Class 159 The Disease And The Cure

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Sheila says someone did not break any treaty. They broke the treaty.

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Yeah. Because of Sula salatu salam

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when he went to Medina you know the first person came up with Mercy Celeste Allah told him to go back he said Jaros will lie they will kill the promises a lot of settler told him don't worry, just go back Allah will help the heirs who lie they will do this this last last time I said Be patient that will just go back with them and they sent two people to bring him back the prophets Allah Azza wa say just go back with them.

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Tell us he kept his word. He chased him back what happens on the way that's between them the point is either let him to stay in Medina

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Subhanallah on the way you know, Siemens is always smart if he hold upon the religion correctly. So why did he do they were talking discussing you know matters here and these two, two guys? It will one of them. Oh, you have a nice sword.

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You see, yeah, so it is really good. You know, he prayed so much. He said Would you mind if I said it's a no problem because they they enjoy talking to you. says no problem.

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You took the solace. Oh, that's so nice. After playing with the sword until the time he is sure that he can attack now. He got one of them to the ground at the ballot. The other one he sees him he sees his brother was killed. Run back to safety. Where can he go? But either

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because it's too long for work as it's closer to Medina. He went back to Medina running running and Google still was following him chasing him.

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He gets inside Medina

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Allah symbol was in the masjid when he saw him the way the guy was running. He says Nakamura AHA there

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is definitely this guy was in trouble before he even came with the way the Prophet Allah so so is it definitely this man is it true? When he came he threw himself

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in the middle of the place where Sula Salah so my sit and he says Jaros will lie. He said Mohammed my, my friend was killed and I'm going to be killed also. Please help.

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The Prophet salallahu Salam, I waited and then we will see the King. The prophets, Allah Azza wa said no, you can't touch.

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It is not a lie. He kept them conversing with him.

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He told us who lies OLALIA selama let's mistake the prophets Allah Azza wa said no.

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I can't because I've already agreed Subhanallah he's a Muslim, but that agreement and since Allah told him accept that agreement, he told him please accept our apology. We're with you. And Allah will protect you but go back. You don't stay in Medina. He said, even Yara Sula am on my own. The professor lightly Sullivan said, yes, you're on your own.

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He understood what the man meant. You know, as I even he told him when he mentioned some statement. It says, he says yes, I am on my own. You have already did what Allah is going to ask you to do. Now you should leave me alone.

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The prophets, Allah Azza wa said, while only like woe unto his mother that don't forget, even though Celeste, Allah, Allah, so make these days of DA, it turns automatically to a blessing for a person.

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He says no Kanima who?

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I wish he has some brothers with him because he says he will not go to Makkah again because if he goes to Makkah, what will be the punishment? Death is synonymous with Allah. I will not go too much on my own now. The prophets, Allah Azza wa said, well only, okay, the man who

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wished he has some brothers next day.

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So he went rather than going to Makkah, he was hiding in a place that has a lot of mountains and caves, you know, he was in that place, Abu Jandal, the son of Suheil, behind the one who signed the treaty with the Prophet sallallahu sallam, I remember when Abu Jandal came and, and they were about to sign the treaty. And he was chained. The father chained him and he wanted to be with the Muslims and the prophets, Allah Azza was begging the Father the father says this The first person I I charge you for, you have to let my son go back the prophets Allah Azza wa said Please, we did not even sign the treaty yet. He said either you really you let him go back or I will not sign anything.

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It was a very painful moment that you know treaty No, but Subhanallah it all turns to be beneficial to the believers.

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So agenda when the prophets Allah sama returned him he chased him away. He went on the way back to Makkah, he found a Bootsy is Ella come here.

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And then they kept on doing like that whoever comes from Makkah, the prophet will chase him away, rather than instead of going to Makkah, he will go to Abu mercy until they become the isawa group of them and the house

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Don't wear prints with them. And luckily Quraysh have no I mean any other way to reach a sham except through that. They have some other ways but it's too far. So that's the easiest way for them to reach out to buy food and their businesses. The first caravan that passes through the place and we will see let them go. When they're coming back from Sham, he and his people they attacked him. They got them all.

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You know Subhanallah Maka heard about this they tried to chase them and you know fighting people in Juba is not easy. You can't you cannot and this is their own territory they can fight you they know where you're coming from. So but couldn't do anything and they started to starve because they cannot get any any any grain.

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They came through Celeste Allah salah.

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It told him jasola element so long as you remember amongst the treaty, that is one point that says if somebody migrated to you, you have to return him to Makkah. He said, Yes. I remember that.

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It says, And if somebody

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came from from from you to us, we don't need to return him. He said yes, Aaron, but

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I'm still upon this

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news, what is going on? So they said, Can we please remove this?

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So Allah Now rasool Allah is the One who is doing favor to them to say, yes, you know, they are begging him, please accept our apology. Let's just cancel this one. We are tired. The country is suffering. And the prophets Allah azza wa jal, and he's doing a favor. He said, No problem. Let's cancel this. So Hala those Muslims, although you know, they are succeeding, but they don't want to stay like that. That's why they really celebrate when the prophets Allah sama sent them a message that now that part of the treaty is being cancelled by the by the enemies. So you can just come back to Medina and Subhanallah they mentioned that they just reached the messenger, just reach them with

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the letter of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, it gave an overseer, the one who the founder of the place he was about to pass on today at that time. He did not manage to meet the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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So this shows that

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you follow the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam and you follow what Allah subhanaw taala has chosen for you to succeed you Allah, none of them was happy with this, but it tends to be good for for the Muslim community and everyone so Allah subhanaw taala says, I've been letting adult Momineen Isetan allyl caffine J Dilla visability La Jolla, California la Mata

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they always gentle but the harsh the enemies of Allah subhanaw taala. No compromise enemies means those people who are fighting the believers, because in Islam, the one who is not fighting you Allah subhanaw taala says learn how come Allah one in Lavina let me tell you confit Dini, well, I mean, you could you come in they are human, and terbaru, whom were tacos, it really it is not haram for you to have good relationship with those people who are living with you in peace. And that was what was done by Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. That's why if a person is to kill a non Muslim just because he's anonymous, and that person is not fighting is he's living with him in peace. The

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, let me write halogen, this Muslim will never smell paradise.

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We are not the Ummah who is committing unfairness and injustice against others.

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So here Allah subhanaw taala says you have Bahama hippo now allow bring others who love Him and He loves them. They love Him and He loves them

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are millionaires made to film in dunlea and then you have Boehner homecare HUD biller will Lavina Amendola shed the herbal Linda, here also unrestricted love is been mentioned. Allah says there are some people who take other than Allah subhanho To Allah as partners to Allah.

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They worship they love them, they worship them, and they love them like the way they love Allah subhanaw taala

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well Lavina Amadou I should humbly Allah and you always find the brothers the believers loving Allah subhanaw taala more than anybody else

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call our have them on why am Huberty Where are them and we're inhabiting of mu l muhabba. To My Allah him that he is a we Allah to you so we have goofy ha by them a hippie by them habit Illa who am Huberty and unleaded Tucker the whom enjoy

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him says and there's the biggest the worse

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type of habit that is playing Worthy is the muhabba

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that somebody has together with Allah subhanho wa Taala I mean How about something together with Allah subhanho wa Taala

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meaning you have Schilke in, in the law of Allah subhanahu

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wa welcome Anwar

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al Mahmoud Mohamed Salah he was the who were my habits

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and the greatest type of love that is praised by Allah subhanho wa Taala and by anyone is the love of Allah subhanaw taala alone, and also the love of anything that Allah smart Allah loves.

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Allah however, Hilma Humbert here has to say that you are so Hala Tila and your abdomen and other beings and this muhabba is the root of success in this life. And also, it is the only muhabba that there is no way for anyone to be saved in this life as well as the hereafter except if he has this habit in his heart.

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Carla will Maha Mudra actually keep it here as the Shekhawati Wazza allottee lie because

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you see we have the

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the description of the best Mahabharata, this is Mohammed xojo and he says the worst type of love that somebody has in his heart is a habit you should keep the habit that somebody associate partner with Allah subhanaw taala in it.

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You claim that you love Allah but at the same time that person is loving somebody in the way he loves Allah subhanaw taala

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How does that work? When there is a contradiction between what that person loves and what Allah loves?

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The person will go to what Allah subhanaw taala what that person loves, not what Allah loves. What does that mean? He loves that person more. Although he might say no, I love Allah subhanaw taala but it is fake Islam.

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The truth is that he loves that one more than Allah subhanaw

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taala This is the only type of love that can take somebody to hell and keep him in hell forever. The love that is schicke

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car Colorado habits Alena Habibollah Hawa who had the

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luxury condo last year who do nothing now, Amanda Carla Hammond whom is an OBE for in her life Kathy Hemi home.

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He says that the good muhabba whoever has it, and he worship Allah subhanaw taala alone through this muhabba and he refuse to associate any partner with Allah subhanaw taala and this muhabba will never remain in hell forever.

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Even if it happens that he goes to hell because of his sins, He will never remain in that place wherever there are two types of health right, now kuffar, one out and more meaning you have the fire that Allah subhanaw taala takes the kuffaar and died in cocoa and you have the fire that last month to take the Muslims who come I mean committed sins and they die without repentance. If Allah did not forgive them, it will take them to help but they will never stay there forever.

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Nobody will stay in hell as long as he has email even if it is a letter. When the email completely goes out of the heart then there is no way for him to go out of out of out of hell.

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Allah wa Adele Al Quran and I'm going to be tickled muhabba to Allah was in Bihar, and Quran from A to Z is based on commanding Muslims and the human beings to adopt this type of habit, the good one, while it was in my hand and all of its requirements and necessities.

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When now your annual budget or Corolla Zinnia Quran is all about commanding you to take the good habit and to stay away from the wrong one.

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Well, dollar bill M 31. NACA is Linda ayeni. With a killer case, law windy Ron is all about giving you examples you know, asking you to make prs. He asked means to take lesson from those episodes that Allah subhanaw taala is telling you because Allah told us a lot of pieces of this a lot in the Quran. And actually every visa in the Quran is based on this. Every story in the Quran is based on this

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whatever Celia Amalia no it was earlier Imam Abu Kilohana Allah smarter mention every detail that each and every one of these muhabba contains and who are the people who are adopting these muhabba

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Kabaddi he and fairly he been a whiny, and Allah subhanaw taala. Also talk to us about what was his reaction towards those

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For people who have both,

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either the good one or the bad one,

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one highly no INFP a dude Athena, and also the situation of the two types in the three houses, how many houses we have in this life and the hereafter?

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Three, right, I've already given you the clue what are these houses

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those of you who attended our others of the house,

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this is the y class, if you forgot very easily,

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they are dunya

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Bertha, whatever, we'll cut out what the

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hell if he mentioned this in here that you have three houses in this dunya and

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they are dunya this is this day, right from the time you come out of the womb, or from the time we exist in the womb, because it's still not part of the dunya you know, some some of them give this a new category, now a couple of days before the dunya

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but the best is to maintain these three, because when your mother they're the one that is inside the womb of the mother is also in the dunya

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isn't it so that dunya

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the upcoming dunya this dunya this dunya that we're living the How can we is on what the soul or the body

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the outcome is based on what the body or the soul the body the soul is following the body.

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The second house is that Darren birds are

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birds that means the barrier between life and death.

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And that the the most accurate definition is that this the dimension a person is going to be in which is situated between the actor and the dunya.

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A place of transit actually is the dimension. Allah smarter will transfer a person to separation between the dunya and the Acura is not the Astra yet. And it's not the dunya

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anymore. The person goes out of the dunya he's on the way to the after

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you get an idea so he will remain in this verse, Allah subhanaw taala says, when we were out him Berzon Illa Yomi buffer between them that is a bursa Kmeans barrier Illa Yomi Ivarsson until the day of judgment

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there are some people and cultures they believe that

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the person can come back right they can see them right. So people get scared, if you have to see somebody who

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if somebody died,

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and I,

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we asked one of us to sleep in the same room where he is only one

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How is it?

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Is that possible?

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Only you and him

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I'm afraid they will come and find you that also

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as well if they are to find you that they have to find that person who is living with him that they will increase their cultural belief

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that something happens to him

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not knowing that maybe he panics so much and he has maybe had a heart attack

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because Allah says him but

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there is no way for a dead person to come back until the Day of Judgment.

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No way for him to come back until the objection. So if you have this belief, all of these cultural things, you know, person will stay away from them. Yeah,

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I'm saying this because I recently I saw

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an article talking about this ghost and

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these type of things, which they believe some of them that this is the dead person coming back? No, there is no way. If you see somebody that looks like him. This is what Jim Chepang just read, I will outline the shape and regime and articles inshallah we'll run away from

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Allah says we'll move around him but Zachary laomi Basil,

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the very Hala scaly and interesting place because this place is one that determine what can happen, what will happen to you in the future. So let's alert Somerset I'll kabru A woman's enemy muzzle Africa.

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In Niger

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men who had

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come from abroad who is serving as well as Allah sama say the first transit that a person has, you know, on his way to the Acura is the GRI

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if you can pass the test in the grave then what comes after that?

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It is much easier

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if you pass the test and the grade, what comes after that is much, much easier.

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So Allah subhanaw taala is a very, very strong test in which a person should always reflect about that first night and it's all about most likely few few minutes.

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But those few minutes were really, really tough. And they will determine the place where a person is going either to Jannah or to help.

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So this is the alabanza Is there any life in Bursa? Yes, their own life. We call it their life.

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Yeah, that's why the prophecies are largely the same asset. A person when his family left

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you can hear the footsteps of those family members people are going back.

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It's complete life. They have visitation also according to the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam live in its own nature

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without a cut off, and the next one is dark color, which one is correct, that will occur, that will Cara darker means the house,

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the house of what caracara means stability, and stay in forever continuation, you know, something that has no end and less kind of life, life of

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the house of eternity,

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house will be done. So, these are the houses in the dowel bar.

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The hook home is on what

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is on the soul.

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And the body is followed

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mainly on the soul, the body is is following.

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Because the body if you have to dig the grave, what do you find? Nothing. Become earlier my find the worms they are eating from the body. Or

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if the last one to preserve the body for some of us, like the shahada like the prophets. The Earth doesn't take from the flesh.

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So the body is gone turned into dust.

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So the main hukum is on the soul. The body is following

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the era the focus is on what both the body because the body comes back again and the soul

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and it is called that karate because it has no end at all. Right? Wherever a person goes, there is no end.

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Either he's in Jannah or he's in hell, how will not finish and Jana will not finish.

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While Khurana Jaffe, Shani underlining and the Quran comes talking to the believers about the to

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get it to hear he's referring to the

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that muhabba habitude Shiki and habitude

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alila here and Bucha Quran talks about both of them because they are the basis of success and failure in life. If you go with them have bad Allah smart Allah is where you worship Him alone. Without associating partner with him. You will be among the successful if a person choose to take another path, then he will be among those who feel Allah granton's Good and Tofig and be with us wherever we are in the whole ecology meeting confused Subhanak Allah Mohammed Chateau La ilaha illa and Esther from Karachi Lake

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let's move to

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question and answer session shall

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someone wanted to say hello.

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there's a few like certain acts. Some of the scholars say that that takes you out of Islam. So let's say like

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this one's opinion, like, if you miss a Salah, out of laziness, some scholars say that it's out of it takes us to follow some.

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Some some scholars, it doesn't.

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Let's say that the UK is with people who say that.

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Like, like,

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if you miss, yeah, you're out of laziness, you're fine. But what about like, let's say someone who follows the other opinion. And then he he or what's cookin? He follows our opinion. And then he dies. So, but the hack was with

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if he is lucky

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that he lives in the place where they follow the vast majority of the scholars opinion,

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then they will pray for him.

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But if he dies in a place where

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there's corners of that place, the community believes that whoever stays away from praying is cough and obviously don't pray for him.

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and they will not agree with him to be buried in the graveyard of the Muslims. They will bury him other non Muslims.

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His wife is not allowed to stay with him. The marriage will be gone. And she cannot inherit because he's covering

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blood blessed that he lives within those who believe that he's still a Muslim, then they worship, they pray for him.

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But that is one little comment here, which we need to know that the one that is in question is somebody who stayed away from from praying, he stays away from prayer, complete lockdown who prays sometimes and sometimes it's a prayer. Let's say he prays on Friday and he doesn't pray the rest of the prayers. except occasionally sometimes he prays if he's with people he will do is nobody will not.

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This is not the one they are discussing. This one is Muslim wrongdoers among the Muslim mean. But they're talking about somebody who stays away from praying completely doesn't pray to them pray no Juma no age knows. No answer. No Maghreb. No any other pray. This is the one that is in question is a caliphate are not the minority among the scholars said he's a coffee because as soon as a lot sooner, say between us and them is Salah, whoever leaves the Salah is is Caf majority of the scholar said no, there are some Hadees that shows that a person stays away from praying out of laziness, he is not a cough is at the edge, you know, but not

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is under the mushiya of Allah subhanaw taala and caffeine is not under the mushiya of Allah

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in the sense that he could be forgiven when he dies, and that is no way for him to receive the forgiveness from Allah. So Allah subhanaw taala is putting this man under his mushiya Either he forgives him or he punished him thus means is not a calf.

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That's the best opinion who Allahu Allah the second one, the one that says he's almost out of Islam. And he has to be very careful. He's in the most dangerous situation right after the ship. stayin away from praying is worst and Zina worse than drinking wine was then riba worse than our homosexuality. All of these evil things stand out from praying is the worst sin after the sheikh.

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Salah cinema raffia.

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Christians question. There are stories whereby a dead person's body can't be carried to the grave. And they say it's because of certain sins. For example, He was bad to his mother. And they say they can't carry the carry the body until the mother forgives him. Can we believe in such stories? No, it's not true. It's not true. It should take him to the grave.

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It should start they should keep begging her, that they shouldn't delay and keep the body just like that until the Mother agrees to forgive him.

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And I don't know what he did what he did. But which mother is this?

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Eve Allah,

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your son already passed away. And what? ask Allah to forgive him. And this is also contrary to that to the attitudes of mothers, you know, because you are personally right, you, you will see a person misbehaving towards his mother, as Subhanallah if something bad happens to him, she'll be the first one to support him as if there is nothing amongst them and she will never let something hard or harmful to reach him. These are mothers. That's why Allah subhanaw taala let kids to be raised, you know, at the hand of who mothers not fathers.

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Yeah, because it's very obvious, who is more merciful to the child, mothers, that accent is sometimes also this mercy goes in the wrong way. Where she left the child does do whatever he wants, even if it is against Allah subhanaw taala.

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But there is a wisdom when Allah subhanaw taala make it in this way.

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And then so strange to find a person you know this the son, or the daughter dies, and the mother refused to forgive.

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Come on.

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You shouldn't treat him in this way she should forgive. She should let him go in peace. She should actually ask Allah to forgive him. Not just him forgiving. She should ask Allah Subhana Allah to forgive him.

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The last one to accept the sooner the son or the daughter can succeed in the hereafter. What does she lose?

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What does she gain if she see him, sees him being punished in Hell? What if she benefit from that?

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But to keep his body until the time she forgives, this is wrong. If she takes him to the graveyard, they should try their best first. Wait a little bit. If she doesn't want to forgive they should just take him to the graveyard

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and ask Allah to mercy upon him.

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The body until she forgives is this why why why can't they carry the body? The body is becoming like a rock like a mountain.

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They cannot be carried.

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No, they should carry him to the graveyard.

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You should try their best to convince her but if she's not willing to convince Until when are they going to keep you there is actually a disrespect Allah's mercy from my mother who Kabara Allah wants us to take him to the graveyard as quickly as possible

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question from

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like configuring your

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sister is asking that her husband claims not praying Salah is one of those scenes which are only between him and Allah.

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And Allah Who for giveth, while other sins Zina not respecting the husband are more destructive. He tends to be very aggressive in in defending his habit of leaving the salah. The sister is asking Will she be held accountable if she stops you marry him to be because he gets so aggressive and just focus on her only son? No, she shouldn't stop. She should keep reminding him unless if let's say he harmed her physically.

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But she shouldn't stop she should keep in mind this is not only between him and Allah subhanaw taala other people who knows about his situation they have to remind him they have

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this is not part of Manhattan Islam will tell kumara Yanni, your brother who is on the wrong way, and you know but that reminded him Yeah, Nick is part of your responsibility and it's very dangerous to live with him without reminding.

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If Allah subhanaw taala punish him, that person who stays with him might be affected also.

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So the only thing that can you know, save a person from getting involved in the punishment is to remind and to keep reminding.

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Allah grant us

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permission from a ceremony comer to Russia. May Allah grant you the best of health always. Can you remind us of what we can do for our deceased loved ones can our good deeds or to affect them in any way? The best is that you are you Allah anyone who dies amongst your family members make dua for him that life is not easy. Like that life after death is not easy.

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We just don't know reading the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and the Quran can let you understand how serious is the matter then you know that yes, these ones need you Allah they need

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and you don't know that dua you will be making inshallah Allah subhanaw taala will give them relief from some of the difficulties they might be facing.

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So DUA and give charity on their behalf if you can make some work, build the masjid made a well you know and build a school make something that can keep earning them reward after they are gone.

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These are some of the things that you will do to benefit them with the most important one is that you are constantly the certified jariya that you establish for him to keep receiving that reward inshallah.

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Question from ceremony, ceremony Kumar, Tila ricotta

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there was a question in the last class, but it was misread. So, we want to ask you to get Inshallah,

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if someone being appointed to be sir, the sural, committee member, or the practice bidder at the Surah, not to be a member to be management for the Surah, where he would have opportunity to include activities upon the Sunnah the surah. However, there will still be mixture of with activities done by other committee members, which he will not be able to stop them. Should he accept the offer? What if he's, as long as he can fix slowly, slowly and gradually is better for him to accept, to see how to fix but if you cannot have any influence is better for him to stay away? And as long as it is not mandatory upon him to follow what he believes is incorrect, then it's okay. But if he's going to be

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forced by virtue of the agreement, then it's better for him to step aside. Let them handle their affairs by themselves.

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Allah grant is good.

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What if he feels he is not strong to fight the bidder? Can he reject the offer? Yeah, if he knows he cannot do that, it's better for him to stand aside.

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Back to the question of advising her husband that isn't free. She's asking, isn't me praying in front of him enough of a reminder, he gets very angry when she reminds him and she is scared of him? No, unless if he's afraid of something bad to happen, then she should try to seek the opportunities and times when he's happy. And then talk he shouldn't stop talking. Don't talk to him when he's not in a good mood. When he's in a normal mood. Also, don't talk. Wait first until the circumstance at the moment when he's extremely happy, you know, 10 years

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Colors cast the advice to him in a very

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nice and the way that is full of wisdom inshallah

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So, for example, if a person pass passes away, and that person didn't perform hajj and they were able to perform, but they didn't while they were alive, is it? Does it count for? Does it count when like another person after they passed away, does it on their behalf on their behalf highchairs okay, as long as the person died, that means you cannot perform Hajj by himself so it's okay for somebody to do it on his behalf.

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That person who will do it on His behalf must make sure that he did his own Hydroid

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I already perform heights that I can perform on behalf of somebody who died, but if I did not make her have to do it myself first have to do mine for us and then do so

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many scholars said if I did not do Hajj and I want to do on behalf of somebody, that hajj might be my not his.

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Yes, Adam

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100 people attend your all your sins.

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What I know is 40 if you have 40 people attended do janazah last day will be Shiva insha Allah will intercede for you on the Day of Judgment, that amount be even as urgent as long as they are okay, they are good. Inshallah, that amount is enough to earn you forgiveness from Allah subhanaw taala. Because of them.

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They will immediately rush into body and preaching us and they end up getting like 300 people is just so this is the person. Do they get the intercession even though you've never met this person? Alright, it's okay. I mean, in Joomla, right. It doesn't it doesn't it is not necessarily that those people mean have to know him. It's good to have the janazah been prayed in a place where you have a lot of people.

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And the point is to day pray, how many people are praying for this person? Even if they're just passing by the CD Janaza in prison just coming they don't even know who he is. He just joined? Yeah, that's more than enough for him.

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Mr. Grant is good.

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The question last time we mentioned we need evidence when we say someone is when someone does wrong towards us.

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I can understand if it is physical abuse. Well, what What about verbal abuse?

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We can we can read if you sit record what the person said. We know it's not all the time you prepare to record what will happen.

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Patients is better. This is not my word. This is the word of Allah subhanaw taala infallibility here as always Be patient reply with good whether it is verbal or physical somebody's doing something wrong to Allah the One who created as he said reply with the best Don't be like them that's why he called your your reaction in the same way they are doing equally sick Yeah.

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And evil deed which is that we'll say yet and say yeah to me.

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If you cannot be patient that you reply with the same exactly when I come to him for aka we will defeat him optimally. And then Allah says well in sabato cableless salary, if you believe that you cannot be patient, then you have a right to reply with the same exactly the same. He slapped you with five fingers you also should slap him with only five fingers.

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He punch you punch in the same place. Exactly what he did.

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But he says well in sub are too low I really sorry. But if you are to be patient, this is better for the patient.

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Who says this problem?

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I believe patients is better replying with the best is better. You know people when you live with people you're going to see a lot of harmful things but alas mountainous is impatient, impatient, but comes after patients is good in sha Allah azza wa jal Baraka

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So hi, Nicola.

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Any question?

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Okay. Shala let me see if I can answer them in one minute.

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What is the ruling on letting a brother who shaves his beard be an imam is bad the best is to look for somebody who is more complete to lead the prayer.

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Who follows the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Whether you believe keeping it is watchable was to have the best system to have the most complete person by the prey of somebody who shaped it.

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It's okay It's fine. There's nothing wrong with a prayer. But prayer is, is very, very important thing. And the most complete person should be the one who laid the

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Will a child or a baby who died early be asked the questions of the grief as well? Allahu Allah.

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Allahu Allah. We know that if the parents are Muslims, it will go to Jana, even

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if they if his parents are not Muslim, then they will be tested on the day of judgment that kids when they pass the test will be go to going to China if they fail, they will be going to hell.

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Last question,

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from question from SR Shaeffer, a Santa Monica De La Habra. Togashi in my country. There are cases where poor people who can't afford Hajj for themselves are sent to hajj on behalf of the deceased who couldn't perform Hajj. Is this not recommended? Yes, definitely is not recommended. The best is to send somebody who did Hajj already for himself to do because the prophets a lot of sama told Shu Brahma is so that person sila Baker, I'm sorry. A person who saved a bake Allahumma and show and had done and sugar Oma. He says yeah, Allah I intend to make hajj on behalf of Shri Rama. So he asked him who is this sugar mama? He says Yara so Allah is my brother that died. The prophets Allah sama

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said lovesick, did you make Hajj for yourself? He said no. He said her Jan love secret Mahajan, Shu Brahma is it has your head first and then go and do it for the Shabaab. That's why the best opinion is one that says it is not permissible for somebody who did not make Hajj for himself to make it for for another person.

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The person performing it for others won't be rewarded.

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Many scholars say will be counted as his if he takes money for that and he has to pay them back

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is Hanukkah Hanukkah Chateau La ilaha illa and just forgot to be late Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh