Destroying our pride before it destroys us

Majed Mahmoud

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The second of 4 major sessions at the 2014 Flint Islamic Center’s Family Camp 2014. Speaker Majed Mahmoud gives a powerful lesson on how to destroy our arrogance, before it destroys us.

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I don't care how much money you have in your diet, what car you drive, how handsome how beautiful you are, how many followers you have on Twitter or likes on Facebook, whatever it may be. What in the world do you think you are? You're at Candlewood suites, you're beginning with a sperm and an egg. And your ending is nothing but a dead body, even your own family will cannot cannot stand your own a barrier for you under the ground.

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Hearing statements like this, crushes our own

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arrogance, crushes our own ego.

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Also, if you ever feel arion from from something that you have, from a cell phone that you got from a boss that you have lost contact with if this as means of destruction to you. That's a very serious, not just a last comment, I will make that same thing that you were so proud of. They'll do the same thing on the internet, somehow the means of your destruction. So if it was a car in a car with the person in general one knows better, but that one thing that you're so proud about that will be a thing that destroy you.

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Me somebody wasted the

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money. Yes. Oh, my God. So I learned something very profound from the shift and I loved SMC I mean so I learned from very jealous towards someone The first thing he said we shall do is what

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make dropper right? So I asked him to bless you

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I asked a lot

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of brothers and sisters to be very very honest and blunt with you this tip is so massive and so powerful to your hearts. I asked you to apply the tip of the ship has given to us with whatever you feel that jealousy towards someone you got a tennis tournament coming up you lost the match, Muqdadiyah money can win the next match as well the one we just beat you when somebody bought a nice car and I asked him to implement this you can hear a lot of talks and it's like whoa window taking something and it's one thing that I'll take Too hard to estimate reward you every time I go through this I mean it'll be semi beautiful and it's really believe that when we ever give a talk with a 30

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minutes 45 minutes I truly believe that it can change someone's life because they agree or not completely change your life. So do not be little these few minutes that has been spent towards this not just that one sentence can change your life. I would even go beyond that and say a smile can change someone's life. I will go beyond that and say just walking from someone can change someone's life. This is the habit of aligning with sentiment every time you hear the beautiful name you say what

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is the only thing you'd come out of this halaqa with by saying some of it was 1015 times

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so

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he's walking and one of the food was on top of his house and you saw him walk into Medina What did he say had a sandwich he could

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he became

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imaginable 30 minutes speech etc etc. We asked a lot of insincerity our way forward.

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So he gets ready chama

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tiny

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inshallah led by 12 o'clock. Okay, so every

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five to five by five in Sharla whether I'm done with the content or not, I'll end by 1205 so if this was a very devastating lecture, so boring, like please see the speaker know that torture will end by 1205

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and it was so great than the sadness will begin by 2005 I can attend the middle school Middle School lectures feel free to do so I

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like

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I live in line says, Who do you think you are?

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Your beginning is a mixture of an egg and a sperm that if you want to come on the hand will be feel feel so gross Duggal go wash it off. That's your beginning. And your end defects when detonator enters the body that no one can stand the smell that comes from it. Even your own family with that you want us want to bury you. And in between you're just like a case the holds waste.

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Huge, powerful statement.

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If I was going to say the sentence without saying I live in avatar, that he said it just to ask you afterwards. How do you feel after I told you this?

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Who do you think you are? I don't care how much money you have in your diet, what car you drive, how handsome how beautiful you are, how many followers you have on Twitter or likes on Facebook, whatever it may be. Who in the world do you think you are? You're a candle holds waste. Your beginning is a sperm and an egg. And your ending is nothing but a dead body that even your own family will cannot cannot stand you don't want to bury it under the ground.

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Hearing statements like this, crushes our own

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arrogance, crushes our own ego, you'd like to stop saying that you say that one more time, I'll call the organizer to take you out of the podium. And it is so hard, so tough. The point of my talk which heart disease I'm focused on is keeping that ego and amongst kibbled false racism we become racist is the duty or arrogance that you think you are better than others. The problem about arrogance brothers and sisters is one of the if not the severe is heart disease internal spiritual aspect. Now, Kevin is amongst the most serious ones ever. Not just that this is the heart core trait. This is the label of a police when a police was told by a pinata to go and prostrate to either Allah

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subhana wa tada or are called

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to be a police. What made you not fulfill the commandment I have given you to Prostrate to Adam, I will ask the bottom continent. What's the deal? You're arrogant?

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What's the deal with you? You think you're better than him. And I asked you by Allah to take this part of the idea and apply yourself. Every time you're about to do something hasn't necessarily hold yourself accountable. We want to not say self to someone ask yourself a Steadicam, I'm continually wanting to see the hands of that brother is because he's a poor person. Every time you're about to do something, and you Your heart is a little moved by it. You ask yourself as tech magic.

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Every time you have to sit in a seat, or someone from Pakistan, from Philistines, or from Syria or something that your cultural field isn't to be in the lower class. You don't sit by yourself as tech but

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in the very rigid with yourself, man very strong because arrogance can destroy you. And excuse me for being loud and harsh. Excuse me for that. So long as at least as altered. And continually Eileen, a police says

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I'm better than the person collected even though you created me from fire and printed from mud. Then Allah says,

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get out of this place your origins were in a calamity. I am the dean, you have my curse and

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you have no more immersive content until you're 18. This is the severity of a moment of

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a moment of cause the end of obese. That's how serious

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you may say okay, what about me so serious? Being habits or being racist? That's one of the forms thinking you're better than others. One sentence of it caused the chaos in the NBA a few weeks ago. For those that don't think about basketball. And one of the owners of a team mentioned a racist comment. He says black people shall not attend our games. That one statement, may the chaos in the whole country will allow my executive to save the world. From one sentence like that. And the Commissioner of the NBA, the leader of the NBA, he banned the owner for life. So even a non Muslim agree flipper is serious. But with all of this being said, Kevin is being promoted day and night in

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our lives, like never before. be arrogant. You know what go to at&t before Verizon, for the Samsung as far as going to be there two weeks before horizon. So you get Samsung put all the SE This is my Samsung s5 because you know what? I'm the top of the best of the best. This whole kind of being arrogant. Do this and no one is like you anymore. Or you know what someone buys this jacket when I'm playing a true story. My sister used to work in a store in the mall where she sells leather jackets. A woman came to her and she said I want to purchase this and that a special jacket. Is that also kind of like you're a friend of so and so. She just came before you and she bought the same jacket.

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That's beautiful getting a match. It's like oh my god, she kissed thank you so much for telling me this. I want something more expensive.

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More expensive. No, no, I can't handle this. I said

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what do you mean why did you make that decision? Something to ask yourself. So this is how serious it is an Allah subhanaw taala immediate very clear in our study. There is no differentiation very clear. We all pray in the masjid. Allah did not say have a message for rich people and a mission for the poor people.

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We're in Chicago, south south of Chicago

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bridgeview area and Portland, about seven to $7.2 million. But Sharmila does

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nothing wrong with and Charlotte.

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Except for all of us. You go there's an extra Pamela we know that South Chicago is messed up is like messed up completely. But how will this south of south of Chicago, the way they've done it, and with the whole, the NPA issue, the racism team, a black person came on TV just to express how black people feel from that racist comment. And the Add upon this, they said, you get to be the whole thing out of that statement. They're building highways in south of Chicago to differentiate between the cities, because you're a poor area. And this is a rich area. So he made to be as far as possible. If you talk about danger, I understand that. If you talk to your brother or sister the

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smell, we understand that yes, we do understand that because even the angels don't wanna be around you to smell bad, right? So there's nothing wrong with that. But if you just simply don't want to because of arrogance as serious, so these things are being made that Allah wants to take those off as much as possible and had a beautiful example and has no matter who you are. But why no matter who you are. There's no like, rasa and taking changing your clothes. It just doesn't happen. It's almost impossible to find a way that no, I don't I don't I don't want to do something. He cannot do. But it's not as your ritual. I'm not gonna

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go down. Because rocks no way Impossible. Impossible by law wills that everybody wears the same exact clothing. I never forget that scene in my life. When I was sitting in a hotel called Shahada, a nice place for shower Mecca hotel, and I saw a brother complaining about the guide and it happens a lot, right? People compete with their hedge groups, etc. So the guy is complaining. He's like, you guys promised me 123 didn't bring me this. Do you know who I am?

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I have no idea.

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I have no idea. See me in the States. Even I take it two months just to senior document consult. As you can see right now in the glow of man, nothing, right? Nothing. You're nothing. So hatch comes to humble you humbly and the worst of the worst. When all of these examples are.

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We leave the area still.

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And we go back we do a huge party. Make sure next time point innovation invitation notice had the magic.

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And this is not a joke is a true story. I was praying to Juma University of Windsor. After I saw that, I saw a person who was new to the university salon Tim Cook an older man in his master's or PhD Hello, Sam. I said, What's your name? My name is so and so.

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You walked away and I was a witness. He turned magic. Well, brother magic Come back, come back. Come back.

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I am headed so and so it helps. Make sure you don't forget that. He had a song. And he's serious. You guys think is a joke? In many Arab countries, I come from every country, they take so much offense, we don't call them heavy songs right?

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This is

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so and so. So you have this whole title why I must

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make sure you are humble, etc. that you you move forward further. Okay, how serious is it

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by some punishments for you? Because just to scare you only by just when you want something out of love, right?

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Like numero dos give us know if I don't tell you there's a fire

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there's a fight you know, run away and get hit, you know, because I don't love that. I appreciate this. Right? Just about three minutes. is ready. Ready Java byte number one. But before I move that was this. Let's click I actually forgot to mention that point. Can you please raise your hand and shut up and tell me what's what's like every gift? What's what are we talking about? Exactly? If someone a young person an older person asked you what's arrogance? If what do you mean arrogance? Explain it to me. Raise your hand Chava

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Okay, go ahead, sister. smilla.

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You had you had

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if you think you're better than someone else, okay, that's one of the two components perfect we have to say. I mean, what are the components?

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Okay, but it was

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okay.

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For us to check yourself. Are you guys ready to be honest with yourself Bismillah number one, and Kippur arrogance

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is for you to reject the truth when it comes to you. And we know it's the truth. When someone tells you your double parking, parking, you double parking whether you see that yellow line is under your tire when they know and pull it when you're on the yellow line. That means you're within it before I fall in your face, move your car a lot. So the point being is that you are presented with a truth and you rejected that's arrogance. No matter who it comes from. A fantasy in the old from the young, Muslim or Catholic, male or female

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Deputy cabinet rejects it,

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or rejects it, is it clear? There's something to comprehend? How do you deal when someone tells you I think there might be honest students a little more conductive? This, the speakers have said this, it doesn't make sense.

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Okay, this is the truth.

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quintile allottee? Is it clearly the other part of the second component is what? ness and that's huge. But the system is a lot better said is that when you feel superior over others, when you think you're better than others, you think you know what, I'm that guy from him. China isn't coming to our camp, even in China, not even come proposed to us like you just you lost your mind. Is it clear, and I've been in heaven for the longest time. So when

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things will change, but we ask God to always dress all of us, humbleness me.

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So I

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always think about this

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moment, when Tony was sitting was one of the Sahaba and he asked us a Harley. He said, What do you think of this man?

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This man is walking.

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And then the brother told him jasola heavyduty incomparable. If this guy proposes to one of our daughters, the guy is getting married, and I call us we're gonna hook this guy up with our, my sister, my daughter, definitely. We're in Santa and your sister. And if this guy wants to intercede and fix things up, we will accept his intercession 100% we're into Canada, and if you ever speak to her or be silent, we've talked about this man definitely. Then the problems and remain silent A few moments later. He asked him, Okay, what about this guy is like this guy.

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If this guy wants to get married to our daughters insisted on getting rejected, rejected completely. And if he would ever speak, we would actually not listen to him to be very honest with yourself. And if he were to ever try to intercede and fix things, we would never take him serious.

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So as I looked at a lot of sources, huge, huge, huge. He says hard mythical out the middle of insanely hard personal loss and says, as this man, the poor man is the one who kind of degrade or you don't look at him at a higher status. This man, one of them is equal to the first one had he filled the whole earth love.

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Completely different lens, completely different lens. So this one poor man that he would propose that we all going to reject. One of them is equal billions and billions and billions of that first time we just praised the way a lot looks at us from our hearts. That's why our brothers and sisters, we never judge people's intentions. We never judge people's attentions, not because someone does this does that you just need to keep in mind. What's the punishment number one

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says remember, so the lawyer said, they never want to do your job is a mirror of a law

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of the law.

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Some something as simple that you walk in with the clothes that you have a nice watch a nice shirt, you think very arrogant by the car that you just park due to that arrogance, a loss of Hannah Montana will allow the earth to swallow it you will be destroyed in this fight before even moving forward. You will live in misery before even going forward. And then once you die, or Swanson says children without delay. Oh, can you be just basically

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going down and down in earth in terms of punishment? We don't know much information about is it clear. But and this is I just mentioned a point I mentioned it when I'm explaining English. And this one says if you're dragging your clothing out of arrogance on top and the physical matter comes right below the ankle above the ankle Brother, please explain this. This is not the right time. Bow splitting touch slightly touched a lot. But saw Selim says whoever does the clothing Have you go under the ankles for men not for sister sisters, you should go more right? The second lucky I think the center to go This has nothing to do with it. You're supposed to go as low as possible, like so

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for the Mental Floss it says don't ever drag their clothing out of arrogance. They'll be destroyed with this right?

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on the line. And they're authentic. Heidi, you told your soul but sometimes my clothing slips and one side because that is not right. Like, you guys don't deserve a towel, if you wish to say and then sometimes it drops. That also awesome says you do not do it out of arrogance. You do not do are

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they derived from this, that therefore it's not how long to have it at your angle? Or under the angle? Is that clear? And obviously there's the other thing which which is clear as well is that if you haven't like that it's hard on regardless, it's not really about opinions about the concept. Is it clear, but the point being of sauce and definitely there's no difference between about what but what is if you do have an arrogance, then definitely you're destroyed.

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Now we move forward and I mentioned also is that if you ever feel everything from from something that you have from the cell phone that you got from a watch that you have, then almost cancer will make this as means of destruction to you. That's very, very, very useful.

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Have you noticed that a lot of talent I will make that same thing that you were so proud of? They'll do the same thing that will follow you engender somehow the needs of your destruction. So if it was a car in a car with that person in general one knows best but that one thing that you're so proud about that will be a thing that destroys music I was arrested for missing I mean

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the other thing

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was silence says I cannot stand the arrogant people I don't want to be close to them what's the Hadees that he says was was

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the closest people to me and the most beloved to me human pm are those

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those that had the most beautiful matters now Moore's Law number the system that right beautiful matters. We're in the abodo Camilla yoga community medicinal piano and fell fell ruling the court will go and those that are so far away from me, I just don't even can stand the more they those are taught so much and with the failure point and emotional

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trauma and mood and faith he akun he says and

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those that think they're better than others. We keep calling this man Yeah.

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Yeah, but why before? We have to go beyond that level. The 0% tolerance when it comes to arrogance, and and being

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specific, because when it comes to the black people become so bad. Yeah, the abbot came and fixes No, don't use that term anymore in your existence.

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men cannot

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even give light to the agenda from today. Either struggle by stop saying the word Arabic no more none of that nonsense period for why you might be doing the most great greatest of acts of worship by calling once in your life just one thing? Well, why this continued to genuine

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because a breeze said that one sentence even though English was an amazing worshipper, but one such they refused a lot closer.

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So don't use these terms. No more no more no more brothers and sister on Twitter the N word becomes so simple, none of that stuff anymore nor degrading other people for their race for their height for their color, whatever it may be. Is it clear? Just muttering note is very important as to allay some of them in the last punishment dimension. He says you're

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such an amazing, amazing Heidi in a way arrogant and you walk you walk that you tried to pump up yourself as much as possible, right?

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Especially in recent times if you do this.

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If you try to like take as much volume as possible, right, like you get a bigger adoring.

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Right, whatever it may be. Bigger microphones give me some big stuff right? You know what I want to boost my leak on the biggest car in the world? I think Eric is over spotlight.

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You

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yo PMT unpadded

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you'll be restricted to a pm as tiny as

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your resurrection. We were running.

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That's a human being there was just an arrogant person who was so tiny as small as an end.

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The sewer regiojet Shannon was so humiliated. how tiny the arguable piano nothing may be recognized for yourself on a CCP, Johanna you some Buddhists, this is a place in Japan specific a prison digit is called bulus. That explains what's so special about this place. This place is under the risk of jahannam. In what sense? That you will know and Yakuza is cold and salty and not clean at uncovered. These people in the bottom, the arrogant ones in the blue that sit in prison. That's the title of that prison. There'll be people there under those being pushed on top. So their drink and their food is whatever melts from the bodies on top. That's arrogance. It's huge and destroy society. When

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people are elegant this conference can can move forward. By the way guys know that. If the if the organizers are bunch of arrogant people, this will not work. They don't want to work together. I don't think this is the right thing. No, that's the right thing. Because I said so because I have that degree, you don't have that. Because I am better than you because you're educated. Don't ever use these terms. So series of sewer lines. Remember this? Every time

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it was settler, grad Greek companions, right? The best generation were the Sahaba. But there were two Sahaba that got into an argument back and forth. And you will not enter it with one or the other

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human beings all the mistakes remember so have our human beings are not angels, right and it's still the best of generations.

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So when that person got crazy, like you know what you have no, Minnesota,

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you have no soda. Oh, you son of a black woman.

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Even at that time there was something degrading when you call them your use of a black woman. So that black Sahabi

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so hurt

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was so worried, like, he didn't say, oh, you're your lawyer because you being called a liar is very serious, right? You cannot

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be serious. Let me let me say that he did not like

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you went beyond that by saying something about I have no control over being like, given this so that he didn't say oh, you have

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nothing. But you're

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you're making fun of my mother and my skin color. That's your ultimate curse. That's how messed up You are the dissident the worst terrorist can ever give you. That's the society we live in. That's the heart he went

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to jail. So a lot. Again, it was one of my friends. And he called me he

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was so angry he got so he went right away and went to that man. He says

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are you making fun of his mother being black? Are you degrading that person because they're black? Are you bringing back this ignorant understanding from a time of Mecca right before this? came? and Islam came to try to take this off from the roots and now you're bringing it back within Islam? You're calling that person Yes. So that then that's a habit and yasunaga jasola he cursed me first. And as as something generally when you get cursed it is known in our society that you curse back by Mercy their mother and father.

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And this man being blood vessel goes because when you have degree that black person, you just remind them that you're black By the way, that's how the ultimate curse then you're

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in the room, Pika Jackie Lee, you're an ignorant person was very strong.

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0% tolerance 0% is a gay No. Okay, I hope you get rid of this attitude. Sharla No, no, no room for this anymore. No room for this. That Sahabi he's an old man with white here is Fini Johanna

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have still have some inherent attributes in all that age and wisdom is in the control feature. Johanna? Yes, you have some influence left in so that men stop crying and crying. And now he wants to fix his evidence what he will do and now I'm going to shift to the action items included Sharla and if there's time we're going to move forward and

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now what will he do? This man What do you think you will do? Raise your hand for those that do not know. What do you think this man will do?

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Bunch of religious people Mashallah.

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Apologize.

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Apologize.

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Are you guys ready to apologize? For those that you're wrong? Are you ready for this? So this man didn't disappoint apologize. He went in front of the line, the man was marked with B that is

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that man was a white guy. It was just the white and the black man when he went to him. He apologizes. I'm so sorry for calling you this. Please forgive me. And he put his face on the ground.

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And he told Yeah, Bella, forgive me. Please forgive me. Put your shoe on my face.

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Put your shoe on my face. But

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because if there's any arrogance in my heart, I want to take it off. Today call is overweight. I'm telling you one sentence can change someone's life. One sentence, the man felt it. The truth came tip if you reject it, you're super arrogant. But this man took

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the best of the best. You're able to overcome this year the library should Stephanie but it will not do this. He didn't do it work. But then you forgive each other. The best people ever walked on Earth. So we'll learn from this if you ever had been arrogant towards someone, and they sense that it was obvious don't apologize. Go and don't think this lowers your level one. It doesn't. Whenever you apologize, it increases your status and so

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many times we think when we say sorry, global justice and that's not true whatsoever. This man felt arrogant. I wouldn't apologize and look how honored he is in 2014 until today, this was racist. Now here's what super honored We ask Allah subhana wa tada to allow us to be among those who realized our mistakes and ended up fixing it as soon as possible. Say I mean we ask a lot of heart

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There's always conscious of the things that go around us in a way that if we detect something that was wrong, we might ask ourselves and we change right on the spot and we don't wear it to impress any human being on the face of the earth rather only credit impress Allah subhanaw taala one time there was

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a girl and a man who were married but they were both slaves to a master Okay, so they were slaves to our master

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movies and video movies was the guy but he was the girl look I was watching him and how he behaved and how he was so far from arrogance to learn from him. Moody love Beyonce so much as the male and the female they are only a slave to that master anymore. She gets a message from me please free me I want to be a slave to you anymore. That's the mentality that was dead right? Then he says No I will not for you whatsoever this please I insist please frame either Okay, I get free Sure. Give me this much money then I'll call you and you are free.

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Then she went in credit money as much as possible from all other ladies and men around give me this money because I wanna buy my own freedom. When he gets all the money and she goes to the masses The key here is the money now on 3d is like it. Now from a seller perspective, if a horror slave girl and a statement are married and a state girl becomes free, she's she has the option to continue with the marriage or not. She has the option. So since she has the option and as she chose to what she has chosen from him from from week one, she chose to

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leave him

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so she chose to leave him

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leave was crying so much the whole city notes are so large and authentic. It says a lot.

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I

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mean how big a barrier when the barrier moving? Isn't it amazing? And immediately is like

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can you see how amazing it is? How much more he loves video and how much he hates money. Isn't it unbelievable and our best says he was walking behind in the streets of Medina crying to come back to come back.

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Now relief comes from Hamilton the ruler of the hall oma Allah

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Allah

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intercede

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Allah will tell you we are slaves remember the old days?

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We got children between us teachers intercede for me. What do you want me to see when firstly like you? Was he arrogant?

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Did he say I think I have time for you.

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I'll go for it

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he didn't say Oh, I got this at some simple man was unknown to you. There's no credit after I help you no one's gonna know about this and someone who has a big name I help him out every knows about it. No. He says I will go for it. He went to

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no movies as a as a good man or

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woman because of children together remember they get children between you. So why not go back to

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law? I love the question of linear you know what she asked her?

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What she asked are you forcing not forcing Are you ordering? Is that an ordered law? If he said yes what he thinks you would have done

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she had no arrogance in her heart. She had no areas

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is it luck? But as far as just interceding

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I didn't know at all.

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When

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I came all the way here to

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ignore the people will want you to go back to what

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they do that

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didn't work out. Listen to me.

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He says okay, whatever you wish and you wish he didn't enforce it didn't make funny didn't go and be like yeah, I don't know what he's gonna be like, other than

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that stuff. nothing whatsoever. very respectful, no given whatsoever. And the worst of the worst of the worst on some intelligent person right here to give me the worst of

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what's the worst level of free to reject the truth and free to reject

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is for you to be arrogant towards Allah.

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Allah does he do 123 I'm not doing what

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Allah says you wear the hijab, this, this and that. And so on. And there's a criteria. Yeah, I'll think about it. When I'm ready.

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That's the worst of arrogance.

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Amanda from Switzerland

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is dealing with his left hand most often says equals the right hand is an agent.

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It is

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Muslim

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Have you ever be able to do so? What's the hardest swear after that day, you can never move this right hand me from

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Carla.

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Because he said out of arrogance, must have thought an alarming witness. I went to a dinner without mentioning any names. And I know the father is not that religious. But I tried maybe perhaps that son will be the means of helping his father. So think the son while he was eating with his left hand.

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He couldn't eat with your right hand. This is

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the father says, Don't eat with your right hand. He was also going to interpret.

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He's like why English is so complicated. I wouldn't use my left hand. Why was my right hand? Why? You know what I mean? Was my left, he's a writer.

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You are advocates and the words of encouragement.

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Is it clear? Every time an order comes? do this? Don't do that. Hello, I'm Hannah, Hannah Montana, can we please take this lesson, at least out of this elephant Sharma. Every time you hesitate from an order from a lot, ask yourself a step time

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when our presidents are told, respected parents, and the second worst arrogance in the human beings is when someone's angry towards their parents, first of all, is so stupid to do. So. How could you be arrogant towards your parents, when they're supposed to be arrogant towards you? You're supposed to be humiliated if they can remind you every day that I changed your ugly diapers every day that crushes your arrogance and pride. But it happened to the Son and the daughter who was rescued from having such children. See, I mean, we ask Allah, Allah to guide you to the best.

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How could you be married to your parents? That's another big thing. I also have some text as one of the major things, okay, with this being said, in conclusion, how much time we have left?

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five boys like 54956.

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But you have a newer phone, I got Samsung s5, what do you have?

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Right. Now, obviously, throughout the whole talk throughout the whole time, I've been mentioning action items I was doing on purpose, throwing one item after the other asking yourself as default and critical. And you can avoid that I didn't work any avoid the N word and any racist comments can ever come in your mind that said no reason I

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was ready for this.

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Now the thing that we spoke about as well how to apologize, it's never wrong to apologize, rather, upgrade you and never degrade so much all the

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raw

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data alone will elevate your status. And so I said another idea is whoever humbled themselves to a low like this, and it kept going down and down and down and down. And now a lot more and more and more and more and more and more. So the more humble you are, the more and zap Allah will give you a lot. But sometimes brothers and sisters will do some work for us parent data so secretive.

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And Allah exposes them because of us. Because it allows us to upgrade and

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recognize these people

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are supposed to know what

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people want people to know that this humbles of that man to come to that level, how beautiful is it and I hope many of us experienced this sweetness when we're struggling with Allah Allah allows us to give us some signs of that fruit of being humbled me know what I mean. So being humble cost paradigm now remind yourself that you are nothing that's the first thing we'll be getting to remember your beginning. Remember your ending and you remember what's in between attended holds With that said human beings are saying this right? Just wanted to remind yourself

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beautiful statement one time he was behind the wall, no one was watching him. And he was the highlight of over 26 countries, not 126 countries. He was talking to himself and the whole idea of talking to yourself is very powerful, very powerful. He says back invest in Yama and he removed meaning the leader of the oma Rama,

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Rama

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Nicola or Omar if you don't have a lot of punch he started himself how do we know this nourished

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and it's been valuable to the other side of the world. He was humble Allah

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ask yourself the question

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why why would I just want to have brothers and sisters I can

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ask yourself to always be conscious that we like in Okinawa because it matches maybe it's very obvious that I bought this for $200 to match my belt I can I can walk like this, like this. You know what this can be similar, but it's all about what?

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The heart and the intentions so that's what you asked yourself. You remind yourself