Hussain Yee – Don’t Be Sad 102
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The importance of honoring six basic rights of Islam, including the prophecy and first responders, is emphasized. Prayer is a duty and a daily obligation. The speakers emphasize the importance of praying together, embracing one's natural tendencies, and following guidance and forgiveness for individuals. There is a need for individuals to make changes to their behavior and to recognize and embracing their natural tendencies.AI: Transcript ©
So brothers and sisters, alhamdulillah, I think we
are still not used to respond to the
greeting of peace, you know, properly.
I just want to remind
all of us who are student of knowledge,
as fellow Muslims, wherever you are,
always remember
the adaab of
the Islamic greeting and how to respond.
The Prophet
who was sent by Allah Almighty,
the all knowing, all seeing,
to guide all of us, to show us
the way,
the way
to be with Allah, and
he said
in Sahih Muslim,
Haqq ul Muslim, ala Muslim, sittun.
There are 6 basic rights
among fellow Muslims
that every Muslim should at least try to
understand, remember,
and
honor these basic rights,
and the first right,
the prophecy,
is alakitahu
fasalim
alayhi.
When we meet,
the first thing that we should do
when fellow Muslim
see each other
to give the greeting of peace. Assalamu alaikum.
First thing.
And then the one who offer
is not
wajib
but highly
recommended.
To the extent that if a person come
to you, even your friend,
and they do not offer you the greeting
of peace, you know they are Muslim,
you have the right not to communicate with
them. Just listen. One way traffic.
They ask you how are you?
You can be quiet.
Then you can remind them
because
by doing that,
made Allah
make all of us happier
because you come with peace,
with the greeting of peace, salaam alaikum,
And that's why I also receive you
with peace. Wa Alaikum, Musa'alaam. That's how we
respond.
But then Allah Almighty who loves us
keeps on guiding us
How to be a better person?
If a person gives you the Islamic greeting,
Assalamu Alaikum, the shortest one.
Allah said, Farud alaih,
respond.
How to respond?
Allah shows us.
You see, man salama, yeah,
the in the Quran, Allah subhanahu wa'ala in
Surat An Nisa remind us.
It says that whoever offers you the greeting
of peace,
responds
with a better one,
and that's how we learn to be better.
How
do we respond in a better manner?
So the prophet showed, he want offer you,
assalamu alaikum,
the shorter you respond
minimum, walaikum,
salaam.
The same like how he offered,
but the better one, walaikumu salaam, warahmatumbah.
You add warahmatumba.
If the second person comes and offers you,
say, Assalamu Alaikum warahmatumba.
You respond, walaikum salaam warahmatummahee
warahkatu.
Better.
If the 3rd person
come and say, assalamu alaikum warahmatullahu alaikum warahmatullahu
alaikum warahmatullahu
alaalam.
So how are you going to respond better?
The prophet shows us that
the better response
raise out
your voice.
If they come. Assalamu alaikum,
Wa Alaikum Assalamu alaikum,
We're the better spirit.
Allahu akbarah.
And whoever do
all these,
the first one you get 10 rewards,
the second 20,
the 3rd
30. Who'd reward?
So,
alhamdulillah, if you are given a choice wherever
you go, you want $10, 20, $30, I
think we take 30.
Nothing to be shy or,
10. No no no. I offer you 10,
20, 30. Which one do you want?
Insha'Allah, I'm going to offer all of you
the greeting of peace again so that we
act upon,
yeah, this beautiful adab.
Okay? Assalamu alaikum, Warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
Alhamdulillah.
Now this adaption of salaam do not just
apply to male and male, female and female,
reply to every Muslim.
Always remember.
You know, my family who are not yet
a Muslim,
when I first
introduced this beautiful greeting to them
and we, mostly, when we meet we always
someone go, walaikum, salaamu ra' and they pick
up this value.
Later on, when they see
when they saw me,
here because they know that I'm very happy
when people offer me this greeting, then they'll
say, morning,
evening,
night.
Yeah. There is evening. If morning is morning,
there's no prayer inside but the greeting of
Assalam, may the peace
of Allah be upon you.
We are
coming to everybody
with peace,
with love, with care.
So they pick up all this value.
Caught me by surprise.
What can I do now?
We are not supposed to offer to a
not yet Muslim
because it is not their responsibility to respond.
You see, the prophet only says it applies
to Muslims.
So we were taught before
by
the traditional way,
even not yet Muslims offer you this greeting,
you
respond, Wa Alaikum Assam.
You respond with curse.
Wa Alaikum Assam means it's a cursing
word. May you die.
May you get pain you be poisoned,
some.
So we thought that that is the way
we start to respond,
but they don't understand so it's okay.
But later on,
we realized
that was not taught by Prophet
Muhammad.
Anybody offer you the greeting
in the right
way,
or in the wrong way,
because they don't know
or they purposely,
like, to play with this word.
Like the people
in Mecca Medina, they are all Arabs.
The Jews who are staying in Medina, Arabs,
they also speak Arabic,
so they know how to communicate in Arabic.
So sometimes they don't like Prophet Muhammad. They
don't acknowledge him as a prophet.
There's Muhammad.
They will greet him with this kind of
grain,
hope that he will die.
So one day a Jew came
to the house of the prophet
when the prophet was with Aisha
and the Jews give this kind of curse.
Wa alaikasam You Muhammad.
Before the prophet responded,
Aisha was very upset. Women can be
yeah,
very very aggressive sometimes.
They are very fast in responding.
Don't underestimate
the ladies.
That's why they say every successful man,
yeah, there is a woman behind them.
Yeah.
So Aisha
behind the curtain
respond.
He she asked more than that.
May you die and may the curse of
God be upon you.
Man is man. When you're a woman responding
in that manner,
they don't stand there anymore. They just
disappear. They just move on.
Then the prophet
talked to Aisha. Why do you say that?
You see, he came with a bad intention.
He cursed you.
The prophet
reminds
them, in the future if a not yet
Muslim offer you any greeting
in Arabic
either they do it purposely or their intention
is bad,
only Allah knows, we don't know.
Or they make some mistake, you just respond
or wa alaikum.
Say it, wa alaikum.
Meaning
same to you.
If your intention is good,
may the good thing go back to you,
but if your intention is bad, I'm not
going to dirty my tongue.
I'm not gonna
use anything that
that you are using because I'm a Muslim.
The
prophet
has
said,
Prophet SAW says whoever believes in Allah and
the day of judgment
if you want to say anything
say what is good.
If not, silent is golden.
Better
control your tongue. A
word is like a bullet, one you shoot
out.
Even you say I'm sorry, I'm sorry, okay
okay okay,
but
you know it hurts.
That's why before you say anything,
Islam always reminds us,
be careful,
control.
You can say nothing wrong
but choose the best word.
Yeah, choose the right word.
That's why when the prophet explained all these
beautiful Adam,
we feel very sad today. The topic that
we always
share with all our students on Wednesday
is don't be sad.
We feel sad because until today, we never
learn.
Anything
bad,
you respond
respond with good,
anything negative you respond with positive,
you will never regret.
It's not easy I know sometimes,
it's so bad I still want to entertain.
No, you don't entertain but you respond in
a very positive manner.
Why we do that?
Because in surahood, in the Quran
as a divine guidance Allah
Remember
every good thing anything that positive come from
you
it will push the negative further and further.
You won't be affected.
You know how to shield yourself, protect yourself.
So that's why the process says, Wa alaikha.
I don't know what is in your heart.
What is your intention? Allah knows best. I
just said, same for you.
If you have good intention,
may the good thing go back to you.
If you have bad intention,
may the bad thing go back to you
but I do not want to curse you.
I do not want to dirty my tongue.
Yeah.
Is that easy?
It's not easy.
Person is not because he's a muscular wrestler,
a warrior,
a fighter,
or an MMA fighter. No no no no.
A strong person is a person who can
control the anger.
When you are upset,
you know how to control.
Is that easy?
No, no, it's not easy,
But
Islam is here to guide us.
It's easy to be good
than
to be bad.
Because good anywhere you go, people will be
happy
and people will make you happy. People will
love you more and more,
but because we have our number one enemy,
the Satan,
who had promised to God,
I will never
leave the children of Adam in peace.
I will try my best.
Yeah. My profession,
the Shaitan said,
is to whisper
to the heart of all of us.
He has no power. Don't think that he
has power. He is powerless.
The minute you respond to his whispering,
he leaves you.
He said,
I wash my hands. I have nothing to
do with what you said just now.
I just wish for a while, you go
and say what for?
You should not speak like that. He also
don't like you
because he said that I am your enemy.
God has promised you
all the good things you do, you'll be
rewarded.
I make no promise. I just whisper, whisper,
whisper
but you
respond, why you respond?
Why do you respond?
And that's why he said, I hate you.
The minute you respond,
he said, I have nothing to do with
this, please. Don't blame me.
You know,
the minute you go against
Allah's guidance,
I dislike you.
He also said I dislike you, but that
is his profession.
My job is to whisper here, whisper there.
Suddenly, friends become enemy.
You know, put some doubts here and there.
Suddenly,
we are no more closer to one another.
It's just an example,
yeah.
So it's very important for us as Muslim
to be ready to accept
the divine guidance.
The book, the holy Quran, and the teaching
of the prophet, all is being recorded.
You can have access,
no problem at all.
But if we live
like
people without
guidance,
we feel very, very sad for this ummah
because we are the best ummah. Allah said,
You are not just any
ummah.
You are not just any nation,
but you are the best nation.
Why?
Because you know what is right,
which Allah said is right, not what you
say is right is right. What Allah said
is right is right.
And you know what is wrong.
What is wrong? What Allah says wrong is
wrong. If Allah says, halal, halal, haram, haram,
haram, haram, haram.
You know
your duty
is you act upon the guidance
and it is your duty
to help other people.
Not only among Muslims,
set good example that is why our Prophet
sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
in 23 years
the whole mukkah
changed.
The image of Medina changed.
Ta'if
changed.
These are
99%
disbelievers.
In the beginning of Islam,
all the people in Mecca are disbelievers,
idol worshippers.
There are a lot
of zulumat.
Yeah, the people who have power oppress the
ones who are weak.
The rich bully all
the poor people.
Women have zero right.
The man
take the woman like a garment.
I buy, I wear, I throw away, I
change.
We are
like diamond.
No value.
You remember the Jahili time to the extent?
You have
baby girl,
If there's a newborn
baby girl,
there traditionally
you'll be honored if you bury the baby
girl alive.
It's It's an honour.
Can you imagine that we have zero right?
Now you are fighting everywhere in the West.
Woman's right, woman's right, you have your you
hardly
hear man is fighting. Man's right, Man's right.
No, only woman's right.
You don't have to fight Prophet Muhammad Hussain
to free all of you and make you
have the same right like the man,
with different responsibility
but
same
right.
But we feel very sad
if we don't even remember this history.
We don't remember what Allah said in His
book
in the Holy Quran.
Now let me come back to the book.
Before we move into faith is the greatest
remedy,
this subtitle,
I like to just bring back
the last topic that we discussed.
Now you come across today
a new group of people that do not
exist in a time of the early generation.
There is none that happened in the time
of Adam and Eve,
in the time of Noah,
in the time of Abraham,
in the time of Moses,
Jesus,
in the beginning
of Islam.
You don't have this group of people.
Other than this you have
about LGBTQ,
LGBTQ, LGBTQ,
LGBT, you
just name it,
have in the time of loot,
in time but it's not nailing,
yeah.
It is a disease
and Allah has wiped everything out and to
remind them back
to the norm, back
to the norm.
What is the group that exists later on
that do not exist in the time of
all the prophets?
You don't have a group who said
we don't believe. Everybody believes in something.
The difference between us and them,
we believe in one true God.
They believe in multiple God.
They have the sun God, the moon God,
day God, night God, sea god, mountain god.
They have so many gods.
Even when you ask them, do you believe
that this is God?
This is the hero. These are the warriors
before
You are protecting your country
from all the invaders
and when they die, they say, oh these
are heroes, they become they worship the hero.
Deep in their heart, they know there is
not
the true God.
This is their warrior, their fighter, their hero,
their father, their mother.
They are not God.
But they just want to believe in something.
They cannot accept that there is no God.
There must be God.
They are confused which God is the true
God. They don't know.
That's why a prophet was sent to remind
them.
Say it.
It's the same word.
Khalil Allah. What?
Isma'el, zabi'allahu,
all came with the same mission,
to remind people back to the one true
God.
That's why Allah said,
If you ask the pagan,
the Jahiliya,
Who created the heaven and the earth?
All of them said, Allah.
It's not new.
Who have turned us astray, misguide us?
Shaitan,
Lucifer.
It bliss.
You can give him, it's up to you.
You know what he said to God?
The minute
when Allah created
Adam,
then Allah command all the angels,
including
him,
He was the chief of the angels.
Prostate to Adam. Show respect
to Adam
not to worship him.
He is the only one who refused.
He know who is Allah.
Then Allah talked to him,
why
you refuse to obey my command?
You know what he said?
He said to Allah,
number 1, you created me first.
He
came, he came later.
Number 2, klacthani.
Mean what?
Now here's thing.
You see, you created
me from fire, you created him from?
From earth, from soil. I am better than
him.
He is claiming
in front of Allah, the creator, I am
better than Adam.
That's why he refused.
He even believed in Allah.
He feel he felt at that time when
he talked to the other angel, I
we all attested, I passed the test.
I never
prostrate
anyone except Allah.
I don't prostrate to Adam. No, only to
Allah.
Then Allah curse him, But this is my
command.
Then Allah cursed him from that day.
Are we sad that he was among the
angels now?
He's been downgraded
to be the cursed one.
Yeah, from among the angels started, no more.
Out
you go. How do you feel?
You feel sad?
How many sin he commit?
He commit only 1 sin.
Do not want to prostrate to Adam.
Other than that, whatever Allah want him to
do, he would do.
But not
Adam, no, no, no.
And he still worship Allah.
He still worship Allah.
When Allah tells him,
did he just get upset, get angry? No.
He prayed to Allah. He asked, oh Allah,
since you have cursed me,
Can you spare my life?
Make me
live longer.
You see, He asked for a long life.
Did we ask for a long life?
We don't even know when to care about
our life.
We just move on.
He still has hope to Allah,
and what did Allah say?
You will survive
until the end of time.
Very long.
Can you imagine he's still around?
I wish family, grandfather, great grandfather, great grandfather,
gone, he's still there.
Because he asked. He was humble enough to
ask.
He know Allah is the one who created
him,
who give life, and he's the only one
who can take our life.
He acknowledged that.
Then when Allah granted him this, you know
what he see?
With your will forbid, izatik.
Only with your will, O Allah, I
may able
to turn
children of Adam astray.
My duty now, I declare war with
Adam and his offspring.
Now he made a declaration.
From that time,
You see all the thing is mentioned in
the book, but we don't
explore and read properly without the understanding so
we do not know what is happening.
And he said, be exact, only with your
will
I can turn them astray. Not me, I
am powerless.
Only with your will, but I will do
my part,
and that is how
he declared us as his enemy.
And the Lord said to us,
you declare him as your enemy too,
but we don't
know who is our enemy.
Who are the enemy of injustice?
Who are the enemy of human right?
The big brother today,
with the capital a,
but not the people,
the people of authority.
They don't honor
other people's rights at all,
but they are the ones who champion human
right before.
They are the ones who champion freedom of
expression,
freedom of speech. Whose freedom is that?
Even those who are staying in the state,
wherever you are in the West,
do you think you have freedom to say
anything you want to? Before, yes, they said
yes, yes, yes. Now, no no no no
no.
They'll come after you.
Freedom is only for them.
You're the big brother,
and at the same time you are the
big bullies.
That is not right. Allah is great.
We thought that they are the champion of
this champion of death, wonder what happened in
Gaza
is a wake up call for everybody. Now
you see
who is the
hypocrite,
and who are
the good guy.
The Prophet said,
It is a duty for every believer
who love justice and truth
to help the oppressor
and those who have been oppressed.
How can you help the oppressor?
Remind them wrong.
Say it loud.
You have
the word. You have the technology.
Send the message, share to everybody it's wrong.
Wrong is wrong.
Injustice
is injustice.
You dare to speak up,
to remind the oppressor.
It's like how we keep on talking to
the children,
how we talk to the our worker,
if they make mistake, do you let them
carry on the mistake?
Correct them.
Wrong. This is not the right way.
And those who have been oppressed,
how do we help the one being oppressed?
You are there to protect their right.
Children are hopeless, what do they know what
is happening? They don't know.
To them with all this explosion, they think
this is like a firecrackers.
To us it's not firecracker, these are missiles
they are going to destroy. To them they
don't know children,
but they don't care.
Here they talk about human right, here they
say you have no right, you're stuck for
the law.
But it's a wake up call.
Allahu Akbar.
Now,
the new generation
have a better understanding
about right and wrong.
With all these, it's so corrupted.
What they think is
money.
That's all.
How many people who are above and control
the whole world if they want?
Why are you so greedy?
They just went
to a meeting in China
to try to tell the Chinese what to
do.
The Chinese said, we know what to do.
You don't come and teach us.
You better teach yourself.
Yeah, we don't send our army anywhere.
We take care of our country,
we produce all the new innovation,
yeah, all the product that humans need
so that everybody can live in peace
if you don't have money to buy the
expensive stuff we get a cheaper one for
you.
We
are thinking of
production
not killing people.
You never seen the Chinese government send army
anywhere? No.
They only send product.
So everyone have China in their home,
whether you like it or not.
That's what they are good at. You look
at what is happening in China, amazing.
The development that they can do
because they are not busy thinking of destroying.
They are thinking of development.
Who are the ones who send army to
country and destroy the country, kill the people?
Who are the what?
So called big brother.
That's
why we say the b b b,
big brother
Police,
like the bullies.
Now,
I've said about this group,
the 3rd group that exists only
in our time,
called
the atheists
free thinkers
or communists. They don't believe in God.
Even Chaitan believe in God,
you know, our number one enemy, he believed
in God. He also was shocked when they
said they don't believe in God. Wow, these
people are
braver than me, you know,
I never declared that there's no God,
but there are group of people who say,
no God.
So a little
philosophy makes one lean towards disbelief
and to delve into philosophy
bring the mind closer to a religion.
The mind close.
People who are,
yeah, who don't want to believe in God,
they come of all the
philosophy.
That one is not here yet.
I'm just read,
we,
go back to the last class.
Allah Almighty
in Surah 29, verse 43
reminds us,
we put forward for mankind
but none will understand
them except those who have knowledge.
Without knowledge you cannot understand.
Now what is knowledge?
Opinion,
feeling is not knowledge.
Pure knowledge is what God said in the
divine book.
Uncorrupted,
unchanged,
and what the prophet
has taught us.
In chapter 35
verse 28, Allah continue
reminding us
it is only those who have knowledge
among
His slave
that
acknowledge
the Creator.
Understand?
And no more create everything for a reason.
He never create anything without a purpose.
Yeah.
Can you imagine what is happening in our
daily life?
I was just sharing something this morning.
I said
every night before
we sleep,
my habit, my hobby,
I want to make sure the kitchen clean.
I want to make sure the floor clean.
If my eye can see,
yeah, some dirt, just one
dirt.
I will make sure I wipe it,
and I have to vacuum.
I do that.
Because I like to see everything clean then
I go to sleep.
So that when I wake up tomorrow morning,
everything is ready.
Everything that we wash
after having dinner
dry, we must wipe and make sure it's
in the cupboard
not outside.
Why?
Because
the animal kingdom is very active at night.
When we are asleep, they start to move.
So if you don't take care of all
these things, they are moving around.
And they can sit here, sit there.
They spit here, spit there. They do. They
you can't see them.
So the next one is, why what is
happening to the floor? Why there is this
black dot there and
there is that there is their time.
Night is their day, day.
Yeah is night. So
when we are active, they're inactive.
When we are not active, they're very active.
That's why the prophet says if you have
left out food or drink, do not eat
tomorrow morning if you don't cover it.
If you don't cover, don't eat
because
you're exposed,
yeah, to the other creation of God. They
also eat and they also drink your coffee,
you know, your tea,
karak tea, you know, and, marsala tea,
they also taste a bit and then they
everywhere is their toilet. That's a difference.
Now we have a proper way, proper place
to go. They anywhere they do business,
wherever they eat this the same thing, they
can just pass out urine and then do
their business and we are not eat. We
don't know.
Tomorrow morning we just
warm it up and we drink.
Plus something something got plus plus already.
So that's why it's good for us to
keep environment
clean.
Who taught us? Only Allah.
And the prophet who created Allah, the Creator,
He knows what is happening so He is
alerting us and the prophet was sent to
explain everything in detail.
And look at the saying of Allah again
in Surah 30
was 56.
And those who have been
grand with knowledge
and iman.
Knowledge always make you
have stronger faith.
If your knowledge that nothing to link connected
to faith that is not pure knowledge.
Pure knowledge is what God said and what
the prophet has shared with her.
For people who have the right knowledge
guided by iman
will always say,
indeed
oh Allah,
you have stayed according to the decree of
Allah until the day of resurrection.
You remind yourself
anything that Allah ordained to happen
is going to happen.
You cannot escape from the kadar of Allah.
But anything that have happened now
is a reminder
for everyone
who have knowledge.
Do you want to be like them? No.
Okay. Change.
That's why the prophet said, none of you
can be a true believer
if you don't love others what you love
for yourself.
Do you love freedom? Of course.
Do you love to have peace and have
food, have drink? Yes.
Then you must feel for the other people.
If anybody talks about
you love to be
a proper human.
You love to have your freedom. You love
to have food on the table.
You love to have a good night's sleep.
Then you must feel for the people of
Gaza.
If you say I don't have any feeling,
then you know where you stand now.
You are just
like
the bad guy.
The bad guy has a political agenda,
but you as a follower, you don't have
any political agenda.
Why must you just follow this
killer,
this oppressor,
who treats humans like animals?
How can you treat humans like animals?
Animal is animal.
No.
If you treat them as animal, any animal
that you are having in your area or
the dog, the cat you should kill,
they don't deserve to live
but they keep
dogs. Yeah, they keep cat, kill, kill.
If you can kill human, you should have
killed all the other animals. No, no, no.
All these I love cat, I love dog,
But you ignore the human right.
Even
doctors,
even doctors
whether they are Muslim
or not yet Muslim doctor,
they do come out with their own research.
And they did
collectively
say the true believer will never be afflicted
by mental sickness.
We have a lot of mental issues
because
we don't have a belief
but when you have a belief,
it will protect you,
give you the peace of mind.
And
no more
keeps on reminding us, whoever works righteousness,
whether male or female,
while he or she is a true believer
who believes in the one true God,
To him we will give a good life
in this world
with respect,
contentment,
and lawful provision,
and we shall pay them certainly a huge
reward
in proportion to the best of what they
used to do in this world
that Allah is sure to reward you with
paradise.
And verily Allah is the guide of those
who believe
to the straight path.
This is what we have been asking Allah
day in day out.
Out.
Mustaqim,
oh Allah,
guide us all to the straight path.
Now we're coming into this faith is the
greatest
remedy.
One of the foremost
experts in psychology of our time Doctor. Carl
Jung
mentioned in page 26 4 of his book
The Modern Man
Inches of Spirit.
Sometimes the author of this book Don't be
sad also brings the opinion of
those
who are not yet
a Muslim.
Over the last 30 years, people from all
over the world have come to me seeking
advice
who
from Doctor
Carl Jung.
I treated hundreds of patients
and most of them were middle age or
more than 35
years old.
The problem with every one of them return
to one issue,
seeking refuge in region
and by doing so been able to have
a perspective
or outlook on life.
I can reasonably say that every one of
them
became sick because they missed out
on that which religion has to offer to
the believer.
And the one who does not develop a
true faith cannot be healed.
When you do not want to come back
to God,
you will have more problems.
You see, that's why
in Islam,
the basic foundation,
don't forget to revisit
the 561.
That is our basic
foundation.
I always remind a lot of my students
wherever I go
even among scholars when we
sit down and discuss I say please
we must remind all our students of knowledge,
seekers of knowledge,
professionals,
people,
students,
parents,
revisit
561.
Revisit. Don't overconfident
and think that you have learned
anything about Islam until you really understand
561.
But whoever turn away from my reminder Allah
is telling us
that means you do not want to
believe what Allah said.
You believe in yourself, you believe in what
people said more than what God said.
For him
is a life of hardship.
You have more problems.
That's why a lot of people
went through depression,
anxiety,
yeah,
and all other kinds of problems
that doctors didn't have before.
They don't
know why. Suicidal.
Why? Why?
When everybody, the poor, there are so many
poor people still survive, even they sleeping in
the roadside, they still survive.
And you are sleeping in your your your
room with aircon and then you want to
commit suicide.
We don't understand why. What happened to you?
You have a home, you have the car,
and you have peace, you still want the
suicide.
You look at so many people who are
so poor, you know,
and alhamdulillah, they can sleep wherever they want
to sleep.
Yeah.
For us, I don't think we can sleep
near the roadside.
Yeah. For the poor, no problem.
Bismillah,
he's gone.
And sometime when I was walking around the
street,
I saw some very
naive
individuals,
going to all this place where we throw
all the rubbish,
the rubbish bin,
near the bus stop and so on.
Looking for
what? Looking for some food that people throw.
When I observed this,
I would go to him
and I would give some money to him.
Go and buy some food. I don't know
what kind of food you like.
I thought they were just poor,
that's why they survived in that manner.
So I gave them some money, maybe 10
ringgit,
20 ringgit,
and he took my money and threw it
in the dustbin.
I have I have to pick up now.
Just now he was picking up some food,
I gave him some money so that he
can buy good food.
He threw my money in the dustbin.
Then I know that
mentally,
he's not sound. He doesn't know the difference
between
money and people.
I don't blame him. He's crazier.
Yes, of course, only crazy people will do
that. You don't have to remind them that
they're crazy.
By the action, you know they are not.
Yeah, they don't have some colors.
Either you go and buy some food
and pass it to them
or you bring them to the nearby
food store and call them
to choose
because
the hawker and the one who's selling us
is not going to entertain them.
You must bring them
and then see what you want.
You say, this is okay, order.
Let them go, and then you pay.
So there are many ways to help
your people.
Don't just think that, I give money already.
You know,
you give money to the wrong people.
They cannot eat money.
So sometimes
you must use, yeah,
your common sense
and always remember,
if you are kind to the creation of
Allah,
the prophet say If you show mercy to
the creation of Allah on this
earth, the one in the heaven
will shower His mercy.
Don't worry, you will never get poor for
that.
That's why he says, richness is not because
we have a lot of money.
Yeah.
Richness is not because you have a lot
of saving money, 1,000,000,000,000,000.
Richness is
you are contented with what you have.
Even the little you have, I'm happy.
I can sleep well,
I can eat,
I can drink,
I can move around,
is
a lot of blessing.
What is money but you cannot eat,
You only eat pills,
only supplement.
People eat pizza.
People eat this and you eat pills
because you are not well.
What is money?
Money can't buy happiness.
Sometimes a whole family,
yeah, was destroyed because of money.
Parents worked very hard to accumulate money to
make sure that children
would live
and have a better life,
But one parent
passed away,
children are fighting
like nobody business
just because of money.
Very sad. Do we feel sad?
We did not want our children to end
in this manner.
We always make sure you go to school,
go for your higher education.
What you need? We give it to you.
We work harder. No problem.
We don't even want our children to suffer,
to have some difficulties. That's why we do
everything for them, plus we have extra money.
We have 1 mate, 2 mate, 3 mates,
so many helpers. Why?
We don't want our children to do anything.
Don't burden the children.
Let them study, enjoy life,
so they become
boss from a very young age.
What did Allah and the prophet said about
this?
The time will come.
They will treat their parents like slaves
because they have been bossed from too young.
Order. Order the main, order the,
you know, anything they wear, they just throw
down. You pick up.
You wash for them, you iron for them,
prepare everything for them,
they are not grateful at all.
And that's why sometimes you hear that parents
are suffering.
It's not that they don't have money,
but the children don't treat them as parents.
Shout screams at them, how do you feel?
How do you feel?
That's why in Namal Ussuri Yusrha,
learned through hardship.
It's good for them.
Yeah.
I'm very
happy how I was brought up by my
mother.
She was a non Muslim. I was a
Chinese Buddhist.
My father died when I was very young,
9 years old.
Very young.
Yeah.
So my mother had no time to pamper
children.
She had to work very hard to take
care of the 6 children.
I'm the youngest among the males,
But I was very very happy because my
mother worked very hard, and he never pampered
children.
He will call us do what you have
to do.
From age 9, I wash my own uniform,
my school shoes, I will have to do
all this by myself
so that I value my dress.
I value the shoes that I wear.
And most of our siblings, alhamdulillah,
with the hard work my mother has gone
through,
children become very strong,
and we all stay united
until today.
Yeah.
The little that
our parents have done for us,
this is the result. If
she would give everything we
want,
pamper us, we also have helpers,
yeah.
My father is not a poor guy
but because
big family.
But alhamdulillah
we pick up a lot of good thing.
One thing that we always like to recall
when we sit down among the siblings,
and we always give respect to the elders
who are sisters
because the elders always have to sacrifice more,
You know, have to give in, giving, go
to the younger sibling.
The younger also wants extra attention.
So attention will go to the younger one,
the elders just
everything the elders must share with the younger
one.
So we have to learn
how our elders have gone through,
and we are very grateful for them.
Alhamdulillah, this value
was developed.
Alhamdulillah,
before my mother passed away,
I always called her to Islam, and she
made shahada with me.
My elder brother made Shahada before he passed
away.
We offered the prayers in this hall.
The other siblings,
we are very, very close,
and
they do show a lot of respect to
me and my family.
And that's how we move on as a
family.
Whatever hardship we have gone through,
Whatever we have today is the result but
in Namal Usri,
you swore.
Everything that starts with
difficulty, there will be ease.
Don't give up hope,
yeah. That's why
the next topic that we will continue later
on the coming week do not lose hope.
There's always
like what the people used to say, every
tunnel at the end of the tunnel there
is,
lies.
Just move on.
Don't let anything stop you.
Just move on.
Yeah.
And Allah warns us to,
we shall cast terror into the hearts of
those who disbelieve
because they join others in worship with Allah
in Surah 3, verse 151.
And last 1, Surah 24, verse 40,
darkness,
zulu.
A zulumat,
one above another.
If a man stretch out his hand, he
can hardly see it,
and he for whom Allah has not appointed
light for him, there is no light.
Meaning you must remember,
the world starts with darkness,
then noor
shines in.
The light comes.
The truth
is a very powerful light.
Just learn how to follow
the way
that Allah has shown us.
The Prophet was sent to bring us out
from darkness to light.
There's a mission of all prophets
to bring us out
from ignorance
to knowledge.
From become a blind follower, mokkaledin,
to
muttabiin.
To be a follower
with an open heart, open mind, with knowledge.
Don't be a blind follower.
So brothers and sisters,
may Almighty Allah
enlighten all of us.
As long as your heart is open
and your mind is open,
Love to listen and learn,
but I would like to remind all of
us that are seekers of knowledge.
Look for pure knowledge,
not just knowledge.
And pure knowledge is what God said
in His book, Unchanged,
Unaltered.
100%
true.
We have been blessed by this book, the
holy Quran
that was revealed as the last testament.
You have the Old Testament to Moses,
the New Testament to Jesus, and you have
the last testament that cover everything
from cradle to grave.
This book, the Holy Quran,
and the prophet was sent as what?
We never send you, oh Prophet Muhammad.
Some more what is accepted to bring
Rama,
Whoever follows him will never fail,
but most of the people have been failing
and keep on failing
because we chose not to follow him.
We thought that there are other people who
are better leaders than him.
Where Allah said
Allah the Creator
efum
and He said
indeed
through Him,
Muhammad Salah,
you get the best
example.
You will never fail,
and history has proven.
He is a good businessman
to Katija
and he become
a good husband to Katija,
and he become a good father to all
his children,
and he become a good
leader
for the Ummah
until he returned back to Allah.
And he has shown us everything in so
detail when Allah said eat, drink, he was
sent to show us what to eat, what
to drink, how to eat, how to drink,
How to enter the toilet, how to get
out from the toilet, how to wash yourself.
Everything.
Can you imagine you don't have any other
religion that is so detailed in Islam?
How to eat?
Can you blow towards your hot food, hot
drink? No.
Do you breathe in while you are drinking?
No.
Do you eat and drink your left hand?
No. Right, right, right.
And don't rush when you're eating.
Relax.
He was the man who was sent by
Allah
to have a very unique,
well
systematic
development.
The development of
bms,
body, mind and soul.
Very well balanced.
Your body have right.
Honor the body's right.
Your mind have right.
You must pick your mind with the right
knowledge, right information that not corrupting your mind
and your soul have right. Stay connected
with Almighty, the Creator.
Worship Him.
You will never lose anything.
In sha
Allah, we pray that Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala
would help us to get out
from our sadness that we encounter
in our daily life
but please don't forget to revisit
561
and understand
and the most powerful one
is after you make declaration of it
is
understand
and
Understand
what is being being preordained
by Allah.
Yeah,
because very very important knowledge.
So if there's any question, now we open
for Q and A.
Pastor Mike to the sisters.
Today is a public holiday.
I want to know how do I repay
or I caught up my previous solace,
during my younger days which I left. No.
So how do I do it? Because
some is like this, you have to do
every time after your solace Correct. You have
to conduct.
No. So I'm really confused Yeah. Which is
the right way. We all are very confused
is because we like to entertain
opinions.
Some scholars say this, some scholars say that.
Now let me be very straightforward.
A woman, especially a woman,
when you are fasting in the month of
Ramadan
where fasting is an obligation,
Also, you must pray. Correct?
Now when you cannot fast because you're having
your period, your man says,
do you pray?
You don't pray? No.
Do you fast?
You don't fast. Yeah. Now after you finish,
1 week or 2 weeks,
your mind says, do you pay back the
fasting day you miss?
Normally, do you pay back?
No.
No. The law, normally the understanding that you
have, do you pay back,
cut down your fasting day that you miss
when you're having your menses and period?
What do you think?
Sure.
No. Everybody will pay back because everybody knows.
Allah said that.
If you are traveling, you are sick, don't
pass.
You pay back later. Pay back later. Correct?
Yes. Yes. You make qadah. Correct?
Do you pay back the prayer that you
miss?
Yes.
Do you pray the prayer that you miss?
No?
Not sure. Nobody do that.
Not sure.
You see?
Nobody do that
because they know
that the prophet never taught you to do
that.
The prayer is an obligation too,
but when you have your menses in the
fasting month, you cannot fast, you cannot pray,
but when you are clean, you have to
pay back the day you missed
in the fasting month, but you don't pay
back the prayer
because there is no cutoff for prayer.
If there is a kadak rule for praying,
then you should pray too.
But nobody will teach you to pay back
the day that you miss,
yeah, when you're having a man's because there's
no law to say that you should pay
back.
It is a must give to you.
When you have gone through this, you have
holiday.
Only the woman has this extra holiday.
Men
don't share this holiday. It's not for men.
Until you are no more men,
then we don't know what problem
the doctor has to confirm, you know, what
problem are you having, you know.
Prayer that you miss when you are young
and we are still young, alhamdulillah.
Remember
when you are 2 digits, you are always
young.
From 10, 10 to 99, we are all
young people.
When you reach 3 digits, then you can
say I'm old.
So alhamdulillah, all are young people.
No.
You miss your prayer.
Anything that if you miss because you overslept,
this morning, example, you wake up at 9
AM because it's a public holiday.
Right, Fajar,
immediately you pray that is your time.
You forget maybe you're so busy in doing
this and that's when Zohar
finished. Asa already. Now you remember, pray.
That is your time.
You pray Zohar first, then pray Asah. Of
course. Even now you're in Asah time Asah.
Because you don't you cannot miss your prayer
purposely but you may forget.
You may always slept and the prophet said
there's no sin
on people who always slept and then their
time when they wake up.
There's no sin on people who forget
and that when they remember that is their
time.
This is for your daily
prayer
but when you miss the prayer when you
are young because you are not aware that
this is a mark, somebody had given you
some idea, no problem
first, and then you pay back, pay back
later on.
You were misguided.
Of course you commit a sin, but Allah's
mercy is so great
that we do not die at that time.
He spared our lives until today.
And what does Allah want from us?
Whoever
realized the mistake they've done
or the wrong thing they've done and they
repent,
Oh Allah,
I've committed
so many sins,
uncountable sins.
I'm coming back to you for mantana.
Waaamanana,
and you are renewing your faith, coming back.
Strengthen your iman.
Learn.
And act righteously. Now you're not going to
miss your prayer anymore.
What did Allah say?
Allah is telling us
because of your sincerity,
your commitment you want to change,
you are not playing with God.
I
will forgive all your past sins.
Not only that
Allah said for you but Dear Lord,
I
will transfer your bad deeds
20 years ago into good deeds for you.
Can you imagine brother and sister? Dealing with
Allah, you just have to be sincere
and go back to him.
Don't talk about the past. The past is
lesson learned. Now we are talking about today
and our future.
I'm very
happy for myself,
at least myself.
When I became a Muslim in the late
sixties
and I started to learn about prayer,
I never missed Imo Monday.
Alhamdulillah.
I don't have any reason to miss my
prayer.
One thing helped me because 4 years when
I became a Muslim,
I chose to sleep in domestic.
That is my home.
I don't stay elsewhere except Masjid.
From one Masjid to another Masjid, I keep
on migrating
because we are bachelors, young,
and the Masjid before is different,
very open.
Today, most of the Masjid is closed after
prayer time.
Last time it's open
To the extent when my mom asked me,
where are you staying?
I say, mommy, don't worry. I stay in
a stain. Big house.
It's not easy if you tell them, no,
I'm sleeping on that, just no mattress, nothing,
just on the floor. Maybe you see some,
yeah,
some,
carpet near the mosque, I just sleep. Why
don't you come home?
You have bed, room for you.
But I love to be in that environment
so that I can learn very fast.
I follow the people who pray. Because most
you have people who come and pray,
and I can just approach anybody.
Please help me. I want to recite, Fatih,
listen, can you see whether my recitation okay?
Because there's a lot of people in the
mosque.
That helped me, I think. I'll ham the
dinner.
So I developed that
relationship
that I would now miss my prayer.
How busy I am, I never miss my
prayer.
Yeah. Alhamdulillah. But what you have just shared
with us, the past one, Allah will forgive
you. Just make sure you do not miss
the prayer from now onwards.
Yeah. People can say, let them say what
they want to say.
We believe what Allah said,
and Allah is more merciful so they'll tell
you you cannot pray the Sunnah prayer at
all now because you have missed 20 years
of prayer so after Subo Subo,
after Zohar Zohar pay back pay back pay
back.
If Allah wants you to pay back then
you have to pay back
but if Allah said no
just repent,
what is the problem? You don't believe in
no man's word?
Simple as that.
Religion is not based on how I feel,
how I think,
is what allows it.
That's how we move on. That's why I
always remind a lot of people,
the adapt of following a religion, you don't
entertain
hearsay.
What Allah said final,
and have that belief.
Yeah? Okay.
From there. Next,
pada.
Thank you so much.
Assalamu alaikum.
You know the,
slide that you fleshed out just now?
The surah 19, sorry,
my gosh,
okay,
the surah 19,
oh my gosh. Which one?
1996.
It says,
the true believer
will never be afflicted by mental sickness,
but we do know that religious people,
have been afflicted by mental illness.
Mhmm. When
I see that or hear that, I
I don't know whether my assumption is right
or not. Okay. I hope you can confirm
it.
That if Allah wants to
give you dua'an, you know, challenge, right?
No matter how religious you are, if
that's what Owa wants for you, you will
you will you will you will you will
you will experience it.
But I do,
based on research,
yeah, that there are a lot of religious
people who are also afflicted by mental illnesses.
So how how do you explain that, Shay?
Very interesting. Thank you. When Allah said the
true believer,
the true believer always
are guided
how to move forward.
They know life is full of challenges, hardship,
difficulty
because they have to believe in Kadah and
Kadah.
But a lot of people today, they are
not true believers, they are believers
but not true believers.
Their understanding toward Kadar and Kadar also very
very minimum.
That's why they start
to think, overthinking
why why why.
That is the beginning of their problem.
But when you have the right belief you
don't
immediately anything
hardship
or any
suffering,
any pain, what you always do, you say,
qadrullaw
wama sha afar. The prophet taught us
you try your best,
do what you have to do,
at the end, you have faith in Allah.
Allah makes it happen for a reason,
only the true believer will understand.
And that's why in Surat al Hujurat,
Allah talks about this.
A group of Arabs came to the Prophet
in Surat al Hujarat, verse 13 onwards.
Arab, not us. In the time the prophet
came to the prophet said, we are believers.
They claim they are believers.
Belief is in your heart. No one knows.
Only you and Allah.
So the prophet cannot say anything, just listen.
If you say you're a believer, okay,
but look at how Allah responds.
Kulam tuq minu,
walakin kulu aslamna.
O Mohammed,
say to this
self claimed believer,
Arabs,
Bedouin,
you are not yet a believer.
Kullam
tumkmeenu, wala kengkulu
as sufficient
for you
to say I am a Muslim.
You see there's a difference between Muslim and
Muslim.
Yeah. There's a lot there. There's a difference
between iman and taqwa.
Taqwa is a higher level.
Then Allah
When the iman
settles in your heart,
it's not you what you say, how you
dress. What is inside?
What is the result?
There must be a rizah.
There are signs.
The product of the iman that enter your
heart, the true iman,
will make you a person who is ready.
Anything what Allah want you to do, what
Allah said you only respond,
samikna
wa ta'ala.
I obey,
and I will do it.
No more excuses.
There is a true believer.
But for us in general,
I have been doing a lot of counseling
with a lot of
Muslims.
Of course they all are believers
but not yet a true believer.
A true believer, they know how to move
on.
They don't entertain
things that is not in their control.
You know, you only can do your level
best, and that's why Islam also said,
prevention is better than cure. Do your homework
and then you leave it to Allah, but
you have to do your
part. You cannot say,
tawakal, tawakal,
no.
No.
If you don't know
this how to solve this problem, how to
move forward,
You don't know what caused your body to
pain? You don't have the knowledge. You are
not a doctor. What should you do?
Yeah?
What should we do?
Allah guide us.
If you don't
know, If you don't know,
you don't be
a doctor by yourself. You don't know.
Go and see a doctor.
Ask those who have knowledge.
Doctor, I don't know why my
leg is pain, my body is having this
pain.
You don't know.
You don't just go to anywhere and then
and ask anybody on the street, hey, what
do you do?
If you have this pain, all I do
or anything,
I eat this, I eat that,
pain gone. What are you going to eat?
Ask those who are specialized in that field,
and they will check your body and they
will give you some advice. That's what our
world said.
If you have handphone problem,
what do you do?
Kholas,
where it's not functioning,
you throw away.
You have money.
I take a new one.
Go to the
shop. You don't go to the imam. Hey,
imam,
can you reset something, make dua for my
handphone so that my handphone, everything is okay
again? I don't know why my battery get
weak so fast. No. Then the imam will
reschedule and pour some water.
You pour some water on them.
Spoil it all.
Now you have people doing that now.
They are doing that. You want to buy
a new car? Okay.
I don't sell you just a new car.
I have a special imam plus plus service
and he'll recite in certain prayer and put
in a in a pail of water and
then he'll use the water and spray on
the new car. Now
you can drive.
You'll be protected, stuck through the law.
It's not like that. What
business, all what everything is money.
You pay me, I make some prayer,
stuck through the law.
You must understand what you're doing.
Common sense will tell you, first,
you must have the license to drive.
You must know,
yeah,
the law of
the road. You must learn. You cannot say
have been prayed. Call us Bismillah.
Anytime I go, I don't care about the
traffic light, Bismillah. You do that?
Then the traffic police will be very happy.
Oh,
you follow the rule.
Everything that is law and all, they just
follow, sunnatul law.
So normally the iman or the majority,
we feel that we have iman. We claim
that we are believers,
but
the real thing that
the man does not really settle in the
heart yet.
That's why you see suddenly they start to
change.
Suddenly they don't pray anymore.
How can you do that?
You know. You have to pray.
The test will come, but God show you
the way
and everything happened for a reason
for you to be more alert,
and if you don't compare,
always compare people who are lesser than you.
Don't compare with people who are better than
you. Then you find
peace. You're contented.
I've seen a lot of people who came
to me sharing a lot of problems. When
I listened to their problems
I feel very sad.
This is not a problem at all,
but to them it's a problem because they
don't have the understanding.
That's why you have all these you call
about
mental sickness starting, overthinking.
InshaAllah,
we will
look into depth,
yeah, according to the guidance of Islam, not
according to our understanding.
Now there is
we just want to share,
insha'Allah,
Saturday June 1st,
we also will start one kind of
of activities
before
normally before our class,
journaling to don't beset the book that we
are using.
Normally we have the Halakkah
to understand and recap what we have learned.
This is just a journal true topic that
I have shared with all of you,
and,
Sister Anish, my
SO, will be assisting all of you,
and this kind of exercise activity will happen
every 5 weeks only once.
Once in every 5 weeks. Just to recap
what you have learned, sometimes we have learned
so many things but we don't know
you know, our understanding,
our level of understanding we don't know
until when you have some kind of
exercise
through journaling then we may
have a better understanding,
and to help those who are still around
attending the classes
to strengthen our memory
and develop the right understanding
about the knowledge that we have acquired.
Yes, very important.
The time of the prophet,
they don't need all this training. Why?
Because
they
are exposed to the reality.
They engage in every activities.
We are not talking Muslim,
they are practicing
Muslims.
That's why we are saying today,
talking Muslims
everywhere.
Practicing
Muslims very rare.
That is our reality.
Talk, everybody is talking. In action,
hardly you see them around.
You see? So the time of the prophet,
the action is always there.
War is there. They're engaged in war.
The people come after them,
the kufaro,
they are there to face them
day in, day out.
They have problem from family who disown them.
So with all the situation
is happening
and that's how
their iman gets stronger and stronger,
and they become so united.
They are minority,
but very strong,
because they stay united
and follow the guidance of Allah
and what the Prophet have taught them.
May Allah help us, may Allah accept all
our
sacrifice,
and may Allah
make us about 2 questions online, please.
Any advice on a wife who does not
pray salah?
Yeah. Just remind them to pray.
Wake them up.
It's the duty of a husband
to make sure
this thing will not happen if from the
beginning when we want to get married,
we know each other,
We know that she's praying Muslim, you are
a praying Muslim,
alhamdulillah,
but we may be tested because
when we
are
courting time,
we don't bother about
prayer.
We just that is why they said there
is a word love is blind.
Everything okay, okay.
Then alhamdulillah
we got married.
That's why the prophet taught us after nikah,
before you have intimacy,
pray together.
Turukat prayer.
It's a
great sunnah, the prophet, from the beginning. Don't
disconnect yourself with God.
Then
of course you have to pray. As a
Muslim, you know praying is an obligation. It's
like every day you eat, you drink,
every day you sleep,
same thing, praying is a daily obligation.
So make sure that we have been praying
from the beginning, then you don't have this
problem.
But this problem started
when we were young,
we are not exposed to this, we thought
no problem,
I wait until I'm 40 years old then
I'll start to pray.
If you know that Allah guarantees you you'll
live until 45 then different.
We don't know After getting married 4 days
you die. Who knows?
So now,
alhamdulillah,
one party
learns about Islam
and we feel
that when we are changing we bring our
wife to change together.
We don't do that.
We just move by ourselves and leave our
wife behind. Now you are better, the wife
is still the same.
So it's your duty to make sure that
you remind her. If you love her, remind
her
the importance of prayer.
And also we hope the parents also play
their role. It's like the parents, they attend
classes, they don't bring their children.
The children are always home alone,
but they are not alone, we know. They
have all the gadgets with them and they
are going around the world,
then they are not learning.
We change, but our children are not changing
because
we never bring them along.
It's our duty to remind each other and
pray for the best.
If the husband fails
because
some sisters
are
very hard
inside,
And they don't mind you to change.
I say give more time for us.
Now you are an angel now, I'm still
the others, the opposite, you know. Yeah. We
start together like that, like before.
Now you're moving forward, I'm still
not changing, so you can bring the wife
to see us
so that we can try to help her
and make her understand
why
we must pray together.
Don't give up.
That is my advice
for the brother.
Don't go and say, if you don't pray,
call us, bye bye.
I'm going out already. I'm going to look
for a new partner
who will pray.
No, you don't do that Because you start
together like that.
Normally normally you start like that.
You know?
So inshallah,
don't give up.
Remind her.
Bring her to classes.
Bring her to see a good scholars.
May
Allah give her guidance, yes, sir.
Amen. Next. Okay.
The last question is, nowadays
people talk about diversity
and inclusion.
How do we respond respectfully
to that?
You repeat that.
Nowadays
people talk about diversity
and inclusion.
How do we respond? Diversity.
And
inclusion.
Okay.
How do we respond respectfully to that?
What do they normally understand by this term?
If that person is still online,
what do they understand
by diversity
and inclusion? Is that
the term he used?
What do we understand
by this word?
The LGBTs.
They want to include everybody.
Yeah. But you need to include the thing.
Yeah. What I work different Yeah. Of course,
different.
Here are Chinese, here are Indian, they are
Malay,
white, black.
And then plus,
yeah, we never exclude anybody.
Islam never excludes
anybody.
But go back to the basic.
Don't create something that do not exist.
Yeah.
Amma the Creator has said,
the whole world has accepted
that there is a he and she.
Nobody denied all scripture.
Yeah. From the time of Adam and Eve,
even in the time of Luke you have
this kind of problem but
no religion
endures it.
Everybody
go back to basic, the foundation,
he and she.
Now you have another group
called the heshe or shehe.
And they want
to be included.
You are included.
We just want to know, are you a
he or she?
You just
decide for yourself.
We only accept what Allah accepts.
That's all.
You may have some problem
that that you have to go for treatment
when you are not sure. You cannot
be not sure
because Allah has shown you signs.
When you were born, what organ do you
have?
That's how you confirm that the sign is
there.
Then I will make sure that your upbringing
is according to the sign.
The problem sometimes,
you want to have a baby girl,
all will give you boy,
and then you plan boy, okay. You plan
boy,
okay. Then suddenly you'll miss the girly kind
of,
yeah,
person,
so you dress the 5th boy
like a girl.
You give them toys
like to a girl,
a girl like to what kind of toy,
so you want to treat her like a
she.
Then suddenly she develops.
It's not that you were born, you have
that.
The environment
corrupts you.
You have a sickness now,
and later on they develop because we keep
on acknowledging acknowledging,
then they become
known now and they are proud to be
who they want to be.
What do you say? One day,
the woman said, is my right? I have
no feeling for men at all. I don't
have feelings with women also. I only have
feelings with doubts.
What do you think?
It's my right word.
So you bring a dog to the church,
so the father will have to sit to
both of you.
Yeah.
Do you love?
Yeah.
So how are you going to talk to
the dog?
Maybe you train the dog to bark.
Okay.
Confirm.
Things can happen if you allow this nonsense
to happen. It's going to happen,
but we never cut them off.
We say go back to the basic.
Na'an. But,
Che,
sorry. Is it possible,
is it possible that someone were to be
born with 2 organs? No. Not impossible.
That's why they have a law kit.
In the Quran, Allah said male and female.
That's all.
So it's not possible? No. It is possible.
Possible? It is possible, but sometimes people were
born with 2 organs.
So how do you then you got to
ask a specialist. They will check the hormones.
They will check everything.
That he will check everything
and then if the inclination
is towards that, then the doctor
will
make
come up with a decision. I think because
we check everything your hormones seems to go
to a she more than they do an
operation
and maintain a she.
Then you move towards that direction. You have
to guide her towards that direction.
If
when they check everything or your hormone is
towards the male then they do an operation
and confirm
it is a he. I have encountered this
maybe in the eighties people came to me,
you know, and they want to get married.
Yeah.
So the the transverse the states,
community,
that means they did not possibly go through
this process. Yeah? Yeah. No. Because
they
because the people have accept.
You see? Now I just share with you.
Now
in 2020
to 2022,
we declare what?
What is the declaration
by the government?
It's
the COVID years.
No movement,
no outdoor
stay inside.
Correct?
You know what is happening until today? Some
people
is so
fear the fear is so until now they
don't go out.
They were locked in.
They order everything by grab. They will now
come up.
Fear.
Thing is going to change.
So when something happen
and if you entertain,
I think COVID is still around. Of course,
the people say every everything happened today
is no more flu,
cough,
everything
COVID.
They put that in your mind now. Everything
is COVID
so that the medicine,
all these things will still go on. They
they have
corrupted your mindset.
Yeah. Flu is flu. Cough is cough.
Go back to the basic.
So you have people who have this, let
me say you have to go to the
specialist
and let them help you,
and then after the check, they will know
how to help you and they will decide
now you have to go through this operation
and reconfirm that you are now known as
a he
or you are known as a she, then
only we can move forward.
Because they want to get married,
one a revert, one a born Muslim.
It should happen that the revert
is a she
and the born Muslim
was a he she.
So we said we can't.
The law doesn't allow. The Islamic law doesn't
allow. You have to decide.
But based on your IC,
your birth certificate, you are a she and
the revert is a she. We can't.
No, no, I'm not a she. I'm a
he now, but
documents said she.
You see? Your documents said you are a
she.
We cannot say anything until you make some
changes.
So the who can make help you? The
doctor,
who are specialized in that area and tell
you after that, no, you are a he
now.
The one he have a letter
from the specialist said now he has declared
that he's a he, then we declare you
as he.
We cannot declare you
more than that,
and then we move on.
That's how we
guide the people. We don't entertain things that
is not
allowed.
What happened to the people in the time
of Luz?
Do they entertain?
The man is coming after the man.
And what did Allah do?
Allah did He sent angels,
and to us, angel is a she.
That angel transforms as a he, no angel
transforms as a she.
Only in the mind of some people, when
you say angel
is a female with wings,
but the Quran
and hadith said all the angels always then
they transform themselves to see the prophet, they
came in the form of a man.
Neither angel is a he or she.
Allotted him from like
the Nur.
Yeah,
But when you look at the spelling of
Malaika,
it's Moanness,
It's like representing
a she,
but nobody all this historical
oh, the transformer is not new.
Only they make it real today.
Yeah.
I hope you have the right understanding, Insha'a.
Yeah. The problem today when we start to
entertain,
then we have problem.
We never exclude them from the beginning.
They themselves exclude themselves,
you
know, and that is the problem.
So we have to go back to the
foundation.
We believe what God said.
We don't believe in what a human wants
to say.
Human
is always very corrupted.
You know killing is forbidden but you love
to kill and you
have the license to kill a staghfirullah,
what is that?
We don't have the right to protect our
right? No.
Last time you say, enjoy freedom of speech
now, the student is talking, they don't allow
anymore.
All double standard.
Anything that please you, you accept.
Anything against you, you don't accept,
but you are going against your own principle
now.
So it's time for us to go back
to the basic.
You have right, but every right
must be guided. There is a limit for
every right.
You want to throw rubbish in your same
in your room, it's your right it's your
room 1.
You go and go and throw your rubbish
to the neighbor and you know what the
neighbor will do to you. Oh, in my
right, I want to throw. Okay.
Then you'll say also we also have our
right.
You throw 1, you throw 10.
Whatever you say, oh, I don't know my
right. I don't know why my hand just
go like that.
You just do it and see.
You see what will happen.
Everybody has a right, but you must have
a limit.
You must be guided.
Yeah.
Alhamdulillah.
May Allah accept
all the sacrifice that we have been going
through
and help us to be a better person
and to overcome
all the sadness
that we are normally exposed to.
And Allah is the best healer.
And Allah said
meaning,
indeed the Quran was revealed as a healer
and as a rahma
for those who follow.
Subhanakkullahu,
you still have no more here? We end
by reciting Tasbeg Kiphora, and we will start
soon our Zohar prayer.
Subhanahu kullahuumma
wabihamdika
The meaning of this recitation, the prophet always
recommend us to recite at the end of
our gathering
classes
is, oh our glory be to you,
all praises belong to you,
We bear witness. None have to worship except
You alone.
We ask You for forgiveness.
Forgive us, O Allah,
and we are repenting to You, accept our
repentance.
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