The Disease and the Cure #168

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behind your head was salatu salam ala Rahmatullah al Amin and Urbino Have you been Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salim Ahmad

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So, inshallah we continue from where we stopped last Deus and today we will be dealing with a new chapter, which is about Alma festival RG that will actually let me escape saw

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the negative and evil consequences of it, I

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somebody who is addicted with images,

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pictures of the opposite gender or things which is supposed to be to be looking not necessarily the image, but the image in the picture or photo

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graphic kind of thing, but even the real human beings these are all

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so, there are

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consequences which are negative that happens now and also will happen in in the hereafter.

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Carlo Noctem will Java be firstly, motor unlocking BHPs Will you remember that the whole book is based on

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answering a question that somebody asked right. So, he has been answering this question he says when Actimel Jojoba before slim, metallic and BHP so all of our female in my facility as the letter was larger, it will add

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it says we complete this job

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with a chapter that talks about HP as soon as we complete the answer, conclude the answer with a chapter that talks about Adesh sewer well or MFI Himalayan facile agile, agile and also what is contained in it of negative consequences. Evil and you know that are related to the soul

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incarnate above my core who that will claim says this facet they are way beyond whatever you can mention. Whatever we're going to mention here what is there as Mufasa they're way beyond what we are talking about.

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But in the who you've seen will call Barbie that were either first set in Colombo

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facility era to will upward will armor

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you will lock because it destroys the heart completely. And once the heart The heart is destroyed. Then

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intention also will be affected. statement will be affected affected actions will be affected. Everything is going to be affected when the heart is is God.

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Color will first said hello to Haiti waka waka Mata Kadima Seneca whoo inshallah.

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It says well first struggle to hit you know the to heat the door or the essence of the Tahitian the heart also will be will be affected.

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In no time says we're going to talk about this inshallah as Allah Allahu subhanho wa Taala it NEMA haka handle maraga anta entertainment and NAS OMA luthier to one Nisa, Allah subhanaw taala narrated this story. I mean, this evil behavior to take place in the history from two people, two types of people.

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Number one, a luthier

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homosexuals, those people who are committing homosexuality and sodomy and as the people of blue tally Salem

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and also some sisters,

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the brothers from the time of Luth Ali salah, and also some sisters

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for Akbar and HP emirate so the people have looked we already know right back about an HP he Emirati law is easily USofA Amara order to occur it will be Allah subhanaw taala told us about that.

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You know that kind of strong

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In love, which is not placed in the proper position that came from the wife of Al Aziz.

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The case of use Valley, Sara

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walkabout and Ilhan ility sobre. La her use of be Sabri here why effectively what Aqua? Allah subhanaw taala told us about

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the good you know status and the condition that Usul found himself in after he uses his patients

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were effectively and preservation of honor that he has dignity which ACOA and also the fear of Allah subhanaw taala

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analytic truly a biggie, I'm gonna lie use Barwani

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I will ask array elements of Borroloola it says knowing the fact that what Allah subhanho wa Taala tested us with is something that nobody can handle it except somebody who Allah smarter stands for

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good idea what is the use of he's going to tell you how how is it like that the test that use of receive nobody can be patient except if Allah subhanaw taala interviews

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for in the MOI cartel fairly be has been quoted there a was one minute what makes the person to go and do the to commit Zina or to do an action

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two things quarter death that strong intention and the Iran and the feeling that nothing can stop it and secondly, the wall of money, the prevention of almanor predicament and obstacles in the case of use of all that the way you are there and also the manner is removed as Evolocumab is going to is going to mention meaning not the doors open for him I'll answer i The door to the commission of Xena is open 100% with no consequence denier consequence if he goes for it, no consequence because it is the authority who are going to hold him responsible and they're the one who brought him to the to the placing

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unless physically what we can see at that at that time. What kind of die how who in the right

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direction would you and the motivators for somebody to get into this trouble? They're very strong in the case of use valet setup very slow

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that's where Allah subhanaw taala interfered last is kinetically nursery fan who sue our fascia we took away the evil from

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not he does Allah says we interfere and took away the evil function

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in the human original Alpha fallacy.

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So, ignore claim says I will explain what I mean here. It says I had to help

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you know the the the motivators are very strong in many ways. Number one, Mara Kabul hula hula subhanho wa Taala Tibet Raji made healable and the use of is a man is a male and naturally Allah subhanaw taala put in the debate of male to be inclined to,

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to to the woman right, this will last a lot of some asset. Now it may not be such a clean wedding in other Hubballi Linda Virgil has him in a

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in a sea of person who is so smart, but they can cool him down because of

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the plot that these enemies can send. Many times they sent a woman to do it.

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Because she will go and then she will manage to get ever whatever they wanted to get from him in, in a way brothers, no matter how many they are, they might not be able to get a single thing from

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but a woman can get very easily from him.

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And he's given hidden even sometimes he doesn't even know that he is given later on when his consciousness comes back to him and then he understand what kind of game was being played against him. So naturally, men are inclining towards that, that sisters come I mean will outshine Ilma just like the way you find out a

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person who is thirsty is always thinking about what what.

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So just like that, Bobby also is like this. Well, Jay pan, somebody who is hungry is always looking for and thinking about food where to get food.

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Had that in the cathedra? millionaires? Yes Bureau alata and Lucia Devala. Yes Bureau Alan Anissa. They find so many people who can be patient, not eating, not drinking but they can't be patient. When it comes to that desire. It can't

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it can keep

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came about eating or drinking that okay, but to be patient without having

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his wife, you know, put it in the right way, you know, because some people they cannot be patient and they go and do it in in the wrong way.

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Or how they lie, lie lie with them either side of a hill, or halala This is not something to be blamed if it is halal. You know, somebody can't be patient with his wife.

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That's okay. That's fine.

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You know, that's eliminate B Talib said, Whatever he gets inside the house or is a control legitimate that it muddy comes out of him very easy.

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So he says,

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he says,

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first of all age and as LNBs Alloxan. I became very shy to ask the prophets Allah Salam imechanic little human

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because of his daughter, he's married to Fatima. Can he go to her father and tell her this? So he said is so shy to go and talk to the proxy server parties? Because why is he mad that of course, everyone knows that. So this is from his family.

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He can be patient, is he going to be blamed for this? No, actually, he'll be rewarded for this as well as Allah salah, so I didn't tell him anything

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of blame other than telling him what to do.

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So he said, Martin McDonnell is what he asked me that to go and ask the professor lately Salem, so he went and asked him in the province a lot of Somerset, command him to be equal to whenever that happens from him. So you'll find him says a person is not to be blamed if he's doing that in the halal way.

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Right. Believe maduka Murthy Kitab is Zulu. Ahmed bin Hadith used to have been half a year

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so far, and Therby still gonna Ania Anderson and Louisa La Silla makalah hope Dubai la Amin dunya command

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US Bureau and on Rashad Wallace we won and Hunan

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province Allah said in this hadith which is authenticated by some scholars, he says,

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if your claim says just like what we got from the book of Zod, Al Imam Lima, Muhammad from the hadith of use of unity so far, from Savage, alguna, Annie and Anacin from unassuming Malik as well as Allah Somerset Habiba. Illya Allah subhanaw taala cast in my heart the love of two things from the dunya it says sisters and also upbeat

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stable perfumes, as well as last summer really loves perfume.

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That's why when he put perfume that will be neutral, Allah knew because his nature is smelling good. And he loves to put festivals, they have this one from him and they're all a peep. Mashallah.

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So he says I love these two things as we are undefined or Shahrukh will ask Dan who can be patient when it comes to food and drinks but not with this?

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That's the SU Lexa line seven this is actually from Rasul Allah, Allah so much to everyone. Yeah, it's good for us that so let's Allah so Allah smart Allah created him in this in this way. So that person will know that Allah subhanaw taala always give him a way out. Right? Rather than doing the Haram thing, you have your own family, right? So let's allow somebody is what he says whatever that person has your wife also also have

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that unfortunately, if a person is too much, you know, stretching his eyes to something else, then you will not enjoy staying with his family in the way he enjoys looking at those things. This is one of the ego consequences.

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Allah subhanaw taala grant is good. So that's rasool Allah, Allah so that's why sometimes he will go around his family in one day, all of them make only one goose Nepali, but that Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam his ability is not like the ability of any one of us is ability is not like the ability of any one of us is very strong, more way beyond what you can imagine.

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The Battle of Aza when they try to catch the rock, you know, 10 of them. They couldn't do anything. As soon as the law so much of them yeah, the hammer, you know, headed once.

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It sparks no fire comes from it. It says Allahu Akbar

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hated again. It said Allah hakama the fire comes out with the third one also he said Allahu Akbar, but the road was gone completely.

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He alone was able to destroy it, but they couldn't. Yeah.

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That was the narration, though, that narration has some question mark on it when Omar came to accept Islam as soon as a thought and he's coming to to fight

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help him from this part. And he shook him until the time he put him to the

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No, no who was over.

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But that was also let's allow Salem was having the energy of around 40 P.

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That's a solar

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California so that's the first one that the BER use of Allison I'm assuming not an angel somebody else's human beings. So caveat that we are the nature nature of human being is that the mean is always inclining towards the woman right.

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Attorney and the use of valleys some kind of shampoo and shower to Shabaab

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Aqua is a valley salon, how old is he was very young at that time.

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area. And you know, the nature of the young people in terms of desire is stronger than the old people, right the old people and that's why if

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an old man commit Zina or somebody who has a wife is supposed to be old,

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the punishment is heavier than the young person. Because then person the desire is still there, you know, and wanting also to go and try something new is always there. As well last month, I restricted him with with the marriage and the old man who commit Zina Allah will not even look at him on the day of judgment, because the desire is very weak. In some cases, it is not even there, but still committing Zina. It will be one of those that Allah smarter will not even look at it on the Day of Judgment they meet. So use of as a young person, I just want you to understand that there were I the motivators, you know, things which can push a person to go and do that which Allah subhanaw taala

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doesn't like

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with falleth and who can eyes but laser who xojo well as the

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tax authorities shower, you know, he has this strong desire as a young person, but he doesn't have a wife, and he doesn't have a salary of three as a female slave that somebody owns. So that is no way for him to relieve his his desire

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to get an idea. There is no wife also we know anything. So what does he do?

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It's going to reveal how strong was that test, you know?

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Karla a rabbit, and who kind of fibula to go but yet Atelier GaryVee fie Harmon Tada in watery mallet at level three Walton he have been early humanity user was a stranger in that place. You remember they? They throw him in the world, right? And then some people got him right. They sent him to that place. Egypt, right. That wasn't his country. So he was a stranger. Why some people get corrupt

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when they left their country, because there is no more DACA is parents and other

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many students right when they come to Malaysia or to go go to somewhere else because they don't have anyone to monitor them. They became bad. Which in their country, they're not like that. They became very bad. Why? Because nobody's monitoring in their country. They don't do because they have their parents are there. And the Friends of the parents or the you know, uncles are there, everyone is there and their friends those who are there the communities monitoring, everyone knows who he is. But here who knows nobody

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gave a person wish he can live alone. Nobody knows him. Yeah, and then he can go and do whatever he wanted to do in the wrong way.

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So use Valley salaam cannery in that place, you know, away from the eyes of his parents and their relatives.

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So that's why you can see a person who is part of the community staying away from things which are shameful in a way the person who is not part of that community will not do because he doesn't have anyone to

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blame him when he does something inappropriate.

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Are you following the way it will claim is trying to explain to you why this test is very strong because all the motivators and the things which can push a person to do that wrong thing were there and usable etc.

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accom is under Murata Canada monsoon words

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behind behave in Nicola hidden been having a Lamborghini. Yeah, yet rue de la mercati ha. And she's a very, you know, high profile person, you know,

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as a position of the country.

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And also She's extremely bitter. She's very bit forceful. Yeah, so she has the position and the pointer in the country is among the people authority and also she's beautiful.

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It will claim says each one of them is capable of pushing the person to go and do what Allah subhanaw taala does what

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a sad is unavailable. Montagnier will be

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in a cathedral minion as he's you know, as a butcher who filmer Atiba AHA I'm Tina Aha, imagine if enough see him and do live Hello. It was too early.

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There are a few women unless you do about willing to now era that no husband cannot call the sheriff was there then he colophon Phil hobby and Malaya to hammer che in insane pneumonia.

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Alpha development left Seema Khalifa Firmino, Manitoba, alpha hog Buho in the battle in Marathi. Org Betty Howard mahalo in the event home tonight

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for anybody

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with MS in the story, but anyway, we go through it somehow.

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He says, Number Number six is a fact that this woman is very submissive, she submitted herself to him.

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Because we have many people, when the woman reject the power of that desire, he has reduced to the lowest level

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when she rejected the power of the desire reducing low wisdom, that's why many complaint from husbands in our time is this.

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Because the one who get bored of marriage, who is that?

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The main or the sisters, the sisters, the one who get bored of marriage after the marriages are the sisters, not the brothers, brothers usually never get bored of

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sisters get bored.

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That's the nature of divorce. So the husband will come with this shower and the wife is not ready for that. That's why the prophets Allah Azza wa said he should send a messenger or soon first send some messages that just go and force and do whatever, although he does have a right to look for it at anytime he wants, but do something that can motivate her to bring that desire, which usually she's not thinking about, about that.

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So the one who get bored of it is is a sister's not the brothers. That's why many complaints and marriages are getting destroyed because of this. Sister she Allah subhanaw taala This is a very strong matter with Allah. Yeah, because marriage is established, one of the main purposes of marriage is to keep the eyes of the brothers intact and in one place. Because if that eyes is going anywhere, then you should anticipate disaster and problem to exist in the community.

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If the home is not cooperative,

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what what message is she sending to him? Go look for somebody else. Now look for something else. And he doesn't feel a lot smarter Hugo, look for something else. If you've used Allah subhanaw taala and cannot be patient, what does he do? He won't marry another person. And then it becomes a big issue with with her

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to become big issue with how many people married, because they don't get cooperation from them from the first wife.

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And she knows she's not doing and once he goes for the second month, and then the problem with will happen.

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Good idea, since he already is good. Doing your responsibility and your job is good. Remember, one of our scholars was narrating the story of a great scholar, very great scholar. Guest check messages. Nobody invited him to come and judge between him and his wife.

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Chef is inviting his students. And that student also is not the young person is big, personal. Sometimes the students are very old, older than you maybe older than your father. So he brought the student to judge between him and his wife. He was narrating the story by himself. He said he said when I came and the wife was complaining that he has too many things.

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So this this student, you know, noticed when I called him a really big shake, naughty. He told them, I'm going to judge and you are not supposed to talk and she should talk first. Sheikh Nasser said no, I should talk Islamically I'm the one who has a right to talk first not I said no. She talked first.

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And he is said that no lesson has to be followed. He said No, I know. But you invited me to judge. I am the one who has to say here. This is Makena. Either you follow my statement or you let me go. I don't want to be the judge

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has been angry. She said okay. She told me that she complained. She complained. She complained she complained, you know?

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And then she said okay, let me replace it. No.

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I'm going to judge based on her statement, not based on your statement.

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Is that I can see the chef was getting really annoyed.

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Why did he put himself into this Caboose? Yum.

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So and then this naughty? Counselor? He said I understand and this is really true. And you are valid.

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You can reasonably say yes, you are valid.

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It says And as such, I'm going to send my I mean, mentioned my my vertic. To avoid this doom is to marry another person because she cannot handle all of these things alone. She needs somebody to help at home.

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So Allah

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Now on the shackle, Bernie was laughing at this woman.

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And the wife turned into rich. Let's face it, and so Ha, he she said, No, if this is the conclusion, I agree, I will handle everything at home. Whatever he wants, I will do and beyond what he is looking for also, I will go for that.

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Anyway, I just wrote this, not because of the story, you know, I know, it's somehow funny, but

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I talk about honesty. Why can't we live with our partners cooperating, you know, doing the right thing everyone should do his job, not changing the cost, something is going to happen if I don't change? Why?

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Trust me in many, many instances like that

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change take place when the husband take action.

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I'm not saying they're always right. No, but I'm just talking about this part. Alone. There are many cases where the husband is is a criminal. The wife doesn't have any issue. He's the one who has the issue. But I'm just talking about this part.

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Talking about the desire, husband goes out penetrate things, you know, see things you know, and come back with this huge amount of desire trying to protect his Iman, believing that he has somebody at home and he goes back to the house is not welcome. As well as someone who saw by accident, a woman by the video quickly went back home.

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He went to his wife and he found out ready

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imagine she's already for him.

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And it how do you think his situation is?

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Trust me life between them. This is also like we keep them aside but just say a normal normal person. Trust me life is not going to be good.

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So Celeste, Allah said, if a person invited his wife, and she refused to come, angels are going to curse her until Allah will curse and the angel until the next next month until morning.

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That's why you see the why so Rasulullah saw somebody they used to sit when they got angry because they're also human beings, they get annoyed sometimes.

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They avoid Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam until and tonight. When night comes the the cooldown, they go back to the good life. They don't want the crumbs to come.

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You can idea so this life is all about test. Right? It's all about test. He is not also happy. Sometimes you're not also happy sometimes. But a cooperation between the two spouses must be very strong in the way both will be protecting the other. Other side. That's why putting restriction in marriage in this regard is very dangerous. It's very dangerous. And so Allah these restrictions usually comes from the from the wife, and who gets harmed more, she get harmed. Because either the husband will end up doing it in the correct way, which is to go and bring another person and she will never be happy with this level. Even if she says she accepts it. I'm telling you is not true.

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Deep down inside there naturally she cannot she can't accept it. Even the wife of a solar cell. Sama doesn't accept Abraham's wife Sarah, she was the one who gave Abraham had. He was the one who gave him she said take off.

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Right. She was one who gave him she said to her, but then she became jealous. You know, she gave the first place but as you become jealous Hunter has to run away from the house

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has to run away from the house.

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Yeah, cassava is looking for her. She has run away leave the place. And Allah subhanaw taala. At the end of the day, he asked Abraham to take Hardin and his mind and put them in some other place

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to get it. So that's very, you know, natural to see a woman not liking to have somebody next to next to her. That's very natural.

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To say it is haram, this is unnatural, because he's going against Allah subhanaw taala but not to like it is very natural. It's uptight, nobody says he has to accept it. She has to like it. No, no, Islam did not say this. But can she say this is haram and the way some of the sisters are saying? No, that's cool.

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Because that's contradicting what Allah subhanaw taala says is halal.

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But can she say I don't want to be in that situation? Yes. It's absolutely up to her.

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It's absolutely up to her up to him to go for it and up to her to say she didn't want to stay.

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It's a good for her to have this decision is another topic. But she gets in by saying she doesn't want to stay in that way. No, she doesn't.

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But what I'm trying to say is, why do you push him to go for this decision? Because many, many, many, many. Trust me, many are going for this thinking because they don't get what they want from from the current wife they're living with. If he doesn't feel Allah subhanaw taala he will go and do it in the wrong

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way, and that also will upset her if she is a good, good woman.

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So even though Kareem said, this woman is being she submitted herself to him, and that's a very big

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factor that influences a person to change his mind, even if he doesn't want to do now, he will do because of the way she is the woman is submitting herself to him, You Allah, not easy for a person to grow out of out of this, selective Allah subhanaw taala protect is hard. So this one she looked for him, and she asked him, she told him hydralic just come Everything is yours.

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So, if your claim is mentioned, and as he says, Many people, the desire becomes so strong, if the submission decrease, and if there is a rejection, they might have their interest been reduced to the lowest level. If it doesn't, if it does even exist.

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Do you get idea California about Luxembourg telecom. So people have different types of

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And he quoted one line of poetry that I skip is it's hambletonian insanity mamounia. Usually, sometimes there are some people who are the opposite. You know,

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he lives to see the person that he lives with his wife rejected, where he has to force her to get what he wants.

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Because some people they have this nature, what they are deprived from they like it more than the which they are they're given. So people have different approaches and different natures for being human yet of alpha Buho endeavors Illuminati. Org but you have a Hulu and a buy home tonight. So these are two different types of people. Some of them will be interested when the woman is submitting herself but some of them will not like that. And then he quoted this as story of one of the judges like Bernie and Nevada to wash your hair to tell them he'll end up tonight in Marathi he also VAT whereby he has to lie we'd have I mean who made to the Africa who era to build money

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registered the show or who call them ammonia were so low middle that's roughly now the Roma hustler Amina novelty, beloved by them tonight he when he fired he will live activated Rachael must ltbi that is Ticsa is is this RBI Washington Hennessy. Elijah rakia is, is one of the judges told me that he's talking to him last time about himself. He says he personally is like that, personally is, is like that, if his family is to reject his request, then he doesn't have any desire, he doesn't want to see them. So he doesn't even want to see them. So he says people are different. You know, some of them are like this, some of them are like that. But this one, she is a very beautiful person. And

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she's also in high position. You know, people want to be closer to those people with a high ranking and position. And also she requested from him. She submitted herself galactosyl above she locked the door. You know, she saw him all of her beauty. You know, took up the clothes and then tell him hydralic come

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so you can see this is also another day, something that can motivate him and push him you know to do that which Allah subhanaw taala doesn't like

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call a savvy unhealthy Allah but what era that era will lead to a battle Judah for comfort who moved Netta Tala he was delivered Liberty Bell cannot hear Raghava the leader will as he's in mahogany. The next one is she the one who is requesting from

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you know, a person no matter how much bad he is when he first see a sister before he requests from her something evil. It takes time to think of what to say how to come how to talk to her, how to introduce himself, you know, all of these things, you know, this woman told us of whatever you want to come for it. Came says she handled the issue of him humiliating himself by requesting from her. So now he is the one who is wanted and she's the one who is wanting. He's on top and she's in the low level.

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A famine and the houfy dairy what Tatsuta and how Akari had the heavy yak Shah in Utah where min min other Hala who festival otherwise you have Roberto Raha and also this thing is taking place where in her house and he has the fear that if he doesn't do, she might go on and punish him. So he has this strong love because of the way she looks and the position she has. And also at the same time, the fear he has that this woman is in the authority if he doesn't give her what she want. He will be in trouble and also this is her house. She can claim that he is the one who is doing whatever he wants. Because she is alone in the house.

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To get the get it right this is valid

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is one that the fact that he's in her house, you know, under her authority. So that is a fear that if he doesn't submit himself to what she wants, he will be punished. You know, she can claim anything against it.

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That he tried to do this and that and she can use the authority to put him in jail.

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So two things in him the strong love and also the request from her. Absolutely the strong wedeco

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not love the strong

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beauty that she has, and the nature he has of being a young person and also the request that comes home from

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a test and no reaction and tell him the ollie

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here Well, I had a mangy hottie ha have a na he'll mortality but to Raghava

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work at the La Cocina guava

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workarea baroka You know nobody is there watching them you know she can see whatever she wants to say about the case you can put it in her own story

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there was no i that is monitoring that nobody because she closed all the doors

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and actually I know kind of advised him I'm looking for half a day number 10 user was asleep

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you know a VA him and physically YouTube is like a median house

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although they take him as a child but he was like asleep because they bought

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he had he had hardware coverage where the robot how would I even Corolla he can own society configure a powerup

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portable wisatawan only so idea and your portable. We saw the origin neutrality.

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Or truly Swati main server. It says the use of was just like a million dollars goes in and out at any time he wants

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to get it at anytime he wants. So it's like part of the family.

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Whatever. You know, if he is a stranger who doesn't come inside the house, then it is very clear that yes, he is an intruder that comes to the house for evil behavior. Right. But he's part of the house going inside whenever whenever you want. So he's always close to her. That's very dangerous. That's very dangerous. That's why they told one of the of the sisters who committed Zina, you know it? Well, why? Why did you do that? She said, because we're too much close to each other.

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My pillow is closer to his pillow.

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And it takes very long time. And nobody's there to watch. It was like there instead of darkness. Nobody can see them. She said this long time been spent by them being closer to each other. You know, this is what caused me to commit Zina. She used to be a FIFA, very strong person who preserve her honor and dignity. But then at the end of the day, she's kind of going in the wrong way. Why? Because she said too much closer to him.

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And they they lost that honor and dignity

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and had the actual amnesty and Allah Hibiya immortal macro Bollettieri for that year one for our two year winner will shake it ha ha ha Hindi which is the inner be Hinari faster and who will be la Hey, la hinda, Allahu Akbar, Allah will let us refer Nikita Hoon Hospitalet in our community.

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She's She sought the help and the support of the leaders of plots. Those sisters that live in in her time, you know, she gather, gather all the important sisters in the community. She invited them for because now the new Saturday to go inside the city and her honor her images tarnished. So she decided to take revenge and also to remove the problem from her and to make people you are the one who should be I mean, a matter of concern not me. Right. So she invited them

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for feast in her house. And she prepared things you know, and you know, these are the wives of the rich people in the community. So they come to the house, you know, they sit down, they're waiting for the food, she gave them fruit, you know, and give them knife to cut the fruit in the way they want. You know, they lie down. You know?

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She gave each and every one of them a small pillow that can put you know those kinds of settings right. So she they sat down

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There she went and told you so get ready

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cuz this strong plot, you know,

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she told you something I want I want you to do just pass through them.

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Yeah, because she knows what she's seen. She knows what who is useful and they never saw him. Yeah, so she told you so just come out

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and pass

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as it don't need to talk to anyone no need to do anything. Just come on, walk through them and then

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use of cane and he passed through them. Allah subhanaw taala says follow them. You know, a burnout baccata an idea who

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couldn't imagine they couldn't believe what is this? I call it what is this? Because they couldn't believe that this is human me.

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Never imagined a human being like this. Yeah, so last Rotella made you can see why she cannot she couldn't be patient.

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And she did a good job from the childhood he grew up in her house up to the time he was strong and young person then she lost.

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So when they saw him, they say what is this?

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What a bad idea when and the noun the OPPO the fruit or whatever they cut him instead of that one that one left their hand they did not know that the thing already fell down. They started cutting their fingers

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hi this is movo the fake Hadith says that this is the reason why we have these lines

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so we should ask that criminal who made that hadith people before us Valley salaam they don't have the lines

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so Allah subhanaw taala says Katana idea when they cut you know some parts of their fingers and he said Katana that's mean it's not only once you can imagine what kind of beat what kind of things they see which caused them to lost their consciousness they don't feel because they cut and they cut they cut cut data means it's kept on being repeated cut beautiful anything

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Yeah That's why Allah smarter puts the barrier says don't remove it remove it

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problems gonna take place in society

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according to Harsha de la Mahadasha

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is it Subhan Allah subhana wa Shara this cannot be human being

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and this keep the Junos

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cannot be human bit in her mela can carry. So this is none other than a very noble Angels, even amongst the angels also is a very special angel.

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That she, when did she win the debate? Yes, that's exactly what you want.

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And then she told you so mission accomplished. Yes, go back home. And then she looked at them. All of them are lost, they are cold. She says further eloquently. delimiting anything, you know, whatever, you're telling me that I couldn't be patient, you know, this is my main this, this and that. What happened? I have been living with him for almost 30 years. Nothing happened. And you guys only one day, you know, just a few seconds. Look at your conditioning Kevin, cut yourself. What do you think if you were to be with us of Alison and what will happen in his case, I was a villa. Now they became they are the one who to be blamed you

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as well. Like she managed to divert the attention of the community from her to

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to them. Yeah, because after that they couldn't be patient, the whole city's use of use of us.

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That's why the authorities realize that this is going to be a very big problem.

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So they sit down to discuss about what to do now. So the only solution they have which is injustice is to take use of TCG. She already promising you have to go to jail, either give me what I want, or I will send you to jail. She doesn't want him to be killed because these type of

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things you know the punishment could be debt death.

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That's why she knows this is her husband in highest authority in the country. So that's why she quickly told him the one who is looking for this from your family deserve to be to be punished, you know, or to be sent to jail. She did not say to be killed.

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wanted me to be killed. She still have hope.

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So that's what I will claim is mentioned here in this in this in this in this part. It says

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she was looking for the support of her friends, you know from those sisters who can help her to do

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Make sure that the plot against him establish Salah, she made a mistake. This is a prophet of Allah subhanaw taala or somebody who is going to be appointed as a prophet, Allah subhanaw taala stands for.

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So what did he do? He asked Allah to protect and she's asking the sister support to help her and he's asking Allah to know

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which side is going to be strong? Of course his side.

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So he says, well let us refine the Qaeda on us Bula hinda welcome mineralogy. He says yeah Allah if you don't

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remove you know and take me away from their plot. Yeah, I am going to incline towards that which they are asking me to do. And I will be a moment to ignore it.

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So we still have some to go I don't want to rush if I rush I will not finish before Mercury so it's better to stop here in sha Allah, Allah grant is good and toufic and from now onward as I said it since April came if you remember the title, it said is going to be talking about the mocassin of Al ash HQ This is the recall crimes crush crush crush crush

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him in the name is no good.

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So he's going to be talking about those people who are involved in this. So unfortunately, you're going to be seeing a lot of statements which we cannot mention them in this place quoting from quoted from the people who said them you know, so we will be talking about the general overview his statement inshallah we will translate but those poetry's many of them or any one of them that is related to those quotations from the gangsters about these type of matters, I think skipping them is better and shall get until the end of the law grant is good and to fit and be with us wherever we sit and

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that is one question. Only one

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set out

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I think like, other times are difficult to make. So should I just ditch the class or go for the drama and

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the class or Muslim or non Muslim attendance? Not always a one on one class? Uh huh. Yeah. So I may share time at leisure time. Why did why did you choose discuss?

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On that was all the time.

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They don't have anyone can apologize to the person that they make. Can you just go and pray and come back if it isn't? Okay. So this is really good. You're next to the masjid and they're making the karma and then you just continue with the class.

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Doesn't look nice.

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Sound kosher? Coffee calm. What if it's an Islamic class for example, in the Quran, Islamic class, it shouldn't have Quranic class during the prayer time, we should

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have more than one

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can we have them in the next class?

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These are all to this question.

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So inshallah if the questioner doesn't mind, I will answer the question inshallah. And the next day, if it is urgent, please do message me through my whatsapp Michelle malegra Antigua. Sit on, live or cartoon