111 The Disease And The Cure
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I find the Rahim was salatu salam ala Lutheran material alameen and uh you know, have you been hammered in sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam ala Muhammad Ali home
washing machine will ensure that your mother and guna Alfa Romeo with Allah Hatton Waterboro, and more ethically, sabar, Shaleen Mishary Gnasher alphorn whatever she was, it doesn't carry Mobarak Deadwood Deluxe Allah subhanho wa Taala anybody convener will be managed to a level one year, zealot, wherever you live where for adventure to fulfill only.
So today insha Allah. As usual Monday we have a short class, because I have another commitment after this. So we continue from where we stopped, I guess we stop at the last part of the mobster Rachel Carson. The place where the left talks about the math Sarah, the evil consequence that is generated after somebody murdered another person. So we discussed that a lot. So we will move on to the next in terms of Rankin in terms of evilness in terms of harm, which is the the action of Xena Williams villa, developed by him says well Amma Kennett Masoretes Xena album in mythos it is a sense it is a fact in Islam that the Iraq consequence that is generated from the Commission of Xena is one of the
greatest harm that takes place in the Muslim community. We're here manavi, early muster, hatin Yvonne Milan, we have the answer. And this totally goes against, it totally goes against the real maksud of the Sharia, one of the main Maqasid of Sharia, which is to protect the NASA, NASA is a lineage because life of humankind lies in on it, you know, without the protection and preservation of the NASA there will be no life on earth, there will be no life on Earth, in you can see, you know, what we are suffering from which
is a resulted from the Zener that is being committed in almost every part of the globe. You know, wherever you go, you know, in fine. This is one of the one of the complaint, either inside the homes or outside. So we have those children who don't know that parent. And we have those children who and they can trace back the parent but that good relationship because of the fact that you know that they were what he called born out of wedlock, you know, so the parent couldn't have time to give them the proper a tarbiyah that good relationship between the sun on and apparent, you know, is not there. So the Tobia is not being given to them properly, the end of corrupting the community, the
end up fighting and corrupting the community.
So everyone says this issue of Xena goes against the maxim of Sharia which is based on the preservation of the Nessa. Nessa means lineage. Everyone knows his father, you can trace your parents you can trace your mother and issues of this nature. So we have the focus in the family and you have both parents given Tobia to the child because they share the same responsibility
we imagine for Rouge and it goes against the Mac side of the Sharia which is to protect the fridge the hour of both male and female. Allah subhanaw taala says cooling more menial work booming up sorry, we're falling full jump, tell the believers to lower their gaze and to preserve and guard their modesty the private part. You know, it says Men of Saudi a they should lower some part of their gaze, because looking at the opposite gender could be permissible within certain circumstances. For instance, somebody wants to marry a sister a sister wants to marry a man. They can look at each other. There is no problem with that to know who they're going to live with.
But other than that Allah smart Allah commanded everyone to to close their eyes to lower their gaze, both male and female,
male and female, know where
Do we keep this idea in our time today? So Allah subhanaw taala commanded everyone to lower their gaze not to look at the opposite gender, but when it comes to the frottage, he did not say where I follow men Fuji, they do not say they should, they should protect and preserve some part of their private part is if you follow flujo they should guard they should protect, you know, they should preserve, they should cover their private part completely. Let's call it said because it cannot and it will never be permissible except when there is the RA or in that circumstance which is the only time where Allah smarter legalize looking at the private part that that time is the marriage when a
person married a sister or sister marry a man these are the only ones that the barrier is gone between them. Other than that everyone should close and lower that their case.
The other circumstances are the circumstances of Dawa and there is an operation which is supposed to be done or the Carvela the midwife that is supposed to help the sister to deliver a child and it also as you can tell them to look to close their eyes, you know how they see what is going there? Or there is a sickness the doctor somebody who is an expert want to see the place so that he can prescribe the proper medication or surgery or any other thing which you guys already know. Other than that there is no way for it to be to be legal. Professor La Silla told that person who says yes to Allah out in our mana to another our our place jasola Tell us which part of our our eyes okay and
which part of our alright is not okay for us to show it to others.
He gave him that strong statement, which is a maximum, you know, to be used a general principle to be used in
everything that is related to this nature. He says that for our target lemons objective is to preserve and protect and cover your aura except for your wife. That's it.
In lemons auditing, he said except for your wife. So that kind of sitting we do at home, you know, whereby the hour could be exposed to everyone just because they're a family member. I think by now we should understand it is wrong. Because it led to so many tragedies in the family, where you can see the increase in the incest taking place in the family. We have the lowest rate.
Yeah, and as long as we are taken from the West, we are going
more and more until we merge with them or the LGB law. And the prophets Allah Lissa Ma said, you're going to be following them have the will called the table. In a step by step you're following the previous nations and the prophets a lot someone who said that they said the ultra light and a hoodoo and Asana ILF and a man in su e then alpha man.
Even he says Who else? And subhanAllah you can see our people nowadays, what are you doing? Following the West, you know, precisely from both sides, the sisters and the brothers.
The way education nowadays become useless for many of us, sister goes for education brothers goes for education, but when they come back, you know, that mentality is there, they reject and deny all the principles.
So that's why family life is terrible, you know, in many instances is terrible, especially from the younger ones. So the parents should take drastic action concerning this matter. And understand what is going on.
The environment you taking your daughter or your son should be conducive. The first thing you should be thinking about is religion. Is it okay for my child to study in that place without affecting his religion? If it is not okay, forget about education, Wallah. hemodialysis, this will give you an indication even if they go home and stay without going to school. That is absolutely correct. And a blessing actually from Allah subhanaw taala to you. Don't worry about education, that education will never take them anywhere in the eyes of Allah. They're not here to stay. We're here to
serve and to please Allah Sahara to so that when we go back to him, we enjoy life there. So if you build this dunya you focus on that education, the modern education I'm talking about, and at the same at the same time you compromise the Turbie of your daughter, Allah you will be paying the price when you meet Allah subhanho wa Taala because you can say that no, she's mature she's she can do it. You know, you will respond to
Well, you're the one who took her to the place, she is responsible because she reaches the age age of maturity.
But you are responsible because the One Who permitted is you.
So don't be surprised, that will be one of the hindrance on other obstacles that a person will be facing, when he meets Allah subhanaw taala on on the Day of Judgment.
So, tarbiyah first, Islam first tarbiyah first more than education and any other education comes the second
it comes the second
risk is controlled by Allah subhanho wa Taala we should really
and understand this properly, you should understand this property loss Mahershala grant is good and Tofik but this is really serious matter because nowadays we have so many so many issues concerning this matter.
Our children have been brainwashed you know, in the in the past you know life has been made easy and people are simple to understand responsibility they understand what to be done, you know, when they at home when they move out of the house they do know what to be done.
Now when they go out,
they can stay with others maintaining that good manners and terbium it is gone. Everyone wanted absolute freedom because this is the dictation given to us by by the Western Community. Their their society is totally totally totally gone in terms of family life. And they want us to be like them. Like what Earth Mangala fan says what that is zanier to an Akula. Nisei is an Aina is a Zania
sister who is committing adultery, she always wants to see she always wished that all the sisters also join and that
that's not you know, so when the community is destroyed, they always feel jealous of us, why are communities still intact.
So they are bringing these attitudes and manners and behaviors, you know, to our own community. And subhanAllah we are taking it you know, our kids are taking it and sometimes with the support of the parents, we think this is freedom somebody's going to cry in the future.
Take my word somebody's going to cry that in in the future. Yeah, because this live alas pointer designed the system and he kept it like this in the way you say it, you plant good, you're going to see
the plant evil what is going to be generated is
and Allah will not send an Angel to come and tell you to what he wants. But he will leave you with the system. The system is function is structured in the way Subhanallah somebody who doesn't want to listen you just live in stay and watch will look good for him but the system doesn't know anything except to produce the result according to the samples been given to to it.
That's my simple example. I said it's just like the calculations we are doing the result is the same but method might be different but the result is the same you know people correcting we get a correct answer.
But wrong you get wrong answer. This is the system in this life. Now many people cry Wallah how many people Krav Maga persists this and before people have been telling them they don't want to listen, you know? When I say cry, I mean literally crying, you know, literally cry.
So Allah subhanaw taala says, Well, you had the cupola, last hotel is one in you.
He says we have to go live, so I'm going to lie on my feet and physically.
It can cheat you or I can cheat a loss.
So please, my dear brothers and sisters, those of you who haven't children, please open your eyes more and more, more and more those of you who are not having children, open your eyes, you know, protect yourself and also plans starting from now. In the future what I lost once I've gone to children opening up this
if you couldn't find a school that can give good Tobia to your kids, keep them home, and don't worry about the complaint and the criticism and whatever the community is going to tell you just don't worry, don't pay attention to them. Those ones will be the one who will take you to the grave and put you inside and cover you.
Make sure what you're doing is correct. According to that which and last one to loves and don't care about the comment from the people because Allah smart Allah says through the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam do not worry
You know, don't worry, he said I will take care of them. You please Allah subhanaw taala in the way the community don't like, you know, don't worry. The last one to say is I will take care of that, that part very interesting life to read this you should worry, Allah will take care of that. And you know what does that mean? If Allah is taking care of that side, you can do it alone. You need him to support you. He told you just go just bind your business. I will do the job for you.
In jihad, he says you should prepare
and then go Allah's motto do the rest. Here he didn't bring a dress a prepared some weapons. So something he says just go ahead. He says I will be taking care of that
Carlos Ciana to automatic whatever came up are available at our at Walburga event announcement excited equilibrium Emirati Asahi. So this Zina is going against, you know, the preservation of the honor that Alas, pointer plays in this human kind, which is necessary for us to survive. And also, Allah's water put a strong barrier and a protection, you know, against anything that will put enmity and hatred in the heart of the believers.
Yeah, definitely. You Allah Zina brings enmity and hatred.
Tell me how is it possible for person to know the one who committed Zina with his daughter, with his mother with his sister with his wife,
not only him, his family members, if they are within their consciousness, they're going to hate that person, and they might hate the whole family members and whoever is related to him.
His friends also when they see and they know the thing, they are going to have this at our, you know,
this is really dangerous, dangerous, dangerous, you know, in Islam, Unity must be established and it is one of the means to establish the unity is to remove the hatred and enmity among the Muslims.
As long as Zina exists,
removing this hatred and
enmity from the heart might not be possible.
it brings that which brings enmity and what is that destruction of the wife of your brother?
Not literally brother, biological brother, any any person amongst a Muslim says your brother's
war Panetta, he and his daughter, because when somebody commits in he's doing it with one of these sisters, you know,
what Okta he or his sister
will only or his mother
or his grandmother always and you're not one of these the woman that a person is committing Zina with is going to be one of these
with either Erica Corolla.
If you look at him says, that contains the destruction of the universe.
You might find that exaggeration will lie it is not. It is not. It is not.
Karla Telly muffs sanitary pads leafy Alconbury. So since this is the case, that might be the reason why Sherry put the Zener to be next to the murderer, murderer first
and then sinner is the second.
While he has Khurana Hala, who subhanho wa Taala Thank you Toby. And that's where Allah subhanho wa Taala he combine between the Zina and the murderer in his book and the Sunnah of Rasulullah sallallahu. So Senator Rasulullah he's
also the WHO vicinity his allies and the prophets Allah sama put them all together in his sin when he talks about the Xena and the Hadith of aliveness, if you remember, I used them the other call and teach Allah Allah. Allah for my you follow and tuck Tula wallet the caliphate and yet Avaloq call it them or you call unto Zania Khalifa Jeric Al and so last a lot let's put them all together in one place, just like what Allah subhanaw taala did in the Quran when he says we're living in a lady Ramallah here's
what I have to do and Neff seletti Haram Allahu Allah.
The last one here tell us why Islam, Allah subhanaw taala also combined between Xena and Amrita
and those who are the root of the Massey, as we always mentioned, accordingly, Ma Ma Ma
recommend Allah, La Allah, Allah Allah Allah MOBA, dill parsley che and
he says, I've never come across something that is more evil
than Xena after the murder, you know after the murder, the murder comes after the ship
after the murder, I don't know anything that is worse than that they say
that is worse than and they said
caralluma Muhammad, Allah Allah and by the by the petalinux A che and all them Amina Xena. He says I don't know anything that is worse than Zina after the murder, murder first and then Xena
woken up Arcada Subhanahu wa Taala no matter who
be called he will live in Elijah rownum Allah He Allah and alpha when I have to learn enough seletti Haram Allahu Allah will happy what is known for my EF and dedicated
you thought that we owe will pay homage to Ursula Doofy Mohan
in lemon turbo Amana well I mean I'm an unsightly handful hola Erica you but did Allah who say to him has an ad or kind of La have a photo Rahima momento Amina Salah Han for endo which will be the LA he metallic.
Allah subhanaw taala emphasize on this meaning
he says will Lavina lead or Wynnum Allah Hara
and those who are not invoking other than Allah subhanaw taala they don't
make partner with Allah subhanho wa Taala they don't call anyone other than Allah.
When I up Tarun enough Salah to haram Allahu Allah will help and they don't killed the soul that Allah subhanho wa Taala made prohibited in libel help except with the with the truth with justification which only the authorities have a right to do that on Somebody kill another person they should kill him on somebody did something which he deserves to be killed the authority killed not as
well as known and they don't commit Zina it can see these three root of the mousy or mention all in one eyes while living a lie the Golem Allahu Allah Anna well afternoon enough silletti Haram Allah Allah would have been what as you know, so Ushaped motion Schilke is mentioned and then
killing or murder is mentioned a second and the third one mentioned that last Maha rotala is is this in
May of Aldelo kala Kafala whoever did that will get a big sin from a last minute quota. You the Afula will either be on welfare and the punishment will be multiplied.
You know not the sin is going to be multiplied but the punishment Allah's matter will double it
because as I said these are the root of nozze all of the other MAUSI are connected to these.
Welcome to defeat him Ohana and he is going to remain in how in a state of humiliation.
In lemon town, Allah's Mercy is accepted those who repent.
you can see Allah is one to put them together, why Allah azza wa jal connection because of the evil coincidence that is generated
from their condition.
For Karana Zina, Abhishek or Katelyn loves to Allah subhanaw taala combined Zina with Sheikh and murder will geologists vertical holo the field either been Mala Mala mir vile Abdu Mala Melfa Mooji Derek
and Allah subhanho wa Taala
he combined between
the those great sins a shake Zina
and also murder
and also he made the punishment for this been going to hell forever and ever.
Except when there is something which remove this punishment and cancel it. Stop it from existing what is that? A Tober is Milan Melfa Labdoo delicate
when email while I'm at this site. The last one I want to say is in lemon Tara, Ramona Well, I made a sleight of hand for in a way to win for all Aiko but did Allah say yeah, Tim has an ad
kinda long before Rahim, Allah says, except for those who believe
he committed Sheikh so we need Eman to be there.
What Toba and he repented to Allah subhanho wa Taala
when I'm on the Salah and he committed righteousness.
So he believes in Allah subhanaw taala he repents from all of those shifts that he had committed before. And also, at the same time, he observed righteousness. He fixes himself. He fixes attitude and madness and he becomes a righteous, righteous person.
Well, I'm gonna why I made a solid
for it now. He says an 11 year old Abdul Valley cryptobiotic Well, Imani Willa, Melissa.
So as long as the person did not do that, he might go to hell forever and ever and ever. Forever means he will never come out of it. And you know, what does that mean? We'll call it Allah. Walter Columbus Xena inner who can have a he shouldn't was that Sabina? Allah subhanaw taala says, Don't you ever come near Zina?
In the hookah he shaitan was a severe because it is five
you know, five issues or la vida is evil. The sin
disgusting thing is 5g Something that is disgusting.
And goes beyond the limit, you know in terms of the commission of the evil and the same
for Kabara unfortunately VFC will who will cover the holiday lady CAD Tana who has stuck around for a short video recording Hi there in the cathedral middle Haiwan so it says Allah subhanho wa Taala he talks about the evil consequence of the Zina and Xena becoming a fascia you know something that is disgusting and it's bad you know, so evil you know in a way it is firmly established in the nature of not just the human being even many Haiwan at animals also the the likes
it says not just human being hating it even many animals also the like it
can either corrupt Buhari if you so he just like what is mentioned by Makati in his abdomen moon and Audi
this hadith that is quoted by somebody with my mood and Bukhari although it's inside Buhari but yeah, those Liberalist and those people who Yanni SWAT Allah, they lack you know, nothing, you know, I mean, they lack knowledge you know, they don't have anything you know, in knowledge except the basics. And they don't want to submit to Allah smart and the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, they submit toward satisfy that accord and desire.
They rejected things like this. Why because it doesn't go with the ACA
it doesn't go DACA
you don't want to talk about this because which are gonna be talking about
so he says Oliver moon,
he narrated Hadith inside
cholera he filled diarrhea to para that. He said I saw during time of diarrhea group of monkeys, kept them you know, a monkey Zanna be killed that a monkey committing Zina with another monkey
you know Subhanallah he said in giant here before Islam, I saw monkey committing Zina with another monkey
if I step out Kuru Dolly, Allah Hema, so the rest of the monkeys gathered
seven other place
this monkey was sleeping
a bit old monkey
and another one was sleeping on on him.
So it looks like
husband and wife
were sleeping. And then suddenly she weighed
down. The female woke up
A younger monkey came.
There was some, some things and some things I invited her to come. She went
so they had lationship when she came back to the old monkey, she lay down next to him. When he woke up, he smells something when he smiles he started screaming the rest of the monkeys gathered on them, both of them this one and nylon
be gathered on them that the female and the one who did this you know, with
Faraja whom I had
they throw things on them until death they kill them
that's why he said trying to Orangemen filter here he said I saw a stolen till death in the die here and he narrated this, this story.
Who are these monkeys? Well, Allah, Allah, Jin, in Jin animals, whatever, when it happened, you know, you might criticize some of the scholars said his understanding that this is regime, but he sees in Islam that when somebody comes in, and this is what happened.
And he says exactly in the animals also.
That's why I will claim says, Zina goes against even the nature of some of the animals not just the human being even some of the animals don't like it
some of the animals don't like it,
I had a friend called Muhammad
and Muhammad mochiko
he was the shepherd of those Fulanis
here is narrating things like that mean to me like this.
He said So hello, I see sometimes
a cow is what they looking for. For a male
looking for me.
That is nobody except this her child. She will be trying try and try and reach out we'll run away doesn't want it we'll do anything with another car. But this one no.
He said I've seen this many times, many times many times in the car.
She would go looking for somebody but
that one he will not accept
it is his mother
God listen to the news and see what is going on in some of the western communities.
Those who we portray as the role model we're following them.
He told me about horse. He said horse if you
you I mean it's worse than a car in this you know or better than a cow
is every closed the eyes of the horse and let him had relationship with his mother for instance. When he opened his eyes, see some of them buys their private parts until death.
Out of anger of that which happened. So I'm just trying to add on top of that, which he will ignore.
IMS is mentioned when he says it goes against
you know, the fitrah and the nature of even the animals.
Anyone who is within his consciousness will never accept or tolerate sin
will never accept or tolerate
will never accept or tolerate
call for it. So our van moonset arrived to fill January yet then Zanna
Baker that info HTML Kuru Allah Hema for Raja Maha Maha Tamata.
So, it says they stone them till death
from Kabbalah and a variety Biella who saw SAP then in the holster below halachot in boiling water current for dunya
what's the beauty of having one reason one accounting field
just give me one second
So, he says similar manner Hey, it says
for us about for Matsubara anxiety be under Husa Severen
allocating worldwide water Karen
wolf decoded for dunya was a real rather than was his in one Academy
and then Allah subhanaw taala mentioned that
this Zina with the other villa is a very evil path
you know very very evil you know a lot smarter says later Carabas Zina in the hookah hittin wasa as a vida. Last mahalo tele says fascia wasa Sevilla
so as Avila means an able path that leads to other intervals. It doesn't just make a person you know,
just committed to Xena but once it happens, it is going to open other doors.
It is going to open other doors to other people's
products in the Husa Bureau halachot in new abattoir in wealthier car in fifth dunya it is a path and the door to destruction,
corruption and the punishment and also need and this suspected humiliation in this life. You will love all of these heroes sometimes you know these people when they commit the sinner, if you look at him even after the Tober
you know even after the Toba the person cannot relax you know
even after the Toba he cannot relax you
see nice very even after a person repented to Allah subhanaw taala and go back to him, but to see him having the relief and relaxing this is going to be you know very difficult for
some of these people will be telling them relax, whatever happens it happens, but Subhanallah his demeanor cannot forgive him you know, he will keep on remembering the failure. And this is very dangerous because it is going to affect the productivity in the future.
But this is a message for all of us, you know,
is a message for all of us
to understand how evil is this look at how alas Martin says he said WhatsApp SAP. If you're looking for a path that is taken by somebody that is so evil to make that decision is a path of Zina
from the face the person will never realize
no you can see this person being depressed in the future. And also he worries so much this is what every time is talking about here. You will receive nothing but humiliation in this life. And also Wahhabi was a really easy and fee filler.
And also it is a path that facilitate heavy punishment in the hereafter when a person meets Allah and also disrespect and humiliation and embarrassment in the presence of everyone.
You know the punishment of the zoonotic is unique. If you look at the Hadith of the Rohingya, so he Bukhari when the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam I saw several punishment being given to different types of people in their graves when they die before they meet Allah subhanho wa Taala the punishment for Zina is unique. The prophets Allah Azza wa saw a group of people being placed in a pot you know a to know the prophets Allah Azza wa said the upper part of it is very small, the lower part of it is a bit bigger. Allah put them inside and none of them was wearing anything. They were naked.
And a fire is coming from somewhere. You know when the fire reached them. The Privacy Law someone said Bobo, they will scream they will shout can see the oil coming from their party
as color sir in the way they enjoy because Cena is every part of the body
enjoin for how many seconds two seconds sometimes one minute or even less than that
so that's that's dinner you know, so President joy the whole part of the body is enjoying for a few seconds
but it led to what to a great punishment where every single part of the body will be suffering for years, years and years a person happened to go out of hell but that suffering for a number of years you know according to what I lost one to ones is going to take place
that's why they say luck I have a feel of button love getting bad and now that is no good in any in German and in taking that a person who is enjoying
in taking that person who is enjoying to to help
that last mile to the grant is Tofik I guess this is the best place in sha Allah to stop as I said I have another
commitment in seven minutes inshallah. So Rama I guess you are there
if there is any question please do let us know
the first question
can a person use the knowledge from modern sciences especially from astronomy this galaxies of the cosmic bodies to explain Jana such as person can give the size for Galaxy so as to draw people's attention towards
I don't know what kind of explanation is
are we dealing with here? If you are saying that Jana is like this, because of this knowledge and the science, this is absolutely wrong. This is deviation actually and humiliating the paradise and putting it down. Yeah, but using that which Allah smarter they use to bring closer to the mind of the people the nature of paradise, this was okay last month we talked about Hodor Lane he talks about fruit in Jannah he talks about things which we have similar in this life but we all know that they are not equal at all it just sharing is about sharing the names but in terms of equality they are not equal at all and they will never be equal. So using the galaxies or astronomy you know to
precisely describe the Jana the size of Jana this is absolutely wrong.
Good idea but during that which Allah subhanaw taala does to bring closer to the minds of the people that understanding about the paradise this one is fine inshallah you get it that's why if I'm to advise, I will advise the person to go out of that which Allah subhanaw taala mentioned because everything you are going to be saying which is not that which he mentioned in the Quran or in the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam is wrong. Why is he wrong? Because he did not see it. How can you describe something that you never saw? If you say John nice like this because of this and that how do you know?
We'll never be statue you know. So since we did not say it we cannot describe except that which the One who created it told us so restrict ourselves to that which Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam is really necessary and safer for everyone if Allah subhanaw taala ask us, How do you know that Jenna is like this? What do you think we can see?
Bella Grantchester is
a lovely question.
Do people also find out on the Day of Judgment, if someone had given charity in their name, or made to offer them without anyone just trying to find out about
the one who committed a wrong thing that's against them, if they want in the hereafter Allah supporter can show them the one who was kind to them, but that person who did the thing, he will remember everything he did. But if somebody did good for you, the day of judgment and last monitor did not emphasize on this record, there is no case between you and him
to get an idea, you will be dealing with those criminals against you or when you commit something wrong against others
in exchange of good amongst the Muslims SWANA according to my knowledge is not going to be mentioned. You know, accepting few instances, but to say that whoever did good Allah
Want to bring him and let you know that this is the person who is doing this, this and that? There is no need for that. He needs it on the Day of Judgment, Allah azza wa jal remind him about his good deed, you know, in case you forgot some of them Allah smarter will remind him about them.
Allah grant is still isn't mine
country in Europe, the men and women interested in marriage have
a profile like a CV, in order for the couples to understand each other's hobbies, likes, dislikes.
Their like nature, formal meeting is arranged with the other side, in the woman's residence.
This is against
look at look at the family life
is like what they call an Arabic hash.
So light, you know, and fragile. It's like something that doesn't exist. It doesn't have that base.
Because marriage is serious. It's very serious, many of the younger ones they did they take marriage as a joke, you know,
remind you see this?
Yeah, that's why I
asked you to focus on two things righteousness.
Righteousness means to very good person between her or between him and Allah subhanaw taala. The relationship between Allah smart between him and Allah is very good. That can help you to stay with a person that fears Allah and you you really need this. And the second thing is good manners.
What is she like, when she jokes? Why does she What kind of hobbies he has? Or he has, you know, all of these are areas of concern Islamically
unfortunately, we focus on those things that are insignificant, and we neglect the significance, significant, you know,
issues and elements. That's where we end up getting into trouble.
Wife is not happy in the husband is not happy then of the day what happens divorce.
A person should be very careful. Yeah, in some circumstances where the CVS you don't see the ECU talking about yourself, you know, one take the CV of anyone on Earth and see, when did he ever talk about himself in the wrong way?
here is the CV am Ibrahim
the best you know, I am very good at this I'm good in that and this is impatient and righteous you know, a sister will say this brother will say this but when they meet each other than the truth is going to be revealed. Anyone who married amongst you can tell some of these things that I'm mentioning
things are going to be discovered after the marriage. But since there is a strong interest to marry, everyone known has a chance to prove I mean portray himself in the best way that he believes the other partner will accept.
So we have to be very careful to me CV in marriage is useless.
Why works is you go and do a field research about your partner. How would that person is the comment you get from others. That's the most important thing because you are also others you know, you're also amongst the others the way he is behaving towards them, he is going to behave towards you the worst you know why do I say that? Because those others he meets them occasionally
within certain circumstances, but you he is going to stay or she is going to stay with you sometimes 24 hours you know 24 hours, the level of respect between you you guys are going to be pretty long. So what controls this is righteousness and good manners that will make the goal and that will make the boy understand that that is somebody who is between them in this marriage and that's Allah subhanaw taala okay bring the last month in the system. They enjoy respect you see the husband respect and nobody in the way he respect his wife and the wife is respecting the husband nobody she respect like this, you know?
I mean, she's respecting the husband more than we should respect any, any buddy. Friends of humans.
Whoever is asking this question over Can I guess, I believe focusing on those areas that allows me to focus on is the only thing that can save our marriages and bring happiness to the marriage. That's what extended the CB CV that talks about the hobby and
sometimes the hobby becomes tragedy in the house, the husband doesn't like that hobby. The wife doesn't like that hobby. But before the marriage, they both accept it, because this is what the Alpha likes. A few days later, when things started to, you know,
I mean, bring out themself in a more realistic way, you know, then each and every one of them will start thinking differently
I love going to still fake and put volcano life but for the person who couldn't get the access to
mean doing research about the girl or the the husband they are going to marry then they go for the CD you know, that's the extent of the ability but I would never recommend this
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Jose, as long as the Sox is thick,
which doesn't show the skin then it is fine. The one that the controversy is so strong on is this the socks that is very light. So light in the way you can see the skin. So some scholars said you can still wipe on them. But if you want to be on the safe side, that will be the best those socks that are so light in the way you see the skin you know, it's like it just just another layer of the skin, you know, it's better to avoid them and wash your wash your feet and you go you go away from the controversy Shala but if the sock is fake, there shouldn't be any problem with that either.
Can be like for the socks during winter, you
know, wiping out over the socks is either you are traveling or you are not traveling both can is just about the duration.
It is about the duration. If you are a resident you're not on a journey, you can wipe on the sock, you know for 24 hours, after 24 hours you have to take them off as long as you put them in the state of Baja after you make Google and then you put them or it goes to the for Geneva and then you put them you know so you can keep wiping on them whenever you make, although again,
they get it for 24 hours if you're not MSRP. But if you're on a journey, you have three days three nights, three days, three nights. Yeah shower.
Question behind the Hutchins center right slower.
In the aisle we mentioned
those who have committed to killing or Xena have been promised eternal punishment and how effective those Toba and he might righteous actions. Does that mean that we Tober the punishment of the dunya mentioned by a year will be lifted as
this is a controversial matter if your claim is also having his own opinion concerning this matter for personal repents. Do we take off the punishments according to the vast majority of the scholars? No. Repentance only affects the punishment in the hereafter. But it doesn't affect the punishment in this dunya. Except if a person repents before the case reached authority. If a person repentant before the case which authority, the punishment in the dunya also is gone. Both no punishment in the dunya authority shouldn't look for him after you repent.
To good idea, we shouldn't go and look for a person after your event. So if a person repents the cases close, but when the case reached our authority, repentance will never work here. Repentance will never work. So in this case, when the case switched authority, he has to be punished in this life. But since he already repented, it will not harm him in the hereafter.
That punishment will be an explanation for him, and he shall live get a better place in the hereafter.
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it's regarding the the inverse of the socks
so how long should the socks meet? Is it okay those are ankle socks? Yeah, as long as sad as long as it reaches the ankle, because this is the mallet fourth the place where a person is washing when there is no sawed off on his feet. So as long as they cover that one there is a condition mentioned by the majority some scholars said no not at all because the place where you're wiping is not up to the ankle because you wipe on top of that the leg sorry the feet
but to be on the safe side, you if you want to wipe on it where the socks to be up to the ankles to cover their ankles
just one last question. It's just a yes or no.
I see the marriage CV thing being practiced by Desi Muslims. And if I understand it correctly, is more like an initial introduction, not intended for the research. So is that okay?
If it is just initial introduction, like the way they do nowadays, even as some students are knowledge, they are doing it just initial introduction, but this is not the base. You know, this this is Who am I am I'm
any six year old person?
I study I graduated from the University of Suwon. So, you know, those simple introduction, no need to talk about an patient I'm not patient. I'm righteous, righteous, no. Just simple introduction. I live in this space, I'm located i My parents are still alive, you know, issues of this nature so that the person will know how to trace that partner.
This one is fine. As four dimensions off, I am righteous. I'm good. I like this. I like gamble leave. I like studying. I like this and that is all a journey. I don't know how to call them either. But I didn't see the use of them at all.
As I see the use of them, because most instances when they they get married, they see different things.
This is why it's always happening.
Because they're talking now trying to
Why do you call mentioned things which will make the other partner they're looking for interested in the marriage?
And I grant is good and Tofik
sad and every one
of their man has
requested yes or no and I give you an ACS
Okay, see you in sha Allah I have another class now with
some students. So Allah subhanaw taala going to go and Tofik and be with you wherever you are. In Nairobi college Emilian Kafeel Subhana Allah humblebee 100 Mashallah in South Africa to relate As salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh