Why You Still Didn’t Wake Up

Muhammad Hoblos


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what's up

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rasulillah we praise him suppiler with Allah, the king, the master, the Sustainer, the creator of the seven heavens and the earth, and we send peace and blessings upon His Beloved Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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My brothers and sisters, I just want to make something clear before I start,

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not for anything personal. But just to let you know, handle, I've been invited by the brothers that one woman.

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I accepted the invitation my last month, I'll reward them, because they've been fantastic online. It's been an honor being in this country. Today is my last night I'll be going to Scotland tomorrow. And I'll be leaving from there.

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But I just want to let you know that I don't get paid to be.

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I'm not making money out of this. I am charged for this stuff.

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These are principles that I've been taught. And I believe that this is how our Dean was always established. And this is how it should continue. Now, I'm not going to have a go at does that charge money that's between them and the last part of the charge to be, I do this for free. I've given up my time, my family, my children, my business, I've given up everything to be for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala will love you will love you only for his pleasure. And for the love that I've been getting from the brothers from the UK.

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And the reason why I mentioned this is because I don't want anyone by any means to think that I jumped on an airplane for 30 hours to come here and insult you in any way shape or form.

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I mean, purely for our last panel policy.

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I mean, because I wasted years of my life, years of my life I wasted thinking that I was on the right path.

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And I need to realize that I wasn't

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my brother's the problem with the soma are many. And the trials and the tribulations you can see wherever you go, you see it.

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I'm not here tonight to lecture anyone. Well, I need to have a serious, genuine, sincere heart to heart conversation with

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you know, my brothers, I'm sure most of you by now have come to realize. I like to be straight. I don't like to sugarcoat things. I don't want to put salt and pepper. And I'm not a very politically correct person.

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Not because I intend to be rude. No, it's just the way I am.

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call a spade a spade and then call it a big spoon. It's a spade.

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And unfortunately, when we were so caught up with being politically correct, that we've diluted the message.

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People are lost, no one knows anymore.

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The problems with the soma are many, and I'm sure if I was to go around and ask the boys, and who told me what do you think the problem with this woman is? I'm sure I'm sure I'll have over 100 different opinions.

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But I can promise you

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the bidding is heroin. But I'll bet my bottom dollar there are all of these excuses that we will come up with. Not a single person will say that the problem with this woman is me.

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It's anyone in everyone's fault except mine.

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The problem with this other machine emails, the speakers are leaders, the Arabs, Western countries. It's everyone's fault, except mine.

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You know, my brothers, they used to be a time, unfortunately, a time that I missed in my life. But there used to be a time when people were straight and honest. And things were clearly people didn't beat around the bush. Things were unknown. I'll give you an example.

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There used to be a time when if someone was fair, yeah, I said the word fair that I would say the width piece is big boat. Whatever makes you

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I'm fat. I'm fat. I don't run away from the issue. I know it. But if you ask me, by the way, you so fat man.

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I will come up with 1,000,001 excuses. And not one of them will be because of me and my own actions.

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I'm fat because he runs in the family. I'm fat because when I was young, my mom

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I'm fat because when I got married I used to this and then the other and the laws and you understand our Pakistani. They slept through them. And this, that and the other. Every single excuse will come up. But God forbid

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God forbid that I should

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was nice, because I do the wrong thing.

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And it used to be a time when people didn't talk. There wasn't, you know, it's not like some philosophy who would you know, be pleased to sit down and talk about, you know what I really wonder why he's fat. People knew why he is fat. He eats too much. He doesn't exercise he eats at the wrong times, everyone who was fat.

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It wasn't some time we talk. It's all the theory. And you know what, no one does it. Maybe it's system that What are you? Why do we beat around the bush fall?

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You know, it's like the men that went to the locker and obese men went to the doctor.

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They said they only went for an ordinary check a blood test and the results came back the system but let me tell you, man, obesity runs in my family.

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So doctor system, brother, it's not the obesity that runs in your family. No one runs in your family.

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Because it runs in my family

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knows too much.

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And what's more than these is that they used to be a time when the solution for being because people get a bit touchy. So let's just stick with the word obese, and sit down.

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But there used to be someone was obese. The solution to lose weight was also something nobody used to talk about. People didn't argue, if you want to lose weight, you eat right, and you start exercising, and you break a sweat, and it takes a long time.

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But today, you know, today I refuse to accept. Because no one likes the truth. No one likes to admit the fact that it takes hard work to establish anything in your life, it takes hard work. No, we don't want to admit that.

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The world is keeping itself so busy, and so occupied with solutions to lose weight. There's B shapes. There's the solution. There's this diet, you know, if you go on this drive, this can help you people, operations on their stomachs. They're cutting their stomachs, they're putting rubber bands, they're coming up with a million, it's a million solutions to lose weight. And yes, while they're working, there are shortcuts. But there are major, major side effects that you cannot run away from.

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The solution for your change is nothing more than artwork.

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LD was established on hard work. Don't think for a second, that the profit of the law would allow. Don't think for a second that the loss of Allah will allow the companions to struggle and struggle and struggle to reach the status that they reached and allow you alive was so corrupted and so far

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to just enter Paradise by watching a seven minute video on Facebook

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doesn't work like that.

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And when you take these quick fix solutions, it's not the same

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example of steroids in this country because they're massive in Australia.

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Yes. steroids.

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You get eventually to walks into the gym, looks at these big muscle heads and says you know what, I want to get big and I want to get Be quick.

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Used to be upon where if you want to get beat the solution was you pick up Brian, you put them onto the bench and you start pumping iron and you go there again and again and again. And it built core strength. And you won't be today Ottawa core strength. I don't want to go through the hard yards. I just want to get b and b now.

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Drive Thru. That's what we want. We want to drive through the

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Is there a machine that I can just quickly drive through 510 minutes I walk away and all of a sudden I'm abubaker and

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that's what we want.

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That's what we want. We want drive through the we want drive through solutions.

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And when you look at a man that's on steroids, you know and this is what kills me. Yeah. You know, it's one thing to take steroids. But the problem lies not long steroids Wait, wait.

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Last week it was offensive on if a strong week picked him up. You'll have to pick him off the floor.

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muscles on he's he's

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he's got people's and marks all over it. All the effects. All the signs of steroids are all over him.

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He wants to convince me that he got big because he's eating potato salad.

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That's what we're doing.

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And that's what we're doing the state of the summer. The problem with the summer. The problem is,

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is you when

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you annoy

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we made this summer.

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And the way that you and I are living our lives is having an effect on this.

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Everywhere I go, and faced with Muslims, who are the best people I know, I know every person in this room is a beautiful soul who has a great car. And I'm not sugarcoating this. Well, I believe in the depths of my heart, that every person in this room is a beautiful person with a big heart and means Whoa.

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That's why I flew all the way over.

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But that's not enough.

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My brothers and my sisters, every one of you is valuable. Every one of you is important.

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Don't get caught up in the fact that we're large in number.

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It's not quantity that I was looking for. Its quality.

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Its quality.

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My brother and my sister what you do and how you live your life. It's important.

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What are you doing with your life? Again? You know, I'm being honest with you. Really? You know, I'm not. I'm not here to give you Disney stories and Twinkle, twinkle little star. Let's just all take photos outside and call it a day. And everyone goes home and jumps on Facebook. I think that's the the best time of my life. for that.

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What are you doing with your life?

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Where are you know how much more time we waste?

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Let me cut straight to the chase Allah subhanaw taala says, very, very clean. We did not create Jim and the human being, except for one reason. And one reason only. You know, so many of us. We struggle so much with this. So what are you trying to say to me, brother? What are you telling me this than the other one? This is an important? Yeah, it's not about what you and I think you are a slave. And when you're a slave, you didn't have an opinion.

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You see the day that you said La ilaha illAllah. And let me assure you, everyone in this room, being a Muslim is the choice that you make. None of you are forced to be Muslims.

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None of you

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choose to be a Muslim. You see, I chose Islam. Even though I was born Muslim. I was born Muslim, and raised as a Muslim. But what Islam it was nonsense. It was rubbish.

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And things didn't change until I woke up and I decided, hey, I need to pass the movement. This is my Dean, I want to change for me.

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My life is passing me by. Most of us don't even know why we're here.

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We're living a life. And we're live with all respect to everyone. We live a life that's closer to the lives of animals than a human being. We wake up in the morning, same thing every day, it's Groundhog Day, every day. That was this way I'm alive to do what everyone else does.

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And the only time you're special and the only time you shine is when you head back in your shoes are a little bit different than the next one.

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Is this

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is this my wife

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almost says we did not create you except to worship except for my brothers and my sisters. That's why I created you.

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Know, it's amazing. A lot makes things easy. And we insist on making it difficult.

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Allah says my slave, I created you to worship me. I don't care my slave. I don't care what car you drive. I don't care what brand you weigh.

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I don't care how big your house is my slave. I don't care. These things don't faze me, my slave. All that I worry about is you and your relationship with me. And we say no, no, no, no. Everything else is more important to me in my in your relationship.

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It's amazing. Allah says I created you for my bed.

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What's up my slammer will take care of all of your events.

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establish your prayers, and I will look after your risk and your sustenance. And he say Allah, with your relationship with God, I want to work, I want to dress I want to go, I want to buy, it's about me.

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And then when things don't go your way, Oh,

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amazing, amazing.

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Looking for love in all the wrong places.

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In all the wrong places, each with a low.

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Because of my deal, I can't expose my past, you know, I really wish I could, but I can't. I'm restricted by my

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freedom. And I pray that I've tried that I faced

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any drug any woman, any car, any car, I was there, I was seeing him. And when I was 20, I was driving cars, you look at the magazines, and I was editing was empty, going and coming and watches and girls and girls and women, but then what they want what happens after that?

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Him and trying to please her and trying to fit in and trying to fit in there.

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When all along a lot of slowly me, my family.

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My brothers and my sisters, you are valuable man. And the Lord loves you more than the world tells you.

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A lot loves you. You have no idea how much he loves you. And the law says I care about this than the other.

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I mean, he mentioned he imagined when he mentioned you know people try to tell me that as Muslims, we oppress that women. Look at the way you treat them. And look at the women as the cover up and look at well Wow. Wow, amazing.

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We oppress our women.

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You women are working 24 hours of the day. Fashion is changing every single day. It's red. Tomorrow, it's black. That the day after the day after that. Now the hair is out there, the hair is down. There is this in the middle of what she does. She never fits in. It's never enough

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pressure women living in a world The more she is then the more accepted that she is a law says

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the more you are the way I created you. That's the way I love you the most

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almost is done even pluck your eyebrows. Because I created your eyebrows. And I love you the way I fashioned us exactly how I wanted it

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Now they're completely off and it's drawn with a pen.

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I know you're laughing but because they're trying to find the right shape. And she hasn't found it yet.

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And the last watching Good

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thinking my slave

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Do you think you can do a better job than the one it

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almost is I created you for worship.

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I created you to worship me my slave.

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And you know,

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people feed me this. You know this look hamdulillah I'm praying you know, I didn't pray. But in my heart, I'm a good person, man. I'm nice and polite. I'm good to my friend. I think you're right. That's nice.

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But that's not what Allah created you for.

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I mean, it's good. They do good things. That's a good thing. That's nice. But that's all Allah created before.

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Yeah, maybe I'm not the best Muslim brother. Let me tell you how many millions of pounds is in my bank account. Let me tell you what I've established. Let me show you the hard drive. I think you got in

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my system. This this is not what you hear.

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My brothers and sisters we are different.

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Muslims know their life in this world is very short. You're going you're leaving you're not staying behind.

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Today you're young and you're beautiful. Tomorrow you're old and no one looks at you anymore.

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The day after that you're gone. You're nothing but a memory

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this claim of our brand

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But you know,

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it doesn't cut the mustard seed. I'll give you an example. I'll give you an example.

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Let's say one of you has a factory. And you advertise in this factory that you need a worker.

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You've advertised that you need a worker, you need someone in the you know, whatever in the warehouse. Someone comes into you, he comes into the factory, and you say to this person, whatever it is young man, young woman, he tells him, Look, let me be very clear with you. The factory is working and operating very well. My business is in tip top condition.

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Don't worry about the office. Don't worry about the landscaping. Don't worry about the building. Don't worry about internal affairs. Don't worry about nothing. My business is operating like clockwork. The only reason why I'm hiring you

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is I need you to move the boxes from Section A intersection B.

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I mean, is the job description clear is any confusion in why you're being hired. And some is any confusion. or making it clear don't get caught up in anything. young brother and sister.

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Business I'm running very well. All that I need from you please just move the boxes from Section A for me. And please can you just put them in Section B? That's all I want from me. And I'll tell you at the end of the week, well, I will.

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So your

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boss isn't there.

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You can see the boxes in Section A you see that section B's empty.

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And he said he sophina what before I start let me go upstairs to the kitchen and I'll make myself a cup of tea. So you go upstairs, you make yourself a cup of tea then you look at the condition of the kitchen Simon This is disgusting. And these people even live like this.

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So you say you know what? I'm gonna need some brownie points. I'm gonna clean up the kitchen man.

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So you start cleaning up the kitchen and you do a fantastic job. And then you look at the company say this place is filthy. You pull out the license and you start vacuuming. Then you make your way downstairs, you see that the trucks and the vans, they're all over the place the lorries everywhere. So you start organizing things, then you started cleaning the driveway. Then he started mowing the lawn, then he started doing the landscape, you did the most phenomenal work, the most amazing things you did in that place. You went all over the joint except move the boxes from section to section B.

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You did everything I asked you not to do.

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Then you come to me at the end of the week and you have the audacity to ask me for a wage.

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Would you pay it?

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Would you pay

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fines for the lawn fence for the carpet, or things for the kitchen?

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But I didn't ask for that.

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He did everything except what I told you to do.

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Every one of us is living this amazing life. I'm sure you're living an amazing life and you've got amazing dreams. But you're doing anything and everything except that which

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then you have the audacity to sit down and think and believe that you'll know the paradise based on what

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based on what my brothers and my sisters

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we've become most we become confused.

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We no longer know how to put things in priority.

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You know, I've got beautiful young brothers and sisters beautiful souls. I know that they believe, you know, this is me personally, I don't know how you guys feel. But for me, I genuinely believe that my even the murderer, even a murderer. If he's a genuine Muslim, I believe deep down in the depths of his heart. There is a beautiful soul waiting to come in. That's just me.

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I don't believe that anyone is completely wicked. Yes, we're partially wicked, that you know, there's problems in the person's life. Yes. But if you're going to try and convince me that any person

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that is completely wicked are unbelievers.

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There's always somewhere in there.

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There's always somewhere

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but will become lost. We all know we no longer know how to value things. I'll give you an example. How many of us, how many of us

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we've been given everything by Allah. We live in beautiful homes. Maybe you think it's a beautiful home, but go outside and see what's happening around the world. Maybe then you will appreciate the home that you live in.

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He's been given everything. We're still on grateful. We're still appreciative

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You know what I find amazing?

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Almost. Allah asks, oh my slave, establish your prayer. I want you to pray five times a day for me.

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How many of us don't pray?

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And I'm sure you have a beautiful reason.

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How many of us don't pray

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amazing numbers.

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Amazing numbers of people who don't pray and know by no means it's our job to judge anyone. Again, don't don't don't think I'm here to push an aunt and you're not sitting in judgment or on the filthiest person in this room, and we're not being humble in any way shape, or form. I know my sins and I know my past.

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But I look at

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the brain. Nah, man, look, I know I'm supposed to be praying. But I'm busy man.

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My sister my brother, you're so busy. You don't have 20 minutes in your day to pray your five breaths.

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Do you know how bad and severe it is? to miss one Salah? Does anyone know how bad it is? You know, today you and I think they look how the laser beautiful guy he just doesn't pray.

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In a religiously, he's the filthiest of people.

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But I think through the logic of Dean, we think through the logic of people. No, no, no. She's the best person in the world. Lovely. So very polite, very caring. Everything about her is 100%. It just happens to be she just as a little problem. She doesn't pray.

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You know, he's among the one that doesn't break.

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You know what, they become straight to the chase. Let me ask you something.

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Do you think murder is a bad thing?

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It's not a trick question. Murder is a bad thing.

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Think rape is an evil thing.

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What about being a pedophile? You think that's awful? I think that's the most disgusting thing in the world. All major sins, or major sins? What am I drinking alcohol for you about drugs.

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One more he my brothers and my sisters. Please listen attentively.

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You could be the biggest murderer in the world. You could be the filthiest rapist in the world. You could be someone who the bottle of alcohol never leaves his head. You could commit the filthiest of sins. You could do the most extreme and the most bizarre of things. And by no means am I promoting you to do any of them. But you could be the absolute filthiest of things. You could do all of this.

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All of these scenes.

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All of the scenes pulled together are easier. They are lighter in the eyes of our love and for anyone to miss one solid.

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Did you know that

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for you to be small Salah is worse in your eyes, than any one of you can be all our sins put together.

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Man what

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was our understandings? We lost?

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Your understandings we lost.

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This is the

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I just don't remember the What are you talking about? Do you know what it means to love? Pray? Do you know what that means?

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I see young guys getting married. Sisters. How could you possibly accept the man that doesn't pray?

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Don't come to me is later crying telling me he's cheating on you.

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If this man has the audacity to turn his back on, what point do you have?

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Or did you get caught up with the BMW that came into the driveway?

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Seriously, my brothers and my sisters I'm speaking to you seriously.

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Do not pray.

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And I ask you why sincerely Please tell me why is it that you don't pray? Please just tell me something

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ever did ever once let you down

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has ever failed you.

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He created you from nothing. You will nothing you will repeat

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There was a time you weren't even a piece of sperm. Then from a piece of sperm, he allowed you to enter the womb of your mother. In three layers of darkness. He designed you, he fashion you, he sustained you for nine months in the womb of your mother, who taught you to swim in the womb of your mother? Where was your money? Then? Where was your business? Then? Where was your garden? Where was your girlfriend? My young brother? Where was your girlfriend day?

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My sister, the guy that swept you out on Facebook? Where was he then when you were swimming in the womb of your mother?

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Who was feeding the day?

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for nine months, he never failed. The ones never

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allowed the impossible to be possible. He allowed something like this to come out of this.

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angels came down wings was spread your

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depth. And you came into this world and a law allowed it to be?

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With what? With what?

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My brother or sister? What is it that's distracting you from a law?

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Where was this distraction? Where was it back then

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you will live you are helpless. You will

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allow the blanket to cover you.

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He gave you a mother that breastfed you.

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Breast milk, with all the technology and all their money and all their science and all they know how they still, they still all together, they still cannot produce a formula that is even half as good as the milk that are not put in the breast of your mother.

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In summer, he made a coup. In winter, he made a war we will use in

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your hands, but she couldn't grab your drinks. But she couldn't walk. And he was there for you every day.

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He was there for you every night. He never failed you.

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He allows you to walk. He allows you to talk. He allows you to grab things. He allows you to learn. Nothing allows you to learn. He started calculating, he started to differentiate between right and wrong and this and that.

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And now

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now my brother and my sister, because you can walk on your own, and you can put a sandwich together and you can feed this a form on your own. Now you don't need the law.

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Now you're too busy for law.

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Or enough time to pray.

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What do you have time for my brother? My sister?

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How can you?

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Yo you gave me so much? What's your what's your asking for five praise?

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is this so hard? Is this so difficult for you?

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I'm not asking you to become a chef.

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I'm not asking you to wear a turban. I'm not asking you to do. I'm just asking you to pray.

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You know, imagine imagine one of you. You know seriously seriously imagine one of you. You have a child. And this child comes into this world. And he has nothing and you work so hard. And you protect this child and you close this child and you feed this child and you're there for this trial all his life and you watch him grow and you watch him become a young men and young woman. And then one day just once you come to your child and you say oh my child please do you think you can help me out? Your child turns around says Get away from me man I'm too busy work.

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How would you feel?

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How would you feel?

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How was the last few when the time for Salah enters.

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And yes, I know you're not saying around the town.

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You're saying the selections y'all. I'm busy.

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I'm busy a lot.

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My brothers and my sisters.

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So much time we are wasting one more. What are you alone? You know, I'm running out of time.

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Please, Please, I'm begging you. Honestly, I'm begging you. Don't waste your life. You know, I didn't benefit from this. Like I said, I didn't get paid to be here. I'm not asking you for fame. I'm not asking you to keep asking for anything pleased for you for your site. I want you to change. I'm telling you I've been around the world I've tried the only happiness you will have

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Have it's with a law.

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It's not a joke.

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The whole amount of the pastor is to say, Boy, if the kings of the world if they knew what we possessed in our hearts when it comes to the relationship with a law, they would fight us with their souls.

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Look, how many celebrities are committing suicide?

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Why? They have everything you and I are running for. We want fame and status. We want cars we want women, they have

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a kingdom themselves. Why?

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this endless man.

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There's something missing in my heart.

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Allah, Allah says in Quran, Allah, Allah, verily, the remembrance of Allah.

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What does the heart for?

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losses, the heart points risk?

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I won't even say happiness. You know why? Because if Allah said happiness, I'll be the first to stand up and say, you know, if I'm lost in happiness, I would argue that

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because people try to tell me that money doesn't bring happiness. Give me a million pounds or put a smile on your face like you've never seen before.

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Let's be real man.

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People told me girls don't bring happiness. Come on, man. I don't know where you're going now. But you should come to Sydney. I'll take you to the right places.

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People try to tell me that drugs don't bring happiness. I love what you're smoking, but it's obviously not good enough.

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Yeah, they bring happiness.

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But that'll bring peace to your heart.

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Look, you're sitting here now.

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Listening about Allah subhanaw taala for a half an hour.

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He didn't take a drug. You didn't pay a single dollar? You didn't have to stand in front of a single camera. But I am sure with no doubt in my mind that there's a feeling in your heart right now. You feel like one life I live right now. I'll be the happiest person in the world.

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Half an hour.

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Half an hour. Imagine you spent a day like this. Imagine you spent a week like this

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This is dealing.

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This is dealing

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with become lost. We've become confused.

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And I understand we're trying to fill in in a rough flow. I understand. I understand.

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You know people attack all the time. Look at these sisters man. They were in a job that's half a job and half range.

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Now Yeah, I know it's wrong. But hey, Alicia, she's off for a day.

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And you know what? I can see it it's in a hurry. She obviously wants to do it but she wants to fit in.

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We live in a tough world

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we have an identity crisis.

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But my sister I'm telling you you will only find happiness with a law

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police or law and the law will make everything else around you happy

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but you try to please the people around you my sister Trust me. Trust me. You're wasting your time.

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My sisters please.

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You are valuable to this Dean.

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I know that us men have a lot of shortcomings towards the sisters. Seriously we do

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you know brothers brothers always told me how am I making excuses for the girls trust me Your time is coming up.

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I'm not making excuses for them. But brothers told me all the time. Look at the way they dress the way they talk the way they act.

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You know why they act like that? Because

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now I'm gonna justify that but the truth is she knows that she will knock on her door and asked her for marriage if she doesn't do that. Because every time your

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travel be real with me man.

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When was the last time any father sincerely. When was the last time any father sent his daughter down? He said well you know what?

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beautiful woman in the world.

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Our relationship with our daughters do we

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I'm a man's man.

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make us feel special. If you don't make a few beautiful if you don't make a few value,

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there's 100,000 people that would love to take your daughter out.

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When was the last time you set your daughter down? And said to you know, what have you been?

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When you get to the right age? One way, I'm gonna find you the greatest husband in the world.

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handbrakes what you want me to find their husband?

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whose job is that? You don't see us as filthy culture.

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We think we will understand the culture.

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Our traditions and our culture of Pakistan in Lebanon in India. It's killing us. It's

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30 years old, the 35 sitting at home and married. And her father and her husband, sir, the fall and her brothers walking around like everything's okay. We waiting for someone to knock on the wall.

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What do you think she's a virus piece of furniture. That's a human being. She has rights. She has the right to feel she has the right to be with a man. She has the right to have children. She has the right to have a family.

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But you're so preconditioned by your filthy culture.

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That women go out and find husbands No, we wait for them to

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come to me crying when Michael and john happened to live with your daughter.

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Seriously, we've made marriage impossible. It is impossible to get married.

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or impossible.

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going to share with you guys man seriously.

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But my sister all of these things don't change

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doesn't change the fact that you live for a law for your father your husband and children uniform law my sister

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Your Honor, your dignity should be your absolute number one priority

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Don't worry about how these men seem worried about how a Muslim

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you know Forgive me you know I walked through the walkout

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and I smell so many fragrances from the sister side.

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Again, you know again it's just it's our direction man. We are so so lost. You know my sister and I say this with love. Because I know you may know

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my sister did you know that when any one of you sprays on a fragrance and leaves her house?

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Every man that smells your fragrance the Prophet of Allah says you fall in the sin of Xena with that man?

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Is that worth it for you, my sister?

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How many of our women spray perfume on day and night?

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Anyway, I can talk on about let's bring it back here.

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We need the

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we need a law

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and I'm not asking anyone to become a scholar. I'm just asking you to make a move in the right direction.

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Allah says my slave when you come to me a hand spell I come to you anonymously.

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Allah says my slave when you come to me walking I come to you running

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along says my slave when you remember me

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I remember you.

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Allah says my slave when you forget me

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I still remember you I never forget

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Is this a lot not worthy of our worship?

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Is this alone not worthy of my attention?

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So what are we asking for simple things basic things I'm asking you to get closer for those of you who don't pray establish you pray for those of you who solidly look I pray but it's off and on makeup permanently on

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for those of you who took a look at him like pray my five prayers, but they're not at the right time. Yeah, he's my brother, my sister. They make it at the right time.

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My sister if you wear the scarf, but it's a half one, shall I make the intention to make a form

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and if you don't wear the scarf at all, well, then just an intention doesn't cost you anything sincerely with your heart. askable you're gonna make it easy for me to wear it.

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We need to change we need to move, you're wasting your life. This is in need of every one of you were in need, we're dying. We need every one of you.

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You are important.

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So inshallah, because another amount of time, you really need to wrap up, what I'm doing has to be

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nine o'clock. Give me two minutes, please. Because I don't like to waste. I want to use some intentions from the brothers.

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I want to use some intentions. Otherwise, really, what have we done, we say, Hey, we heard a nice talk, we got a little bit emotional, then we walk outside and so nothing ever happened. me know, I want to use some intentions. And let me tell you why I'm at some endangered, because what happens to us is I'm sure every one of you is moved one way or another. Every one of you now he's feeling maybe a little bit positive, and I want to make a move. But what tends to happen is now shavon is waiting for you outside, or he's gonna jump on you. As soon as you walk out. Come, come come. Did you get caught up with this big fat black? And what he's saying, Come Come see me. Let me talk to you for a

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So we need to start making intentions what sort of intentions realistic ones. Realistic ones? Don't see. He told me you know what brother, as of today, I'm going to start reading 30 pages of crap every single day. Let me tell you now you're ready to sit down, relax.

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No small and steady wins the race, come up with a realistic target. I'd rather you told me you know what, I'm going to read half a page of Quran every day. It's simple, it's achievable. It's not a burden, and you can do it.

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It's realistic. You might tell me brother, I don't know how to read Arabic in Ghana.

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And the problem is, is with our intentions, we're not specific. I'll give you an example. When I was saying to the brothers, this is very important what I'm telling

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you need to make your intention specific, you need to give it a timeframe. And you also need to assign for yourself a penalty.

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You might be telling you what you mean.

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I'll give you an example. If I promise a lot tonight that you're alive as of this night, I'm going to start reading half a page of Quran every day.

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And if for whatever reason I miss because we naturally you will get busy one day you will miss a day where you don't get to read your half a page. But now you need to apply your penalty and your penalty needs to be a part of the promise and a part of the intention that Yama when the day comes that I do miss my half a page of code and I promised you the next day I'm going to make up for that half a page as a full page plus the half a page for that day and I'm gonna pay 10 pounds or whatever however much you think is a reasonable amount and I'm going to pay 10 pounds in charity. You know when shavon sees you insisting and consistent on this when the day comes that you are too busy and

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you can read off a page trust me Shane's gonna pick up the most half bring it to you, brother and sister please read your half a page because the more you're gonna cost me two pages towns in Germany

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so very very quickly I want someone to raise up his hand and I don't care what your intention is as long as it's a step forward then we'll money this fight has been successful who's ready to raise his hand and tell me what his intention is inshallah who's really from from the

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lower voice my mind five hours for no reason what's your intention

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to pray the message more often you need to be specific find a pray that you know you can make and a word a genuine promise with the job will not miss the saliva machine.

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So this will lead to read it properly learn to read

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fudger properly asked hospitality accepted to awesome show

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come on come on let's let's let's not be like everyone here we can sit down for the total nothing ever happened

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to wake yourself up and these dudes will do this to your boys.

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Dawson shall come on come on. I want to hear some good things.

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Now brother

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you want to do

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you want to go over to a date? That's big man. That's 65

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Are you okay? Are you already strong in your car and then usually for someone who's really strong This is a realistic target ask about the exit doors now

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you have to be specific a promise ajala at least to look out and if you come home and it's very late and you're afraid I'm not going to wake up and pray the to the cart before you sleep yes goes

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to awesome Charla

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what's wrong is everyone's right, right scary for most of the mine.

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Dawson Chela.

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One more

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just now

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what is a

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half a page? half a page? Since even

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half a page of Quran from this day forward Yeah, intentions ask Allah to sorry about the screaming and the yelling

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online it's been very very nice. I want to thank all the brothers that invited me to share from my last point Allah reward you this community is amazing all the brothers and the sisters my last family reunion except yours.

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