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Rulings On Hayd

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Muhammad Alshareef

Channel: Muhammad Alshareef

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of Hana, Hana studying ohana stuff. on our own, we learned him and children for cinema and see Marina de la tarde de la mejor de la, Shadow Allah either in LA LA bajo la sharika shadow Mohammed and outdoor soon.

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inshallah the next, the next topic in the Manhattan Muslim book, but we're lucky to have a whole lot is about menstruation hype and effects. And the topic understanding hype is actually one of those topics that people don't talk about very much, even though that there are a lot of things that are attached to hide a woman's menstrual cycle in the [???]tier, that a lot of times, especially amongst the men who are very ignorant of these topics. And then when we have family members, wives, sisters, and so on in the house, and things come up, the man does or tells them incorrect things but he doesn't know how to explain these rulings to his family and for this reason is very important. And

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these

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these topics don't repeat too often. So inshallah we'll try to pay attention and then the class, you'll get the little quiz that you've been so hoping for.

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I remember in my second hedge, second hedge that I was doing, and the first hedge I did done by myself for two brothers second hatch, there was a group from our city. And there's a, you know, an older sister that I respect very much. And she came and she asked me questions about this menstrual about hive and its attachment to Hodge naturally gets very detailed

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that and I had just come from the university and our faculty, we were studying that topic. But when it comes to practical application of it, someone has a question here someone has a question. It just becomes a blank. Right? And so I said, Look, I don't know any of the answers. Let me go and find out. And so at The Manchurian Mecca, and there's a brother that from Georgia, he usually gets, you know, first overall every year in the university and out of about 500 students. And, you know, you should get friends like this.

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I sat with him at lunch. And then and then instead of the chit chat, I said, Look, I want to talk about just this subject and ask you a question. You know, I just hit you with a series of questions. And he said Go for it. And then you know, that whole lunch time we just went through the questions about hype, and its attachment to to Hajj, or hamdulillah you know, I learned a lot from them. And from those days have been building on that knowledge but it's still it gets impractical when you don't live it even though the sisters may know a lot more than the brothers on the on these topics.

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Allah Subhana nutana speaks about and hide in the Quran we'll be explaining what height is. The first is and so on a little while the last pentatonic talks about in the Quran saying Komodo tada

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what is an o lakhiani?

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I mean honey

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in

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your head would

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be no volume without any

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loss of heart honestly thing was an on a gun in my head. And they asked you concerning the woman's menstrual cycle.

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And Allah subhanaw taala started speaking about it, inshallah, we'll go into this.

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And this is an issue, as we'll see, that the Sahaba yet used to ask about and they weren't, they wouldn't allow the shyness of this issue, to not let them go out and learn about this topic. So they would actually send pieces of cotton to the line that would have different colors of blood on it. And they would ask, has, you know, has the hype has my head completed or not? Now shut up the line is the profits of a line a cinema with teachers wives, and they in turn would teach

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the women about these things and they would do practical they would actually take pieces of their blood or sample and then say whether the the woman's head had to complete it or not. And another interesting fact is that in ematic,

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Allah He will read about these topics about specifically and of course subtle baiba which is like

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Weight discharged.

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And he would say that he went in he asked the women concerning this, because when you're a man and you see like, white discharge you don't nothing about it until I until like a medic. He said I went and he asked the women about any goes favorite here Mahajan, and on that and then I realized that all the women knew what this was talking about. Like he as a man.

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Mahalo nomadic, didn't know about this like discharging, it seems like something like this doesn't exist. Until he said that he went amongst the women the way he spoke about it, it seemed that they all knew what he was talking about. But this white discharge,

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hailed the Arabic word for a woman's menstrual cycle is high. And it comes from the Arabic word however, like they'll say how the de sade, like if there's a creek, and when the rainwater comes in the creek fills up with water, and then it overflows. It's called how the and from that they say because of that overflow of blood, it's called hide in Arabic.

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And shuffler they mean back mahalo. And in Java, like to see that book if I can get those books back

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reading through

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a key you can keep that one Give me the the river.

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And afterwards if you want to look through it, you can

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shuffle I mean, Rahim Allah he wrote this book, it was like a little essay about

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it says here the natural blood of women, which is a woman's menstrual cycle. And he says in the book that it

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the topics have become like an ocean, because there's so many things that come up, and you'll see the scholars they laid down foundations for this. And then medical things will happen that'll change. You know, as time women start using birth control pills, they start using medication that changes their their menstrual cycle, which then confuses the Islamic rulings based on that to give you an example,

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the birth control thing, a birth control pills that that stop a woman from from having her menstrual cycle. I mean, correct me if I'm making mistake, if when it when it stops, the menstrual cycle, like a woman will say entitled in Ramadan time, she wants to pray all the title, we're just social take these pills to start her menstrual cycle so that she can continue to do her salon all throughout the month. But as this will may take that pill rather than it stopping the blood, it would it can confuse the cycle so that she sees blood almost every second day or something in Ramadan. And so then she becomes confused. Is this hate? Is it not? Hey, one day she has blood when they showering

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one day, she's, you know, clean one day, she's back with their height, and so on confusing it. And then at that point, they go to scholars like shuffle a thing.

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And they say what's the outcome? And then, you know, the confusion starts coming in because of these things. And normally, in the olden days, they would just have it.

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You know, their hate is like this, it starts at finishes, because of the natural environment.

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When does the Head Start, some people would say that it may start at at the age of nine, age of 11, and so on. But really, Islam doesn't attach a date or age where the woman

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attains her that she has to have height at this age. Otherwise, it's not high. In fact, you'll see like shuffler they mean by him, Allah would base it upon the siting of the blood or not, that if the woman sees blood, and it's and this is menstrual blood, then her menses begins, no matter what age she is. So even if she's like six years old, seven years old, and so on, and those age groups,

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that it's still if this is higher than it takes the rulings of home.

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And that's at what age that it starts. Now. When does

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the highest end?

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A woman has her menstrual cycle, when does it end? Some people

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have attached days also to disclose say it's 10 days, it's 15 days, it's 25 days. And then there's a lot of difference of opinion months of scholars and monks. When it comes to the day's initiative. Follow me. I have a whole lot to say that. It's not that we don't base it on the number of days, but what we base it upon is the siting of the blood. So if if she has her menses, like if she sees the blood, even if it's, you know, whatever day it is, or how many days if there's blood, this is her menstrual cycle. If there's no blood, it's not her menstrual cycle.

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Now,

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the minimum for her or the minimum amount of days between the two menstrual cycles. Again, there's difference of opinion about this about the days. But the scholars have said the majority of scholars have said that it's 15 days between one height and the other 15 days between one and the other. So she becomes queen. And then she has 15 days after that, before the next menstrual cycle begins. When it comes to like these issues, these are the ABCs of the of this, the ABCs of the fifth of height. And the first because if one scholar and the other one of them says 10 days is the minimum,

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the minimum cleanliness between the two menstrual cycles and the other one says 15. What if she sees her blood on the 12th day?

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For example? So one, one scholar will say that this is hide blind. And so then the rulings have it applied, the other one will say no, it's not a blur. Just showing you that from this, you have the branches of difference of opinion that will come later. Right. So just to show you that there are some fundamental things like they'll say it will soon in these issues it after it, the difference of opinion comes up. So once you understand that there's a legitimate difference of opinion in this, you'll understand later on differences of opinion that come up after that.

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Okay, so hey, I'm gonna start using the Arabic words more, the height is a woman's normal menstrual cycle, normal blood that she has, if her blood is continuous, or the second main thing, if her blood is continuous, then and it's just going all month long. And it keeps going month after month, that not all of it is Hadler. Not all of it is that menstrual cycle blood, but it's called St. Hubba in Arabic is to have and it's the habit is is not the normal menstrual blood for the profits of a lotus

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Sahaba came to him and said that I believe the whole month. And he said that that's not because if she believes the whole month and she would think that I'll never pray and never do fasting. But he would say that no, only, you know, look at he said, look at your cycle before this, like sickness came to you have you bleeding all that time, look at your cycle before that. And then during that time, consider that as the hate and the rest of the time consider it as a sickness that you just make will do for every summer and pray regardless of any blood that's coming. Okay, that's called is the hub. When the blood is coming on the on. It's irregular, not not certainly not irregular, but

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it's coming in not the normal blood that comes down just like

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Okay, so that's how and that's is to have. And then the third one that we're looking at isn't the first. The first is the blood that comes after a woman gives birth, that it'll come for about 40 days after

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a woman gives birth. So that's called the fast so there's three things hide, which is the normal menstrual blood is to harder which is the abnormal blood that comes up and the fast is the blood that comes after a woman gives birth. If you pay attention I'm going to be reviewing inshallah. So that quizzes coming up.

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Okay.

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Some of the

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issues are the Islamic issues that are related to a woman's hide. Number one is that a private or intimate relations with the wife is one that's the main thing Allah subhanaw taala says

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that, you know abstain from them during the height.

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Number two is that they cannot pray or fast. They cannot do their sulla they cannot do the there's so many won't be accepted by laws of hunger. If they did it while they're in their height. Number three, they cannot do toe off of the Canada. The province of a lot is Cena

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until the other side of the line Helen she had her menstrual cycle during Hajj. He said that if you may have heard of Hajj Vedanta Toshi, he said do as the Haji does, except during to offer the big toe off of the Kaaba.

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As the proof number four is that

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she has to once she's completed her menstrual cycle she has to make up her cm and she doesn't have to make up herself.

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In this I shall be lavon has said that at the time of the prophets of Allah a sin and we were commanded to

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Complete the fast that we missed, and we were not commanded to make up the salon that we missed.

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Number five is that

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there's a difference of opinion about it, but the majority of the scholars say that you cannot recite a quote on that you cannot sit in the masjid during her menstrual period. inshallah. I'll explain a little bit more about that in the end. But there's a difference of opinion about that, but not reciting the Quran and not sitting in the masjid. Number six is that she cannot be divorced in her hide. This is a very important point that a lot of people misunderstand that if someone's married and he wants to divorce his wife, it's hard for him to divorce her to pronounce the divorce if she's in her menstrual cycle, that's how long and not only that, but even when she's completed

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her menstrual cycle, he has to if he's touched her

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intimately after she's completed her menstrual cycle, he's still not allowed to pronounce the talaq until he finds her in like

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post menstrual cycle, which he hasn't touched her.

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Okay, so like her her menstrual cycles over now she's just beginning the time after that, then he pronounces other than that he would be doing something prior to divorce her and her height.

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And then

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number eight or number seven whenever number one is that she has to take a bath when she's completed her menstrual cycle as the profits flow line is one of the Sahaba that he said the multicity he said, then take a bath or somebody take a bath and go and pray. And number nine, that unless or the [???]ty ash shows that it's a sign of a woman reaching her maturity, reaching puberty. The prophets of Atlantis and unsaid life. Well, Allahu salata, hi, Elizabeth Lima, that Allah subhanaw taala will not accept the Salah, of a woman who has attained puberty and he said Hi, who's who, who's gotten her menstrual cycle in love with him, ah, except if she covers her hair. And then if she doesn't

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cover a hair salon, that Allah subhanaw taala won't accept herself.

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Okay, those are some of the issues.

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Now, if a woman is in her head, or any fast, how to act with her,

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the Jews actually went when a woman to be in their menstrual cycle, they would, they would not eat with her and they will not drink with her. And they will not associate with the woman during during that time. And they, in fact, would lock her out of the house and disassociate anybody from or no one would associate with her in any aspect of their livelihood because of her menstrual cycle. And so when the province of a lot is in a move to Medina, and the other thought, as the Prophet Solomon is and about how the Jews used to act with their women during the menstrual cycle, they said, they asked him about the meaning of this. And the Prophet somebody said and received the verse was aluna

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can onion Rahim? And they asked you

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concerning out of my head concerning height, this menstrual cycle, but who are other factors?

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That it's

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that it's out there and so you should stay away from women. But what's meant there is an intimate relation for the province that a lot a student he's actually lawn would be in her menstrual cycle. And she would say that the province that a lot is and I would sit with her and he would eat with her. In fact, she would eat from one place. Like if they had some meat, she would take a bite and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam would bite from the same place. And also he would sit in her lap while she was in her menstrual cycle, rest his head on her on her leg and he would recite on some audio center even though she was in her height and you would see that I had eat such as the profits of a

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lot he said I'm telling I shall have a line to go into the machine and get his prayer mat these to have strong mats that they would pray on because of the harshness of the sand. And she would say that I'm in my head that you know I'm in my menstrual cycle the purpose of a lot is and I would say that your men's nice is it in your hand. It's not in your hand saying that it's permissible to enter into the masjid for reason.

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Okay, so that's a little bit of how to act.

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Okay, when does the highest end because I wrote

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menstrual cycle goes, it gradually comes to a conclusion. Because of that, you see some confusion happening towards the end of whether

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that height has been completed or not. And so it comes to end, when she sees, like in Arabic, it said a little bit about which is a white discharge a white fluid. And it's something known amongst the women of Casa Tilbury bar. Number two,

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that if

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their height comes to an end, they shouldn't, they need to take a bath and begin praying after that. And they shouldn't be lazy in doing such, meaning that sometimes a woman, her menstrual cycle come to the end and she said, Oh, later on in the day, I'll take a bath and start praying. But she may say that, well, there's only 20 minutes left for, you know, they'll let me just, you know, there's not enough time to shower and, and pray. So let me just wait till last time. But no if she has time to do that also. And she has time to pray that she should do that. And she should not be lazy and fulfilling that. And if she's in a position where she can find water to take a bath, such as if

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she's traveling or so on, that it's permissible for her to do Tammam

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instead of the bath and start praying, detailed instead of the bath and start praying. And then later on, when she gets in a position where she can take a bath, you should take the bat

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number three, or number four, that the garments need to be cleaned. So if there's any garments and clothes that have blood on it, they need to be clean. And after that cleaning, if there still remains a stain on the clothes, that it's still permissible to use those gloves, if it's been clean, that the stain after that doesn't harm anything. And number five, and I think this may be a cultural practice that

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a lot of Asian countries and other places that they think that a woman has to change all her clothes, if she's completed her high.

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And as I shall be lowering that said, and this is this is wrong. Like we said a woman can can have clothes, wash them and clean them and then use the same clothes. After that she doesn't have to change all her clothes to then begin praying. Some people think that you have to take a bath and wear a completely different clothes, if they see a woman who's you know, wearing some sort of, you know, dress in her height and then goes to shine and wears the same just to say, you know, that's how they'll say that here. But that's incorrect, the woman can still wear like a little woman can still wear the same clothes after that.

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And this is something that the women need to be pointed out to if it's if they're clean clothes, and they've cleaned cleaned it that is permissible to use exactly shut out the line and said that there are many women that didn't have anything more than one garment that they would use. And actually, you'll see some some families where the husband and wife only had one garment, one like big cloth that they would use for salon, you know what the husband would go out wearing the garment and go for some and come back and then the woman would need it to cover head cover her body dang salon, that was the state there. So it even be, you know, the hardship upon them to think that they would have

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to go and buy it. You know, they didn't have a whole wardrobe and a whole closet full of different dresses that they would wear.

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Okay, a point about

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any first, which is that blood that comes after a woman gives birth, they say that there's no minimum minimal amount of days for the first to happen, meaning that you will see that normally it's 40 days. But it can be lower than that when we can have blood for 10 days, 15 days, and then it just stops and it shook nothing. law says that if that's the case, if she sees the blood and it stops, and she considered that her knee fast blood is over, should begin praying after that. And it's not just she has to stop for 40 days.

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On the other side of the maximum amount of days, it's normally 40 days, but sometimes she may see blood after that for 50 days, 60 days. And they say that if the woman has hope that the blood is going to stop, then she should continue and consider it as any fast blood. She should you know not pray not fast considering it as an offense. But she has hoped that it's going to stop if she doesn't have hope that it's going to stop meaning she thinks that it's going to continue and she has a sickness now after that and the blood is becoming continuous, then she should consider it as is to have

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If it becomes a sickness, and then it just keeps going and going the blood after that, and she considers it as St. Hala, which is that abnormal blood that we spoke about where she has to

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when we get to the st. hada. Right now, there are two rulings for the st. Hala lower inshallah we're gonna review I know,

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the two rulings, but as to how they are, that number one that she has to make will do for every seller. And this is also the ruling of

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it's similar to the ruling of someone who has seller silverball, someone who Who's he may urinate continuously, you know, you have adults that you know, they have a continuous

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they're continuously urinating in, in maybe in their pants or so on that they have to make will do for every salon, if it's a sickness, where the blood or the urine keeps coming up. Similarly, this woman that if the blood is continuously coming out, and she needs to make we'll do for every slot, this is the harder we said, which is she has the normal cycle. And then after that she's in this abnormal blood that's coming out. Just an equal to forever salon and she also prior to making will do she has to clean herself, clean herself and use a pad and then go and make Waldo. So those two things,

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if a woman is is to hava, how does she determine what days is to Halloween said that the blood is just continuously flowing for the entire month.

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What basis should she consider as hate and one day should she consider as is to have these three situations based upon

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if based upon a known cycle that you may have had in the past, or characteristics between or characteristic differences between the blood, if she had a known cycle, like she knows that, at the beginning of the month for six days every month, she used to have her cycle, right six days every month, six days, and she's quitting six days. And then all of a sudden, she gets the sickness where she's bleeding continuously, that as the province of the Learning Center said she should base it on her old cycle. If this is an old cycle, she should base it upon. So for those six days, in the beginning of the month, she should act as if she's in height. And then for the rest of the month act

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as if she's in is to harbor meaning that after those six days, she should shower and then after that for every salon make will do and every salon clean itself and use the pad. That's a she has a non period number two is if she had, she never had a regular cycle, maybe from the very first time that she got a hate, she just it just became continuous from the very beginning. So she never had a cycle. She doesn't know of any cycle that end but you can see some characteristic differences in the blood.

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Those characteristic differences could be in,

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in the thickness of the blood, it can also be in the darkness of the blood. And it can also be in the order of the blood. So for example, for 10 days of the month, she sees a dark blackish type blood and then for the rest of the month for 20 days she sees a reddish type blood. So she can she can see a color difference in the blood. So she considers the blackish kind, the one that was the 10 days as their height and the rest as being her is to hava or she sees for 10 days a thickness of the blood. And then for 20 days after that she sees a lightness of the blood. And so she considers the 10 days as their height. The 20 days is too hot, or she or she smells distinct odor that is similar

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to high blood in the first 10 days. And then after that 20 days. She's it's odorless, for example. Okay, so that's some first one we said is if she has known cycle, the second one is if there's characteristic differences in the blood. And the third one is she doesn't have a known cycle, or she doesn't have characteristic differences in the blood, then she should go according to the average woman in her locality. The average woman and her locality is the pockets of a lot as and I'm told one woman whose situation was like this, he told her to sit six or seven days

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in high like according to knowledge of a Lost Planet Allah. Allah knows what her actual hive is, but six or seven days and they say the scholars he said this to him in a bit of the line. And he said, or they say that the six or seven days wasn't an option for her to pick whether she wants six days or seven days. But what they said is that he's telling her look to the normal people around you and see

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is the average six days amongst the women was the average seven days and then go by that of the average.

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There's another point also about

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an Arabic it's called a sutra, well could suffer coming from someone you know as far as

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the color. If you take Arabic classes.

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It's yellow.

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It's yellow, a sofa is yellowish Tabler yellows discharge liquids is a brownish type discharge. So flow and coulda massala maravilla line and she says that, at the time in the province allamani Center, we never considered a sunflower qudra these yellowish or brownish discharges

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shape that we wouldn't consider it anything and it wouldn't have any any effect. Like this is the the Hadith of the sentiment of the lohana in another Hadith

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about the law and a woman sent her this like a piece of cotton that had like a brownish color.

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And then she said she said to them, Don't be hasty in trying to complete your head Wait till you see of course a little bit about the white discharge. Okay, so now you have suffered on qudra it can happen during a woman's height towards the end. And it also can happen after the height. So the scholars have said that if it happens during the menstrual cycle, this yellowish brown is discharged during the menstrual cycle, that it's part of the height. It's part of it like she still is in her menstrual cycle. If that if she sees that kind of a discharge during your menstrual cycle, she should still consider it as part of the menstrual cycle. Then after that after it's completed, she

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showers clean. And then she sees this yellowish, brownish discharge after that a salon. She should she shouldn't even look twice at it, meaning that it doesn't have any effect on her salon or fasting. So if it's in the menstrual cycle, it's part of it. If it's out of the menstrual cycle, it's not part of it.

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Okay, in conclusion, and then we'll begin the quiz 21 questions.

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The hokum of reading quantum of sitting in the masala First of all, the city in the Masada, the province or the lighting system, said that there's two main heavy the first one that we spoke about was when he told I shall I'll be alone had to go and get that prayer method, straw man from the message and she said that I'm in my head. And he said, Your hate is not in your head. Okay.

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That's 100 on this issue a second Heidi

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is an authentic hadith where the Prophet sallallahu Sallam commanded that the women be be taken out to the salon today. He said that even all the women in the houses let them come out and witness the aid. Even the women in their menses and in the province of the lions and and said that except our well I agree, venomous Allah, but don't allow them to come to onsala if that a woman is hired on a date, that she shouldn't come to them so that she can be in the area but not in the prayer place. Okay, so from that the scholars have taken to mean that any kind of prayer place, a woman shouldn't be sitting there for no reason. Like, if it's just to sit in the masjid and do things in a mess,

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they shouldn't do that.

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But if she needs to like pass through the masjid get something from msgid has a reason and she's going through that it's permissible as I should have been.

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Some other scholars took the Hadith is about the alumni and the one about her going into the masjid and he's saying that your hate is not in your hand and, and leaned on that. And so they said that so long as the prophets of Allah said I'm allowed her to enter Masjid that she can enter Masjid you know, for, for valid reasons. That's just the issue there. But I'll tell you that the majority of scholars say that it's that it's not permissible for her to sit in the masjid for for no reason. Just to to lounge in the masjid for anyone, any any minister

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in the Kava actually, there's some places that suffer Marwan specifically about the Kava, just a little point here. The suffer model is not part of the Kava. And so if a woman is in her menstrual cycle and she's gone from when he can complete the aroma, she can still she doesn't have to sit in her hotel room. She can go to the Safa Mandala area on the second floor and she can still you know partake in, you know she can look at the cabinet. She can see people you know doing their toe off and so on. She doesn't have to sit in the hotel.

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necessarily because the suffering model is not even part of the Kava area, it's outside of it.

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Okay, so that's about sitting in the masala. The other one is about the hokum of reciting Quran and touching the Koran.

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A lot of scholars have said that it's not permissible for a woman in her height and a man who is gentle to, to recite the Quran specific with the man and gentlemen, of course, you shouldn't be reciting the Quran with a woman in her menstrual cycle, because it may take up to a week, 10 days that she's in her cycle, that you'll see some scholars saying that if it's a necessity that you research on that it's permissible, even though they may say that it's not permissible as a default, they'll say there may be situations where it is permissible in one of those situations like in the medical madhhab, that they'll say that, for example, a woman if she is a foreign teacher, and every

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day, she has all these children where she's reciting Quran to them, and teaching them that if she wasn't allowed to read during her menstrual cycle, that, you know, for 10 days, every month, these children wouldn't get any lessons, you know, as an example. So in those cases, and actually, some scholars have gone into more detail of their headache on this. And I realized that they're not that strong, about a woman not being able to recite in her height. And the ideas have been spoken about. And they're not conclusive that it's not permissible for her to recite Quran. And so you'll see a lot of people who are now bringing out the sources and seeing, you know, their chain of narrators

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going into the into the past and so on, are showing that it's not conclusive, a lot of people come to the conclusion that it is permissible for a woman to recite on during her Menzies as on the other side of her touching on there may, there may be more to it than just saying that it's permissible. And the sweeping majority of the scholar said that it's not permissible for her to touch the law. In conclusion to these issues, I'm not even I'm not even touching the iceberg on on the the amount of discussion on these issues. But I'll just say some of the conclusions shift what they mean about him online other scholars that I've spoken to have on this about sitting in the masala he said.

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So he said that she shouldn't be sitting in the masjid because of the next to unanimous opinion on this. About sitting in the middle of the reciting the Quran. It is permissible for her to recite the Koran. If if there's a necessity for it. If there's no necessity for it, then it's better that you're not resentful on but it's still permissible. As for touching the Koran she shouldn't touch the Koran if she's in her menstrual cycle. And with her bare hands she can use like a glove if she has gloves on the women that have gloves and so on to to turn the pages of the Quran

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and things brings the conclusion the points I have now will begin

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grilling

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Should we do the review first and then questions?

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I think the review some people can't keep in mind. Let's Let's go.

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Okay.

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What is high? What is high?

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You got the

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you got all the notes.

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You know what it is? Okay.

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Okay.

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Yeah, okay, that's the head. What's the is the harder

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is the hierba.

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Normal, okay, okay. Okay, actually, with the translation of when I said is to holla because sometimes the menstrual cycle will come out of normal, but it's still her menstrual cycle. So for example, if she has like six days, six days, six days, and then one time she has 10 days, it's still high, even though it may be abnormal. Right? What when we say is to how the means completely, uh, you know, like, like a sickness where it just continues the whole month. But still, if she still sees blood, 10 days, 12 days even though her normal is six days, it's still high blood until it becomes you know, obvious. This is something other than than her height. And the third one was fast,

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you know, any faster

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to childbirth, postnatal bleeding. Okay.

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Second question that comes up what issues are related to the height, what issues are related to

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the salah and the fasting? Correct. Other ones mentioned like

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reciting Quran sitting in the masala

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divorce, he can divorce a woman and

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Hi,

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intimate relationships and Gmail font is that correct?

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Yeah, you can, even if she

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even if she studies she doesn't need to touch the volunteer bands can use like a glove

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or a pen to turn the pages but not touching it. And like I said, there's difference of opinion about that book. Because so many scholars have said that you cannot, there's a sweeping majority. So in respect of all those scholars that have have come to this conclusion, and we say this isn't the opinion of

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other ones, no till off, she can do toe off

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other ones

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he said I can

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pull off of the camera

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it's a sign of puberty and it's the seventh or whatever.

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during prayer

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that she needs to take a bath and she's completed.

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Okay, how to act with her during

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her menstrual cycle, during the hype?

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How did the juiciest act with with their own ostracize ostracize them, kick them out with them not drink with them and they're like

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normal Yeah, normal behavior except intimate relations.

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And the example that we gave that I shall be lying, he would sit in her lap he would recite a quote on

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and he would also eat with her and sometimes eat from the very same like place that she ate from the same piece on the meat. And he also told her that your height isn't in your hand when he asked her to go and get the

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mud rug or the carpet from them

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who used to keep them out? Kick them Jews and the Jews

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some non Muslim religions also no Hindus don't consider it as

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not now but at one time you did not allow her to stay in certain parts of the house and be considered unclean and not so there are some other than you know, they don't do it. You don't come into the kitchen and cook for the family to isolator

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and doing things like that in Islam would be against some like you're saying maybe Hindi maybe some Muslims pick up from that and start treating them in the same way which will also be harmful.

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Okay, when does it end? We had the topic of when does it

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when the white discharge closer to the law right? The white discharge is normal to them. Number two, about taking a bath What did we say about taking a bath as soon as possible and they shouldn't delay it and be lazy and performing it and to get

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closer? Yeah, just a regular that class we did lockdown how to do how to take a bath.

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And then we said about the garments What did we say about the garments and the stains on it.

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I can be cleaned as I showed along and say that they would only have one garment. They would sometimes they would spit on it and scratch scratch the stains until they would be clean and then use the same garments after that.

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Yeah, I guess other other parts of the clothing may have stains too.

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Right? If it gets on a dress or something like that, anything that has a stain

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and of course they wouldn't have the same you know, maxi pads and things like that in those olden days so it might get a little you know more more garments would get dirty because of that.

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And then we also said about the garments that she doesn't have to change the garments that if she has a dress or something if it's clean that she can continue to wear after she has a bath.

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Okay, an important point about

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the most the hollow The one who gets that, that blood that just keeps flowing for the entire month. What's the ruling concerning her?

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What's the ruling concerning St. Hala

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when it comes to summer? Should she pray or should she not pray?

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She should pray

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she makes will do his time only will do or is there something else says to clean yourself and then put on a pad and then

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Make Waldo.

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So it's not just make will go and go pray just to clean yourself and then put on the pad and then a Google after that, you

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know, just maybe go to the bathroom and clean yourself.

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I mean just on the

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toilet area, but she doesn't have to take a shower.

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And we said, just reviewing about as to how the how she determines what days are high, and what days are not. Number one is that if she has a basic cycle that she had before she should continue even though she has blood the whole month, she should go by that old cycle she has. Otherwise she should go by characteristics in the blood, such as the thickness or the color or the odor, or she doesn't have either the cycle or the characteristic differences. She should go according to the average woman in her locality. Which brings us to our conclusion is there's any question

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she can go ahead and go ahead and

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what I want, I think the point that you're making is the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sena, when he said, la la la sala de la crema, what he's saying so a lot of cinemas that Allah will not accept this a lot of a woman in hate except if she's wearing hijab, when he uses the characteristics of hired he doesn't mean a woman who is in hired, he means a woman who, who has had her height and has now attained puberty, like using the word heart as a synonym for puberty. Okay, but not saying that she's in the position of height, which is supposed to cover her head anyway. Yeah.

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After the puberty, before puberty, he may not know but she has to cover a hair. But if she's at home by herself, but she still has to cover. First of all,

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she has to do it anyway. I've listed the proof for that.

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If she's in the house,

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I don't see the signal.

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If somebody

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has not been

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praying with her parents,

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she still has to.

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Yeah, no. Okay. The difference here is that, like a young girl say she's four years old. She's praying. If she doesn't wear hijab, it she can still go with that. But if she if she's reached puberty, and she still tries to play without her Stallone except because like the point here of the of koyna. It is saying that that height was a sign of her reaching puberty. Yeah.

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Meaning that now she becomes responsible for actions after that. You know, it's one of the signs