Living In The Matrix

Hasan Ali


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Something which is just not to do with what you can measure from the physical and material things that you see there do you get the drive to now?

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You got three brothers older than you you wait in the queue real intelligence is a man who can look at the past and the future assess it properly and know where he is. It's like you got nice nice nice sofas yeah yeah nice but you know deep inside is like the Courtney's sophus

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Justin Bieber's

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Mom, please You know, can you give me something

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the guy wants to like pray and blow man I know of non Muslims that come they'll come a second time and say give me more of that. That thing that thing that you think shaytan wants us to believe that the present in material things that his matrix is that he fooled you in not thinking about the future. Firstly, brothers and sisters who are listening to salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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It's nice to come all the way over here. And the brothers told me before I came, and I said, What's the subject and they pulled out this matrix thing. You know, with three guys in the background. I don't know if it was three of you posing there for that thing. I don't know, Allahu Allah. But it was nice to see that I guess it's a way of getting you youngsters inside. And you kind of think, yeah, this is it, we're gonna, we're now listen to the fourth part of the matrix. So I'm not here to give you a whole download on the whole movie, whatever. But I'm here to talk about what it means to us in this world. And there is a matrix that is around us.

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There is a matrix what is what is that um, there's a matrix on the good side, there's a matrix on the bad side, meaning that there is a side in this world you know, you are, if you're of those people, you will understand that there's a way of looking at the world, which makes you a true Muslim. And one that can see with the help of Allah azzawajal What does what does Allah messenger sallallahu Sallam say, he said it Taku fear or subtle movement. He said, beware of the insight, and the ability of a believer having an inner look at things. For inner who young guru been aurilla because he sees through the light of a Lazarus. So there are people who actually on this earth on

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this earth, who live on this earth, from Allah has given them Shiraz, Allah has opened open things to them, and he doesn't do to everyone. But at the same time, he doesn't always open for them as well. But not only them, we as believers, even if you don't have this fear outside inside you, you know this, this talk is for you as well. Why? Because the poor and that has been given to us this poor an is our way of looking at the entire world. And at the same time, you've got seven people in this world who have been sort of given such a an impression of the world, that they don't see anything beyond the material that they see the material that they have. Now, just to give you a

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quick thing, that in the time of Solomon, Allah Salatu, salam, he heard of this Queen, Queen, Shiva. And she was a very powerful queen. She had a whole army of genes that were under her. And Solomon is and also had a whole army of genes under him. Now he was going to become a big battle. If one of these did not, you know, subdue, if your case wasn't going to subdue, it was going to become a big battle. But anyway, long story short, he sends a letter to her through the hoopoe bird. And then in the end, she consults her gins, and they say, look, you know, we're ready to fight, but it's up to you, you know, Your Royal Highness what you want to do. So she says, look, you know, fighting will

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only cause corruption and bloodshed and so on. And I want to try and test this individual, let me try and you know, he says is a messenger, and I know that messengers, if they're given a gift, that a messenger doesn't, you know, if he's given a gift, a personal gift, like almost in the form of a bribery, like, you know, calm down coolly Take it easy, you know, don't think it's so hard on me. I guess if I give him a nice gift, hopefully, you know, we'll see eye to eye and she sends a gift when it comes to Solomon. He says to me, in an email in from an attorney, Allahu hydel me my attack when you're trying to bribe me with some kind of wealth. What Allah has given me is much better. He says,

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I'm going to tell them I'm going to get my army ready right now.

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And if I would bring them right down to our kingdom by them being, you know, lowly in front of us. And the news is basically going back to build this and she understands that she says, You know what, let's let me go straight to cinema. And I said, I'm, and let me show, you know that I'm submitting to him. But let me take it easy. So she's on her way. And before she can get to Solomon, Allah salams quarters, he sends, he is in his quarters, and he says, who's going to bring me her throne? And you know what, in the end, one of the one of them brings the throne in the blink of an eye in front of him. And what he does is he won't, he finds out that this woman see the hoopoe bed told him

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that this woman, Bill keys and a whole, a whole kingdom, they worship the sun, they see the sun coming rising up, they worship the sun throughout the day, when your sets they worship the sun, you know, when it's rising when it's at the peak when it's setting the worshipping the sun.

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So he wants to now make her believe in Allah. How does he make this woman believe in Allah? Does he just say, you know, Bill keys? I am Salaam and I'm the Rasool of Allah. And he is a book I've got from before and you better believe Look how truthful disease and Is this the way to give data to this woman who's a queen in her own right? Is it the way to give her power that he should bring her and try and try and sort of force us You can't do that you can't force anyone. Right? in religion, Allah said not unlike Ravi Deen. So how's he going to make this woman see the truth? So what is he do? He builds a test for her?

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He prepares these before buildings even arrives. So Bill Gates comes, she sees her throne. And he says, Do you recognize this?

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And she says,

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who who hoo. She says as if it's the one I have. Right? So already see, she sees that this man's got some serious power. He sent someone over there to hurting them brought his whole, you know, whole massive thrown and presented in front of her he changed it a little. So he said it as if it's the one that I've got. Anyway, he then takes it to a chain that is large room, okay, this large room or hallway.

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When they open the door, they've got to go through this to another room. When she opens the door. She sees that there's water

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in this room, shallow water, but there's water. And she's gonna go through this room to the next part that Solomon is going to take. So as she's going to step inside, she lifts her garment up slightly so that it doesn't get wet. When she puts her foot on the ground. Lai Lai LA, it's glass.

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It was so clear that the glass was cleaned and polished so well. And it was made so magnificently above this water that she didn't even see the glass. guys didn't want talking about Have you ever seen like, you know, you go to a building, and there's some glass doors there. And people don't realize the glass door. Boom.

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is ever seen that you're laughing? You see not to see that you you use the one.

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Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that she did not realize it was so clean. So she put her foot down

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and said

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that this is glass. And there and then bill keys, this clever, intelligent woman realizes and she does Toba. And she says yeah, a la vida.

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Whatever the man can shed and bear and then and Silvana did the whole test, to make it a believer

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she looked at this magnificent work. And she said, Where have I been robbed, be in near violent enough? See, my Lord, I have wronged myself. Why? Because all my life I've been looking at a son that is visible to me. And that material world has taken my gospel and taken home my whole mind away, that this is the biggest planet I see every day, the strongest, the one that gives us all energy. So that is the one that I've been worshipping, not realizing that between the sun and myself in between your creation and us and between the heavens and the earth and between anything

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between anything Allah says what? Well who am I How come he

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he is with you wherever you are. One law will be matter. maluna da si en la is well watching whatever you are doing. Now she didn't see the invisible God. She didn't see the invisible God but she

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saw the visible sun. So she started to worship whatever was material in front of her eyes, whatever was what she could actually see and visualize. So the same way she couldn't see the glass. But she saw the water she reacted to the water, the water was visible, but the glass was invisible. So she got the message, that sillimanite salon is trying to tell her and give a Dawa, that don't just go with what you can see. And this is a big message for the youth. And for us who are growing up, especially in this part of the Western world, because the whole Western philosophy is based upon what you can assess, and what you can do.

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And in the science classes, sometimes they laugh at you saying there's a God. And sometimes you sit there you say, you think what's wrong? You know, the money self said that there is a lie. You know, the police have said that, but this guy, I can't find an argument to give to him to prove a law, my friend, you try and use every visible thing that you want to try and prove a law. They'll always be an argument against it.

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Whether it's heads or tails. Okay, Eman is something which goes beyond that. And that's what Bill keys understood, that he man is something which is just not to do with what you can measure from the physical and material things that you see. And she understood that but I'm not saying it's all that because guys, if you want any physical, the greatest physical and tangible proof that Allah exists, is the Quran How? How, let me explain to you can't just take this to the underground tube and say, Hey, guys,

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find the proof. Or to the science class Hey, guys.

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The proof of this is in many different ways. The biggest one is that allows our gel has challenged the whole of mankind.

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From the time of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi, salam, for 14 130 something years, he has challenged every single year, every day, the challenge is up every day with challenges every week, every month, every year is there. And not only to the Arabs, he challenges to the Indians, the Russians, the Australians and Americans and the Europeans and whatever you are the African, the challenge is to everybody, which is what, which is that look, I'm going to create this book on the earth, and you got books as well on the earth. And when you have books on the earth, you copy one book from another book, because in the days before they never had the printing system, true or not? Did they have the

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printing system? Guys, you living in this world? living somewhere else? Did they have the printing system before? Yes or no? No, thank you. You're awake, guys. Yeah, probably missing your Saturday night. So my, you know, chicken and chips, you know. So they used to copy this, copy this. Now, you know, when you copy from one book to another book? What happens? You make errors, you make mistakes. Okay? And not only that, even if you print books, like for like, there's easily a printer if he has got to challenge the printer who prints millions of books? He's got a challenge. Can you change? So all he has to do is like Yeah, all right. Yeah. are in a take a few dots are there? Yeah.

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Just delete that part there. Yeah, let's print it.

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If any printer wanted to do that, you got 1000s across the world printers, major publishers who could do that. In fact, they've tried so many times to try and change this.

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But you can't change it.

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You just can't. It's impossible.

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That's one big one. But I'm not going to just keep it to that. The miracle of the Quran is in many ways, that's just one element of it. Another big miracle of the Quran is that this Quran for 1400 years has always given meaning to every single context, it goes through. Amazing you said Now, tell me this year, how many revisions has the Bible gone through?

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Because if you bring the Bible today for me, to me, 1000 years old, you won't even be able to understand it.

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And even if you go 400 years ago, people like that domanda language, you know, Thomas Stanley, thou shalt go to die rising place. Thou shalt you know, it's wonderful English for that era. But it basically never changed. And people of this time wouldn't be able to relate to the Bible. Yes or No, guys? Yes. And then now you've got so many different ones in different Bibles, so many different versions. In fact, no scripture on the earth. No scripture on yours that claims to be from a God except that you've got

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Many different versions, there's only one that has only one time one reading one reading. And that's

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not only that, this is just two things are presented.

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There's no part of any scripture of any rhyme of any place of anything in the whole of the world that you can carry on saying again and again and again and again and again, without getting bored.

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Even children, children love to repeat yes or no God's kingdom. Yeah, true love to repeat. If you make those children say Mary had a little lamb, little lamb, little lamb, or 12345 once a quarter officially, don't get carried away. So it must be wrong guys Cheer up, man.

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Then I'll let it go. because it'd be more fingers. So the kids will come home and they'll sing that and they'll sing it 20 times a single 40 times. But tell me how many of you still sing it today? Tell me on Piazza.

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That guy just went ah.

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There's one guy that sings because he's an old guy with a beard. Yeah.

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Nobody thinks it isn't amazing. Kids love watching the same thing. 20 times you give them a movie they like either watch it 20 times. You're like sick of that movie. Like, don't you dare. Don't you dare turn that movie again, is do my head in. Because I've seen it so many times. It's like I sleep but I see.

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But the kids want to do it again and again. But even kids can't do it. Adults can't do adults love the national anthem. Yes or no. You know, patriotic people.

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Come on guys. They love y'all. Come on guys, man.

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Okay, okay. Okay. I understand. I understand you got a national anthem for your country. People love it. Yeah, Pakistan or Bangladesh, whatever it is. Amara shannara Bangla

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whatever it is that they want to say about the national anthem you tell like that okay. Giza you love your patriotic I want you to do one thing which was singing 20 times a day

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I'm telling you if the guy sins it 20 times a day Yeah, he's gonna by the time he's finished a good few days.

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Any song that can people love songs come out songs go out you know sometimes a song comes people are downloading an iTunes and the downloading on you know whatever it is your your mega stores. I don't know why he is mundaka yet, but they've got ways of plugging into here and they want to hear it again. Hear it again. Here again here. When it first comes out. Yeah, these guys are only like 10 times a day. 20 times a day. They can't get enough. By the time you come to the end of the month of the release of the song by the time the end of the month. Come down here probably once a day. By the time the second month is gone. They're probably like hearing every other day you every third day or

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something. By the time the third month has gone. It's like Nah, don't listen to that. Now on something new, something new you have done to new Yeah, you tell me this year. We as as young people, we are seven year olds, eight year olds nine years, we now are 20 or 25 2026. Now 3035. Now now 4045 5055 6070, the eight year old, whatever range you go to we every single day every day

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of our lives. Either we reciting or we hear it and we say

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Manu Rafi, Maliki Yoni de Cana. Budo yakunin stere Dena sera

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sera la Vina Nan de

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la him while Oppo Lee, tell me with a man who was bored of that

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yet every day, Father four times the horrible 10 or 12 times.

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Or if you behind him, I'm okay by eight times because you don't pray sometimes daily. Now some do some damage, that's fine. So about four times margrave, about another five, seven times a shot about a nine or 11 depending how many rockets you do 12 1570 whatever times you're doing it. And then if somebody recites it again, you can reheat it again. And again, every day of your life, every week of your life, every month of your life. You never got to the third month and said I'm bored. You never got to the third week and said I can't do this again. You never got to the third year of your life and said I want something different. You never did that. Why? Because the man is something Allah has

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given this is a proof that this book is something out of this world

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than out of his will. And the other thing is some

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Imam comes here and he says, you know he might not have the best best best sort of voice so he says handled in Europe below me.

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Maddie God, yak yak unnecessary you should listen to it you're not like

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super super there was used to say 12345 ones I could officially

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the one is sing something and it gets you excited with your national anthem whatever it is out here I don't know when a man comes here any man anywhere who reads it and monitors voice tone, you still love it when they say it in a beautiful tone you still love you when you want to say with a melody to reflect your sadness. You still love it and you can do yourself and you can reflect you can relate to the Quran in that way.

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Someone sad and they want to relate to

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somebody else have known

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chemistry you can really like that if you want to and you relate to the law. The thing is, Where on earth Have you got any song any tune that can be read in so many ways that you lose count?

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Anyway Tell me and with with the man any guy at this my challenge to humanity and you guys should go and give our like this where in the world is this? Tell me that you can go you can say 123451 psycho two officially 345123456?

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Are you gonna sing something like Twinkle twinkle little Tucson and we could we call it to

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wonder what you are

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The whole river.

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I was wrong with you is that you take any song My friend, you take any tune and you put it out of his true sing in a different way it doesn't work. But the Quran

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is the only book. As long as you observe the treat, you stop by tells you stop you prolong the way tells you to belong. And you can choose you to wherever you want. That's a miracle that everyone can can relate to it in and read it and still not be bored of it. Yes or no guys?

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Is it any man booster? Yes or no? Okay, that's the three.

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If you look at the Quran, and its meaning, I haven't even got to the meeting yet. This is true. Isn't it? Amazing? How many of you understand Arabic Tell me Put your hands up. There's a good 100 and 150 v here behind who understand Arabic.

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You don't understand Arabic. But you still find it nice Yes or no? If I said to trying Kim

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Jong Hong Mila fo to be calm. villafana P.

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de la vie meiselman i kohan Johor, I think is

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the fish should laughing Yeah. You can't relate much to a song or something and I'm motivated that you don't understand much. Okay, you might you might respect it. That's fine. But you can't relate to it much. We've been saying that and reading the Quran through our lives most of us without even understanding it. Okay, I'm not saying don't understand it. Of course, go ahead and send the Quran read it to see but when you read the article, he listened to the Arabic You don't understand it. But yet it's so beautiful. I would like you to do one thing if you want to ever give Dawa and I've done this with non Muslim before and you can do it anytime you want.

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Just take a CD of a good party that you like, and just give it to him as a gift. Say go home. Just play this. I said

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seriously, you don't know how to give down. You can't even you know like read like those bodies. That's fine.

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Just give me give me a CD tend to go home. Just put it on, relax. Just put it on.

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You know, I've known of non Muslims that come they'll come a second time and say give me more of that. I think that thing that you sink

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because it's soothing.

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Is soothing. Laila Hi mom, LA. Why my brothers because this is a miracle. Anyway, let's get back to bilities and Solomon, Allah he set up

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this tangible

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thing. But you've got to know that there are intangible unseen things that govern our world. And the thing is, my friends is that if you carry on going with the tangible things that you see what you can see these days, what do youngsters see these days? They see the TV. And on the TV, there's a guy that's got so many rings. Yeah, that his arms are aching to lift them up.

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Or make logical or whatever. Yeah, it's got so many chains around here, right? That he's probably thinking, Man, Man, I wish I could take this off. It's probably in the middle. Think about it, how many chains and how many? Anyway, maybe doesn't hurt him. But I think he's he's got his ladies locked into what he's made his life into girls and cars.

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And drugs in between, and he sells the drugs. And he gets the girls and he gets the cars that he wants. And the youngsters see this on YouTube on TV, whatever. And they think, man, I want to be like that.

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I want to fight and put a goal to fit

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is another ultimate thing guys. Yeah. Get my teeth knocked. Ah, I forgot. So when a smile I smell money.

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Benefit whether it's the gold tooth or not. Yeah, and whether it's gold or not. Yeah. That not no disrespect to you guys. Yeah. By the way, they want the girls, they want the cause.

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What they don't see is guys, they don't see the past, and they don't see the future.

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My friends intelligence is not when you just see a new think of what you think. And you know what, you know, that's not intelligence. A man can go out there and he can sell drugs.

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And a man can go out there and he can speak so well. I'm convinced the guy that he needs the drugs. A man can be intelligent and smart enough to go and not even take the drug but to sell the drugs and to make loads of dosh. And G's, the column G's and dosh from the ash that he sells, yet, he makes all of that and he thinks I'm so clever, man. I'm so clever.

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But he doesn't see the past. And he doesn't see the future, especially the future. Intelligence is not that intelligence isn't that you just go out there and you're able to be smart, you know, just outsmart people with your words. That's not intelligence. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi Salaam in a hadith a Muslim said near the end of time, there will be people who from who Amana has gone, Trust has gone. And it will remain in inside like a piece of a dog does adopt or something. That's how we will remain. In fact, it will get so bad that people will not be able to find trustworthy people. They'll say, you know, out of this whole community, so and so you can trust so and so you can trust

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someone so you can trust they will count them on the fingers a lot of truth is this happened today? Oh no, tell me this happened today. Not

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La la la la, then you can count trustworthy people on your fingers. That's how few they are in a whole community. And then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said in the same Hadith a Muslim that there will be people at that time. Who won't have any Eman in the heart. But people will refer to them and say ma, ma, ma, ma ma gelada they also wore a clever man. What a clever individual was successful individual. Because the guy's got the gift of the gap. You understand? That guy can talk that guy can walk the guy can talk the guy can convince you that you you got to be behind him. He just everything. Man when the guy goes on Facebook he has so many likes Instagram I had today somebody

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said to me that this new thing Instagram, people are on if you're on it, that's good guys, usually for a user good things there. But you know, there's a phrase he told me a lie. Like he said, there are some people yeah, if they were to delete the Instagram account, or if they were to delete their Facebook account, yeah, they probably just died.

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Because of loneliness. The whole world is in Instagram and the whole world is in Facebook. I'm thinking What a sad life man.

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Just because you have a Facebook account don't make your whole world of Facebook don't make your whole world Instagram and whatever else don't don't do that guy. There's a real world out here anyway.

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Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam told us they'll they'll look at those individuals and they'll say what a clever and successful individual when no Eman is in the heart. Not a single man. What does that mean? That means that in this dunya you look at them you think, man, the guy's got that he's got the house. He's got the car. He's got the, you know, he's got the business. He's made the money. He's made the billions on the millions of the multi millions. And look at me, I wish I wish I could just be lacking that stuff.

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What's going on in most people's head? Because they only see what they see. But my friend, you want to ask this question, does the one who sells drugs see the aftermath of what he where he's going? Does he see that he's going to suddenly find himself, he might be clean guy guys getting dumped, everyone goes into drugs, they're all these guys are going to drag this look, I'm going to remain clean, I'm not going to take it myself, I'm going to be smart enough to take not taking myself, that's fine, my friend. But what you don't see is in the world of drugs, it's a cutthroat situation, the same deal you're doing today, and making 500, you know, bucks or 500 pounds, that another guy's

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gonna come and say to you that you got to give you 400. And it's cutthroat situation. And then it gets down to a five pound 10 pound difference. And because of that, they start stabbing each other. You never saw that you clean, you never took drugs you just gave to others. You clean as in you don't take yourself not clean terms of spoiling people's life. That's a separate thing yet, but you're not taking in your own body. You've kept your body good, but you don't know for a little thing you've been done in that guy who goes and sees a girl or a girl who sees a boy. And that's what they see. That's it. That's my world. That's all I want. I just want him and it's an hour.

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And the kind of time living in summer saying I want it.

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You understand guys? You don't understand the way the world is going summer. Thank you.

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I want her answer was an hour.

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Why are you probably laughing now, you're probably laughing now.

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The way the world is going, my friends. And I'm not joking. I'm making a joke out of this. There will be there has already been cases where people have got married to their pets.

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Already cases real cases people have gotten married to their pets. Some people have got married to the TV sets. Some people got married to a building something I've fallen in love with a building they come every day out there. They look at the building look at the building. It's it's a it's a psychological disorder, but they look at a level building and they and I'm saying this today psychological order. Yeah, if I say this in 30 years time, I might be taken to prison brothers.

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You know, I'm saying

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because this is why any freedom of expression, freedom of love, freedom, freedom.

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Freedom, in the name of freedom, you can do what you want. So I'm being serious about here, I'm being serious. There are people soon enough. There's so many deals I don't know if you're aware of this or not, is already in large groups of people across the world who are saying that they were born to love children.

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I hope you get the message.

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You know, maybe I love children, I hope you get the message. Not a parent to love. But the other kind of there are groups of people on the earth, who are now trying to legalize family members sleeping with another family member.

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And I won't go further the children that listen to this, I hope you get the message. They will be in 3040 years time and I'm not making this up there will be where people will actually just go ahead and do whatever they want with animals. There will be a time when Rasulullah has already told us it will get so bad that he said Ben is wrong even if a man was to approach his mother in an unlawful manner in public in front of others than one of my people of my own will do the same.

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And guys, you don't even need to go outside of the Islamic world to do that. There are people within Islam who are saying all of this should be allowed from the Quran Allah Allah Allah Allah. Now what I'm trying to say to you guys is anyway, this guy, he looks at her she looks at him. Okay, let's just come back to our world. Yeah, I don't want you to start thinking about this gruesome future that we've won. Yeah, don't worry inshallah, even if you live that time inshallah we pray to Allah that He protects us inshallah. inshallah.

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Don't freak out, guys. Don't freak out. Don't don't don't fall in love with the pillow tonight.

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he looks at her she looks at him and it's like, that's it. That's all they want. They don't see future what a man Viva future. Future is you know, comments can never be intelligent individuals. Some guys. They are so intelligent at the exams. Don't get me wrong, guys. They can score three stars, three A's in the colleges. They can get first degree honors degree. They can get all of that but you know what, what messes them up is they just can't get you know, they just can't get that person out of their head.

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They can't they can't just go beyond that they can't they mess up the exam because of that they stopped eating this or that they stopped sleeping because of that some guys they're just dreaming dream all the times like when when when why not a lot they come they come to us imams I'm not just making this up they come to see moms and they come to all funny ways. Some say you know, ma'am you know I want to get my grandma and I say look guy look if he's written for inshallah you know, you know make it happy Charlotte try try inshallah, go to your parents go to, you know, and say no, no about that. And some don't want to go to the parents. Okay, fine. It's like, Okay, guys, listen,

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what's wrong? What's wrong? What's the man say? You know, she like she wants to and I want to but you know, the parents not agreeing with the culture or she's already got someone lined up for this. Not that look, this guy. This guy. I feel like

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this guy doesn't know if she's meant for somebody else. And the reason for it and she's gonna go somewhere, buddy, man, please You know, can you give me something

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the guy wants to like pray and blow man who some come obviously come to us and they want like something to be written and they want something to like, you know, do some potion magic. I don't know what they want to do, just to get her. I like Giza. How long am I forget? How long were you going? and some others are like, you know, man, bah, bah, bah, I know all of that. Bah, bah. I still wanna so Okay, look, if she can't really come to you, she can't be used. You gotta somewhere down the line. Just give up. You have to you can't get everything you want in this world. So

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don't say that.

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Listen, guys is wake up. This is the dunya it's not gonna wake up you. If you can't get her have the girl she can get in. You know, the girls. They go to another extreme. They sit there. They roll up the sleeves

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to take a sharp item. Since they're cutting their wrist

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and hand tied here.

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My hands gonna cry blood

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is that they cut the CST goes sometimes girls have a crush on someone. They go crazy. And then some years, the media doesn't help. Because all it needs to do is just bring one guy out and they were like

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are you really intelligent girl? Seriously, are you really intelligent? You think about it that 1000s and 1000s of probably 100 1000s of girls.

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The guy's name by the way, Justin Bieber.

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It's been in prison a few times.

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Anyway, Justin Bieber comes to one city. And they're like, all the hotels are booked. Seriously. I went to Norway. I said we couldn't even find a hotel to book like, what has gone wrong here. And they said, Justin Bieber's coming. Also wall

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does to be well, everyone apparently people are flying in just to see this guy.

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Wow. I mean, seriously, and the girls are really intelligent. You don't want to be thinking of is that if there are hundreds and 1000s of girls that after this one guy. Okay, there are two one guy. Yeah. This girl seriously needs to go in front of the mirror. Look inside and say seriously, how much of a chance Have I got to be all those girls there to Justin Bieber.

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And only the normal job is the job is some of them as well.

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And they will get

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he succeeds to go. He got no chance for getting even probably lucky even if you're Muslim. Are you

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looking for Justin Bieber?

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Seriously. And they go crazy for these not one individual, this individual kind of crush. It's like if you ever can see the future the future is what if you can if you can accept the parameters. The Quran teacher Quran teaches us a massive lesson which is what if it's not meant for you? There's no point of crying over there is no point of dying for it. Why are you dying for something that might not be meant for you? I remember once I went with my family to pick up pick some strawberries. We went to pick strawberries. And my wife, my wife, my three kids, we went on summertime, you know to farm just to pick strawberries and ice they go out and do some of these. So as we're going my wife

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is saying you know Hurry up, hurry up. Let's get let's get the cookie quick. Let's get there early early so that we can be the first to pick them up. You know, the juicy ones. Everyone's gonna take the juicy ones. Yes, it's on your mind yet. And I said, Take it easy. She said let's hurry up. I said Take it easy. I said the strawberries that are written for me and for you and the kids. Nobody will be able to pick them

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No matter how many people will pass those strawberries that are in for me, and you and the children, no one can pick them up, they won't even see it. Or even if they see the one pick it, and even if they pick it, you'll still end up in my mouth.

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Yes or no. And if it's not written for me, and I get the early reading for someone else, yeah. And I try and pick whatever I want, you know, some other guys strawberries. I'm not going to pick them up inside. If I see if I might not see first thing. And if I do see it, I probably won't want to pick it. And even if I pick it, I'll end up in his mouth. Yes or no guys. This is our man.

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This is what t this is the matrix of of a man, which is you see things with a cover of a law. He just accepted. He accepted that massive part of our Eman whoever rejects other is not a Muslim. The very clear hadith of Muslim the first man I think Marbella journey, he rejected qaddoum. And the news came for Abdullah the norm of the alarm and he said tell tell these people

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and Nomura minima, anybody who made him say that I am clear of them, I'm acquitted of them, and they are acquitted of me, guys, our matrix of this world is through a man. And we see things differently. We see if you see first thing is that if you see someone you're not supposed to just look like that look like that look like that look anywhere you are, because the thing that you can look in either some or another, you are gonna fall in love somewhere.

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And then what happens after that, you lose your senses. You're not supposed to just look like that. So that's the first thing they teach you. The second thing, if you've seen someone, then you go through the right means and if you can get them Alhamdulillah if you can't get them through nica, then forget it. Go and find life somewhere else. That's dunia. If you see someone who's Well, you just got to look at them thing. Man. There are some people like this I mean serious about this. Some people they've got a serious problem of jealousy.

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They look at anybody who's got more than them. And they come to someone's house in the countryside. A

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nice sofa

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a charging water tea. You know, it's like you got nice nice nice sofas here. Nice. But you know, deep inside is like they got nice sofas

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got nice sofas.

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Let me sit down yet the tea cup of tea comes and then look at the China cup.

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Both the chicken veggie

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and inside it's like

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they come and see works done in your house. And if they could care, they want to be Superman and just like be mad these lasers and blow the whole thing up. Because it's killing them inside is jealousy. And there are some people who walk back and they'll still laugh that smile and everything. Well, thank you.

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I wonder dawn they'll talk about you. They'll say did you do Johanna agarose ski Jana Malik Sava you know Malik is very sorry if your name is Malika because I'm sorry man I'm sorry. Yeah

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you know, he's got a house there yada yada him Yeah, how he makes that money. How he made that and how he gets that nice bathroom? Ah huh. How could even how the guy stealing evidence that he's stolen it? Have you got evidence that he's done something wrong? If you haven't been shut up, shut your mouth up and just sit down and sell hamdulillah This is what Islam teaches us. Rasulullah sallallahu told us you see something good in somebody else say Masha Allah or say barakallahu feek May Allah bless you in this this is what we say as Muslims and really meaning from your heart. And if you if you are in a good condition Alhamdulillah if you're in a bad condition Alhamdulillah Allah

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Cooley Hall, I praise Allah on every suture for every situation I mean, this Islam guys, panna, you know, this is the matrix of this, this this religion cannot is I am satisfied with whatever Allah has given me. This is the beauty of the believer, a believer with this panna with this contentment in his heart and eyes, contentment, if you've got you can see a man with a mansion, you say May Allah bless you, you know, like the Allah that gave me a normal house, that same Allah, I was pleased to give you a mansion the same a lot. I was happy that I get a three bedroom house, that same allies happy that you get a seven big bedroom mansion, and I'm absolutely happy with what? With

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the Taksim of Allah with how Allah distributes for his sermons. That's not me that's a believer. You see a guy driving down the road with a you know, a nice, you know,

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And a wonderful car give me give me a name of a good car guys. Ferrari okay. And another one

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okay Rolls Royce man has gone out man Come on. The British are not making them like they used to make them. Sorry bah bah bah bah bah take those words back man by be against British values like you know, sorry we like a Rolls Royce here. Yeah. And the forecast anyway.

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The thing is you say Ferrari, the guy's got a Ferrari. The guy's got a Ferrari fine.

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I've got a normal cover no coffin inside that you don't mind. You see a man with a beautiful wife more beautiful than you you don't mind hamdulillah. Taksim, Allah Allah distributes. Because the same Allah that gave him a better car that gave him a better house that gave him a better wife. Yeah. Perhaps if you were in his shoes, he'd be looking at you and saying, I will show with you

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in mind,

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because it's like man in my house, he might in his house, Allah May Allah bless them, but like give them a lot of Baraka and these big houses and big people because well, I give a lot of blessing Sammy, but some of them just like you, and just like me, they haven't got peace. You can't buy peace My friend is only allows giving you he gives you peace. He gives you peace, whether you're a rich man you can't buy where the poor man you come by, if Allah gives you peace in your house, you've got peace. If not, you ain't got no peace. What is the risk of loss loss? Tell us is that is it a Dunia kulu hematol. The whole world is full of full of things that people own WaheGuru WaheGuru Mata al

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Muslim Alma to saleha he's a Muslim. He said the best the best thing that a man can possess in this world is a woman who is righteous who's pious not didn't say a woman who's just you know, so, so amazing to look at. But he has to, he has to stop his eyes from coming out the sockets. And I'm saying it's not that he said Alma to Saleh, a woman who's so pious now you know what, you got a woman who's pious Alhamdulillah you know, all women are good looking and all women men are good looking. Sal hamdulillah guys Chishti all women are good looking. And all men are good looking. You're looking at me thinking Shay. Come on. Chairman. Kim is true. Everyone's good looking in the

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eyes of whoever Allah put muhabba put love yes or no. If someone hates you, hates you, and if allow now he wants to kill you want to literally just kill you? And if Allah drops love here, will it kill you? Yes or no? No. I'll give an example. musala salam his Barsky is on the on the riverbank is just at a tree and is underwater and fear around has just sent his men out there any baby boy born there this year kill him kill every single baby boy from the from the children of Israel kilimo and he's walking down his riverbank and they said Fernando need no excuse no excuse to kill anyone. Here's a man who wants to kill someone there and then he kills them.

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So his soldiers that are with him his bodyguards are with him his wife that is walking with Him suddenly they see what they see a small basket and they bring the basket up and he looks inside and he sees

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a baby boy you know what's going through his head is gonna kill him he's gonna just kill this baby boy.

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Allah says what well I look at la cama have better mini almost you are in front of me and in front of this fire today what I'm talking to you almost there was a time when your enemy wanted to kill you but I put inside him what I put inside him love love from myself I put inside there He therefore he fell in love with you. The worst enemy falls in love with his his enemy that's going to destroy his whole of his kingdom. If Allah wants to do that, guys I'm telling you guys you might think that no woman is gonna really take me one day somewhere someone's gonna just look at you and say yes that's the guy is me

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yeah you because what where does muhabba Where does Mohammed come from? Well love come from technical love come from

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Allah. Let me give you another scenario guys some of you not understanding this I have seen guys a really good looking

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I'm not I'm not I don't consider myself one of those here. I think I'm average hamdulillah say brothers have done that. As in some guys here. Literally they just they just like basically come out the door. Yeah. And there's girls like there's just content the eyes of

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all day they know it they know you know personal beautiful

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They know because they walk here they walk even if it's a girl. Yeah, she's walking down. Yeah. And she don't you don't need to look, you know, you've got this vision of the corner of your eyes here. So they know they've already seen them like 50 yards before the senior guard. She thinks I know him. So she's looking down. Yeah. Like I was looking at her. Like even turning the headlight out as he doesn't go yet. And she's like, a tough one. You miserably. miserably. Get it. And even even boys do that. You know what happens? These boys are I know some boys. They've like, they say no, no, no, no, no, no. So many beautiful, really nice girls that have proposals for him. And no, no, no. his age is

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getting higher. higher highs. No, not this one. Not this one. Not this one is probably rejected about 47. Seriously, 4748 49 said forget it. And the 51 year

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he says you know, before she even proposes like, that's the one

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that's the one you told the other 49 Yeah, that just got on with their lives. They've just married somebody else. Whatever. Yeah, this 51 wasn't even interested in him. Your son. This last one is like who are you? He's he wants her. She's like

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the one you He's like, No, no, look how beautiful I am. And Allah hasn't put the muhabba love in there. She know what happens She don't want him then you know what he don't get married for several years just because because of her I've seen several guys that this and then in the end she gets married to some other guy and he's like heartbroken

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man is looking for the other 49 year old kids

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you know my friend muhabba love is from Allah this all his whole system is from Allah you know if somebody if you met somebody for the business trade who made them meet you for the business trade who take his name who you think you can ever can find even if you go there guys tell me this Yes or no? Some guys they've got all the degrees they've got the ACE Ace they've got the A stars or have they got the college degrees they got the universities and they applied to 400 jobs but they still can't get a job Guess what? Oh guys.

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If Allah doesn't want to give it to you won't give it to some other guy he don't even know how to run a business I'm like giving money yes or no guys? This is a lost game so don't we don't look at our matrices we don't look at this whole world and see you know that guy made money that guy's got is that if I do the same thing Yes, that's fine. Look, you got to take up the means in this world fine, but it doesn't mean that you will become a successful at any of these guys. Why? Because Allah holds the keys to the MC Allah Satan Hakuna

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Whoo. And then Allah Subhana Allah has what Allah has all the keys to the unseen world all the keys. Allah azza wa jal has the keys to the entire unseen world. And what that means is that only through a light you can get something now what what am I saying with all of these girls and cars and drive? What what am I trying to say to you is that most of the guys in this world who lose themselves in the matrix of this world is shaytan makes them believe in the present without them looking into the future.

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Let me submit for you guys guys understand this quite quite carefully because I want to tell you our real intelligences real intelligence is not just passing an exam, really intelligent intelligence is not just to become a successful man, you got to know a man here and you're so successful like Rasulullah sallallahu told us really man is not that what is real, what is real success? What is real intelligence? Real intelligence is a man who can look at the past and the future, assess it properly, and know where he is. So what do I mean? Allah says in the Holy Quran, he says, For example, and this is a whole section what Allah has mentioned 15 things in the Quran, all one after

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the other 15 things in the Quran, Allah mentions and after that, he says that he can in

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LA code or bukan hikma This is wisdom, which your Lord has inspired to you wisdom. This is now a wise man. This is a real intelligent man. What is that?

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This entity is I'm not going to go through all 15 I'm just going to give you a few of them, guys. You're catering for me to carry on.

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I can see you're awake. Yeah. Yeah, you know, yeah. shala don't wanna wanna make it too long. Yeah.

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Allah says what? Allah says wakaba rabuka Allah taboo. He

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is a man with real intelligence, a woman with real hikmah and intelligence, wisdom, or will they do they see the parents are one of the parents whose old

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Allah says in

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the girl Kibera huduma killer home

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Fela duckula Huma

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Huma Luna colon Kadima, you are individually losing score and you find one of your parents or both of your parents they reach old age. Don't approach them or in any way you say.

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Don't even say that. Forget beyond that. Don't even say that. While I didn't have oma, don't don't try and rebuke them. Rocco lahoma colon Kadima, when you speak to them, speak to them with gentle words. Why? Allah says, What with Laguna Jana has literally mean a man, a man with wisdom, a woman with wisdom, intelligence inside them, they will keep the hands down in humility in front of their parents. Who are you standing under? who is standing in front of Allah says this?

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Whirlpool, Rob Durham, Houma, Rob dyani zawiera say out of your heart, oh, my Lord, my Lord, have mercy on both of them. Just as they nurtured me, and they brought me up when I was young, this is

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our law, I now realize I look in the past. And I see that I have no existence without these parents, I'd be disabled, if one of these parents wanted to twist my arm and break my legs. If I when I was small, I'd be a person who would be totally gone if they wanted to suffer me suffer me and suffocate me or put me through malnutrition. If the parents didn't decide to feed you, or feed you properly, what would happen? Our largest as they nurtured me, that's the past, I also see that there's a moment when I will become old, when I will become feeble, when I will become weak, when I will need the care of others and who better to get care of them, my own children, our larger cycle of life

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with the past, in the present, I realized that and that's why out of humanity, even if I disagree, even if I disagree with my parents, even if I disagree with them, I will not hurt them. Why? Because I don't want the same to be done to myself. This is wisdom. I recognize the gifts of them all my life to this point. And I recognize what i what i will be tomorrow at old age. And that's wisdom. This is real intelligence, a man or a woman who can look at the past and present who can assess the entire situation properly. Listen to another one. You know, I just before I get them to this, you know, today, a lot of the kids, kids, sometimes they just they just don't know what they have until

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they lose it.

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Guys Put your hands up anyone here who's lost one or both of your parents put your hands up.

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Keep your hands up if you lost both of them.

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There's only about five of us in this room out of 100 or whatever that's sharing this law. The pain that you will suffer at the time of the death of your parents, especially your mother. It is nothing like that you've ever experienced in your entire life. You know why? Because the one who gave you life and birth, the one in whom you lived and you lived off the one without whom you would have no love in your heart, the mother's giving you so much love in your heart. When that piece of humanity of yours rips away from you for good. It is very painful. So before that happens to you guys, your parents just do the best for looking after them. because trust me, when they've gone, you will cry.

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And not only cry, you will cry. Some of you will cry uncontrollably.

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And I've seen grown up men in Genesis but they they just can't control themselves grown up men, businessmen couldn't control themselves.

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And the only thing on their mouth is what I wish I wish I had said this to her. I wish I had done this for her. I wish I did this and so on. So if you want to impart wisdom, this is wisdom. Allah says what after that, why I developed Oba haka who will miskeen avena sebelah Tibet delta z Ra. I want you all Muslims to suspending on those who are close to you give to the orphans give to the needy. Why? Why gift to the orphans, why give to the needy, because guys, whatever we have today is from who told me from who the money in my pocket is from who take his name Allah the money tomorrow I will get will be from who? The money yesterday, God is from who

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if I know the past and future and the present all of that and I said

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Everything I won't be scared to give. I'll give okay? But what does Allah say? Allah says, Allah.

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Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah. Allah, Allah. Don't be so stingy that you put both of your hands too generic and you don't want to give anything at all. And don't be so generous that you open both arms wide. Hey, take my money. Yeah, yo, yo. That's not wisdom. stinkiness no wisdom, being open, so generous, you give everything not wisdom. You have to assess everything, as a family, assess your future, assess your own your own needs and necessities and give to those who need that is wisdom. That is what Allah teaches. And Allah says, while Tibet visited the zero, don't waste. That is wait just because you don't just waste it. In fact, our Sharia has said when you've got

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water and you're doing Buddha with it, don't use more than you need, even if you're at a river or a whole stream that is flowing with water. What kind of what kind of wastewater when the stream is flowing with water? But I know that so much abundance, no, not even then why? Because if you know, if you know, and you look around, and you weigh everything, that a lot that gave you water can take the water away. And there are many in the world that don't have the water so show that Allah that you appreciate what you give it. That's what it's about.

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Allah says what? Well tolu Allah,

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By the way, this is Surah Surah Surah burning Sorry, I'm reading from I am a Sunni Islam is Surah 17 and number 23 onwards, now I've reached it number 31. While I talk to Lou, I will add a machete

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don't kill children because of the fear of poverty. Why guys, today? Do you know what

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a real crisis today in the Western European world is a population crisis? You guys realize that there's not enough in many of these countries there's not enough being produced and the problem gets worse because these brown people and outsiders and foreigners come

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and every year getting a kid dum dum dum dum dum dum I just saw you miss last year with another one. Yeah, yeah, yeah, another one coming hospital god

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I'm not trying to say guys that this is the you know what I'm gonna say no, you know, one thing that I need to say here is

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Muslims, some Muslims seriously because they're getting so educated. Because you live a life that is so splendid. And you need to have a life where everything is measured

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right down to your Sunday roast.

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And you must make sure that you only have children that are just enough for you. One must think like this to have a wonderful superb life. So you should end up with either one child or two too. and dare I say that too? might be too much.

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Some Muslims Yeah. Seriously, some Muslims are stopping to. And some some are.

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And some say like

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should we have one?

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And some La hawla wala quwata Nebula now the new generation is serious about this. The need generation is like

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why do I get married man? Why should I get married? Well, I've got one

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comma t v comma technology call got my job

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forget it on the phone on the fly Performa bills of morale. And when I want to go see here why I just can't seem to myself she enjoys herself because cinnamal got dinner because they in order that we come back here she goes to her flat.

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no argue, argue with me. You know, we just see you and we'd like to see that. So for a year to the mom 45 years old and like, you know, so one cannot keep

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them anyway. They poo all over the place you know, like they got a bogus caminhada

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de la jolla you know, sila you know too much to talk too much. Crying I want to get a good night's rest, you know? Seriously, some guys you know, I'm being serious about this. You might think I'm just sitting here in the middle just having a laugh with you on a Saturday night. Yeah, I'm not

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listen to this year 20 years ago when I used to do new cars

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The average age on a new car certificate used to be 2122 years old. Around

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15 years ago when I started to do new cars. It was about 2425 years old the average age 10 years ago I didn't because this is happened to move shift to about 26 years old. Five years ago, I do new cars and now the average is shifting towards 2627.

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Today, I'm doing new cars, and the average age is not 2930

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average age, I'm getting serious about this. A lot of new cars I'm doing the average is shifting towards that.

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And you know what now parents are commenting and saying, Melissa in custom Dougie, please explain to them thinking What?

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This was some dodgy, please offended I'm thinking what

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percentage car can anytime

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that I want to do liquor. And my advice to you parents is this when they wanted to do nikaya when they were desperate to do Nicole, you had 510 excuses for them. You said Who's there? Do you get the mighty drive to now? Ha you got three brothers older than you you were in the queue?

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You only 18 What do you know about life? Only 18 he was desperate he found someone and this is what you said to him then you wake in the queue. But you never he never seen the other side of the story. his big brother was messing around he just didn't want to you know he had a girlfriend and the other one had a girlfriend and you know that this happens in families man Don't Don't look at me like that. Yeah you know it happens on a man don't wanna say this on the member I'm gonna say you straight

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Why? Because they you know is going on and then they have all of this double life and then in the end what happens is one of them ends up getting too old. The What is it doing is desperate. When La hawla wala quwata illa Allah is already tasted, tasted the secrets of life. He's already tasted that in a heartbeat. Now, he's texted a few times. Then you told him when he came again. And he wants to go he said want to get married now? No, no, no, no. They're gonna ask for your CV. Now that a CV is for marriages

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you guys laughing um yeah, you guys have to send CVS teacher for marriage, isn't it? What's this man you're getting a job or something?

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Seriously, families are sending CDs to another yes or no guys tell me this Yes or no? Yes or no guys.

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It's like you gave me a job or something now one day you know they they treat you like corporate Mondays? Alhamdulillah no CD Baba

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we don't know what CB was those days

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Saturday they won't see your CV now say you've got more more job. So you go get jobs again guy gets a job and he comes back he wants to get married he's just you know, Papa mama need to get married. So no you see he's gonna say you got no no my investment put investment putting flat. Didn't really nice terms. another five years. Try and get his flat by this time. Yeah, the guy's like, you know, he's lost half his hair brother.

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He's got he's got on here. Heathrow Airport.

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He can land the plane on this. He lost half his hair.

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And then you turn onto my 3031 is there okay, better? Okay, now the three brothers are all married now. Now your turn or you got nice nice degree. And you got nice investment. Nice job. Everything secure. Now you get married is like

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Really? Papa Jane.

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Papa j one with Jane in the sand. The guy's already in some other world. He's not gonna say that his parents have the CSS in his mind. Yeah, guys come and cheer up guys. is I think it was Jay I forget that he hasn't even talked about Lucy yet

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saying the guy gave it to her. And now you're talking about marriage.

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And guys, you know telling you forget Jane Lucy there might be some other name that you might be surprised to hear that and you don't say like I'm gonna say I'm not gonna guide you forward Yeah. You might hear the ether

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and the sun so what I'm trying to say to you now is

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you find all this has happened with what what because the cycles broken people have all sorts of foes now these guys young guys young girls when they when they get together sometimes they're boating the children

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and law setting Now sometimes parents are not even having children they don't want to because they fear poverty. They kind of the sitting there with the calculators and they thinking man, we're living on this moment you doing your wife? This is I'm gonna give you this advice as some people are here they think you know what, you can take a degree and the business and all that Yeah.

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Job and security to just get your wife did not tell you that or did alas messengers say that in a roundabout way nine exact words but in a rounded way that your wife or any individual brings their own risk.

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They bring their own provisions. He has to know guys, you know before marriage you and that prosperous and she wasn't that prosperous. And when you get married a lot was Baraka together. And then you both start suddenly you start getting things coming towards yourself, and each kid that comes they bring their own risk with them, yes or no guys, they bring in Hanalei works. Okay, I'm not telling you to have a full, you know, squad, you know, like football team a 22 year. If you want to have that guy, that's fine. Yeah. Something you know, no offense here. But what I'm trying to say is that you you gotta have something that you know, a healthy sort of life where you don't fear for

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this reason. I will just say he said, while horrible Xena in

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Asia don't even go near Xena.

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Don't go near it. Because it's obscene. Now the guy sees what the girl sees what are they just want to be with each other? Why? Why guys guys look at tomorrow.

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Today is when they're committing the act. Then Allah makes the Eman come out of the heart. it hovers above them while they're doing the act, and then it will come return inside them and they finished and tomorrow they will be burning, burning in pots where the fire is inside in hellfire. This is from our tradition, from a hadith accepted a hadith in Bukhari.

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An authentic hadith and he said give up the relationship and elicited illicit relationship. If they give that up. Then Allah azza wa jal will give them what

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Allah will call them under their judgment and call them under his arch. And Allah will say come under my the shade of my throne, there is no other shade, except for this day shade on this day, Allah, if they give up the illicit relation, or if they have Nika, and they get married, then Alhamdulillah then Bravo Bismillah. In another world is yours. Bismillah every time he sleeps with air, he gets reward for it. This is in Hadith. So this is seeing the past and the future. And law says one thing for the believers to think about is what?

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to lean turkey in the final matter, the final consequence will be for those who used to be aware of me. You want to see today, you've got a beautiful girl tomorrow, you're going out dating her next thing you know, you're loving it, you're flying across the world, you're going to hotels with a you're going to dining places with her and she's going with you after that what happens eventually, you get old she gets old. Don't tell me you're gonna be like 14 years old and she's gonna be 14 years old. And you're both gonna still be doing all this stuff. No way. No, no Your mind will be different. You look at 40 year olds when you hit that age, you're going to be different like them.

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You look at 30 year olds when you hit the age you'll be like them when you got 50 you'll be like them you thinking all these these Uncle Uncle not understand me.

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But you know when you get to that a god like uncle, because your mind becomes like that with age. You become like that. And the whole point is what that if you look at the future, what was that girl today? When you were 20s in your 20s you dated that girl and the girl day to do and you did it in a hot arm way. You could have had any car in the hallway but you decided to go with Obama. What happened in the end? Well, she's a good leader.

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So no, your Buddha she's moody. Your old man she's a woman. You smile and have your teeth are missing. His smile mas and all the teeth are missing in antecessor. Like that's it that's life. Yeah. What was the point of all of that now look at Arqiva then you go to your grave she goes to a grave you wake up in the desert where she wakes him dead dead man then now judgment that's hikmah don't go near Xena because it's gonna lead Alice's was sob it will lead to an evil path. The guy who's selling drugs or whatever he sees a future he'll see that there's corruption all the guys wanting to drug this corruption ahead. Either they ruin their body they ruin the body of others or

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they get into a mess with some financial matters and they start killing each other or shooting each other or they start messing each other with gangs and so on. It's happened to all of them nobody has gone into the world of drugs without coming out with some issues some serious issues.

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The guy who wants to have a life quickly to to cut this one's wealth and cut down with the law talks about it well I

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mean liability here. Someone's well don't touch it without having the best means best intention to touch it. Because I'll finish with finish by half man I'm finished yet so seven moments in Sharla

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You wanna make quick money you don't see the end of it La la la la this money that you just took this good you talk Do you know that Hadith Muslim says that you will be on the day of judgment that I turn the tide around your neck

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some guys of this age you want to take small items some big guys will get adults What do they want to do they want to take someone's land they want to take property they want to take property some some people I know what they do they basically they're going to make a fence in the garden Yeah, they're going to redo the fence here that tells the builder hey hey

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movie movie a few inches this way

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bigger god

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yeah, so he moves the post when he builds it a few inches that way your neighbors probably complaining is our you broke it up while you're talking about I'm sure he was there.

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He was there you took a piece of land even at the shipbuilding premises and said even to the to the extent of one spans lands you know what happens? any item anything you took what happens to be on the day Jasmine, Allah ties it around his neck. Then Allah lifts him up to the height of the seventh heaven. Then Allah drops him with that thing around his neck that he stole from this earth from the seventh heaven on to the platform of the dead gentleman

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from the seventh heaven height there is no real seventh heaven there is a lot broken everything but seventh heaven height to the Day of Judgment Allah doctrine you see that and you know that you don't want to take anyone else's well

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it is hard it's yours is yours. It is not hold on leaving Amana is a trust of somebody else a lot talks about that. There's some people that want to hide things when they when they want to sell them to others could be the seller on above when they take from others they want to check you properly. Yeah, check the pony. Check the tires check the check the history check the back check the paint here. Check if all the electrics are working. Yeah, check the speech and rev the engine rev the end you probably hear Yeah, yeah, yeah. When you want to take it you check every detail to the API check. Yeah, look at the data history. coalesce test says check this check. That's fine. But when

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you want to sell it the some brothers I this is I don't worry, Tony. stuff is fine. It's fine. It's fine.

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It's fine. It's fine. Don't worry. When you sprayed it, you sprayed it you hate this new hit that

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Allah talks about. No, Colin says, Not good.

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Why you got accountability. You look at the end, you got accountability. Allah says Hola, Takuma la Santa Kabir. And

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there are certain things that you don't know have to say I don't know it. Just be humble. You don't know be humble I number 26 of the surah. Because everything that you're in a summer, while bussola one four ad, what your is have taken in what your eyes have taken in and what your heart is taking in. All of that will be questioned. And they're just, that's that's our thinking about the future. And you guys sitting here who've done something wrong, just to tobor to Allah, repent to Allah. And if you've taken something from someone else, you just try and return it back.

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If you can't return it back, they're gone from this dunya or whatever, try and give some service on that behalf Allah accept that mela through that forgive you as well. Okay.

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And then in the end, we'll just one last one and then I'll give you the Hickman part number 37. Allah says, well, Adam Schiff in out of the model ha, don't walk on the earth. Like, you know, you own the land. Yeah. whose land is this man? Medan? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Was it that King golfer? Oh, yeah. So they walk like, you know, as if like, yeah, you know, you would walk you

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can see who's coming.

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In Atlanta, the law says, You walk like that. You can't even rip the earth with the feet beneath you. You can't tear the earth while you're trying to prove while on Tableau Geobella to literally show you how big you are. You're nothing compared to my mountains. Allah says, For us, he was big. You can see who's tall, who's great, who's powerful, who's super, just look at one of my creation, the mountain. Well on top level devala Tula. Don't do that. Why? Because if you look at the end of it, the one who has kibbled an arrogance inside him, he will not be able to enter Gemini

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until Allah somehow forgives him or gets rid of the gem rid of the kibber and the arrogance inside the model. What does that mean? That means he may have to go and burn alpha. Just to get rid of the arrogance. So person looks at the end and then Allah says that he can be

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la cara boo, kameena hikmah these are these. This is all these things. A lot.

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This is what your Lord is inspired to you have wisdom now you're wise, you're not just intelligent, you're wise. A wise man, a wise woman takes everything in consideration and they look into that they look into where it's going, well, am I going? That's a wise man.

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Where are you going? This is a wise question to answer. What's gonna happen tomorrow if I stay with these friends? What's gonna happen tomorrow, if I carry on if I'm gonna go to Goodwill Alhamdulillah let me increase these friends. If I'm going to go to a bad way because of this friend, then you better you gotta start thinking where you are right now. shaytans matrix works exactly the opposite. He just looks at the president. She's so beautiful, man. If I just got her all my troubles were gone. That's it. Ah,

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man, the money that was there. If I just got that, oh, I could buy this I could buy that. He just thinks about that. It makes you think about the president. If I had that, if I had, what this guy's got in terms of quick money, quick time, selling drugs and getting the funding I can have all the girls and cars and all that for myself. Quick Time material things. He uses material things. And he makes you see that. Go for that. And the Quran says rinella xenos rinella Sue, Amelie, Xena, these things are they're all demented in front of the eyes. It glitters like gold, oh, I really want that food, I will enjoy that. It's the president shaytan wants us to believe in the present in material

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things that his matrix is that he pulls you in not thinking about the future.

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And allows way is he wants us to think about now

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the past, and especially the future. And when you weigh everything up, and you see what you're doing, then you become a wise person to say Should I or should I not do this thing. This is the matrix of the believer. The Matrix of the believer or the way that we look on the world is that we never see the world again the same way. Because this man that is sitting there and that man that is sitting there he's Allah serve and his Allah servant, his Allah servant that all en la servants This is the matrix of the believer.

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Allah gave him gifts. Allah gave him gifts. Allah gave him gifts, Allah gave me gifts.

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Allah gave him deficiencies or lagging deficiencies or lagging deficiencies. Allah gave me deficiencies. Jensen is the believer. Allah blessed him today. May Allah bless him tomorrow.

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Allah will bless me tomorrow. Allah has blessed me today. This is how we see things.

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And I see the world how every cell of this human being every brain cell of his, every ligament of his every part in his body, every bone in his body, every piece of flesh in his body, his heart, his liver, his lungs, his spleen, his kidneys, all of that are under his control, whose control and last but his brain is lost control his bodies allows control as in he can do what he wants right now fine, but if Allah will something that he can't stop it

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and he can be in trouble with his lungs right now but if Allah wills and he can cure is a sign that yes or no, that's the matrix of believers that belief and with me if there's anything wrong the same way, unlocking cures anytime, and if there's anything good with me, Allah can take it anytime.

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So we have hope and fear all the time. This is the matrix of the believer, the shaitaan either put you gives you hope, because he wants you to sin or he gives you fear, because you might start worshipping a lot becoming religious. He works the other way.

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As shavon We are the

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Quran says shaytaan shaytan tries to tries to make you scared of Sarawak that you might become poor if you start donating money I shake hands with

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Morocco mill fascia and he tells you quickly to go and do something which is obscene that shade the shade on a tree so anyway, I'm going to sum up the whole whole talk right now. And my brothers for sitting this this long on a Saturday night May Allah bless this for us. My brothers my young brothers especially and and others as well. My young brothers my young sisters wake up you know life is go so fast, so fast. Honestly, law. You just look behind anything you think five years just gone like that. 10 years just come by that. And there's no don't don't try and do anything today that you will regret tomorrow. How do you stop that? How do you stop yourself and brothers and sisters who

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are listening? The only way to do it is a person gets to know what the Sharia is just to study the Quran and the Sunnah, whatever course you can go to do that. And second thing with that is you need to start remembering a lot more and more. The more Victrola you do, the more you remember a lot more the heart gets softened, and then you start seeing the true matrix that

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Supposed to see the true belief that you're supposed to have laws that will make it make it a fruitful life for me and fruitful life for us. I mean, Zack Murphy