. So, that's a wrong understanding the messengers of Allah is What does Allah say what a wonderful fun love even if you are rude if you are harsh hearted, learn for two min Holic they will have left in the confines would have left you

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they wouldn't dispersed. But it's because the messengers of Allah when he was sent them was like I said he was not harsh. He was not hard hearted. Look at the Jericho Rasulullah unfussy calm as he's on the human running to hurry soon it will be what we need. For Rahim, this isn't the Quran verse to you as come a messenger from amongst you, is the human from amongst you, has given it to him I run into

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when difficulty befalls you, he finds it difficult.

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How do you soon Alikum is very eager

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will move me in a row for writing. He has run numbers he is very merciful towards the believers.

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And so this is the example we have in the shadow of Obamacare. It is a famous there's quite a few Hadith there's a long Hadith, just a few things about the most recent Allah sins character and when he used to do download the companion, he says this is actually has a neutral ID or the love is that the son of Susan Are you in the body of their loved one and we say gotta Rasulullah is a lover and even then even Bishop, the rest of us and Allah who are using them was always very pleasant.

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Even though you have the thought and the worry of the whole ummah. That's right, another new Iota Watson Xun, which is that he was internally very concerned, because he's thinking about the whole Ummah, but he never showed it on his face.

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You know, if you have a problem, we'll make sure everybody knows that us. Like, you know, I'm tired. I'm tired. This is hurting. You tell me your brother, your sister, your mother, your daughter, your father, your husband, your wife, everybody needs to know you got a problem.

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You know, the best people are those that don't let the loved ones know that they have a problem.

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Seriously, especially husband wife relationship. You know, I know especially Okay, women are more justified because they like all that, you know, potential woman, the husband. But even though in that case, a good wife is someone know many things happen. Don't even let your husband No.

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And the husband as well. You've got difficulties, hardship, working together. Don't bring him on the property and put it all down. Okay, you can discuss it, but some things you can just just tolerate it yourself. This is the messengers of Allah, Allah Salam eternity, he was very worried both. The bishop used to be very pleasant, he would always smile, he would always greet people and pleasantness.

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And then he says, Sir, hello. He was very easygoing, very easy, not difficult person to sort of interact with some people, it's very difficult to get a smile at them so difficult to even have a conversation with someone who's very easygoing. Whoever saw him fall in love with him man. This is actually in the Hadith have done with whoever met him have gone in this row. And he says lay you know, journey. Very soft. Nature very soft by nature laser before he was not rude. Whenever he is not harsh. What are Sahaba used to yell at people do they really knew they existed? This is wrong. This hot opposition. This has been released knew that shallow shout to yellow people, whatever harsh

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was not vulgar in his language, whatever you get up, he was not very critical enough is to criticize people all the time. That's a disease of the some people are being overtly all the time critical. He wasn't critical, whatever that means to exaggerate as well in praising people, yet have often murmuration used to

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overlook intentionally didn't really overlook some faults of people. Sometimes, all the time. You have to of course you see something evil, but sometimes something you didn't like, at that time. It's not the right time to say who just turned out you pretend you didn't even realize something.

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This is how he used to interact with his with his companions or not the Allahu antagonists of winter that he abstained from three things and we are on argumentation

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Should he things that he abstained from all the time for himself, he left. He's taking far away from three things and we're all arguing specially about the, you know, argumentation when it fouled.

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And excessiveness, which most scholars say like excessive talking all the time just talking, talking, talking will matter. Yeah, and even number three is stayed away from the things that don't concern you. Well, Tara can net some interesting and he left others.

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From the left others three things that he left in terms of being connected to others, Canada Illuma had them with me, but he never used to condemn or be critical of anyone, what I improve our job is to go and seek out and look and search for people's faults. And

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what I couldn't have imagined however, we never wish to speak unless in which he had hoped for rewarding for work. And then it goes on. This is the messenger of Allah Allahu Anhu said, Have you ever heard of me my harpoon? When they used to smile? He's respond with them. Sometimes somebody makes a joke. And he said mean funny. Very funny.

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This is not good. This is bad. Even if you didn't find it funny just for your for the sake of your funnel. You don't feel make you feel like bad, but okay, you know how nobody knows. Some of the early humans. They used to say that sometimes some youngest needs to come to me with so much enthusiasm, and come and tell me something. I used to say Oh, really? Subhanallah like I've heard it for the first time. What about Samir Tocopilla, ulan I've actually heard this before he was even born.

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He used to be you know, just imagine you, you

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know, have you heard this?

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I knew this 20 years ago. How bad will you people pretend suppression Allah He the amazing.

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Many of the early scholars refused to do this. These are basic ethical is actually a whole book written on the etiquettes of Islam. One of the chefs of recent times

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from Syria and Saudi Arabia, shahada photographer Darshan mobile wrote a really good book on Islamic actually translated into English it's worthwhile every one on the street. But anyway,

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we might have gotten used to smile laughing them when they used to not get the hijab in my attire Jehan, where they used to show amazement, if to show me isn't. So these are you know the characteristics of the messengers of Allah Allah he was sending in terms of this is a human use these things in his Dawa. I mentioned the story of Daraa and there's another Hadith where America, right where you live this hadith in Bukhari and Muslim both married to this hadith. They said, he says, attain also Allah is Allah Allahu Allah. He was said that when he was Shiva to the moon, we as a group of youngsters came to the messengers of Allah and he said, to learn from him, and he was

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doing Darwin he was teaching teaching is that well, of course, we've done a commendable wish dinner later, we stayed by the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for 20 nights. I said after 20 Nights.

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He says, within that time Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Rahim and Rafi upon, he was extremely merciful. young brothers have come youngsters to learn. He was very gentle. He would have concern in his heart for them. He says after 20 Nights, we missed our families. Some of them are probably married young brothers who just got married, so they're missing the wives. And some of them must be missing the other family members. So he went here if they didn't say anything, they said for them been under punished.

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When he realized he felt he sensed that you know what, we're missing our family. He said,

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he asked us

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He said, he asked us where we left behind in terms of family. So we jumped in. He didn't say no, no, you know, you have to sacrifice for the sake of Allah. You know, you can't you can't stay away from up if you want to do use your family sacrifice, you missing your wife or your man.

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That kind of stuff. He said into God that he can go to your family go back.

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Go back in July illegal.

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Go to the moon, 14 feet, you stay within your family, you miss your family, go back to your family, because your family also have rocks. And then he said I live where you learn teach them more room. Order them was the new camera ecomony was Sunday. And the way I see so we pray pray like that. So look, Amara antimonial Sunday for the header of the salad. When the time of prayer comes for your abdomen coma Hajikko one of you should give a done when you're about to home and the grid the eldest amongst you should be the email. Anyway. This is the way okay, we see this wrong the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the companion What do you say from our angel?

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Or whatever that he would never cut off people when he was talking with them with

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Someone used to speak never cut off the conversation and one of the amazing qualities of the messenger SallAllahu it he was certainly

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gonna up to you could have been a Siva who he would give everyone their share the space he would give attention to every one of his companions. And many components have said this, that we will feel that we all know some system the most beloved to the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you will know new kulula in Mina and happiness, you know, this is actually a sunnah you make every person feel so comfortable, that they think that You are the closest to it's an art and do it for the sake of Allah clubs. Not because you need to do some business with them. Remember, this is a business smile, and is a real classmate, as a business, good character manners, and is real, you

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know, from the heart. This has to be for the sake of Allah. This was amazing quality. That's why what I remember also the love and keeps the messengers of Allah when he said, O Messenger of Allah, who's the most beloved cheat meal, or a MOBA? Because he thought really, it was probably just the to one of the two. Maybe it's him, maybe you're wondering about like, who's the most happiness like, instead of RoboCup said, some amount of course is going to be with me now Daniel, and we said all

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they said, Now, these taught me number three, so mama, then Rockman

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with your mother, and

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she said, after that I just stopped. He said, I just stopped. You want to get more disciplined.

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He would make people so you feel so important that they will feel that the most beloved, the closest person to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. There's a hadith in Bukhari again at the moment about how to relax this Hollywood is a journey of Asahi from Anna Subramanian from the Allahu Anhu it says we will saturate the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the masjid the man came into the masjid on his camera, the type of candle clean you know, like you parked your car into the masjid and he said are you going to Hammond who's the hammer here?

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Who's Muhammadiyah companion Saturday stuffer like you know pulling our share you know this section you can use just

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love that just simple simple life. Or you have the companies that have the one you will have your Luther King, this one with fair complexion who's leaning against the you know, you're leaning against the pillar or something. That's why I'm so you went to him? He said you have been arguing with Buddy also that the you know, from the military, or some of the other side of the mortality.

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So the message

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or the gem to come? I'm here Yes. On the job to kind of hurt. Yeah, here I am. How do you know the words on the job? They said in his den? He said yeah, Mohammed, Mohammed ilesa Iluka who shipped into America. I'm going to ask you some questions. I'm going to be witness to some very, very difficult questions. So I'm just telling you from beforehand validated for it then if enough sick don't think you're bad, but I'm gonna ask you some difficult questions, domestic reasons and cinema but then ask whatever you want to read. I'm gonna take you back. I'm here to answer your questions. This one was sent to me so Allah He was telling us and then he asked him a few questions. He said as

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a Luca Berbick our abdomen public, I'm asking you buy new load, and the load of the people or the profits before you

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hadn't actually embraced Islam? Is an hour

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in advance equally him is Has Allah sent you to all the people to mankind,

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the messengers of Allah Almighty, Allah Who and now Yes By Allah, is it all Oh, Monica and Sofia, saltwater, hums? Has Allah commanded you that we should offer five temporaries said, Allahu Manam. Yes, all love America. And

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Asuma had a shout out for Santa has Allah commanded you that we should fast in this month, this particular month in a year?

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And then he said, Has the Lord commanded you that double the sadaqa that you take to set up a charity that does and spread it on the poor people said Obama Monera. So he said, meant to be my budget to be here from my mouth. I have believed and I believe I have faith in that which you have been good you have come with from last time. And then he says, You know what, I'm going back to my people are Anna rasuluh. We were in. I am actually just a messenger, my child sends me with these questions. So if I came in and asked her like a rough dude, to hear the other person that just came down, you know, and he came down and he asked me to look at the impact we went back with. You know,

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the love the Mercy, the messengers of Allah and Islam showed you he had an impact on his heart. And he says, I'm a Muslim. And I'm going back and I'm going to teach them

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And then he says, the man who moves to another man is the man who became a major Companion of the messenger philosopher Barclays as a hobby. It's a hobby he

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narrated some Hadith, the moment without ever.

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So, this is the that will methodology we said who the only less severe and bigger bit Hekmati will move relative hassle with good preaching with wisdom with good preaching, okay. And this is this is this is very important, very important we use the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as our own model, right, we've seen some examples I cited from the seed of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, with with gentleness Tao has to be done especially in this day and age.

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Right Come on, forget this. He said he wanted one of my teachers I heard from him who had permission is to say that Musa

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Moses Peace be upon me. Everybody knows Musa Islam. Yes. He was sent to do Dawa and fish to do

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that I will. Okay. Him and his brother who Allah says, Allah Allahu Allah Nagin and I level data that can

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go to our to Pharaoh. You know, Pharaoh, is

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his body still there. visit Egypt.

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Still, for human and a Jacob identical he couldn't even have occurred. Still there in the Cairo Museum. Allah said to Musa and hobbled when you go and preach and do damage to to brown.

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What do you have?

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Outland lajunen Say a very soft statement told to you very gently, very softly. The sheriff says nobody you will find today is going to be worse than Pharaoh. Because he used to say another book when

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I read his Lord. Nobody's claiming to be God. Okay, I know you're not going to be better than Musa and Harun if Musa and Harun are better than you. And ferroan is the worst mover is worse than the person who you are making damage to. Yet Allah is saying safe, speak softly, gently, that will leave us today.

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Where's the justification in being a harsh, endow? I'm not saying it's absolutely horrible. There are certain times and cases and certain situations, yes, you can be slightly more strict, especially family members. It's permissible. But I'm talking about in a general sense, for all the love of Poland again. So this is with love with muhabba with Rama with mercy with this is the way this will record more than 200 preaching in the best of ways. And this is why the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said, in other words to us, in other words, to your CD,

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you have been sent we are city to make things easy for people

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you have been sent your job task is what are brothers and sisters to make things easy for people. When I'm Dubai to more city, your job in that role is not to make things hard and difficult for people.

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This is the methodology that the messengers of Allah are using them used and we have the example for us the messages that Allah already said,

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look at even other prophets as well.

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We said Musa How do you can employ him in the Quran, you can read it.

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You know, when he was giving Dawa, to his father, his father is a non Muslim, you have the ability

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to demand that you're smart, whether you're someone or you already have it in your budget. And even in your ability, this unit is the verses the wording used is via other T, oh, my beloved Father, we need to download this is the way the other thing, and this is what he used Ibrahim adding salatu salam, it's a word that shows a lot of compassion, a lot of love, a lot of humility, humbleness. And this takes us to one thing very important brothers sisters, when we do our look, many scholars have said these three things.

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No doubt that has three conditions, these three integral parts are can will be successful. And if you see that your data is not successful, then no and realized that one of these three things is missing. Number one, the data that you're doing, the thing that you're enjoying, and the evil that you're forbidding people from is help

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consent The thing is pop is the correct thing. So Right. So we do Darrow he has to be double off help with number two, the health

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right intention and number three with the help way.

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Are you understanding this

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the demo should be happy should be correct should be not should not be must not be incorrect, you should be happy. Number two, the method sorry number two, with the help intention media wasn't enough so that people call me a big share, so that I traveled to Norway and I give a big speech. And then I come and tell them to go to

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true so I'm going to go through to each other when you have Cambodia to visit troops at this time, I said to bring the communists in, I'm gonna come in at any time, I will only come if you go to the northern parts to see the witness and I'm trying to trying to see this for the past five years, every time I've come to share your opinion, four times and these guys are always keeping promising you are taking note I said this time, if you're not gonna take me I'm not coming back to know.

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So hamdulillah we're going to go to the north north. That's where I've come from, I've really come to deal with this toxic bearish view that we share with the here and we shall have the ramen and many of the local great shoots. I'm just to, you know, just to basically when we say new like chin, and then just relax.

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Nia with the right intention, what's the intention?

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So that people call me a big show a big die or you know, mashallah people respect me while I go, you know, or I'm proud arrogance. If you do that in a way that was never, never, never beneficial. It has to be with this is the basic condition in Alaska near the sea hernia correcting one's intention, the first hadith of most Hadith books in the mandala vignette, actions according to the intentions were in the medical every man or every individual gets receives that he intends. So the Dharma has to be off the right thing.

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Off the happy thing has to be with the help and right intention is lost sincerity. And number three, it has to be in the right correct way.

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Sometimes the download is correct.

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Sometimes you are in your making download of the correct thing, but what's not right intention is not right. The intention is to show off the intention is to what the you know, getting once you get some, you know, very high prestigious place in the community. intention is to show people you know, to show arrogance, so that, you know, yeah, I'm something someone, someone you know, people think I'm something in the community.

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Sometimes the download is the correct thing. The intention is right is what you have in house uncertainty, you're doing it for the sake of Allah. But number three, the third thing, the third aspect, the third condition, which is what to remember.

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What is it?

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The way you will method that's incorrect. It's not with hikmah. And though isn't it hasn't it's not with wisdom, and it's not with good preach? We need all physics, that word of help with Nia which is Sadiq, Khan, and hubco, which is correct. And it's in a way method, which is correct, which is more other than hasn't. So this is why it's very important that the media has to be correct. Remember, when someone makes a Dawa, it doesn't mean we're better than the last The first mistake that someone anyone can make. Think that they are better.

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pride and arrogance isn't a big disease. There's a hadith of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Subhanallah This is really scary. It is the son of a mama Timothy. He says, Man I hear how wisdom being cut third I mean who will be able to have a mother who whoever

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whoever was transmission for 30 knows

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how long these issues

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have been. When I hear a whole

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makes him feel bad.

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Not so classified.

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As to it was

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something easier.

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Addiction is

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built to belittle someone I think yeah to belittle someone and make them you know make them feel guilty because of a sin that they committed which they've repented from but Angel how

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love this person will not die until he does not commit that sin himself. So no for remember 10 million. Allah Hadith and Hassan is the authentic sound Hadith rejected. It said had even hazard you have to be very careful nowadays people think that you might pick up Hadith from your pockets. We don't do that. We say you will

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clearly where there's a hadith in Sahih. Hadith hasn't or it's weak or not, and hundreds of other conditions for these things anyway, so sound Hadith, this is one of the worst sins that anyone can commit,

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to look down upon someone, one of the chefs of the subcontinent to Angola. He used to say that it was a major shift is to say I

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consider every Muslim to be better than me, every believer to be better than me and every non believer to be potentially better than me.

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Because right now this anonymously, I have in mind, but who knows? He can or she can embrace Islam tomorrow and become much better than me and go towards Allah subhanaw taala names agenda before we in no time. So this pride, arrogance, when you do dialogue, like you believe that people look down. i One of my chefs was saying that this normally happens to young people who have just recently come into slough.

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You know, when you've had a past life of past life, meaning in this life, yes. Not past, past, past, past, present, past of the present life. You know, some people have this belief, there's a past life and then people say, What did I do my past life?

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Because you don't believe in that kind of stuff.

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So it is a previous life.

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was interesting, a new practice practicing brother. Yeah, he was he was people who in their previous life as far away from Islam, suddenly they become a gangster, a drug dealer has become a practicing Muslim. Now, you know what, I've become a good Muslim. Everybody is who else is going to the fight of head tomorrow. That's it. Stop from Allah, you become harsh and very, you know, aggressive and rude and foul mouthed and versatile. Every method of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is like thrown in the foot. Because you've you've just come into D, you've got so much passion. Everyone has to change, like you've changed within a split second, you don't realize if it's taken

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you 25 years to change. You want everybody to change in 25 seconds. Because you found the truth that said everything's to change. Everybody's going down. This is haram in this is that, you know, I'd aggressiveness and harshness happens to people like that. And they've become as they were as a gangster on the road. Now in a dynasty in the masjid. Nothing's change. The same character. Dealing with drugs. Now dealing with what people in diversity. You can't pray like this. Your your your Salah is wrong. You know, you're like, you know how I used to deal with being a gangster on the streets with drugs the same way the guy is dealing with people in different ways of instead of

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what's happened, I'm different. So this happens a lot of people. This is Islam says no. When you do Dawa, you think you're a hardy, you're a servant. You're a slave of Allah, you have a job, you do it with a floss, you think that person is better than you, you think that this person has probably this this illness. But he has 99 other better qualities that I don't have. This guy's better than me. I can preach. You know, this person is drinking alcohol. Maybe he's drinking alcohol, but probably he's never backbiting in his life. I was the backbiting 24 times in my life or hundreds of times, which is even probably worse. And he better shut the videos in which is not ideal is the same. But

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it's a severe, severe disease that bites him. It's definitely worse than drinking alcohol. Because drinking alcohol is you're violating the rights of Allah. Allah by writing a lever is worse because you're violating the rights of the creation of Allah. So you think some alcoholic

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drinks alcohol, but you can imagine you he might have never made the leap in his life, or not as much as you do. So we don't we don't become kerucut We don't become this is why it's very important. The way we deal with when we do Dawa is we think that this person

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has it illness. You know, you have in your family your brother sister, mother, father, imagine you know your your father or your brother or sister. It's got an illness or some problem or a headache or in hospital. Do you start looking down looking to go to hospital?

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Do you do that? Imagine someone's become ill

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imagine someone's becoming ill. Do we do that?

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Oh, yeah. Go hospital. Yeah. Look down into your Ilana real

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close to your own wife, your husband, your own father, mother, your family, your relatives, your friends. You have what do we have in our hearts?

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Well, what

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concern, compassion, pity. You think he needs my attention? We make glad for that person.

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And we will offer something I want my brother to be cured with a child best to remedy the situation.

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It's the same with spiritual diseases, anyone involved in anything? Think what? That he has a spiritual illness, just like we don't hate the one with physical illness. This is why they say don't hate the sinner, Hate the sin. And even more than that we Islam, I've been told never to hate a golfer. anyone tells you other than that, completely wrong. This is an agreed upon concept, numerous examples of this in the Messenger of Allah, we do not dislike a non Muslim, we do not dislike a disbeliever we dislike the act of disbelief, but not disbeliever. There's a difference between the two. We don't, we do not dislike a central person. But yes, we have dislike for the city, alcohol

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consumption, we dislike that, but not alcoholic. There's a difference between the two. And it's very important for you to remember this, that there's a difference between the two. So we make dua for them. Someone we think there's a spiritual illness, just like we don't hate someone who's ascription with us, you know, like there's anyone who has any sort of business

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in the same way, is crucial. If this is a spiritual illness, like a physical illness.

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And so this is why it's very important that we make sure when we do we don't have this project does arrogance in our hearts and a feeling of pride and Vainglory. It's a major sin. And if you do that, and if we do that, then I should point out that whether it be no reward because there's no middle class, there's no class there's no reward, there's no reward and that thou will not even be successful and will have no benefit in it as anyway so and then also we have to conceal

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and hide and cover people's thoughts very important

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man cetera our other Fe cetera love lavoro you behold our radical Yeoman they are numerous hundreds, whoever heights whoever conceals, covers up the sins of his fellow Muslim brother or sister. Allah will conceal that person sit on Yeoman piano, every one of us is sinful. We know what we do in private every one of us there's nobody who is not sinful even if somebody says and claims to incorrect claim because the Hadith says global poverty in the world who every son of Adam, that's me Even Adam

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and you as well, but to me

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that means I get this brother wants this video. So what's your name? I said my name is Mohammad.

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I like I like to say I usually will remind you again, my name is Mohammed a

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lot of people you know they do have they they raised this 400 pounds, that is my only name. The second one is so humbling.

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All of us are sent a valid set of two items, my father's name as well as database so that was set up anyway. Man, so whoever comes conceals the false we all have false. This is very important. We have to cover

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if shall serve and you know, to sort of expose, you know, you might see exposing any Muslim is a major illness.

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Major sin mineral Cavalleria it's a sin haram to the greatest degree and level. Listen to this, exposing, go on YouTube. And you see, share this exposed share this expose, expose, expose, expose, expose employees exposed.

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What are the basic laws of Islam? It's a major illness.

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Whoever it covers and conceals the faults of his fellow Muslim brother sister Allah will conceal and cover and hide our faults in the next life. And that hadith says man Akasha for our

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web exposes discloses web exposes and discloses the thoughts of his fellow Muslim brother or sister Kashyapa Waratah who had

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Allah will expose this person until Alolan degree imagine another Hadith and I'm coming to an end and what we know Minerva to make me a believer is

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a mirror to another believer. There's a famous Hadith and what we know about an omen Viva is what a mirror. You know what this means?

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This means we are all

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mirrors to one another. What is the mirror when you look in the mirror? What do you do? What do you see in the mirror?

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Anybody has

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good habit, the habit of looking staring in the mirror for two, three hours a day was added. Okay. Sisters, yeah, they're excused sisters can spend more time it's still not too much time but it'd be more than my brother's

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what happens in the mirror?

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In the mirror? You see your fault? The mirror tells you your fault. This means yes, we don't expose people. But yes, you can point out to the faults, someone's doing something wrong pointed out.

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Not a problem. But what the mirror does not do.

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What does the mirror do? Tell you your fault. But your brother sitting downstairs with a mirror tell your brother as a reflection of something but will not tell your brother your fault. You only tell the person the fault you don't expose you don't tell anybody else. This is the meaning of a moment in the attunement. So anyway, these are basic basic methodologies. Just the whole house and the summary. Yeah. And he turned away. So you need to tell me no, no. In England you get I mean, we just carry on. We've talked about you know some environments.

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So, this is a sample, the idea is Boudreau, it has a video on becoming Hekmati will move around that it has an invite towards your Lord preach every one of us provinces we have a duty made and human everyone to a certain degree lesser degree more degree. And this notion of the human will explain in terms of the obligation and how much level of degree of obligation we have the rules. But we all have to do data in some way shape or form. At least we have to do mineralium comun current for a year will be at the tax like basic obligation for everyone. If you see some evil, you have to change it if if the evil is happening in front of you. Your fellow Muslim brother is not offering Salah in

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front of you in front of your eyes. You have to download that's a personal aim for everybody. So, the method is this beautiful I have been Hekmati with more with it. It has two things mentioned wisdom and good preaching. Do it with a concern in the heart have Rama and Scheffer you know mercy concern, compassionate heart for people with the right intention only to please Allah, not for any worldly motive objective, not to gain money not to make you know houses not to build you know buildings and buy cars, not to accumulate wealth not for popularity, not for any of that is now sincerity for the sake of Allah. If we do our Darwin I guess, and with with this Margarita castle

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and Heckman heckler, it's very important to maybe speak about hikma wisdom using attend and brain very important, somebody doesn't use that, then you can actually bring more harm than benefit. You were not supposed to say certain things are for certain Hydros case, when someone left Islam, you know, sometimes someone in the midst of a sin and you tell them you're wrong and they're actually what swear as Allah, he responded, No, no. So there are times someone's angry in the midst of something and then you try to teach them that code of conduct a condom. So there are times is when we could recommend Hekima wisdom, very important and I will end with this you know, this is one you

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have to use your brains. It was this young person this hadith in the Muslim environment. 100 again, sound this person came young persecuting the messenger Salallahu Salam and you know what he said he also Allah individually the sinner

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or messenger of Allah give me permission. I want to commit to them.

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You mentioned an email or a chef today the answer comes chef Tango coming sooner with our system.

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Amen increasing Stavroula the hello we call it or are you crazy? Are you talking to you about Xena domestic?

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One of the wrestlers

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he said coming in he said to her boo you will Nick

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would you like someone Commission's you know your mother lauhala Hirasawa? Of course not. Obviously, you see one another so you should put a new enemy and the others don't even like someone competing with you know with their money

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that he said to him boo the building? Would you like someone to continue with the daughter?

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So no, of course not. I say well, and so you should put any Bennati nobody likes people coming to dinner with a notice to hate boohoo Lee unmagic Do you like do you want to do would you like someone committing Zina with your auntie with your paternal line to the maternal aunt to know others don't make sense.

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So he realized, Oh, yes, yes, yes, no. This is rather than coding all the verses of the Quran. There are times and places that are said in order Quran Allah is going to punish you. You can see that you're going straight down the fighter hallelujah massive snake that's gonna bite

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I'm sure none of that. There are times ways Hikmah logic.

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This is using ACHEMA the way he explained to him and he understood yes is true yes if you think that way, any woman that I consider we will either be someone's mother, someone's daughter, someone's sister someone's aunt, maternal aunt, or someone's pretending not just like I don't want a man just random guy with some guy committing Zina with my sister or my daughter or my mother or my sister. Nobody else would like to see. So he stood and then the message is I love it, you send them he placed his hands solderable on his chest. And he said Allah Moffitt of them bubble. What the hell condone what has seen for a gentleman, or God forgiveness and purify his heart by Him alone, or has

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seen by Jehovah and protect, preserve his modesty.

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He never mentioned all these great white elites and all of that. And this person actually, they said, after he said himself, that after this incident, the fault of Xena never even crossed my heart ever in my life.

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This is hikma. Anyway, I'm gonna end this because we need to give more time to OSHA

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but inshallah some of these things Pigma and more Hassan a very important we keep those few things in our mind and inshallah try to act upon these things, then we will see a good benefit a good good, you know, difference in our communities. This was the way of the prophets, the prophets are descended on this, the prophets never if people if you remember, Dawa will, isn't just one point, Darrell, in order to give Galilee will go undergoing a lot of hardships and difficulties as well. That's a given. That's one of the things is some of you have to maybe you should talk about that you have some hardship, yes, we will talk about it. But this is all is this. If you want positive

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results, there is no doubt that is successful, except that you have to go through difficulties and hardships. That's if you don't have the hardship. So everything's like we say in England, hunky dory, everything's relaxed, no problems, then realize there's something wrong.

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You have to go through hardship. There'll be opposition, there'll be name calling, and to respond

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to that, never to respond with an equal wave of you know, of bad manners. That's not the way of the prophets. The prophets will call all sorts of names. Look at the Messenger of Allah Allah. Allah says in the Quran about the prophets they used to say to live in Nana narangba visa, or endeavor nirvana. Cabanel. Caribbean, we see You are foolish within your alliance, we most likely think you are on the Dyess that's what they used to say to the prophets. You know what the prophet is to say, this say, Iago me, please, if you suffer that in the Rasul Allah, we know I'm not really foolish. I'm just to know the messenger from a prophet. This is how they will respond.

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They will not respond with like, you know,

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swear and slandering with two evils. Two wrongs don't make up. You know, the same two wrongs don't make up. Come on. Guys come on Univision, people, two wrongs don't make a right. So someone's acting in a bad way. We don't act in that way. We do it for the sake of Allah and make dua Allah will bring about inshallah benefits. There was this one chef chef Sama, he dangled love in the subcontinent. Once he was giving a talk. And right in the middle of his talk, somebody said, chef in the joumana, 1000s of people, and he said, chef, I have heard that you're an illegitimate child.

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1000s of people do more harm than the ones your mom and dad, you know, the Clinton center.

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You mentioned happening to any one of us in

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Tokyo, what would happen to you, like you might just tolerate and to Sabra just walk away. But, you know, the door that people like here, if we're just gonna grab that person, you know, this probably beat him or something. How can we say that about our show? So people can actually say, no, no, everybody sit down, sit down, sit down. This is a scalable piece of content. Nobody says it. So he has a brother to answer your question.

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Well, you've heard is actually factually wrong.

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My mother and father were actually married. And there's a very old man who still lives alive. He was one of the witnesses if you want to, I can get you to confirm that they were married. So anyway, we're gonna end with that inshallah. So just listening and working stuff here from California. First of all, Bob said we're gonna send them out as he admitted that he was having second

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