Ibrahim Nuhu – Riyadh us Saliheen – 13-6-2023

Ibrahim Nuhu
AI: Summary © The history of Islam is discussed, including the use of "naive" and the importance of keeping promises. The success and failure of Islam is also highlighted, including the use of force and loss of parents. The negative consequences of not taking care of children and the potential consequences of missing a parent are also discussed. The importance of living in the midst of culture and caution is emphasized, along with the use of the " "the Greatest Showman" to signal promises and harm. The segment also touches on the importance of remaining true to promises and not giving things out without knowing they are wrong.
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So today inshallah we will be dealing with the hadith of Annecy American or the Allahu Anhu kala Juan savety.

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Analysing and as in Pilar, atta Allah Ya Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Alaba mal Hillman a Salah Allah ina

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for bath and if he had it involved far to Allah on me.

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Well, Amma Ji to call it muhabba sec.

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All to Bethany rasool Allah, He said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam it hija call it Maharajah to call to enhancer

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call it talk Baron de serie Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam ohada colonists, Allah He now had death to be a hadn't had death to be here.

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And it's even Malik said Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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came to us while I was playing with the children.

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He said, The Prophets Allah Allah selama sent me

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to do something.

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I left for this. So when I came back home, it was very late. My mother was waiting for me.

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So I did not manage to come on time. So she asked me

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where where were you?

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What delayed you from coming to the house

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for call to Bethany Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he had. So I told her as soon as Allah sama sent me to do something for him.

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Call it mahadji to. So she said, What did he ask you to do?

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Yeah, this is very normal, because this is the Rasulullah Salallahu Salam.

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If it is somebody else, then it would be inappropriate for somebody to ask about

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is a Pharisee. You know, when he talked to somebody and then you ask him that person, what did he tell you? What did he ask you to do? But with Rasulullah sallallahu selama This is very normal.

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Because people are learning from him. They are things which the prophets Allah Soma asked some people to do, which you do not share with others, but Muslim Muslims should know.

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So that's why they ask whenever they see somebody been with Rasulullah sallallahu selama they will ask him what happened? What did he do? What did he tell you?

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Previously, we heard about the issue

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of faulty matavai Allahu anha. Last week when she came and the prophets Allah Allah sama told her something in secret. And Aisha was asking

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now at the end of the day, she told her, please look at the right, my right over you and tell me what did the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam have to tell you?

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So basically, remember when the prophets Allah said, like, get into the Kaaba, he and Billa and Osama right after he comes out of the Kaaba

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of the live in order to get inside.

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And he asked them, what did the prophets Allah Zuma, do he? They informed him and he did also the same thing immediately.

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So she said, What did the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam asked you to do?

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Call to inner circle?

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He said this a secret.

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Pilot lair took barren Navy surgery Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I had.

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So she said, do not inform anyone about the secret of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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Latok Miranda desyrel Rasulullah sallallahu selama do not tell anyone the secret of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

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kala Anis Allah He lo had death to be he hadn't had this took me. So honestly believe Malik told sabot his students he says we're lying if I you know, managed to tell anyone about the secret. You also will be told by me about that secret but I

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never shared the secret with anyone. And as such, I will not tell you what is that.

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So that's how the companions of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam are very serious when it comes to the secret and we have heard that Rasulullah sallallahu Surma said, when you are in a medalists that metal is a manner

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in a supposed to share with others that which you discuss in that module is unless with the permission of the participants

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call a bubble alpha or beta on the way in Jersey what

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this is a topic that we'll be discussing the issue of unavailable, keeping the promise when he promised to keep your word and this is one of the sign signs of faith and Iman, not keeping the promise not doing that which you promise is a sign of NIFA as we will see Inshallah, in the near future. Allah subhanaw taala says, Wow, who we learned in Canada Missoula.

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This is similar to Alexandria, the series of those commands Allah subhanaw taala starting from

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Lockheed sad to hear that ma

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without a key that nobody can do anything. That's why our Imana or dedication

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is shaky because aqidah is not that much law.

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You will Allah if you build something upon that sincerity and read it for Allah subhanaw taala and the correct and the sound aqidah. You will be able to maintain it and to keep it until the time you meet Allah subhanho wa Taala

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others have been telling you you know, this, as much as a very serious matter only through which you can build a nation and the best example we have is the best example given to us by Allah subhanaw taala in the Quran, Abraham built a nation with what Akita until heat. Look at all the mentions of Ibrahim

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to read everything. So heat, he himself Allah subhanaw taala call him. Hanif

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Allah subhanaw taala says in Ebrahim McKenna on button carnita lillahi Hanifa Well, let me come in mushy ki Shakira, literally five things Ibrahim qualifies, you know, five qualities he had. Allah's monta gave him the best of the titles. The best of the titles he got that one because of these five qualities.

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Number one in neighborhood McKenna omitted Amata means Cordova.

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Oma is a nation and Cordova is somebody who is imitated by others. The best example you have before Sula, Salah some our dead sample of Ibrahim and a sinner

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and go and see what Allah is going to emphasize more when it comes to your stories is just Tauheed stablishing that Allah's mantra is the one who deserved this and that the rights of Allah squatters should not be violated in the life of humankind if they want to survive peacefully

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carnita Lila Hanifa co edited a movie Allah azza wa jal

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Alko look or not the one would

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most Hakimullah

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so kind of could do it. A role model the best example to be followed in those days before the arrival of Mohamed Salah Salem was Abraham and a sinner.

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And Allah subhanaw taala says he's very dedicated to Allah is very obedient, submissive to Allah subhanaw taala

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imagine you have a child after looking for a child for ages. Right after you have a child Allah is about to ask you to run put him in the place where there is no life. That was enough. Alas, Marcela asked him to slaughter the child. Llama Bella Gama who said

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you know not when the child is still a baby know when he reaches the sits situation whereby you start having a hope of getting somebody who an inherited Allah told him to slaughter the child.

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Allah subhanaw taala himself says in her Bella Bella hola we have Allah. You Allah is a very very heavy and big test.

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And thus can tell you why Allah subhanaw taala says why the teller Ibrahim Abu, he can imagine

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Allah subhanaw taala you know, tested Ibrahim with so many tests, different types of tests. Fatima Han, he passed all the tests.

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How did he manage to get that it became the best example for the people through being dedicated

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Did an obedient to Allah subhanho wa Taala and he maintained this until the time he met ALLAH SubhanA wa

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oniton Leela Hanifa and then Hanif Allah swatter call him Hanif, talking about what

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to eat.

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And Honey Honey who is the honey, somebody who stays away from shipped in all of it forms detached himself from shipping all of it forms.

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Not even an issue. He left shake,

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canister or swirl has an 18 fee Ibrahima will ladina Ma. If Callie call me in Bora amico on a match Abdullah Min dunlea They have disconnected themselves from shake. And it's people

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that which is between them and those mushy Qin Indians support in the dunya monitors and the kindness but that's a clear necessity that their heart should be with Allah subhanaw taala alone.

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Call it Allah Hanifa wollam Your criminal machinery key. Allah subhanaw taala says Makana Mina mushy never cooperate with the idol worshipers and some other forms of shit never.

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Allah subhanaw taala says shall lead

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and he was always appreciating and very thankful to that which Allah subhanaw taala blessed him with

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and what happened after that each

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scholar said after having these qualities alleged Shiva estaba hula HA HA HA HA who else there often was talking.

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You know, subhanAllah one of the reward that Allah's Mattila, you know, rewarded Ibrahim with is is a saint of Allah subhanaw taala we're attina who feed Dooney wa Tina ADGER who for dunya we know who fill Archana Tila Mina salary, Allahu Akbar. You Allah is the biggest Nirma to be given your reward in this dunya

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what is the word? Allah subhanaw taala Timika among the most afraid Allah here, those who people who Allah subhanaw taala if Tarot.

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He has chosen them and also to grant you the Hedin Allah says each to bajada illustrata Misaki a very successful and pleasant life Ibrahim was living in which is full of happiness and contentment,

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full of cider, very pleasant life. And then in the akhira Allah subhanaw taala says, we're in the hotel Akhenaten of Minnesota.

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In this dunya he got the hustler in the market Allah subhanaw taala says we're in no fit our karate. Let me know Sonny.

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Is it for Ibrahim alone? No. If you are to be like Ibrahim alayhi salam imitate him. You will also be in a lie as though Gela be granted this good and excellent and pleasant life because this is what Allah subhanaw taala says in Serato

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and when I made a silent mean they had it our own well who are not mean fella no here no who had by Eva. If you were to believe in Allah, and put your faith into practice and actually apply it in your daily life, not just Allah I believe in you know, it has to be manifested.

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How many times somebody tells you that this is what Allah subhanaw taala says, and you don't care how many times somebody tells you that this is when Allah subhanaw taala asked you not to approach and you don't care you still go is your iman is shaky, You Allah. The moment you started thinking deeply whether to go with Allah or with somebody Allah here Eman is shaky.

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The person has to go back and reflect a lot and this is who we are nowadays. Unfortunately dunya is number one. Number two, then come what comes what Allah subhanaw taala wants what do you want to succeed Allah azza wa jal says man Amen a solid Minda can in our own well who are more mean that Iman has to be based on what

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that Amyl has to be based on EMA? Because when you add this the answer to those people who will say but that person is so kind and of course so this this and that how can when he goes to Allah smelter, he did not succeed in going into Paradise.

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Paradise is not our house to be given to others. Allah squatter has a condition in order to establish a company we ourself also we didn't go with that you know have conditions.

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Even just say no, this is alasa property I just take it in the way I want. No that is a condition. You have to fulfill that condition for you to to get it if there is no iman, Amman is you

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even asked him says we'll meet difficut coffee and Bharani and whole table could follow Bill Imani Lee excellent tech leaf will deal machinery for happy him means that it will forward.

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This one Allah smart Allah says in surah two and four Khan Academy in the Illuminati, * hubba and thorough, says the consensus of all this callers with no doubt

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that non Muslims are invited. We don't force anyone to accept Islam but they're invited by Allah subhanaw taala Allah communicated to them and he told them they have to accept Islam. That's between him and them

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why they need it

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because without Islam

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all of the deed no matter how much good they are Allah squatter says he doesn't want it.

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Kadima Allah Muhammad Amin Fajr now hubba for

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so imitating Ibrahim alayhi salam

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is a path to success as Allah subhanaw taala

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says each the bajada in US Robin musta came so so many things have been given to Ibrahim by Allah subhanho wa Taala one of them is a list Alessandra Syd

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Hala is Lily Sana silicon phylactery Allah subhanaw taala put a very good remembrance of him after he left.

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That's why everyone is claiming that he's part of Ibrahim, the Judas and we're part of the brain. Christian they say they're part of it right? Everyone comes to say they're part of it, right? Allah says Maracana Ibrahimi who Deen while on a Sunday serrania Well, I can can honey from Muslimah Ibrahim belong to us. It doesn't belong to them at all. Allah Sparta says, Well, I can can honey for Muslim ah, honey, it means somebody who never committed ship. As long as the person is a mushrik. Ibrahim has nothing to do with this person at all.

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So their brother and sisters take note on this Allah subhanaw taala reminded us in this series of if he started with the prohibition of Shere Khan establishment of a heat. And the second one is the barrel validate. And he want us from going through that Rokoko holiday, which Subhanallah nowadays is is rampant, which the parents sometimes also they're part of this.

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You Allah, if you don't take your children to the best place to education, and they go on to get the wrong one, the evil consequence of that is going to come back to who to you first before anybody else.

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As a parent, you have to be very careful, you must educate your kids, the proper education, you will be able to generate the reward, you know the result of this before you leave this life.

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And you must have time for tarbiyah for them otherwise, at the end of the day,

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they will have no time for you in the future. And the way you have no time for them. When you when they young.

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What they do in is no good.

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But I'm just talking about the consequence of the negligence that somebody is, is being

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I don't have time for my children, you don't have time for your children. Trust me in the future, they are also going to act in the same way. So who is putting them into trouble, you were the one who put them into trouble because that strong connection that is supposed to be maintained since the childhood is missing. They don't know you that much. Otherwise, trust me, it is not possible for a person to take his mother, the one who gave birth to him, who put her life in danger for him, and then take her and put her in the house which we call old age homes.

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The government trying their best, but for the children who are doing this, this is a very simple act.

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The person cannot do that with his father or his mother.

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Trust me if that is a very good, you know, approach in terms of Tobia when the kids are young

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are lined up in the past we never expect to see this time that we're seeing nowadays. Never expect to see this.

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But unfortunately we live we witness we see a person will take his father or his mom and go and put them in the house for somebody take you out.

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They're going to I mean get the consequence of that. Trust me my Deborah says whatever you did for your parent, somebody's going to similar.

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If it is evil, most likely you will receive the worse.

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Well I one of the worst story that an eye witness was narrating

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somebody was hitting another person, you know, next to the

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drainage shield, and it's even open the water is too smelly.

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And he was trying to put his head inside that water.

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And subhanAllah he said, he came out to see what is that. And then he said, an old man. And the one who was doing this to the old man was a young person.

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He said, I went inside to talk to my chef, he was visiting his chef, he went and talk to the sheriff. The sheriff came out. When he came out, he found that people trying to detach the,

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the young person, you know, from the old man, the old man was really in a very critical condition.

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So he said, I couldn't understand this. But then I heard that people are saying, How can we are doing this to your father, he said, Now I realize that this is the Father.

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So how long I went to my chef, the chef came out, and he found this one on the ground and this one was held by the people. And that old man the chef, is sat next to the one who is in the water.

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You know, subhanAllah, he told him, You see, I am one of the witnesses, that I saw you doing the same thing which you father in, in the in the past,

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you Allah, He said, I witnessed the moment that you do this to your father. And now and as the result is chasing you commanded, you know, to them.

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Your respect your parent may even lie as though jelly you have children, they will respect you.

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Because then you make them happy. You have children who come and make you happy in life. So the number of sisters be very happy, very serious on this matter. Medicare for also alive is a very serious matter with Allah subhanaw taala their parents, whoever they are, you're not supposed to make them angry. You're not supposed to stay away from what they asked you to do. Unless if they asked you to do that which Allah subhanaw taala doesn't like, in this case, you don't obey them other than that Rasulullah Salallahu Salam sallallahu alayhi wa sallam law says we're in MRR can talk Raja min duniya fuckery Jehovah. He says even if they asked you to stay away from your dunya he

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said, just leave the dunya so what

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whatever they did for you, you cannot compensate them.

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You want a pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala you want Allah sponsor to be happy with you want your life to be easy in this dunya one of the best way to get this is to make your parents happy. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam I said, read the law. Fievel Holliday was sort of the laughingstock of invalidating the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala lies in the pleasure of the parent.

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And the anger of Allah subhanaw taala lies in the anger of the parents. So if your parents are happy, Allah will be happy with you, as long as they are not asking you to go against the laws of Allah subhanaw taala.

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After this, Allah subhanaw taala talks about the virtues of helping the miskeen and then the provision of killing children and then the provision of Xena, Allah subhanaw taala the prohibition of killing somebody other than neutral, and then the prohibition of cheating in business and the provision of taken from the wealth of the oven. Allah subhanaw taala says Kulu Delica kanessa yo en de Rebecca mcru One of these things that Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in that series of prohibitions is what often will be in a hurricane Irma schooler, keep the promise, you promise somebody keep it, because on the Day of Judgment, Allah subhanaw taala is going to question you

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about that I had between you and others, what is the first thing I heard we have?

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This is between you and Allah subhanaw taala

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that is an old one, which nobody among us you remember,

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Allah will not judge you based on that.

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But he kept in you the natural disposition which is inclining towards that

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as the covenant of alarm in Bani, Adam in the room do Rito wa shadow Allah unforseen Allah to be a beacon Kalu burner, the moment where Allah subhanaw taala brought all of us the Allah misery they call it

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like an atom. Everyone is there hanging around the back of your pet your father, Allah subhanaw taala ask us, all of us, with no exception. Am I not your Lord? All of us said yes.

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Do you remember that? It happens and is a fact. Allah subhanaw taala mentioned that but the scholars have mentioned that the accountability is not based on this. Allah kept in you the natural disposition which is always dragging you to incline to

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Word, doing that which is right and staying away from shameful things. Islam is natural. That's where the prophets Allah, Allah selama, said Mommy Mahmoud and Isla, where you live, and Milla in some narrations and FITARA and some narration Albania, I mean, literally Islam.

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This nature is there. But unfortunately environment is changing this nature. That's why it is necessary to live within the midst of the Muslims.

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Necessary country ever be deceived by the illusion that you see in other nations? You Allah, it is none other than illusion. The prophets Allah Allah Sahaja says level Ramana Katakana lwml Davina CAFO Filby let nowadays people are rushing to those places, you know, live in the Muslim community and if you are to ask them, it's all about dunya

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a lot of injustice here a lot of this and that there didn't have injustice

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they have in all of the forms. They have, but a person who just blind because of what some other people are telling him and many of them trust me my Deborah's sisters, they lost their Eman. The least is the person who lost his is terrible that identity when you go there is not easy to be to be careful.

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So living you know within the Muslim communities is priceless. You need this reminder because the oven itself is Subhanallah more than enough as a reminder to wake up that fitrah that you have in you

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which in many places, you don't have those ones so Allah subhanaw taala says layer will on Nikita callable Adina Cafaro, Phil Villa Mobtown, Kalina and Thunbergia whom Johanna just something which is simple, but at the end of the day, Allah subhanaw taala will take them to to Johanna Malia.

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Karlovo, who will and in the lung, the cannabis oil, whatever you promised to do. And the first one, as I said, is the promise between you and Allah subhanaw taala to worship Him and to do the right thing.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says he's not going to hold you responsible of the first one because nobody remember that. Do you remember? Nobody remember that Allah Sparta will not hold us accountable of that. That's why he sent a lot of prophets and messengers and books to do what to remind you about that old one. This is where the accountability lies. A message you got from Allah, the Quran that you read the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam, how did you put them into practice and action, this is how accountability is going to be to be based.

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Allah subhanaw taala grant is good. So that the the Amana between you and Allah subhanho wa Taala has to be kept the promise between you and Allah subhanaw taala and then there are code and the contract and the agreement between UN and others. Allah subhanaw taala says Oh, foo will act in the larger cannabis order on the Day of Judgment. Allah is going to question you about all of those or who would

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allow for the abdillahi they are had to and you have to fulfill and to keep the covenant and the promise between you and Allah subhanaw taala whenever you grant that promise, Kalia you have Lavina fulfill your code in the first part of surah. Two Almighty that Allah subhanaw taala says or you who believe our full Biller Code, he says Keep your promise and your word. It means any contract that you signed your promise to be promising to be honest. Allah subhanaw taala says, Keep it keep it up. It cannot break the promise unless if there is a necessity for that matter, then you can go against the promise and do the kuffaar

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Allah to Allah you have Lavina Armando limiter coluna, Molotov Alvin Kamara knocked on the line and Taco Murata value. Allah subhanaw taala says are you who believe? Why do you always say that which you don't do? Canberra Moxon in the La Jolla, Antonio mulata value and you say I will do but then you didn't do is a great matter with Allah subhanaw taala for you to promise something and you don't keep that promise.

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To get idea, you promise to do something and you don't keep that promise. So Allah subhanaw taala says, is a very great issue with him. So for us as human beings, we are not supposed to break except to that which is better. The profits are largely same asset. Whoever promised to do something and then he sees that doing it is not good. Not doing it is better.

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The professor Allahu Allah who said him I said, Let him stay away from it and just do the kuffar.

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You promise not to do something and you realize that doing it is better for you in the eyes of Allah. What do you do use this eye and say, Oh, who will accord no or as soon as Allah Azza wa said, break that promise and do that which is better?

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and just do the Kafala

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Allah always wants you to be in the best position. There are some people who promise not to do good things that promise it has to be that promise has to be broken. They have to go against it. And do the FARA Allah subhanaw taala grant is good anthropic, I guess is the best place to stop.

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If I continue, we will go through the Hadith. And the time will not permit us I guess. Yeah, yes. Now the sign tells us Your time is up. Allah's Mahershala guaranteed good until he can be with all of you. In the whole ecology meeting confused some Hannukah la Morbihan Chateau La ilaha illa and stop recording relate. A Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.

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The first question is by sister Sarah very cataloger. Katusha if a child tells a secret to his mother, and tell her tells her not to share it with anyone, even his father. So what should the mother do? Especially if the father would be displeased if his wife is to keep secrets from her?

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mother or father or hidden? There was a question about a child that told something to his mother. And he told her not to share with anyone, even his father.

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So and she knows that the Father will be displayed displeased, if he knows that she's hiding something.

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What must she do?

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And there's a secret, right? Yeah, she just keep it like that. The father doesn't know. She doesn't tell the father. If the father knows this means somebody's not.

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But she has to keep that secret.

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As a parent is very dangerous when your child tells you something, and it tells you this a secret and you tell somebody else is really, really dangerous.

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You know, if they do it among themselves, is enough to be evil siblings, the parents should be an example. So they are supposed to imitate you, and but they see you breaking the promise between you and them.

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Tomorrow also they will break even your promise that you give them they will break it the same way the parent is breaking, they will also break that promise. So she should keep it. Because when he when he told her the promise,

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there were only two of them. Nobody knows except a lot smarter, just keep it like that. Don't talk about it to the Father, if the son is doing something wrong, she should try to fix the child

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not to share with the Father.

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And it's very good. It costs too much sharing with the Father, reduce the value of the mother,

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which many mothers don't understand this, I will tell your father, I will tell you a father is very wrong.

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She is supposed to act as a discipline, master in the house, just the same capacity like the father.

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But unfortunately, she always tell him that I will.

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And trust me, sometimes you might find some children telling the mothers, I will tell my father when he comes. Because you already told him that this is the highest authority, my authority is very little and is very wrong and dangerous. So she should be the best example for the child when he gave her something. And he told her this is promise. She should keep it like that without informing anyone. She can only share with the father when she realized that there is no way for how to change it except if the father knows.

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And if I'm to advise her, I will advise her to let the son knows that she is going to inform the Father. Yeah. Then she's not exposing the secrets you should tell him, son, no, I have tried my best to fix this. And I guess your father should do maybe he has a better advice. I will try to protect you. Most likely you are afraid of beating, I will stand between you and

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I'm afraid you will beat both of them.

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Anyway, that's my advice to the system.

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Shin, if somebody simply tells another person that they would do something without any contract that is binding it? Is that considered a promise. Yeah. As long as you told somebody that you give him something, you do something for him, even if you did not write it down is a promise.

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Writing just for the sake of trophy documentation, reference

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other than that, what you said is more than enough

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shift. If a person breaks their own promise that they made to themselves, we shouldn't

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as long as that promise is correct, even if they make

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promise for to benefit themselves they shouldn't break the promise. Try your best not to break your promise at the first place don't promise

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Yeah, there is no good in promise. Unless if it if it is necessary.

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Try your best done promise because usually people get into trouble and then they will call scholars asking for factual

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yeah Allah lets me pass the examination. He says well Allah if I get be in the exam, I will fast for 10 days continuously.

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Allah gave him a plus

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the next is to call a chef asking for for two can I do

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I mean, different days you know, is it must that I have to connect them all together? Why didn't you think about this when you are promising?

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It is always like this. Unless if he's going to act like you have to say I only asked for B what came to me is a

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anyway, the best is just to go straight forward. Allah subhanaw taala and say, Allah grant me this grant me that with no promises, no nothing. After you get whatever you were looking for, you want to fast fast. You want to give charity to appreciate that to it. But if she didn't attach it to your promise, Allah grant as good as it

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when it comes to the brothers,

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the sisters she says that she had that only silver is allowed for the British to be one What about diamonds and platinum and all this she's talking about wearing gold or silver, the brothers they're only allowed to wear the silver

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that's what the Prophet said. So my indicate and mentioned as long as it is not making them looking like the opposite gender

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other forms of virtual race you know if it is not part of the culture and it is also going to make a person look like the opposite gender. This is strictly prohibited in Islam.

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That's why it's always better to stick to that which also relies a lot so I advise people to go with Allah grant is good and trophy can be with us wherever we are, in OB College, a meeting for field Subhanak Allah Mohammed Kushala in a self regard to relate Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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