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Allah akumina wahida wahala caminhadas Oda, Waddesdon humeri, Jalan Cassie on one is what second la Hilary's aluna dvwa or ham, in LA haka and Allah, Kumasi makeda.

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The brothers and sisters in the final head of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he called us to the people on that day.

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The day is the day after the day of Arosa and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked them

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a human have, what day is this day?

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And they said, this is the sacred day.

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And then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was silent. And everybody says silence. Then he asked them, What month is this month?

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And they said, Yeah, rasulillah it is the sacred month, the month of March.

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And then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was quiet, and everybody's paying attention to what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is going to say. And then he said, Look, the land is this. And you valid in haza. And they said, don't use the

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land temescal macaron, and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said in Edina, accom verily your blood, what I'm wearing a comb, and your wall

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and your honor homina alinco. is haram upon you is sacred, upon you, between you as Muslim, can only come have like the sacredness of this day of age, the Sanhedrin can have like the sacredness of this month of

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Kabbalah we can have like the sacredness of this land.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala commanded us is the commandment Some of us have hunted with honor that we should have mercy to one another one another, and that we should love one another. And we should be forgiving to one another. And who knew this quality of Hanna was gonna need the quality or quality of His Messenger but Allah Allah,

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Allah subhanaw taala speaks of how you Subhana Allah tada crypt is in the profit from Amman, he was sent from the Karla dialer. That means

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that

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he is from the mercy of Allah, if you dealt gently with them, that you are gentle with them. It's from the mercy of Allah that you are gentle with them. While every

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one

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of us, God is telling the Prophet for the Learning Center, where he severely severe with them, or hardest hardest, they would have broken away from you. But one whom Allah subhanaw taala says, For him,

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to pass over the phone, look at them over with self alone and ask a lot of forgiveness for them. We'll share with home armor and kill them in the affairs that either of them can alama then we will have taken a decision. Put your trust in Allah in Allah.

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Verily, Allah loves those who place the trust in Allah. And indeed this was the example of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the companions followed the example of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in this love and forgiveness and mercy that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam showed Allah subhanaw taala declared this in the Quran, when Allah subhana wa tada says,

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My daughter was born.

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Mohammed is the Messenger of Allah,

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Allah

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and those who are with him, the companions of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam actually dealt a lot of Kufa their heart against the disbelievers with a hammer moving in their home. They are merciful to one another little hammer opening

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Now show mercy to one another.

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Your brothers and sisters, this mercy and love that the merciless should have between them and that's one another, one of the biggest and the easiest ways of destroying this love and mercy is through backbiting is through Riba?

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The Arabic word is the word Riba in Arabic is from the root word of Isaiah, gardenia, with something that is unseen, something that is hidden, and so on a Muslim, backed by on his brother or sister, they, in fact, are unseen by that person. And that food is unseen to the people. But that person is uncovered that's been to the people and he does so in a way that he is unseen by that person that he is talking about.

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Whether it's in sisters Riba backbiting is haram by the consensus that is not a father scholar. There's no second team in Islam. And that's true when someone does the visa, it is sort of upon them that they turn back to a loss of Hanukkah and repent for this change in them, according to the Rahim Allah hosana says, There is mass consensus that backbiting is the latest thing, and that it is spotted that a person do Toba summit

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in a Muslim aka mahalo, tada compiled that Allah Allah sent him said to his companions, I said, Luna melvita Do you know what hooba backbiting is? They said, Allahu Allah, Allah, Allah, His Messenger, no best day said. He said, it is to mention your brother mentioned something about your brother in his absence, something that he would hate. And so someone asked the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and very often two great people ask the exact same question. He said, We are full of love. What is that person actually has within him? What if he actually has this quality? I read if I'm telling the truth,

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in what I'm saying, and the Prophet sallallahu wasallam replied to him. He says, if it is, in fact in this person, then you have done a fever.

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The Beaver, if he has that quality, you've done a beaver. And if he doesn't have the quality, the province the lalani, or seven said, because you have slandered him. Either he has the quality. And if he says you've done the data, if he doesn't have the quality you've done, you've planted the person.

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Your brothers and sisters need to reflect on the severity of the sin and the result of someone who runs after the affairs of the Muslim brothers and sisters trying to expose their faults. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said and he called to a people who are deaf, became Muslim, and they began to bask by other people.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said yeah, Mashallah. And then ideally, are you people who have done Eman with their tongue with their tongue while I'm here the holy man

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but he man faith has not entered the heart last taboo,

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not backed by on the Muslims. Last taboo must mean you're not baptized on the Muslims.

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But then the Prophet sallallahu wasallam continued lack of cyber mercy. Well, as I said, you

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do not pass by semesters and do not follow the affairs and the private matters of the Muslims. For verily the Prophet sallallahu Sallam continues, he is a fellow of the private matters of his Muslim brother in law will follow his private matter. And whoever Allah follows his private manners allow them, even if they were in the belly of their home, hidden in the middle of their home alone exposes them, if that person is a person who follows the fault of other people.

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In America, Rahim Allah Harada said about the secret city of Medina, in analysis abruptio aquarama. He said, I've met people in the sacred city of Medina, I've met people

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that did not have any of you. I've met people that had no fall.

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So they began to find faults. In other people, they would find this person and say his fault is so and so they find this person whose fault is on so they had no thoughts themselves. So they went and started extracting the faults of other people. And so they as the passes as time passed, very increased in the Air Force. And he became known as equals false.

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And then in American fees, and I've met other people who had false they had thoughts themselves, that that's true.

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But they were acquired to the force of the other people, and as time has passed, as time passed, their faults were forgotten. people forgot their faults, because they were quiet of the faults of the other people.

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Your brothers and sisters, Allah subhanaw taala is calling you and I and we must listen when Allah subhanaw taala says, Yeah, you're living. Allah soprano Dada says, yeah.

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No one

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narrated by shuttle, the line and other companions that they said, when Allah says, Yeah, you're loving it. You should put your ear forward and listen to what a lot of 100 God is saying, because there's a lot calling you if you are the one who claims to have a man. Yeah, you have levena Oh, you who believe it's 20 Dukinfield.

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Allah subhanaw taala says avoid suspicion as much as possible in Nevada, for suspicion, in some cases,

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will lead to dismissal and do not spy on each other. While I accept all the Kumbaya and none of you sit back by the other speaking feel of the other person, or you have to come in coolala TV nation, Would any of you love or like to eat the flesh of their brother when he is dead, but ready to move a lot telling us that you do a boy, you hate it. And the same way you should hate the back fight this person was a law for fear of law in the law.

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Good brothers and sisters, there are some causes which means a person Muslim brother or sister backbite his other Muslim brothers or sisters.

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Firstly, that that person is satisfying his anger. When a person is angry or someone else and he feels this hatred, and this fire burning in his heart wants to release that fire. And unfortunately, he finds an evil way to release that fire by backbiting the person. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, there's of this evil of anger when a man came to him and he said, Oh, he said O Messenger of Allah gives me advice. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said last Sahaba enough become angry. And the President continues to ask questions, give me advice, give me advice. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told him to become angry, don't become angry.

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Another reason people don't fight is that they want to meet or maintain their friendships with people that also backbiting

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and so on. They're sitting there with these people that are backbiting and they want to continue to be the center and to be part of these gatherings. They indulge in the backbiting, wisdom, or at the very least, they listen to the backbiting and they give an ear to the person that is backbiting.

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To hear this, we should remember the thing about a sort of loss of aligning or whoever seeks the pleasure of the people through the displeasure and hatred of Allah. Allah will leave him to the people will feel that Allah subhanaw taala will leave him to those people on the Day of Judgment. When people will come on on the day of judgment and have lost the power of God. Everybody will be calling for a loss of faith in Allah subhanho wa Taala will lead them for those people that they used to be friends and people that they try to win their happiness in the dunya even though they are gaining the anger of Allah subhanaw taala at the same time.

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Another reason people back by is because they say that they're only joking and they're only playing and they're only making fun.

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And in fact, it's making fun of me involved mockery is that anything involves sarcasm.

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And it is enough to remind those indulging in this process. Allah subhanaw taala his words. Yeah, you're Latina, ermanno ly calm and calm. And he who believe a lot calling us again. Oh you who believe? Let not one people make fun of the other less than not make fun and mock and sarcasm and playing jokes with them, mocking them and backbiting them and being sarcastic about the loss of times Allah says la yes hello comin comin. Asa, a cool new hire on main home, to have the car better to Allah subhanho wa Taala then the people that are making fun, and indeed, the kuffar made fun of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and also the loss of a line in the cinema was developed by

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Allah subhanho wa Taala more than anybody else in the world, and the profile made fun of Rebekah rhodiola han who and other buckler was most beloved to Allah subhanaw taala

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And then in front of Rama and then in front of us. And they made fun of it when we're mocking someone behind him. When we mock someone for hospital lots of tunnels out of love that person more than he loves us, and perhaps that Allah hates us for what we're doing to that person.

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Some people also they backed by, from anger for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala. This explains, when a person sees a sin being committed a sin against the loss of Hello, Donna, you become angry at that sin with your good. But in order to rectify the situation, the person back to bite on that person saying look at so and so is such and such as change. And there is no way that the person can show his anger for the sake of Allah by disobeying Allah subhanho wa Taala, as one have a sense of his concerns. In the olden days, we used to run things up, and it would be like a blanket that it would cover the lower part of their body. And at night, they were asleep in the message they were

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sleeping the rows and the rooms might blow the ISA and it may raise up on his knees. He said to his companions, he said to his friends, if you saw someone in the message, and the wind had blown up his visa, would you cover? And they said, Of course he would covered we would go with him as he was sleeping and cover his leg. And he said would you serve? That is our enlisted up. And they said no. He says that is the example of someone who has submitted a suit, such as the example of someone who has committed a sin. Another reason people Best Buy is that they have too much time.

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Because they seem to have a lot of time they gather together and start spending the hours as if they've completed memorizing as if they've read all the clips of of Hades as if they've learned everything that there has to be learned that now they have free time to sit and backbite Muslim brothers and sisters, they should spend the time learning the Quran and learning the sinner and doing a bad to have a loss of panelists on and preparing for the day when they start returning to a loss of time or a loss. And if you were asked him, ask them about the time that they spent and how they wasted it.

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Another reason that people back by others is conceit and again, and lack of awareness of the person's own faults. They do. I'm focused on the person on himself or herself he's on to her own.

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That person or that sister that does such a thing. When they listen to the faults of others, they forget that they themselves were able to make false and that they should focus on their own faults and their own students.

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Rahim Allah Allah was told man,

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we never see you finding faults with other people, in our gatherings and all the time we spend with you, we never see you finding faults with other people. And that will be even higher. In the whole law said, I am not satisfied with myself. I'm not satisfied with myself enough to dedicate my time to finding faults in other people. or indeed the person that finds faults in other pieces people and as dedicated as time is realizing that he is satisfied that Allah is happy with him, and that he's going to get in, there's no need to worry about his own fault, that he should now spend his time extracting faults from other people.

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But in honor of your Mohan, who asked the Prophet sallallahu I knew he was gonna use a very, very important question about rhodiola horn who said the auto sulam la linea or messenger of Allah, what is salvation? What does it mean to be successful? And the prophets of Allah Haile usnm said, Koufax and he's gonna hold your tongue.

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Hold your tongue. Well, yes, Dr. Beta, and may your house be suffice for you was the ALLAH hafiz, and cry over your own sauce? websi Allah Hafiz, and cry over your own fault. Apolo polyhedra suffered while he was when he was seen almost in a tuxedo.

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Vanilla Salatu was Salam O Allah mela Ana de abajo.

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Quran narrates in one of these cases.

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The story of obatala Viola Han who and another companion

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have left the level of vahagn when the companions were disputing over a tree

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As one companion would say, this tree belongs to me and the other companion level book or the line who would say that the tree belongs to me, Rebekah said accidentally, something which made a perfect companion. Now every book I read were wrong. And we know his status in Islam, that the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said, if you were to measure the land of robots, and the man of the entire aroma of a bucket, a man would be heavier than the entire Omaha.

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Rubber line, when he said this to this person, I knew immediately that he had made a mistake. And so we got the regular line who said for him, to get back to me.

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So that would back to me. And the companion refused a robot to level in line and said, they would back me on going to tell the Prophet sallallahu Sallam the tourists using proceeds back to me. And notice every busted other line is the one who made the mistake here. He said, I'm going to tell the prophets that a lot.

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And the companions said, I'm not going to say back to you, and he left of the bottom of the line who went to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and he told him what he had said to the companions. And then he told him to say back in that the companion can refuse to say it back. And that was a ridiculous complaint to the prophets of Allah and

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the Prophet sallallahu wasallam called that companion and he said, Did he say such and such to you? And the companion said, Yes. He said, What did you reply, and notice other books of other lines against persons, and he didn't attach his honor. And he didn't do any of that. He said, something that may have hurt the companions feelings, and he stopped himself immediately. And this is the situation that happened. It was taken to the process of the law, and he was the father, son in law. So I'm asked him, did he say such and such? He said, Yes. He said, What did you reply to him? He said, You're out of sort of law. I did not reply back to him what he said, the prophets of Allah and

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he was sent him said, that is good, never replied to a Rebekah what he said, The Prophet sallallahu wasallam loved abubaker and he said, No one wants to touch the honor of a buck or hurt him in any way. The Prophet said a lot and put him in another incident said that everybody when I told them about Islam, had said he had asked questions about Islam before they became Islam. But when the doctor heard about Islam, he said, I said, Oh Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah says, Allah, Muhammad Allah. He didn't ask any questions. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, I am the messenger of Allah, and he said, You are the Messenger of Allah, no question.

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And so he said, Do not reply back to him for lack in your spirit of love.

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He said, we'll say back to him, near Lhasa give you vacuum. And so the companions turned to him and he said, you have a fear a lot of other young said a lot about that. May Allah forgive you? Oh, abubaker, May Allah forgive you. And I will buck the tide and he started crying, and she left

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you brothers and sisters.

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We trained that we're following these people who claim that we're following the seller. These are the sellers, and this is how they acted. And this is how we have to act. We're claiming to follow the latest the Hubbard lives. And this is how we have to act. When we deal with our brothers and sisters.

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Brothers and sisters how now to revive the care of mercy and happiness and love between our brothers and sisters. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not leave us in the dark. And the Prophet sallallahu Sallam showed us how to do this. In the Quran. Allah subhanaw taala shows us that those who have men and do good work, Allah subhanaw taala will put love in the heart of Allah subhanaw taala says,

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Love learn what that lesson conocida says on those who believe on those who have men and worth deeds of righteousness were the most gracious to still love Allah subhanaw taala

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who put love between them when there have been men and do good deeds?

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deposit salon you know, send them soda, that when we said send them a similar model to our brothers and sisters, that that will bring love and happiness between us. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said letter the photo designer you will not enter Jenna has said to me No, you will not enter it until you have until you have believed what he told me no, I said the hub book and you will not have imagined until you love one another fella. Good luck Omar, let's say in the file similar to Harvard. So should I not show you something that if you do it you will love one another. The prophets of Allah have told them

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siciliana Vina calm, but the land between you and the father showed us how we should set a saramonic. And between us, as one companion Abdullah, and I'm listening to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and said, You Islamic higher with Islam is the best. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, that the aim of farm that you feed the hungry, was to send Mr. Lamb and Todd Coleman, and to say, send armonico to those people that you know, and those people that you do not know.

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Another way to spread love and mercy between us is to give gifts to one another. For Imagine if someone there is hatred, or some sort of misunderstanding between you and a brother, that you go and you buy that person a gift, and you give that person I just imagine the love that happens just from that small gift. The Prophet sallallahu earlier was sent to us short words, said they had to have a very simple the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Give us one another, and you still love one another.

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And so many examples of the prophets, but allottee was enough to show us how to spread this love between us. When we love someone, for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala we should not hide that feeling and keep it to ourselves. We should go to that person and tell them my brother, my sister, I love you for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala and the father son in law, and he was selling soda this when he went to Mars, and asked us a lot he called Live and he said, Yeah, my eyes

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are head boo casilla. Omaha, I love you for the state of LA. And I was listening to this Heidi's one. And I said to myself, I imagined it was sort of less than a low on incentive had said that to me. Imagine if I said that to you, that I love you for the sake of a lot. This is the messenger of luck telling lies, that he loves him for the sake of a block and will either be lying or said I have the salary.

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Neither one whom you love me for his sake, also love you.

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You brothers and sisters, today people love each other. Many material things people have nice clothes. And so because of the nice clothes and a nice look, people love them for that. And so they go out, and they increase in the JR and buy more clothes, and more perfumes and more material things so that they can win the love of these people. And other people are loved for the car that they have or for the money that they have. And because of this love, they go out or the suppose you'd love to go out and bring in your model of a car and a new more money so that people will love them. But your brothers and sisters imagine when this love just for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala and we love

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for the sake of Allah and we hate for the sake of Allah, what kind of things will happen to the people when love is based on this kind of love and a loss of canosa han eponymous those people that indulge in this type of love between one another that on the Day of Judgment. As we were talking about how and all the hot weather that you see and hide. And

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when the hedges in summertime and you have extreme weather, it's the people that have the most money in hive, the get the most air conditioned pens and get the coolest pens. But on the Day of Judgment, when the sun comes down to the distance of a meal, and the people are drowning in the sweat, nobody will have money to buy food on the Day of Judgment. There'll be no money to buy food, the only food will be the state of

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the art of our ramen. And you know one of those people that will be under that save that will have the city to get in. There will be two people that love for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala that they loved one another for the sake of a loss of habitat on the day of plasma alone will bring that and enter them into that state when there will be no other state except from Las Vegas.

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In conclusion, dear brothers and sisters, if you remember only one thing today, if you remember only one thing today, let it be the words of a suit of love and Aloha. In the following hobbies with you as your life model fighter with through your entire life until you reach gender in South Tyler, Montana, you know Villa, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Whoever loves Allah and ask yourself you claim.

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Whoever believes in Allah, everybody is here because they claim that they're happy men in a lot of time ozada men 10 and 11 when we all met up here, and everybody here claims and this is why you've come because you've claimed that you have emerged in the last day, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said whoever claims whoever claims that they believe and has men in Allah and the Last Day, send the upward

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Hira, let him say good. Let him say good.

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earlier. He should either say good or keep quiet. There's no third option. You either say good or just keep quiet. Thank you to your brothers and sisters and memorize it. And then 10 minutes later Billahi min. Ash and the apple hire on earlier

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in the LA Holloman advocates for lunarlon Eddie yeah you're loving them and will follow Allah us and Lima Lima Allahumma salli ala Muhammad Ali Mohammed Kenapa Lita, Allah Ibrahim Ali Ibrahim although the gala Mohammed he was