AIC Ramadan Event Gratefulness

Mirza Yawar Baig

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The host of a virtual event discusses the importance of gratitude and experiences in life, emphasizing the benefits of small things like eating and drinking. They stress the importance of small things like chili and keeping track of metrics to measure success. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of being aware of one's progress and making small small decisions to achieve larger goals.

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I begin in the name of Allah,

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god almighty, the glorious and magnificent.

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And I send salutations

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on his messenger, Muhammad

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peace and blessings be upon him.

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Welcome to this wonderful event. This is my

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2nd time here in AIC. We had a

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similar event in the same place

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last year, and that was also very nice.

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I'm really well attended.

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And my thanks also to a lot of

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my friends here here who are not from

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AIC, and thank you for taking the time

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to come,

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and participate and be with us here, inshallah.

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Allah

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tells us in the ayat which

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we hear in practically

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every Friday, every jama'ah and every masjid on

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the face of the planet

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then Allah

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said,

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He said, which means

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all you who believe

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have concern for Allah

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have taqwa of Allah

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as it is his right.

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And do not die except in a state

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of complete submission to Allah

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except in a state of Islam.

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Taqwa is

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the concern for Allah

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for his pleasure

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to please him in everything we say or

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do

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as it is his right that he should

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be pleased.

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It is his right because everything we have,

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we owe to Allah

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To give you a

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quick,

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some thoughts here on this, what do we

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have?

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Think about this.

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If our hair

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were live tissue,

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if the hair had nerve endings,

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you would have to go under a general

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anesthesia every time you need a haircut,

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so also the nails.

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This town, Springfield,

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has an area of 33 square miles.

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One square mile is 6 40 acres.

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1 inch

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of rain or precipitation

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per acre

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weighs 113

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tonnes.

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Springfield had

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rainfall of,

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last year Springfield had

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50 inches of rainfall.

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If that rain

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came down

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as one mass,

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50 inches of rainfall if it came down

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as 1 mass,

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average cloud height is 15,000

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feet.

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That would be a mass.

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The weight of that would be a

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119,000,320,000

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tons.

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If you get hit

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by

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a 119,300,000

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tonnes,

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there's only one

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result.

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Springfield would be one big lake of 33

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square miles,

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and it would be

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along with the connect along

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with the Connecticut

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River.

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There would be no Springfield.

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But Allah

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sends that 50 inches of rain

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in single drops

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and single flakes of stone.

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Right? So think about that.

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This is Allah.

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He sends down what he sends down, but

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the way he sends it down itself is

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mercy.

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Look at the people in our lives.

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Who are the people in our lives?

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We have 2 kinds of people in our

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lives.

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Those who teach us to be grateful

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and those who teach and who give us

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experience.

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Both are useful.

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Some people, you are with them, and you

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are very grateful that you are blessed with

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them. With other people, you learn how to

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deal with people.

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Both are good things.

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I had a friend,

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and we were at a party in Hyderabad

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where I come from in India, which has,

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according to me at least, the most fabulous

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cuisine

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of any place on the face of the

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earth.

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And we were at this party. We were

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having this dinner. So I picked up my

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plate and I said to her, isn't this

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food absolutely fantastic?

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She said, I don't know.

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I said, what do you mean? You don't

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know? You're eating. She said, yeah.

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So how don't you know?

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She said, because to me, everything tastes like

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cardboard.

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I

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said, why?

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She said, because after my 3rd child, I

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completely lost

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my taste buds.

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My taste buds don't function anymore.

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So when you eat the food today,

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think about that.

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She said she she said you can give

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me the the the most the hottest chili

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in the world, the hottest pepper in the

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world, I won't feel it.

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You can give

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me the most bitter thing in the world,

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I won't feel it. You can give me

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the sweetest thing in the world, I don't

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know.

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My brother

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Allah said in another place, If

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you try to count the blessings of Allah,

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you will not be

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able

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to

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count

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them. Individual things.

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So called small things. How many times

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when you have your first cup of coffee

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in the morning and you smell the aroma

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and you have that first sip of coffee,

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how many times do you think about taste

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buds and how many times do you think

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about the connection between smell and taste?

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You know the smell goes, the taste goes.

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Right?

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Sometimes your nose is very blocked and you

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can't smell anything. You can't taste anything.

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One little,

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the ears, the fluid in the in the

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in the, ear canals

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is what gives us balance.

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Right?

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One little change in that, and you will

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not be able to stand upright.

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You will get terrible nausea,

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and you'll be completely dizzy and you will

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not be able to stand upright.

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How many times do you think about that?

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How many times do you think about your

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big toe?

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Because without your big toe, you wouldn't be

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able to walk.

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How many times do you think about the

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thumb?

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The opposing join to the others,

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which gives you the power to hold. If

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you didn't have the thumb, you couldn't hold

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anything.

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Or at least not manipulate it and and

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hold them in a in a in a

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in a way which is useful.

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How many times do you think about language?

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Think about what an amazing thing language is.

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Language is the ability that human beings have

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of taking abstract thoughts,

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converting them into specific sounds

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which have meaning,

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which somebody who understands that language,

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the minute they hear that sound,

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the picture pops in the mind.

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For example, if I say mother,

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2 sounds.

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A picture pops in your mind.

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I say the same thing.

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I say the same thing.

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I say the same thing.

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How many people who don't know Urdu, who

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don't know Arabic,

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who don't know travel?

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Did that make any sense to you?

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But when I say mother because you know

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English,

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are you thinking m o t h e

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r, or are you thinking the face of

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your mom?

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You know what I'm saying?

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Do we reflect on this? I mean, imagine

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imagine

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the power of language

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that today in 2024,

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you can read

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a book called The Republic written by Plato

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2,000 plus years ago.

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See, one of the,

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most

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powerful very simple but most powerful things to

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do is to write us,

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literally like 2 lines,

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a count of your day

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every night.

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So keep a keep a notepad.

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I think it's important to write physically with

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your hand.

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It's the connection between the brain and the

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hand.

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So you can write it one way of

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writing is, what did I learn today?

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Ask yourself the question, what did I learn

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today? And write that down. Whatever. I learned

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to cook eggs in a particular way. Very

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fantastic. So today's learning.

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Right? It doesn't have to be some great,

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spiritual thing you learn. No. Anything.

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What did I learn today?

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So then you become so every day now,

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for example, if you say, what did I

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now your mind is blank. I can't write.

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I I really don't know what I think

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I learned nothing.

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It brings even there, that's beneficial because it

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brings an awareness that today, the whole day

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24 hours got

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crushed. Right? I learned nothing.

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So now tomorrow, I'm going to live with

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that. I'm not gonna allow another 24 hours

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to go trash like this. So I'm going

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to learn something.

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Similarly, you can say, what did I do

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for Allah today?

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Only to please Allah.

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Again, it can be anything. It can be

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charity. It can be being nice to somebody.

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It can be prayer. It can be salah.

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It can be whatever. Right? What did I

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do to please Allah today?

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So if I can't think of anything, then,

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again, wake up call. Alright? So one day

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passed tomorrow,

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I'm not going to allow another day to

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pass and as, you know, without having done

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something for Allah, whatever.

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Smallest thing to the biggest thing.

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So when you do this,

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what did I learn? What did I do

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what did I do for Allah today?

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What good thing I do? Whatever. You know?

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Meaning,

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you keep track of that metrics.

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The guy the the the

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quality,

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system called 6 Sigma,

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and, the guy who invented that, he used

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to work for Motorola. He

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this called me. His name is Michael Harrie.

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So Michael Harrie said a wonderful thing. He

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said, if you want to see what people

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value,

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see what they measure.

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If you want to see what people value,

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see what they measure. And you know the

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most powerful

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place to understand that? I'm sure you must

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have heard this term, time is money.

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People say time is money. But imagine,

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if I lose $20,

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even though I can afford to lose weight,

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I will still feel that my $20 has

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gone somewhere.

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But 20 minutes I lose.

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I'm not even conscious of that.

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Not a just

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sit on this phone, open TikTok,

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and 1 hour will pass like

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2 seconds, like 2 minutes. Right?

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Totally.

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Now think about that. What is the actual

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value of that 1 hour? The actual value

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of that 1 hour is put yourself in

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that situation.

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You are dying.

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Right? Last breaths.

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And at that time, say Malakor Maut, the

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angel of death comes to you and say,

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Michael,

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I will give give you now. I will

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give you

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the time that you spend on TikTok.

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Right? So now what's the value of that

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time at the at at

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of of the period of time at that

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time of death? What's the value of that?

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Fantastic, because if I get that time now,

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I can correct myself with Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, I can make Istighfar, Tawbah, I can

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repent,

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maybe I can do salah or something and

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then I'm dying in a state of salah

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and sujood. All this. Right?

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But the angel of death says, I can

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give this to

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you, but

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not for free.

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So what will you pay me for that?

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What will you pay me? Anything. Anything. Right?

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They take everything because all this stuff, any

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in any case, I'm going to die. This

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will be left here. But take it.

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That doesn't happen.

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This will not happen. I'm only fantasizing.

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When the time for death comes, you go.

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But right now we have that time.

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We have that choice.

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Do I want to spend time watching TikTok

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or do I want to spend time doing

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something useful, beneficial?

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That's the choice we have.

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Right? And that's the reason why, as I

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said, Michael Larry said, measure.

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If you want to see what people value,

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see what they measure.

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We measure money. We count money.

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We say time is money, but we don't

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count time. Time passes.

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And that's the reason why we waste. We

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don't waste. I mean, we waste money in

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a different way in the sense of use

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you use it for useless things, but

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nobody will just take out the wallet and

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throw away money like this. No? We won't

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do that.

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What do we try?

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Nothing. No track occurs. Comes and goes.

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That's the reason why it's so important to

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keep this in mind.

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So end of the day,

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write a

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notebook and say, today,

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my learnings.

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Now make this into a habit. Believe me,

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it is the most powerful habit that you

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will ever have.

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You know, you'll remember this throughout your life.

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Write that down. And who knows? I mean,

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if you write enough stuff down and some

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at some point in time when you have

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grandchildren to make this into a book and

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give it to them. This is what I

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learned in my life. Go read.

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Yeah. Seriously.

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Imagine. I mean, can anybody that's such a

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powerful thing.

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Right?

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Such a powerful thing. They said, here's my

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here's my life.

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That's the power of language.

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And with that I want to end

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because it's now time to break a fast

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and that is

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the sound of the azan

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where Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's name is being

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glorified.

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Allahu Akbar.

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The same thing is said in English,

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God is the greatest

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Thank you very much.

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Thank you very much.