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In Alhamdulillah Nakamoto who want to stay in who want to stop film?

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When will he mean surely am fusina woman say Melina Mejia de la bufala Mila one a lil fella ha de la. Was shadow

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Illa Illa la

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sharika why shadow? Say Donna wanna Vienna Mohammedan Abdullah?

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Johan lady de una mano por la Hakata Kati Morton Illa to Muslim moon. Yeah, Johan de coeur de como la de holla kakum enough sinuata wahala coming jaha thermen humare Java Lang Kathy Romani.

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What up la la de de Luna de la or hum in LA Canada. Kumara Kiba. Yo, yo holla Deena

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la kulu Colin sadita useless lecom

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la Koo back home. One minute a la hora Sula, muhfucka de

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la vema. Amanda, for in us. Howdy, Nikita Bella.

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Howdy, howdy Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam was shown

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to her wakulla data team with de Waal collaborate in Walla Walla, Walla Walla that in our

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brothers and sisters in Islam,

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call Allahu taala

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wala Tang careful machete karate Hata Yeoman

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wala Emma tune Mina tune hyeres machinery machete cat in Walla Walla

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Walla tune keyhole machete kena Hata. You may know what i mean Hayami machete kin wala Jabba comb Oda, aka the owner Ilana voila, we had to lol Jenna t Fiera. TV evening, where you Bi?

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t healing sila Allahu Matata. karoun the meanings of this verse

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do not marry

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the missionary women

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until they believe

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and indeed

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a slave believing female

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is much better

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than a free mushrik female.

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Even

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if the mushrik one pleases you

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while a key who

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do not give your daughters in marriage to mushrik men

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until they believe

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while I didn't mean Hiram emotionally in Walla Walla, Java calm

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and indeed a slave believing man

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is much better for your daughters. Then a free mushrik man

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y

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una una Elena.

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De Masaryk women and the mushrik man

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invite you to the Hellfire

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they will lead you to the hellfire.

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And the other hand, while La Jolla do lol jannetty one novel Pharaoh TV evening.

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Allah subhanho wa Taala

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is commanding you to marry believing women and believing women believing men for your daughters. And if you do this, you will get Jenna and the forgiveness of Allah subhanho wa Taala by his leaf

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while you begin to heal in us, law Lumia tada karoon and he

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is explaining to you

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he's making clear to you his IR so that you may remember

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brothers and sisters in Islam.

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The reason I brought this subject up

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is I received a phone call from

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a person that I know he's not from here he is out of state

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and his daughter

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is considering a Christian man for marriage.

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And you cannot imagine

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what this father is going through.

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It is so painful

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for a father to experience that

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even by the way if they are not committed totally to the deen

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it's a heartbreaking experience.

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And he basically asked me if I could talk to his daughter

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and Subhan Allah says Allah subhanaw taala is the Jamia

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We ask Allah Subhana Allah Allah to guide his daughter.

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But the verse is decided in Surah Al Baqarah

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with another verse in Surah, Allah Allah

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Allah Allah illallah

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wa rahmatullah de una una kita Helloooo la como para la whom will move Sana to Mina Mina, one masana, two minute Latina ooh kita Domine publikum.

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The piece that I want from this verse in Surah, Dilma ADA is and the chase women from the people who were given the Scripture before you, meaning the Christian and the Jews, are lawful for you.

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If you put that verse in Surah, Al Baqarah with that verse in Surah, Tina Ada

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you come out with two rulings.

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Once it comes to marrying non Muslims,

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once it comes to Muslims marrying non Muslims

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ruling number one has to do with demand

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a Muslim male

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can marry two categories of non Muslims.

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Jews, Christians, females

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but remember

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the law of this religion

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described them with alma sonet.

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chaste

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even so they have shipped.

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But the quality that you look for in a Christian

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or a Jew, female to marry as a man, the fact that they are chased

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chase not chase ch a St. ie not chased

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virtue virtuous women.

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They do not commit adultery.

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And the question is, where do you find those?

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I mean,

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and this society where we live, now our community but

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virginity is a sign of imperfection,

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that you're not beautiful.

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No man is interested in you.

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And we know that they are having what they call sexual education in schools.

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I read three years ago that in New York,

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they are thinking about distributing as the qumola condoms to primary school students.

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It's very difficult to find that quality

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to say the least

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That also means if a man marries a Buddhist,

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a Hindu

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or any religion that claims Christianity but the mainstream Christianity do not consider them Christians this marriage in the sight of the Sharia is a legitimate invalid

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it's like committing adultery.

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So, this is for the men.

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As for the women

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and underline this would 3 million lines if you want

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a Muslim female

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can not marry

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a Muslim man

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that would include a Christian

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or a Jew.

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Hurry he shediac una

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de una

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when you bring this up

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Nova Mata Lee Li, anti woman comes up

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the people who sing

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Islam is putting women down

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the quality or the double standard

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comes up

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and

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this father asked me to speak to his daughter

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and she asked me this question Why?

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To answer this really you need a lecture and inshallah tomorrow between Mary Venetia.

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I will answer this question why

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even sue the word Why is not right. We should say what is the wisdom

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because the Shara had a deal.

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When you say why you're questioning Allah and His messenger

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and you are in no position to question Allah and His Messenger period.

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You can only try to find the wisdom

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behind that ruling.

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But to give you a piece of what we will say tomorrow in sha Allah,

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we as Muslims, we believe in the messenger ship of Moses of Musa alayhis salam.

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But a Jewish man

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reject rejects your messenger.

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He does not believe in the messenger ship of Mohammed.

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You're aware of that.

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A Muslim man

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believes in the messenger ship of Asia.

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But the Christian man

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does not accept your messenger.

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This is so simple to say.

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But it has devastating impacts.

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Here's a scenario

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a Muslim man marries a Christian woman.

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And he tells her Listen, I do not drink drinking is haram

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Can we please not have alcohol in our house?

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You're not really harming her religion.

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By doing that.

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Drinking is not a requirement

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for a Christian to be a Christian.

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You're actually helping her

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in her path.

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Listen, I do not eat pork.

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I'm a Muslim.

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Can we not have pork in our house?

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You really hoping her because pork is unlawful for a Christian anyways to eat.

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And we don't

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Have you ever heard that when a Sally's Salam comes back, he will kill this vine.

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McKinsey's

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This is really a symbolic

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stating that I have never made poor KalEl for you to eat Christians.

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If you are a Muslim man, are you going to be asking your must your Christian wife to be dressed properly?

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Not to show her body.

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Look at the icons of Mary and

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in their own tradition

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they used to wear loose clothes.

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Have you ever seen a picture of Mary not having a hijab on

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Maryam Mary Mary

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and she existed at a time when the Romans and the Greeks were dancing and showing their body and all type of funny things.

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So you're really holding her

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as a Christian

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and I can go on but let's look at the other side. And this is hypothetical because I cannot say if a Muslim woman marries a Christian man because there is no such thing this marriage is invalid it's not marriage. It's adultery.

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But hypothetical

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the Christian man will kill the Muslim women.

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Listen, I like to drink

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you don't have to drink

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but we're gonna have alcohol in the house so I could get a booze every now and then.

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This is a threat to her religion

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because the command in the Quran

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once it came to alcohol, Do not come near it.

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Yeah, you're Latina am an enamel hammer. Well, nice. Well answer well as lab richeson minimally shaitan

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Don't come near it. It's near you.

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So her Dean is threatened.

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He is a sick man who would say Listen, I like to feel proud with my wife walking around me showing stuff.

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Can you please show some few qualities to my friends?

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That's threat to her. haram

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devastating to her Deen

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inshallah, tomorrow if you want to learn more after Maverick, I will answer this question. What is the wisdom?

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A Muslim female cannot marry

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a non Muslim including a Christian and a Jew.

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And what is the wisdom also that a Muslim man is allowed to marry a Christian or a Jew? There is a wisdom behind it.

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Even after I, I went through this,

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the daughter is still

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debating the idea.

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Then I told her Can I tell you a story? She said yes.

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During the time of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam.

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And so Pamela anytime that you feel cornered,

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just go back to the generation that generation.

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On a handheld you feel a stranger in the in this world.

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But you feel at home once you open the books and read about the generation

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when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam established the three or the truce, or the pledge either name with an uncertain Medina about receiving him in Medina and supporting and helping him out to deliver his message.

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sent to Medina, two companions, most of whom are Viola one Abdullah Edna oma Maktoum,

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to teach the people in Medina.

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Al Quran was Salah will Islam.

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For in Medina, there was a woman that a lot of Muslims do not know anything about her.

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But this woman Subhanallah

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one of a kind

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and her story is out of this world.

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She was actually given black tiding of gentlemen.

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By the one who does not speak out of desire Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam cannot use a Muslim. He said sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the hulten Jana feser Nia to hatia.

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I entered Jenna and I heard a noise behind me. I looked for either a woman you saw, I will Oh my saw. Our room is three wordings.

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Musulin been to mill hand.

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The mother of Ennis pneumatic

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her the moon Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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the servant of the Prophet

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almost today, was married to the father of ns, his name is Malik eggnog

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and he used to travel a lot.

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He traveled

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at the time when Musab arrived in Medina.

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Omar Suleiman heard about Islam

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will filter

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she became so interested

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she went and she inquired more for massage.

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And then she took her Shahada.

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She became a Muslim while her husband is absent.

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And so Pamela,

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and as was like five years old at this time,

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she's to play with him and say, and as she say, a shadow Allah, Allah Illallah, WA shadow, Mohammed Rasulullah.

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Get ready and as I am preparing you so when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam comes to Medina, I want you to go and learn from him. And as

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I wish our mothers can do that to their children.

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When Malik returned,

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he found his wife changed because Islam changes if you live Islam, you will change.

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But if Islam is a name tag, you're going to stay in j helia.

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And we'll give you the name Muslim.

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He did not like it.

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He said to her a salvati call it Armand.

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And every time he would hear her,

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telling us about Allah,

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about the Messenger of Allah,

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he would get so upset.

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And he would say to her lad to city wala Dr. Lee.

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Don't spoil my son, please stop

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for colic in Nila of sido. Fattah, who's in Nila of Cebu. I'm not spoiling him.

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I'm preparing him to be and to be and to be.

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He got angry.

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And he left home.

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SubhanAllah somebody killed him in the road.

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He died.

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It became known in Medina

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that this noble prestegious wise.

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Please read about her.

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One of a kind.

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One of a kind, almost really.

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Just Google almost

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everyone became interested in marrying her.

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One of them was the best in town. a bachelor that no woman no woman would turn them.

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The Dream man that dream husband.

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wealth,

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knowledge,

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prestige.

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His name is Abu talha

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Ansari

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Abdel Hakim tomasulo.

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I would like to marry you.

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My dear daughters, my dear sisters in Islam. My dear mothers

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Listen to what Julian said to the

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harlot law. She said well law he, yeah, Allah by Allah Ababa, Miss Lu la hora?

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No woman would refuse someone like you. You

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wanna kinema attune Muslim?

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What Antara Julian Catherine

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let the Hillary

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batana Muslim woman

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Muslim woman

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you're a catfish

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you reject by Allah

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you reject by messenger

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Don't you love Allah and His Messenger

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How can you then place

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that person who rejects a law you're a law elac

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How can you show him any type of feelings to the extent that you're willing to marry that person? Give me a break. It's a claim that love is a claim

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have a follow her was shocked

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about Allah was refused

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he thought like any other man that it's money

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he went back home he got some gold and silver and he pulled it in front of her

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for Karla to Allah,

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by Allah about it is not about the money. Someone like you

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is not to be refused. Well a kin nimra to Muslim

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while a kidney Moroccan Muslim

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what Antara June careful?

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Last

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year of law.

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Aloha Moroccan Anissa and with Lucha Allah, you're

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a Muslim woman.

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And you know what?

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Midori is not gold and silver.

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Midori is your Islam.

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I will tell how I became shocked.

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You see that caliber

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makes you reflect.

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Start thinking what kind of a religion is that?

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That comes between

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this from happening that hinder this from happening.

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He went and he inquired, asked and asked and asked.

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And you know, at the end, he became a Muslim.

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I know some of you

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may assume that

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he became a Muslim just to marry a Muslim.

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Read about our

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you may hear those fundraisers, sometimes standing up and saying lantana referred

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to a boon and they married you this hadith.

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You will never be able to attain righteousness and piety which will lead you to jail net until you spin from that which you love most

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about all have heard this verse.

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You see Dr. rasulillah. I want to get righteousness and piety and I want gender or messenger of Allah. What I have boom le la Roja and the most beloved will to me is a guardian called by Johann rasulillah I want to give it to Alan.

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charity.

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He did not become a Muslim just to marry masala.

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Read about what Abu talhah did in the Battle of offered.

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Winner Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was exposed to the disbelievers to kill him, tundras. He stood like this in front of the messenger

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protecting him from this

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collateral boon

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but it's

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almost

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almost

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you know, between me and myself, I say

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we live

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in a country where we are the minority, really

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the majority are Christian and Jews.

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As our daughters

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are exposed

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to a lot of Christian and Jews

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What did we do to protect this from happening?

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It's a nightmare for a father by the way.

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And if you have a daughter

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don't just wait until it happens.

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Be proactive.

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Ideally, we don't have a high school here in Colorado.

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We don't I mean, Muslim highs we don't.

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And this is the age when these girls start thinking about boys.

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I mean, we need to give them that education. We need to tell them about almost a lie. We need to tell them about Listen, this is not the right thing.

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Cool stuff

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hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen lol humble Hassan.

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Was Santa Jamil?

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Well, she had to Allah Illa Allah Allahu la sharika your poodle haka serene. Why shadow anessa Donna wanna Vienna Mohammedan Abdullah he was a solo Salalah hauling he was early he was happy he was

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brothers and sisters in Islam.

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One can only move meaning one Amina

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either Allahu Allahu Allahu wa yakun Allah who will era memory

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it is not fitting

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for someone to be called a believer

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believing man or believing women that when Allah and His Messenger rules rule something some issue that they have a choice.

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Allah tells the women that you cannot marry about a Muslim

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What are you gonna do?

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haha well, Islam what is in Islam the word Islam

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to surrender.

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Islam the word Islam linguistically means to surrender to submit to say, I hear and I obey.

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If you question the command,

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the let's study Akita again.

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Because one of the names one of the attributes of Allah is Al Hakim,

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the old wise.

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So when he commands you to do something that you do not understand?

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Then you rely on that belief on that name, the old wise there must be a wisdom

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during the time of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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There was a companion Subhanallah

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young Toby Kali, how do

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you say Muslim in Allah Allah young guru ella sawari kumala. New Kamala kiambu ella pulumi Kumar Malika

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Allah subhana wa Taala does not look at your faces

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know your body's

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a person may walk like he's a little garden Earth and he's hated despicable in the sight of Allah because of his heart, stinky heart filthy heart filled within the hate

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this companion

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so panela,

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short,

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poor,

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black, ugly,

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hardcover, okay, and this is how it's worded in

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the manner that mean

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he doesn't have a very good physical looking

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He's not the dream man that a woman would like to have.

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But his man his faith.

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So on day he said, Rasul Allah and I'd like to get married one day. He's saying it out of despair really

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kokkola lahu Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to him and that was our joke. I will get you married.

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Yes, will it be His name is July be

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Rasul Allah manyatta Azerbaijani?

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Who's gonna marry me?

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It was the habit of the people in Medina, that when a father or a mother

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have a daughter, at the age of marriage, that they would go to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asking him to help them in getting here married, recommending somebody talking to one of his companions and so forth.

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For a further approach the Prophet sallallahu wasallam sakala Rasul Allah in a nutshell Jani is about is the age of marriage, can you recommend someone for her?

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For the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Anna was away to her.

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The man thought that the prophet SAW Selim is the one who will marry her

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for call. Nana.

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That's wonderful. Go ahead. For Carla not me. He said not me.

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And unqiue has Jul beep

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I will give her in marriage to July beep

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July beep

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let me talk to her mother.

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He went back home

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spoke

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with his wife while the daughter is behind the curtain, hearing the conversation

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for the father

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told the mother Rasulullah wants to get our daughter married. For Karla Matatini

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What a wonderful thing. He is also she thought that the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the one who will marry her Saqqara not him.

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He said no. Not him. No.

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No who you read Wang ke ha ha Jul de la.

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He wants her to get married to July be immediately the woman July be her holla no one la de la langue de la be

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the daughter comes from behind the curtain.

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And she speaks to her father

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and her mother saying

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How dare you

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refuse a husband? Who was recommended to me by the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam one law he looked at as a way to do like diva.

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By Allah I will marry him

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the other foot

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I will not refuse someone

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the choice of Mohammed Salah law values

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How can I Muslim women refuse is the choice of Allah and His messenger to you that you marry a Muslim How dare you do that? And you go marry a non Muslim.

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How can you do that?

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What kind of a heart is that?

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Rasul Allah wa sallam got married.

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And he made this beautiful daughter that we should say Allahumma sobre la el hierro Saba when I attach Elijah Qaeda or Allah pool

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goodness in

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the morning of the wedding,

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not yet married.

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The caller for Jihad Jani. The wording says the Battle of offer hi yalda

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that's how the call of does the call.

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Let's go for jihad.

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You think Jul de Bullhead City. It's my wedding day.

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Marching

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out

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the battle ends

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are also solaia Sallam

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asked his companion saying health of the donor in a hat.

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Are you busy

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Anybody

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they looked around and said laya Rasulullah

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Rasul Salim for the second time as health afternoon I mean

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are you missing anybody or

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the third time?

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And then he said, what a clean me after July Biba.

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I do not see July beep work for him please.

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They looked for him.

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They found him that next to seven disbelievers.

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They called the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to the scene

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says her the mini one I mean

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have a mini one. I mean,

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had I mean knew and I mean

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he's from me.

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And I'm from him.

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We're related the hearts

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a man v.

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hautala. Saba,

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he killed seven.

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Then they killed him.

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He carried him sallallahu alayhi wasallam on his own hands.

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And he placed him in his graveyard.

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And he buried them.

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Anna sukhna Malik, the narrator of this hadith.

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Well, how did you muster the man

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I wouldn't go so far the vasila slubby. Authentic

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says one lie.

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By Allah.

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The best of people in Medina was standing in line

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seeking to marry this noble girl

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because of that quality,

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the obedience to Allah

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and His messenger.

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That's the type that you want to have.

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If your agenda is here, after

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your agenda is dunya, then go for the beauty go for the world's go for the health go to forum for the green card for the black card, all this dude. But if your agenda is the Hereafter, that's the type that you want.

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We ask Allah Subhana Allah to guide our daughters

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and to guide our females

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lie. It's a heartbreaking experience for a father.

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And quite frankly, it scared me. I have a daughter of myself. And I know a lot of you do.

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And it scares you.

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But the question that we really got to ask ourselves, what are we doing

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to prevent this from happening?

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We do not have higher education in Colorado yet Muslim slumming.

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Would we could educate these teenagers about these issues.

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The alternative is public schools.

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And they are mingling with Christian boys and Jewish boys.

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And if the family is not strong,

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there you are going to have a problem at your hand.

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The other solution is the

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home whatever schooling

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and we know internet now is like virtual sinning if you want.

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We have to think of a solution for our community here in Colorado insha Allah, we ask Allah Subhana Allah Allah to guide us and we ask Allah subhana wa Taala to use us to serve his Deen Allah furlanetto novena. What is seraphina Thea Marina with a bit akademin Ensenada como Catherine la mattina husana taqwa was a woman's occur and who Mola aku COVID

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Kumar consola