Ibrahim Nuhu – Riyadh Us Saliheen – 02-08-2022

Ibrahim Nuhu
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The speakers discuss the importance of marriage and forgiveness in avoiding war and avoiding negative consequences. They stress the need for people to forgive others and avoid revenge, and emphasize the importance of practice and actions in achieving good behavior and avoiding regret and loss. The speakers also mention the use of Phone-Max and Subhanallah as advisors and emphasize the importance of forgiveness and love in resolving difficult situations. The segment ends with a brief advertisement for a TV show.
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30 Min Sharia busters. Alvin with Nando Schroon Walsall Delta nappy heavily Kitab with Mobarak, the other son Hain so Allah subhanho wa Taala anybody convener or he managed a lemma one young alert where you have either a trophy lead. So today inshallah we will be dealing with a new chapter, which is a very important chapter about a hill what Anna what

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Hill Mall and our risk these

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three different words but they are inter related to each other.

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You have the first one I'll help

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and you have

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the second one Atlanta and you have the third one risk of risk as it is defined by the Maleev here it says I am local inside NAFSA one Delgado so it's a part of patients you can see the PICO patients, somebody who is able to control himself when he is angry with with somebody. So that's I'll help in the way he doesn't take action negatively in the way that person will be badly affected to get an idea physically, especially physically. So that's unhealthy. You know, it's one of the name of Alaska hotel Holly, and whoever lives in the time we're living in understand the meaning of unhealthy Yeah, really understand the middle of unhealthy as somebody says if a loss motor is not

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unhealthy, you know, he believes that the most likely everyday earthquake is going to happen on the on the earth. So last Mahara della Sera moto archaea, so it's a very, very special name and this attitude is very, very special, because we are going to see from the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the emphasis on that which M M said so is a kind of patients, it's a PICO patients, somebody who is having the ability to control his emotions is anger. When ever he is he is angry,

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to get idea so that's, that's unhealthy. The second one is Elena is a very beautiful, soft and gentle manner. And he which means a person that is not rushing, you know that much in terms of doing when it comes to doing things, you know, somebody who is very calm, that doing things in the way they should be done.

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Taking things slowly and gradually, especially when that is necessary, not rushing, all mushy, almost.

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That's against human nature. Allah Muhammad fantasies were kind of insightful, as you let

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you know, we're always rushing and heavy. So I will Anna is a person who is always paying attention studying first before he takes takes action.

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Yeah, that's what you can say to describe this excellent attitude. Somebody who observes somebody who study somebody who pond, somebody who who analyze properly, and then take action afterwards.

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You know, those people who haven't this quality, they don't

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quickly judge things, you know, upon seeing them. They study first they think first deeply about the consequences that that will take place in the future. And then they take action according to the nature of the the future that I think is to be in existence.

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Yeah, and that's most of them should be like this in all of these affairs.

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You want to do business with somebody think deeply

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about the consequences. You want to take loan from somebody think deeply about the consequences. You want to marry think deeply about the consequences and it's very important this guy because usually people don't have this Anna when it comes to marriage. Yeah, I've seen the sister I want to marry she looks so pretty, does it? That's the only thing a person needs.

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He forgot that this beauty is not going to be seen after a few days most likely we got

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why? Because you see that much because you don't sit with that person. You know. So as I always mentioned my

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famous example with the devices that you have in the first time you have it you know, or the car the first time you have a new car how's it you know? You put in the first time you have it how's it

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so mashallah fancy, you know, you're very sensitive to it.

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But then after a few days, you come to pray and you throw it away sometimes, you know, you don't care that much about it.

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I'm not saying this exactly how it is but naturally the

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says what is happening.

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So thinking about the future when you decide to marry is really, really necessary and important. Yeah, this person, is it good to be the father of my children? Is she good to be the mother of my children? You Allah, if he's not think about that you're going to cry in the future. Many people regret many, many, many, many,

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not just the normal people and the society. But the scholars and the students of knowledge also met a student knowledge who was saying, you know, it looks like we did not succeeding, choosing our partners.

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So you have to be very, very careful. So Anna is supposed to be to be here. Whatever you do in our life, you should have this an app, thinking wisely. Deeply you know about the consequences, what happened in the future, and then based on that you make a decision. And insha Allah you will not regret to be even Allah has suture sha Allah you will not regret even last word.

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So that's Alanna, what if every face softness, gentleness, in having that soft manner, soft attitude and being gentle being kind to people

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it's a good idea, especially when it comes to the Dow.

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So we're going to see the details about each and every one of them but I just decided to look into the topic because it's very interesting and very important also in the life of, of the human beings especially in this time of hours.

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So the first I quoted by them a leaf, and never we Rahim Allah

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was the Saint of Allah subhanho wa Taala will call the menial labor while our field and in nurse Allahu hibel myrcene. It was how do you know most of your team ever become a janitor? Now Bahasa will have the right that limit tappin and Levine and Professor Ray what barrage while catamenial de la Fein and the nurse or LA Hibbeler city, la semana Ted describe those people who are going to be given this excellent place. Jana Harper has somewhat you will somewhat well up in US Hala.

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Terry is not easy to see the end of your kingdom in in general when you meet Allah subhanaw taala along El Camino halogen.

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So Allah subhanaw taala says those who will be inheriting this space, he says a lady named Coronavirus, SIRVA Baba. These are the ones that are spending face Sabra Baba whether they are in the state of prosperity, the state of ease or hardship they give for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala in all circumstances according to their ability for the sake of Allah subhanahu Hotel. That's why they don't attach their gift. And there's charity with Ullman will ever.

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Yeah, I'm the one who's giving you this last step I give this wagon to think properly and did not even appreciate what I'm doing. You know, these are all other assignments. And it wasn't shouldn't do.

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You should honor and respect and love the person who is benefiting from you, because he's doing a favor for you the one who will be benefiting from this charity, you're given that person on the Day of Judgment when you meet Allah subhanaw taala you will wish that you have given everything

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now but will this is not that, that the choice and the option that alas Montella advice given to us by Allah subhanaw taala This is not the way to make it to take everything and give it but share from that which Allah smart Allah bless you with and you will appreciate it on the Day of Judgment, you will wish that you have given everything

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there last month Advantus good interface. So it says Allah the name people fsra What the right well, Kelvin Minahasa Well, I feel bad enough. And in us, it says And those people who are Kelvin Ukri Moon Elohim

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you know, those people who are trying to subdue you know to call down their anger whenever they are angry, they try to take it down. They don't react, you know, upon their anger and there's the best attitude you know, a very difficult attitude to be taken we're going to see that scene of Allah subhanaw taala when are you Dhaka in Medina Cebu or Manila ca in level halvin lv

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swell? It's not easy. It's not easy for somebody to misbehave especially in the way we see nowadays. Somehow law intentionally somebody will push you misbehave against you and hurt you badly you know, that Allah Samantha will tell you patients do not react in a negative way. Be kind to them, be good to them, Be soft, be gentle to them.

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That's better for you. We'll see that in sha Allah. So Allah says will kill the mean and why is that? Well I feed animals

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and those people who are forgiving people because

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That's when you control your emotions. What next? What next? What left is to forgive,

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you know, is to forgive

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Allahu hibel Messina to try to do a Hassan not just forgiving, giving,

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you know, giving something, you know, be kind to him.

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I remember a person

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not mentioned who that person is, but it's not like somebody misbehaved badly, you know, against that person.

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Somebody must behave badly against that person, that person.

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But somehow law

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he was so kind to the one who's misbehaving. Even at that moment, he was annoyed. He doesn't take action negatively. He was so kind

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to him.

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He said one day he came to him looking for

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an IED. And he realized that yes, definitely he needs and this is life, you know.

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You don't know who exactly are you going to be dealing with in the future?

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It means behave today. Tomorrow, Allah subhanaw taala will put his your affairs under his control. It happens a lot. And then you see him and he's the only solution you have.

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So how Allah

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so that's exactly what happened.

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But that person did not hesitate to support. He forgot what happens you know, from that person against him but he supported

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so Hala as far as I know, they became very close friends you know exactly what the last one to say. Is in the in the Quran. He says very the lady by Nicole Boehner who either or tune Canada who will you in heaven.

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You know when somebody misbehave against you and you are kind to him, they will never forget this. You Allah, they will not forget it will not be easy for them to forget.

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A lot too. He was set up so Allah subhanaw taala says will our Fein and the nurse will Allahu Hibbeler city

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Pakala Tara, who they love who were motivated out of the water, Daniel jehlen

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Allah subhanho wa Taala said to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and this is also to everyone. It's a holy laugh. Wah wah mobiler were our Adonijah Healy.

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I remember immuno kotoba when he was commenting on this idea, he said this idea contains any good that you can imagine in your life

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and anything that surely abroad

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which is good, it is included in this idea. And whatsoever Sharia asked you to stay away from it because it is evil, it is included in desire and all the virtues and good manners you can remember Allah Asma to have them in this ayah which is you know, if you look at it, it's less than a line you know,

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Hala das Quran, Allah smart disease, who they love what

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however, if you take it as,

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as he mentioned, that I've been in forgive,

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to forgive people

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and to deal with them also build a raffle. Or who am I violinists that's means gently and softly. You take what comes from them, you leave what did not, you don't find that much. You don't react negatively unless if somebody is going against Allah subhanho wa taala. Well, Allah The best example for this application of this attitude is Rasool Allah, He said, Allahu alayhi wa sallam

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Rasul Allah is a lot looser modesty as it is mentioned in the Hadith. They said he never took revenge in his life, in law, even to He cut her Roma to law, except if somebody is going against that, having the law as such, if somebody goes against Allah, this is when you see the face of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam uttered into red color.

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But when somebody did something against him, the prophets Allah sama does not take revenge at all.

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Very nice and excellent attitude here.

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You will relax if you take this media versus this.

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Don't take your event. Don't hold people, as I always mentioned, you know, as an advice to myself, first and foremost, and everyone. Do not let somebody stay in your heart. This heart is supposed to be for your vehicle alone. Don't let somebody stays in your heart. Then come back to house with somebody in your mind that you're planning to take revenge. Allah He doesn't need that my the verse is just for me. For me, close that page you have

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Bigger matter in this life, the biggest job in this life you know how to please the last one to make it a success you know in this life and how to meet the law smarter, peaceful. He didn't have time to fight except if that fight is for the sake of Allah.

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If it is for your own personal gain, personal benefit, you don't have time to fight you know?

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It is part of your right you know to reply back as Allah smart Allah says what Jehovah will say you say to me flu ha

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the reward and the compensation you know the reply for a savior able attitude say hi to me through ha Allah Samantha says you should apply with car similar to that.

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What is

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the second car the second car is supposed to be okay because you are applying you know that which somebody did against you.

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But Allah smarter describe yours also a senior evil because they look alike, although the cause is different, but they look alike.

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The last Montes is what is that we'll see I can see to Mishima but at the same time in every place, Allah subhanaw taala mentioned to you you're right. You can take you can apply back. He advised you to be patient.

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He advise you to be patient. That's what he says what is that also yet and say to Nicola from an alpha we'll also have Ajit who are Allah, if you are to forgive, and he tried to reconcile, bring back peace to the situation you know, between you and that person that is fighting you.

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Fragile will Allah Allah subhanaw taala will be the one who will who will reward you.

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So Allah tortoises who laugh,

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laugh will not have a meaningless take the simplest way. The easiest way. Forgive close your eyes. overlook you know, don't talk too much. You know, if it offended when he was commenting on this, he says, Be very simple, gentle doesn't talk too much and don't over sorry, don't exaggerate in terms of making a comment you hold him responsible for bringing the highest you know thing to you.

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He said the very simple person, whatever you get from them, take it, what you couldn't get from them, just stay away from from it. Unless if they are to go against Allah subhanho wa Taala then people will see your your anger according to the way you will be sure that that bad attitude against Allah subhanaw taala is being is being fixed. So ALLAH says who will have what what a morbid mouth so in terms of your relationship with others last Portilla grant you this excellent attitude that if you want to deal with them successfully, use the effort.

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Be very simple, be very early. Somebody who you know is

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always you know, gentle and simple to be understood is to be approached by others and he forgives it rarely hold a person accountable but he's doing it unless if that person is going against Allah subhanaw taala and the religion

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he says what more below

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Allah smarter commanded us to command people to ask people to do the earth.

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And you also you're commanding them you are advising them advice and build my roof.

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And now roof is anything that is recognized by the Sharia as good.

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So that's when the Sharia itself entirely from the first time Allah Sparta gave the Prophet sallallahu Sallam the first AI camera until the last idea would topple Yeoman to Giroux. Nephi in Allah is number 281 in Sultan Baqarah is included in this word, what will be involved because Kulu maruf everything Allah subhanaw taala told you in that place is part of the model

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would it be devolve

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given Tao that Allah Smith advise in order to allow sir it's included here, using Hickman wisdom on you are given the data is included here because if you're using harshness, it is not my roof, my roof is to use a risk and to use wisdom on your given that or to to others. If you are not, if you're being intolerant, this is not my roof.

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When somebody is committing sin, He is going against the model.

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That's why even with Eva said this ayah has everything in it every single part of the religion is included in this higher

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and also use in wisdom in terms of approach. You will make sure that you tell people that which they can comprehend is part of the mouth because if you don't do that, they will run away from Allah

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subhanho wa Taala ignorantly.

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And we do have this type of attitude and manners from those people who call themselves the most excellent and the most perfect and everyone is wrong. They're the only one who's who is correct. You know one of the most interesting thing about this religion of Allah, Allah did not relate it to anyone

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except His messenger. This is the only person that you can hold the phone and succeed. But Allah He made the bread sisters if you hold upon somebody in this life, and you neglected rasool Allah, Allah Azza you will fail in life and you will get into trouble and nobody can help you.

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Neither that person nor anybody else can help you in the meet Allah subhanho wa Taala

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it tequila How will I know those people who are looking at everyone as devil and they're the only one who's correct no matter how much you attach yourself to the Sunnah of the prophets, Allah so as long as you don't come to this echoes, you are devil. They should fit Allah subhanaw taala there is a heavy consequence in that

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you hold upon him and Malik even Abu Bakr the Aloha.

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And you neglected to sola sola sama debt which is set by the live rock bands will affect what he says aksha and Tenzin Allah Kamal hedger, I mean a semi he said I'm afraid that Allah subhanaw taala is going to rain on you, you know rocks of fire from the sky. Because I'm telling you, Carla Rasulullah and you are telling me Carla Abu Bakr, Omar

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Abdullah, he and I both respected Abu Bakr and Omar much more greater than the way we respected

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but he keeps everyone amongst the human being in their own position. Rasulullah Salallahu Salam is the only one that Allah has wanted to ask you to hold upon him.

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So when you hold upon somebody and you neglected Rasul Allah, so we're gonna get into trouble. We use the righteous collars to help us in our understanding to the Sunnah of the of the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, use them to help you to understand the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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That's how it is to Canadian. That's how it is that Allah wants to grant us Tofik but those people as I said, they should feel Allah subhanaw taala give out to the people in the way the prophets Allah sama used to give that to the people the purpose should be how to convince them to come back to the deed the correct religion. We're living in a very distorted time whereby every everyone you know who's who has the mouth to speak you know, has the language will come on and preach the online the way he thinks the religion should be acted, you know. So Allah, so many speakers, so many writers, so many people who are posing themselves to be the guidance of the O Muhammad Sallallahu

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sallam, and Subhan Allah, many of them are none other than the devils. A lot of the calls we are receiving nowadays about the wedding, at the end all the religions to come and merge all together. And I mean, it's coming from them then I don't mind but it is coming from our people. Our brothers, you know,

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Hala, which if you have a simple study of the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu somite, you know that this is none other than the plot of the enemies of Allah Sparta to destroy the religion of Allah from from the root. That's, that's it. Allah subhanaw taala says in the deen and Allah Islam, the only religion that last month will accept is Islam.

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The only religion accepted by the last module is Islam. That's it. So you don't have anyone who wants to go and do his own religion, Allah says like rafidhi let them go and deal with their own religion, their own affairs, but it shouldn't be part of the part of the promotion of that system because it is against the promotion of your religion. You don't harm them, let them deal with their own affairs, but at the same time, focus and promote the Legion of Allah subhanaw taala because you will be responsible of that only.

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So Allah subhanaw taala Sinatra here. So back to the, to the to the wisdom in that hour. So if you talk to the people talk to them according to the way they understand.

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Then go and give them things which are beyond their comprehension. Otherwise they're going to reject Allah Subhan Allah and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam at the end of the day.

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And then Allah subhanaw taala says, Wow, Daniel, JD, and stay away from the Jennylyn turn away from who are the jihad? Do you have here Allah subhanaw taala is not referring to the ignorant, ignorant. Allah is not referring to the ignorant. He is referring to those people who are who are thinking that they do have right to harm anyone. They do have right to go against anybody.

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In other words, allies referring to the sofa, the protocols, you know, the useless people, Allah is what is he referring to the sofa a Sufi somewhere?

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He was

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foolish, you know. And

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as somebody whose mind is not capable of understanding things correctly,

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that's a Sufi. So Allah is referring to the super heart.

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Good idea. So when somebody comes, who doesn't think properly and misbehave intentionally against you? This person is Sufi.

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The Robber Shafi says Diana pakka servi hope Allah to you when you have a Sufi, you know speaking to you don't reply don't don't give him any answer.

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You Your words, has value

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keep it within you for a later time.

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Bala tangible

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Allah smarters his way back kata Muhammad yeah he Luna Carlos Silva,

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a good one say Raghu, Rama and whenever a Jain, as a Sufi, a protocol

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a classic you know, speaks to them in a wrong way. Carlo Salama, they will look for peace, they will not fight him, they will not fighting back.

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So what our manager he didn't last module is command commanded the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to stay away from the Jahai GI Joe how they are different he starting from the Muslims, you know, facade, you know all the way to that real enemies of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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There's one who should have strong barrier between you and them.

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But you need to have as an approach towards those enemies of Allah subhanaw taala as TAO to bring them to the truth. And as I said, the best attitude and manner to be observed is to have the attitude and the manner of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you don't fight anyone except that that person is going against Allah subhanho wa taala, the enemy of Rasulullah selasa they are the enemies of Allah. You should also be like that enemy of Rasulullah sama their enemy of Allah subhanaw taala professor, lot of sermons very gentle and kind to the believers, even if they are wrongdoers, go read the history of the prophets a lot of cinema and see it tolerated them, so that

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he can open a space for them to approach him for the doubt purposes. And all of them get corrected and rectified. That means his method is effective, because it has been tested.

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Even if nobody tested that one, you know, the fact that he is guided by Allah subhanaw taala is more than enough for us to know that whatever he does, this is the command from Allah smart. That is how Allah has marked the training.

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This will highlight during his time we have seen how this method of Rasulullah saw sama has been tested by him or practice by him. I don't want to use the word tested practice by him. And it was it was a success. It succeeded effectively.

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I remember that person who came to the province a lot and someone said Dr. Su Allah, I want you to give me permission. Because this is it. I want you to give me permission to commit Zina.

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He's asking rasool Allah to give him permission, you know,

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to go and do that evil. Don't forget, I will repeat it. He's asking rasool Allah to give him permission to legalize that way.

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We can understand why the companions of the prophets, Allah, some are very angry against that person know,

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the prophets, Allah sama to them allow this local to know react, he is asking me, you know,

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let him come. He knows how long it doesn't take that long for that man to be can be convinced, you know, Rasulullah sallallahu semi told him

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that thing which he wants to do, never do it again, somebody else. But let me ask you a question. Do you like this to happen to your mother? It says no. How about your sister? He said, No. How about your wife said no. How about how about he mentioned all of those sisters that are related to him? Of course, naturally, this is less if a person is the youth because you still have some people who bring evil to that to their own family, you know, otherwise, how would you explain the the attitude of a father who sees his his dead daughter bringing boys to the house, you know, and he just watch.

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They stay in a close place, you know, and he doesn't care. These are the friends of his is the author of the villa.

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House villa.

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But that man is still having this was lgpd

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I told him, would you like this to happen to any of your family members? Who said no,

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you know, simple logic, the prophets Allah someone told him, he said, but listen,

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you're gonna have it with somebody right?

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She's also a mother, or a sister, or an aunt, or grandmother, you know, or a wife to somebody else in the way you don't like it. They also like it's about laziness, simple thing and the way the prophets Allah somos expressing it, it was it was 100% enough for him, you know?

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He stayed away from it. Why? Because of what rasool Allah is Allah sama to the kind of wisdom imagining Priscilla Salah so much is the Marie

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What do you think will happen if Allah Allah, Allah Allah, Allah He to do it they should understand the Sunnah of the Prophet Allah sama. endow there are many circumstances, many circumstances our behavior is chasing people away from from Allah subhanaw taala.

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And you can have a very simple approach, you know, to keep the person intact to help that person heal.

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But unfortunately, we're very harsh, intolerant, you know, don't open any room. We already concluded that there has to be as Hubner. And these guys are as Habana and we as humble Jana, you know,

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we cannot approach them.

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Everyone has to leave this place and go to another place. Yeah, okay. What is your contribution in this life, you're supposed to be acting as a die. You're supposed to be acting as a dairy advice trying to bring people to righteousness, do you know that one person that you managed to guide you know, towards the last 100 words Allah is far greater than dunya whatsoever in it, you know that?

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Why are you so stingy against yourself? You know?

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So please, my dear brother, sisters, let us observe the meaning of this idea called the love will be very simple person, gentle person who behaves nicely, he is a lot smarter, and he's dealing with others. And also don't hold people responsible apart, they cannot be responsible, then overburden them, their request from them that which is beyond their capability. You know, whenever you request look for something simple, which they can afford doing it, they failed to do it, try to see the way that you can forgive them, guide them if they need guidance. So that's in the in the next time, they can give you that which is more appropriate.

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That was our digital persona. So Allahu Allahu Salam wa mobula engage in Dawa be righteous you and yourself, apply the Sharia of Allah smarter, introduce it to others and give Dara with wisdom and make sure that people who are surrounding you everyone is practicing the religion of Allah subhanaw taala in the weight loss mentor wants it to be practice and acts also as Mara but an advice people also to be more we don't want to be told meaning somebody who is standing on a place you know, standing in a place where you are expecting the enemy of Allah smarter to attack the Muslim from that angle. It doesn't necessarily mean physically fighting somebody but you will study nowadays

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they don't fight with sword. They don't fight with guns. Nowadays the fight more with what ideology, you know, they have these words they split in the Muslim community to make sure that Muslim did not succeed in maintaining the integrity. So morality that I'm talking about, is that one student of knowledge who study and block the these plots of the the enemies of Allah subhanaw taala for creeping into our community

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is very important. And what are the JD and when you're dealing with the Jehan, Allah smart Allah says take another way.

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You don't have time to waste with the Sufi, the prodigal, you have no time to waste with that with that person. So Allah subhanaw taala to FICOs say that, so Allah subhanaw taala says, hold it up for a while I'm going to be the owner of it. Wow. energy healing.

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The third area Allah subhanaw taala says what a tester will has entered will say yeah, it viability here acid, but either lady Boehner Kobina who are the origin can know who whether you're hemming or mylocker in the Latina sobre la Ka in level health an option. Allah subhanaw taala says well, it still has an interest say yeah, you Allah, there is no way for evil to be equal to a good deed.

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Evil cannot be equal to righteousness and good.

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There is no way for them to be

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kindness will never be equal to a bad behavior. Well, that is to we'll have some that will say

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there is no way for this has an answer yet to be equal. There is no way for them to be

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a lot smarter says it viability he has

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had a lot. Look at the introduction first. There is no way for evil to be equal to good. There is no way for sin to be equal to righteousness. And then Allah is going to cease as such or therefore. In fact

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We'd love to hear as always reply with the best

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always reply with the best

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but either lady Boehner Cobain who either our tune gotta know whether you're heavy

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is is you're going to find that person who takes you as an enemy gotta know who whether you're heavy

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is going to be somebody who is acting as your best friend a very very exceptionally close friend of yours

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and this is a fact by their processes this is a fact

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when you play with good somebody's misbehaving but you're very kind to them

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they have to understand

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you know they have to understand that they will come they must understand and they're going to rectify that attitude even if they don't tell you that they will tell they will they will deal with you in that way

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even if they don't tell you but they will deal with deal with you in a very good way

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that's what a lot smarter says well let us still hassle it we'll say it viability here.

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Wouldn't hasn't had to listen Yeah, it viability here acid free delivery by Nick Cobain who had our tune can know whether your

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last one or Taylor says there is no way good will be equal to evil.

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It viability he acid always reply with the best.

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always reply with the best. The levy Boehner Cobain Awad Elton cannoli,

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as I said, this is a very difficult attitude to be observed.

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Very simply, if Allah smart Allah bless you with that, you know, ability to put it into practice and action that is very difficult. That's what loss mortis is we're mela ca in Cebu looking for somebody who has Subhanallah intensive amount of patience to be able to apply this manner you know that Allah is my advisor This

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is his Omega ca il in Cebu or Manila ca il vous how are we except somebody who has a great portion of a blessing of Allah subhanaw taala in terms of giving him ability to practice good manners in his life

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Subhan Allah hola colicky bar

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if I find it, I found it very interesting. I'm telling my dear brothers sisters, to overlook to forgive. As I always mentioned, you don't have time to waste fighting others especially when it comes to the dunya Mateus

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forgive that person this is the best way you know you can subdue you know you can you know

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I mean remove that enmity between you and others. When you forget

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as well last Muhammad Allah says the best way for you to resolve your issue with your enemy from the humankind's is patience, forgiveness and love

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trying to reconcile and close the page between you and them.

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That's the best way My dear brothers sisters

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and there's no any other way that is better than this. You will close your page with somebody forget

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his mark, you don't smack. He tells you something bad. Don't tell him something that he was so stingy against you what he needs you go and give him that in which he needs as long as you can afford it.

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The law he you will never regret.

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You shouldn't regret of doing this. And you will enjoy the consequences in the future.

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That person will be fighting for you in the future. That person will be the

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And then you against others in the future

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somebody says member raka member raka fucka that will suck for muntjac fuck up luck, wherever choose good manners and good behaviors towards you from our luck, that person is tightening towards him.

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Good idea you will never forget that. And the same goes to when you show him the same attitude. He will not forget that. You remember out why even Musser would attack coffee when he went to the Prophet salallahu alayhi samma during the Treaty of Arabia

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during the Treaty of Hadiya, Ottawa said something bad against the companions of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that was before he converted Islam he was the one who was supposed to sit with the Prophets Allah Azza wa reconcilation. So he told her so let's Allah and sama Don't you ever be deceived by these our bash, who's calling the companions of the prophets, Allah somehow bash me and useless and silly people. He said, they are not even having the power and ability to defend you. If there is a war against you, they will run away.

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Abu Bakr was silent.

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He did not say anything, but when he mentioned this,

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whether Abu Bakr tell them or Google can curse him Subhanallah he said to him a very, very, very bad thing which he deserves at that time.

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He says we are the one who will who will be running away leave Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam asked him to keep quiet. And he cares. He doesn't curse him himself. But if he calls the idol that he is worshiping at that time.

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What what did you do I tell him

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he says Lola yiadom. He looked at him he says yeah, work. If not because of the MaHA roof. The kindness that you did for me in the j in the in the past? It says I will definitely reply this word. This is something that I cannot keep quiet. But unfortunately, I was going to reply you but then I remember that you were so kind to me one day Subhanallah this is exactly what I'm trying to say.

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He couldn't forget it. Although he was a curvier, you know, nothing is restricting him from saying anything. But he's a double Bucha I cannot reply this because whenever I remember your good attitude and behavior, you know, I can't reply this. But then you know what he told him? It said but now is one one, that attitude and behavior now you destroy it.

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If you are to say to me something again, I'm going to reply. But Subhanallah The first part is so interesting. He said I cannot reply you because I remember you kindness. Can you see that which Allah subhanaw taala has mentioned it to you for either the beta Cobain who I doubt and can know who will be

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the one who has some enmity against you is going to be your best friend.

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Allah Subhan

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Allah ka Illa livina Cebu Manila ka La healthy Ozzy. So Deborah and sisters as you know that the depths of Riyadh the side of him is very short. So I will stop here in sha Allah for people to one catch up there is your prayers. It allows Martin to grant you good and Tofik and inshallah I will be seeing you on Thursday with Tafseer of Surah to zoom in, in sha Allah, Baraka Allah Subhana Allah Amobi Ambika shadow Allah in Lancaster Africa TV Lake celebrate Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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