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Tricks Of Shaytan #8 – Rules of Communication Between Men & Women

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Majed Mahmoud

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Santa Monica, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam during Hajj underlined the word Hajj, was with his cousin Alfred lunella Bass may Allah be pleased by him. When a young woman may Allah be pleased by her King to ask the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a question after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was done answering the young woman's question he noticed that unfolded followed that young woman with his sight. He was looking at her. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam gently tilted the neck of a fallen away from looking at the young woman. When I father's father Allah best me Allah be pleased by him. Notice that he asked the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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why did you tilt the neck of your cousin like that? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, are I to share been worshiping? I saw a young man and a young woman fell in many shapes by Natalie Hema, and I do not trust the shaitan I do not trust the devil. I am concerned of the damage he may cause to the both of them the brother and the sister. If the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was worried about the impact of the shape on during Hajj towards the companions around the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, then what about us on campus? What about in the mall? What about on social media? And even what about in the masjid? May Allah protect us all from the shape on the

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, the moment a woman goes out is the Surefire shavon the devil comes and approaches her he camps around her. What does he do? He attacks from that base both the man and the woman asked for his attack on the men there are so many on both men and women. But one of the highlights here is to attack the man and make him try to see the woman as sexually attractive. He does not want the man to look into her character and didn't know just look at her as a sexual object. May Allah protect us as for the devil's attack on the woman, the shaytaan tries to make the woman concerned of how attractive she is to the man, as it been measured said in authentic

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narration that the shaytaan says to the woman in Nicoletta Marina, they had an adjective you better dress, look, talk walk to impress will seek a lot of protection from the shaitaan. Allah commanded the brothers clearly in the Quran.

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Colima, meaning a boom in Assad in him. And Allah commanded the sisters, while only Mina to burden them in other Assad in tell the believing men and tell the believing women to do what to lower some of their sight. Avoid looking at the opposite gender with desire. And a man and a woman should not look at each other's our private parts as defined in Islam, even if there was no desire because that's our now this includes even if the hour was covered with very tight clothing, as not the daughter of Abu Bakar may Allah be pleased by Esma and her father, as the woman who prepared the right of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for immigration was once gifted clothing, and she

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started feeling the material. Afterwards, she stated that she cannot accept the gift. They told her why the clothes are not see through or something like that. She said it might not be see through, but it's very tight and descriptive to the body. This was an attitude of someone who does not care about the blaming of the people rather cared about Allah. May Allah protect us all. The second and last means of protection from shavon to share with you when it comes to gender relations, is to avoid meeting in private and it doesn't matter if the guy is a chez Mufti, some sort of a very nice guy or girl. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Allah Allah, Allah Narayan Deborah never

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is a man and a woman alone with one another in lack and a third is a homosapien, except that the devil was the third was in that gathering, brothers and sisters. And then and a woman in a situation like that is like they have locked themselves up with the devil and gave them full access. The shavon would read the body language of the man and the woman, then customize his whispers to them accordingly, step by step he has all the time in the world, all of that to break every boundary Allah has placed between men and women. So be aware of the steps of shaitaan. It starts with checking the other person's profile picture, for example, then timeline, then sliding in the DM

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until they meet behind closed doors, away from the sight of people. But remember, none of us will ever be away from the sight of Allah. And if we let our guard down, we don't take this serious and fall for the tricks of shavon aphasia.

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filth and immodesty, and all that spreads. Then as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, never does immodesty and lack of chastity spreads in our society, except that plagues and diseases, pain and sicknesses that were never known before will be spreading amongst them. May Allah protect us And forgive us all. Feel free to share this video for others to benefit with Solomonic.