Lessons From Surah Nur Part 2

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AI: Summary © The speakers emphasize the importance of privacy and privacy in various situations, including entering homes, following Islam, and protecting one's health. They stress the need for people to take permission to enter a house without permission, privacy in certain situations, and avoiding rushing on proposal proposals. They also discuss the importance of focusing on critical areas of the brain to protect against evil behavior and the peak of love for a woman. The segment touches on religion, privacy concerns, and couples.
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If you have any question you can ask let's save some time

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shaker Hallett

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Yeah, this is Islamically when a Dave comes to you, he has a right to stay?

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What is the question?

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When a guest come to you? Do I have a right to reject Him?

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Islamically they have

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a right to stay with me for three days

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Islamically philosophy em, let me say lots of our A B of the F our the FLSA? Yeah, this is there, right. And there is some scholars said they can take the right for these three days if you don't give them the right.

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But as I said, these are all applicable in terms of Rasulullah Salah Sama, and also applicable up to this moment, but looking at the circumstances and the environment you are living, you know, legally, you might not have a right

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to find somebody for this right, which is given to you by Islam. So a person should understand the nature of the community he is visiting and the life if he is in a place where Sharia is fully established, then yes, even if the case which the courts, the court will impose. I mean, it will force him to give you that right for three days. But after three days, that she has the right to stay, can I tell him to go? Yes, I can tell him my salah

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is not with Adam, but after three days he's right is forfeited.

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So that's why even some scholars said even in places where exactly where the

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let's say the house owner tells you you cannot accommodate anyone. You can keep your guests for three days.

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That's right, you can keep him for three days. Okay, financial burden is what he used to give. So Islam has given him these three days and nobody should deprive them from the

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last 196 shows.

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Okay, this is asking when there is a normal conversation between the person and I mean to opposite gender. Is it also Zina? No, unless if they do something that can lead to it.

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Okay, just talking to a sister or sister talking to a brother It doesn't it doesn't mean that they're committing Zina. It's not like that.

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But when they engage in things which might lead to unnecessary things,

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these are the doors that they're going to open after that then messages and letters

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and Allahu Allah but having a normal conversation if there is a need for that as okay there is no need it should stay away from it you

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know, inshallah this one is asking about homeschool attendees or houses which nobody's living in that place. It's not the house that people are leaving, but they left the house for some of their needs. I have my house and then I go out and then somebody comes he has an eighth in the house and get inside.

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That's 100% Wrong. And this one we will talk about this inshallah and the last part of the surah but this place available school, it means the one that doesn't have inhabitants. No people are living in it. Because when we live in a place it is not necessarily that we have to live in it Coronavirus. The moment you go out you're still living in the place and house is still yours and you are a second fee. Inshallah.

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Allah grant us protection can be similar with neither hemocytes as the most rapid anatomy and the vino Habibollah Muhammad Sallallahu. Rather only he was happy with Sunday.

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He's asking about this ruling of St. Aidan. Is this Is it still applicable? In the case of friends in the university? I come to the room of my friend in the university do I need to take permission or

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I just go in right

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yeah, but you

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know, you're coming back right? Then you say you say certainty. Say says hello man. Take permission if the room is open for both of you

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guys, but let's say

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it's designed in a way everyone has his own territory covered and fully closed. In this one it just says hola Maria getting inside. Okay.

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When you decide to get inside his own territory, then you take permission, but you can just say salaam

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and get inside because everyone has his own place he shouldn't come out and inappropriately

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dig together

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for example, if you are living

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in a population

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can I come in

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no setup

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this one permission yes

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because the reason why we shouldn't get in without permission is not to see the hour of Sunday

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and seeing the hour is our prayers from non Muslim

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otherwise you will say okay then then they'll look at the opposite gender or less if they are

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non Muslim and nobody says that at the same always our So, if you live with them you take permission but you cannot say salaam to him

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because the property last time I said let him the only seller

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the seller they started the reply the mood while

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talking about closing times.

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So how can they help a person to open up the sun is there anything they can

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keep repenting to unless

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the only thing that can open that is intensive amounts of repentance and Tober

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keep making tilba tilba tilba tilba In sha Allah Allah azza wa jal because Allah opened the door

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and he invites you to come no matter how much you go for come back Israelites are repentant to lock that

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thing that is depriving you from seeing the truth

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houses which are

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so for example, there is a house

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belongs to another person that person doesn't live anymore maybe he lives at another location. So in that case, can you go

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with someone else? No, you can't.

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Just since the last module says if you have a need inside

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the house which belongs to others and you have a need that's mean the House is open everyone goes in and out

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somebody has a house and he locked the house and then he doesn't live in that house but he live in another house you know you have no right to go in into into that house is a crime

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legally and Islamic law so.

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Okay, the question is about

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I have two houses, I live in one of them the other one I do this thing where it is my house? Can somebody go inside the other house without my permission?

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I said no. As long as the house is closed and person closes his house then I shouldn't go to that house without his permission.

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Because last month till I see when you have a need inside and usually your need arise when the door is open for everyone. Otherwise, how was it possible when somebody close his house for me to have my agents

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permission speaking permission

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for the for the for the

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say for example government or police. They are doing house

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what kind of permissions can they do a house or is there any particular situation which they can do?

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In Islam, he's asking about authority when they read a house

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in Islam

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out of metal often had monka you only command people to do my roof in other how to tell COVID

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when they don't do the mouth

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and you talk to them to stay away from Moncure Ivana Fado.

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When they do them on come

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in if they're doing the roof you don't need to tell them to do more because they're already doing

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if they're not doing the bunker, why do you bring it up? Because they're not doing it.

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So the scholar said you don't do to justice hidden spy on others to see whether they are doing monka or not.

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But if the Mooka appears, then the authority have a right to interfere in this regard.

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Apollo's policy he

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Is somebody screaming and realize that this person really is, is in trouble? Can they get inside the house? Yes,

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they shouldn't wait,

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a house is burning, they don't need to take permission, you can just go inside

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anything that would be considered as munkar been,

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I mean, present or apparent to them, they do have a right to read the house, even without taking permission. Other than that, I think, legally, unless if it is big cases, even legally, they do have to ask them permission first for them to step inside.

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So we don't they don't go until they take the permission unless if it is in a critical moment and situation, then they can just go out without thinking they can go in without taking the permission of the house.

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How about entering the house, the houses of the

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the parent,

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come back your mother or father is there do you need to take permission so they really get annoyed sometimes.

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Then they will tell you, this is us, you know, just come you know,

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the same is applicable. That's why many from the seller fissara will say that the most hated things to me is to see the hour that belong to him

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is really painful and really painful. She herself will say your mother or your sister or your daughter or whoever they will not be happy for them to to be seen at that moment, you know.

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Because you don't live with them unless a stranger when he goes they might not meet him again, but you every time they will see you and every time when they see you, they remember that you saw them in this situation.

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So the permission is is also applicable to take it at any moment. But inshallah in the future also Allah smart is going to talk about who takes permission. And who takes permission. Who doesn't take permission and who takes permission when

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I mean when do we take permission, there are some who are supposed to take permission. Anytime. These are people who are mature, they reach the age of maturity, they have to take permission every time below them, that allows one to specify a three seat three moment where they are supposed to take permission and inshallah and then in the ayah after this, Allah will talk about certain people that you can stay

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in their presence not covering properly talking to their sisters, their brothers talking to the sisters because the sensitivity in hijab on the sisters is more on the brothers. What is your last question?

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Can you help?

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brother or sister is alone in their rooms? What is the clothing?

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How much of a cover? Or what can we uncover alone?

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Does the question says Or?

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And which one?

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Brother and sister know my question is brother and sister alone are separated brothers.

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So when you have a brother and a sister,

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I'm only have a brother alone in this room, you know, let's say a brother

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and a sister alone in her room.

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What can they do?

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They should observe also the modesty you

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know, for the brothers, at least that part of the body should be covered from the knees to the neighbor who lives down and he stays in the way he wants after that. But do they commit sin when they they are in that in their house and nobody is that there is no sin on him.

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We just tell him it is inappropriate against the miners. Yes, you have angels and all this.

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That's why most of the scholars said even when the person is having relationship with the spouse,

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they shouldn't take off everything unless if they put themselves under something to cover them. Most of the scholars go with that although some scholars said no that is nothing specific that will say is wrong. Although it's against the miners,

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against the miners but if that is the only thing that can restrict the brother you know, his house without doing things which are wrong then they go for that. In both situations. There is no sense in light Allah on them. That's why the culture that says even if a person goes to the toilet, he has to remain with his clothes and take shower in them. I don't know where people get this but there are some who says

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Now that you cannot go to the toilet and take off everything this is your house. But if a person is taking a shower in the river where everyone is there for sure as to

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that's why the way people are swimming, is it right or wrong? Wrong

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very long. When we go to swimming, even the cloth is designed to show the size of our of the meal. That's wrong.

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So what do you do, you want a tight one and then on top of it, you will fall another one that is thick, you know and it's covers from the knees to the navel, and then go see

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as the brother told me, okay, other than that, if a person wears something that is so tight, his show in the hour, that's haram he will be sitting he can only swim in that way in the presence of who his wife or the wife seems in the presence of who her husband because that part of the body is a very critical place. Anything can happen husband no problem wife no problem because we want things to happen.

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That's why she puts good jewelry and and all of these decoration because Islam wants things to happen so that she will call him down and he will call her down the community will be protected from them, they will manners

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they get it so

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if they're sitting in their house, even if they're alone, they should cover at least the critical hour I shouldn't say like that unless if they need it they have injury in the place where

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they supposed to be covered. And then you tell them the observed minus which minus minus is to open it so that they can heal quickly so when they are in the house they open the place and sit down this is their house

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I recall one of the cellar facade I can't remember who was that but somebody looked inside his house and he saw him sitting inappropriately

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and he was saying dementia also you guys also do that he said yes you Why did you that you look into the hour of people that's why you see that you know you should blame yourself first for looking into the house that permission

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so I did not know what really happened to door opens and then he did not close his eyes he watch

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that's why it's very dangerous very dangerous lie it can cause you your religion it can cause your life to look into the house without permission

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never you come to the place where the houses are open, lower your gaze the look inside. In some communities you come to the place you see the House is open and you see the sister Masha Allah lying down and the first part of the door, you know,

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what is that? So and then you come and then you see that image will remain. This is bad attitude and bad culture. They shouldn't do that. But since people do it, you know, you cannot deprive them from doing it. So you control yourself, you cannot control them, but you control yourself. You know?

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May Allah grant is good. You know, it's all about you protecting your heart first. Okay, it's all about you protecting your heart first because it helps the community to stay away from any evil that can come from from your side. Exactly. How are we doing with the questions? Okay.

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This one

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how do you know the south doesn't go?

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They complain as usual.

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Led by the

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man to Hanuman Nicola Molina who the men of Saudi

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came in similar manner him I was talking about the hadith of Abu Huraira it says what originally what did you learn it says Nia and you have also the the the legs also they commit

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they commit Zina.

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But then the Prophet sallallahu Allah who set up I said well fou is subject to Danica we can remove the one that confirms that is there for the private part. All of these participates in provoking the person you know, to engage in the real act. So these are the initial steps to Zeno of the limelight bass call them let them you know, let them this survival

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value minus in zero, but they lead to the to the bigger one.

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They lead to the bigger one. So that's why the prompts the last time I said at the end of the day Alfred you select choleric out, you can remove. So a person should be very, very careful. That barrier that last month's output must be maintained. That barrier that Allah is going to put must be maintained if a person

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is willing to preserve Don't you ever deceive yourself?

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Allah eventually ever deceive

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The solvency that I'm strong, nobody's like that.

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Nobody's like that.

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If you claim to be like this then I will say you have to check

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your health

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seriously because naturally we're not like that. But I like that the different and

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each one of us get attracted to the other one. That's what allows me to ask you to keep the barrier. If you open it, anything can happen so don't say that you are.

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You are he says malarkey and your righteous your worry of Allah subhanaw taala

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it says letter one the Moratalla they can vary but low counterfeiting the second Mithila banality

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even if you have in the peak of righteousness

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so last last summer said don't stay in a place where there is nobody except

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you one and a woman that is not your wife or your Muharram that you cannot marry forever

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those ones in sha Allah if there is a need for you to be with them alone in a place me is in light Allah protection is always there although we are also living in contaminated environments those one also got attacked

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or attack themselves in color condominial God don't mean I'm sorry. So Allah subhanaw taala asked you to lower and to close some part of your gaze some part of your eyes.

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So, the scholar said the reason why the mean is mentioned is a temporary Lea some part of it

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so we can say is this bar is not beside it. So it can be

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most of it

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and as the truth close most of it

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looking is not permissible. Unless if there is a need for that. When there is a need there will be a be okay. Need like oh,

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like the Catholic

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somebody who is looking for marriage.

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It is always good and better for him not to marry before seeing that person who he wants to marry.

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So you need to take her permission. He doesn't need to take permission.

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When does that happens? Can he look before he propose? Yes, he should see first if he agrees then he go straight forward to the proposal. So search first about if I'm to advise I will say search about righteousness and

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good manners and then go to look if

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you get it are you listening you know don't rush ally don't rush because sometimes you will rush their power says done go like that one rush and look he says you're going to see something learn Takada and Allah couldn't hear what I just said.

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Subhanallah sometimes you might see something that you cannot do Be patient, you know,

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throw vos Shabaab throw drove us. So it said through a central

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you might see something that you cannot be patient at all.

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So Hala, you have to go through Baddeck for you to get it

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in my attic for you to hear it. Okay, that's easy to go for the Marik but sometimes, then you see that person and you lost your consciousness, you know, but then you check about them the attitude and the man is is SIFT

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I mean I was bIllahi min. Ash shaytaan

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How do you convince yourself not to go for that? It's very difficult this is when you tell the person we don't go but every time he comes to you for fatwa

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Can we can we can we tell him no Islam says you have to look for righteousness and good manners. But but but so many bad you know?

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That's the reason why if you take my advice before you go to the look in verse check about the attitudes and the manners who they are. Okay, somebody told you that is a sister in this environment call

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Carrie Kereama fallen Okay.

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Call Fula that was called Villa that anyway Falana.

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So you asked about her? Is she okay? Yes. They told me she was okay. Very good. The family okay. The family are fine, and we have no issue with her and we've never heard anything about this. How about religion? Yeah. hamdulillah she prays dress nicely according to the Sharia and also she prays to Allah Samantha she in fact she passed and

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Then nobody actually has an issue with her.

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You're done with this, then we move to the next step, try and see who she is.

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Know, if if she is disqualified from the beginning, then you don't even go and look, he didn't know then let somebody go and see who fits how to go and take, you know.

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But anyway, this is my advice. I know people rush, but it shouldn't go to that check first, if you heard about that one check first. Unless if the thing has just come,

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you know, you see them. And then you think you should go see a privacy. In this case, try make jihad, check about the attitudes and the manners. And whatever results you get, try and follow that one, then follow what you have seen.

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They're going to lose it. I know you're not listening, but

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your was your remember?

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What is the presence of Corona Marco?

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No, we don't reach that.

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We didn't reach that way, you know?

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lie that, you know,

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that was a case, you know, if you know it, you will understand what I'm telling you.

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I always tell myself why people reach

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this person stays with two people, one after the other. Each one of them reached the moment of curse to them.

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None of them is looking at the fiscal parents because I believe if they're going to look for that, nobody will say go and nobody will talk in the wrong way. But it became a useless I'm telling you, it becomes useless after the managers became useless.

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So it's really really something that you guys have to listen carefully, you know, didn't go for that man as should comes first. Always mentioned this, because Rasulullah saw some focus on that is it takes somebody who has religion, you will succeed in sha Allah. Well, it takes somebody because of who they were because of the way they look because of the position they have. sooner, they're going to lose that and wallah, you might not see the

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what you call the presence of that thing, which was the thing that motivated you to marry that you might not see it after the marriage.

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That Allah subhanaw taala grant is good, so called him, the person who was intended to marry if you have intention to marry, you can look at the katiba. And she also can look at you if both of you have intention to marry. But you don't forget, Allah says Allahu Allah to Duna or martec, Simone, because these issues are between you and Allah subhanaw taala or otherwise to be playing games, whenever you decided to enjoy.

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No way till marriage. Go and look, look, look, look, look, look, look, cancer. Tomorrow, say you wanted enjoy? No, it's a marriage, you know?

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And that we go. But Allah subhanaw taala knows what is in the heart, your intention has to be yes, your seed is that if you see that, and you have intention to marry and you're looking for a potential suitor, then you can look other than that. No.

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Do you get it? We have a lot of students when you ask them, Are you willing to marry not not? Now? What does that mean?

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They have to close your eyes and do it fast. Like that.

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He didn't open your eyes and say that I have intention in the future to marry after you become a professor. No.

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You're not allowed to do that. When you have intention to marry. Now you have intention to marry now not in the future. Can it you're looking for somebody who fits you, then you can look

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to get either. It's just like this could be permissible. The judge in the court somebody who is selling or buying you know, the scholar said they can see

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move T someone who's given fatwa, they can see what necessitate to recognize the one who comes so the issue take place in the future they know who is who is who

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is I mean narrow situations. And the last one is the medical doctor when there is no same gender to tackle the issue.

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That's why it's essential go to a sister and a brother to go to a brother. But if we didn't have the same person, then one of them can go to the other one. If there is no halwa

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that's Mahalla sometimes. It's so funny. We said that halwa is wrong. Yes, that's true. But then when it comes to the medicine in the hospital colorways well

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That's a joke. Somebody has written a book he talks about this things that are taking place between the medical doctors and and recently we heard a case

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no woman was discovered to be pregnant. And who was the culprit? The doctor that was taking care of her in the hospital. I was below

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knowing talking about this, people would think that you're exaggerating too conservative. No, this is a medical doctor has written a book. And he talks about these issues that are taking place in the hospitals are nose. Allahu Allah follows Allah. So that's why they said she has to go with one of the Muharram she cannot be alone with the Medical Doctor in that place.

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Okay, can he look as he looks at that, which he needs?

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Only what he needs. Other than that he's like anybody else? Because we think we always think that these guys they have permission from Allah subhanaw taala to look in the way they want No. So like that.

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You know, it's not like that. They have the permission to look at the place where they need to look at other than that, they can't

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you have the midwife

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they call her in Arabic

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the Roman life, which is good. He says a second wife

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is the midwife

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the one who receives the child right?

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No good experience.

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Now let them say your favorite little Okay, yeah.

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Anyway, so

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this one is the one who receives the child. How can she receive the child?

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It tells her cultural moment that you have given them an outside of him.

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And then you tell her to also close her eyes. How does she receive the child and she put her hand like this.

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And the child was down in the wrong way, you know, who to blame? We say Carla, we

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know Nobody says that. She's going to look at the one that she's taking care of. And she's going to look at the place where the child is coming. That's the reason why that's called a safe calculating. Hey, Lulu Hanover novel illa ma ma Hanley will edit in this fifth hour looting. She is also re supposed to restrict herself to the place where the child is coming. Other than that, no.

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I get it. So at the Rura tocado, the decoder rehab this place is not supposed to be validated, accepted. When that is done. We're under attack under the Korea

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it's unclear. So we have to be really really sensitive concerning these matters. They sound simple, you know, but people take them lightly but they are big matches and problems are taking place in our society. And there is nobody to tackle them. So Allah has not already reminded us what to do. He says pull in more meaning and hope don't mean I'm sorry. Well follow follow Jehovah. So when there is no need a person should close his eyes. When there is a need. There is no problem for a person to restrict Himself to that what she needs for the heart and how many times he can look.

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Back Karthik the the person who proposed to marry, how many times you can look?

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Okay, wait, wait, wait, why is it permissible for him to look? What can he see?

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Now there is no other opinion here Don't even mention.

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It limits?

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What is he permitted to know?

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The face and the hand and the feet? This is the majority's view, because they say whatever you're looking for these three can give you that. Looking for the beauty Where do you get the face? Looking of the softness? You know, where do you get it? The hands? You're looking at the smoothness of the body? Where do you get it? The feet? They say these things can give you a guideline I mean can guide you to toward that which exists which is covered. So that according to the best of opinion, Allah Allah according to the best opinion, you'll see what

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usually appears culturally.

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Okay, don't forget we're talking about when it appears to you.

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When a woman is at home, when does she open her neck, hands, you know, usually they cover from the shoulder to the to the knees. These are the critical areas that a Muslim shouldn't go to that place. Even those ones

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cuz I don't know, how did they manage to talk about to say that a person can see beyond that? You know? I don't think they do that, but

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but these are the critical areas. Can a person asked to see the hair? No, he doesn't, he shouldn't.

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But when, let's say, it appears to him, he can look at it.

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Okay, she shouldn't take it off for him to see that's very wrong. But when it comes out, can he see can he look at that place? Yes, other than those things, which are culturally open, when she is alone with them hiring, if he sees that when it is open, then he will be singing.

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He will be singing

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according to the best opinion of the scholars and this should be the only opinion because you cannot protect the community from having evil thoughts. As long as you legalize that area, the person can see other than those areas and controls himself. Other than that, it might if it goes beyond that, it might lead to evil which cannot be controlled at all. May Allah smarter guide us to the truth? How long can he be looking?

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The first time they meet

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somebody says until he makes his decision, then he delayed this decision.

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Every time he comes, however, he now still Boca inshallah.

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And this booklet will never end you know.

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Anyway, that's the correct opinion. As Carla said, Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said younger in mid atlantic haha. But in all of these things, honesty is needed. You have to know that you're dealing with Allah subhanaw taala. The moment you see What convinced you and that's it. That's why one of our scholars said you don't click on another inductive another. You focus so much to see. It's not like you just look and turn away No, look so much is like somebody's going to tell you, you just look at the other side. But you look and you focus in that looking for both. Where did he get that?

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Where did he get it? Because of sewer lines that Allahu Allahu selama at all?

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What did he say?

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He forgot. So Rasul Allah is Allah Azza wa said, Did you see how he said no, he said, go back and see her because there is something in the eyes of the Sisters of Anzahl. He said, mentioning that there is something inside the eyes, then it needs to focus for it, to see that you go to the eyes and see that there is something inside the eyes.

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These are all the correct thing to be done because you're going to be seen with somebody who is supposed to protect you from sharing your evil attitude with the community.

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You know, that's why focus is needed in that.

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But as I said, a person should remember that Allah subhanaw taala is watching it knows what is in the heart seriousness has to be their

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domain of sight of him my father, Fuji Delica, has gone home in the Lucha commune.

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Demise now Allah subhanaw taala knows whatever people are doing, whatever you do, so Allah says were full of all

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let them preserve and and protect their our because our is not supposed to be granted to anyone except through through marriage or mill claiming

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a person has a slave the female slave he can approach her as a wife. Other than that our supposed to be protected because the issue of our is very sensitive. That's why it Adara Amaryl, our binary Hindi Wilhelma. And hopefully,

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when you have

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the issue of the hour is going between halal and haram. We go with what haram

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I give you one example that the Asuna Yun is to give

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a stab at or to hooby Arjuna via

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you come to a place

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and your parents told you that your sister is in this country.

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Okay, whatever country you wish your parents inform you that there is a sister who came from us and she lives in this country.

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When you reach that, can they tell you honey?

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No, I didn't tell you how to but anyway, I'm trying to get you lost. You know that your sister is here. But only reach that country you want to marry and fortunately only two sisters left

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just listen, you know,

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only two sisters left in that city.

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And your parents told you that your sister

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Is there

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and according to their knowledge, your sister did not marry yet and they lost contact

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with her but she did not marry it so now one of these ones is is your sister and you don't know who she is

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what to do now

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and you really want to marry What did

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you ask her data she does she doesn't she doesn't know I know in some in some have different name you know and then just listen and believe you know they said example silly

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that will also might make a mistake you know

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but, but the scholars have also says now is that you do remember Ben and Helen well why don't you go with what how to massage him ya know to hurry you know in most instances in these cases you have an adjuster you have Khaled attire you know you're confused you don't know which one is correct which one is not you do what you need to have

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you observe carefully one of them

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either one you expect more to be tired you go with with it

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but in the case of our art no when you have this doubt you have to stay away from both of them go to another country

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or keep fast

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these are just example in our time I don't think this can ever take place but if you study also they have this HTB who will halal and haram

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you will slaughter a chicken

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and you know those people will take care of chickens you have other chicken also who died sometimes almost every day it's not a chicken

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and your child comes he monitored the way you were slaughtered Oh sounds interesting. He went he found the one you put in the garbage the one that is dead he's locked that one also Allison in the way you do

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and he came and put it he makes them you know and then he tells you that

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well I help you you know I saw the way you do it then I don't want you to

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tie yourself so I slotted the other one also for you. Where do you get it? I wanted to put it in the garbage I think you forgot to rotate

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and he makes them so now you come you couldn't differentiate between the two which one is

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see what happened

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wherever I can Jimmy you know

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so you have to stay away from from both of them you know because when it comes to the our art and also the food Sharia is a bit sensitive

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more than other matters. So let's call a set alpha which cannot be permissible in any situation except with marriage or or malaria mean.

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Now HIV alpha which is the fact that HIV the human is Xena protecting the product a person shouldn't commit Zina shouldn't do anything that Allah smartisan one no Xena no masturbation no all of these stupidity that people are doing to protect the Verge is it only this? Oh, you also have to protect it from the eyes of others. The second one was

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a companion to the bros Allahu Allahu salam ala Rasulillah aracena mana to another, he said our please tell us which one are we suppose to let other people see

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said how our attacker in lemon zoonotic, he said, protect and preserve your hour do not let anyone see your order except your wife

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other than your, your wife, nobody is allowed to see your mother is not allowed to see all after a person becomes matured. The father, the mother, and brothers and the sisters, none of them is allowed to see that person. They are just like anybody else. Some people might tell but this is only no it doesn't go like that. Even if she messes up, even if he's

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our eyes is our last month guys the truth. So he says we're follow flujo vaniqa as Carlos so Allah subhanaw taala I'm gonna pick up the muscle, perhaps. So, you know, he started with the bicep, because bizarre is the one that goes first. Nobody wakes up and find himself in the middle of zero.

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Nobody, except in few cases, you know, but usually it happens when a person is awake. And there has to be a lot of messengers before the dinner happens first. That's why they say this first is what looking, thinking, planning, sending messages, conversation meeting, and then the actual things will take place. So Allah subhanaw taala blocked the means to the first one. If you stop it, then a person will protect himself from the subsequent evil conclusion that might take place in his life. Okay, after the alarm went off

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Catalan Chateau

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salon tilava

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que have couple of questions here. The first one is about

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you in the presence of somebody who is the opposite gender giving you a lecture.

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Is it as discount?

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For locally you can just look?

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No the barriers still there, lowering the case is necessary even in that way.

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And that's

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why is the hottest? Selling if he purposely looks at the woman's hair? Since it's

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and they are not married? And if he decides not to marry then what? No, every if you go to that she's asking about why is he what he can look at the hair, if you talk from that dimension that has our faces like that handles us like that. But just surely I give you permission permission to go and look at it because there is a big

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any objective which is greater than

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not looking. And the harm that will take place in the marriage in which the husband doesn't know who he is married, or the wife doesn't know

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is so big man often

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divorce, socially legalize it for you. So when the prophets Allah Azza wa said made erhu elearning let him see that which can attract him

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to marry that woman. That's why it's called a set what is whatsover is exposed culturally to the Muharram when she is with the Muharram then it will be it will be a crate insha Allah and we said they should be restricted to

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other than

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the shoulder to the, to the knees. That means hand and the hair and the neck. Son when the X when they come out accidentally and the husband says that's okay. Sure, not the husband that the person sees that's okay.

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He's not committing sin at all. Because the promise a lot someone asked him to do that for the sake of marriage if he sees it.

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This one is a contrast. When someone tells me that they love me for the sake of Allah, this question comes to my mind that if it wasn't for Allah, will I not be loved? When I tell the person that I love them for the sake of Allah, wouldn't that mean that they're not capable of being loved?

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Just because of Allah that I am loving them.

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Okay, no, that's, that's wrong understanding.

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Somebody says

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to you, I love you for the sake of Allah.

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So sometimes the person might think that, if not because of Allah, he doesn't like me, you know?

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It's deficiency and understanding. There's a peak of love When you love somebody for the sake of Allah, because it's the one that remains, and is the one also that helps you to receive good from that person. If you just have the normal love to the person, what does that mean? You overlook their mistakes. They need you to remind them but you don't.

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That's why this love for the sake of Allah actually exists between the husband and the wife. When he does something she takes him because they don't love them just because of the way they look. But they love the process. And this carries what a price we paid.

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Okay, you have to be sincere in your love. And you have to make sure that when they make a mistake, you fix them. This is the true love you know, so it shouldn't understand

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that somebody is not loving you. Oh he only love you because of Allah subhanaw taala but in reality he doesn't like you. It is not like that. You know, the province Allah Allah Salama, praise somebody who loves somebody, not for anything except for Allah subhanho wa Taala so saying that I love you for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala it doesn't mean you are hated. But just because of Allah spotted that person has given you some, some respite. It doesn't mean that at all. That's the peak of love if that person is sincere. Okay, that's the peak of love if that person is, is sincere. May Allah subhanaw taala grant his ego.

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I think this one is regarding the proposal. If a man comes to see a woman, can they be left alone? No, they shouldn't. They cannot be left alone to sit down in a room

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to act

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last moral guidance they shouldn't

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think about moving forward. Can they chat on the phone just in order to they shouldn't

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chatting on the phone brings a lot

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Don't ask those people who get trapped by these things and at the end of the day, things happen. It shouldn't. And as I always say that

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it is a joke for a person to understand his spouse before the marriage.

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He will never understand

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after the Salah inshallah