The Ideal Muslim Father

Karim Abuzaid


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AI: Summary © The speakers discuss the importance of learning Islam and finding the right environment for children, particularly in difficult situations like the loss of a family. They emphasize the need for a culture of faith and caution against wasting time with children. The conversation also touches on the negative consequences of not being a father and the importance of finding the right message for children. The speakers also mention the importance of learning Islam and finding the right environment for children.
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and then amazing

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are looking at five o'clock

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until six o'clock just to be on the safe side

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because I can offer no work

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just to be on the safe side, so looking at an hour of entertainment

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so we can do SpongeBob we can do whatever I mean I can flip flop for you, morning and you know we inshallah whatever works in the meantime.

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But there is nothing better than reflecting upon the Quran

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at the end of the day, if

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only one act

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is going to lead us to dinner.

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And I want you to reflect carefully upon the last

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verse, not just the verse, part of it. And sort of GAF

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Allah subhana wa Taala says femen can do or be

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whoever is concerned about the meeting,

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which you will have with Allah, you know, there is a meeting all of us will have with Allah subhanaw taala

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the Hadith hydrographer do Muslim Hadith or the

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or the Allahu anhu

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says Mammon come in a hiding Illa wasa you can leave

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later Reina who have no idea. There is none of you but Allah will speak to

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without a deal without

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imagine this meeting with Mr. So if you want to be bewitched by the volumen half Mr. camara be he

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what, gentlemen?

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If you feel that meeting macom young,

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that position that standing in front of Allah if you feel the field which gets you to work, you will have to gentleman's Rolla Mercado Jelena to dunya Jennifer par

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the agenda of serenity tranquility, the piece which a man gives you know, a man is not the man the female man is the faith

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gift to you for

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feminine care and I will do this or be whoever is concerned about this meeting he will have with Allah subhanho wa Taala

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and this meeting is you want it to be successful you have Roger on it. Couple that roger that who that is going to go Will Ferrell young men

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with trying to act

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with doing something reveal something don't just hope the meeting is gonna go well without what we had our other Happy Friday. Lisa

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a lot of Muslims unfortunately has fallen into an era jack

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has fallen into ledger.

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Allah has forgiving merciful though Jamar meanwhile they don't pray they won't even try

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to do something

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that someone can I do the hobby fun. Yeah, man.

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The pairing of llama Raja Raja

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will Ahmed Liana

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here's what I'm practicing. Amen.

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Amen. One act

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you don't know which one so so you have to do many of them. Hopefully Allah will accept what one of them I'm alongside your hand whether you should be aware that you're a be a Haida.

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This act has to be done sincerely for the sake of Allah subhana wa Tada. And if it is a ritualistic act, it has to be done in accordance with the way

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Rasulullah Suna

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motera motera Tina v solimar

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the Surah Surah t calf with this what

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let me ask you a question here

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because this is one of the

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things which the people who are trying to confuse Muslims the people who are into that missionary work

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that they try to confuse Muslims about the religion

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is the order of the most half

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something which Allah subhana wa tada

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revealed to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam or something which we are the companions of the Prophet did after him.

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Did you understand my question?

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The must haves begins with Al Fatiha ordinary Baccarat dinner and randomness.

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Then an hour of dental unfold in the news that order.

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So, now what comes after LKF?

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So, again the order of the most half is delta t fees.

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We know that jabril alayhis salam

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used to come to the Prophet salallahu alaihe salam every Ramadan

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adicionar Bass

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Cana Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Edgewater ness desert lo halen Baraka Luffy Shama

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the office Allison needs to be the most generous of all people. What can I do I do my goofy Ramadan, his generosity will increase in Ramadan. Why, when gibreel would come to review the Quran with him.

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And we know that at the end of the life of the robber Sallam he went and he whispered at the ears of Fatima or their loved one.

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And he said to her

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Yeah, buena Yachty, my daughter

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I think my time is up. I'm about to die.

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gibreel would come every year to review the Quran with me one time

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this year he did it twice.

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So, the order of the must have something that was passed on.

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And there is a relevance between the sutras, the chapters,

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there is a relationship. So here you are

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that you will find an act

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which will

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save you on the day of judgment when you meet Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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So you jump into solid.

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Miriam, what is the first story mentioned at the very beginning of Miriam?

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As if a loss of Hannah or the island is telling you the best act

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what the courier asked what did the courier was concerned about? What was the one thing that really worried the courier so much?

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in the fifth to

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the coriaria Salatu. Salam used to be

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the Prophet of the time and he has gotten old.

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Look how he described this condition in the huanan la mini was de la Vega

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99 years old.

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And he looked around him and Benny is a

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So Allah subhana wa Taala

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matter how

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he looked around him, he found all these corrupt rabbis

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corrupt teachers.

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You know,

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they are just after the money they

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they are working with the Romans and

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like, Pamela like our time now

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More they tell you the schoolers lemma Allah a sniff in Fela

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There are three types of schoolers

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number one I am Sultan

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a scholar who works for what

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the system

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validate this validate this that it did that well it did that

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let's add in a Hulu haha banana a banana Harman Narada likkle Auntie

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Hannah Liang

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islands will turn just validate

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as in factual, factual,

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factual, factual, any factual that to validate work to help us hold on.

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So this is brand one

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to our luminous whatever the people like to hear like I asked you SpongeBob at the very beginning I mean anything that you want to hear anything that makes the people happy

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is after Facebook fans and after

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and he doesn't tackle the issue. He doesn't go after the heroes and give straight answers is not straightforward. He just tweaks in

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the third time it would be the one who says Carla la de la sala he cared less whether you like it or not

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zecharia was of the time the others

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Hamilton had a Diem

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maintenance he he carried the burden what is going to happen after I die? Basically he looked at him and he said I'm the last man standing here

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now Should I leave

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this world and leave the

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empty without anybody shoe he engaged in walk

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in this door and so Hama imagine this his wife is barren

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and he is asking for a son

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when he's 99 years old and he described himself and that's why by the way though I and huffy nadar who neither and

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you know one of the reasons for huffy hidden hidden because if you see somebody who's 99 years old making dial up give me a child what I'm going to tell him Come on man give a life What is this? That's why he's why was what was it? What?

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the point I'm trying to make here is that this act will lie

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is to have a child

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but what kind

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I mean, if you are into investment, the best investment

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the best investment

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is to bring into this world. A righteous son, a righteous daughter.

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Who can stand for this Deen

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The best thing that you can do

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kulu we have

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Zachary, Zachary. I started with the DA and Allah has given him

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yahaya shift because of his old age and he is about to die. What they now hope Masaya

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Allah wanted to reward his career. He wanted the courier to see the fruit of his dog while he's still alive. Yeah had a little boy he was preaching to the people.

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Jani Phyllis la Juliet which we don't believe we don't belie he would pass by a group of kids playing you know, children his age five and six years old. They are playing

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and they would call him Yeah, come play with us. He would say married lady Hola. Hola. I was not created to play.

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Allah did not make me to play. I'm here to teach to

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and he was outgoing.

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Some of you may or may not notice that they separated his head from his body

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at the time

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one of the woman who was committing adultery at the time, she in order to you know to make an order for her boyfriend or whoever it is her husband to make her happy. She requests in his head on a plate

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Share it is the best investment that you can have and and one of the interesting things therefore is

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who named the idea

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who named them aligning them

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and what does it mean

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to live right? Yeah is to live

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but we know that he died at the age of 20 something

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but he died as well

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sure he doesn't say he died

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Some may to who you're here

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to always stay alive in

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order to stay alive all the time. But

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I will back to you fathers and

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we need a lot of victories at the time for the

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you know,

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Emmys now at

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you go and visit some families especially your hammock ally I just returned from Egypt

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and you know, you go on I have a extended family in Egypt you know and so you go and visit and you sit with these little ones and what would you like to be when you grow up?

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Hamas Allah

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Akbar active

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none of them say is I want to be an imam of the masjid I want to be a scholar I want to be

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that's the branding now the trending soccer player active football player

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music guidance

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after you leave this world

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after you leave this world

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either meta

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insano in Papa Ahmed who in lambing fellas

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when you die after you leave this world you're no longer receive good deeds, you're done. You cannot initiate good deeds in the grave you can't anymore.

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So, you have to plan something

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in this dunya before you leave number one on that list is what will I do?

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wallet but what kind

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what kind I saw

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when I saw not just wallet when I saw Yahoo near the Ola

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right righteous offspring will volunteer by the by the way does not just mean a boy, while it is offspring

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who will invoke the mercy of Allah upon him.

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Allah The Omen pm the slave of Allah in the Day of Judgment,

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will see zhiban mineral Hashanah Milan stefarr within Gianni mountains of good deeds, he will say your I did not do this. I did not do

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this. You while at the kulluk

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this is your son. He sent all of this to you

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for having it.

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I'm sorry to say this but may Allah subhanho wa Taala protect your children

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and keep them safe and sound.

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Even when he dies while you are alive,

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which is one of the greatest calamities that a person

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may endure in this world.

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And alcohol Hadith read this hadith

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that when Allah subhanho wa Taala

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takes away a son

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of one of his slaves.

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So Allah will send the angels and they will come back to Allah Subhana Allah and Allah knows

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and he will ask them, Allah knows but he will ask for us to know may akula happy

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What is he saying? I took away his son What is he saying?

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saying and hamdulillah

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A lot will say Abdi, my slave. A has to mean who felt that Kennedy

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I have taken away from him a piece of his liver Why do you need a single hamdulillah a Magnolia hug the bait and feel Jenna was a movie

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billed for my slave house in Geneva and call it the house of Alhamdulillah because of this

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custom color to halfie Sierra Nevada

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ofii GitHub and GitHub sirianni

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one of the early scholars of Hadith

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emammal Hadees Sofia is above the law

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one day he was sitting down and his mission is to compile

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all the Hadith in the sun

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that talks about the reward

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for Muslim

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whose child dies

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and he is patient

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so imagine it looks at all the books in

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and he used to have one son His name is Abdullah

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so while he was going through all these ahaadeeth a lot of them by the way

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his son passed by him like this

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further thought occurred

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you know that the idea came invaded his chest sometimes you think about things that

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you know what he said to himself yeah within a year

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and a move to

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imagine this

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happen is something that we should not do but it happened

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this movie doesn't die and I become patient so I get all of this

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smile on his son died.

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Abdullah like

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can we

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as if he is Allah has given him comfort already.

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Well, like I said, before, they asked him Yeah, Abdullah ki fateh.

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How do you feel

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hard are more abou dominant. Allah already

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am urinating blood,

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because of grievance because of my grieving over my son.

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For Hire beat me later, Allah and Dr. Jani.

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The point here, brothers and sisters in Islam, we're all into this world for a duration of time, for a period of time.

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Your mission is to make this world

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give you the everlasting world which is the hereafter. One of the best ways is to leave behind you offspring who will continue giving you good deeds. But this doesn't come easy.

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Hi, Duffy, Jani. A lot of us have children.

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And looking now at the behavior and demand of the children with their parents.

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A lot of Muslims unfortunately adopted the way of the non Muslims once it comes to treating parents.

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Meanwhile, the standard in Islam is high.

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The only way for you

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to get the parents the kind treatment of your children. If you instill in them, the righteousness and the piety and the consciousness of Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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The only way even if you want to get the benefit of a child in this world, the only way is to work on helping them to be righteous to be pious.

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Don't have a look at the Quran, with Orellana

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with a slaw with a look man.

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If V please, where Allah commands us to be kind to the parents comes immediately after.

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don't worship others but Allah

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We'll cover a boo, boo yah hoo.

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What will rarely they mean?

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They appeared, who's going to teach the children not to worship others but Allah.

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Parents, if you give the first one you will get what?

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If you teach your children to hate if you teach them that ilaha illAllah, Muhammad Rasul Allah, you will get there better in this world. Beside, they will benefit you in the here after.

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Now, as a father, what can you do?

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What can you do?

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First of all, like we mentioned yesterday, step number one,

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your choice of a spouse of a wife. And I can tell you right now, this is too late for a lot of us too late.

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You already but like we mentioned, we emphasize and tonight inshallah we'll talk more about this, it makes a big difference.

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To have a hate to use the word partner, but it is a partnership. It's a project.

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It is LLC, it is. Marriage is a project, and you must have common goals for it to be successful.

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And that is why you need to choose the right mother

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for the child.

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See if

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there is a version sort of,

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I think the fourth verse,

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which talks about the

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the whole of the Imperial the

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lower total Hulk

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Yeah, Johan so in quantum theory, mineral Botha in

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the verse is very lengthy or almost half of the page, the first page and so that is

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all we believe if you're skeptical or doubtful about

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us raising you up again.

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We created you

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mentor Oh, so mommy Monica, Santa Monica, Martin mocha Latino, Latino v nella kumanovo Florham spoken about.

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And then at the very end of the verse wetheral, Mohammed

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Ouattara larva Amida look at Earth,

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And when water falls on that Earth to orbit

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what is the relationship here? between Earth water and the creation of the human being? What is it it's

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that we

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it's exactly brothers and Islam.

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And hamdulillah we could say that your sperm is like that. Go and choose the right earth for it.

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The higher your willingness to come, analyzer

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to choose.

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choose where you want

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if you want to plant a nice apple tree in your backyard or any fruit that you like,

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you look for the best fertile piece of earth to place them likewise,

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you should do that.

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You should do that. So that's step number one.

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Focus a

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Bukhari Hadith nobis

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regarding Ibrahim Ali Solomon is mine Kitab lamblia

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you need a wife who can help you

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help you at this time.

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Can you imagine

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Ibrahim Ali Sarah was asked

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to teach his wife

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and the newborn the smile to the desert in Mecca and to leave them the

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Can you imagine this?

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I mean if you want to try this right into after you have your breakfast they go home until your wife Okay, okay, I'm just gonna I was commanded to take you on an Iowa What can I you have here

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I five and leave them in I five.

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Probably going to have the police coming after Of course. I mean

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Look look at the wife

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who mock at the time fo MK there was nobody

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there was in need a scan to mean do reality Beware the Navy Reserve and the bicycle Mahara. There was no even visitations.

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Look at the wife, did Allah commanded to do this?

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All that she wanted to know. Is there a command from Allah who not? Yes.

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He will take care of us.

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That's the time that you need.

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Even to help you with with with the means,

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with the means, I mean, a wife of this kind is needed.

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What is that it look at? Rahim if you read the rest of the Hadith. Ibrahim, by the way, kept shuttling back and forth.

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So smile.

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He became a man and he married somebody from the Arabia.

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February came to visit him

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swag used to work as

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a hunter. He used to go out to the desert and spend nights and days to hunt some food and bring them back.

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So Brian came to visit his son is my

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he arrived and he didn't

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find his son and the wife did not know who is who is he a ceremony party who

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is married What is this made? holograph takodana he went out to bring us some revision. He went to work.

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Every day Maria Sallam asked the wife, Eva Akuma

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How's it going?

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How was life? You know what the wife said? Be shall

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no food.

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just complaining music.

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So Rahim, Allah salatu wa sallam left.

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And he said,

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Please, when your husband comes back,

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the levy minister Allah convey my salam to him and asked him to change his doorstep.

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She didn't know. It's all possible for her. So when he returned, he felt like that it was somebody in the house. Is he an old man? He came and he asked about you.

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And he said, he instructed you to change your last step. I didn't know what it means. He said, I know what it means. He's asking me to divorce you will.

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a wife like this again, is not going to help you.

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Employment By the way, came back.

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Another visit, he arrived, this nine was not there. All of this Philadelphia.

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Salam Alikum walaikum salam.

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So he asked the wife

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Kay for a superman the same? The same question.

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I was asked to go

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on she said behind everything is wonderful. Things are doing great. hamdulillah

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he wanted to just explore more. What is your food like? Allah, Allah, Allah, we eat a lot of meat. And we drink a lot of water from zanza all along with Eric lahoma.

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Please, when your husband returns, convey my Salaam to him

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and ask him

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Fitbit data Daddy, keep this one.

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This Hadith and there is another Hadith and I know what's going through your brains now.

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You can

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tell the child to divorce and I mean we we have that issue now especially it's culturally driven.

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trending unfortunately.

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There is another Hadith related to the subject. The story of Omar Omar By the way, at one time told his son Abdullah to divorce his wife

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and abdomen I used to love this lady so much I used to love

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fabula salam, Salam Alaikum, Allah went to the Prophet sallallahu sallam. And he said to Him, He rasulillah my father is asking me, Homer, my father is asking me to divorce my wife.

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What should I do?

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You know what the prophet said to Abdullah? Abdullah otter avec, obey your father.

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The scholars, they said, Now, can the father just still?

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And they brought the whole matter to him? And

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look how he answered if your father the same caliber of Ibrahim and Omar Absolutely.

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But your father doesn't pray. He doesn't know the religion. He doesn't know anything. And he tells you No, you shouldn't. That's not part of the period of being beautiful. And going to your parents. Of course, try to be nice and and your refusal of the proposition but you know, look at the caliber of your father. What kind does he pray? Does he have the knowledge? Does he have the dean? Yeah. Shadi, what is

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you as a father, should we even care? We know that after the children reach a certain age look at Abraham and Sarah. He's worried about his son because, quite frankly,

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a wife of the first time is a disaster for you.

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She's not grateful.

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being ungrateful is one of the worst things.

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Who wouldn't be sallallahu alayhi wa sallam de haut botanists and Matura Commander nobis you know in the diff a solemn would give and give a sermon just for the sisters for the women.

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For one of the things he said the I'm actually on Nisa, ethos of darkness in Neeraj IE token axon.

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Ladies, we have a lot of solder because I was made to see Hill and I show you the majority of the dwellers in Hill.

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The majority of the people in Hill are from the ladies. You better give sada

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one of the women for the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

00:37:43--> 00:37:56

She wanted to know why. Why are we the majority of hill of the majority of the winners of hill? What did he say on the formula sheet? With a Cornell

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you're ungrateful. A lot of you are ungrateful,

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masala is you know you need that wife who's who's happy in order to have the sun. And again a force upon Allah look again at the story of his mother in the story of his mind.

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Ibrahim took heart to the desert. I have to leave you here. It's a command from a Lago

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later on 1213 years later, Ibrahim comes to the sun.

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Yamuna my son, I had a dream that

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to slaughter you.

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From Bella Ma, who saya call a name in me are off in Miami and nearby network.

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Follow metadata what can we do about this?

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Look at the sun, color.

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If Alma to

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do what you're commanded, smile knows that a dream.

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for profit is a command from Allah.

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I will be obedient in sha Allah, so that you do need in sha Allah, Mina Sabri

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again, my brothers and my sisters, my brothers in Islam

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is a good thing

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to invest your time and your effort

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into your own family.

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It's very unfortunate now

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a lot of us are so busy with this world making money.

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And if you think about it, we will not need this

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If we carefully look at our expenditure,

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we can live comfortably without the need for all these things

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at the expense of worth spending time with the family,

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facing up the kids.

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And we're gonna talk about the sisters today. But you know, sometimes the mothers

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imagine this, I had this situation, and Merlin,

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a mother

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who takes her baby

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to a non Muslim daycare.

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And she goes to work.

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And she gets a minimum wage.

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Whatever she gets for work, she pays the daycare.

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So literally, you're paying someone else to raise

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your child.

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And I asked us, why are you doing this?

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I'm like him, he works at work.

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The more

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the more

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you as a father,

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you must designate time to spend with your kids.

00:41:31--> 00:41:34

spend with your kids, you cannot just

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pretend that only the money No.

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Allah will provide. Look at this. What more likeable society was taught early learners Alucard is on now.

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Tell your family to pray.

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and be patient. And this always remind them always remind them

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Don't worry about your provision will provide for you.

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Yeah, have a minimum that you need to find.

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One of the most devastating things which we do as parents now brothers and in Islam is not spending time with the family with the children, not knowing

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not asking them

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not having a conversation with your son. Why Ramadan is is a very special time because Subhanallah we get so confined with that. Break and fast and and that's a whole and so Pamela you in the back to the circle again, back to the family, you're sitting with the family and you're and you're sitting on the table together and

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a key a key for the righteousness and the piety of your children.

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You as a father have to choose the right message.

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The right community

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for your child.

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And a lot of people are very careful about this. Don't just take your child to any Masjid look at what they teach

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some something about America brothers in Islam is very interesting, which

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which really,

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you don't see in any other part of the world but in America

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and somehow law is one of the benefits that we get as Muslims.

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What is it?

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If you live in Pakistan, everyone around you is Pakistan.

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If you live in Egypt, everybody around you is

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so everybody's doing what? The same thing.

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So what happened here?

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We came to America.

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Just look at the gathering around here.

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From India, from Pakistan, Indonesia, West Africa, Egypt, the peninsula.

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Each one of us brought

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into America, a brand of Islam.

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And you will be surprised to find out that a lot of our Islam which we brought back from back home, whether it is culturally

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mixed or driven or die hard metal heavy,

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metal heavy

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and you want to come to America

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and you want to practice the same Islam used to practice we're

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Then the one next news is what are you doing? What are you doing?

00:45:07--> 00:45:09

So what is the solution here

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is to filter out everything.

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Everything that is not related to Islam

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back to the Quran and Sunnah in their purity

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in their purity

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What do they get what you enter into a Masjid.

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And if you find

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only one color,

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only one language,

00:45:44--> 00:45:45

only one mishap

00:45:47--> 00:45:49

This machine has failed its mission in America.

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Unless By the way, I don't want to be careful, I want to be carefully unless of

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the bow dominant, like everybody is from that place that they moved another Pakistan or another Egypt here, you know. But normally No, it doesn't happen this way.

00:46:07--> 00:46:11

A machine in America, a machine when you enter you find every nationality,

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every map

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every ethnic group in the same place

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and they managed to work it out. And the only way you can work it out is you go back to the Quran and Sunnah.

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That's the masjid you want your children

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to grow. But

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this is because this is Islam that you want.

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Choosing the right environment,

00:46:42--> 00:46:44

school choosing the right school.

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And we emphasize this yesterday,

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two hours every weekend is not going to do it is not going to do. You cannot send your child set five days out of the out of the weekend. And you bring him two hours, three hours in the weekends and think that there's going to be

00:47:03--> 00:47:04

it's not going to work

00:47:06--> 00:47:13

is not going to work is just simply not practical. for

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you as a father responsible.

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There is a duration of time,

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from birth until puberty, you get to mold this child of yours any way that you want, any way that you want. And they will listen to you and they will obey you.

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And if you do it right, you're going to end up with the right caliber, who will be of benefit to you in this world. And if benefit you in the hereafter. And this is what we're after.

00:47:53--> 00:47:57

I I want to pair this with, with with

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you know with with the Korean what the Korea did do I

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be happily mean Asahi or LA give me a righteous make my child righteous.

00:48:14--> 00:48:16

But at the end of the day

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we have

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for example, no.

00:48:24--> 00:48:29

One of his north by the way had four kids, four boys, not just three like we say for

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the one who drowned one or he was not a Muslim.

00:48:35--> 00:48:48

He died because he did not get on the ship because he's not a Muslim. Now you want to tell me that no did not Allah, Allah salatu salam did not do a good job bringing up his son, Atlanta.

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You see what matters is I did my part.

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I did my job. At the end of the day, Allah is the one who's gonna guide keep your child guided.

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00:49:07--> 00:49:18

you did your job. you fulfill your mission towards your child. You chose the right spouse, the right wife, you spend time with them.

00:49:20--> 00:49:22

You brought them to the right machine.

00:49:24--> 00:49:31

You treat them Islam. You spend time with them. You did your part, after that you leave it one last Ramadan

00:49:33--> 00:49:33

are they capable.

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They can be in between a cemetery and Moosa

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and the real name of a cemetery Moosa By the way, cemetery The one who convinced benissa in the desert to worship the calf. His name is Moosa to and what is his story?

00:49:57--> 00:49:59

His mother delivered him in the desert.

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Imagine this and who used to come and take care of him? debris.

00:50:06--> 00:50:08

Debris raised him up.

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Tom who raised up Moosa, the real Moosa the Prophet the messenger

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who the few moves moose and Lady are bajo.

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De Luca. vamos a la de la masa.

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Musa is the one who was raised up by the film.

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The one who claimed that his Allah is a messenger and a prophet. And Buddha is the one who was raised up by jabril.

00:50:43--> 00:50:45

But we call these arts

00:50:46--> 00:50:54

What are they? Okay? Well, Gary, sometimes you may send you're trying to somewhere and it works. But this is art

00:50:55--> 00:50:57

was shared with us.

00:50:59--> 00:51:00

You don't build

00:51:01--> 00:51:14

Jani Korea or a case on on the basis of art, you build it on the neurons? For sure it is. At the end of the day, I've done my heart. I done my part.

00:51:16--> 00:51:21

But in closing, maybe we can allow some questions in the last seven minutes or so.

00:51:22--> 00:51:23

And telling you

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the key, the key to the righteousness of your child. You have it in your hand. As you

00:51:35--> 00:51:36

as you

00:51:38--> 00:51:40

your child sees you praying.

00:51:42--> 00:51:44

Allah from Allah have mercy on my mother.

00:51:45--> 00:51:50

She is dead. But I still remember these days in the village, I'm asleep.

00:51:51--> 00:51:56

And three, four o'clock in the morning, she comes and she breathes the 100 next to my head.

00:51:58--> 00:52:07

You wake up, I never forget, you never forget that. You never forget that. Never Forget it. She chose I know that intentionally. She came intentionally to do this.

00:52:09--> 00:52:21

And it was one of the good moments. I mean, I wasn't bothered by it. I loved it. I love the feeling of her, hitting her reciting that little Quran that she knows. But she's still here, the back of my head here.

00:52:23--> 00:52:27

See my mother and she makes and she intentionally makes draft for you.

00:52:28--> 00:52:36

She intentionally makes draft for you for you. Now don't make my son make Kareem righteous. Make him

00:52:38--> 00:52:39

all of that.

00:52:41--> 00:52:45

We can up your children one night out of a weekend

00:52:47--> 00:52:51

Well, I mean Allah bless a father who takes his son to the masjid and

00:52:52--> 00:52:54

you know carries him in the morning and

00:52:55--> 00:52:57

sits next to you.

00:52:59--> 00:53:03

Is you You're the gateway to your child.

00:53:05--> 00:53:06

Then don't expect

00:53:07--> 00:53:14

that you come and throw your child into a Masjid or into an Imam hands and know they must see it in you.

00:53:16--> 00:53:20

And if they do, they will know it's for real

00:53:21--> 00:53:27

it's for you especially brothers in Islam if you if you use that

00:53:29--> 00:53:32

they call it positive enforcement here in America

00:53:33--> 00:53:34

that they love

00:53:36--> 00:53:41

you can beat in the back home where do we come from beating up really worked? Well I tell you that

00:53:42--> 00:53:45

but over here in America, that doesn't work.

00:53:47--> 00:53:59

Child Services may come and take away the child from wherever they find out. That is why the only you're only left with the positive enforcement the lollipop the carrot not the stick.

00:54:00--> 00:54:04

If they love you, especially if the children love you make the children love you.

00:54:05--> 00:54:13

And and over here in America, especially brothers in Islam is trying to talk to your children.

00:54:14--> 00:54:21

You know, we were brought up with this culture as Amica do this as a father backhoe you have to do

00:54:23--> 00:54:23


00:54:25--> 00:54:27

Romani, salami, stickiness, my

00:54:30--> 00:54:43

my son, I saw this dream that I'm supposed to slaughter you. What do you think? What can we do with this? You know versation with him from Bella who saw your name

00:54:44--> 00:54:47

in the film and me and me as well.

00:54:51--> 00:54:55

These are some recommendations for you as fathers

00:54:56--> 00:55:00

and everything else for law. He begins with the with the intent

00:55:01--> 00:55:15

With with you wanting and believing in this. Imagine the aroma of Islam Ahmed Mohammed Salah lavalieres Elena is waiting for some fathers to believe in their mission.

00:55:17--> 00:55:22

who donate the lives the resources they have to Islam.

00:55:23--> 00:55:24

And they invest in

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and one of two boys, three girls

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change Dickstein

00:55:34--> 00:55:43

I don't think we're looking at the next 100 years Allah knows best law knows best. It's all and unseen. But that chain reaction

00:55:44--> 00:55:45

we have three four

00:55:46--> 00:55:54

they will produce another 10 they'll produce another 20 generation after generation please the seed

00:55:56--> 00:55:57

please the seat

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make a difference in the in the life of this oma

00:56:04--> 00:56:08

in the life of this Omar finesse Allah subhanho wa Taala and Muslim

00:56:09--> 00:56:20

the reality now bellami zacuto Hello. I think it's almost six o'clock but we have a couple of minutes for questions if you want to ask questions I'll be more than happy in Sharma Barak lafay.

00:56:27--> 00:56:29

Shallow so subdued.

00:56:30--> 00:56:32

Are you asleep or go to sleep or what?

00:56:36--> 00:56:40

Shall I so I think it's almost six o'clock we can break through

00:56:41--> 00:56:43

if the breakfast is okay.

00:56:45--> 00:56:46

Jessica Monique Luffy

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ask a question. Yeah, they got a

00:56:52--> 00:56:53

relation between

00:56:54--> 00:56:58

Abraham based on him and his son. Those are lost

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00:57:02--> 00:57:05

to ask his son for

00:57:06--> 00:57:09

to see his opinion or he's asked him to

00:57:11--> 00:57:16

to act upon the status of his son submission.

00:57:18--> 00:57:29

So the brother is asking a very interesting question then Allah subhanho wa Taala instruct the VA him on Instagram to ask his son's opinion

00:57:30--> 00:57:32

Absolutely not.

00:57:34--> 00:57:39

Yeah, when are you in need of illumine me and me as bow

00:57:41--> 00:57:48

I saw in my dream that I am to slaughter you. I'm slaughtering

00:57:50--> 00:57:51

that's a command to slaughter.

00:57:53--> 00:57:54

And he was not asking

00:57:56--> 00:57:57

his son's opinion.

00:57:58--> 00:58:00

And I want to tell you something.

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And but I hated it did not know that I was gonna save his son.

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Because some of the people may assume that somehow Abraham knew that when he's about to slaughter his son allowing sent down the the sacrifice now.

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It's all a test from Allah subhana wa Tada. And

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what we learn from this

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is, I heard one of the brothers repeating that twice. Submission submission

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is when you're commanded to do something,

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technically Think about it.

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If I asked you to slaughter your son,

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and your only son,

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whom you've been waiting for, for years, for you know the story for Marina, Sara was buried for years.

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And he had to go to Egypt and to get harder, harder from Egypt and finally her son

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and you're asked to do this. You can say no to Allah subhana wa Tada.

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You can't

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even if it doesn't make any sense to you.

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There must be a wisdom behind it.

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And this is what we how we deal with the commands of Allah subhanho wa Taala we the things that Allah told us to do. Sometimes a lot of these things, don't click.

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But you need to remember this when you believe in Allah subhanho wa Taala

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you knew who Allah is, lies all knowing, all wise, there must be a wisdom behind it.

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That's the attitude when you deal with the commands of Allah. Yes, you're asking me to slay my son.

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doesn't make any sense to me.

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But there must be a wisdom because I believe that you're all wise. There must be a good thing you're all knowing you're not going to command me to do this just for

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at the end of last season, but he was willing. His mind was willing look for lm cinema. A slammer. Both of them were tell who Lil jabeen sort of suffered

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necropolis earlier we live in this idea that at first he wanted to do from here. He couldn't because he's looking at his face.

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He said to his father, my father good me and my back.

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What do you want my face please me and do it from the from here and put my head down. And so this way you're not looking at my face. So he's helping his father.

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The whole thing was a test from Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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When Allah aka Nutella

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will have to lie.

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When a blue come

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the Chevy, the ideal MBA Bishop first while hiring fitna.

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When a blue combi surely will hire a fitna most of them are

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just from Allah subhanaw taala.

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But you see al Qaeda can cover will cover

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when we believe in a cover while others

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we don't believe that Allah

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ordains evil

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that's all hype.

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But we see it evil.

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You see the evil.

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Look at the story of Osama

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talking about the children again.

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One of the scenes is of which

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a boy

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who's under the age of puberty

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and he separates his head from his body.

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From Takahata either lucky or who lamb and forgotten.

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Moosa seeing this

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well you do doing

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a cartel Tennyson's Keaton behind you enough Futura zakia zakia 10 boys in us, naka de Luca

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is it that the interesting piece here is you got two individuals, one of them is judging what is happening, bees do now,

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which all of us

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but he got a kid who had an extension to what?

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Tomorrow, Allah given him that

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regarding this issue, not the absolute unseen here,

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but he knew that particular situation.

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So, killing that movie, if you judge it is awful.

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But later on what is the situation here? If this boy would have grown up, he would have been a cast

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he will go to hell. Not only this, he will be the cause that is in for his two righteous parents. So this belief to

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so the whole family are going to help.

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So what is the solution?

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If he dies before the age of puberty, he goes to China

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because he died before the age of puberty, or aka tuna and muslimeen do not boo.

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The rest of

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our life in general.

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He can he can say this one

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for you and Ally's gonna give them another the two parents give them another son

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who will be righteous advice

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Well, I'm Malouda

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Saha, Sheena Eureka Houma, Toby Yan and waka for

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for Aradhana de la humara buma hieron Minh was a character

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that when you see that boy being killed him for what do you would you assume all of this

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shortly a lot of Bilaal I mean, when we say while other rehiring he was shuffling the sixth article.

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Imagine faith that you believe in the other the good and what you see evil but it's not evil from Allah is not evil because Allah turns that evil later on to be one

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to be good

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but you need to be patient be patient with that look at that the story of our kids go home and count how many times

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the word sub was mentioned in its different derivatives.

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Lambda school cosper sobra how many times

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for you to figure out why this is happening to you you have to be

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patient there can be some last one of the hardest in the medical ashari besides a Muslim he said about patient something very interesting. Was subtotal the

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patient is what?

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blue Yeah, if you're a patient you will find out why did this happen to you? Why did the law do this do

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so good thing and it was a good thing. Yeah.

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It's hard

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in the school, as they say

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is half was given to me as a reward.

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Can I get you don't only to get to keep a smile he

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will give you a hug.

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From the wife who was very

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or shall not obese How can I be a minute?

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was not a nice hack. But it wasn't a bad thing for the whole family.

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Our brother is asking Should I ask Allah Subhana Allah to give to make you patient? A lot of the scholars they said no you shouldn't do that.

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Because as if you're asking for the trials,

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you shouldn't do that.

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You should ask Allah subhana wa tada

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in the parliament whether la Nabi sallallahu sallam.

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At one time you heard his uncle abis making their

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own law gives me a lot of tests in this world. So that I

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can he's asking a lot for what and make me patient and Russell called me I'm a badass in Nikola Tesla. Don't do this. Don't do this.

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Don't do this because you never know.

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rather say Allahu Allah Allah for Allah Thea for dunya Allah

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so one of the greatest things that can give you Shahada is Nicole I do

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the battlefield

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Chad if it happens, so

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let me know your calado

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don't don't wish for it.

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Don't wish because you don't know.

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And the caterpillar maraca Scion fesi who as mechanic and then you run away, you end up with a major sin fleeing from the battlefield. You become afraid

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look in the autocon

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trakula you leave it to Allah subhanaw taala that is of the highest quality they're lucky to first go to the few have to meet the your enemy then be firm.

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But don't

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forget the sub fee fi portable Bella.

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Well Delica Lola my fish howdy Gianni

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Rama, cannula, yani when you ask a lot to meet your patient, as if you're asking Allah to test you,

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and you shouldn't do it

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just below Hello.

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Any other questions? So don't forget to brush rope.