The Nafs And Ego

Hasan Ali

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Rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salatu salam ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi nine

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are all doing him in exchange for neurology

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spinnler hero

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so have a half

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so the cola holding

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process while listening is

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so dear brothers and sisters first your saramonic mahalo workato

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it's nice to be here with you guys. Nice to see you guys and Sharla this phone be just the first time you'll be many times

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the topic is lustful, so

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whoever chose the topic

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could have tilted it to be more of a positive one. When you hear lustful soul, it means it's a lustful one looking for the wrong things.

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But the soul doesn't have to be that is Allah azzawajal says in the Holy Quran for Alhambra ha foo raha wa taqwa

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the soul, the ego is such that Allah has ordained Allah has given the ego such things it's got both

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it is it can be sinful in its in its nature. And it can be God fearing in its nature. This is about the nuts Alassane nuts is not a bad thing, but not can be a bad thing. The there's a natural default of the knifes of the ego when I say knifes, I mean ego. I mean one, I mean one last one designs inside. So anytime I use knifes in this, in this talk, that's what I'm referring to. The nurse has got a default, and the default of the nurse is to become rebellious, to become something that wants to break the boundaries to become something that wants to rebel.

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But the nerves can

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be something that wants to be conscious of Allah azzawajal. But you have to train it to do that. Let me give you an example. Yeah.

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You know, when you have a little kid, either you got your own little kid, you've had your little kid, you've got a nephew, you've got a nice someone, and you've seen the little kid. Now little kids. They have tantrums, no tantrums or

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tantrums, or they call tantrums the tantrums limousine. A little kid wants a lollipop.

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So the kid will come to and say lollipop, lollipop, Papa lollipop, lollipop. Now they want they've got to create the one that lollipop

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if you just give him that lollipop they've got the lollipop they'll sucky they'll be happy they'll you know, so fine. But then after a while, after a day or so, lollipop, lollipop, Mama lollipop, sweetie sweetie lollipop, sweetie sweetie lollipop Now the thing is, if you just give it you're giving it they've got what they want they know every time you said lollipop

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now one day what happens is you realize you realize that the kiddie that you love and so sweet and you just stick a lollipop in his in his gum to shut him up and do whatever you want. You realize that there's some darkness on the teeth.

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And now you know that the Tata is going to continue to grow inside the mouth and is going to cause them pain. So you know is going to happen so you decide not to give the lollipop the next time they asked. So they say mama lollipop. nepata lollipop not good for you.

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lolly

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but they're no good for.

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Now you can imagine what's gonna happen if you've just been given, up, day in, day out, day in, day out, day in, day out.

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Do you say no lollipop?

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They'll cry. They'll beat the hands on the ground. They'll keep the legs your two year olds do. They just, they just fall down. Ooh.

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Have you seen you two rolls do that? Yes. My two year old used to do that as well. Yeah. Sometimes used to go there and like a gold rush to save the head from hitting the floor. But they just fall back. Because they know if they do these tantrums, the more they do it, the more likely you are to give him because they know this and love in the heart.

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So they put one up by let's say for example, a Papa didn't give it. They go to mama.

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They go to Amazon. They go to big sister. They go to daddy john. They go to grandmother. They'll go to 90 they go whoever they got around to get the lollipop and most of you got if you're living with the grandpa and grandma ain't got no discipline in the house. You know, I'm saying that

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you ain't got no discipline in the house. Are you smiling? Yeah. Or can you do that grandpa grandma's gonna go a few more years left so the thing Yeah, not one lollipop. stick to one go, you know? zanla Yeah. The sizzle sizzle in your mouth. The thing is, imagine you hadn't given it an after a long time you stop them. Is that tantrum today? after so many days, you said you're not going to give it is the tantrum going to be a tantrum that is a small tantrum or a big tantrum.

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Tell me.

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You know, after some days, suddenly, you said I'm not going to give you a lollipop. Is the tantrum going to be big tantrum or the small one?

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A big one. A big one. And if you carry on depriving it, alright, let's imagine let's imagine I said okay, I'm not gonna give it now. The tantrum went on for 10 minutes. 10 minutes, and the kids crying crying. In the end. He said I forget this, man. I can't take this. You know what? Get a lollipop here. Put that open your mouth. Ah.

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Now you've done bigger damage.

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You have just, you've just done bigger damage. What's that? You have now taught the kid 10 minutes of a tantrum. And then you can get lollipop. The next time the kid asked for a lollipop. And 10 minutes go by. Do you think that kid's gonna stop at a 10 minutes tantrum? Or do you think the kid's gonna think if I just can get that tantrum to go a bit longer? I'll get my lollipop What do you think is gonna do?

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Go be longer? Yes 100 long have you have a day? joking?

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So why because he knows if he goes a little bit more he'll get it. So this time 12 minutes 30 minutes 40 minutes and if he doesn't get it like that, he'll show his upset he'll show he's not happy he should I don't want this. I don't want to eat other one and he starts to do different things. First, he was just crying. Now he's getting beyond he wants to show you that he's gonna hurt you in a different way. Would you rotini County, Virginia?

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You want me to go to lollipop

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now you think okay cello patina is gonna have lollipop forgiven. So you give it to our you kill the evil war. Now they know I can do different tactics and I'll get the lollipop of them. Forget lollipop soon is going to be ice cream.

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Every time the ice cream van comes. It's going to be ice cream. You got to give the asked me if you don't give them tantrum. If you don't if you don't give them there's gonna be a bit more emotions and so on and so forth right. Now, why am I saying this to you is

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let's look at it from a different perspective. Imagine the child was after something from you. Even if it was a lollipop. And you told the girl you said are giving you want a lollipop. Yeah, that's fine. We we don't have that many lollipops, you can't have it. You just haven't made one two week I'll give you a lollipop. So when that wants to be come to you just has not found is fine. Every week Friday, you wouldn't give them lollipop. Friday, they have lollipop. That's it. No other lollipop all the time. If you control him with sweets, chocolates, chocolate bars, whatever you got. Yep. And you control it in your house and you've got a limit to how much they can have. They will

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get used to it. They will only demand what they got what you give them. Even a two year old three year old four year old guaranteed guaranteed you will be able to get them to have what you want them to have

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any parents who have trained their kids like that. Please put your hands up who have limits in the house. Just say that you can I can only have that much.

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Hey, man, there's only four of us. You know?

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What's the rest of you man? You guys like you guys love your dentists. You know like try to give them a lot of business.

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Anyway, what I want to say to you, you can get them used to it. If you put your principal inside your place in the beginning it's not going to be easy. The same kid will

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Show you tantrum as well. You try and train them, but they will show you trying to but it won't be as bad as the other one. Do you agree with me or not? You train them from day number one. No, he's the lollipop fine Friday, the next Friday you get a lollipop fine. Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday, just don't ask no Saturday, Sunday. They feel like having a lollipop. So the lollipop lollipop. And then you say look, patera told you Friday, it's not Friday. Now they might show a bit of a tantrum. As long as everyone's doing the same is the key to it. As long as everybody in the house is all stuck with the same principle. There is no big sister who suddenly mom's not here does not here

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click

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on the socket socket, break it at you know, wash your mouth. I don't want anyone to you know, shake your hand and find it all sticky. You know, I'm saying get inside as long as no one's breaking the rules inside the house and everybody's staying on the one rule that kid very easily we'll learn how to try to abate your rules. Now why upset and why I've said this is because, you know, we've all got a side inside us. We've got an ego, an ego inside us. That ego says to you and me. I want to sit down. I don't want to do work. That ego says I don't want to give this away. That ego says I want to keep this to myself. That ego says I'm not gonna give in to that person. He's gonna say sorry, to me

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first. What does he think he's going to get me to Sorry, sorry, first. Not gonna say sorry. First. He's gonna say sorry. First. We've all got an ego inside that's got his set weights, it's set to do these things. And the same ego it says forget lollipop. The same ego will say to you depending on your age, it will say it will demand something from you.

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So if it's a let's say a teenager, he's not a teenager is not going to ask for a lollipop.

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A telegraph a lollipop a teenager will say mobile phone that can have a mobile phone please talk on mobile phone

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to tell you only 13 years old 12 years What do you mean a mobile phone for

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your son I'll give you one of those Nokia is which Nokia dad no one of those that are you know 1990s Nokia, but that you know I need to I need a smartphone.

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But I just needed stuff I'm gonna do my homework in it. You see

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how lucky you could do your homework on your phone. Now kids asked for a smartphone. right he wants to do his homework on his smartphone 1213 years old one of the he's all right. thing is if you don't realize this is the ego and this is going to turn into a tantrum. How use a fancy no no no no son Don't worry about it. Don't you don't need you know you don't need this phone. But don't do need it. I do need it.

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I want my friends have got a an ad you know the rule got a dual playing on the old dude is old enough.

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In our Philippine last when they talk to me, I'm got one son You don't need now the sun's gonna go to the Mom. Mom. Mom. I need a smartphone. I need a smartphone. I need a smartphone. I need a smartphone. I need to swap I need a smartphone.

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Can you hear me coming up? He was for a lollipop.

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I think is it's the same ego. You know with lollipop yesterday. It was ice cream the next day. He was Lego the next day. It was Star Wars The next day. It was something else the next day. It was the latest trainers The next day, it was something else the next day. And now it's mobile phone. A mobile phone is just the beginning of a teenage life. The next thing they want is they want the Xbox, they want this they want the latest PS on the ps4. They want something else they want to be hooked up to technology. And each time they put the demand on the table in different ways. It says same child inside but it's in a different way. Are you are you following me? Yep. Till he gets

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married. Now some people they get married but they're still kids.

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The guy is married, but he's still a kid. She's still a kid. They say no not now to talk about myself without married kids like that. You know, we're not like that in Scotland. You know?

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Let me tell you how it works.

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The man is married.

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He just married another man's daughter.

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And they live happily ever after.

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That's the beginning of the Jacqueline always you hear when you're small stories. Every fairy tale you hear at the end and they leave it always ends up with he married her and they all live happily ever after. But my friend happily ever after. is only

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One place that is called Jana. Right? happily ever after is Jana. Do you ever think happily ever after is going to happen in this this world? It don't exist Japan don't exist. It doesn't happen happily ever after is in Ghana, so they got married four months. Lovely six months lovely. One year gone still okay. You know, they say yeah, before they met. They were too lonely beds.

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When they met,

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they were too loving beds. And after they got married, there were two Angry Birds.

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Angry Birds. Right now they're married one year goals, two year goals. three goals. Now you know, the fun all that lovely WWE TV. I am bollywood, Hollywood. Both of us are the best. We live happily ever after. And all that kind of stuff. You know the fairytale stuff, it starts to disappear. Life kicks in. And now they have to put up with each other. I know the tantrums are still there. My friend is still there. The guy was bought up on roti on a rota and papaya papaya. His mom used to keep coppia he still have protein. And he still loved it or maybe Bharatiya plantae.

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Plant.

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Not planting production. Good what part of study from

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Punjab? Well, that's your priority. I'm talking about the plant a

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priority and frankly whatever it is right. Now your priority the guy once he got used to his mum used to cook it nicely and he's happy with all the ghee and everything else and he used to love it. All right. His wife used to make him Bharati as well. When they got married. She used to wake up religiously, religiously wake up to try and give her husband priority in the morning off on jeevanjee. varje you can't get better than that. After two years, three years yeah, you know he walks in the house and she's basically sitting on the sofa. Yeah, she's polishing her nails All right, love.

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You got a takeaway today?

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We're going to eat love after two years, three years forget parotta right. You'd be lucky if you get fish and chips have been lucky May she tell you to go to the fridge yourself. Take your love. It's only 45 minutes later you know? You take it out from there put it in the oven and you have it yourself. Now the guy wants his prerogative

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as a

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young cook for me

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was Mr. Young cook for me we've been doing all day

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and cooking often so first day you know I said Machado sub sub has some patience goes gets himself goes out whatever second day does he another month he does it whatever. Soon. This guy is not going to take that he's going to come home Monday said hey listen. Get up from the get up.

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Making some priority. Magnesium, magnesium, magnesium Ashima yarrabah make it once twice this. In the end she she's hurt. She's going as well. He goes tell me how to relax. He's ego says parotta

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her ego says that out

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his own ego says one thing Hey she her ego says nothing. Can you see the kids inside you guys can see the kids and Saudia after a little while he's gonna throw a tantrum. You know his tantrum is not going to be lollipop is not going to be ice cream is not going to be mobile phone is going to be Hey

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karate, and I want it now. Man hungry, man angry, hungry, angry mean double trouble. You know, the guy basically is going to throw his tantrum in an adult way. That tantrum hasn't gotten the human has developed from a kid to an adult. But that kid inside the ego has not changed. Has everybody understood the message I'm giving you? Everyone has stood? Right? The Deen of Islam has come. With all of us being born. Every human being is born with a natural side to throw your tantrums. Every human being has been born with a natural talent to overcome your tantrums. Every human being has been born to to be as comfortable as you can be. And every human being has been born to take up any

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harshness that's out there.

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You know right now, you know our kids, you know these kids, as kids young as ourselves. They're yesterday's kids. That

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Today's kids Yeah, we you know you take us to hedge. Right, you know hedge.

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Hedge today has become so comfortable.

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is so comfortable. People I just can't believe them. They get an express fly. Where people used to go to Hawaii nine months they go too hard in 12 hours from door to jiddah. 12 hours. What did the guy do? The guy just packed his bags up. He carried his bags down the stairs into his x five. Yeah. And then he drove to the airport. That's all he did. He just drove you know how comfortable is to drive in I'm saying I've got all the heat temperature, everything cruise control. He went all the way to the airport or he got dropped off. He took his luggage out to a trolley oh my god was that killed his back.

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And then he just rolled the trolley to put his bag suitcases inside. He then had a Starbucks is that something else and it sat down on the plane. And a next minute he knows he dropped profit dozed off, he did whatever I read a magazine next minute he knows his agenda.

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And then he had to take him back to another trial a

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another five star Express came when he got to his hotel, and they just rolled all his luggage up the lift into his in the bedroom and they just put it there. Allahu Akbar. And then the guy complains.

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The guy says a man this is tough yada. buzzer book tougher er, gorilla. Gorilla green.

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Because, you know, when people used to make nine months, they used to travel by death on their feet. They used to take their own animal over to Hutch to sacrifice it. They used to go part by their whole some by camel, some by ship. And they used to walk and walk until they got to the Kaaba in nine months. This guy gets there in nine hours and is complaining. And you know they do Oh my god, these guys. They're there meaning they have a little bit of you know, it moves from five star service to four and a half star here four and a half stars.

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comes up. He says or her.

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You cheating me? cheat me. Take 5000 pound from me her her and the sovereign give me her. It doesn't have enough salt inside the Wakanda service. This is a one time this May this seborrhea Haji he goes and the thing is, you know what? He goes into the harem? Yeah, he goes around. He finds going around the Kaaba on the marble and upon Safa Marwah, he finds, oh my god is tough, is tough, is tough. You know, let's try to be sure to be inside him. This is getting burnt off in it. He's getting burnt off the guy's sweat interview, and he's finding it tough. And then you know, he gets blisters under his feet. Sure enough, he gets blisters and when he gets blisters he comes to the hotel room like like

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is Frankenstein just about walking inside? Yeah. Oh my god. I'm getting my game above all these blisters or bizarre wait to get back Yeah, can't wait to get back yard is tough yard. This is tough. A brother You haven't even seen hi Jay. What you're talking about? You haven't even been to Minaya what Minar above you know Mina Yeah, you know you go to the toilets. Everyone missed the whole

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you see this month ever missed the whole we're talking about Abraham. I'm telling you you know you go you have to clean the property. You have to hold your nose. You have to hold your breath. We are pleased here is a five star hotel they are a baller a five star you can really up anything I want man. Well, you know is the sooner to stay minutes anyway goes to me now. Because the main Amanda guys complaining left, right center. He's got a condition tense.

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A condition tense. He just sitting there. He don't have to do nothing. All he has to do just do the Corolla. All he's doing is looking at his watch Kizomba Carnival

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Caledonia so basically they said they're gonna get food at let's say 637 o'clock. The food gets delayed half an hour. The guy's tantrum starts coming up.

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You know that kid inside him.

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Luckily a vampire. You know when the moon comes out.

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When the situation changed around him, he turns into a little monster. Not a monster in him in her is still inside. When a monster goes back in when he's satisfied. He's got what he wanted. He allegedly

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Gianni Versace Haji Saba T.

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Raja he's happy but this is his stomach full. He's got his food, his alright is fine. If he doesn't get his food if he doesn't get what he wants, he's gonna start getting a bit you know, agitated, right? He goes to other parts he goes to the ees. He's sweating he just wants it over. He is going right now he's gonna throw throw the stones or that he's got blisters, he's got you know, other you know, he's putting Vaseline down, they're putting everything else down there to try and make you all soft and whatever. And he's killing it. You have to wear his homies to cover his, you know, downstairs, you know, I'm saying like, it's a lot of things that's going inside his head. He's

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thinking man, gotta get back, got a big back. And he has just done the most comfortable Hodge you can imagine. But the guys complaining, right? If you were born in the middle of Afghanistan, anyone here from Afghanistan, and went from Afghanistan, from the mountains. Anyone? And anyone here from a from part in Pakistan from mountainous area? No, no, let me tell you what I've seen people like that. I went to Morocco. I went to Morocco in the

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1999 I think it was right, when a friend. And we went to stay one night in a place in the middle of the mountains. Right. This was in the north of Morocco. is me and my friend from Melissa. So when they do have a wonderful time,

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this his his grandmother lives on top of a mountain

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on top of a mountain I'm not I'm not joking. We had to climb this mountain to get to their place. We got there. And you know, you know me. I'm just about climbing this mountain. You know, his grandmother at the age of 80.

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She goes to the bottom gets two buckets of water. And she climbed that mountain both buckets of water in her hand.

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And me I'm struggling and she just whizzes past us. Whoa, super grand. Yeah. What's happening here? Seriously, you know why? Because that woman was born in that place. That woman and guess what? They don't even wear any trainers. They don't wear any slippers. They can do it barefoot.

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You know why? Because they just got used to it. We go to Hajj for two weeks get blisters, we come back or bought bought or bought hamdulillah sugar Allah. Allah two weeks you stayed in a comfortable mattress, air con everything given to you You hardly anything and you start complaining how difficult arduous.

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When you know you go to Hajj I've seen people in hajj Allahu Akbar. You see these people from the third world countries. No air 10 no air content, none of it. They're sleeping on the streets. They've got no shoes, no slippers, you look at their feet, their feet out, they probably belong to Incredible Hulk.

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And the feet are tell you Allah put some iron in their feet, because they've been walking on the mountains. They've used to it. Once you get used to it, you can take it. Any of these kids, you take them first year back home, and you make them run up and down these hills and so on. They'll find the top off in a while they get used to it. What I'm saying to you brothers and sisters is my ego inside me your ego inside you. How much of that kid have we changed? How much is the big question? Because if that kid is inside, you know what happens? Every time you come to a certain cycle. That kid comes out like a monster inside you certain people have addictions, some people are addicted to drugs,

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some to alcohol, some to gambling, some to you know, maybe just social websites, some on technology, some on their phones, some on barn, some on cigarettes, some on other things that are answered we'll get addicted to it and they have to have it otherwise that monster is going to come out certain people have got addicted to laziness and guy addicted to just being relaxed all the time. They've got addicted to late sleeping late wake up in the morning my friend you missing father every morning. You know your first problem is you are late up in the night. Why did you get addicted to having you know you wind down from work? You come from work, right? You come from work, you come

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home you sit you know first you you sit with family fine, you have your roti or whatever you have, then it's like, okay, you know, you want to wind down a bit okay, so you're going to wash up everything Okay, fine. And then you sit on the sofa by eight o'clock 830 you pick up the remote control anything.

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Kids have just gone to bed is good. Now it's time for me to flip through the channels. You've got yourself into a habit. Your little kid inside you demanded the TV. You got into habit into an addiction and you don't even realize it.

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From 830 on that sofa, partly with your mobile phone in your left hand, partly with your right hand with the remote control flicking through the channels and mobile phone via social networking bit of the bit of the remote control below the phone does not control the phone

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half 1011 o'clock I wake up now gotta watch a movie whatever. It could be one o'clock by the time you see you in the sleep late you watch the movie you watched a few movies youtube, whatever it was, you watched it, then you went to sleep late and now you get up at eight nine o'clock. You can't get up for further you complain you can't get up for further Do you know why you've got yourself into a habit of that late sleeping so you wake up late and you complain you ain't got no time for the vicar of Allah you ain't got no time to come and you know do you tell our young are not time for his time he will you have a good intention you have a very good intention but he just never gets fulfilled

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Why? Because everything comes in your way it's either going to be Facebook is going to be Twitter one of the two or it's going to be WhatsApp that's in your way always going to be you know time with your wife or time with your friends time with the social lifetime is something else time with your kids time with your work time with Project time with the magazine time we wrote about and then the little time you've got I'll do tomorrow. I'll do tomorrow. All right. So basically you got yourself in the habit Where is always one thing another you got you join the gym, fine, you join the gym. Now part of your time is going to the gym, you join the badminton club or a snooker club or something

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else and you play every week religiously. So you got into that as well. These things can never go away from your life. You join maybe go Some people love gold, silver, love football. Some people love cricket, whatever you got into sports, you've got time for sports, you got time for TV, got time for family, you got everything else. And when it comes to religious part, you just got Juma.

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Now Juma the gods come to Juma Yama good Muslim Yara come to Juma. I don't miss my I don't miss my Juma. I don't miss my Juma.

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That's good Alhamdulillah Juma is that the only time you've got you know why? Because you made it your habit You're nuts your ego inside has got into his default position default is laziness default is give me a habit default is give me what I want default is give me comfort default is let me be who I want to be. And if you just do that you just wasted yourself

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if you want to become someone my friend, Allah azza wa jal his Quran says is Allah as well words

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he do he haka jihadi oh you who are believers struggled struggle as you all to struggle struggle a struggle go against yourself. Yeah and you are hella Dina tabula Are you believe be aware of me? Wasn't

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every single soul should see every knife should see every ego every self should see every person should see what is it that you already sent to me for tomorrow sent not send, you know, send and send the massive difference.

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You know, those of you accountants will know right now. 31st of January is coming up right 31st of January coming up in a billboard address aside that tells you get your tax returns before 31st August right.

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Now, if you send it before 31st you've sent it if it's the first of fab, you haven't sent it, you're going to send it and it's late. Right allows the Virgil is telling us what you've sent in terms of your actions already to unlock that's what you've banked. That's what you're what you're going to send is not yours yet. You know what happens in our minds is that somewhere inside that enough says Don't worry. Don't worry. Don't worry. I sorted myself out. Yeah, don't worry. When on fifth day, on on fifth day, I'm going to banging my head up and down in the Santa

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Ana 55 yard you're gonna see me all day know this stuff. You're gonna see me with Quran rockin up and down. When I'm 60 everybody will know me as Haji Saba.

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Haji Saba, DOMA hudge

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when I'm 65 they're gonna know me as the committee member of the Masters You know, when I run it, when I 70 if I'm living then I will become counselor.

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Certified started man.

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Now he's got this 5055 6065 70 all his head. The guy is still 40 a guy and got a

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clue that he might die by 49

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don't

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Game Over, game over.

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The guy don't even know he could be captured before he gets to his dreams. But that's what the Nef says inside that it will work out my friend. You want to make something for a lot don't start to think about sending the 50 is I'm going to send 55 I'm going to send to Allah 60 I'm going to send all these tilava Khurana send today I'm 40 I'm 40 or I'm 35 yesterday I was 34 that was 33. Before that I sent I sent in 34 I sent in 33 that was a sent those things have been sent to Allah if I miss the Salah I have missed it. It's in my record in the next world if I did it I've sent it is with a last resort. I will find it my friend. Don't fool yourself. Or Solar System says what he says men

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have at the lodge woman at the ledger Bella volman Jin whosoever fears that they might not get on time they come out early. And whoever comes out early they get there on time.

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Whoever feels that they may not make it on time they come out early and they'll get there on time and in la toma de la jolla in Ceylon la

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remember that the bargaining of Allah is not a cheap bargain. Remember that that bargain you making with Allah is to get Jana in return is expensive. Jana is not cheap, my friend. Jana can be cheap. If Allah wants to give you bonus he gives you a bonus but Jana has to be earned and Janna to be an Rasulullah Salah Xmas told us to be quick, quick with what quick when they can actually the thing is the nerves the ego will always tell you to go to default position my brother my sister what you need to do is move move the Quran says what? For fear Oh, law run to Allah run to Allah be quick and run. The Hadith says what? of Timothy sola sola says what bad you will

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be quick to do some action to be could to do your actions. Before one of seven calamities come over you help them go Rona Illa. Carranza Are you waiting except for a poverty to strike you that will make you forget Allah poverty sometimes can make you forget a lot you so hungry, you without money, you start forgetting religion

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in an area are you waiting for anything except for richness and for money that will make you go beyond the limits of Allah? You know, you're saying if I get some money if I was to get the money, I'd be sorted sub 10 and now you say what else in Andrew Edinburgh? I'd say sorted I'd say sorted

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mentor get a mentor and a mentor

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if you get the unlimited but what happens you know what happens is you get the money you got loads of money you made it yet you know what happens if that kid inside you ain't sorted out he's gonna say to you you had one property secures yourself with two properties so you go buy two properties then you make some more and like the brother said you meant it again. So he says to you No, no, no, you look look you got two properties. Yeah, good. Rent that one out rent one out get third property you don't after the fourth one you stop so you buy the third one then you add the fourth one. You had a normal car he tells you to go and buy another car buy an Audi tells you to buy the next car

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then it tells you all your buy the Bentley are just get the Bentley. So you get the bin. Then he tells you you got full properties here. You need one Spain or Dubai because every time you find out as we get one day, no one ever law but there's no end to it. If that came inside, you hasn't been sorted out. You're in trouble. Margaret.

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Alvin and Maria Are you waiting for anything else except for except for richness except for a rich state that will make you go beyond the limits of Allah. My friends, there are people out there who got money and they want girls that got money. They want fame, they want money. They want holidays, they got money. They want to they want to spend it, they want to throw it. They got money, they want to burn it. They got money. They want to fly across the world. They got money, they want to play politics, they got money, they want to gamble. You know what, they got the money they can do it or do it or who cares? They can bribe police. They've got money. They can bribe EMI fives and sixes

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they can bribe that they got money they can do that. You know that? You know why? Because the kid inside hasn't been taught

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Lesson he's still throwing his tantrums.

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Helton Guru nyla Sakura Monsignor Amina Natalia morava Masuda, are you waiting for anything else except for an illness that will corrupt you that will cripple you? Man, you are so good, everything was wonderful. All of a sudden, you have been diagnosed with cancer. All of a sudden you find yourself in an accident, all of a sudden you've been crippled because something happened to you something so simple. Anything can happen to your spine, to your nose, to your brain, to your to your feet to you played football, you just went to play football and you twisted yourself. You twisted your ankle authority just twisted it. But what happened? you twist in such a bad position. The

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doctor tells you that you know what, even after operation is still not done.

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There are so many boys out there, and so many boys. Are you waiting for anything except for an illness to come that will cripple you that will corrupt you

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out?

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Are you waiting for anything except for an old age where you start to forget what you're saying? There are certain people who get old who forget what to say. And if you want to stop yourself from getting old and forgetting what you say. I'll give you a remedy. The remedy is read the Quran.

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The Mattila I can guarantee you this. Any man, a woman read the Quran daily basis. You will not get to a stage of old health where you are forgetting what you are saying who you're talking to. Our Mota majida Are you waiting for anything else except for a sudden death? sudden deaths? Some people they didn't even say goodbye and they went away. He wasn't even your fault some oluwo Part two is basically this done in the head. He thinks he's gonna get to Jannah by blowing everyone else up and he comes up blows you absorb all looper to

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damage in the head.

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Damaged he goes and blows something up causing crashes something somewhere it wasn't even your fault. I had a relative of mine and my wife's side. Now the Kenya bombings in the mold happened last year in the Kenya bombings in the mall. Yeah, a wise relative I think one of uncle's was in they just went for shopping. That's it. Gone.

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blown up gone.

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Motor modules. Are you waiting for a death that is sudden?

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Are we dead? Fish amarula avian tava Are you waiting for that? JOHN, he's the most evil of those things that are awaited of the future. The john, what you're hoping for the job while you're waiting for the job. These days, you know the youngsters, they learn half the deen from the internet. They learn it's a good thing and a bad thing. The good thing is if they learn it from a trusted source, that's fine. If they're learning from some you know crackpot, yeah, it's going to damage them. So, there are many crackpots out there and many many crackpots

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you know say crap, what do you call crackpots in animals? Some other word you got anything else from

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now some some some some sorry, tapped is tapped tablet

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so that that guy is tapped out What did he say? He says, He says that see, you know, the jaw is here. The jaw is here I am the prophesies are gonna listen to me Illuminati Freemason they're gonna get you brav

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man these guys are sequels. sequels are the brother said tapped in the head in what they did not this Ramadan the Ramadan before that. The Olympics was happening in London, the Olympics 2012 Olympics. These guys made movies they made so many clips that the Illuminati and the Zionists are going to blow up Big Ben and the parliament in 2012 Olympics time inside London and it was Ramadan time and it was gone like a craze everywhere. I mean he came someone dropped a letter to the Secretary of the mosque on a sector of the mosque pool we have said have you read this tomorrow apparently is Juma and they even put a fabricated had this next to that

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the Prophet said I'm saying fabricated by the prophet said when there's going to be two lunar eclipses in the same Ramadan boom boom and fire is gonna fall on you know middle of the month and is gonna be summer Walla Walla Walla.

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You better run. I'm tending and they were spreading this like crazy through the mosque and in

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Eliminating people and telling them on the internet when I went off the trolley I went on the internet, and I just checked out Oh, what is this all about? And I found videos after video these guys who are tapped, right? They're telling you, they're telling you that they know the Illuminati is gonna get you the Freemasons This is 2012 This is the year of design is this is one of the gonna show the provenance of the one I

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mean,

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it's gonna get you because they seen this sign and this movie and that video and that clip and this part and they put it all together and they make it look real.

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And man, it was getting a big hype for Allah. So anyway, the next day it was a Friday the bombs supposed to go off for I don't know what bomb in their head is supposed to go off right? It never happened. Say Al Hamdulillah it never happened. Right? So I went back on ninja for what they're gonna say. So when on the internet they said Oh, we got the date wrong. It's gonna be next week. What?

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You are crazy, man. Anyway, next week, I waited till next week, right? So next week they said it's gonna happen it's gonna happen it never happened

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for Okay, what they're gonna say right now So scroll down. So one other thing I know these guys they get in everyone dissing them they say you know loads of tools and you tapped and you're this and you're that right? They're saying all the words are fat and words that come towards the right and you know what? They wrote that they said that? Oh, it's gonna happen in 2012 but it's not gonna happen. We got it wrong. You see, it's not the Summer Olympics. It's a winter olympics

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Ah, okay, let's wait for the Winter Olympics. Oh wait for the Winter Olympics 2012 Winter Olympics came and they started all again Illuminati design instead. Isn't that a golden shoe use shoe from the internet design 20 1220 1220 to 30 Joe is going to happen boom someone's gonna happen and design is gonna come out and they're gonna come out they're gonna take over the world one new world order

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I said so I was the prophecy you never listened to be tough love tough love tough love. That's all they want to say to you. They want to teach you Tough luck when I listen to them. You know what happened after 2012 winter when we didn't even hear by

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what was you all about? Now? They're still on there. They're still saying Illuminati they're making new videos out there putting up the jobs coming in the jobs coming Did you know that you know kameena daddy from the Prophet's time he got shipwrecked there's a hadith the Muslim right these guys I'm telling you they are proper talk I'm gonna move forward for that. I want to go to the next level Sorry Sorry.

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We did not know these numbers these are the numpties

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so they go to the next level this numpties what do they do? They just want to make your life miserable.

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These guys are saying to me my daddy rhodiola han Whoa, there's a hadith about the jungle that he actually his ship actually got wrecked and it was an island and actually saw the job. So he came back to

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us and got him to report to everybody what he saw. He was on an island somewhere in Arabia some mega ship read for one month he went came back another month and he reiterated that it's a Sahara Desert must be fine. You know these chefs are saying on the internet.

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To all these numpties not saying they're saying that island. He may listen to me. Other island where he got struck najimy wasn't Arabia. It was Britain.

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Britain

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Britain, the jollies here you know

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the jolly there why you to Canada and these kids youngsters they all get all hyped up about it. We know we know is coming is coming. And then they got paranoid they got absolute paranoid I you know that 2012 summer. One friend of mine working for a Muslim organization. He said he said Sheriff he said I feel like taking all my stuff into a van in this is true. He said this to me. He said in London is in London is talking to me. I said I want to shove my van with as much things as I can get inside here before the bomb goes off. And I want to get my family inside there. And I want to drive as far as I can towards Scotland.

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He said that. He says Scotland. You guys apparently are out of data. You're out of the world. You live in the mountains.

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He said that now people get crap. Why? Just because of some theory. Rasulullah sallallahu told us what we knew for sure.

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Are you waiting for the job because the job is the most evil of awaited things. My friend, my young friend Don't get excited about the job. The job is not someone you get excited about. You're supposed to get fearful of the job. And that's supposed to make you do more

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Allah because the day of judgment is coming the whole point of our prophets Allah telling you and me about the jail is because he wants you to move and do your actions before the jail comes not because you're gonna sit there two three hours on the internet trying to look after YouTube video after YouTube video or YouTube videos. Oh good. Oh God is gonna knock on my door soon.

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my credit card I used to know who I am but the cameras are

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crazy. And they look out for signs and they find Illuminati signs everywhere they want a look at that. Look at that clock. Yep.

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Is the clock The

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clock? How many seconds?

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13 seconds 13. Illuminati.

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Did you see the Illuminati 13 the number 13 wherever they see 13 is Illuminati. And there's a pattern I bet if you count the subs from here 1234567 you're going to end up with 13 or 11. See that was if they're going to 13 they're going to be 1111 they say is from some Cyrus I don't know some old Cyrus I don't want to say if it's 12 something design on T to want to touch on. If it's 30 minutes long. It was 14 something as a 15 suddenly got the play with these numbers as the Illuminati Illuminati everything they they want the numpties while they

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numpties tap crackpots or anyway, the sewer system said the last thing he said what I wish for Sarah to add to her What

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are you waiting for the last hour for the last hour is something which is going to be very bitter, the last hour is going to be something which is a great catastrophe. Now the last hour which was last and last talked about

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that's coming my friend one of the seven things are going to hit you either is going to be poverty that will make you forget a lot or richness that makes you go beyond the limits of Allah, or an illness that cripples you or an old age that makes you forget what you're saying or is going to be a sudden death or it's going to be the job or it's going to be the last hour one of those seven things are going to hate you and Rasulullah saw some said before that comes he said bad to be a man he said be quick to do your actions because you know the state you're in right now we're not going to be in that state forever.

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You're not going to be nasty. You're not going to be nasty, your health will deteriorate you're well to go in different directions your family members will will either go up or down things are always changing their health once it goes down the you know before you never used to feel cold soon you feel cold very quickly soon you before used to play before they used to play football three times a week. And they still used to ask for more. And now the guard plays once once in his 30s he plays once and he's in bed next once they are

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before he basically the guy you could eat when he went for you know Donna and chips, the guy will take your full donor full chips after that quarter pounder straight in and get some wings as well. And pizza all in one. He says give me more.

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And now the guy basically just takes a bit of a bit of a road if you couple of roads in his stomach. And basically he's saying my belly sticking out. He can't take it. There's too much you know what your digestive system is getting slower, your health is gonna start deteriorating. Your body never starts to fix them as he used to and you're in your 20s you're not invincible. Start doing action to fix the kid up inside. How do you fix the kid up? I want to say this to you and I'm going to end right. How do you fix the kid up inside the ego? You know, the ego talked about how do you fix that up. The only one way to fix the kid up is to start to become spiritual. The kid likes material

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things,

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material things. The opposite of it is to go for spiritual things. My friend, you know when you just want to go for the antidote. Whenever you got a disease, you want to go for an antidote. The antidote to everything is the opposite. It's your opposite. You want to give your kid your ego inside you. You want to give it an antidote. It's the vicar of Allah. What is it? The Vicar of Allah, you do? Have the Quran you remember Allah The more you connect with your soul to Allah, the more that kid starts to move, the ego starts to move from a rebellious one into an into one that starts to listen to you. The more you start to play salah and you concentrate on other Salah, like

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the Salah without anything else inside Salah by remembering Allah zeker with remembering Allah take the last name spending time sitting down with Morocco and thinking about Allah thinking about Allah think about death. Think about the Acura, think about the grave, think about the Day of Judgment. Think about returning to Allah think about death and beyond. These are things that change the mind changes

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Seoul make it more connected to Allah and make the kid the ego inside make it weak.

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Allah Azza wa Jalla said what when I've seen

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the mosaica do you do the more you remember Allah, the more than US will say, you know what, I don't want to sit here I want to stand up. I don't want to sit on my sofa, I want to stand up on the premises. I don't want to spend time with listening and talking to these people. I want to spend time with my Allah. I don't want to spend this with this world and what I'm doing, I'm done. I want to spend time with my era, the more you soften that soul up inside, the more ready automatically guaranteed units will tell you it wants to do the thing. You're not your ego, your ego will prompt you to say I want to do these good things. You know why? Because Allah azza wa jal has put both the

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mechanisms so all you have to do is stop it's tantrums. This is the way to stop is Trump. You know what Allah said about the Quran? Allah said what when you get up in the night and discharge Allah Subhan Allah said,

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What are tilal Cora naturo Tila get up in the night and start reading Quran slowly in prayer. What does Allah say? Allah said it is it is what? In shatta Laney I shall do

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a coup de la, getting up in the night. And that making when you get up in the night, it's not an easy thing to just get up in the night to pray for Allah. If you are able to get up in the night I shall do what you've just given you just stumped your own ego, you just be you just hit your own ego. You just stick to your own ego, I should do a coup de la and the best of statements will come out of your mouth right now.

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You step you stomp your ego Why? Because you have gone against the ego the antidote to this kid ego to the tantrums inside to go against it to go against it.

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You understand brothers? You're insane. Anyway, it's been lovely evening spending time with yourselves I hope Allah azza wa jal makes this a moment of, of change for all of us, for us to do his Vicar for us to remember him, for us to get close to him for us to for us to control our ego, our knobs for us to learn how to not show our children whatever age we are the different tantrums, for us to be quick to do our actions for us to get closer to Allah azza wa jal for us to be the first to try and make Allah please Allah azza wa jal make that happen as soon as possible. Make your near right now that you're going to do from today. You're going to get close to Allah Do you tober

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now from today, you're going to change from tonight you're going to change from tomorrow morning you're a different person. Make that intention right now. We are loving the true follows