Ash-Shama-il al-Muhammadiyya #06 Hair Care

Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

beloved hamdulillah salatu salam ala Rasulillah

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We spoke last week about age

when you speak about

the weather.

Which part of rustlers SLM, we spoke about? Hair, Zach, Allah here.

And what did he say about the head of

the alleged

abuse of

sign language?

You figure.

So, we said that many narrations were by the Sahaba about the head of a soulless Isola, but what everyone has a different length, because everyone saw him a different time. Who's going to tell me the names? What does this mean? What is this and this this? Because

we said three names right?

Have you been the last one by working Wafra Wafra is what we're friends were hammered up to the ears. Excellent. Second one is Luma

is between the ears and the shoulder. And the last one

excellent. Joomla is to the shoulder. So there were three, many a hadith. And everyone indicated that also sometimes the length of the hair is on different levels.

And we said something else also, what else do we say when he entered

curly, not too curly not to stay outside. And

this is something we're not about. But we said that when he entered Mecca

how many for tears for braids when he entered Mecca and we said that the braids of a Salah Salem not out of fashion out of just not to keep busy with the hair.

So Saddam did not get busy with the hair. He

he did that in order to save time not to for Beautification and jello or that group, you know, how do I look? No, no, he did the braids just to make it quick. And at the same time, neath now in an attorney the Rahimullah dedicated the next chapter by saying bad magia theta rod jewel Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the reports pertaining to the hair care

who said about the hair now the hair care. How did he used to take care of his hair and his salatu salam.

The haircare is part of the cleanliness, cleanliness and personal hygiene that the legislator encouraged and recommended the proof of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Some people think that this is a hadith is not a hadith of alpha male Eman. Cleanliness is from Eman. This is not a hadith, but this is meant it is derived from many Hadith. So the meaning is true, but to say cholera solos, salam, another feminine Eman is not a hadith. But the meaning of the hadith is absolutely 100% True. But the Hadith

the Hadith that is set by Russell's As Salam is whoever has hair he should honor it.

Whoever has hair should he should honor it and he should take care to take care of it. Now we start with the first Hadith in this chapter. So please lend me your your heart and your ears.

Hadith Anna is half been muscial and sorry, her death and man Denisa had definite Malik been us and he sham been Ottawa and Abby and Aisha

Radi Allahu Anna Todd Khan to aura Jitsu, or sera su De La he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were Anna Hi

Aisha

Radi Allahu Anhu related. I used to come the hair of assume Lhasa Salam while I was in the state of menstruation ministration and she wasn't her menses and she used to come the hair for soloists, I sell them.

Now

obviously the mammoth Tirmidhi Rahim Allah put this hadith here, because of the word. I used to come the hair because we're talking about the hair and the care of Rasulullah Salam, the healthcare of Rasulullah sallallahu. So what do we what do we take from this hadith?

What are the lessons from this hadith?

You could help me if you want

what are some of the lessons from this hadith first

to take care of the head, which is the whole chapter, what else

we got to talk that in details what else

it is permitted for someone else to do your hair. So

I can have somebody to do my hair to fix my hair.

And they used to have comes back then.

One of the main lessons because if you noticed the term we're under had

is extra.

Right? Like I went to the supermarket and I bought milk and eggs and I was wearing a blue shirt. This wearing a blue shirt is extra. This has nothing to do with what the what was the message I want to get through. So why why did she say why? And I had my menses

Subhanallah we all know that the Jews they stay away completely from the wife when she's in that state. Completely. They stay away and some of them even did not touch her. They do not eat from her food. They any abandon her till she finishes

look at this extreme. And the salah Salem have his hair, his head in the lab of Aisha Radi Allahu Allah,

to show us that this does not apply to us.

That shows us that how much we honor the woman. This is a state

that Allah subhanaw taala have done, she did not do it on purpose.

And yet when

one time I was giving a lecture

in a college, it's a law school.

All the studying law. And the

professors were there sitting in the crowd, non Muslims 90% of the crowd was non Muslims. And I was telling them about Islam. One of the students invited me to speak about Islam. So you could imagine lawyers waiting for me to say something. So what did I say? I said that the woman during her mind says that she's not gonna pray. She's not supposed to pray.

Wow, they quote something.

What kind of religion is this? You prohibit the connection of the woman with God just because she has man says

Because according to them pray means what?

Babies one.

So did not get to their head, you know, how come what kind of god is this?

If I have something natural from him, I cannot

talk to him. I cannot supplicate to him.

So a misunderstanding was about the prayer. The word pray. So I told them no, no, she could make as many as possible. But this

exemption for her is yeah when Rama from ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada.

The woman being given a break is Rama from Allah. Have you ever seen an institution

or a company or organization when you go apply for a job? For the woman when she applies for a job? Do they tell her please mention how long is your man's history could take off?

Never.

But Allah does.

You know, you work very hard.

You take care of your family, take care of your husband, you take care of your children. You take care of your house. You take care of your cooking you take care of the cleaning

deserve a couple of days a month not to get a professional sleep.

We don't have that. Subhanallah so it's an honor. It's a utmost respect.

You know, you had pregnancy and it's been very hard.

So, take 40 days off

this is this is the Mercy of Allah subhanaw taala so here I show the Allah and Allah wants to tell us that no, no this does not apply to us.

This does not apply to us.

You can sit with me. The only thing that's prohibited is intercourse and we all know that everything else is

number one, number two.

When is the last time you your brother your Habibi your wife combed your hair

not wrestling comm lucky Allah, Allah

Subhana Allah, is there any more romance than this? Because they keep telling us that your deen is so strict. Your deen is this. Look at this. This is Romance This is unbelievable.

For samosa seller has had an Irish has lab and she is fixing his hair

loss.

How beautiful is that?

You have one

take a break and come sit in my office for one day.

Unfortunately, a

lot of problems in our homes.

A lot of marital problems a lot

spamela If every one of us the husband does his duty, and the wife does her duty but it's like supposed to be that the mother and wife. I want my career I want my this my that. The real. The one that we grew up our mothers or grandmothers

like this, how often do used to hear our grandparents fight? How come they really married 6070 years and now two years. Allah I cannot stand him anymore one year. Why?

They want to be equal. There's difference between Islam there is equality. There's difference between equality and

H.

Justice.

There's difference between equality and justice. Men or women, men and women in Islam are equal. They are equal men and Lasallian men veteran

men. From here no higher than five, Whosoever does righteous deeds, whether male or female, many places in the Quran, they will get the reward.

But justice is different. Justice is different.

There's differences they do not make a difference between equality and justice. It's not just to keep a woman standing up in in a job as a mechanic for 15 hours not just for her because she cannot handle it.

I give you example before

a man and a woman were talking about equality like or they say equality, right? A man and woman they both work in a university man from from a male perspective. And a woman from a female perspective. They both work in a university.

She is a PhD in Biology and he's the doorman he's the guy who stands at the security.

But he's a man and she's a woman.

We want to be fair and give them a test for both.

We want to give a test for both. We picked

a test in English, for example. The same test, same room, same people watching Same time, same season, same school, same everything. And we give them both the same test.

Who's gonna get a higher grade?

The PhD right?

We did everything the same equal. But it's not fair. It's not just this is very highly educated. This is not to fairness. Male and female. I did exactly the same. Exactly.

But it's not fair.

So that's why

when a man works as a mechanic,

and we ask a woman to work as a mechanic to and they are they want justice. They want equality.

If I give this man $20 an hour, and I give her $20 An hour they think it's equality. But this is not fair. Because when she has her period she's got

Have you become very weak, she might miss a couple of days of work. She might do this, she might do that. But he just because he's a man is doing the same job and a better job also because Allah built him different. Ask any doctor, the way they are built is different. So it's not just to give them the same thing.

We are Islamically Allah as the old just Islamic they are equal when it comes to our man. But when it comes to justice, it's not fair. To treat them the same. She can handle things different than him and he can handle issues different than her. says how Allah created us. So it says difference between equality and justice.

Allah subhanaw taala when he put my word done Rama, Allah put nada Bucha Allah, Allah put more than Rama between the husband and the wife. He put love and mercy

have you ever thought when the problems erupt at home? Have you ever thought what happened to the murder Rama? Allah put it there what happened? Something must have happened. I or her have done something that gets rid of that drama and the murder. Definitely Allah said it's there. I mean it and Hannah cannot come in and push it as well.

Not that

he Allah said I put my head down Rama. You took that woman

you took that daughter of so and so.

And she became your Halal was one word was one word. The West Touka cobuild.

You will not told go swim two miles and grab this and do this and climb that mountain. And after two months come report and then you get that woman the wish to come cuddled

so yucky that wife of yours is someone

else's daughter is someone

else's sister.

Just like the way the way you want someone to treat your daughter and treat your sister, please

treat them with respect and with honor. And similarly,

my beloved respected sister.

Look at this. We want to learn from Rasulullah Solomon from Irish what what do we want to learn?

We pick and choose.

Look at the mercy look at the love. Look at the relationship. This is the busiest man ever. He's not a chef

giving a lecture. He's not an imam answering fatwa. He's establishing Dean establishing Dean.

We get busy a little bit and we go home. I have no time to talk to anybody leaves me alone. Don't you see me exhausted. This is the busiest man ever establishing Dean. He has time to sit down in his wife's lap and convince her

give her the time yucky communication. Online communication is the secret of success.

between the husband and the wife, dedicate my wife on will not let me go to sleep until she sits with me one hour every night.

Not sleeping until you sit with me. And I enjoyed so much and it changed everything. Sit down with your wife no matter what she says even if she says boring stuff. Pretend you're happy. Pretend you're enjoying it.

Trust me towards

you have to bring back the modern Rama back to our homes in sha Allah may Allah fill up all our homes with love and mercy I mean you're brightening

and when you have an issue Subhan Allah just I will finish with this with this but this topic when you have an issue at home, Allah use the word Nevada and Rama if I want to run as easy if I want to ask Allah for Rama what name do I use?

Rahim Rahman Al Hamra him in Nevada

why dude?

So when you have issues at home and you have shortage of drama, yeah, dude.

Just like Yeah, man. Yeah, have a rockin Yeah, well, dude.

I delivered the baby over in a soldier. Yeah, we do bring back the murder. Yeah, Allah fill my house.

Because we are taught. When Allah Hill Asma UL Husna for those who behalf And to Allah belong the list of names ask him by these names. So I want to ask I use reserve. I want to I use ramen. I want Max. I use for I want Nevada

Oh, dude

I was Nevada I use the word dude let's take one more Hadith inshallah so this also indicate that you're supposed to take care of your hair because sometimes we noticed some you know some brothers come their hair like you know, really messy mess completeness don't go to extremes Don't be

from the people who neglect the hair completely and don't be from the people who 45 minutes brother give me 45 minutes before you come Shala I just want to fix my hair

this is too extreme

to be honest with you I know a couple of brothers like this. Yeah, and if the hair this one moved up one inch. Give me a break. I have to go it was a bit of Guiliani that's this that bad. So those two are two extremes.

One more Hadith insha Allah Tala

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rakaposhi and as of numeric Khan, can Rasool allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam use serum? The 100 CV what is three lithiated Where you see rule Lukina had Ken Thurber who fillable the yet

and as of now Malik narrated that or Salah Salem used to frequently oil his hair and combed the beard. He would often wear a cloth around his head, which would eventually appear to look like the cloth of an oil man.

Okay

another Hadith indicating that to take care of your hair.

Can we replace the oil here by gel for example, our time

now?

Why not?

Have Albion jealousness nose clean gel? Nothing on hamdulillah there's nothing

there's still oil right now. They still have oil for the hair. As a matter of fact, olive oil is the best thing. One time my brother has Palestinian I swam in New York his hair is like so healthy all the time. What do you do?

They tune

out avoid pure avoid from first thing.

Always Always you could tell any healthy, healthy hair. If you're bald put out avoid it's not going to be a problem.

Okay,

so

she said when he put the human resource, I seldom wear the cloth. This is a cloth that is put over the head to protect the turban from the stains of the oil.

We noticed from that hadith, that when it comes to the hair, or Salah Salem, he would permit someone to calm his hair. But when it came to the beard, we never seen a hadith that someone else caught his beard he used to do that himself alayhi salatu salam.

Now, someone might say,

the way that hadith ended, that the cloth appears like a cloth of an oil man, it might give you

an indication that maybe that was dirty or something. You see, those thoughts should not come to your mind when it comes to Rasulullah sallallahu

that he will never ever look like you know, dirty or

untidy or you know, no, no, even if that thought comes to your mind, because of the Hadith. Tell yourself, I might have misunderstood the Hadith. It's not the Hadith, it's me.

Because there's no way he would tell me and you and every Muslim till the Day of Judgment look neat, look clean, and he goes on his oil on his clothes. That's not a service. So the Sheikh said here, which would eventually appear to look like a cloth of an Oil Man This refers only to the hair cover. This meaning is the most suitable, and it be fits the state of Rasulullah Salem, whose clothes were evidently always clean.

Not to mention the Hadith where he encouraged people to keep their clothes always always

is clean

you know what let me finish this chapter it's Okay one more Hadith. Okay

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is generated or the Alana that resource center used to like to start with the right side when engaging in his ritual purification or do or purification he used to start with the right combing the hair also with the right and putting the shoes on. Remember when we were talking about the Sunnah, the neglected sunnah. The Sunnah is when you put your shoes, you put the right first and when you take them off, you take the left first. Okay, when you put them on, you put the right first. So this hadith is obviously used just because she wants to say that he used to do that with his right hand. And the last hadith is now rasool Allah says salam and Tara Joel Illa rip the rip

up. Abdullah, have fun narrated that also salam prohibited the coming of the hair, unless it's done occasionally. This is exactly what we spoke about before, not to go extreme and take hours to fix the hair. And not to neglect it any occasionally, one day you fix it one day you don't as long as it does not look messy. And if you some hair on most of the hair, if you don't fix it every single day, just like my hair does not look messy.

But we have somebody's hair like we also have to fix it every day.

I shall not imagine coming with an afro.

So don't go crazy fixing the hair and don't dedicate a lot of time. You could have read Quran in that time pray to rock. Remember Allah subhanaw taala because at the end of the day, all our our man is supposed to be for the akhira and how can I increase my bad and the pleasure of Allah from me? May Allah subhanaw taala make us from the people who apply with the herd. May Allah subhanaw taala gather us all with Rasul Allah salAllahu Salam. So you can see all these things live in sha Allah and either but I mean, is that going to head over a coffee calm as salam aleikum wa rahmatullahi