The Dangers Of Zina

Majed Mahmoud

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I would like to start with you with a man who literally just walked into the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, while the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam had people over. Once he walked in, he says he also Allah, O Prophet of Allah and I want you to imagine the scene people are surrounding the greatest man ever walked on the earth Mohammed Ali usato Salah, and someone just walks in says, All prophet of Allah, give me permission to commit as enter. The man is clearly frustrated, the man clearly has desires.

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He's struggling jaleswar Please give me that, you know, permission allow me make it hard for me to be able to go to some other woman to whatever a woman that I like or anyone Just give me that permission that I'm able to fulfill my desires outside of marriage. That barrier como la even the people the promise I'm not saying anything yet. You want you to imagine the scene that people are on the Prophet. They approach this man phazzer geroux wakad and they said, Whoa, whoa, what are you talking about? And Don't you have any shame? Close your mouth? What are you doing?

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So Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told this young man, come, come have a seat right here. Could you know come close to me Have a seat. So this man comes and he sits right next to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Baba and there's a lot that we can speak about. The prophets wisdom Allah and Soto Salaam and how we approached and so on and so forth. So then the professor asked him is about to say something that is not easy. It's not easy for someone to say. But he wants to mention it to him maybe because he saw good in him Allah Allah knows best. So he says towards them and to him bully omic would you want this permission? What do you want to this is a not to be given

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and happened to your own mother? is very tough and you don't want to even imagine that. Would you be okay? If a guy you know what, he starts to flirt with your mom, okay. And all he wants out of her is just fulfilling his sexual pleasure. Would you be okay with that for someone to do that to your own mom? And usually if you guys met them when I talk to someone else you say do you think someone's mom would appreciate that that's where you would kind of push her away from the guy you're talking to? But the Prophet says your own mom and I want everyone to hear this including myself. What do we want that to happen to our own moms? No. So that so that man says law well law no way well, law II know I

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can't even I can't even imagine it you know, so a lot no way Lola so in the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells him what a natural and even the people not just you but the people in general do not love this to happen to their own mom. So then he asked him another four sets about groups of people then number two is his effort to hibou hypnotic would you be okay for this to happen to your own daughter? Would you be okay to a guy you know to approach your own daughter and then commit Zina with her? Would you be okay for her to be undressed and stripped out of our own clothes and this hat would you be okay with that? So the man doesn't want you to imagine La la la la he also Allah no way

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also Allah. So then he taught tells them the prophet SAW said and then know that other people do not love this to happen. They do not like this to happen to their own daughters. So you may be doing this the meaning to other people's daughters. Then he says number three, is that you have Bulli audit. Would you be okay for your sister to do that? Would you be okay for your sister to for example, I'm give adding this this addition is from me. Would you be okay for your sister to go through us to be with someone in the car away from people's eyes in the dark night and do what she what she would possibly do off commitment of Xena would you be okay with that? He says love Allahu

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Allah so Allah He says what learn while a nurse we have been on our team and the people do not want for their sister because when you commit Zina, it will have it will have to be either someone's mom, someone's sister, someone's daughter. Then the problem continues four and five. And he says to him Boolean Matic would you be okay for this to happen to your paternal aunt, your mom's your dad's sister would you be okay with that? He says now will law Jilin your love feedback I'll give up my mom for I'll give up my mom and dad for a year or so I'll get off my life for a year or so Allah no no no wait. When a nurse we have Boone only imagine and people do not want this to happen to their

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own ons from the Father side. Then he says the last one caught attic. Would you be okay for your partner to do this? Then he says they are also a lot of course now Allah Jelena Luffy Duck Duck. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam at the end he says, know that people don't want this also for the haisla and anyone who commits a sin, remember this Hadith, or approaches that sin or passes that sin? Remember this, you don't want what goes around comes around. You won't want this to happen to your own family, then why do you accept on yourself to do it to other people's families? And that's a barrier to protect you from Xena right off the bat is to realize would you want this to

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happen to your own family? So why do you do it to other people's

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Families. Well, she's okay with it. I don't care if she's okay with it. Oh, well her father doesn't gather doesn't I don't care. Her father doesn't care about it. Do you care about this having your own family? I'm talking to believers. My audience right now is people of La Isla in LA. My audience right now are people of Muhammad Rasul Allah. I'm not talking to some people that say, well, what's the big deal about it? Like, that's not my target audience. I never told me to give this session to people c'est la ilaha illa Allah Muhammad Rasul Allah. So that's something to take to take note of. Then the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam does a beautiful move brothers and sisters look when he

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does, he puts his hand on to this young man. Okay, Eileen Salatu was me Allah, Allah, the prophet as I love to hug us in general to be around us in general to hold our hands and walk us together into gender. Yeah, I mean, yeah, I mean, so the problem I said, llamada Yahuwah Allah he puts his hand over this young man and he says three things. Allah homak for them, but Allah forgive us since water here kalba and purify his heart waha sinharaja and protect and and safeguard his private part into not falling into Haram. The Hadith narrator says fell and yet converted elica alfetta you have data to illustrate after this. And after this, no, see how that man received. He never fell into that

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Xena move May Allah protect us immutable, I mean, there's something to truly appreciate brothers and sisters, you know, when it comes to the action of Xena and then some people may be watching, let's define a bit. What does actual Jena that is being referred to here and the punishments and so on. It is when a man approaches a woman or a woman approaches a man. And part of that meaning is when a man does to a woman what is necessary to have children in such a way as a product or services and one other hobbies is when the man's private part is inside the private part of Windows can no longer be visible, as explicit as it sounds as a prophet sallallahu eyeson described in one other hadith of

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what Xena constitutes. But this doesn't mean that we belittle the steps prior to Zina, we did not be little, you know holding out of disrespect or out of sexual lust and so on with the other gender, it doesn't mean that we are belittling looking at the actual dinner. It doesn't mean that we belittle listening to Xena, it doesn't mean that we belittle talking about Xena in the way of flirting and so on. But when we talk about the Xena and the punishment, yes, it's about the peak. It's about that part. May Allah protect us. I mean, and what do you know about that peak? And what do you know about the Xin I mean Allah protect us and you know, Bella alameen Rasul Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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and every time you hear that name, see some Malala you were sending them, he says either gender rajul when a man commit Zina or the woman commit Zina hollow German who will eat man, a man is stripped off that person, a man is leaves the body of that person sapan Allah, may Allah protect us. It's like no, you have to appreciate this hadith. The moment someone gets undressed, or takes off a cloth here and bear to perform the actual dinner. They're not just stripping their clothes, but they're stripping their body from their email. May Allah protect us And forgive us. I mean durable alameen hora, jammy no Emad, amen exits the body, can Allah He kavala than a man will be like a

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cloud outside the body. So even copper Raja Illa even then when that man or that woman makes true Toba, sincere Toba to Allah subhanho wa Taala. Then that Eman that left may go back to the body. You know what this shows people say okay, how bad is it? how bad it is so bad? That it destroys one's email. It's so bad that the man leaves the body man doesn't want it. I got nothing to do with this action. That's how much it can scar our faith. May Allah protect us, but the doors of towbar their repentance is possible as a prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, If this man stopped if this man made Toba Raja he man he man comes back to the individual. And then you hear about the Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wasallam and while we're saying this, you realize something about Xena it's only a matter of minutes that's all we sell the world sometimes we sell the asset for a few minutes. May Allah protect us and grant us Jenna I mean Rob Bell alameen and halaal substitution, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one time he had a dream and we know that the dreams of the prophets you know we are these are Roja from Allah subhanho wa Taala. So he had a dream that you saw naked men and woman was no clothes inside an oven. The oven was in a cone shape. The top is sealed as locked. And these naked men and women are inside that oven. Is your fire. No, not yet. The Prophet

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says then the fire is ignited. Then they yell and they scream and they try to leave the oven but the oven is in a coma.

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Close shape, they cannot leave it and then the fire gets turned off. And then all of a sudden the fire comes back on again. And they go through that torture and that punishment because what they did to the society, Xena is not all so and so and so and so alone in a bedroom now a lot it's a lot bigger than this. When that sin takes place a lot of anger and wrath takes place and the more people that do it, the more Allah's anger can come about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam says either over hora Xena were Riba for Korea when Xena becomes you know, everywhere and Riba becomes everywhere a lot it's almost common for a Hello the unforeseen other a lot then it has become an

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obligation our job Oh, it's almost it's a done deal. A loss punishment will come to the city. What were the two things Xena and Reba May Allah protect us animal Allah mean? So don't say Oh, just me. I know what is my life My body was this nonsense law. This body is an Amana utrust Gate Allah gave you and gave me that we have have to fulfill May Allah protect us and greatest strength me hon. Allah mean, then you hear brothers and sisters, just to show to what level we're talking about here. And then went to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He says you are also Allah, you will then be asked about what is one of the greatest and the worst of sins. So

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he says, and the only law he needed then were who were halaqaat when you associate someone with a lot while it was Allah Who created you to do [???], the worst and ever, as many of you perhaps know, if not all of you, then that's how they are on the Allahu anhu he says some a then what comes next? He says the man duck Tula when a doctor and your time amok you kill your own son or daughter Why? Because you fear that you will not financially be able to take care of them. You fear that there will be a financial burden on you. So you're like you know what, let me just kill that baby and so want to get rid of him murder. So I love put shut up and said shidduch murder ready for number

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three. He saw a lot while he was asked to leave and what comes next number three. And to zania Bihari Lottie jarick for a man for you to commit Zina with the wife of your neighbor. That's how Xena is classified. We'll talk about shidduch we're talking about murder and we talk about Xena brothers and sisters. And you know what the prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. When this when he mentioned this there's an ayah that confirms that listen to the ayat, this is from Surah Furqan Allah says, I will be ledgestone rajim Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim one leadin Allah you're their own ama Allah healer. And this is that ship. While Jaco toluna enough seletti how Rama Allahu Allah will

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help and kill an innocent soul that Allah Subhana Allah has made haram to kill unless there was justification. So murder Well, yes known and those who commit Zina what happens what happens if someone does that? Well my father like a young man whoever does that will face severe severe punishment. How much you law of love will either boy Oh man, the punishment will be multiplied. How bad is jahannam already? How bad is your McLemore already for the disbelievers are the people have major sins of such short it's so bad Allah says yo da double Allah Come on, you'll go off lol other mo multi wire Hello fi mohana and they will remain in Johanna humiliated. May Allah protect us Allah

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for once again sherek murder and the committing of Xena How bad is murder? Do you not destroy a whole family? Do you not just know it's only one song that's not one so as families and when someone commits a sin I know it's you as an individual, you're hurt you as an individual your modesty is scratched you as an individual will struggle to get married to a decent righteous person. you as an individual have caused so much harm to your family. you as an individual have caused so much harm to your city to your message your society. The repercussions are major, but Allah says after that it

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our amela I'm alone sorry ha except the ones who repent back to Allah. If he did shirk, if you did Xena and you still alive yellow rush back to a loss of hands run back to Allah subhanho wa Taala as Allah says, except those who repent and do righteous deeds for Allah aka you but Dino law who say team Hazara, these are the people Allah will substitute their sins there say you add into good deeds, what can Allah who are for I'm rahima I know that Allah subhanho wa Taala is the most forgiving the Most Merciful

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Brothers and sisters, yes, some people may say, why it's happening is very often it's very frequent that this happens. But realize that when you protect yourself from it, Allah will protect you and honor you. Allah will protect you and honor you. And yes, the ability for someone to commit Zina today has never been easier. Perhaps Allah knows best in the history of humanity. May Allah make it may Allah make it hard and protect us all American elements make it hard for our brothers and sisters and ourselves to ever fall into the sin I mean herbal alanine, but let me give you some glad tidings for so lice Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam he gave the example. This is a woman, a wonderful

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woman. And the Prophet says we're Cadman x and in that she was the one of the most beautiful women Allah has ever created. Allahumma barik but she though she was beautiful, she was a woman of modesty. Because Subhan Allah and someone needs to realize, when someone has given so much wealth, it's not so easy, they don't do harm with it. When someone has given so much power, it's not easy for them not to abuse their power. When someone has given so much fame. It's not so easy for them to make their fame only in good causes. And similarly, when someone is given so much good looks, it's not easy for them to remain modest and have chastity. It's a challenge they have to work on because

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they know they can do wonders. This wonderful lady Sora Sora love the love Allahu Allah May Allah be pleased by her. She was one of the most good looking women Allah ever created. Yet, she never used her looks to seduce to hurt and to ruin other men's lives. She never did. Rather she was modest, she saved guarded her body, she protected herself. So much so brothers and sisters, and you see her with the fruits of that one time a pharaoh at her time. When he heard about Sato walking into his city. He had the soldiers pick up saddam literally pretty much kidnapping saddam and taking it too far out of that time. So the Harry says vilonia tomalak, that Pharaoh that loser when he saw sada he could

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not control himself. He couldn't even have a conference. He was too good looking for him to have an introduction. That's how that is how good looking she was. And that's how filthy he was. So then when he came to approach her sought out of the law, why not she'll go back to Allah with a job. What will she say? What will she intercede in? She said three things Allahumma inconnu are meant to be cambiaso like Oh Allah, if I was a true believer in you and in your profit that's one

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word Psalm two forum g il Allah zoji and I have not made a single man who is not supposed to touch me touch me. If I did that your love for your sake and I save guard myself, fella to solid Allah hodel Catherine, I beg you Yeah, Allah Don't let this Kaffir touch me. So right when he said that, that Pharaoh, the soldiers, he has all that power diminished. Allah made that man go through some severe sort of seizure, His hands were going right and left and his legs as if he's going mad and so on. So then he begged her to please please give me a chance. I promise I'll not do this again. Long story short, she is saved and she returns back to our family. But what was the thing that saved her

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on that day? It was her modesty and chastity. So you have to realize that so May Allah forgive us for any shortcomings. I mean, you're a bill alanine. And then you have this beautiful Hadith of the Prophet SAW salad on your mouth. Hey Anna, we give you dunya we'll give you our Allah He never do leave the Haram never do leave the Haram except that Allah will give you something and something equivalent to law, something better than what you left in Hello, you will have that which is the haraam allowed you something substitution that is better than what you left, you see in dunya of protection, and an actor of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, seven are under the shade

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of Allah when there's no shade except the shade. One of the seven Roger on a man whom a woman comes and she seeks to have sexual intimacy or in relationship with Him. And He says no, I fear Allah subhanho wa Taala. And this also applies to the girl in sha Allah when a man tries to flirt and that's his target, to have this relationship and she says, No, I fear Allah so panel, what's your honor? And when you hear these things of reward, you hear this of punishment. You realize that Allah subhanho wa Taala want nothing but the best for you brothers and sisters. And then the question comes, Okay, brother, how do we protect ourselves from this? How do we do what's necessary for us

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not to fall into Xena, there's multiple things that obviously that can be married and that can be mentioned. I'll share with you three you

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Number one, it slipped my tongue is marriage of course, also a lifestyle Allah highly advise the brothers and sisters to get married to get married whenever that is possible I pray to Allah subhanho wa Taala to grant everyone who's watching me right now every single brother and sister May Allah grant your right your spouse, me hon. Allah mean, and don't be shy in the sense that oh, you know the topic and so on love the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he told us a harbor that you basically the meaning you will get rewarded for having this sexual relationship with your wife, Allah will reward you with Hashanah, good deeds. So those who have I said, they are also Allah, we

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get rewarded for fulfilling our sexual desires with our wives. He says some Allahu alayhi wa sallam if you did it outside of marriage, would you not be held accountable? Would you not accumulate sins, as a result you're doing it in the halaal Allah will give you wonderful amount of reward and has entered Allahu Akbar. So marriage type thing. I cannot the know whether it's marriage or not marriage, this is something to do regardless, lowering the gaze. looking away from the Haram This is a very critical aspect, whether you are married or not married, don't think marriage is you know, 100% solution from people falling into Xena law law. Perhaps the devil will attack you more than a

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single man because your punishment or married man married woman is far greater than the one who's single. But pay attention. Those who are single doesn't belittle the same way Allah protect us Mirabelle aalameen lowering the gaze. That's step two of three. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa Salaam share with you this wonderful any very amazing point here so Allah Allah Allah sent me noticed it was enhanced it was when it was enhanced. When the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam saw his relative cousin alphabet email address or the lower I know him and his father, may Allah be pleased by both of them. I felt that they loved us. He was around the process alum when a young

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woman came to ask the Prophet sallallahu I didn't use it. My question she came she has a question about hydrocele. So in the province, I said I answered the question to that sister, he noticed a father of the Allahu anhu You know, he was looking at that girl. So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, not said he did. He gently tilted the neck of a father so the father is staring at this girl. He gently moved his neck and to look away. See how important it is to move your eyes away from the heart like bro, I'm in hedge, you know, I'm not gonna come in and hedge Don't, don't say stuff like that. Do what the prophet SAW Allah has advised him because there are steps Allah says in the

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Quran, when the club was Xena don't approach Don't come close to Xena. Allah didn't say explicit Don't go Don't commit Zina in this I don't even take the steps that lead to Xena. How many people committed Xena Muslims and non Muslims, Muslims and non Muslim when it was never planned? It was just a step after the other step after the other May Allah protect us. So the prophets of Allah alayhi wa sallam grabbed the neck of alpha labas and gently tilted it away from looking at that woman. So guess who comes the father of a father? For the law and who and the uncle of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam and he said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Why did you tilt

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the neck of your cousin like that? So the prophets are Sam says the following Ready? Ready. He says that I too sharp and worship. I saw a young man and a young woman fell on him and he shaved on it Allah Hema and I do not trust the devil towards them. The promise excellent sees that young men and women shaped on tries to bank on them tries to destroy them through this sexual desire Avenue. And he goes step by step with them. He says I don't trust the devil. He didn't say I don't trust them law is I'm concerned of the damage that the shaytaan may cause to the people alone, especially to young men and women. And here the problem is I set him says about both of them. He didn't say about

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only the book The guy he didn't say fell on Amazon IE on the man noises from both of them. I don't want that. Because I thought my attack and how is that your follow through looking? So we have to take the series and Sharla to look away as much as we possibly can. Male my greatest strength I mean, you're a bell alameen and as a prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he mentioned Allah, Allah Luanda. It's a command it's a clear cut to the order and never is a man and a woman alone in Locanda sorry to whom a shaper except that the devil was the third so I advise you do not say a favor what is just an appointment

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people think all your crazy for saying that nothing's gonna happen me and the doctor. Yeah, don't be afraid Don't these are this is your and you're right and your habits. Okay? You go to the doctor, ask respectfully. You know what, it's

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Some of the opposite gender a sister, a guy a doctor comes in the mail, ask, let, can we have the door open please? A little bit. Just someone can overhear the conversation, for example, or just for my sake of comfort, do whatever is necessary. Okay, brother, I can do that there's a serious privacy matter. Okay, no problem. bring someone with you. There has to be one person in your life that you trust in sha Allah, that can come along and not be in a closed room like that. So panela just for your own safety. May Allah protect you. I mean, but I mean, that's for the girls and for the boys, as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says, never is a man and a woman alone, except the devil

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is the third he will do whatever he can possibly do, to go as far as he possibly can. In the committing of the Haram. May Allah protect us Amina Bellamy and remember the warning of a prophet Do you remember or no, he saw Allah who I knew he was seldom said, never does immodesty in modesty, and the lack of chastity spreads into society, except that plagues and diseases, pain and sicknesses that were never known before will spread among them. May Allah protect us and Europe Allah Allah mean, so marriage definitely is up there, lowering the gaze whether you're married or single, regardless, number three and last as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam advised fasting. Rasul

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Assalam says, if someone is unable to get married, then be sure to fast something to tone down that desire to your best of ability. May Allah protect us and safeguard all of us. Mmm, I'm from Xena, the Xena of the hands that do not have the legs for walking to the location on so on the Zener of the eyes mirabell element of course Xena of the private parts, may Allah protect us, the door of forgiveness is open. This is not a message to make you hopeless but a message for you to you and I to wake up and be cautious and be aware that she will never let go of us until we fulfill that sin and once we do, he will go to the next set of maybe murder or the next set next sin of shirk, may

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Allah protect us me Rabbil alameen