Man Was Created From Haste

Ibraheem Menk


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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen Illa Allah al Amin will be history in Walsall, Jana Salim, ala Tamil Gambia you are Emmanuel mousseline. Nabina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi Jemaine Allah Marisa Hala, Elana Jain Telugu Salah one teta Jadwin Husna either she said Allah, Allah vs zero Allah to ask you to attend min bill how you Ruby can stream we thank Allah horrible is that he will Jellal for having gathered us here today once again. And we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to surround us with the melodica and to cause his mercy and his Sakina to descend upon us, and to raise us with the MBR alayhi wa Salatu was Salam, and those whom he has mentioned

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with them, I mean,

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Allah horrible is that you are Jellal speaks about the nature of man and he says that in his nature is to hasten Hooli can Insano Minaj

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The human being has been created with a hastening within him, Allah who believes that you will Jellal elsewhere says in the Quran, what can insane why Joomla and the human being is ever hastening he's ever moving from point A to pain point. And in a third eye, Allah who believes that you will general tells us that the human being is so fast that Why are there only certain will be shadowy?

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welcome in San Juan Shula and the human being he calls out to Allah subhanho wa Taala with a dua that he assumes is good, but it is actually bad for him and the human being is ever hastening. You see, so at times we actually call out to Allah subhanho wa Taala Oh Allah, I want to get married. Grant me this woman, Oh Allah, I want a good business. Grant me this business, Oh Allah, I want such and such a deal in my life. Give it to me, Oh Allah, I want such and such a car. Yet we don't realize that perhaps our end our demise is written in that very thing. So at times, we even hasten in our dua, and this is why Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam lambs, Andrea, his dua was always

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to do with that which is general he would generally make a dua or a banner, Tina feed dunya, Hassan, our Lord grant us goodness in this world. What goodness is only Allah will is that you will dwell on those we don't really know what we learn here it has Santa and goodness in the era as well working on other Banagher and save us from the punishment of the fire. So only Allah who believes that he will general really knows what is good for us. Hence, we should come down in everything that we do think for a moment before we ink because once we have spoken, once we have done, it is over. It's out. You can try and make reparations, but then it is not the same. So always take a moment before

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you react instead of reacting respond to a situation think there is a difference. One is a reaction. As soon as the person says something, you immediately have a response. And the other one is to respond calmly, slowly. Hold on. Let me think about this. Let me think whether my actions make sense or not whether what I'm going to say makes sense or not. And we find that a group of people came to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the year of delegations. This was when people were entering into Islam in multitudes groups of people at a time entering into Islam. This delegation comes to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And as they get there, they actually hasten to see

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the messenger. They didn't wash themselves after the long journey that they had undertaken. They didn't tie their camels except for one man. And that man took his time he cleaned, cleansed himself. He freshened up, he tied the camel and then he came to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So he tells the messenger salAllahu alayhi wa sallam, you know what? I was with them, but I took a bit of time to prepare and then come to you, and perhaps they were just a few minutes between when they met the messenger and he met the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells him in fee con la Hustla attorney, you he bow you he boom Allahu wa rasuluh

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indeed, in

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You are two qualities that the messenger and Allah, they both love them. So this man is surprised. I'm only new to Islam. What is it that these two qualities are ya rasool Allah, so the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he says to him, and him more, and

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you are Clement, you are easy going for barent You take it easy, and you win win angry, you take it easy, and you also are calm. Those are two qualities that Allah and His Messenger love. Yet this man was new to Islam. So we can see that taking our time is actually loved by Allah, Allah bool is that you will gel. Yes, there is also the other extreme, where a person procrastinates and wastes time and doesn't actually get to it. And by the time they want to do something, perhaps the chances also over that is the other extreme, we shouldn't be at that end of the spectrum either. But we should take our time as well we find ourselves hastening, you know, today, if you look at the world of

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connectivity that we are in, and you take a look at the devices that we have, we connected more to the internet than ever before. In fact, if our phones are missing, it is as though a part of our bodies is missing. We literally look for it saying hey, where is it? Where is it, because we can't live without it, what happens we receive a message we respond immediately we forward it immediately. Take a moment, even if that person has seen that you are online, it doesn't matter. Take a moment it is not urgent, it is not a matter of an emergency, take a moment think and then respond to the person.

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In addition to this, what we do is when we receive a message, we forward it immediately. And that is a very dangerous trend. Especially when that news may be about another human being that news may be about a group of people you may be forwarding something that a person a few minutes ago was doctoring creating making false Yet Allah horrible is that you will Jellal tells us yeah are you and then you

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confess you can be not that fat Debian Oh, to Cebu gonna be Jaha Allah. So it was me while I'm if I'm too nerdy me mean, oh you who have believed when a facet a criminal comes to you then clarify. Make it clear. Take a moment to find out whether that is true or not. Perhaps you may affect a people with ignorance, you may have someone with that forwarding of that message. You may harm someone by simply passing on that message quickly without thinking for those who fall to demean. So you actually become regretful about what you had done. So, take a moment before you become regretful and we find many a time in anger. We become angry and we say something quickly we do something

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quickly. This is the moment to practice that forbearance rather about a woman who Junoon anger the first part of it is madness. You lose your mind. You don't know what you are doing and saying so you say and do anything while you honor them. And at the end of it, there is regret. We start to think a Why did I do that? I shouldn't have done that. But it's now said it's now done. So take a moment. You see

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this anger? Many times we find people practicing it when they are angry or they say anything and do anything when they are angry with the spouses. So you find a woman asking for divorce. I want divorce I want divorce I want divorce. You find a man saying Tala three times Hey, I divorce you. I divorce you I divorce you. In fact, 100 times Allah who has Have you thought about the repercussions of your words. Even Ibis Radi Allahu Anhu. He says about the people what is wrong with them? They utter divorce the three times in anger and then they come to me and they asked me for a way out and this happens till today. You find the man becomes angry. And then he says the divorce and then he

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comes to the shed. Yeah, but there is an opinion. No hold on. You

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said it. You believed three is three you never believed three is one from the beginning. And now you coming to look for a way out it is over your marriage is over. So even Abbas Robbie Allahu Anhu. He actually says, what do they want me to do for them? They've already said it. They've already done it. So Allah believes that he will Jalan actually tells us that even in Talak, even in Talak, the man should actually keep the woman in the home.

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The man should actually keep the woman in the home after the Talaq, she should not return to a parent's home for no reason. Yes, if the man was abusive physically, or there is certain harm that may come about a serious harm that may come about she can return to her home, but she should not return to her home. Ordinarily, she should remain in the home and keep working and keep doing what she was doing cooking, etc, cleaning, no problem. She can keep doing it all until the time has passed and then she shall go to her home. Why? Because Allah Allah bless that he will. JLL wants you to think for a moment, hold on, I no longer the only thing that I'm not doing with this woman is

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being physically intimate with her. But the rest of it, she's still here, I can see what she did for me, I can see the value that this woman holds in my life. Besides that one thing, I can see it all. So perhaps I made a mistake, perhaps I hastened the inside couldn't be my roofing, at home, son, at that point, when you reach the end, then you either hold her with goodness, or you let her go with goodness also. So Allah horrible is that you will gel even in palak, even in that which, where a man separate from his wife, he has told us to take our time. A man comes through Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and as he enters into the message masjid, the messenger salAllahu alayhi wa sallam

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is sitting with some people. So this man goes and he performs Torah cat and the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sees him and then he comes to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, so he tells him it'll fossa Leafa in McCallum to suddenly go back and perform your Salah again for indeed you have not performed Salla Allahu Akbar. Why, why? He says, so the man goes back and he performs his Salah once again. And the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam once again tells him here to Jarrett fossa lever in McCallum to suddenly go back and perform your Salah once again, for indeed you have not performed your Salah Allahu Akbar. So the man goes back he performs your Salah, the

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third time that it happens he says Allah He oughta suit Allah Allah. Allah, O Messenger of Allah. I don't know any better than this. Alinea Rasul Allah teach me on messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells him that either automata Illa Salah when you stand for Salah, then through must be little Qibla then face the tabler to Mecca bill, then make the tech Vera truly haram and then stand and then when you go down into court, take enough time until you are completely at ease completely calm. And then you get up until you are completely calm standing. So you are standing and every bone is in its place. You don't literally do this and back

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down. You know what the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told the man when he was hastening, he says the inoculum to sully you did not pray. How many of us come into the masjid or even at home and we bang out that prayer? I need to pray quickly. So we are fast in it. You find the Imam go into court stand up code, Allahu Akbar. Take your time. In fact, even between the two sides, and this is a time especially after standing after the record. And between the two such that you find people they don't actually take their time. So they come up and they quickly go back down again. Hold on the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says had to attack de la

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Eden until you are completely still when you are still that is when you go down. So yes, there is an opinion that says that between the two such that you are allowed to continue so your movement doesn't need to stop. But even that math tells you that it is sooner for you to take your time so you're a bit fiddly or a bit fiddly. So why not take two more seconds to last seconds for Allah horrible is that you will Jarrell hit we can spend hours on end on our phones. So even in our Salah, we take our time it is a time to ground ourselves to connect with Allah Hara bool is that you will gel and to reset May Allah

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Subhan Allah to Allah grant us the ability not to be hastening in our lives at all times and may Allah subhanahu wa taala grant us the ability to be forbearance and to be patient I mean also Allah Allah wa Salam o Baraka Allah