Jumuah Khutbah April 6, 2018
Channel: Mohammed Mana
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We begin by thanking and praising Allah.
We seek Allah's guidance, we seek His protection, we seek His forgiveness, and we bear witness that there is no one worthy to be worshipped except Allah alone. We bear witness that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is his last and final prophet and messenger.
Allah subhanho wa Taala commands us and reminds us in the Quran time and time again, to have double up, to be aware, to be conscious of Allah subhanahu wa tada as our Lord and Master and creator and the one watching over us at all times. And the one that we will return to let us ensure that the Angel of Death does not come upon us except that we are in a state of submission to Allah, doing what he commanded and staying away from what he prohibited, that is taqwa.
Continue continuing with our theme
of understanding or pseudo law, he is a lawyer and he was a lamp
and especially highlighting his rights upon us.
In our last month together, we looked at a case study
of Abubakar also do karate a lot more than
what it was that he did that allowed him to earn such a lofty status and noble position.
And it was in fact, because of his care and passion to deliver the rights of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam to him.
Part of loving Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam part of growing in our appreciation for him
is to look at how sutala he said a lot more it was seldom dealt with his own family.
We often talk about loving Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but we must understand that he has rights upon us.
So continuing with this idea of case studies, let us look at another case study today of someone who loved the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
but continued and followed up that emotion with deliverance of rights, upholding the rights of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
But before we continue, why is this important to begin with?
Unfortunately, and sadly, it's becoming common nowadays that there is a lack
There is a lack of understanding
of the importance of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam in our lives.
And when there is deficiency in that appreciation and love and understanding and attachment,
what happens is, it becomes very easy to dismiss a teaching of Rasulullah.
That deficiency would it leads to, it leads to a weak weakness in the obedience of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
And that gap unfortunately gets bigger and bigger.
That coupled with a lot of false information that is disseminated nowadays. A lot of selfishness, narcissism,
the diseases of the day. That's not making it any easier.
So it's important for us to dedicate our times together and our conversations and our whole club and our classes and our discussions. So we can remind one another of the position and the status that will sort of live
Some of them shouldn't hold in our hearts and minds and lives and practices.
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the first wife of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
As a matter of fact,
the wife that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was married to, for the longest period of time.
And the only wife of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that gave birth to children that survived and lived after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
Khadija been to Hoyle It was a noble woman,
as a matter of fact, into her lineage.
Her lineage crosses paths with the lineage of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in his fifth grandfather whose name was Sally.
And her DJ came from a noble family in Mecca,
a respected family.
And she lived and grew up in Mecca in this shade of nobility and respect and honor.
Before being married to the Prophet, salallahu, alayhi wasallam, she was married to her first husband, and they had one son together, and that man passed away.
She then remarried for a second time,
and they had another son and a daughter.
But that second husband also passed away.
And Khadija found herself being widowed twice in a row, yet the proposals continued to come in.
And that in and of itself is an important lesson for us. Oftentimes, individuals who have gone through a divorce, or whose spouses have passed away, they find it extremely difficult within our community to remarry,
especially if it was a woman. That was not something that you found at that time and place that was a positive attribute of that community in that society, that they didn't have this stigma.
And so a woman whose husband had died or who had gone through a divorce was still someone that was sought after for marriage. And that's a positive thing. And that's a healthy aspect of a community.
May Allah read our communities of unnecessary and unhealthy stigmas.
But Khadija did not want to accept any of these proposals that came to her.
Rather, she wanted to find someone really special and noble.
At this time, she was successful in her trade and in her business, the people of Mecca, the people of blush, they made their living through the work of business, how they would have caravans that would travel to a sham and Allium in
the Levant, and Yemen.
And it pains us just to mention those names.
And think about all of the suffering and injustice and oppression that is taking place in those lands.
We beg Allah
to rescue our brothers and sisters in those oppressed lands, holy lands, but lands that are darkened by oppression and evil.
We recognize that Allah is the most wise,
we recognize that Allah is the most
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And so we recognize that although we do not understand a lot of the conflict that takes place, we maintain our hope, and our connection to Allah and we begged a lot to uplift this oppression from our brothers and sisters.
So they would travel to these two lens and they would trade
and Khadija was a businesswoman, and she had
items to sell and to buy. But unfortunately, she was unable to find someone trustworthy with her business and with her wealth. Each time she would send someone they would return back with less profit, or some wealth have been lost, or it had been stolen. Or they or they told her your product was not as valuable as you thought. And she was skeptical about the truth of these claims. So she was looking and searching for someone trustworthy and skilled. And she was directed to go and hire Mohammed Huebner Abdullah.
They said this is a young man in Mecca and he's trustworthy, and he's honest.
And so she offered him the job and he accepted and Rasulullah sallallahu it was said
could not have been older than in his early 20s. At this time, he was definitely younger than 25, early 20s.
But yet he was responsible and mature.
And she sat with him may saw
a helper of hers, to accompany a lawsuit of law and civil law to send them on this journey.
And as they traveled before reaching their destination, they had stopped in a township to take some rest.
And everyone found themselves a tree to rest beneath. And Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he had not received revelation yet.
Found a tree in the distance away from everyone else and took rest of beneath that tree, laid his eyes to rest and took a nap.
And then had observed him
from one of the neighboring buildings and came rushing out. But this wasn't any ordinary man. This man was a priest. He was a learned man.
He was a learned man of the Christian tradition, and he came running out.
He came running out and he started looking at the profit limits of the law. It was seldom suspiciously observing him.
When Mesa saw this, he got up and he said, What do you want was my travel companion? What's your problem?
The man's name was boiler. boiler. I said, No one sits under this tree except that they are a newbie of profit, and they will receive revelation.
And this is the first time anyone in that community of McCorkle age heard such words.
This was a foreshadowing events
that illustrated the coming of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam as a prophet and messenger. And this man behind the law, he said,
we have record of this in our books. atolla will Injeel we have record of a messenger coming. And we have been observing this tree to see who will sit beneath it.
They continued their journey, they engaged in their business transactions. And Mohammed Abdullah, Allah His Salatu was Salam returned back to Mecca, with mais Allah and the trip was successful.
their profits were large, everything was safe. Khadija was impressed. And so she asked him to do it again. And she continued employing him in her trade and in her business, and may sell I mentioned to her what he had witnessed of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his character of his honesty of his skill in business and interacting with people. And she was very impressed.
And so when she decided that she was interested in re marrying for a third time, she asked one of the women who was related to her by the name of Nafisa, she said, Go and approach this man Mohammed and mentioned my name to him and see what he says. And so Nafisa went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and mentioned Khadija and praised her.
And I asked him if he was interested in marrying her. And he agreed,
and they got married. And less little law. He said the law to send him was 25 years old and she was 40 years old.
And they were married and Mohammed's Arsenal had still not received revelation yet.
And they live together and he continued to work for her in her business. And they were a noble and respectable family, in the society of Mecca
until the time came of Revelation,
but also the law he said a long ride in Salem was 40 years old. She was 55. They had been married for 15 years. They had children together.
Some of those children got married.
They had sons and daughters together.
And Mohammed said, Allahu Allah alayhi wa sallam was not happy engaging with the Mexican society in their idolatry and in their pagan worship. He used to seclude himself in a cave in one of the mountains of Mecca.
And it was in that cave that jabril came to him in the form of a man. Strange and unknown figure Mohammed Salim did not know who this was, and he commanded him to recite he said, I don't read or write.
He commanded him a second time the Prophet responded with the same answer. He commanded him a third time but also Lazzara sent him said Ma, what do you want me to read? He was squeezing Mohammed solara Selim had a whole journey until Rasul Allah could hardly breathe.
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Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam was terrified he was scared, so he ran out of that cave. And what did he see? He saw gibreel but this time in his original form,
and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam describes to us that Djibouti, Canada who said to me it Jenna, he had 600 wings
that filled the horizon Marbella machinery while mercury Rasulullah would look up, he would see this figure of Djibouti, he would look to his right and see the wings of Djibouti. Look to the left you would see the wings of Djibouti and it was a terrifying experience, or who merely
brought the prophet SAW Selim down to his knees.
When he regained his strength, he ran down
and ran where he ran back to his home. He ran back to his wife and his family, Khadija.
And he said to her, I'm scared
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And she did so.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
was a strong and brave man.
But he experienced a terrifying experience.
The profits a little longer it was send them was able to express his feelings and his emotions in his household to his wife, to his family, and she was there to support him and comfort him.
There is nothing manly about being a hard rock in the house.
And there is nothing womanly about being insensitive and unaware of husbands emotions and emotional state.
Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam expressed his emotions. And Khadija recognized and comforted him.
If there is a marriage where a husband cannot comfortably express his emotions, and cry, then that's a marriage that needs marriage therapy.
And if there is a marriage where a wife is not being supportive of the husband, and not allowing him to express his emotions in that way, then that's a marriage that needs marriage therapy.
And if there is a wife that does not feel safe or comforted or valued in her household, then that is a sick marriage that needs therapy. When you're sick, you go to the doctor, when your marriage is sick, you need to go to the marriage therapist.
But that's another taboo in our community for reasons I find hard to understand.
But also the law. He said a lot of it was his household and his marriage was healthy. He can express his emotions, and she offered the necessary support.
I'd like to encourage you all to please come forward. We've got
a lot of our brothers that need space. So come forward and fill up all the spaces here.
Not only did hudy jaldi Allahu taala and her comfort Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in that moment of fear, and stress and anxiety. But she believed in him.
And minutes, she believed in the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So she fulfilled that first write, of believing in little sort of law as a messenger from Allah.
And that rendered her the status of the mother of the believers. Allahu Subhana. Allah says in Surah Allah and I would love for everyone to internalize and remember this is in the Quran. This is a speech of Allah, and be you Allah. Meaning I mean, I'm forcing him what as a Jew who?
Allah says the Messenger of Allah has more rights upon you than even your own self. rasulillah is more important to you than even your own wants and needs.
And his wives or your mothers.
Her digital the Allahu Allah, Allah, Allah is our mother.
She is the mother of the believers. To love. The mothers of the believers is to love what are pseudo law? To love. The mothers of the believers is in essence, a manifestation of EMA and sure between me and sure I've been a man
to love the family of rasulillah is a branch of faith of Amen.
Let us not forget that
not forget that the companions of Rasul Allah and especially his family and his household are extremely valuable to us.
And hadiya Not only is from the family of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam not only she is his wife, and she is the mother of the believers, but she is the first of the believers.
And she accepted amen and believed in the messenger before any other man or woman
and that is a high and praiseworthy status.
Khadija Binti, co editor of the Aloha,
she can tell you to support all sorts of law, he said, Allahu Allahu wa sallam after revelation, if not more than before revelation, because now the going got tough. It's one thing to have a healthy marriage when everything is easy and nice. But a true test to the health of a household in a relationship is when there is pressure, and there was a lot of pressure. Just to give you one example,
the daughters of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam rupiah and uncooled.
One of the attacks that the missionary Khun of Polish did against the prophet SAW Selim is they forced, the husbands of these two daughters of the prophet SAW sent him to divorce them
and send them back to the house of Khadija
as a means of bringing upon Shane to that household, but Allah had a better plan. They both got married to Earth men have been a fan.
One of the greatest men to walk this earth, someone who the angels are shy from.
So they plan and allow plans and allows the best of planners. But imagine the stress and the pressure that that brought upon the household of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam
and yet she continued to support him until she returned back to Allah. At the age of 6525 years of marriage.
And lawsuit Allahu Allahu alayhi wa sallam was 50 years old. And it was one of the saddest years in the life of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a year of sadness, how much he loved Khadija how important she was for him in his life. how painful it must have been when she passed.
At one time Khadija was approaching the house with some food
and jabril came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he said to him, Khadija is coming now but you know,
he damn Oh, shut up. Khadija is coming now and she has a container with something for you to eat or drink
for accurate her. So say to her from Allah, womanly a Salaam, give her a greetings of Salaam of safety and security from Allah and from me
and inform her that being prepared for her now is her house in Jenna, she will have no anguish or no difficulty in that house.
Khadija is from the dwellers of gender. Well, the Allahu taala and her
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said, I have never been jealous of any of the other wives of the prophets. I send them as much as I was jealous of Khadija even though I never saw her.
But how much the Prophet used to talk about Khadija and how much he would appreciate and mention her praiseworthy traits. And he says, The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam can he be sure he would bring a whole sheep and he would slaughter that sheep and he would distribute it to the friends and relatives of Khadija,
even though she had already passed, but he didn't forget about her, and he continued showing kindness to her friends and relatives. And one time a woman approached the house of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and one rasulillah heard her voice. He jumped up in excitement. And he said Allahumma Allah, Allahu Allah. He said by Allah I think this is her who is herder Hannah bt hoilett, the sister of Khadija.
It was said that her voice resembled the voice of Khadija just hearing the voice of his sister in law reminded him of his beloved wife, how much he loved and cherished and remembered his wife
that was our messenger. And that was his wife who believed in Him and who supported him and who cared for him. And that is our mother. Khadija Binti hoilett lolly Allahu taala and automata Simona. I still feel like anyone a commonly cited Muslim and I'm including them in festa euro inna who who will call for Rahim repent to Allah for us the most forgiving, Most Merciful.
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The Battle of better took place a couple of years after the Angela.
And after the battle was done, there were 70 prisoners of war, that the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and the Muslims had captured, as is the nature of battle and warfare.
But some of these soldiers were actually forced to be in that battle, they did not themselves want to be there.
And so they did not necessarily exert force in trying to fight or kill the Muslims. And that was taken into consideration during their imprisonment. And amongst them was a man by the name of Abu Laos.
And Abdullah asked who was the son in law
of Rasulullah, sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
We mentioned two daughters of Rasulullah, that divorce was imposed upon them to try and attack the household of Rasulullah. in Mecca, there was a third daughter by the name of zeyneb. And her husband was everywhere else and although he was not a believer, but he was honest, and he fulfilled his promise to a pseudo law. He's alone, it was seldom, the purpose I sent him said, Why didn't you offer he promised me and he kept his promise, and he did not harm Xena, the daughter of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but he was forced to be there with the army of oil in the Battle of bedroom and hence he was captured.
And the profits of the long run he was Selim had set certain conditions for these prisoners to be released. If there was a prisoner who was able to read or write, he would have to teach 10 from the Muslim community to read or write. And that would be his freedom. Or if they were not able to, they had to bring 4000 Dylan as ransom.
And so the people have already started sending whatever they had
a package came to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and it was said to him, this is the ransom for upon us. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was moved, because he knew that nobody in Mecca cared to release or ransom what else except his wife, who was the daughter of Rasulullah. Zina, she was still in Mecca.
And so the profits Larson I'm open the package and extracted from it a necklace.
And when he saw this necklace, he began to cry and cry and cry.
And he said,
he said to the companions, do you know what this is?
He said has to do. He said this is a necklace. That to her deja Li Xena fee Layla Teza furphy her. He said this is a necklace that my wife Khadija gave to our daughter is 18 up on the night of her marriage. This is all that Zane have has to ransom her husband.
So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam requested and he's the leader, but he requested from the Sahaba to make sure that it would not bring any ill feelings. He said in shih tzu, if you allow me to return this gift back to her and allow everyone else to go
and they approved.
The prophets I send them was so moved. He took this necklace and placed it against his face and smelled it.
And it brought back memories of his wife and his daughter.
And they allowed us to go but the Prophet said it conditioned that when he reaches Mecca, he sends Xena, he sends a daughter of Rasulullah to Medina. And I will ask promised, and he kept his promise. Well, I didn't add any offer. He promised the Messenger of Allah and he kept his promise.
This was the love that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had for his wife. This is how I sort of La he's sort of longer I do send them was as a husband and as a father. And Khadija
clearly shows us how she was as a wife, and as a supporter.
She loves little pseudo law, he said along with them, and she fulfilled the rights of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she loved him. She believed in him and she supported him. And we love our motherhood. And we love our messenger Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Let us follow her example in loving or sort of law who said Allahu Allah will send them in supporting the Sunnah and the tradition of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and in believing in Him of full and complete and unwavering loyalty and belief. May Allah Subhana Horta, Allah make us of those who love Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam and love the family of rasulillah and love the companions of
Allah. May Allah unite us with them in the highest levels of gender. May Allah beautify us and adorn us with a character of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam May Allah unite us with our messenger in the highest levels of gender. May Allah allow us to drink from his hands.
After which we will never experience thirst ever again. We ask Allah Subhana Allah to Allah to show us the truth clearly as truth and to follow it, and to show us the falsehood clearly as falsehood and to allow us to stay away from it. And we beg a lot to protect us from confusion that would lead us astray. Our law grants us the best of this life and the best of the hereafter and protect us our law from the torment of the hellfire. Before we close a reminder for tonight's program, a continuation of a Shema in the description of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam that will take place tonight at 8pm. It will be my honor to be with you for that program. And an early heads up that we
will have our annual Ramadan on competition, so start preparing for that from now. And finally, IOC has released their hedge group and hedge package and you will find the flyers they will be accompanied by our local Imams and scholars. Please do your best to take heed of these reminders and all others on your way out. May Allah subhana wa tada grant us in sincerity and the success to follow and take advantage of the best opportunities we have available to us by the law in a lie. Anyway he taught you them all about we don't have any fresh out you're a monkey on your belly a little cooler and according to the Quran, the Quran Allah Allah Allah jelenia Coco mushroom or any
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