Ibrahim Nuhu – 128 The Disease And The Cure

Ibrahim Nuhu
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The conversation discusses the negative impact of social media on women, including their lack of respect for their bodies and the idea that women are not as valued as men. The speakers emphasize the need for effective policy measures to prevent these negative consequences. They also mention the prevalence of breast cancer and the need for a method to prevent it.
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If you remember we just started

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dealing with a new chapter, which is about to remove our history, why would you be HIV than 4g? And it says, what had a colo

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what are the Kullu the Karna Houma Kadima and binary data, he will he will do behavioral fudge is all of that which we have been discussing about how Bharat will hold the word Lovato Allah Hava is it all of them are just an introduction to what we will be discussing now. So it will be talking about the fo a hash, Mahara Minalima bapa the prohibition of these type of sins and calamities, and he introduced them by those heavy topics which are very important for us to understand how to deal with this with this issue. So if you remember, yesterday, he quoted the Hadith of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam that says,

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XL Roma you the hero, NASA Inara Alpha mol verge, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said the vast majority of that which lead people to * is that which they are doing through their mouth and also enlarge their private part. The hour and Hadith of Abu Zaid in the Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, hadith of blindness owed and some other companions the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, the blood of a believer is not halal, you know, to be taken on the life of a believer is not legal to be taken, except if he does one of the three things. He committed Zina after being a Muslim, and he killed another person without any justification from the Sharia. And

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also he left the religion of Allah subhanho wa taala.

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So Abraham says, he talks about the Zina you know, earlier, the Billa. And he mentioned that this hadith of the Prophet sallallahu selama is similar to the ayah and similar to the hadith of Abdullah Massoud also, the one that says are you then be our them on anti jalila He need then wahala in a to make somebody you know a partner to Allah subhanaw taala after knowing that Allah smart is the One who created you and he does he deserve no deserves no no partner until the end of the Hadith and also the ayah that says we're Latina later when Allah Allah and alpha while I actually known enough Salah to have him Allahu Allah will have to Allah is known Manufaktur Erica elkaar Osama.

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So after that time, says Allah subhanho wa Taala or the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has started with a very woke one. In that hadith he started with the one that happens more zoonotic place more than the Catena neffs and cotton enough to take place more than the reader. You know? So that's how Allah subhanaw taala and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe salam how the prophets a lot looser man started, you know, it started with the one that happened more and more, not because it is bigger in terms of sin and danger. But because it happens more it is easier to take place than than the rest. So the prophecy last summer started with Xena because it takes place in the society more than

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the kutlu and lifts and Katrina is taking place in the society more than more than

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the rest of the amser absolutely more than the shed.

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Carla

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warm up Sara to Xena Monica to Lima, Salah Hello.

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So this is the beginning of the class today. Number one, Community Church.

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This is the beginning of the class today. He says Well Mark said it was Xena.

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He says Monaka to Lima Salah helado the MUFE Sara the facade you know the harm the evil that is taking place because

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of the Zina. It goes against the way Allah subhanho wa Taala structure the life in this dunya

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anything that any benefit that Allah subhanaw taala wants this life to be based on, Zina is against this.

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It is against the Muslim of the item of the universe. Hello. How did he say why did he say that? Carnivale Murata it has an IT. Add color Tila, Allah Allah was occurring because a woman when she commit Zina add color to it. She is going to be bringing evil and efficiency and humiliation humiliation and embarrassment to the family

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selected

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war Caribbean

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was O Jehovah Caribbean, she is going to bring this Olara is evil deficiency, you know,

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something which is going to put them in a state of embarrassment you know, so she's going to bring this shameful thing to her family, to her husband and to the relative in general.

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And I guess everyone understand what it will cut in is talking about wanting to also combine a nurse because if it is known that this woman is committed Zina, the family wherever they go Subhanallah they cannot work properly because they will be feeling that people are looking at them through that glass you know the glasses that that a woman is is using you know, so people will be looking at them in that way and this is true the community whenever they see a family member they remember the case of Zina been committed by one of the sisters who belong to that to that house. When it comes to also been a nurse in Hamlet minute Zina especially when she she has the the pregnancy from from the Zina.

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She's going to bring them down, you know, she's going to bring humiliation to them in whenever they meet others, they will have this kind of intensive amount of shyness you know which is attached to deficiency you know, they will feel so deficient and people will be looking at them with the eyes of disrespecting

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all because of what because of the fact of a woman who belongs belongs to them.

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We're in a culture that when Catella Teulada Jamaat beta Zina will come in so Hala This is more on us than than the previous nation. It blocked him says if she killed her son. Now she is combining between the Jedi Mata Zina or Jedi motto.

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Nowadays it is a lot you know.

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They commit Zina and they will go on a boat.

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It is easy in the early days of the pregnancy for abortion to take place. Islamically it is easier. And even some scholars said if it is from the Xenon the early days, they said this is one of the justification that can allow them to take it out. Because it is not it doesn't have any soul at all in it.

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Good idea but they didn't do that. They wait until the time the child is having a soul and they go on kill. You know Subhanallah and sometimes they go on and they wait for it until they deliver you know in secret and going through the child. You know

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if the child is not blessed by Allah subhanaw taala for him to be taken by others. This is how you will just lose his life until he smiles and then the community can come and find the body.

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So you can see what led them to commit this evil sinner

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and these days of ours this is increasing.

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Salah ceramill Afia a lot

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needs to be done you know we really need to do a lot we didn't need to do a lot. Wala hit is not a joke, my dear brother Sisters, we are just destroying the family system in the community. Zina destroy a family system from the root.

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It destroys the family system from

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it creates nothing other than evil the community and the whole structure of the community is going to be gone.

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Carla, we're in cartel at Walla jam adventures in our Katrin, so she's going to be combining between the gerima to Xena where the limits are cutting. The first thing she committed Zina, there's a big issue. And the second thing she killed the child

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to kill a child. And you can see that that OMA is not there. You know, when a woman has a child through the legal way, you know that connection between the child and the mother is there. In a way no matter what she might not be able to take out the child you know and kill the child

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But Subhanallah she doesn't cash to take him out and to kill him once he got him out of the wedlock, that kind of Oh mama that affection that love, you know, it is not there is taken already, you know.

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And even after she delivered the child, you know, the kind of the mercy that that the mother has, who got the child from the legal way, this one will not have it, you know.

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That's why they will be wandering around the community, you know, nobody's there to take care of them, you know, and they live that kind of life and they became carnival bombs against a community.

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Karla in Hamlet for Alice Zoji Adicolor Tara Alia early

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early Arjuna BLS Amin home SWAT Allah sometimes this woman she's married, you know, we've heard a lot of cases a lot of cases Subhan Allah, Allah celebrar Afia

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specialty in industries and the work in places we had a lot of cases and

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it spaces in this Allah subhanaw taala Tofik is not healthy person should be very careful.

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You should readdress the way we are thinking

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so, sometimes you go and have relationship with somebody, you know, when you talk about these issues, nowadays people will find it so strange, you are so strict you are you are you you get all kinds of titles, you know, but then we still talk in the newspaper that the community is going in the wrong way. Yeah, it has to, you know, cuz you open the door without any restriction, and you let no barrier between the male and the female and they cooperate in the way they want. And tomorrow, you know, they act according to their nature, you know, and then we come on blame

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and Soheila how many marriages are destroyed and because of this, you know, how many marriages a lot that has never realized that his wife is communicating in the wrong way with others, and they won't happen cut off the marriage

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because Subhanallah this is part of our nature, you know, subhanAllah you might see a person being corrupted the husband I mean, but he will not agree to see his wife talking to somebody asking

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a lie we have to think properly you know, you have to think properly that is something against us somebody is targeting us but we don't understand

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any place that will corrupt the attitude of a man or woman this is not the place where Alaska wants them to stay.

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And it's very as I always mentioned, has to be maintained you remove it

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okay no problem.

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You remove it problem is going to take place you know,

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I said when they when they ask him or he was saying to them ear cumin to Hola, hola, Nisa. He said, I want you from going into places where there is nobody except a woman. A means halwa you stay in a place you and a woman who is not your wife,

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and not your Muhammad

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Ali, not your mother and sister, not the grandmother and all of those sisters, which you cannot. I mean, who you cannot marry the prophets, Allah Azza wa said don't stay in a place with the opposite gender. You know, and this is addressing both male and female.

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So the Companions you know, they asked him they said jasola How about a humble and humble Aqua? Zilch

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actually is

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just to be something else, you know, but then now the culture take it and use it to mean that brother of the husband, brother in law for for the wife?

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Sorry.

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Brother in law for the husband, not for the wife. Yeah, Brother, no, for the for the wife. That's been the husband's brother. You know, in almost every culture, the brothers they they go and visit the wife of their brothers. You know, sometimes they stay alone. They discuss things they talk, you know,

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Salah and most of the communities believe that this is fine and it's okay. You know, and people don't mind having this. The prime minister last summer rejected it because

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Yanni what is going on in the villa, we heard cases you know,

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we heard cases

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And who knows, you know, and this is a very complicated situation if they don't fit Allah subhanaw taala, she is with him. And he is with her and she doesn't get involved and they don't feel Allah and it is something who is there to know what is going on?

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Nobody. Because for him to have a doubt after having a relationship with heart, and then somebody else came and have relationship, for him to have a doubt in his wife

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is not easy. The door is closed, because he already had relationship with any pregnancy that took place at that moment. You know,

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it is going to be attributed to the husband, and it might be the one that came from the from his brother.

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That's why it was so let's hola Simone. They said yes, we're like, how about the husband's brother that comes usually and stay with the wife? Why there is nobody Rasulullah sallallahu selama said Al Hamad Al Mote is it as def Hala look at even the description, the promise Allah sama said, he said this is death.

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But up to date, we are taking it lightly. In some cultures, and I'm very sorry to say in some cultures, the parent will impose upon the brother to live with his brothers in the same territory. So the wife, if she is religious, she's going to suffer a lot, because throughout her life, she has to be covering herself in her own house.

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What kind of culture is this, you know, what kind of culture is this? You know.

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It still exists up to date in this in this contemporary time, you know, the era of technology and smartness, as people are always talking about. But still you see an educated person imposing upon his child to live with the rest of the brothers in the same territory. And the wife will live like that, you know, the only time that she has a time to take up her scarf in her own house is when she is inside the room.

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So out of the house completely, she has to wear hijab, inside the house, also, she has to wear the hijab, every single time, she has to be like that, when the brothers are not when her husband is not there, and she lives with one of the brothers, they want to stay alone.

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So how long, they're going to stay alone in the house.

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And this is even in the in the student of knowledge, you know,

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you have in an hour ominous, but you have it also in the student of knowledge. They tolerate the support themselves, tolerate discipline themselves. I'm talking based on what I have seen with my own eyes, they tolerate this, upon themselves, a person will be living with another person, and that person will go out and he left his wife in the house. And sometimes you know, there is a situation whereby the wife of the second one is not there. So now this one is living with the other wife, both of them are staying in the same territory.

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Ever justification you have this is wrong. Islamically it is wrong. These types of cultures must be stopped. Because they're against Islam and also against the freedom. Imagine Subhanallah this Myskina I'm talking about the girl she married, you know, those early days, you know, between the husband and the wife, she loves all of these things, you know, she can only meet the husband inside the room. What is this?

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And she's going to be living like that. That's why I was asking somebody you know, in those types of cultures do people enjoy a live a family life? Because because he had a lot of complaints to

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say Allah subhanaw taala to fix so what I'm trying to say is all of these barriers that Allah subhanaw taala put between the opposite agendas, we have to keep them intact. We have to keep them intact. Yeah, otherwise the province Allah sama said, do not do it. Why did he say that? Because the consequence is so evil and so bad. And there is no way for you to discover that. In most instances, you know, you will never realize that there is somebody who is brought into your house who is not supposed to be amongst your family members. That's why you know, claim says when Hamlet Wait, when Hamlet who honors those articulate Allah Allah He

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adds Nabi and lays them you know, if she committed Zina with somebody,

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and unfortunately she became pregnant.

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Unfortunately, she became pregnant. So what happened is when she gave birth to the child, now she is going to bring a child who will be attributed to the husband and he is not part of the family. smila Somebody who is totally no stranger to them, but he will be there. And you know what happens when this person is going to be part of the family and he is not part of them. Nowadays, they do it live

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legally through the IVF they do it legally. Salah Salem will

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do it legally. The only thing is they don't bring the person to commit the Zina by having his private part into ours but they take the sperm from him and put in somebody else's wife.

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As Zilla, which is legalized by some countries will be able to allow

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color for whatever who while is a minimum. So if she bought a child that is, I mean give birth to a child that is

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that is not part of that family, he's going to inherit from them. Because, according to everyone, this is the father when the father dies, the son is going to inherit

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what work Halaby one Tessa Illa hemolysin And he's going to see them and he's going to be in an isolated place with them, you know, because now he is the son.

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He is going to be with that father alone. I'm sorry, he's going to be with the with the mother is going to be with a grandmother is going to be with her and she's going to be with the other sisters, you know, who belong to the father from somebody else, you know, he's going to sit with them and he's not one of them.

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The only connection he has is the mother. That's it. But in terms of fatherhood, he is not one of

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well hello to him one Tessa Elaine Wallace. I mean, who integrated El Camino facilities in Aha, you have other matters also, which are

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that evil consequence that usually are generated after the completion of this?

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Well mas magaziner Rajan fender who usual collateral unsavoury, either as for the man so this is the woman side, as for the man who is committing Zina, who is committing Zina Ibaka him says I know who ug bhakti lotta Lhasa this one will make it you know necessary when that Xena is committed then that means that unless of the lineage is going to the mix

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just like what happened with

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the sisters one NASA is going to be next because he will be mixing that is his his NASA with somebody else because she commit Zina now and she's going to commit dinner with Sally and she's going to have relationship with her husband you know, we don't know you know

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you know the child might be picking up from this and from that, although the concentration might be with one of them, but it takes some part of the other ones

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wave saddle murottal masu and also it involves destroying a decent woman and we have this especially in the universities with with the students they Shabaab a girl will come the parents sent her to the university and she will be very decent value okay you know, when she left the family, but then she was kept in an environment where there is no protection at all, she end up doing what doing that which is maybe she mentioned it

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the way to have this you know as I always mentioned to you, those who are going around the universities will tell you this, especially the the private universities where there is no proper supervision

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where there is no proper supervision, you have this Zina this illegal relationships are taking place and children are being born out of wedlock. So you have sisters who came up recently and joined these private institutions, but then at the end of the day, smart Allah gave them only a few days, the hijab has been taken off, you know, and then corruption will keep going.

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What are either Holly tell it well, first head and smile after the Zina then call us the honor is gone, cannot be fixed at all, cannot be fixed at all. That's why some of them when they repent Subhan Allah, they don't know how to forgive themselves.

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And some of these evil things, you know, I'm telling you about Allah, you might be shivering when you're reading them. And this fact that happens, you know, which is narrated by the one who did you know.

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So all of these are taking place when we are negligent, negligent and price is going to be paid. Were still paying the price actually.

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So he corrupted a sister, you know, destroy her honor. And also he is going to put her at the edge of corruption and going beyond the limit in terms of going against the laws of Allah subhanho wa Taala

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if you have in karate haram dunya

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de la haka a blocker him says, you can see in this sin, this evil sin that is committed by some people is a horrible dunya it contained the commission of this in contain the destruction of the religion and the dunya.

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Weigh in Amara till KUBU sherbert he will narrow the field of Hara for comfort Zina Minister Hillel HeroMart in offer waka kochen who our boy Moline Subhan, Allah IMOCA him says

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even

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if those people goes to the grave you know, this shame remains here

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that's why you have the Xena how many times because of the Xena what is haram in Islam is being legalized?

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Yeah, so many things which are haram in Islam now there will be legal because we don't know. We think that this is the real child.

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of our to her cook, and many rights will be taken.

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We'll call him avant in and many oppression will be will be taking place

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on Omaha, CTV and it's very important is one of the things ever consequences of Xena, you know, things that usually take place when dinner happens and who huge will fuck

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you know it necessitates poverty. And don't be deceived, you know, by seen those people who are bad, you know, that against us. They come with Zina maybe their night you know.

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But they're so rich. We're not talking about that because Islamically the real richness is not about how much you have. The real richness is about how much content your content meant you

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like the prophets a lot Alyssa said as an arena gayness.

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richness is based on the richness of the heart.

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So you're talking about that one, it will be taken away from you,

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which might be attached to the physical poverty also.

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Carla will consider the room and also it causes a person to lose some part of his life, you know, a toxic armor. It doesn't necessarily mean that a person who is

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supposed to be living for 100 years but now when I lost my test, reducing it to 50 years or 90 years, not necessarily a my live work for 100 years. But these 100 years will be useless,

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useless, completely. Allah subhanaw taala will remove the baraka from them

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in the way he will not benefit from his time at all.

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You're considered learner. So, poverty, the spiritual poverty, and also the efficiency and decrease in terms of age work, so Sahiba who saddle YG and it covers the face of that person with a kind of darkness.

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Basically, darkness not necessarily physical one, the way but we talking about the spiritual kind of darkness that could be sensed by those people who sees him he also will have this smile like this likeness on his nature

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is going to deny himself himself you know

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where you are with MK turbina NAS and it brings nothing except hatred and enmity amongst the people.

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And it's very obvious because if the husband has doubt in somebody you can imagine how much you hate that person. And if the Zina happens and the husband knows you can imagine what kind of relationship they have. And the children also who know that the mother got them out of wedlock and the father got them out of wedlock you can imagine the relationship that children will be having with with the parent

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alone Hello, I mean how CIT either Anna, who shattered your collarbone Maria who? Lm you meet who one of the evil consequences of Xena is that it's scattered the heart cannot be fixed and come combined in one place.

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Always be Michelle wish

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were you Marie do and it caused the heart to be sick.

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Elim you meet even doesn't kill the heart completely.

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Where God will have my will hasn't well health and it brings worries.

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Well, it hasn't been sadness.

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Well, hope and fear

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Is

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his use you know, that they will call him decided to share with every everyone

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because nobody who, who has akal and is within his common sense

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that he is this thing from immuno calm and at the same time he will be thinking of engaging in the commission of this attitude

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where you've either Sahiba who mineral molecule Kibeho Mina shaytaan Falaise about the mexiletine category, our meme of sanity and it takes away the one who is committing this evil act. zani it takes him away from the angels and bring him closer to Shabbat.

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Ibrahim says, After murder, there is no sin that is worse than a sinner.

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But he had a shooting at him kutlu Ashna and wound up what I've heard she was That's why Allah subhanaw taala prescribed the punishment for the Zina? You know, for the most and somebody who already married and have relationship with the spouse, Allah has to make the punishment be one of the worst type of punishments

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and he's supposed to be killed in the worst type of way, you know, and the most difficult way of killing.

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How is it by stoning him to death? Imagine a person being placed in a position and people are going to take stone and keep throwing on him until he dies.

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Keep throwing on him until he dies

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while obala Abda and number Otto how Hermeto kottelat Can as halala human and yeah beluga who and Hazara

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in loci him says if a person is to hear about his wife being killed,

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you know, is why being killed.

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That means that will be much easier for him to handle. Rather than I mean that hearing about Xena been committed,

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you know with with the wife

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you know why? Because that one

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you have so many assumptions, assumptions, you know, somebody committed injustice on heartbeat and like to Allah she died as a Shahida in sha Allah we have good you know, that will be cathartic for her and she will get good in the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala but even Allah has the origin.

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If she is not part of an apartment in that in the battle

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and also the case of murder, she died after a few days the case is closed. You know that worry. You know my keep coming from time to time, you know, but the vast majority of it will be gone.

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But imagine if he knows that, yes, she's under his custody and she committed Zina that will never go. She's going to be live with him. It will never go even after he divorced her. That shame remains you know, and people know about that whenever they see him even after they know that there is no marriage between them but they will still look at him with that kind of glasses.

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conocimiento vida, lower ie to Allah Allah Hu ra Jhulan ma Marathi leather up to the saving guy eramosa Fine. I was affected by Bella Gallica rasool Allah He said Allahu alayhi wa sallam a kala charger Buddha mentality side by Allah he as a young woman who Allahu Allah, Mini, Amin agilely, Verity la he heard ramen for Asia Muhammad Ali Baba

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started you know by that said,

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if I see somebody on my wife

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is a level up to be safer, they are almost almost,

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they said to the Companions, he said if I see and some narration he was saying this to rasool Allah is Allah is Allah. He said Eros will Allah if I see somebody committed dinner with my wife, and I see him with my own eyes. Does that mean I have to go look for witnesses and then bring them to you? Then you take action

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to slice a lot so I said yes. He said no arugula is Rob to be safe. It's a Wallahi I'm going to hit him with safe as safe as safe is that is the sole right?

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It means I will hit him with the sharp you know, let's say this is the safe it's a virus of fine meaning I will not hit him with the side. If somebody hits you with the side of the metal just like he's slapping you. They will not cut a part of you. But he said no way else Walla Walla will get we beat beat him with hit him without

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With with the sharp heart of it

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that's meant he intended to kill said I will cover this instantly he has to go he can survive

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this and then I will submit myself to you. You do whatever you want but that person cannot survive cannot live

00:35:19 --> 00:35:22

that province that Allahu Allah Who said I'm gonna set a charge a boon

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to some of the province the last time I heard about that, and he said, Are you amazed? Are you surprised with the way sad even or by that is jealous?

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Are you surprised of his jealousy? He says, Well hola hola Ana.

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It says Wallahi I am more jealous than him.

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Allah sad says Yasser Allah I cannot see that person surviving he has to go. The Prophet said Allah Azza wa said well live my jealousy is stronger than his.

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He says wala who are real women? And Allah subhanaw taala as jealousy is stronger than mine,

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actually that Iike amin alginates. I have Atilla haram Alpha LaMalfa Mahara minima Baba. And because of the jealousy of Allah subhanaw taala he makes for which all evils of that nature, you know, that are related to sexual relationship, you know, illegal sexual relationship, any evil that is related to that any sin. Allah subhanaw taala ban it completely.

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But Allah is going to talk about Xena. He says, Well, I talked to Robert Zina. He said Don't you ever come near Zina?

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In who kind of a hittin was sad? Because Zina is very evil, it's fashion or SAS Aveda and it's one of the most evil evil paths that somebody can be taken. You know, which leads to other types of evils

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of his or her Haney either. And who sal Allahu Allahu selama in Allaha, when Mina, Yara whatever to Allah and yet yella, Abdul ma herdy Mali, fossilized Fulani sama said Allah subhanaw taala has jealousy is jealous

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when the Minerva an unbeliever also has this jealousy, the jealousy of Allah subhanaw taala is to see his slave doing that what she makes it prohibited upon

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of his or her hyena Eva, and who sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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Allah had via women, Allah, the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam I said that is nobody who has more jealousy than Allah subhanaw taala I mean, he literally could have ramen for hijama Bahaman minha vaca That's why Allah subhanaw taala makes for his haram. Whether they're expose or they're hidden, Allah subhanaw taala do not even want to see you coming near them. He says what I talked about was Zina in Canada. He was absolutely

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well I had a horrible Roman Allah and that is nobody who likes to grant people excuse than ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada.

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Allah always want to have

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excuse to the people and give them chancellor to give chance to the people at last for two loves that.

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And also to cut off anything that somebody can say any hijab that somebody can be used on the day of judgment to see Allah, I did not do this because of it. Allah subhanaw taala cut off all of these footage.

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That's why he says we did that. So that on the Day of Judgment, nobody will come and say to Allah subhanaw taala I have not received anyone yet Allah I do not know about this. Allah sent the messengers so that we can cut up this. That's why the profits are large. So I said, Well, I have a lady. Hello, the Roman Allah mean Adela Delica, Ursula Rosa MOBA, she didn't know military, and that's the reason why Allah Sparta sent the messages 124,000 Prophets and Messengers for machinery to give good news and glad tidings to those people who obey Allah subhanho wa Taala and to warn those people who disagree with the prophets of the messages, and they always go against Allah

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subhanho

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wa Taala had a humble la Hillman, min Allah and that is nobody who loves to be praised. Then Allah subhanaw taala Subhanallah because he's the only one who did what deserve to be praised.

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Any praise that you give it to somebody, the source of that thing that you see from that person is Allah subhanahu wa enable the sorts of videos Allah Allah gave him ability to come and give you if Allah smarter did not give me ability and the way to think about benefiting you He will never do that. So I'll probably lay a word Walker. That's where Allah subhanaw taala says

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We'll help you fill all that will follow. What led to praise is due to Allah subhanaw taala this life is only for Allah and also in the hereafter is only for Allah Subhana

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Allah generika Mother Hannah, and because of this Allah subhanaw taala praised himself by himself.

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Officer he hadn't even thought about it he said Allahu Allahu selama If you selected Kusu Kusu Anaconda yeah Amata Muhammad in, in, in the Sahaj in the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam after praying the selective hosts of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, this is the prayer of the eclipse of the sun. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Assyria Amata Muhammad. He said, a call upon the OMA Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam is our ally in the hula had against him in Allah and Yesenia Abdul Abdul, our Tanzania, Tanzania Amma to the Prophet sallallaahu sermon said to the people because the eclipse of the sun is taking place because of our problems and the sins were committed.

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And these are the causes of the natural disaster. That's why the main question to be asked, when these things happens, why are they happened? See the earthquake when it happens? This is a clear warning from Allah subhanaw taala that people have to reflect and fix themselves.

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But nowadays 200 Allah who is looking at it in the in this way, you know, we share the news that this happens but who is reflected, we might be scared of death. But we done reflect back to see, you know, our life and check our life to see whether we do something wrong. Or everything is fine, you know,

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they don't come accept it. There is something wrong, somebody is going in the wrong direction. That's why they mentioned that when it happens in Medina, Amara, the Allahu Anhu said Medina shook a bit o'mara the Allahu Anhu told them he said if this happened again, LA or Santa Clara confy habitat he said it looks like you guys are changing. If this is to happen again then I will not stay with you in Medina habitat.

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So all of these natural disasters, tsunami flood, you know, tornado, an earthquake and all of these things, you know, the the fire in the forests and issues of this nature, they're coming because of our attitude

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that's why the best solution we have is to go back to Allah subhanaw taala first and foremost

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before anything else

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for Allah He in the hula I had an argument Allah and Yesenia Abdo our Tanzania.

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He says there is no nobody was more jealous to see you know Allah smarter is very jealous you know, when he sees his slave males name committing Zina or female slave committing Zina

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were Omata Mohammed wala Hinata Ala Moana Leatherhead tomb, Kalina, Allah baccatum cathedra. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Yamato Mohammed, he call upon the OMA. He says when Allah if you know what I know, and you see what I see if you can see what I see, you know, and you know what I know the prophets, Allah Azza wa said you're going to be laughing, very little amount of the life you'll be having in your life. It will be very little, and you will cry a lot

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to modify the color Allahumma HalBer lugged, and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam reads of his his hand, you know, and then he says, Yeah, Allah, Be my witness that I conveyed the message in the way you asked me to convey the message.

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Hello, Victoriaville Kabira Bilco Suzuha arqiva Salatin, co Sufi saloon, but your

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lemon Tamela who came we'll be talking about the lesson that we will learn behind and the wisdom and the Hekima behind the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam are talking about the issue of Zina after the selective hustle

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you know what is the connection? Why the prophets Allah sama specifically among all the sins from it's a lot so my focus on this and inshallah what will be the first thing we'll be discussing in the next class the the law as usual. Last Mahajan, law grant is good and Tofik childlife Allah subhanaw taala wish next class we will begin earlier than today's so that we can have more more more issues to discuss and sharp BarakAllahu li consolidate a canal Mike

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in the same question with this data

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set I'm going to come October

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making people call

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tomorrow

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Hamdulillah

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I find in La Mina

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inshallah it will come when I lost my tax returns but tomorrow I will be listening in sha Allah

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does that

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sit out what

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are the understand the term that allows ESBLs

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this is something that we don't check we don't go through it at all

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because Allah subhanaw taala Siefert lasered Mrs. evaton Mahalo p. So when he when he talks in Arabic, and he says, I have jealousy and we know alga era, we just leave it like that Allah subhanaw taala. And the prophets Allah sama explained that the nature of the virus, which means strong hatred against the commission of anything that Allah subhanaw taala hates.

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That's how the prophets Allah Azza mentioned. So this part we go with it. Other than that, we just keep quiet. Yeah, so we when we talk about the IRA, we talk about it in the way the prophets Allah also mentioned it, it said the mayor of Allah is to see, you know, the jealousy of Allah is to see his slave doing that which he made it prohibited upon him.

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Yeah.

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Next question from

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Sarah, welcome to La

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Mina, new to Saudi.

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Can we apply the same ruling on the brother in law with the sisters husband? And say is that?

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How was that

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she saved the other way around.

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It doesn't include all the non Muslims.

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This is just an

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this is just an example. The Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I mentioned the general principle and he only mentioned that issue of the hammer when they asked him about that because they think since it is culturally been tolerated, then maybe the prophets Allah or some I will accept that

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they get it at the first place the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I said Yakama the whole island Nisa it means do not get into a place where there is nobody except the opposite gender.

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So this is general it's applicable on everyone cousins, you know, and everyone you know, they're applicable it up it is applicable on all but then the community the companion they think maybe since it is widely practice in their in their community, that the

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husband's brother usually come to the house and stay with the wife of the brother you know.

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And everyone finds okay, maybe Islamically also it should be okay because he is the brother of the husband, you know, the Prophet salallahu selama rejected that one also and put it under the the main principle that says you are not allowed to be in a place where there is nobody except the opposite gender. This is applicable in every place in the offices nowadays. You have the the male manager, for instance, and his secretary is the female and they live in the same room. You know, technically the same room is a big room. She has her own section, but they're alone, you know, you know, that the goods one is the one that they end up marrying you here we have cases the Anna Marie he married

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her so that's that's that's the good ones. You know,

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if you're married, you know, the bad ones. Allahu Allah, you know, this is a very wrong practice.

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Can you have a manager who has a sister, their secretary should be should be assistant? Because they're going to live alone, you know, together unless if the place is open, like in some places, you see that the manager is there his secretary just next to his office. She's not living with him alone.

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Otherwise, believe me, my dear brothers, sisters, only Allah knows what is going on. Only Allah knows.

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Some of them they inform their husbands about the kind of the harassment they're getting from the managers after it is

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too late. You know?

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The last one, how would you like Grant is good suicide, it is general. It includes everyone that is not a Muharram to that person, they cannot live in one place. You know that one the prophets Allah sama was just mentioned it because they asked about it, thinking that maybe Islamically it will be it will be tolerated also in the way they tolerated. Culturally, maybe Islam also will be accepting it. And the prophets, Allah Azza wa told them no, it is also included in the general principle that a person is not allowed to be in a place where there is no one except the opposite gender, male or female.

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This one also included includes the medical doctors.

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Yeah, being a doctor doesn't mean nowadays you are, I mean, doesn't mean you are the person who the barrier between you and the sisters and the brothers is taken away. No, it remains, it remains, a doctor isn't supposed to do anything except what he needs. Yeah, if there is that need, then he does.

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When he treated a woman, you know who is not his Muharram, then he has to lower his gaze, and he has to make sure that there is nobody else, you know, sometimes it's critical please, that he has to see if there is a female doctor who will do it, it is haram for him to see, you will be sitting.

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If he does that he should reject, he should look for somebody to see and give him the information because a female doctor also can do that.

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Yes, unfortunately, what I don't understand, you know, this being a surgeon in

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gynecology, you know, you have little amount of sisters, in everywhere you go, they will tell you that we have very little amount of sisters, except in a few places. You know, I heard about few few places, but there's very, very few places, the vast majority of the places including the places where you don't expect this to happen.

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still happening, the vast majority of those who treat these case they are from their brothers, their sisters, what are they doing? You know, I always ask this question. We don't have a smart sister who can study this.

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But the answer is no. We do have Yeah, we do.

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But they don't want to study that.

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Why because they will remain with us since this later. They don't want to keep dealing with the sisters you know, some of them that justification is because it takes longer time to finish to graduate and how long it is one year two years she cannot sacrifice one year or two years for the sake of the OMA

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the Allah subhanaw taala grant is terrific and help us to see the time where this is going to be to be fixed.

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Yes call it

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the next question over here

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that

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said our Optima

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is in a worse than murder.

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Murder is worse than Xena.

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Next question.

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Me Kameen and you to run your families

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in order to curb Zina,

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one of the methods used in Malaysia is that they operate versus hotels

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and ambushed hotel rooms, unlawful couples,

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is this the right method to use or is there something better that could be used? Come again can you say the method again Can it sorry.

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So, for example, Jackie, I have a unit where they have officers they will go to hotels and add certain rooms which are suspicious

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and they will catch the unlawful couples

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which they will then process according to the law.

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So this method Correct? Yes. Is there a better there is a better method is correct method. They have to do it this is their responsibility. This is their responsibility is the government responsibility and jakim is part of the government

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face is their responsibility, what they are doing is their responsibility. But there is a better way, which is tarbiyah I believe something is missing. And we have to tackle that. Go to the massage, you know, see the participant in the massage when the rules are being taken or been given the vast majority of the spiritual Druze we do them in the massage.

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To get idea, who are the participants in the massage? The old people, you know, go to the massage and see who are the participants, the old people were the young ones, the younger ones, we isolated them from the ruse. They don't have these spiritual, that's why you see them being very easy people to be trapped by the devils.

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You know what I'm talking about, you know, the threat that is facing us, you know, in the Muslim communities, not just here in Malaysia, but in everywhere. This is the eighth at that, I mean that the issue of the atheism, people rejecting Allah smarter or having doubt in the religion, it had. It's really come into our community now.

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And why is that because the tarbiyah has been neglected by the people, we focus on the dunya. So much, the woman at home is not given her, it's not doing her job, the father is not doing his job. All of us are busy with our own dunya fancy things, we provide things which are so nice, if you see the dunya is very beautiful, but are we happy? By Allah, we're not except a few of us, but the vast majority are not happy. With all the dunya we live in a very good place, very nice place, very nice car, very nice castles, everything is nice, you know, and the salary is very high. But the real life,

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we have been losing this, you know, and check our children and see our younger children can check and see their belief, you will see a lot of tragedies Subhanallah they're always at the edge at any moment, they can just explode and go out of this lab.

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So I do believe that which was done by the by the Giants is good. And it's correct, and they have to do it. But there is more to be done, which is to focus on the tarbiyah government should empower, you know, the scholars and the younger people to penetrate the now no idea of the Shabaab you know, we should increase this and intensify give a lot of platforms where we can invite the Shabaab to come you know, we really need to do this.

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Because they always have a better I mean, I'm sorry, they always have their own secret way to do these things without the knowledge of, of anyone.

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I was in one of the countries, you know, the government banned the access to certain websites and channels. The young people in that community, they used to laugh

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and say to us, this is meant for people like us to didn't have knowledge, you know,

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for us, we have our own way.

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So how do we stop this, there is no way for you to stop it except the tarbiyah because they're smarter than you shape and smarter than in terms of knowing that illegal ways. And sometimes the cooperation of those people who are supposed to fix it, they will be doing the thing and it will go smoothly in the community.

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So I do believe this method, although it seems to be very conservative, but this is what we have to do. We need to start from scratch, we really need to penetrate the Shabaab and the younger ones, to bring them back to their consciousness. And then believe me, Jacqueline will have less a job in this regard. Because people feel a lot smarter by themselves. The younger one, they know their limitations. And we have to restructure and adjust the culture

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do not open the barrier between the male and the female everyone can sit and you know the way we see people just chillin you know, Allah, this is absolutely wrong. So that's why these things are taking place. You know, we must do things correct. And as I said, is all about the tarbiyah we just need to re address the way we're giving terrible to the animals and then we even light Allah you don't need to worry about anything for the wise no matter how much you try to stop these illegal things you know in a community will never happen. In terms of Rasulullah Salah Sama, he was able to succeed because He cleansed the heart you know, spiritually the prophets Allah azza wa jal put people in the

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right way. So that's why they do things in the correct way by themselves.

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Very simple thing that they vert a person, you know, from their wrongdoing. It does not need to do what we're doing nowadays, because you already have been prepared people to handle the life you know, in a way it should be handled. So we also have to change the mother in the house should understand that the first responsibility she has is the family in the children. The father should understand that his first responsibility is the family, whatever go against this. If you keep it aside and look for

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other alternative,

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that's my advice, you know, cooperation between the husband and the wife should be there, you know, I'm sure we should give this priority before anything else, or otherwise, the community and the environment is stronger than us, in terms of feeding the brain of our children with trash, and evil, and the children will not tell you that they have it in their brain. Because we are harsh, or we are this and that, and we don't have time for them, the children will never share with you, they will keep it you just find them executing whatever they believe they believe in, you know, in the future.

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So that's what I can see concerning this question, but I repeat, what the jakim is doing is right is absolutely right. And this is their responsibility to make sure that they they fight the evil whatever it is, but at the same time, there is a better method, which is to focus on concentrate more and more on, on what on the tarbiyah issue to give people tarbiyah. So that insha Allah by themselves will be staying away from the evil attitude without having us or any one of us being forcing them to, to stay away from it.

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The question from brother happy

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chef server,

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in a married couple adopt a child from another country.

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Yes, they can do the only thing is they cannot attribute him to themselves. Their husband cannot attribute that the child to him.

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So we call him using his name. If we know his father, we attribute him to his father. If we don't know his father, we told him we call him or her brother in Islam, you know, if let's say the law,

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in order for him to get the birth certificate, he has to have a father then we just create a name for him. We'll call him Mohammed ibn Abdullah, for instance, because Abdullah is this means the slave of Allah and all of us as slaves of Allah. So we call him shamsudeen. Even Abdullah, Khalid, even Abdullah, Abdul Rahman, even Abdullah, or a man named Abdul Rahman like this, but we cannot attribute him to the to the husband. And if the name of the husband is Abdullah, which he tried to give him another name, so that people will not think that this is a real father. And we call him Mohammed bin Abdulrahman and Abdus Salam, and at the conduce, an absolute miracle behind any name of

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Allah subhanaw taala. We attribute the Obadiah to that one.

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So how do we deal with

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dad in the house, the best is when you adopt you adopt when the child is very young, below below the age of two. When that happens if the woman is,

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is having milk, if she has milk, she can breastfeed him, she quickly breastfeed him, and then he will become like her child, and also the child of the husband. So there will be no hijab, they can uncover she can uncover herself. I mean, the normal way the woman sits in the in the presence of the Muharram she can stay next to him. Yeah, because he's like, Haha,

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I get it's that's what they should do. If she doesn't have that, if any, anyone among her sisters is breastfeeding, she she shouldn't she should she should send the boy to to them to breastfeed him and then he will still become her.

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What do you call her Muhammad

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Ali issue is known he is not related to that to the husband.

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Because the milk is not from from him.

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And what is the child if

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the child is above, then the vast majority of the scholars believe that if the child reaches the age of two, then breastfeeding never work on it. Except in a situation whereby the child doesn't have any way in his life, you know, and doesn't know any place you know, he has to live in that house and the issue of the hijab is always there. Then some scholars said we can use the hadith of silent mode Deva, even after the age of two, she can breast feed. Yeah, can breastfeed him and the case will be close. But that's very correct case and a very critical situation. Yeah. And that's According to some scholars, but most of the scholars said No, when the child passes this age in class,

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Allah grant is

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next question from Sisters of fear.

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Is it permissible to lie in a speaking test?

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In a speaking test, the no line is impermissible in every air in our all situations except in those three situations mentioned by the profit and loss

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A personal line is where but this is totally up saying something

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that has two meanings. So he intended one minute, but he knows she will understand our

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line during the battle

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with the enemies, and also line to reconcile between two Muslim brothers who are fighting each other, these are all toriana, to say something that will bring them together, although you don't intend it that much, but you know, it will bring them together. Other than that,

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line in an examination is cheating, and is impermissible.

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For example, in this case, they want to test your speaking skills.

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So they'll ask you to describe something which you might never have done in your life.

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So they didn't have to make up a story.

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Oh, you mean,

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creating a story? which did not happen?

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For example, if they have you

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ever visited any country as a tourist?

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Please describe your experience in that country? You tell them no.

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He has to tell them no.

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They have to tell them.

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Yes, tell them no, I have never visited any any other country apart from my country. But if I am to visit, this will be my plan. This is my plan, then you can create a story. And if I'm to visit Saudi Arabia, if Alaska to grant me ability to go to Saudi Arabia, the first thing is to perform the camera. And then I'll always go to the muzzle of the province a lot of semi in the morning, and then I stay there. And then I go out and do this. And that, you know, in that way that this is just making a plan. But you can tell them I visit a country, which you know, you do not visit that's a lie.

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And how can we compare this with some books of literature which were written to improve language skills?

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Well, I this is one of the stories in

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this is what I've always mentioned. We don't need fiction in this life.

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We don't need it.

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Yeah, we don't need fiction in this life, even for the sake of the language because we have correct and true stories, which are very interesting.

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We can get a very good English writer to write them in a very present a presentable way. And they will be so interested in and we have stories with with us and eat, see ha that are authentic. And even if it's weak, you know, story you mentioned. But it's not until people this story is weak,

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when you tell them that their story is weak, but I prefer also not using this because if you're talking about history, you're talking about whatever you're talking about, we have authentic narrations that are very interesting. And if you're looking for something funny, that will be attractive to others, we do have a lot. We do have a lot. Why do we need to train our kids with fictions? From the younger age, we thought we were treating them to lie.

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I do believe we do have alternatives. If we want to.

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Next question by sister Selena.

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It's an hour from Chef Sinauer. Oh, can I give it to my friend?

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Who is a devoted Christian?

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And as a friend feet close to dying? Smart, what are the things

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that I should speak to her about now?

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And what is the right method of doing in real estate?

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I guess I don't know the situation. But if it is too critical, I mean, there's speculation for how to live is very, very low. I think it should be very, very compassionate to her. very lenient, very soft and very gentle. And speak to her and eat the truth and invite her directly.

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Invite her directly, of course with gentleness don't threaten the gentleness I really love good for you. And I think I believe this the best time for you to accept Islam, please, to remember that life is not only here, except Islam and explain to her that these series of prophets you know, they are coming one after the other. You know, Jesus Christ was not the first one it was many prophets any before before him you know, since Musa came many prophets came before him, you know this however you go and Rasul Allah sama is the last one, I really advise you to stay away from anything you are not rejecting Jesus Christ, you know, I mean, you have your own way. This is your friend, put it in a

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very nice way, you know, and invited directly then come in directly because Indirect Speech nowadays is over, you know, because if it is correct, your analysis is correct that she's about to die, then definitely, you need to be very straightforward.

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With her, of course with leniency and softness and gentleness, you know, in a way in sha Allah, we hope she will be accepted in sha. Allah is one to guide her

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next question from

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Salaam Alaikum shared concern Rahmatullah

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can write someone who did dinner with someone already. Yes.

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In this case, as long as they repent, and their repentance is known, you know, since the Zina is known, their repentance also should be in public. They don't need to come and tell everyone we repent but somebody must know that this guy already repented and they're not committing Zina. They have to repent for us. If they don't repent, then whoever married them will be one of those people who are committed Zina with with them. So they have to repent first as the first condition alas Mata laid down in the Quran, they have to repent first. And then if a person wants to marry he can he can marry. What about the Mahatma have is not prescribed by the Sharia in terms of how much is up to

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them. She committed Zina well yeah, we will announce she repented

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and she was somebody wants to marry her. It doesn't mean because she committed Zina before then Hama has to be one cent, you know, it's up to her to charge whenever she wants to charge is after like anybody else.

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And the mental defect is up to the man to to accept or to reject.

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Next question from another happy

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hour.

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With regard to opting to choose a medical specialist,

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such as a gynecologist in this country,

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we need to save expensive rates, but we are given the choice

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if we cannot afford to pay, then the hospital will assign a random doctor to us most likely mean

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what should we do in this case,

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if a person is sick, and there is no any other way for him to get what he wants, she asked him to get in line he cannot tolerate the sickness then in this case, no problem needs to be treated by a female female to be treated by a male there is no problem with that.

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But what I see is all about you talk you know, when you ask for it, usually you will get it when you ask for it usually get unfortunately, you find

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the kuffar being very understanding, you know, and you find the Muslims they go mad, you know, when you tell them this, no matter how much you try to be humble, they will be upset, and they will be agree, they will be angry, you know,

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very unfortunate, you know, a Catholic will understand privacy and, and freedom, you know, because in the according to the law in the hospitals, try read those banners behind the doctors or in public areas, you will see a patient has the right to choose the way and the method he wanted to be treated.

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Especially with the government hospitals, you have all of these things been written, but then the doctor will be shouting. And since people are accepted, that's why they keep doing that, you know.

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But if somebody makes a report to the ministry, you know, that person in charge will be one and then the rest will understand, you know, what is this? The patient says he doesn't want.

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And psychologically, if somebody who's going to treat him, you know, psychologically, they will be disturbed. And that will affect the healing process. They know this

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Suhana Allah could far understand this. And our brothers don't want to understand.

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So what I'm trying to say is asked first, unless if there is no any other solution, then a person should go Carla, you have no any other option.

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Hello, grantees could

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be

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one follow up question from sisters.

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Regarding breaking into hotel rooms,

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what is this invade? Will this be considered invading people's privacy?

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No, when it comes to those public areas, because the government already laid down the rules that it shouldn't do this, you shouldn't do that.

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Good idea. So a person does that. They're violating the law. Get it, they're violating the law. And also when the sauce

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I mean, there is a suspicion you know in the, in the in the place, the Hyattsville aluminum roof when they have this information that people are they're doing this you know, they do have a right to get into the place. Because this is the time we can see the moon car is exposed now.

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You know, they cannot just have bad expectation about somebody in the house.

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Just get inside the house like that. They didn't do that. But when it comes to the hotels, people are using them because hotels is used by almost everyone.

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So when a person comes, they should come with according to the rules and regulations when they violate that law. And the government hears about that they do have a right to come in and check

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the lesson I want because why haven't hotel this is really, really big matter. You know? How to control that Allah?

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Some hotel, they'll ask for the cargo. Yeah, some of them ask some of them at the first part of the hotel, I went to a hotel. Very interesting. They already wrote no bad address, no prostitution, no anything, you know, he can come even with the inappropriate dress, he cannot come inside the place.

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So Hala days still have customers a lot.

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The next question by sister Sophia.

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What is the ruling of grant competitions,

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where the winners are awarded with cash prizes?

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Fine, is fine. It just you just have to

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be very careful because people are now doing things for the sake of the dunya.

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When we treat when we teach people we have to teach them first, how to be sincere. And then competition just should just come just randomly.

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Don't teach them in order to compete with the with their partners in the future so that they can get money.

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They're like Grant is too

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late.

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Next question, but

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this is a follow up to the question on adoption.

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If nobody in the family is able to breastfeed the baby girl,

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then she will never be a Macron yes and she will be required

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to wear hijab. It will be unable to physically touch her adoptive father Correct?

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Yeah, if the father adopted father

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is not the Mahara mom anymore because there was no breastfeeding then she has to cover herself from him.

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She has to she has to wear hijab in His presence.

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And that exceptional circumstance you mentioned

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that exceptional circumstances below that, that

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I know even what the call Salem Salem has been in.

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That's why most of the scholars rejected it. But

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there are some scholars who believe that if the situation can happen like salams situation then it should be permissible I've been on the safe side is always better.

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Being on the safe side is always better.

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Cages Alchemilla Heron was in a comfy dunya and akhira in the home ecology meeting caphyon Subhanak alarm will be handed Kushala Illa Allah and I still forgot to relate salam Wa alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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