My Daughter Say I Hear and Obey
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brothers and sisters in Islam,
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t healing sila Allahu Matata. karoun the meanings of this verse
do not marry
the missionary women
until they believe
a slave believing female
is much better
than a free mushrik female.
if the mushrik one pleases you
while a key who
do not give your daughters in marriage to mushrik men
until they believe
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and indeed a slave believing man
is much better for your daughters. Then a free mushrik man
una una Elena.
De Masaryk women and the mushrik man
invite you to the Hellfire
they will lead you to the hellfire.
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Allah subhanho wa Taala
is commanding you to marry believing women and believing women believing men for your daughters. And if you do this, you will get Jenna and the forgiveness of Allah subhanho wa Taala by his leaf
while you begin to heal in us, law Lumia tada karoon and he
is explaining to you
he's making clear to you his IR so that you may remember
brothers and sisters in Islam.
The reason I brought this subject up
is I received a phone call from
a person that I know he's not from here he is out of state
and his daughter
is considering a Christian man for marriage.
And you cannot imagine
what this father is going through.
It is so painful
for a father to experience that
even by the way if they are not committed totally to the deen
it's a heartbreaking experience.
And he basically asked me if I could talk to his daughter
and Subhan Allah says Allah subhanaw taala is the Jamia
We ask Allah Subhana Allah Allah to guide his daughter.
But the verse is decided in Surah Al Baqarah
with another verse in Surah, Allah Allah
Allah Allah illallah
wa rahmatullah de una una kita Helloooo la como para la whom will move Sana to Mina Mina, one masana, two minute Latina ooh kita Domine publikum.
The piece that I want from this verse in Surah, Dilma ADA is and the chase women from the people who were given the Scripture before you, meaning the Christian and the Jews, are lawful for you.
If you put that verse in Surah, Al Baqarah with that verse in Surah, Tina Ada
you come out with two rulings.
Once it comes to marrying non Muslims,
once it comes to Muslims marrying non Muslims
ruling number one has to do with demand
a Muslim male
can marry two categories of non Muslims.
Jews, Christians, females
the law of this religion
described them with alma sonet.
even so they have shipped.
But the quality that you look for in a Christian
or a Jew, female to marry as a man, the fact that they are chased
chase not chase ch a St. ie not chased
virtue virtuous women.
They do not commit adultery.
And the question is, where do you find those?
and this society where we live, now our community but
virginity is a sign of imperfection,
that you're not beautiful.
No man is interested in you.
And we know that they are having what they call sexual education in schools.
I read three years ago that in New York,
they are thinking about distributing as the qumola condoms to primary school students.
It's very difficult to find that quality
to say the least
That also means if a man marries a Buddhist,
or any religion that claims Christianity but the mainstream Christianity do not consider them Christians this marriage in the sight of the Sharia is a legitimate invalid
it's like committing adultery.
So, this is for the men.
As for the women
and underline this would 3 million lines if you want
a Muslim female
can not marry
a Muslim man
that would include a Christian
or a Jew.
Hurry he shediac una
when you bring this up
Nova Mata Lee Li, anti woman comes up
the people who sing
Islam is putting women down
the quality or the double standard
this father asked me to speak to his daughter
and she asked me this question Why?
To answer this really you need a lecture and inshallah tomorrow between Mary Venetia.
I will answer this question why
even sue the word Why is not right. We should say what is the wisdom
because the Shara had a deal.
When you say why you're questioning Allah and His messenger
and you are in no position to question Allah and His Messenger period.
You can only try to find the wisdom
behind that ruling.
But to give you a piece of what we will say tomorrow in sha Allah,
we as Muslims, we believe in the messenger ship of Moses of Musa alayhis salam.
But a Jewish man
reject rejects your messenger.
He does not believe in the messenger ship of Mohammed.
You're aware of that.
A Muslim man
believes in the messenger ship of Asia.
But the Christian man
does not accept your messenger.
This is so simple to say.
But it has devastating impacts.
Here's a scenario
a Muslim man marries a Christian woman.
And he tells her Listen, I do not drink drinking is haram
Can we please not have alcohol in our house?
You're not really harming her religion.
By doing that.
Drinking is not a requirement
for a Christian to be a Christian.
You're actually helping her
in her path.
Listen, I do not eat pork.
I'm a Muslim.
Can we not have pork in our house?
You really hoping her because pork is unlawful for a Christian anyways to eat.
And we don't
Have you ever heard that when a Sally's Salam comes back, he will kill this vine.
This is really a symbolic
stating that I have never made poor KalEl for you to eat Christians.
If you are a Muslim man, are you going to be asking your must your Christian wife to be dressed properly?
Not to show her body.
Look at the icons of Mary and
in their own tradition
they used to wear loose clothes.
Have you ever seen a picture of Mary not having a hijab on
Maryam Mary Mary
and she existed at a time when the Romans and the Greeks were dancing and showing their body and all type of funny things.
So you're really holding her
as a Christian
and I can go on but let's look at the other side. And this is hypothetical because I cannot say if a Muslim woman marries a Christian man because there is no such thing this marriage is invalid it's not marriage. It's adultery.
the Christian man will kill the Muslim women.
Listen, I like to drink
you don't have to drink
but we're gonna have alcohol in the house so I could get a booze every now and then.
This is a threat to her religion
because the command in the Quran
once it came to alcohol, Do not come near it.
Yeah, you're Latina am an enamel hammer. Well, nice. Well answer well as lab richeson minimally shaitan
Don't come near it. It's near you.
So her Dean is threatened.
He is a sick man who would say Listen, I like to feel proud with my wife walking around me showing stuff.
Can you please show some few qualities to my friends?
That's threat to her. haram
devastating to her Deen
inshallah, tomorrow if you want to learn more after Maverick, I will answer this question. What is the wisdom?
A Muslim female cannot marry
a non Muslim including a Christian and a Jew.
And what is the wisdom also that a Muslim man is allowed to marry a Christian or a Jew? There is a wisdom behind it.
Even after I, I went through this,
the daughter is still
debating the idea.
Then I told her Can I tell you a story? She said yes.
During the time of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.
And so Pamela anytime that you feel cornered,
just go back to the generation that generation.
On a handheld you feel a stranger in the in this world.
But you feel at home once you open the books and read about the generation
when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam established the three or the truce, or the pledge either name with an uncertain Medina about receiving him in Medina and supporting and helping him out to deliver his message.
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sent to Medina, two companions, most of whom are Viola one Abdullah Edna oma Maktoum,
to teach the people in Medina.
Al Quran was Salah will Islam.
For in Medina, there was a woman that a lot of Muslims do not know anything about her.
But this woman Subhanallah
one of a kind
and her story is out of this world.
She was actually given black tiding of gentlemen.
By the one who does not speak out of desire Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cannot use a Muslim. He said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the hulten Jana feser Nia to hatia.
I entered Jenna and I heard a noise behind me. I looked for either a woman you saw, I will Oh my saw. Our room is three wordings.
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The mother of Ennis pneumatic
her the moon Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
the servant of the Prophet
almost today, was married to the father of ns, his name is Malik eggnog
and he used to travel a lot.
at the time when Musab arrived in Medina.
Omar Suleiman heard about Islam
she became so interested
she went and she inquired more for massage.
And then she took her Shahada.
She became a Muslim while her husband is absent.
And so Pamela,
and as was like five years old at this time,
she's to play with him and say, and as she say, a shadow Allah, Allah Illallah, WA shadow, Mohammed Rasulullah.
Get ready and as I am preparing you so when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam comes to Medina, I want you to go and learn from him. And as
I wish our mothers can do that to their children.
When Malik returned,
he found his wife changed because Islam changes if you live Islam, you will change.
But if Islam is a name tag, you're going to stay in j helia.
And we'll give you the name Muslim.
He did not like it.
He said to her a salvati call it Armand.
And every time he would hear her,
telling us about Allah,
about the Messenger of Allah,
he would get so upset.
And he would say to her lad to city wala Dr. Lee.
Don't spoil my son, please stop
for colic in Nila of sido. Fattah, who's in Nila of Cebu. I'm not spoiling him.
I'm preparing him to be and to be and to be.
He got angry.
And he left home.
SubhanAllah somebody killed him in the road.
It became known in Medina
that this noble prestegious wise.
Please read about her.
One of a kind.
One of a kind, almost really.
Just Google almost
everyone became interested in marrying her.
One of them was the best in town. a bachelor that no woman no woman would turn them.
The Dream man that dream husband.
His name is Abu talha
Abdel Hakim tomasulo.
I would like to marry you.
My dear daughters, my dear sisters in Islam. My dear mothers
Listen to what Julian said to the
harlot law. She said well law he, yeah, Allah by Allah Ababa, Miss Lu la hora?
No woman would refuse someone like you. You
wanna kinema attune Muslim?
What Antara Julian Catherine
let the Hillary
batana Muslim woman
you're a catfish
you reject by Allah
you reject by messenger
Don't you love Allah and His Messenger
How can you then place
that person who rejects a law you're a law elac
How can you show him any type of feelings to the extent that you're willing to marry that person? Give me a break. It's a claim that love is a claim
have a follow her was shocked
about Allah was refused
he thought like any other man that it's money
he went back home he got some gold and silver and he pulled it in front of her
for Karla to Allah,
by Allah about it is not about the money. Someone like you
is not to be refused. Well a kin nimra to Muslim
while a kidney Moroccan Muslim
what Antara June careful?
year of law.
Aloha Moroccan Anissa and with Lucha Allah, you're
a Muslim woman.
And you know what?
Midori is not gold and silver.
Midori is your Islam.
I will tell how I became shocked.
You see that caliber
makes you reflect.
Start thinking what kind of a religion is that?
That comes between
this from happening that hinder this from happening.
He went and he inquired, asked and asked and asked.
And you know, at the end, he became a Muslim.
I know some of you
may assume that
he became a Muslim just to marry a Muslim.
Read about our
you may hear those fundraisers, sometimes standing up and saying lantana referred
to a boon and they married you this hadith.
You will never be able to attain righteousness and piety which will lead you to jail net until you spin from that which you love most
about all have heard this verse.
You see Dr. rasulillah. I want to get righteousness and piety and I want gender or messenger of Allah. What I have boom le la Roja and the most beloved will to me is a guardian called by Johann rasulillah I want to give it to Alan.
He did not become a Muslim just to marry masala.
Read about what Abu talhah did in the Battle of offered.
Winner Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was exposed to the disbelievers to kill him, tundras. He stood like this in front of the messenger
protecting him from this
you know, between me and myself, I say
in a country where we are the minority, really
the majority are Christian and Jews.
As our daughters
to a lot of Christian and Jews
What did we do to protect this from happening?
It's a nightmare for a father by the way.
And if you have a daughter
don't just wait until it happens.
Ideally, we don't have a high school here in Colorado.
We don't I mean, Muslim highs we don't.
And this is the age when these girls start thinking about boys.
I mean, we need to give them that education. We need to tell them about almost a lie. We need to tell them about Listen, this is not the right thing.
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brothers and sisters in Islam.
One can only move meaning one Amina
either Allahu Allahu Allahu wa yakun Allah who will era memory
it is not fitting
for someone to be called a believer
believing man or believing women that when Allah and His Messenger rules rule something some issue that they have a choice.
Allah tells the women that you cannot marry about a Muslim
What are you gonna do?
haha well, Islam what is in Islam the word Islam
Islam the word Islam linguistically means to surrender to submit to say, I hear and I obey.
If you question the command,
the let's study Akita again.
Because one of the names one of the attributes of Allah is Al Hakim,
the old wise.
So when he commands you to do something that you do not understand?
Then you rely on that belief on that name, the old wise there must be a wisdom
during the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
There was a companion Subhanallah
young Toby Kali, how do
you say Muslim in Allah Allah young guru ella sawari kumala. New Kamala kiambu ella pulumi Kumar Malika
Allah subhana wa Taala does not look at your faces
know your body's
a person may walk like he's a little garden Earth and he's hated despicable in the sight of Allah because of his heart, stinky heart filthy heart filled within the hate
hardcover, okay, and this is how it's worded in
the manner that mean
he doesn't have a very good physical looking
He's not the dream man that a woman would like to have.
But his man his faith.
So on day he said, Rasul Allah and I'd like to get married one day. He's saying it out of despair really
kokkola lahu Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to him and that was our joke. I will get you married.
Yes, will it be His name is July be
Rasul Allah manyatta Azerbaijani?
Who's gonna marry me?
It was the habit of the people in Medina, that when a father or a mother
have a daughter, at the age of marriage, that they would go to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asking him to help them in getting here married, recommending somebody talking to one of his companions and so forth.
For a further approach the Prophet sallallahu wasallam sakala Rasul Allah in a nutshell Jani is about is the age of marriage, can you recommend someone for her?
For the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Anna was away to her.
The man thought that the prophet SAW Selim is the one who will marry her
for call. Nana.
That's wonderful. Go ahead. For Carla not me. He said not me.
And unqiue has Jul beep
I will give her in marriage to July beep
let me talk to her mother.
He went back home
with his wife while the daughter is behind the curtain, hearing the conversation
for the father
told the mother Rasulullah wants to get our daughter married. For Karla Matatini
What a wonderful thing. He is also she thought that the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the one who will marry her Saqqara not him.
He said no. Not him. No.
No who you read Wang ke ha ha Jul de la.
He wants her to get married to July be immediately the woman July be her holla no one la de la langue de la be
the daughter comes from behind the curtain.
And she speaks to her father
and her mother saying
How dare you
refuse a husband? Who was recommended to me by the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one law he looked at as a way to do like diva.
By Allah I will marry him
the other foot
I will not refuse someone
the choice of Mohammed Salah law values
How can I Muslim women refuse is the choice of Allah and His messenger to you that you marry a Muslim How dare you do that? And you go marry a non Muslim.
How can you do that?
What kind of a heart is that?
Rasul Allah wa sallam got married.
And he made this beautiful daughter that we should say Allahumma sobre la el hierro Saba when I attach Elijah Qaeda or Allah pool
the morning of the wedding,
not yet married.
The caller for Jihad Jani. The wording says the Battle of offer hi yalda
that's how the call of does the call.
Let's go for jihad.
You think Jul de Bullhead City. It's my wedding day.
the battle ends
are also solaia Sallam
asked his companion saying health of the donor in a hat.
Are you busy
they looked around and said laya Rasulullah
Rasul Salim for the second time as health afternoon I mean
are you missing anybody or
the third time?
And then he said, what a clean me after July Biba.
I do not see July beep work for him please.
They looked for him.
They found him that next to seven disbelievers.
They called the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to the scene
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says her the mini one I mean
have a mini one. I mean,
had I mean knew and I mean
he's from me.
And I'm from him.
We're related the hearts
a man v.
he killed seven.
Then they killed him.
He carried him sallallahu alayhi wasallam on his own hands.
And he placed him in his graveyard.
And he buried them.
Anna sukhna Malik, the narrator of this hadith.
Well, how did you muster the man
I wouldn't go so far the vasila slubby. Authentic
says one lie.
The best of people in Medina was standing in line
seeking to marry this noble girl
because of that quality,
the obedience to Allah
and His messenger.
That's the type that you want to have.
If your agenda is here, after
your agenda is dunya, then go for the beauty go for the world's go for the health go to forum for the green card for the black card, all this dude. But if your agenda is the Hereafter, that's the type that you want.
We ask Allah Subhana Allah to guide our daughters
and to guide our females
lie. It's a heartbreaking experience for a father.
And quite frankly, it scared me. I have a daughter of myself. And I know a lot of you do.
And it scares you.
But the question that we really got to ask ourselves, what are we doing
to prevent this from happening?
We do not have higher education in Colorado yet Muslim slumming.
Would we could educate these teenagers about these issues.
The alternative is public schools.
And they are mingling with Christian boys and Jewish boys.
And if the family is not strong,
there you are going to have a problem at your hand.
The other solution is the
home whatever schooling
and we know internet now is like virtual sinning if you want.
We have to think of a solution for our community here in Colorado insha Allah, we ask Allah Subhana Allah Allah to guide us and we ask Allah subhana wa Taala to use us to serve his Deen Allah furlanetto novena. What is seraphina Thea Marina with a bit akademin Ensenada como Catherine la mattina husana taqwa was a woman's occur and who Mola aku COVID