Ibrahim Nuhu – Riyadh Us Saliheen – 8-11-2022

Ibrahim Nuhu
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Mr. Magoo, Rahmatullah al Amin and Avena Wahhabi bin Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa early he was he was selling mobile ad. Valeo, Phyllis Asher Michelle will be attorney Alfa Romeo abattoir bound, and more perfectly. Somalia Michelle November is now no shadow law filters and if you have the Kitab in Mobarak, the other side of heinous Allah subhanaw taala, and the radical female female at our level one you have the last word here from Olivia who fiddly. So the class is supposed to be after Marguerite but, and fortunate, that might be smart.

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And I said, because these things when they happen, they happens because about behavior attitude, and it's a sign from Allah subhanaw taala that somebody is going the wrong direction, and things have to go come back on.

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Correct from it. Right. That's how it should be understood.

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We pray because Allah subhanaw taala is not happy with what we're doing and this is what He commanded us to do. That Allah subhanaw taala

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so everyone is supposed to repent to Allah subhanaw taala and fix his attitude and behave well.

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Everyone is supposed to repent to Allah subhanaw taala and fix his attitude and behave behave well.

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So what's the message is all about right we're going in the wrong direction, we have to come back to the Right

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Path of Allah.

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So we'll have this class and then next week we will go back to Africa.

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And this class also be exactly like the React. Right. And when Carrie and Carrie who

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kind of

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had information,

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call one.

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Call it mother of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam O'Shea and called to be ready. Lamb rotten walang rotten wala Kadima Illa ninja heffy Sevilla, Oman el Amin, who che on cut to vain Takuma means ID Illa and Yun taka Schumann Mahadevan la quinta fameux. When

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I share the Mohan has said the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam never beat somebody with his hand, never, never beat a woman, his wife, and never also beat a made a slave. You know,

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Elijah had a visa vie de la the only time where the province or law sort of beat somebody is when he participate in the jihad. So we talking about beating in the sense of the tarbiyah.

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Please, Sara Monaco,

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Please reduce your voice please. Thank you very much.

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So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, I never beat somebody in terms of Adam, in order means giving tarbiyah to that person the way he beat. But this is not to say that the beating is haram in Islam, though it is not. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I even advised the person to have a whip or stick hanging on the wall of his house. So then the kids will see. We'll see

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how that can be the mother can beat but this is just to scare like the police, the police comes and stand in a public area right so that the people who are committing the crime will see and not to commit the crime, right? It's not good for him to hide and wait for them to commit the crime first and then he take action. No, we don't do that. We out for us to do everything possible to make sure that didn't go against the law of Allah subhanho wa taala. So given therapy to the kids, it's okay, it's fine. You know, the promise a lot and so, he did not do

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because he has a best of approach where everyone knows what to do, including the children right? That's why he never beat us.

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Very excellent interview, begin to ask, what really happened, how did he succeed

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and in reality, who is changing?

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Is it Rasulullah Salah so the kids

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know Rasul Allah

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is the One who is changing

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kids remains the way they are. Yes, you give them they give you back. What is supposed to be the result in relation to what you get.

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So usually you are the one who is changing as a father, not your child.

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Okay. Ensure natural enemies

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are what who are

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very nice and excellent system that people have to study it

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insha Allah

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will come and stop talking also and come and do our job and in this matter, right, shall,

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Sunday, no problem. Send the insha Allah get ready Sunday, tell Muhammad am ready

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and this is your evidence, don't keep it that something. So, Toby is one of the most important topics to be discussed nowadays. Very, very, very crucial and important nowadays. For us to discuss it and understand it correctly. The survey has to be that will be to like say Allahu alayhi wa sallam Surah sola sola Sama, never beat a woman

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for obviously he's talking about his his wives, right? Allah subhanaw taala Quran says, you don't want your own Nephilim ammaji watery bone loss, Roger says

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see how well that is actually the house, see helpers. Usually,

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it will didn't

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know she just wake up and see her face turning to the other direction. Beats and beats, beaten, beaten. So the problem is that I was told by Allah subhanaw taala, I should come first

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and see how with wisdom, not as an authority. The problem is he thinks he's the husband. So he talks in the way he wants, that's wrong, you should talk as a partner, somebody who has nothing, given the car to his to his wife with all kinds of humility and humbleness. Because he wants the things to be fixed. Right? So that's how it should be done if you've given us

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the promo the result unless if you're married to somebody who had the first one or the one who was making that mistake in the first place, you made a mistake, you take the wrong person who cannot be fixed, then you know the man had is totally different. Yeah, man, which is totally different from her, she has magic totally different from yours, which you will be trying to convince her that she will not get to be convinced. So who is the problem? You are the problem? Because for the first place, you do not bring somebody who can listen to us. So Allah azza wa jal says, Can I see her first?

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It says, What is your own ethnicity? Her doesn't work, then you go for them?

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To stay away from her, and how do you do that? You stay away from her in the in the house itself, you can go to somewhere else the province a lot of Somerset, in, it should be in that.

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You don't need the food, don't sleep next to them, you know, things like that. And if the first thing is to do it correctly, if that is a lot of the first phase between him and the family, trust me, my dear brother and sisters, it will 100% 100% That's why if you move to what they call forsaking, that's means you fail in, in the first category, when you move to the second one, you will fail.

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And if you fail, in the last one, believe me, you should always ask yourself.

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So not the last one, the second one, because you shouldn't fail in the second one.

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But the problem is a person doesn't do it correctly. He also will come back right? And approach them and then tell us that Adam is is God.

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Good idea. The manager of Rasulullah sallallahu is to not raise up your hand and beat your wife.

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That's the Sunnah of the Prophet is a lot of Salah. And trust me if you if you are really, really a husband, and you know what to do, you know, in that kind of life, throughout your life, no matter what, you know, you would never reach that situation. As long as you let Sharia exist in the house, you will never reach that situation. You might get angry, mad extorting is going to happen from time to time. If you're not living with robot

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you're gonna make you angry. Anytime you make also, and sort of patience is required from from both but since the last quarter granted authority in the house, that's why the focus is on you.

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You're offended when somebody does something we should like, you know, what should be the

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the action are you going to be taking, you know, each last one winter season I see heifers then

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and then hijra, right, only none of them since work and the problem is too big. Then Alas, Martin says beaten can can work and what type of

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beats in that would never leave in the body. No marks or anything? Yeah. Some people she has to go for medication in the hospital. There's injustice and unfairness haram that's haram haram

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She has to go for medical treatment because of that, that's going beyond the limits. Nobody asked him to do that and nobody permitted him to do that because there's no Allah subhanaw taala says that as I said, he reaching that conclusion that you raise your hand and beat your wife. I'm telling this a failure, marital relationship, big failure, right? Because that's what we have to think a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot before the marriage to avoid things like this in the future. The same goes to the made in house those guys are not useless they're just people who are allowed to output your control over them. They're looking for that which you have you should take them as brothers or

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sisters and observe Sherry I

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know beaten promised last summer did not beat him and this was with him for 10 years, eight to 10 years he said he never beats me

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in New Geography CBD law except when the province will also fight for the sake of Allah because he had to sell about BT right? Yeah. Which he had which fighting there is no reason

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given the cover up John also in our is the shooter aeroplane and runaway you know, they also hit in with something

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called Omani lemon who shave on cut to when Turkey moments are heavy in onion Tanaka, Sherman Hurmati law. Nobody ever did something against us who likes Allah Sama, which caused us to let you take revenge.

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Unless if that person is violating the law, so the last one

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only time works a lot. So is taking revenge. Other than that, no.

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Other than that, no. Yeah. No, who is like this. And believe me, if you apply this in your life, you'll relax. Now

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just forgive

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me, it's so silly before this life. But forgiveness is the best weapon you have

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given us. Over CalU Salam Allah says, Allah says Allah Virgo, which means you have no time to waste with this person who thinks he does have a right to violate the rights of others. Shafi says

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natok has a few for lethargy.

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There, there's a very good word, it's a when an eejit person speaks to you in a wrong way. Cause, say whatever he wants to say. It said fella to

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a hiring manager, but he says to you, Ally, you're saving your time. You shouldn't have time to waste with this person.

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But yeah, I really like that one. No.

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We have to teach them lesson. So what after that? We taught him that we just want to feel that we taught him a lesson. And the best lesson to be taught to that person is to observe patients done reply. He would never forget that. But if you reply, what is that? 111?

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Yeah, that's how it is one one. On one black African

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woman, Jeff, Atala, UK, those people who are acting stupidly in it was you, you're always having the freedom to

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do what

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if you but whoever is kind to you is restricting you, you know, sometimes they might act in the wrong way. But you always remember that good behavior.

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That's why a person should be kind with, with the family wherever you are dealing with, because to remember this, and to Allah, whenever they do something wrong, they reflect upon the way you are treating them. That will come back again.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says, After the divorce, he says, Well, I tell someone for that very now. Because usually after the divorce, could ask the wife if she can remember any good thing about the husband. And you asked him also,

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he might not remember anything.

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Remember nothing except bad things that they will see from those ones, that Allah says let us all formula, because for sure, there have been circumstances where the life was so excellent, very nice.

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So remember those ones. That's why sometimes they just waited and come back and fix the issue.

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And go back to the normal life law says natural human I mean, do it in our life origin Illa yet, you know, if I hate him obey, you know, Allah says not to demean Allah, Allah, you can do so by the Valka.

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So kindness is excellent. In all circumstances, give it patience is excellently also themselves is it you know, after in the situations whereby patients is is wrong to be observed. I mean, it shouldn't be it says Haldeman

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fulfill any demo there are * on photography right Demo Day.

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He said if somebody says patients, patients patients, tell them patients has his own case, yeah, I'm facing somebody wronged me. Yeah, but if I'm defending other people, and somebody is violating them as an authority client, the patient, no.

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Patients is wrong here. I must get that right back to the to the office,

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as well when he deceived the province a lot is somewhere in the first place, you know, and the prophets Allah Sama, let him go the next time when the prophets Allah, Allah, God him with a Juanita, you know, doing the same crime. The prophets Allah says I was going to execute it I

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promise the last time I was elected

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I believe we shouldn't be beaten from the same old twice

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and in many cases were beaten from the safe place

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and times

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one unassuming American villa on

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a minha Roma fan Taffy man family law, except when they violate something, you know, which is part of the rights of Allah, Allah then you will see the province that law is very angry.

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And the right of loss must be preserved.

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To M Shimada selected Allahu Allahu selama Allah He bought a gigantic universe from Pasha Dirac can you

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be unified?

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That's actually better

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machine that Jesus, but he

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and I said it was working with the brothers that are in the process. The last time I was reading the commentaries, and he got from Nigeria

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as the HeartShare that side part of it is very, very hard.

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And this one came, you know, and he held the promise a lot. So

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he made it so tight on the

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smile, I can see the sign of that

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action, you know, that was done against the prophecy last summer. He said he can see the sign on

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his on his neck.

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He said for another

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interview, somebody said I'm okay.

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From McCollum, Mohammed, more of the Manila he'll

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just look at the province of privatization. Look at him he found

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what can you this is this is a lie.

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So you look at the prophets of Allah, Allah who set up the proximal line to get the money. So the

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agent tally, no comment.

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When he saw He saw him in demand, look at the promise Allah is

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you know, he said, ask them to pay me for the worth of the last monitor, which is with you, in some ways, because it does belong to your father

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as well

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in the village,

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so he says, philosopher to first differ in the province a lot of time I look at him, and he's

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trying to

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do from

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his smile to him. And he told people give him what he asked

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that kind of soul I said lightly, so he knows how to deal with those.

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Because this one, you stay away from him, you reply with the same thing. He might leave Islam.

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You might be confronted by somebody who is coming, representing his people, you know,

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that person who misbehave against soulless Allah, so he said, and our killer COVID I'm representing my people, and usually when you have the worker that you're sending them, the wisest, smartest one to go and present. So

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imagine if they send somebody who's not what is he going to do?

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So let's say that so so last last summer, we learned a lot from this lesson. How to deal with people and keep people according to their levels, right.

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Then make people's lives

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downs of treatment everyone keeps him in his in his position.

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And among us origin Rhodiola or necrotic Andrew Eros hula he said Allah Allah yo selama Yaquina via middle Ambia sallallahu alayhi wa sallahu wa ala him barraba Who come over? I don't know who I am. Dang, I wish you were all along McFeely call me for no, no.

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This has been mentioned so many times. It shows how much patience were those messengers and the prophets of Allah subhanaw taala

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said I heard the prophets a lot in Somerset

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is that he himself sort of said I consider them at a time when the province a lot so it was narrated a story of one of the prophets of Allah's Murata. Varma who como his beat a lot, you know, for the moment, and they cause him to believe

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he bled for as Father Who is the man which, while they're throwing stones at him, and he was robbing the blood from his face. He was telling, he was saying allow mafia commitment now, Lana, senior ALLAH forgive my people because they're ignorant. They don't know.

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Me by now.

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So all of them are like that, you know, they don't know something called Revenge, right? Or something. So that you also have to take this into your consideration. They plot the plot, when you have authority over them, just forget

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They will never forget that they put you into trouble because they have the government or sometimes it's how it is, you know, in some places because they have the government they have the authority.

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So they put you into trouble. And tomorrow you got them because now you are in

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and also the system. We take revenge. No. So let's not do that when he got the Metcons he didn't take revenge. Just forget sometimes Subhanallah it hinder the people from making progress? Yeah. When I say don't take revenge, I'm talking about the revenge. Any for your own personal interest because you have been harmed.

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Yeah, but if somebody's corrupt the community you know,

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in this case, the current government can they

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can they fight back to get back the rights of the public? Yes, they have to this is our responsibility. But what is been done to them personally? This one as a Muslim were supposed to to forgive was supposed to follow

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me notice I praise my thing so much. For the first time somebody gave it I

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see Emmett.

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Connects. This is my brother hopped on the bar.

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event within there is no revenge, right?

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The first misapplication of principles, he's here. Anyway, so Allama felucca with no light elements. So as I said, those profits don't know anything about

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they don't know anything about revenge. So you should also also take from the same attitude and

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I don't want to be hereditary, the Allahu Anhu and Rasool Allah He said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam up correlates it should really be Surah machete Doman em liquid EPS or wine de la vie,

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whatever the Allahu Allah, he said the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam I said, lasers should deal with the strong person in the O Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is not the person who has the ability to wrestles or the Tao

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a sheduled miam liquinox Or in the rubber, the song first Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is somebody who can control himself or he is angry.

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A situation where he can control his emotions. His process not about how much muscles you have.

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You are so weak Islamically if you cannot control your

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salon salon the salon

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is the best in this industry. It's hardly do you see the promise a lot. So am I getting angry with somebody unless if the rate of Allah subhanaw taala is is violated? I still cannot access

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problems in internet

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Maybe our time is up

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should I refresh it?

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so it's not my internet it's just

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that Alyssa have a partner.

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And Allah Allah never saw Lysa Allahu Allahu selama kala Lisa she did a B surah in a machete to my M liquid F so in that Allah Allah

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Tala baboon HTML as a result each after that we'll be talking about tolerating harm that comes from others question is it possible for you to live on live on earth without getting harmed

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they said there is a place which they don't even have police in that place

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but somebody told me that there is no police in that country

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you know, maybe when let's say

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I have one of the countries that can't remember which country but they simply don't have police

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last minute very peaceful people.

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But industries if it's true, they don't have security

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to people get hurt industries.

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We have to bring somebody

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from that space to ask right? If that place exists actually in reality, because this is part of our nature, right? I like the power of that shy. It says it was Zulu.

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Men share me rigidly for intended that I fit. Latin live

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is a verb omission region, oppression is one of the attitudes of

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nature of human.

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It says regional but it doesn't mean only man.

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You say a very intelligent person fairly late in life. If we find somebody who is not oppressing others, you should know that there is a cost.

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Alas, and then we have

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Yes, Allah says no kind of illumine Jehovah.

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If you find somebody who's not a personalities, he should know that that is something which is pushing him not to oppress others could be religion.

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He knows that Allah Sparta doesn't like it that's what

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could be cowardice. In also if he if he presses gonna get installed, right could be shyness, so many things you know, that could be somebody who just believe that oppression is inappropriate, he stays away from it because he believes it appropriate not because he cannot do so it is not

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possible to live out of your house no even in your house to live in this dunya without getting hurt by others. That's why hasn't says if you ever think that you will come out of your house or you live with human being without getting home he said this is the type of general insanity and that's true because there is no way for you to live with human beings without

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them. You have different types of people. Those who believe they do have a right over you.

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You know they harm you because they think they can talk and they should help

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that's why even hasn't has a very nice statement concerning

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take an action against those people who heard

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it says

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it says

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it's talking about that suburb. Hello.

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He says the first one is the one that

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that comes any the other that comes from the

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the righteous and the good ones.

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You know that these people are harming you by mistake.

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Is it this one to forgive them is watching

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because as soon as Alyssa said that feel the will hayati fee karate. You should forgive those toll had these other people of respect. Evolve man people who are righteous this person will never hurt me intentionally. You'll know that it down there you know that this is just

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although it's a sword issue, you know that you should forgive

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said as for the people, things, they do have a right over you. These are the ones that hasn't says if they are doing it for everyone because sometimes they haven't everyone.

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The ones, you have to hold them responsible what they need to take revenge in the same way and get them in a place whereby you can tell them, Look, I have been monitoring you, I know what you do.

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And I know I can do everything possible to stop you from all of these stupidities. But

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and I always say that is so significant and so useless, you know, I don't have time for people like you. That's why the two. But listen, if this is to happen again.

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You know, now I can forgive, but he's in your heart, he knows that he's going to be in trouble if he didn't.

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Now I can forgive if this has to happen again, I will definitely put you in that which you deserve. You're doing this to protect the community in front of his attitude. That's why you might forgive a sauce. And the government can say no,

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although the sauce the owner of the right can forgive right. But Islamically the authority, politically, authority can say no,

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we don't agree.

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And they will tell you we are happy with your kindness that you forgive your brother. Philosopher heart says it's an old medication on Fatima and we are happy that you forgive your brother. But this person has a very bad record in the community. And therefore the rights of the community has to be preserved. So between you and him, in the eyes of Allah Sparta, you have no right over. But the public also has the right and we were

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interested to take this right. So they are not overruling what you did, you know, but they are just apologizing to you that these informing you is the two rights combined together in one place and we're going to take our so forgive me, us, between you and him and the last mountain but we're going to

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get it so this topic is going to be talking about the best in terms of dealing with other harm that come from others. The best

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reaction is to tolerate and not to react negatively.

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We received from Allah subhanaw taala and it's no place to my knowledge unless we advise you to take revenge

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everyplace infallibility here acid. Let us do it, hasn't it? Well, it's a year in viability here. Acid. Roberto Hybl is already in. Well last but I always tell you patient don't react in the same thing. Don't be the same always have differently is that you'll be big losses will cover me in a way that will ask unanimous Allah we help those people who control the anger and they forgive those people who hurt and wronged them. And Allah smarter loves us. Because sometimes you forget and you do

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if forgiven.

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And believe me this is tested when somebody did something to you forgive him.

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They might not forget or give me a story but don't erase it anyone?

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No problem is this people are not listening. I remember a person that took over I've not just mine but

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in a very critical moment. And that was the thing that somebody gave him to give me but it doesn't have is my

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Hala the one who said he cares?

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Who sent the money with him Chris.

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And he told me don't even take that money even if he gives

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me this is my money even know how much I'm leaving him.

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So that's what I have to require resources and the item. I can't remember anything

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in that middle of that tragedy where

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there is no any other alternative.

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He came one day.

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And he was looking for support.

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While I remember I just smiled. And he didn't give him an eye.

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And he was looking for supportive, supportive to survive.

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I went back and then that they asked me at home who is that? I told them so and so why is he doing?

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I said he's looking for support and what are you going to do? I'm going to support him.

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So Allah it's like a joke. They waited to see if I like to do it. Yeah. I have handled it at that time.

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Again, as far as as far as I can see the office.

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And that's it. And today, I think I'm one of the if not number one to tell that person what to do.

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You couldn't forget it. So I always remember that if you're kind

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That person will never forget that throughout his life.

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How much does it cost me?

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Yeah, no, I did not lose benefits. It's a lot after after that I wasn't looking for it but Alhamdulillah.

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So this is just an example that I can't forget of you being kind to somebody who is harming you. They are the one who will lose, but you will never lose. Yeah, as Robin said, you might lose heathering it 1000 Ringgit. But if you look at the future, what will come the opportunity that last winter will open for you from that way? Yeah. I'm not here to tell you how much Allah is going to provide ease from that direction. Only Allah knows.

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I'm just giving you the benefit of

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the arts first. And the other good one, leave that between the brain.

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Right? If you wanted the same conclusion, do

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essays is always like that, you know, play with the best. Wait for the best to come to you. Allah subhanaw. Taala says for either the beta Cobain, who I doubt you can know.

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That's why this attitude of ours when somebody gets into trouble, the first thing we do is what

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I'm talking about all practices, the first thing we do is what? To blame him,

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scold him to say so many things about him and that guys is traumatized.

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Out of the problem, he will not have that much of respect for us.

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What is the best approach? Don't worry about his, his attitude and his man now he is in trouble. Get him out of that trouble first, as if he doesn't have any any bad paths? You know, I like the hospitals, you know, I mean, good hospitals.

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Good hospital.

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Usually they don't know the identity of a sick person. Yeah. What do they recognize sickness?

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Yeah, so Allah somebody is in a scale and I see with my own eyes. And yes, it's true. I don't know the identity of the person who who is coming in. That's why police might bring somebody who is criminal to

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the hospital or the hospital. Do they give him what he needs? Yes. They gave him everything in it after they finish them they pass him to the police. Hospital is not

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they deal with me only sickness. And that's what the director deputy director told us in this hospital. We know nobody except the 60s.

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Somebody comes in sick we treat and that's the best approach when you're dealing with people who are having bad behaviors when they are in trouble this is the best opportunity and a chance for you to to give less but don't give it at that time. There's no time to give us the opportunity that you can take from that you know, get him out of his problem as if there was nothing you know taking Marcel mashallah good Don't worry.

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Is it okay tell him is very okay. You know, he's mentioned what he used to do.

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And we have a problem please let us focus on this. After everything cooled down, then you come and have a nice sitting with him. Look, what puts you into the struggle is because of this, this, this, this this, but they need trust me Inshallah, you will listen, you will listen. 100%

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Last March, Allah grant is good to Allah. Mohammed says he will count the mean of Heyerdahl. I think that's what Allah who helped build wasini I brought this example because of this and that Allah is what I mentioned. Because you might forgive but you still hold your heart. Mostly we're like, we say we forgive everyone says didn't forgive. But as I said, I forgive. But I still not talking to him.

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Solomon is say salaam to me reply in a very dry way, you know, if something good for him is to pass me I might not help.

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I look for somebody else. But I certainly forgive you. What kind of forgiveness, the forgiveness is just a symbolic forgiveness, which means I will not hit him in the way he hit me at that time. But I look for opportunities to take revenge but in my own my own way. Right. But the best of the forgiveness is to close the page completely. As soon

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you close the page is very, very difficult, you know, relatively like that person who wanted to teach his kids the impact of bad behavior on the person that you're misbehaving to. You brought a nail if

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fix it to the ground to the wall, you know, and he has a challenge for us, He will just hit it, you know, hit with the hammer, it gets inside.

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And then he told me he told him, Do you think that the wall is suffering? He say it has feeling of course it is offering out a finisher, okay, remove it, he removed it. So now we remove the pain, right? He said yes, he said, but

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the sign is there. So this is what happens when you when you press somebody, you know, that person might close his eyes and forgive you, but it will be very difficult for him to forget that.

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The best is to try to forget, and they didn't physically you couldn't forget, but don't take action against that person because of that. That's more than enough as as forgetfulness, you know, you get it. So axon is to go beyond that. If that is good, you know, you start with that person, if he if he qualifies

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to give an idea, as a son, you forgive him, you know, and you also bring good things.

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So, you always do this, because you don't know what happens in the future. You do it for the sake of Allah azza wa jal, but live, it is always like this, you know, in the future, you might be in a situation whereby the only source of support you have in human being is this person.

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That's why it says

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held one or two long,

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give some space, you know,

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not to hate him, but give some space.

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And possibilities because he might be your enemy one day.

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And those whom you take us enemy, leave some space.

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Because they might be your friends one day, right.

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That's why I love the story of

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what Caitlin and kofi. See, there was narrated by one of our scholars, very excellent story. He was saved by who, by his enemy.

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That was the only thing they have even the one next to that we have no option, we just have to go there.

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That's why possibilities are supposed to be less than God. Don't exaggerate in everything. love people, for the sake of Allah, just for the sake of Allah, love people for the sake of Allah hate for the sake of Allah, not for it to

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keep possibilities.

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This will help you to put precautions, why when you are cheated and deceived by a family member, it is more painful when somebody out of the family cheated you. Because you put all your trust in them. I never thought that something will happen. And then when they do.

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That's why somebody says although the statement is wrong.

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That's wrong. That's wrong. According to according Academy scorpions.

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This is wrong. Some of them,

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some of them

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and in this regard, when it comes to love and hatred

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is a principle that I will leave you with is to apply it throughout your life.

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Let your heart this will this right? It says Lyor Cohen Buka

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Well, I can both look to telephone.

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Some people want the love.

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They're not willing to hear anything wrong coming from that person.

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This person didn't know cannot, whatever you try, they will never believe in that.

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So I can help bootcamp.

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kind of

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done love and then then make your love in the love that you have to force yourself to like something.

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It's really long, it's very dangerous. And we have

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a lot of situations like this. You just love him because he didn't have any options. No, that's not a true love. Well, I could go go look at television.

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You hate the way you feel that if you have skin next to you, you might get

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so moderation is it's always good and Islamically the best advice given to you by the by the Sharia is to is to be

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extremely patient.

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Be patient and to apply wisdom with the best with anybody that you're dealing with. Friends Family

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whereas I forgot wife, husband, you know children, be kind to them.

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Let's Allah had the call. You

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will add user

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color and that

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will occur but when at the Maliki

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he said the Virgin sincerely he won't get angry just DeVos not even to beg her. He said have others you know out of the house

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this is good advice. How many systems you have outside? Millions, right? Why do you waste your time with one in the house? You know if she get angry?

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This is the manufacturer of the batteries. But Allah subhanaw taala said what? Why should one

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last Martin says the relationship between you and your wife, the best relationship actually should be the best friend you have.

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Right? You look as as the only person you have, but

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in the right, in the right way. Loss is actually one of the models if somebody says once you get angry, just go

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that's against the book of Allah subhanaw taala that ask people to show kindness in all of their relationships with their spouses.

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Karla Masaba Subhadra was over in the valley calaman asked me about these type of things. You see I bring them you know, from time to time, because we do that we relate them to, to the bedrooms, right, but we do apply them also, you know, in our life.

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No beggin? No, no, no. Yeah. Yeah, you just have to do or else. That's not the man had to pursue less Eliza, you and your partner is all about identifying what to be done to fix the relationship and to bring happiness to the family. And sit down understand that you're both human beings, not robots in the house. As men, she's going to be doing wrong things and you're going to be doing wrong things. So both of you have to observe the maximum amount of patients you have. Yeah.

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All of those bachelors before those who did not marry with the vast majority of the population in this Masjid. You know, they don't see these things because they don't understand but right after the marriage, you will understand what I'm saying is all about patience, right Patience, patience.

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Self relief, live with human being not Angel. Well, while amongst them for me has been no more forgiveness and patience. The last one is this one of the richest man in Islam.

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And the Allahu Allahu Anhu and neurogenetic Kalia rasool Allah in Nicaragua to see the homework thoroughly or Sinhala, him IC o lair wa Luma. And who were Italian Alia kala le inContact chemicals Africa anima to see for Herman mon own moolah, whereas Illuma come in Allah He, but he

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challenged VALIC

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The Prophet said, Allahu Allah, he was cinema.

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Somebody came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam and said yes, what Allah

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He said yes to Allah.

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I have relatives.

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And these these relatives, I'm very kind with

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them very, very, very bad towards me.

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I visit them they don't visit did cut off any relationship between me and

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I coded.

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And I'm always kind of with them, and they're not.

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And I'm always patient, and they're always people who take revenge, whatever comes from me, I have to pay the price.

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So, sir, so I want to do because in this case, if you if you have to be asked you say why do we need to waste your time you know, but as soon as Allah Azza did not have this, because this what you might be proposing might not be Islamic, the promise of law. So I gave him something, which is which might be contrary to what we want thinking.

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So, the problem is a lot someone said Let inContact come call for Kanima to sifu. Mala. He said if you are definitely in the way you describe yourself,

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you are just like somebody who is taking a model how, what is the model

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as well the sun that is very hard, and you're feeding them with it.

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So what does that mean? It means you're the right way. That's why the prophets Allah so interpreted, what he meant, he says well as minimizing our criminal law, HIPAA hearin. La mental challenge, Eric, always have the support from Allah subhanho wa Jalla. Somebody from the angels

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supports you from Allah subhanho wa Taala against as long as you maintain you your attitude. That's why if you remember long ago when we talked about silica Rahim, I know you want to get over that.

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As I can

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talk a lot.

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If you remember last time we talked about facilitator and the prophets Allah so Marcel Leeson walks it will be careful.

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And Walsall, the one who's doing the selectable him. He is not somebody who's doing the MacArthur and Robin visited, that's what I

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come I will not

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Islam doesn't want this. Islam wants you to visit him because Allah Sparta loves Satan, right? Because he deserves because he's good, because he's your relatives, because he's your friend, you know,

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somebody was visiting his friend in a in another village. And he met another person on the way. And that person asked him, Who are you? He said, I'm so and so. person. He said, Where are you going? Is it I'm going to my friend, were in that country. He mentioned the city. It's

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your place, you're going to him? He said yes. Is there any person? Is he one of your relatives? He said, No. You have any business with him? He said no. But why are you visiting him? And I just love him

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for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala and then that person told him I'm also an angel from Allah subhanaw taala last Muhammad Allah sent me to tell you that he loves you.

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Simple things getting Jana as a professor of law at Somerset club Elashi lucky now Ali had one narrow Catholic. Jana is closer to the shoelace of one of us. And Hal also is is like that, Wallah. He gets in very simple of the * also is

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because you have somebody who picked up something from the road, right? Where did he go, Jim, even that sister who was a prostitute woman who had a dog, she did something more difficult than him right?

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Because he has to go under inside the well and bring the water come up and then give it to the dog and get the reward. But that's that person. It just walking, you know, he found something just pick it up, put it aside. And last Martella Shakur along with Owen Furlong.

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This is Allah subhanho wa Taala you have so many examples in the Sharia of Allah subhanaw taala that will give you comfort and make you have done so much. And at the same time, how also is very close to us Inlet in that way. So lesson was revealed. You shouldn't be somebody who is visiting his relatives because they are also visited in a way if they are to cut you off you're also going to cut them off again and this is very wrong the prophets a lot somebody does not want any Muslim to do that occurred

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they are not counting the prophets Allah sama said you shouldn't be kind

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even if you should be kind to all of them even have their coffee in Missoula Adam said

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wait for them to come in even other books also even though right

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is our corn was our hammock

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had Telly cache to offer here all morning what is

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also offer furious normally what has it says you have to do the Silicon Valley caching the cache is somebody who really hates you from A to Z.

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He hates you so much. As long as he's part of your family members is one of your relatives, it is most a habit for you to go out and visit him from time to time to support him in life whatever he needs, any support token was the left hand hattrick machine, what is the benefit of silica

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you get two main things right and you get more you get other benefits but the most important ones are increase in risk and increase in life. This could be could happen physically. Right. Allah's motto for Baraka in your life, which is the most important thing actually. To be able to accomplish the mission of your mission and to reach your target within a reasonable you know time, duration. And sometimes Subhan Allah Allah smart Allah will bless your life in the way it's something that you need to stay for one year in order to finish it a loss protector let you do it. Even less than that.

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What some people cannot be achieved except with hardship. They have to spend days you're doing it and trying their best. Allah give you that in a short period of time.

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That's the protocol. See that's advice

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and in order scaly part of

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the last one to

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go in against

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that a person will be cursed by alas.

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Alas, Martin says

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in total Latham and tuxedo

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you cut the relationship and the ties between you and your relatives. Allah says, what would I learn Hoover law, these are the ones that allow us to let cruise

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you get to try your best, visit your values and force them, whether they like you, they don't like you know, the point is these people they happen to be my relatives, you should always kind to them plenty, sooner or later, they will remember you and they will reflect upon that which they are doing towards you, which is not good, and they will change inshallah.

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So that's the last thing to be done. I said, I will stop in 30 minutes, but somebody said, so hamdulillah unless it's less than one hour.

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So he's talking Inshallah, I guess the chapter also finished. So even for the chapter last week, SHA, Allah.

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Any question

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about that class here, this question and answer session, right? And there must be no question.

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But that should be it should take some months after the other. Yeah, those two three questions until the time the mother comes in.

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And the month develops

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some of the lectures I guess they didn't want to they come and

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find me because it's 10 minutes, right? Yeah, we can take that 10 minute.

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Because before I used to hate no question.

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So if anyone has question here, please, we'll come up with a

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yes or no?

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Yeah, the current Forex that we're dealing with is how

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why is it haram because there is exchange between a currency and another currency. And unfortunately, somebody is taking his right. But the right of the other one is,

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after three days, you have these three working days to work these out sometimes actually, evil thing also happened because the bank doesn't have the money. At that time. The person lots of was said to sell something that doesn't exist, the bank doesn't have when I go looking for 1000 2003 or $4,000.

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If you got to look for $1 million, $2 million,

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which bank will keep million

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in the bank, they will not

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depreciate and they'll have to wait first and in some different ways

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to avoid any, any any loss. So that's why the way to fix it is to go to the bank, which they will not do that. They go to the bank and sign all the agreement all the contract with the bank and the banker should do all the procedures in order to fetch all the paperwork after they're done with everything. Everything is you should give them all the guarantee that you're going to change all the signature in case you decline, you have to pay them

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the penalties you know, if you finally have to pay them the penalty, there's no problem with that because you put them they also spend money to do all of these paperwork, you get it. So, when they finish the recording

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I think your money is ready come with your gate.

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So if they do it right on this or if they give it to the transfer tell us to transfer this one is fine.

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Why the currency exchange is not to be rejected.

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To change the current currency depends on the way you're doing it. If there is a tuckable you know hat

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and the currency there are different currencies, let's say don't

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just cash but hand to hand. It might be cash but not hand

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and dragons

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on the spot, if I give

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it to me, I will give you after two hours.

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I will give you after 10 days I will give you up to three minutes.

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Yeah, it must be on the spot. I take he takes

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I just gave him an it

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cannot unless they are finalizing the transaction after two days.

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We do all the process now. But

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when you call

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Have you given up the money,

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submission of money, the transfer of the money will take place after every one is very

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good idea what happens now is I pay you the ringgit, even to provide me with dollars, but I have to wait for two, three days to my right to come in ready to write? Yeah, that's

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how to fix it, this is the only way to fix it.

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The same goes to the way that everyone is doing.

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They will not come to the class next time.

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The money

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is also involved currency exchange.

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It also involved currency exchange when you're sending it to Saudi Arabia. And you're sending it to Saudi

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Bangladesh by

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the name of

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Dhaka is city or tai chi.

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Chi is

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capital city. Yeah. So let's say ICE and ICE and wring it from here. But I want my partner in Bangladesh to receive tax.

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I give the bank now and the bank is transferring the money right? There is hope.

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But if it takes hours to reach, that's because the currency exchange happens between you and the bank. And you pass the ring it to to

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anyone, gin human beings and anyway, the point is when you give the bank ring it,

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they should send ring it to Bangladesh during the central bank, that's fine. It can stay for 10 years. But when the bank told you we will send you gave him 10,000 ring and they will send that version. So whatever card you will send that pace but they tell him we will send you this amount of taka to Bangladesh. So that's mean that the exchange is taking place between you and the bank.

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And whenever there is a currency exchange, the promise along some asset

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has to be hand to hand delivery. You give an attic that that one doesn't. Doesn't happen. That's why even say me and many of us will talk about this not not not many scholars at

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this contemporary heroes, conferences which they discuss this so much already and they come up with the solution. But people say these solutions are childish.

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We're not going to do them. We don't care. When she says something we just follow this is a test for us. When you go to Mark

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What do you do in cover?

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Go out

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to them do this in your house and sometimes tell them to stop doing talk when

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you keep going. Why? Because this is what allows me to commanded you to do and you're happy when people are rushing. You know, and you go to the gym right next door and you're hitting this stone

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what is that? We take it as an integral part of our area. We love it and we do because Allah says this is what to be done. So that's why as long as we know that this is part of the Sharia. We take it very seriously somebody says no this is childish. It is it isn't that

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we can we have no time actually to listen to this. So what do I do when I go to the bank the correct way is

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they will not accept and go at the bank. Okay I want to send

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How much to send Are you going to ring it? They say that we will send ring it to the collection for surveying the trees.

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That one is okay. I don't need to tell them anything. They sent did you do that? Yes they do. Sometimes if you do things from another country, the bank when they call you

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with $100 $1,000 from so and so coming to you.

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The bank here the monkey at the bank your bank was not chatting with a sibling. They will tell you we received this amount of dollars that came to that one is fine. Even if it stays on the way for one minute we use this

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to get idea that the exchange is taking place between you and the bank now.

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They transfer the money but when they put it in your account they put fearing it but you do not have the currency exchange and the ankles

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when the fact that you started with don't do this ring it isn't

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dollars isn't too good. But if I go to the bank, the bank tells me we're going to give you

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don't tell them I mess up the whole country, you know? And then don't let me go in when they so when you go to the bank, the bank said we will send a tanker to Bangladesh, when you tell them, Okay, no problem. Give me the target first here,

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given them filtering it, they give you the attacker, you know, and then you take that 50 target and tell him okay, based on my

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agent, so please these taka sent them to manga legend, my brother, this is the occult

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they send the taka after 20 years

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after meaning is, you know, it is not River.

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It might be girl or some other things, but not really. But you pass that that test to good idea. This is what the bank will say this childish.

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Why don't we just take the money now and then pass it back to me? You know? No, no, you don't agree with that. But that's the only possible solution in order scholars mentioned

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other than that, even having a solution a less if there is no in many instances there is no email.

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You can send your money except just to look at close the eyes.

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But if you have an option, you have to go for

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backup first.

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Yeah, but in Bangladesh, you send taka, right? And they told you we will send taka to Malaysia.

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I have to be sure about this. If they tell.

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You tell them the bank I'm looking for to get in Malaysia. Please, I want you to transfer to my brother because he has to pay those fees, you know, and he needs 10 10,000 How much should I pay you in taka? They said 10 15,000. That's when they are exchanging your taka with with ringley. They

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have to receive the link right now. If they can send it right now is fine.

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But if it takes time, you have to wait for two

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I know it doesn't matter. That's fine. No problem. Yeah. Because this is when the exchange is taking place between you and the bank here. It did not happen in the first bank and it is happening now. Okay, if I have that card, ATM card from Malaysia, when I go to another country, I talked to the bank hear that I will be in this country. Okay, I'll be in Bangladesh. They will ask me how long? One month? Okay. Would you like us to open the card? Yes. I tell them yes. They open the transaction. So if I withdraw money from ATM in Bangladesh,

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they get idea they give me what?

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The attacker? Yeah, they have charges you know. So there was a time when the extreme is taking place between you and the bank when you put

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it wasn't initially from the law. Right now it's taking place. That's why it's okay. It's fine.

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To get an idea, your father put money

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using taka in your account, and then use your card and withdraw. When you withdraw YOU DON'T WITHDRAW taka you withdrawing it. Yeah, Father SantaCon. He knows you are the one who is demanding the bank indirectly to give you attack.

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So when the bank lets you withdraw to give you when the bank lets you withdraw the radio. This is when the accident is taking place between you and this bank is not the first time if it is the first bank then they have to send it to me

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as being a money changer.

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It's really tough

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to talk about what one of the Maliki says

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to stay away from Rebo being

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really not easy.

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So look for some other

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we have a lot of other things. Rama Do we have other questions?

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first have to Yeah, because you're going to bring the cost of the real brain

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me tonight yeah, trust me.

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And you read story.

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Tell me how much need to calmly

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or two hours you know if

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it's around two hours in

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addition is slower than that because he said he made it mentioned that he's making all the

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social worker in the first striker and Lexington buckle

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give this count around this scale

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right and you have

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to recall so is this one hour four hours right you have so much remaining next

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how many hours 15 minutes you know

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until you reach the last

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around five to six hours

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it's nine to 12

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that's already already past midnight

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so it should do because the point is we have to pray to Allah

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is praying is far greater than the course of itself. So we go from a finish and then

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Yeah how do you pray you just have to be moderate because people can

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pray that long enough the moderate on this Oh less than

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dimensioned if you make it long no problem

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I have mine at home watching the watch finish on time

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three with

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already told me that might be

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shuttler will not happen

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it will not happen when it happens we bring

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to race conditions for this

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because it will not benefit

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it's a waste of money but to go take action and give it to the farmer right now getting that donation and put it in

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another channel another campaign to benefit any

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he's looking for food to survive so we can support them but we make a donation for that personal we don't

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question was

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that we delivery on it

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perhaps within a few days does that

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depends on what you buy if you buy something that

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say you

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cash on delivery right there's no problem even with delivery items because you're paying when they deliver the thing to

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okay insha Allah

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is it better to play

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both okay helpful

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and do have

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a live the mom which

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but for the brothers is good to go to the masjid and pray with that with the people even for the sisters wants to

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breathe at home.

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Inside the house. The

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last part is good until he can be with us wherever we are in

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LA Morbihan because she

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got up late.

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