Funerals – Regulations And Exhortation 05

Hussain Yee


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Sheikh Hussain Yee speaks about the regulations and exhortations when it comes to funerals and exhortation – Episode 5

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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen

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Allahumma salli ala Muhammad

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Ali Mohammed. Come on so later on a Brahim, Wanda and Ibrahim in hamidah Majid

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Allahumma because

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what becomes Cena?

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ob Islami Deena Bobby Mohammadi. nebia

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a jamaa in and then handed in a little bit anime.

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I'm in trouble and I mean

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we have been asking a lot, and I mean, to make us among the people who always remember him a lot in Sharla in good time, in bed time, when we are healthy or when we are not healthy. We always ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to make us among the people who will never forget him. And may Allah Allah mean forgive all our sin protect us from further Phaeton mean.

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We know that a lot of people who are not round today we have a call from Pakistan, also from Dr. Dr. Rizvi, who is going to an operation we have a brother that a form all of you heard that he's having a few more, a very big deal more

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brother side, say abou side, so May Allah subhanho wa Taala ease them with whatever

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pain that they are going through

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and make them the people who receive a loss to huria purification, forgiveness. And there are a lot of blood I mean, strengthen the patient, that human so that they will

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be blessed by a lot of women through whatever trauma they're going through.

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Allah is the healer. And a lot of people and Amina also remind us 100 zero minako and Maha Shiva, wash mottolino. Nene. For the believers, Allah is telling us male or female, when they have all this kind of trial pain.

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They believe by reciting the Quran. The Quran can be a healer. Allah say we revealed the Quran as a healer. For those who believe.

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Because when you have

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inner peace with our Ma, then you will overcome depression, anxiety,

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then it will help you better if you focus a lot to your pain, the pain will not go You have to redirect your focus point to a lot of learning that he know what is best for all of us. We have tried our best and now we want to have some kind of peace with Allah problemy that's why the Prophet was reminded my Allah I have put this as many times but is a very good reminder for all of us. So on and off, I will still quote this ayah that Allah said to the Prophet yom lay and for all Marlin Allah by noon 11 Adama bin Salim selling. Remember, every one of us will have to go through a day where nobody can help you. Your children can help you. Your doctor can help you, your family who

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loves you can help you. The only thing that can help us and benefit as is when we have submit ourselves to Allah to our heart that mean the submission must come from the heart. Not just Okay, okay, okay, but your heart

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I'm not okay I'm not happy. Why me? Why that this way like that? The why why is a very dangerous

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letter the letter why it causes a lot of unrest in ourselves and it won't help us to have a peaceful heart. So we always answer the yamaka who loops a bit Cubana, Allah de Nicola Tati? Oh Allah who control the hearts of every one of us. May He helped us is to stabilize our hand.

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Meaning when we have faith in Allah, we don't allow doubts to come in.

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And that's how you control your feelings. When you believe in Allah. Don't let the doubts come in. When you talk to Allah, don't allow all this negative feeling to come and disturb your peace of mind.

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We always have that problem. And that's why we see it Why me? Why not these wildlife that you see. So the prophecy by entertaining this Kadima, Hawaii, you're opening the door for the Satan to come and disturb your peace of mind. Then you start to think all the negative about this that you see. And hamdulillah Allah has given me a lot before. Now he's taking back bit by bit. Maybe Allah no bears.

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We just keep on praying. And ask Allah for forgiveness, that is very important. asking Allah for forgiveness is very, very important because Allah is always prepared to forgive all our sins, the only thing that we will forget to ask them.

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So we keep on asking Allah for forgiveness, that will be the best way. inshallah

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our last topic that we're discussing based on the book funeral is on page nine and thing in page nine.

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Or in pitch nine.

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That before we go to this new subject on sincerity in performing acts of worship,

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we were talking about the topic, beware of Dr. ways, be aware of their ways, actually is here to remind us that we mostly are unique compared with people who are not Muslim. They always have some different between we and others. And that's why in sort of coffee room is the best Sora to remind us about where we stand, who we are, and who are the other group, sort of coffee room is a surah. To come and differentiate.

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To draw a line that we as a believer, have our own way and values were the non believer, they have their own way and their values. There is the difference here. And the last idea of sociopathy. Ron is the most easier is to understand the coup de nakum. While he did

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before we are Muslim, a Chinese have their own way of handling, facing problem when you are sick. When you have a hard time, they've had a difficult time, or if any masiva here take place. But Indian have their own way. Chinese had their own way. Malaya had their own way. Arabs have their own way because they are so they are pagans their idea they still have that kind of tradition.

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But then Allah unites all of us when you make Shahada that we all follow the way of Allah

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in one way for every Muslim, there is the beauty of Islam in

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Now, again, whatever we do in life,

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the most important thing is the sincerity.

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Allah do not look into what we are doing sometimes.

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But allow us just look into whether you are doing it for him or you're doing for someone else that will be in here the

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value of unlockable anime in

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the first Hadees I will share with you after this let us go through a bit of this.

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What is been written here, sincerity in performing acts of worship.

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There are many acts of worship relating to death that will be discussed in sha Allah in this book, we find it important to emphasize a very vital point applicable to all of them, that is sincerity or the other term

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As a person

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Yeah, always remember there are three foundation in Islam. I don't know Islam, the five pillars are kind of Eman and the sixth article of Eman and one pillar of exile.

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So, the five pillars of Islam, the sixth article of it is meaningless without this one.

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Without Eckerson means without sincerity. An evil person made Shahada. without sincerity, the Shahada have no value. Anybody can make Shahada

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any student who's learning as a shadow Allah, they can just shadow Allah and Allah no problem. The Christians Adam will leave even the Yahoo who can speak Arabic no problem to sit and shadow Allah Allah Allah, Masha.

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But if they are not from their heart, nothing sincere come from inside just lip service have no value. You pray but you're not sincere. Allah don't accept it. You fast without sincerity. You give donation without sincerity. You perform Umrah and Hajj no sincerity is just touring around here is not going to another country for tour. That's all it is you believe, who knows only Allah and you know, if you're sincere, then you can feel it inshallah.

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To many people, most of the funeral ritual are married formalities that have to be done to please a friend or exchange a will with a relative this attitude is very dangerous and may result in a loss, anger and punishment that means you are not praising Allah.

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In Arabic in our we're in the hotties. 40 hadith of NaVi compiled by Emma NaVi you will come across a dish that was very important and is talking about if you are doing something, if you want to please people, how do we please people normally?

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Normally How do you please a person?

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Yeah, generally do what the person wants you to do. But also, you can please the person by not to be and be and jealous of what they have.

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is hard female in the nurse the prophecy is hot female in the nurse is happening to who you know as to who Zoho,

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Zoho it means you see if somebody had this, you're not me. You're happy for them?

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No, you're happy with what they have. You're happy with

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who they are and handling so that people also will be happy with you. But if you're a person who has this evil I will look at somebody you always have something to talk about that person like this law like that law. No.

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Look at her face law. Everything is wrong. Look at the dress law. Everything you want to complain because you don't have it. You don't have Yella Yella. Yella Yella come in Edit. So, there is a is not good you make that person

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dislike you

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because you're talking bad about

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and then the Prophet continued by saying he had female math in your head but you must have Zoo with this dunya that Allah Allah.

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What is it this Junior?

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Don't let the dunia enter your heart.

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Because when you fall in love with dunya you are going to displace Allah.

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Because you don't care about what Allah says anymore. You will love what you desire when you do.

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So it's just like when something happened to us? Are we going to

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perform the funeral ritual? Wherever we encounter

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by placing our friend follow the people what they want, or you want to please Allah?

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I think most of us sometime can please Allah because of this reason. What will people say what my neighbors say what my family budget might say? So there's so many saying, but you hardly wonder what will Allah say?

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You put a lot

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all acts of worship, including janazah ritual must be performed with a sincere and pure intention, directing them solely or purely to Allah and seeking a loss pleasure.

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In the following we present a brief summary of what Allah said. And what the prophet said about this.

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Looked at Sora coffee. This is the last ayah of sort of coffee

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in num, Anna by Sharon, Miss lucam you ha ha

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ilaha illa hoon. We're headed from an era Joe Lee Arabi for the man amalan saw the one eye you should be by that therapy ohada

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Allah is to be made pull in nama Anna Basha mismo que ha la yo la, a nama in LA who come in LA Hawaii.

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This is

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very important for us and can pass fitna to some

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it can be very important to strengthen or in mind it can create fitna to some

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allow when there is a beginning of the is that with

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me meaning Allah really one our profits and loss ROM to remind everyone

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to teach everyone that this thing is very, very important, very vital.

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Example when we talk about will ALLAH forgive our sins we have committed so much sin and that's why Allah is really cool. Yeah or yohannes Yeah, yeah, say hello to Muhammad Allah

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La Hanako to the aku you have enough data to say to them, don't ever give up hope with Allah. Allah is going to forgive all your sin as long as you

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have the intention to repay this

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cola owns a bit a bit of Allah. Allah Allah.

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Allah, Allah

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Allah Cafiero this when the is that the call is a very powerful reminder that every Muslim should know all these who come after cool

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because the guidance you must remind yourself all said to them who to the people in nama Anna Basha Miss lucam tell them that yo Mohammed salam wa salam, the last messenger of Allah is a human being. You are no angel, neither you process God sheep, you are no God. You are no angel, but you are a human like them. So if the Prophet can do something we can do. The Prophet had to do more than all of us.

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Here normally have to do more than all of us.

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But what is the difference? Now, when Allah tell the Prophet I am tell them that you are human and that meaning is important for the prophet to remind his follower not to worship him.

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You have no right to worship Him because it's again the command of Allah and the prophets of masala and that's why in the time, the prophet when people stand up for him to show respect, he called them to sit, because he is a very different person like us people standing people sit had no value in it. Because every Sunday we stand just to show respect. Nobody will want to worship that guy,

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by a prophet, when people start to glorify Him, we are worried is right human today, those who call gurus and

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happy and so on. Sometimes when people crease their hand, they will kind of rub the idea that their job Ah, wow, you see something kiss their leg. It's better to kiss her own leg and kiss our mothers and fathers like it smell better sometimes. And it's not as though smell good. You can clean your own lake.

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Allahu Akbar, but also to this ayah to my humble experience, we have young brothers came to us and tell us that

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are also a profit because of this. Is it the profit or loss

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As a human, I'm a human with a different

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say it can be a dangerous side that people is comparing themselves with a prophet you can

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the reason allow one Prophet Muhammad to make it clear, because he is not not a normal person. He is the Messenger of Allah. Yeah. So he must remind that people do not worship me.

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That's why I say, what is the difference? And what can we say to these young people that how can you become proper? You know, what is the difference between we he was a human, we are human, you in a here receive

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revelation, it is revealed to me that your God is one

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you heard it I mean, he received Why you? We don't receive Why you?

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You may have good dream, but not why you none of us received any book from God. Unless you want to write your own books. I didn't say I also got to write this small book.

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Then you know how,

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how poor you is. How in perfect you are, the more you write, the more you show your weaknesses, because we are human.

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We don't know the future but Allah who knows everything, he is guiding our Prophet, and the first thing that Allah revealed to all the Prophet not only Mohammed Salah is not talking about Halla haram talking about Toshi aqeedah

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talking about the oneness of Allah and that's why you see in our in our way to convey a message to the non Muslim don't talk so far they like to know how haram first

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then no problem you can just explain a bit but you don't have to focus on that means that to talk to them and that they show interest they want to know

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why there's so many rules

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haram and halaal and so on.

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We have also some issue and then

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when I was in Karachi people also asked me No we heard that in Malaysia so can tacky McDonald MD is not allowed.

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I do not know

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what I know is a walhalla Council and because I'm part of the World Health Council in

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what you call advisor but about Malaysia they had their own unique but we believe that in Malaysia probably we have the Hello born who will look into this matter in

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the last night also we have a brother came to me to ask me about is it my boss? He is a Chinese brother. He has a Chinese boss and he said My boss is asking me about this now.

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Why are these your people are so

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sorry messy?

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Holla Holla until now is not ready? Yes a chair for you girls. You can take some chairs and then sit on the chairs. Yeah.

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So, the the first thing that alignable element one the prophets and the messenger to do is to convey the hate share the Oneness among to everyone. So whoever wishes to meet his Lord, vermin, Hannah here will do the car RB I believe all of us who believe in karma,

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yeah, wish to meet Allah. We are hoping to meet Allah whether you are ready or not. You have to meet him.

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So Allah is telling whoever wish to meet Allah

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in the way that pleases Him.

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In a way that make Allah very happy, when Allah is happy, and hamdulillah He forgives all our sins, and he will reward us kindly

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let him or her do righteous deeds.

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Whoever wants to have a good ending,

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they must always engage themselves in doing good deeds.

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So that you have a good ending.

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And then Allah is telling us

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why you should be bad at your A B

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This area

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is like Allah is telling an associate Nan in the worship of Allah

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meaning while you are doing righteous deed good deeds Can you commit Cherie? Is it Allah is that the wala you should be by the theorem while you are making an act of worship to Allah like you are giving sadaqa you're giving Zakat you are making pass you are doing solid you are doing aamra can you commit Cherie

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are you doing sharing by doing all the ritual?

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Can I do see if I go to the temple and worship dipole I will worship a tree or go and worship a mountain you can see i'm doing i'm worship Allah dhamaka Amitabha and you see and committing sharing and passing and then you see a comet in Chile

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what do you understand by this idea? Well I usually be by that Arabic. Allah is telling us while you are worshiping me while you are doing all the righteous do not homage

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if you're not doing maybe but you are doing

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that's why the *ting here means

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your intention when you end up doing it is purely for Allah

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your brain not because you in the show your father in law your mother in law. No. You pray because you believe in Allah any worshipping whether your friend is dead people is looking at you or not whether you are in your room by yourself you are traveling to a country no one no you except you yourself know that you are Muslim. Now you ask yourself do you pray at that time

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you answer Oh God I pray

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How about if you go to

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another country you go to Japan

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Japan very difficult no sorrow no sorrow and okera you can pray anyway Allah have make it so easy the URL spread down by Allah and let us perform our prayer wherever you are

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just an example so don't have Sherry that means you're not wired to your neck your intention of doing the righteous deed must be pure. I'm doing for the sake of Allah I'm not going to show to the world known may people come to noise okay.

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But I will be careful of my intention because my intention isn't to show but if people come to know okay, but

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now people know me now. Then the Ria is going to come slowly is coming

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and this is bad the prophecy the shearing that the Prophet fear most

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is not a big one

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big one you can

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you can re you can know very easy is the minor Sherry Sherry Azhar

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and then the Prophet was answerable by a small should it can be so dangerous what kind of shake is like the black and walking on the black mama on a dark night he come into your heart without you plan to have that feeling suddenly coming in and crying in it can come in any form a person whose body is not well built out and then he go to the gym now his muscular Mashallah now you see he's trying to wear all the type type * already why why you read the type should

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be from from an outlaw people know why your body is not bad. And I want them to see my bicep I want them to see my tricep. I want them to see my stomach. Duran Duran 60 ranvir stomach

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back. So now you had the intention. But if you go you're healthy you cover yourself. You can have a loose kind of dress. You don't people people know why you

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care. And hamdulillah

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example you see you are pretty woman you are handsome men.

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So you can just be very normal.

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Don't overdo to say that you attract them. When you see them Do you know me? They know me.

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There is a problem they ask me and they know

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I'm a model gala hamdulillah example you can be a model, a great model inshallah. Good model the profit is the best model.

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So do not commit sharing with Allah when you are doing an act of work.

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It is something to do your intention is purely for Allah not to please other What is the meaning of this ayah

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intention is very important, and in other is sort of beynac was five Allah say one ma only rule Illa, Leah Buddha ma motley, Sina Lockwood Dean, and they all of us were not commanded by Allah, except to worship Allah with sincerity the class.

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Allah do not pass us. That's why, if you don't pray, he did not immediately send some punishment to us. There are so many Muslims, when they revert, normally they say to me, I don't believe in this religion. I don't pray anymore. You know, I don't pass. I want to leave this religion.

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And say,

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when you enter, maybe people have informed you that this is a one way ticket, check in yes or no.

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And if you say because you are not praying, there are so many Muslim who is not praying.

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But they still are Muslim.

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we hope one day they will start to pray.

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We do not want to show them ways.

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To return back to forceful we have to guide them slowly. We are not commanded except to worship Allah with sincerity. If they are not sincere. Now we hope one day they are sincere. Yeah. A lot of people who enter Islam through our humble experience in our country, because of marriage

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is a good intention to

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there's nothing wrong.

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But because after that nobody can get them to change their intention from the cause of marriage to Allah.

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And that's why the man is very weak. But there are cases where we know we like them. We remind them please, yeah. purify your intention,

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then you will never, never regret.

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But if you are purely because of this, and then when you don't get it,

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you will feel the pain, then you start to suffer. But if you

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adjust your intention, because intention can be adjusted. It's like us, you know that children you call them to pray now why you call him to pray? Because you have to train them. But do they pray because of Allah?

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Do your children pray because of Allah? No. Because you're always give them a gadget and then say they want to pray go and pray. I'll give you the PlayStation. They pray because they want the PlayStation.

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Yeah, that's all but nevermind. In the beginning, we discipline them with that, but later on slowly, we are going to help them to change and develop the intention from because of this now because

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it's not our children, you are the daughter. Why do you cover yourself? You know, a mommy force me one.

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Obama wanted me to do this, what can I do not to get upset.

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Now mine in the beginning of God they are not for the sake of Allah. But we have to remind them after that, you develop their attention. Now for Allah. Now for Allah now for Allah. When they do for Allah, Masha Allah

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even they are not with you they go shopping with a friend you are safe you are happy You know why? Because so happened that you also go to that mall to do some shopping you may find your son your daughter in the masala

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that make you very happy. You feel hamdulillah they are not preying on me in front of you. wherever they are, they know they are Muslim, they will pray inshallah mama O'Meara le Buddha Muhammad Ali seen Allah Deen and we will not commanded except to worship Allah with sincerity, not by force.

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But we can train and discipline ourselves.

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You have people children are very, very alert about some ayah you cannot possibly allows it no force in religion allama also a problem.

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Then you have double,

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pressure ready now. One thing we want the discipline they use is to come and respond to Allah. We are so

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Under dispute you can or you are mostly my lawsuit, no false

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Yella, when we come down here, we are not here to force you. We just want you to be connected to Allah so that Allah will protect you. You need a loss protection

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of course is easy when they love to do something for the sake of Allah. They do out of love. It's there, it lasts longer. And

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This is one of the most popular had this insight Buhari

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they had this the first had this is inside Buhari ameerul momineen Omar Nakata pro the Allahu anhu said submit to rasanya cool, this had this start with submit to not color Salama submit to that means the Prophet himself always remind his oma

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each time and he met up with the companion, he remind them that's why most of the companion they heard they hear directly from the profit, not here say no directly from the profit. When they say submit to means when the profit say that Omar was there to listen to his saying here in Namo Mundo vineyard

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good deeds are only by correct intention. What in America live in man hour

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and a person only received a reward for what he or she intended from and can conjure up to who Illallah nuwara solely for hijra to illallah wa salam. Those whose migration was intended to be for Allah and His Messenger, then his migration or her migration is accepted as being for Allah and His messenger. woman cannot Hydra to dunya you see both of them rotting young people have for Hydra to Allah Maha Jara LA, but whoever migrate all migration was for the sake of worldly benefit or for a woman to marry his or her migration is recorded as been for that which he or she intended.

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What is migration here?

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What is migration.

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Migration also means your changes, we want to change, we are here to change, you have changed 2016 At lathers we are in 2017

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we have changed to our age of change.

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So, the changes,

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if your intention is for Allah and for the Prophet, you will be rewarded accordingly.

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But there are people who migrate in a time of the Prophet also migrate. But for worldly gains, there are a lot of people who migrate to our country, from our neighbor country for what reason?

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For economical reasons. So they will get there you see

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the Prophet make it very clear if your migration to a country is because for your survival, for economical reason, you will get your risk your risk is there.

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And if a person migrate to ya man, one of the woman's one of the Sahaba of the Prophet he have a level when they were in Makkah, both the pagan jdn and one of his beloved girlfriend is roommates.

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Then guy name two way back.

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Oh, about Baja.

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But when roommates enter Islam, she migrate to Medina.

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So the old fan stay back in Makkah, is it she said to him. I don't feel right to carry on this relationship because you are still worshiping other than Allah. I feel so bad when I looked at you and you're still worshiping other than the tree

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so if you can follow me, I am leaving and going to Medina.

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he was not ready, and she left. But before she left she remind him

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if you want me

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You must accept Islam. From that time

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your migration to Islam is Omaha's dowry for me

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but he was not really sure Sheila

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So, let this man alone here with their own family, but when you are in love, you always feel very lonely.

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I have to look for her.

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So he migrated.

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Now when he migrate, he met the profit and loss and then

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he approached him say, Make me a Muslim, I want to accept this

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are called the profit is not what I asked you, what is your intention? You have no right to us actually, not that today. What is the intention? If the intention become married? No way, Allah

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who give you the right to pass that judgment to me, there must be a sub, why I do this, it is the summer

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even then the Prophet should have stopped him.

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But then he said to the Prophet, after conversion, immediately is not Can you do me a favor?

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Of course the Prophet is there to help everybody

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is it there was a woman who migrate here before me

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and she have promised me that my conversion will be a Maha the melody.

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So the proper sentence and one to look for this woman come from someone the woman the woman come from the Prophet Narita.

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No costs.

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No special marriage costs nothing.

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But you can have marriage causes no problem, just to make everybody aware. But because the environment there is so good. Nobody is there to help you.

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They don't have to.

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You must memorize party hoppers, you must know why you are mostly and your intention is now for this woman Nevermind.

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We will accept your intention. But later on we redevelop the intention. And he become one of the components and the problem.

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There is how we go.

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There daleel is there at some time the way we treat Islam is our religion. My way. We know we had that issue before many maybe about 40 years ago the encounter. Man humping has changed. Nobody could

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pass this kind of judgment. No. Last time there was

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some some local scholarship who ever come to Islam because when the medic will not accept their conversion, who will you want them to lie to you? They can.

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They can live with a great story. I dream this dream as an assault prophet as a Juba, man, no, this, this will come if you want them to lie, they will give you more story.

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You don't have to fish a river to live from the beginning. If that is the intention, guide them towards them

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and then help them to develop and change their intention. I've done that before Alhamdulillah they were so good. Yeah.

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I shared with you this story before I came here.

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And, you know, that's a lady who came to us that was in their early 80s when I was 14 at the time,

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we are in charge of this conversion method.

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After talking five minute to her before I know that is because she wanted to get married with a Muslim men. So I asked her I said why not you bring your your boyfriend so that he become one of the witnesses.

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And if you can bring your future in law will be better they get involved from the beginning, because I have intention to talk to them, so that they must pick up this responsibility in a manner to help this woman

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But the woman was so good, so sincere in her own way

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is that I have been a friend with my friend for more than seven years. I was asking when do you want to settle down? He said cannot.

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Because he is a Muslim and not a Muslim. So you cannot.

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Other than that can.

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but neither he'll guide her and bring her is it cannot, cannot cannot. So because of that, oh, because I'm not a Muslim cannot. So secretly she came.

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She wants to be a Muslim. And she wants to give this as a surprise to her boyfriend.

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Why not?

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Is not the bad idea.

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She did her initiative now. So she can be excellent. I say Oh, no problem. If you think that, that is the best way. Now mine, I was recommending you bring him along. Because I have intention to talk to him.

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But since he had that kind of plan.

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Okay, no problem. So we get our own witnesses and we proceed with the convention.

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So should we have advisor Don't worry now you are our family, you're part of us anything. Don't forget, come back to us. We are here for you. We are like your parent, remember? Okay. hamdulillah.

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So she went back to the office, where she was working with the

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So she informed him. I was surprised.

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I am a Muslim. My name is like Israel, it become a real surprise.

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When this guy

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came to know that she becomes that she's serious.

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She submitted her resignation after some time he disappeared.

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Guy is still day is very difficult.

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He know that this woman is serious. He just disappeared. So he did not know how to contact him.

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She do not know his parents.

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So she was lost.

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And harmony land because the relationship we have built from the beginning she came back.

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And Gosh, now she came back

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is not a surprise anymore. With tears. I don't know what went wrong. Did I say something? No, wrong the ages after they just disappear and he resigned.

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But that is the time now you need to help her.

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We say Don't worry.

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You know, Allah love you so much.

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Allah is protecting you. If this man is a good man,

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he will be very happy for your inner city.

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So when he disappeared is a last work to make him go.

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because there'll be a better man for you.

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Because you are good. You have a good heart.

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Even your intention is because of him but you have a good heart.

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So we got her.

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She learned to pray to the extents of the only item of prayer is a while she is wanting to get closer in the field item where there is too little.

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No. So we keep on guiding her and Allah Karim.

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He should get to know we introduced another brother, who's a very practicing Muslim brother. And they are very happy to have children until today

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isn't so the intention can be developed. Even the beginning is for that.

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Now this hadith is sufficient to be a guidance for all of us that we don't have to judge the intention of the person. If you try to ask them why you can do this. They can create stories. That story is very common to me know when people start to say something in five minutes. I know where they're coming ready. So a cut short answer. Don't worry, don't worry, inshallah, we are here to help you. And now the reason we are guiding you why because we want to find a best way to help you. Don't worry.

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So we are not going to push her to another

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situation that she don't feel good. So don't ask the intention too much. But just encourage them to bring witnesses if they had the intention to get married.

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Good, we will get you. And we will show you how to prepare yourself.

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When you want to get married to a Muslim family, there is good news.

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That's why the Saudis are talking about those who migrate for dunya do get the under seat, those who migrate because of marriage they will get. But then later on we can develop the intention. A lot of people who migrate to Europe before is not because of Islam

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because of survival.

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Immigrants Yeah, but Alhamdulillah Islam grow later on the change and the now they are become practicing Muslim and they share their faith with other people and people all over the country and the Islam because of this

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and that's how Allah Allah min condado to make sure that other people will enter Islam just to our present

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to the Muslim environment.

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So net is very important. Even the intention is not for Allah and the Prophet still is allowed in Islam

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but you can develop the intention inshallah wait been

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reported that the Prophet said

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give to this oma the typing of glory Bashir has an omen. Yeah. Is it the typing of glory dominance over the lens to be leaders with theory and super messy in religion.

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The prophets of Muslim Yeah, is here to give this oma the glad tidings.

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Any of them who does the dip of the here after for the sake of the worldly life? We have no share in the here after we understand it. Yeah.

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You are doing an ibadah for Akira.

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But it's still happening your intention is not for Akira.

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your intention is for dounia Yeah, worldly gain. So Allah give you the reward here ready?

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nothing for you over there.

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Example The best thing is like you like to contribute right to donate you want to give Zakat

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is for Akira Zakat is not for dunya

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Can you give us

00:52:51--> 00:52:52

a Lowery what you

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but if your intention No no, I want to show that and I want to get some in return.

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In return for these tech stocks that may see you a one that kind of reward Okay, you get back

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but you won't get from Allah because your intention is not for Allah for Allah. You cannot expect anything to come back to you.

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Because you again form a palace.

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Is the Our intention is been tested.

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There is in the middle is

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the government don't collect because it is a response between you and God

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is a private issue between you and God.

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So if you do is good for you, you don't do you're responsible to our you unsettle.

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You want us to help you we can help you but you want us to do it. Out of sincerity purely for a lot of blood and

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this you have issue

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to the oma today. When you do something for who

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you want something in return, you get

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that you lost what you want from Akira.

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This is very important for us to understand.

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I bought when mama reported that a man came to the prophet and asked him if a man goes to fight for a lost cause, sticking the reward as well as praise from the people. What does he get

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Mujahid a fighter go to the battlefield by he is a warrior. He is a real fighter known to be a great warrior.

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But in the same time he said I do for the sake of Allah and I still want to wait for some reward, a reward. No madula no star

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seal weapons it's good to know at least one star you have that intention

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So the Prophet was asked by these men, what does he get? here if I learn nothing from Allah?

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from Allah, nothing. Because if you say you are doing for Allah, you cannot

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commit sharing with your intention anymore. Holla Holla if people appreciate Alhamdulillah people acknowledge and humble people don't, I have no worry, because I don't do for that.

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All the Prophet was saying, when they start their mission, you know what they will offer?

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They are offered by their own people who want to stop them from doing that, or what do you want from us, you want money to give you money, they want to pay them and shut them out. Stop talking about the truth.

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They say we are not here to ask any payment from you. We are not here to ask you for any kind of reward or reward is from Allah in Surah. Yasin you have this is

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our what is Mama, we don't come to ask anything from you. You don't have to give us anything.

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Because even the gift give for Allah not because of

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lava. But

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he replied.

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He got nothing. He repeated the question three time.

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If a person do something, and he said for a lost cause, piece or B, Linda Linda, but in the same time,

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he had that kind of hope.

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He want people to acknowledge he want people to praise him. If no more praise in the future no more. I won't give him be don't remember me also.

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normally, it is very good for us to be thankful. Yes. We should be thankful to Allah and thankful for a lot of standing somebody to help us is good. But we ourselves must not. I mean, the one who is doing that act must not have that intention

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for people to praise us because they want to praise us there's nothing wrong. When people pray, don't praise me Oh, don't go and talk like that. This choir, Robin Allah,

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all praises, go back to Allah. There's nothing wrong. Because you have when your son is good, you must praise Him.

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Your daughter is present. You don't play the play other people keep on pressing, pressing and then you have problem. As you my father don't love me, my mother don't love me.

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My friend left me alone. He always praised me, oh, you Panda, you smile, you kill you, then you're so smart.

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So you have to have the right to praise. Somebody who has been doing good things only when they do the door must be very careful with the intention. You remember the Hadees that I've shared with all of you before to about the three men that allow we're going to summon them in a day of judgment. They are not just normal people like us. They are three great people.

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One is a fighter, a real fighter.

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Second is a donor arrangement. The third is very knowledgeable person. Atari

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beautiful in the recitation of Quran then Allah will ask them what do you do with the knowledge I give you Oh, I teach people here I teach there it see it. You see so many I so many students who do you do? For who? for you All for you? They lie

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Allah say to him

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very powerful Hadith You are a liar.

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You do this because of sources. You want this to get the reward from the people already? Why do you

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go to hell?

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You fight Yes. I kill so many enemies. So many Batman

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howhow Are you Oh, now you want people to see that? You are the warrior. You are the fighter. You're the gladiator you got all the mental clarity in this world. What do you want from me?

00:59:41--> 00:59:46

How about you the rich man Oh, I made madrasa masala dude, yes, for who?

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For your xacta the Prophet keep on repeating Allah respond to that concept.

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That you lie again.

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You think Allah do not know what is not

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You may not remember, but Allah remember, he never forget what is in our heart.

01:00:08--> 01:00:10

And this is an area of very, very

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thin line.

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In life, you must look into your intention properly from time to time check your intention.

01:00:22--> 01:00:28

In Allahu Allahu Akbar luminol Amina Illa McCann, Allah Hollis and what

01:00:30--> 01:00:43

Wabi Sabi he was very rare Allah only accept the deeds that are done purely for him, and are done for the sake of His pleasure.

01:00:45--> 01:00:47

Which whole face pleasure.

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And look at the last I decided to share with you in

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Abu huraira reported that Allah messengers said, Allah Allah Who has the word gender now this is what

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when they say a loss it means what Hadees Percy

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is not just an Hadees my is Heidi's could see is the sacred saying of Allah that Allah revealed to the Prophet directly without to Angel Gabriel is a direct revelation.

01:01:26--> 01:02:04

Allah is saying that I am, say Allah among the partner that the people join with Allah I am in need of *ty deeds, not done purely for Allah, whoever perform for me a deep but join others with me that may have a hidden intention. Yeah, then I totally diss on it. And it is only for the one whom he joined as partner in the Day of Judgment. We say to Allah, I do this for your sake, Oh Allah, by Allah say yes, but you have a giant intention.

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You also do for that person. Now, I this on this date. Now you must go to that person and ask him to reward you.

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Is that many serious?

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You know that that person can reward you anymore. The only one who control the Day of Judgment is Allah Malika young in Mali, the owner, the controller of the day of jasmine, who have all the right to give you the reward, and not to give you

01:02:39--> 01:02:50

since you associate your intention, you sit for me even this is a prayer. This is a zakat. This is a sadaqa This is an ombre, you do the ritual but

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you have the intention that you want to please that person so go to that person, ask that person to reward do not promise

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is that easy buttons

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is a very tough metal.

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This is one of the thing that made the first second third generation so good.

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They all pockets inside.

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That's why the blessing of a lot is so different. The Muslim or minority at a time, but look at the victory. The help that Allah has blessed the people before. We have majority.

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But the quality is no more than

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the Malay proverb was so true.

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Sudan Somali, Bantu dounia da da, da.

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Okay, there is what you want.

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Very, very dangerous.

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Allah is so rich he don't need if you do for him, he will enrich you. That's what allies telling us. I don't need any partner. If I want to do business is my business. I don't have to go to a cannon dry me know. The human is not perfect. Allah is so perfect. He's so rich. He don't need anybody to give reward to you. And now for him to reward you. So why do you want to other to reward you?

01:04:38--> 01:04:44

Why do you do that? So if there is an intention, so you must go to that person called him to reward you.

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Muhammad Ali Nana

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Yeah, after this, okay. You can read by yourself.

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I'm just going to share with you all the good sisters. Do you think this topic today very easy for all of us?

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Heavy? Yeah.

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The one thing that no one knows except we and online.

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Very, very important everything goes to the heart in Nirmala malo, Binya

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but we must have good thoughts always. Yeah.

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And this is the knowledge they were learning today you don't go outside and test people a while you do this

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in a rather

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you just reflect yourself, ask yourself, talk to yourself before you do anything.

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And I have believed that insha Allah we all will be sincere in our deeds insha Allah, the test will come sometime, but then quickly you stick far

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is too far and adjusted.

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That's why the Prophet said, our heart is controlled by Allah.

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And he can just turn it up and down.

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That's why the de la bella Paulo, the one who

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move the hearts of all of us a bit kulu bana Allah Dini, you will ask a lot of step pass, make sure that our heart is

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straight in Sharla intention clear. That's why you see the relationship between children and parents.

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is our intention towards our children. Whatever we give to children is purely for Allah.

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we didn't expect anything in return from them. They don't give us also we don't mind.

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As long as we still can survive. We never depend on our children.

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We still keep on giving them praise and buy food for them. Even they don't buy anything for us. Do we do that? As parents?

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We keep on feeding our children even they're so big now. 40 years old with it with your Cooper there. Why?

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Because Paula, our nurse is purely we don't have any intention that a yo Don't forget Now you also come in experiment.

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We always bring food to you when you're going to bring food to us.

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No no. Biggie because our intention is so

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clear and so pure.

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For them

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I don't know I share with you this

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The story of a men

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no her husband and wife.

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So when they the wife was so upset with the father in law

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and then he can pretend picket anymore he wonder son, the husband please take your house your father away from I do want to see

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if you love me. Get your father out of my sight.

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Put the son the husband in a very difficult situation.

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And also because of that, he brought his son along and planned with the Father

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to send the father to a farm area and when they lift the father day

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by he brought along with him his son the car the grandfather misters friends and

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so when they reached that area,

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he left the Father.

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He brought the son back

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the father don't know why he brought him so far and Nathan that

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maybe he said that you stay here after some time I'll come and pick you up.

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He had no intention to pick him up.

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He just lived in and then up to him to survive.

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When he was walking down the grandson, Mr. Green pad

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pop to the Father. When are going to

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see can borrow again.

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Then the grand that the father said no.

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We are not going to see grandfather anymore.

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And what happened to the sun?

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They said that Papa,

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don't do this to grandfather.

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Because I was worried that one day I will do the same thing to you.

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You are showing me a very bad example.

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Grandfather loved me so much. And now you're leaving grandpa and then we say no more we can pattern.

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So when the son say this is the Father,

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the father just come

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carry on, he went back in design.

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The grandfather, his father was saying to the son,

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I know you're going to come back

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to fashion

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How can he have that pay?

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How can this father have the strong faith that this time will come back to look for him?

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Because he's the I never do this to my father.

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He said that we also have problems, but I never do this.

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So I believe that you will never do this to me.

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Now it's out of sincerity in

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May Allah protect us and our children inshallah, and help us to reflect ourselves always.

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From time to time, yeah. The pass of Allah is getting greater and greater. Yeah.

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There's a question we will put for q&a, but that

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I think you asked me first. No.

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Okay. Yes, sir.

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Yeah, the feeling of fear is important to

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number one you do for the sake of Allah. But the fear that will Allah accept my did is good.

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Why because that also will strengthen your commitment. I want to do the best. I just don't want to do for the sake of doing example, you want to give carbon to unlike set this carbon if I just choose any animal or I'm very careful in choosing the animal the best animal expensive, healthy, that is important. The peer should have and the hope fear and hope must come together. fear that Allah may not accept and you have hope that allow and accept.

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But you've overconfident also very dangerous.

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Alhamdulillah no problem. That is one of the reasons okay. We feel what we fear his punishment.

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Of course we fear his punishment. You cannot say I don't feel man. When

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there is too much you must have the fear.

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By then Alhamdulillah you develop I'm doing for you. I don't feel because of my husband. I don't feel because my father I fear because of a loss anger is good.

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We have the right to have that fear.

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And then so at some time in a family when the father is strong and the children fear the father don't destroy that feeling is important so that the children will be under control. If they appear nobody very difficult to control.

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Very difficult.

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My children when they are young, they are somebody that someone that they feel most among my friend

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My friend Paige

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I enjoyed that also something

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good good. Now you know that if not call the uncle call the uncle.

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Sometimes you need to have that kind of personality. Correct. You cannot just

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know then they they don't fear they cannot control them.

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So if your grandma your grandma children for you to worry.

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You need LD they don't fear. They take both of us. All right. Ready.

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consolata na na

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In normal Malou Binya they had this is their long hair this from Oman enamel. Malou. Binya

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Yeah. And I y ah. Nia

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that that

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Yeah, according to the head DS of Asia and also Fatima

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Fatima also had their experiences. She came back one day and with the necklace and also we have some go ring.

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Then the Prophet turn his face away from her. Normally the Pro is a very loving Father, party mom come home here will embrace her No,

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show his love towards her.

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Sadly, he reacts in that manner.

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Cause Fatima I know what happened to me. What have I done wrong today? My father is not happy today. When he looked at me, then the Prophet said to her the same day to Ayesha, have you purify your necklace or your gold ring?

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They will say no, this is a gift from my husband Ali from Fatima from Asia as this is I just want to decorate myself the place you Yara sama, whether you want to decorate yourself, because it's a jewelry that you use on your body, but the problem is that have you purified that before you were caught they do not knowing that they have to do that they thought that this is a kind of jewelry for just

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decorating yourself

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then the profit talk about

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this kind of thing is called Kaizen is like gold and silver that you are wearing, but you did not purify it then it became a prison in the Day of Judgment Allah was collected and then turn it into an iron and iron your body

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not set your can wear but this one you only pay once in your life then not every year, the one that you keep you have to pay zakat every year the one that you wear on your body you just pay one. So, according to that had this you should have paid it before you were but now yeah anything

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bit correctly first, then you can not set your can but your to only be one

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purification of the jewelry. That is only one because it's something that you use for yourself. So you just pay once in your life then but if the jewelry is being kept, you keep it This one is for your wedding. Yeah very you only pay once, but now a lot of people are not aware. Like Ayesha is not aware Fatima was not aware. Then the Prophet immediately remind them and they act upon it. So then they can be

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read we I add this again. I forgot. Then when the Prophet said is the Prophet asked even party man.

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Yeah. Do you want that in the day of judgment? Allow us?

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me as your father. Why do I allow a necklace of pie around the neck of my daughter?

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Why do I allow

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my daughter to have

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reading? Yeah.

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fire ring on

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her finger.

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Because if you don't get the card, purify it for once on it, then that is like wearing the ring of hellfire. The necklace of Hellfire? No. Yes. You

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Good night.

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But the

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yeah should be the best one. The one who the one who bought that because the children do not know. Yeah, yeah, it's just like prathima it's not that Fatima bought that jewelry given by her husband, Ali.

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Again, a wedding gift or anything that the Prophet have up. Okay, that is a gift but you just feel either the husband has to pay, or she has to pay? Yes. to it. It's not if you were up only one. But if you give more than you were, then the yield is coming.

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Yeah, the same ticker, you want to make sure that is safe. The better the home sometimes it's not that safe. So you have a safe in the safe in the bank? You can. But that one, the one that you keep more you purify every year.

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Yes, that's why it's like a Garmin. If you took it as as a Garmin, then you choose it you to three set, set like three sets. So this is the thing that you always wear chain, of course, we do not want to wear the same kind of garment all the time, we change no problem if you have the means. So you choose. But if you are choosing on the cheap cheap one, you keep all the expensive one and then the one you have to pay more. So you can use only be very careful. Even the profit allowed us to wear for the woman to decorate themselves. The profits and loss alarm do not encourage the woman to go and display to open the car worried worried for your own safety?

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No. And you create some evil eyes. And then so that's why I see the profit even when he rendering with some stones.

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When it comes to serpentine, he will just then hide the stone sometime Why? It depends. It's not that you cannot share the information with a friend. But you must know when you are going to different direction

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then you must be very careful. Ria is very dangerous. Yeah. So you can change your throat reset. And then you say this is the site that I'm going to use and then change again and change the other set no problem.

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Now, the last question from SR Fozia. Do you pay zakat on transportation today?

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Now let us look into the time of the Prophet. They don't have.

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They don't have all this kind of transport. What they have is they have camels, they have horses, they have a goat, sheep and all donkey, but even that after a certain amount. Yeah, there is Zakat for camel.

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There's a cat paws, there's a pet for cattle

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that there is their transportation and in this intent, they will offer that as a sacrifice. Now,

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I will look from a different angle, not just the thing. Just look into the amount

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to do a car half value.

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is you buy a new brand car, there is their value.

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Okay, after using the card, you think there's still some value, you still have some value. So it may drop, okay. So if you want to make

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Use of a good car do you have the mean there's nothing wrong you want to have a helicopter so no problem is like people was talking they joke around

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when the husband went shopping and then the wife say Don't forget to buy a chili Don't forget the pie, onion and so on. So, and then they say please let me know next time, everything let me know in detail what to buy, don't let me go in and go and the price of the petrol is very, is getting up higher and higher. And then I suddenly say, Okay, okay, now mind, I'll do this for you too. But next time, I'm not going to do it because too expensive to go again to go and buy because of the petrol suddenly he was going out because he was riding a helicopter he used to go to shopping and by the way,

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I would say that got value good value, you just use that as a guideline.

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If they say anything above 10,000 you have to pay zakat example

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then if the cost is less than that

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Yeah, normally is one because your need is only one but when have more than you have comfort.

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You can have your comfort no problem but you pay only once because you're using

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you'll see the costs

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if not people will keep on running away from here and they are this is a this is a con because you have money is your money but if you have paid that data, then you don't have

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example Yeah, even you change why because the money that you use to buy a new car, you have pay and purify your sucker. So is yours. But if you play around, when it come to n time, I use this money for this and then I consider lesser now in my saving that means you are trying to escape

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some people are so corrupted you know what they do? They're especially the business people. They know the Hukum of Zakat have to reckon how one is a year and whether have reached

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the minimum is that means Mata Mata and the value

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so before the race the year they changed the name

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the backup the rainy no

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really I changed it now is your property not mine

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and then before that it changed again is your part so you don't have to pay because

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a lot people have corrupted idea they thought that by giving two and a half percent you think is a big deal for oma is nothing is Allah is testing us he wants to purify our income he wants to give us extra blessing not only to money to other things but we are so calculated and that's why the Bala keep on coming without realizing that's why our income have no Baraka.

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So this is an area that a lot of people overlook. When Allah give you Wow, you are so happy. But we asked that just turn up

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two and a half percent

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man got a text in the world yet two and a half percent only from Allah, the sole provider.

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So if you That's why, you know, it's about dunya again, to your left.

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If you think dunya is everything for you.

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Then you will end with the dunya

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and you know when we die we don't even bring anything because everything will go to other people.

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So whatever thing that you can do for the sake of Allah

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then you do

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don't worry about if you do for the sake of money, you will never regret you will never lose a lot of promises. Whoever spent anything for his cause I will replace it back. Why are you worried?

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So me I'll accept our this insha Allah

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forgive all our shortcomings.

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And for those who are traveling may Allah have you made your journey a safe one? Yeah.

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Soon we don't know I'm just sharing we just got a call yesterday said suddenly. We got a call

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Last night we got a call this morning

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from from South Africa

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one of the all of us say when are you coming when are you coming to South Africa? They're waiting waiting waiting for your invitation. They say, Okay, okay, we are going to call a soon. So if this thing is on again anything I will inform to some Dima who like to follow us so that when you have the opportunity, and when I'm still around,

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no, we hope that now we can gain a lot to our travel. And may Allah make it easy for us in sha Allah Subhana Allah Mohammed the one that

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took a while to relay salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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by the sisters, if you are not rushing, can you just stay on? We have a brother who want to convert to Islam today. Yeah, and hombre de la. Come, come.

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adore Rossini.

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cracy Hey, Joe.

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Yeah, just stay on. For one. We forgot that. We

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get the tables.

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Yeah, you can.

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Come brother. You can see them in just sit in front of me.

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Yeah, the green chair.

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The two witnesses are two things